1 00:00:00,720 --> 00:00:03,280 S1: Do you hug your child when you send them off 2 00:00:03,279 --> 00:00:04,600 S1: to school or daycare? 3 00:00:04,800 --> 00:00:07,480 S2: Doctor Gary Chapman with a Love language minute. 4 00:00:07,840 --> 00:00:10,960 S1: I hope so, because your hug may be the difference 5 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:15,200 S1: between emotional security and insecurity throughout the day. A hug 6 00:00:15,200 --> 00:00:17,759 S1: when your child comes home may determine whether you have 7 00:00:17,760 --> 00:00:21,560 S1: a quiet evening of positive mental and physical activity, or 8 00:00:22,040 --> 00:00:25,560 S1: makes a rambunctious effort to get your attention. Home should 9 00:00:25,560 --> 00:00:29,120 S1: be a haven, the place where love is secure. Physical 10 00:00:29,120 --> 00:00:32,360 S1: touch is one of love's strongest languages. When a child 11 00:00:32,360 --> 00:00:34,680 S1: is young, they will sit on your lap while you 12 00:00:34,680 --> 00:00:37,400 S1: read a story. As they get older, you must use 13 00:00:37,400 --> 00:00:42,160 S1: different types of touch wrestling playful hitting, bear hugs and 14 00:00:42,159 --> 00:00:45,640 S1: high fives. During the grade school years, you are preparing 15 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:49,520 S1: your child for the most difficult part of childhood adolescence. 16 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:52,560 S1: Loving touch is one of your best tools. 17 00:00:53,080 --> 00:00:56,440 S2: Doctor Gary Chapman is the author of The Five Love Languages. 18 00:00:56,520 --> 00:00:59,600 S2: For more, visit five Love Languages. Com.