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S1: May, writes Gary. My husband and I are at an

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S1: impasse about church worship styles. What are your thoughts?

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S2: Let's face it, we have preferences in all kinds of things.

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S2: We have preferences in food, the kind of food we eat.

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S2: Maybe your husband likes one kind. You like another kind.

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S2: What you don't want to do is to communicate the

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S2: idea that your music is better music. It's a better

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S2: way to worship God. We give each other freedom. Now,

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S2: you might decide to go to two different services in

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S2: the same church, because most larger churches have a contemporary

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S2: worship style and they have a more traditional worship style.

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S2: Maybe you could go every other week you're hearing the

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S2: same sermon. It's the same pastors, the same church, but

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S2: you're going back and forth every other week to the

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S2: to a different worship style. There are various ways to

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S2: compromise our preferences. What you don't want to do is

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S2: let them be divisive in the relationship.

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S3: Doctor Gary Chapman is the author of the Five Love Languages.

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S3: For more answers, visit Start Marriage Right.com.