1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:05,200 S1: Physical touch is one of the fundamental languages of love. 2 00:00:05,519 --> 00:00:08,200 S2: Doctor Gary Chapman with a love language minute. 3 00:00:08,600 --> 00:00:10,879 S1: If it happens to be the primary love language of 4 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:14,120 S1: your child or your spouse, it is exceedingly important that 5 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:17,960 S1: you speak it regularly. Much of the misbehavior of children 6 00:00:18,239 --> 00:00:20,880 S1: grows out of an empty love tank. The same is 7 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:24,160 S1: true of adults. Perhaps you're not a toucher. You do 8 00:00:24,160 --> 00:00:27,040 S1: not grow up in a touchy feely family. The good 9 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:30,200 S1: news is that you can learn to speak this love language. 10 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:33,599 S1: Begin by patting yourself on the back. Then do the 11 00:00:33,600 --> 00:00:36,680 S1: same to your spouse or child. Put one hand on 12 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:39,680 S1: top of the other hand. Then put your hand on 13 00:00:39,680 --> 00:00:43,320 S1: top of your child's hand. Touches lead to hugs, and 14 00:00:43,360 --> 00:00:46,760 S1: hugs lead to kisses. Soon you will be proficient in 15 00:00:46,760 --> 00:00:49,040 S1: speaking the love language of physical touch. 16 00:00:50,280 --> 00:00:53,720 S2: Doctor Gary Chapman is the author of the Five Love Languages. 17 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:56,800 S2: For more, visit five Love Languages. Com.