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S1: A love language minute. Here's Doctor Gary Chapman on the

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S1: in love experience.

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S2: It doesn't take work. You're pushed along by the emotions,

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S2: and both of you think the other person is absolutely,

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S2: incredibly wonderful. And each of you would do anything in

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S2: the world for the other person when you're in love. But,

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S2: you know, we've discussed this in other programmes that has

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S2: about a two year lifespan. We come down off the

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S2: high and then it takes intentional love. You have to

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S2: decide what enhances the other person, how to love the

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S2: other person. That's where the love languages helps. And then

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S2: you have to choose to do it. And so it's

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S2: a process. We're learning how to overcome our tendency to

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S2: be self-centered and selfish, and without the help of God,

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S2: it's probably impossible. And that's why I think we have

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S2: so many couples who don't make it.

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