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S1: Arguments reveal the heart.

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S2: Doctor Gary Chapman with a love language minute.

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S1: Almost always, arguments grow out of an unmet emotional need.

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S1: One wife said little things like getting the old newspapers

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S1: out to the garage for recycling is not a big

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S1: deal to him, but it is to me. I hate clutter,

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S1: it's kind of a visual thing. What is she saying?

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S1: One of her emotional needs is to have order in

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S1: the house. Clutter is emotionally upsetting to her. The wise

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S1: husband and wife will look for the emotional need behind

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S1: the argument. Why is my spouse so upset over what

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S1: seems trivial to me? The answer to that question will

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S1: help you understand your spouse. Meeting emotional needs is one

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S1: way to create a positive climate for communication.

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S2: Doctor Gary Chapman is the author of The Five Love Languages.

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S2: For more, visit five Love Languages. Com.