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S1: Most couples spend 8 to 10 hours apart each day.

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S1: So how do we stay connected?

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S2: Doctor Gary Chapman with a love language minute.

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S1: How do we feel that we are with each other

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S1: even when we're apart? Let me suggest an exercise that

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S1: will get you reconnected in one week. Each day, dedicate

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S1: 20 minutes to a debriefing conference. He takes five minutes

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S1: and tells everything he can about what happened in his

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S1: life today. Then she takes five minutes to do the same.

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S1: Round two is repeat of round one. In the second

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S1: five minutes, you pull out details you forgot in the

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S1: first round and perhaps throw in a few of your feelings. Like,

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S1: I felt angry when I realized what my boss had done.

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S1: Try these debriefing sessions for one week and you'll likely

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S1: feel reconnected.

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S2: Doctor Gary Chapman is the author of the Five Love Languages.

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S2: For more, visit five Love Languages. Com.