1 00:00:01,520 --> 00:00:04,560 S1: In a healthy marriage, there will be social intimacy between 2 00:00:04,600 --> 00:00:05,800 S1: husband and wife. 3 00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:08,800 S2: Doctor Gary Chapman with a love language minute. 4 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:13,080 S1: Social intimacy has to do with spending time together, going 5 00:00:13,119 --> 00:00:16,720 S1: to a movie, or attending an athletic event. Or we 6 00:00:16,720 --> 00:00:20,280 S1: may go bowling, or plant a tree or go shopping together. 7 00:00:20,680 --> 00:00:24,800 S1: Much of life involves doing. When we do things together, 8 00:00:24,960 --> 00:00:28,560 S1: we are enhancing our sense of intimacy. On the other hand, 9 00:00:28,800 --> 00:00:33,280 S1: most couples spend several hours each day apart while apart. 10 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:36,559 S1: They each have various social encounters. At the end of 11 00:00:36,560 --> 00:00:39,600 S1: the day, if they share some of these encounters, they're 12 00:00:39,600 --> 00:00:43,080 S1: building social intimacy by letting each other in on their 13 00:00:43,080 --> 00:00:46,680 S1: time apart. On a scale of 1 to 10, how 14 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:49,680 S1: much social intimacy do you feel in your marriage? 15 00:00:50,440 --> 00:00:53,800 S2: Doctor Gary Chapman is the author of The Five Love Languages. 16 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:56,960 S2: For more, visit five Love Languages. Com.