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S1: What do you do when your spouse disappoints you?

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S2: Doctor Gary Chapman with a love language minute.

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S1: Guideline number one guard your attitude and behavior. Martha suspected

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S1: her husband, Bill, was having an affair. So she said, Bill,

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S1: I feel very angry and hurt when I think that

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S1: you are seeing someone else. You say it's untrue. I

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S1: want to believe you, but based on the past, I

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S1: have a hard time believing. At any rate, you know

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S1: we cannot continue our marriage. If you're having an affair.

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S1: You will have to make that decision. In the meantime,

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S1: I don't want to be controlled by my anger. You

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S1: know that I love you. With God's help, I will

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S1: not spend my time attacking you. Martha is choosing the

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S1: high road and is not allowing her emotions to control

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S1: her behavior. This is the road to reconciliation.

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S2: Doctor Gary Chapman is the author of The Five Love Languages.

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S2: For more, visit five Love Languages. Com.