1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:03,480 S1: A listener writes, Gary is a pastor. What can I 2 00:00:03,480 --> 00:00:05,720 S1: do to help military couples in our church? 3 00:00:06,160 --> 00:00:09,720 S2: I wish more pastors were asking that question because many 4 00:00:09,720 --> 00:00:15,920 S2: times churches simply ignore military couples. Military couples face challenges 5 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:19,560 S2: that civilian couples do not face. That's why the divorce 6 00:00:19,560 --> 00:00:23,360 S2: rate is much higher among military couples. I would say 7 00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:28,040 S2: starting a place for military couples to talk. Get someone 8 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:30,360 S2: who's a veteran, who has the ability to lead small 9 00:00:30,360 --> 00:00:33,960 S2: groups and let it be a place where military people 10 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:38,080 S2: can come and talk about life with each other. A 11 00:00:38,080 --> 00:00:40,519 S2: good book to use in that framework would be the 12 00:00:40,520 --> 00:00:44,040 S2: Five Love Languages Military Edition. To have such a group 13 00:00:44,040 --> 00:00:46,959 S2: and use that as a guide, I think would greatly 14 00:00:46,960 --> 00:00:50,919 S2: enhance military couples in your church and would say to them, 15 00:00:50,920 --> 00:00:52,720 S2: we care about you. 16 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:55,800 S1: For more information on the military edition of the Five 17 00:00:55,840 --> 00:00:58,880 S1: Love Languages, go to five Love languages.com.