1 00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:03,440 S1: Why is it so hard for us to forgive. 2 00:00:03,760 --> 00:00:06,400 S2: Doctor Gary Chapman with a love language minute? 3 00:00:06,680 --> 00:00:09,080 S1: I think it is because we are made in God's 4 00:00:09,080 --> 00:00:13,720 S1: image and we have a deep concern for justice. Forgiveness 5 00:00:13,720 --> 00:00:16,320 S1: does not come easy with God. That is what the 6 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:20,600 S1: cross of Christ is all about because Christ paid the penalty. 7 00:00:20,800 --> 00:00:24,400 S1: Then God can forgive us and still be just. How 8 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:28,120 S1: do we experience God's forgiveness? We confess our sins and 9 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:31,480 S1: accept what Christ did for us. So when others sin 10 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:36,080 S1: against us, forgiveness is not easy. Our sense of justice 11 00:00:36,080 --> 00:00:39,559 S1: demands that they pay for their sin. We want to 12 00:00:39,600 --> 00:00:43,440 S1: be reconciled, but we do not want to ignore wrongdoing. 13 00:00:43,680 --> 00:00:47,120 S1: We remember that God forgave us when we confessed and 14 00:00:47,120 --> 00:00:51,720 S1: we choose to forgive others. Love is always ready to forgive. 15 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:55,760 S2: Doctor Gary Chapman is the author of The Five Love Languages. 16 00:00:55,840 --> 00:00:58,880 S2: For more, visit five Love languages.com.