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S1: A love language minute. Here's Doctor Gary Chapman on keeping

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S1: an empty conscience with your spouse.

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S2: May I picture the conscience as being a five gallon

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S2: container strapped to my back? That's my conscience. Every time

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S2: I sin against my wife or anyone else, it is

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S2: like pouring a gallon of liquid into my conscience. 3

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S2: or 4 sins and my conscience is getting full and

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S2: I am getting heavy. And if you say to me,

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S2: how are you doing? And I'm honest, I will say

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S2: to you, I'm not doing well. You see, I don't

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S2: feel well, I feel guilty. Why do I feel guilty?

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S2: Because I am guilty. How do you get an empty

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S2: conscience before men? By confessing to the person you sinned against.

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S2: And in marriage. That's your spouse.

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S1: Doctor Gary Chapman is the author of The Five Love Languages.

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S1: For more information, visit five Love languages.com.