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S1: A love language minute. Here's Doctor Gary Chapman on dealing

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S1: with emotional and physical abuse.

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S2: A person who emotionally and physically abuses you and is

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S2: not willing to go for help is not likely to change.

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S2: I would insist getting counseling immediately. Let's deal with the problems.

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S2: Let's see if something can happen. If he's not willing

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S2: to go for counseling. I would say you need to

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S2: say goodbye simply to hope that something's going to happen

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S2: when he's not getting any help is unrealistic. And I

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S2: think you have to recognize that he's meeting some kind

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S2: of need in your life that holds you into the relationship.

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S2: I would suggest you also talk with a mature friend,

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S2: a pastor, a counselor yourself. They can stand with you

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S2: and help you be strong enough to say, either we

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S2: get help with this and we see significant growth, or

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S2: we're going to have to call this quits.

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