1 00:00:01,040 --> 00:00:05,239 S1: Chad writes. Gary, what is your definition of the ideal marriage? 2 00:00:05,840 --> 00:00:09,040 S2: An ideal marriage is two individuals, a man and a woman, 3 00:00:09,039 --> 00:00:13,319 S2: committed to Jesus Christ, looking to him for instruction on 4 00:00:13,320 --> 00:00:16,360 S2: how to live. And then in the power of the 5 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:20,080 S2: Holy Spirit, they are loving and encouraging and helping each 6 00:00:20,079 --> 00:00:23,800 S2: other to become everything that God intended them to become. 7 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:27,120 S2: I believe that was God's plan for marriage. The husband 8 00:00:27,120 --> 00:00:29,840 S2: reaches out to love and encourage and support his wife. 9 00:00:30,080 --> 00:00:32,559 S2: She reaches out to do the same for him. The 10 00:00:32,560 --> 00:00:36,440 S2: results both of you accomplish more in the Kingdom of 11 00:00:36,440 --> 00:00:41,159 S2: God because you're together than you would accomplish as individuals 12 00:00:41,159 --> 00:00:45,120 S2: apart from each other. Marriage is meant to be a loving, supportive, 13 00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:49,000 S2: caring relationship, pushing each of us in the direction of 14 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:51,680 S2: God and His purposes for our lives. 15 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:55,560 S3: Doctor Gary Chapman is the author of The Five Love Languages. 16 00:00:55,680 --> 00:00:58,680 S3: For more, visit five Love Languages. Com.