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S1: A love language minute. Here's Doctor Gary Chapman on changing

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S1: your spouse by starting with yourself.

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S2: Most of us really believe that if our spouse would

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S2: just change a few things, then we'd have a good marriage.

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S2: And we spend the bulk of our time trying to

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S2: get our spouse to change. Now, Jesus had a different idea. First,

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S2: remove the plank from your own eye and then you

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S2: will see clearly to remove the speck from your mate's eye.

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S2: Let me suggest we begin with a prayer. And that

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S2: prayer is this. Lord, what is wrong with me? Where

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S2: am I failing in this relationship? I suggest you get

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S2: your pencil ready because God will answer the prayer.

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S1: Doctor Gary Chapman is the author of the best selling book,

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S1: The Five Love Languages. For more, go to Start Marriage Right.com.