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S1: Philip writes Gary. My wife says that she doesn't really

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S1: love me because I'm not charismatic enough. I agree that

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S1: I'm pretty bland, but how can I improve things?

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S2: Short answer learn her love language and speak it on

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S2: a regular basis. If you speak her love language, she

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S2: will feel loved by you. She's using the word charismatic,

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S2: but really what she's asking for, in my opinion, is

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S2: emotional love. She wants this sense that you are excited

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S2: about her, that you care about her, that you want

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S2: to communicate to her that you love her. So if

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S2: you haven't read the book The Five Love Languages, I'd

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S2: suggest you read it. Or you might want to try

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S2: the men's edition. Okay, where I give you a few

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S2: additional ideas, but learn to speak her love language and

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S2: I think you'll see her whole attitude toward you will change.

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S3: This has been a love language minute. Doctor Gary Chapman

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S3: is the author of The Five Love Languages. For more,

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S3: visit five Love Languages. Com.