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S1: Jason writes, my love language is physical touch, but I

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S1: don't want to burden my wife with it because she

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S1: does so much already and I don't want to make

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S1: it a task. I'd really like this to be freely

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S1: given instead of a checklist thing. What do you think?

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S2: The approach I would take would be, first of all,

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S2: you discover her love language and you start speaking it

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S2: on a regular basis so that she begins to feel

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S2: loved by you. Then you say to her, you know

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S2: how when I do this, it makes you feel loved? Well,

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S2: that's the way I feel when you hold my hand.

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S2: When we get out of the car, or when you

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S2: put your hand on my shoulder while you pour my coffee.

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S2: I just want you to know how important physical touch

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S2: is to me. You see, now you're not equating it

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S2: with sex. You're equating it with physical touch. And because

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S2: you're meeting her need for love, there's a good chance

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S2: she will learn to speak your love language.

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S3: Doctor Gary Chapman is the author of the Five Love Languages.

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S3: For more, visit five Love Languages. Com.