1 00:00:01,120 --> 00:00:03,640 S1: When is the last time you touched your child? 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:06,519 S2: Doctor Gary Chapman with a love language. Minute. 3 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:10,480 S1: Studies indicate that many parents touch their children only when 4 00:00:10,480 --> 00:00:14,080 S1: it is necessary, when their dressing or undressing them, putting 5 00:00:14,080 --> 00:00:17,079 S1: them in the car or carrying them to bed. It 6 00:00:17,079 --> 00:00:19,400 S1: seems that many parents are unaware of how much their 7 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:23,120 S1: children need to be touched. And yet touch is one 8 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:26,400 S1: of the primary languages of love. The language of touch 9 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:29,760 S1: is not limited to hugging and kissing, but includes any 10 00:00:29,760 --> 00:00:33,879 S1: kind of physical contact. Even when they are busy, parents 11 00:00:33,880 --> 00:00:37,440 S1: can gently touch a child on the back, arm or shoulder. 12 00:00:37,840 --> 00:00:41,360 S1: Perhaps physical touch does not come natural for you. Take 13 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:44,599 S1: the first step. Pat your child on the back. Do 14 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:47,720 S1: it for seven days and then try a hug. You 15 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:50,199 S1: may be surprised at your child's response. 16 00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:54,960 S3: Gary Chapman is the author of The Five Love Languages. 17 00:00:55,000 --> 00:00:57,240 S3: For more, go to five Love Languages.