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S1: Bachelorette's. Gary. What are some things that I can teach

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S1: my son about how to choose a good wife?

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S2: You know, I wrote a book that really deals with that.

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S2: It's called things I Wish I'd Known before We Got Married.

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S2: I'm looking back on my own life and asking, what

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S2: are the things that I know now that had I

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S2: known them before we got married, would have made my selection,

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S2: you know, more intelligent and would have made things easier

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S2: for me. Because in that book I deal with such

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S2: things as personality differences, religious differences, learning how to negotiate

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S2: and solve conflicts. Because we grew up in different homes,

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S2: we have different ideas. I talk about the influence of parents.

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S2: A lot of issues to be discovered. I think you're

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S2: reading that book would be helpful, and then you can

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S2: use that and giving advice to your adult child.

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S3: Doctor Gary Chapman is the author of the Five Love Languages.

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S3: For more answers, visit Start Marriage Right.com.