1
00:00:00,960 --> 00:00:04,680
S1: Shirley writes. Gary, I'm currently dealing with challenges in an

2
00:00:04,680 --> 00:00:06,600
S1: interracial marriage. Can you help?

3
00:00:07,200 --> 00:00:10,160
S2: You know, the difference you're dealing with is a cultural difference.

4
00:00:10,160 --> 00:00:13,760
S2: It's not racial difference. But typically people with different races

5
00:00:13,760 --> 00:00:17,320
S2: come out of different cultures or subcultures. These are always

6
00:00:17,320 --> 00:00:21,120
S2: different and they always present challenges. The important thing is

7
00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:25,320
S2: to understand each other's subculture and recognizing that if we're

8
00:00:25,320 --> 00:00:27,800
S2: going to make a good marriage, we've got to learn

9
00:00:27,800 --> 00:00:31,000
S2: how to, first of all, accept the differences and then

10
00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:34,400
S2: learn how to navigate or how to negotiate those differences

11
00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:36,720
S2: so that we find something that's meaningful and works for

12
00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:38,959
S2: the two of us, and then look for ways we

13
00:00:38,960 --> 00:00:43,040
S2: can work together as a team. And hopefully speaking the

14
00:00:43,040 --> 00:00:46,040
S2: five love languages, and particularly their primary language, is going

15
00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:47,080
S2: to help you do that.

16
00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:51,040
S3: This has been a love language. Minute. Doctor Gary Chapman

17
00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:54,280
S3: is the author of The Five Love Languages. For more,

18
00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:56,680
S3: visit five Love Languages. Com.