1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:05,800 S1: Broadcasting from Chicago, across North America and beyond. Come as 2 00:00:05,800 --> 00:00:11,399 S1: you are an experienced guide, overcome what seems impossible and 3 00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:15,360 S1: live as you never imagined. Start your morning with a laugh. 4 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:20,599 S2: Practical from the Bible. Tips and tricks to kill. Not tricks, 5 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:26,400 S2: but tips and tricks. Tips and tricks to kill. Tips and. 6 00:00:26,400 --> 00:00:28,880 S1: Tricks. Delivering the truth daily. 7 00:00:29,240 --> 00:00:31,720 S3: All of my attempts to, you know, prop myself up 8 00:00:31,720 --> 00:00:35,280 S3: with achievement in good works. Well, God wasn't impressed by that. 9 00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:36,720 S3: Even if other people were. 10 00:00:37,080 --> 00:00:39,519 S2: The gospel changes everything. 11 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:42,760 S4: Freedom in Christ. Man, it's like that backpack of cement 12 00:00:42,760 --> 00:00:44,680 S4: just falling to the ground. 13 00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:49,160 S1: Now, from the call of Hope Studios, this is Carl 14 00:00:49,159 --> 00:00:49,760 S1: and crew. 15 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:53,040 S5: One of the greatest gifts I ever received from my dad. 16 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:56,520 S5: And we want to help you with this boom crew. 17 00:00:57,080 --> 00:01:00,480 S5: Our commitment at Carl and crew here is to really 18 00:01:00,480 --> 00:01:04,440 S5: help you thrive spiritually. And I just feel this so 19 00:01:04,440 --> 00:01:08,280 S5: deeply in my soul today that you can come as 20 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:12,960 S5: you are to God, experience him. You can watch him 21 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:16,880 S5: overcome in you what seems impossible in your own strength 22 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:20,600 S5: and live as you never imagined. But what keeps us 23 00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:24,680 S5: stuck is a very self led life. And we can 24 00:01:24,680 --> 00:01:28,160 S5: do this in the church. We can set in motion 25 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:32,000 S5: even some great disciplines, like go to church and get 26 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:34,640 S5: in the Bible and get to small group, and those 27 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:38,280 S5: are all good things. But there's something in the secret 28 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:42,319 S5: places that ignite something in us, and it can only 29 00:01:42,319 --> 00:01:46,520 S5: be birthed from the virtue of humility and dependence on God. 30 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:49,920 S5: I hear that song God did. It reminds me of 31 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:53,960 S5: of my dad, and he was a great man. I 32 00:01:53,960 --> 00:01:57,360 S5: love to use my dad in story here because he 33 00:01:57,560 --> 00:02:00,800 S5: emulated in so many ways. He was imperfect, but he 34 00:02:00,800 --> 00:02:03,240 S5: was a great man of God, and one of the 35 00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:06,440 S5: great gifts he gave to me was constantly rehearsing the 36 00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:10,000 S5: grace of God, constantly rehearsing the grace of God. And 37 00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:12,440 S5: it would come in every which way if he was 38 00:02:12,440 --> 00:02:16,360 S5: changing brakes on a car and he had had the 39 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:19,120 S5: ability to get those brakes changed, you know what he 40 00:02:19,120 --> 00:02:22,760 S5: would say, boy? God's grace is good. He saw God's 41 00:02:22,760 --> 00:02:25,040 S5: grace in everything. We built a home together. When I 42 00:02:25,040 --> 00:02:27,560 S5: was 16, he struck a deal with me. He said, uh, 43 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:30,959 S5: you know, I want you to build this house with 44 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:32,359 S5: me this summer. And at the end of the summer, 45 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:34,360 S5: I'm going to buy you a pickup truck. And he did. 46 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:37,200 S5: He bought. Not brand new. It was a used pickup truck, but, boy, 47 00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:38,040 S5: it was new to me. 48 00:02:38,200 --> 00:02:39,600 S4: Yeah. I can't wait to meet him. 49 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:42,760 S5: Oh, he's. You're going to love my dad. Uh, just 50 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:45,520 S5: an incredible man of God, but. And and he's. And 51 00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:46,880 S5: I said, how many hours are you going? Are we 52 00:02:46,919 --> 00:02:49,560 S5: going to work? And he said, well, you know, probably 53 00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:52,359 S5: sunup to sundown. And I didn't put two and two 54 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:54,600 S5: together as young man. But then I realized, hold it, 55 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:56,000 S5: we're in we're in Alaska. 56 00:02:56,320 --> 00:02:56,960 S2: Oh, no. 57 00:02:57,360 --> 00:03:01,200 S5: The sun rises at about three in the summer and 58 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:02,720 S5: it sets about ten. 59 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:03,280 S2: No, no. 60 00:03:03,560 --> 00:03:04,280 S4: In September. 61 00:03:05,080 --> 00:03:05,919 S2: Oh, jeez. 62 00:03:06,160 --> 00:03:10,079 S5: And and it's it's long days. And we work long, 63 00:03:10,080 --> 00:03:14,400 S5: long days. 14, 15 hour days were very common. 3600ft². 64 00:03:14,440 --> 00:03:17,280 S5: Me and dad framing it modified a frame. I mean, 65 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:20,440 S5: we got rafters that are 37ft long if you're a carpenter. 66 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:23,160 S5: It had double birds mouths hanging over the pony walls 67 00:03:23,160 --> 00:03:26,120 S5: and exterior walls. I mean, it was it was a 68 00:03:26,120 --> 00:03:29,919 S5: big job. And every day dad would put his arm 69 00:03:29,919 --> 00:03:32,120 S5: around me. Look at what we built. And he'd say, 70 00:03:32,160 --> 00:03:36,000 S5: isn't God's grace good? See, God did it. And the 71 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:39,320 S5: problem is, is that we think we've got to do 72 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:43,080 S5: it or that we've done it. And the only thing 73 00:03:43,080 --> 00:03:47,320 S5: that can get us postured for understanding this is all 74 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:50,320 S5: God's work or it won't work, is. And I want 75 00:03:50,360 --> 00:03:52,680 S5: to hit this virtue over and over. This morning is 76 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:59,440 S5: the virtue of humility. Humility is not thinking less of yourself, 77 00:03:59,440 --> 00:04:02,200 S5: it's thinking more of God. Some people say it's thinking 78 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:06,960 S5: of yourself less. I don't know that that's accurate. And 79 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:09,640 S5: it's this notion that we don't think of ourselves. I 80 00:04:09,640 --> 00:04:14,440 S5: think that's folly. But we think of ourselves in that 81 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:17,360 S5: we think of God more. We don't think pitiful little 82 00:04:17,360 --> 00:04:21,159 S5: of ourselves. We just humble ourselves under his mighty hand. 83 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:25,040 S5: We understand. He gave us breath. He gave us for 84 00:04:25,040 --> 00:04:26,760 S5: those of us that are born again, he gave us 85 00:04:26,760 --> 00:04:31,840 S5: new life in Christ. And staying postured there is being 86 00:04:31,839 --> 00:04:38,440 S5: postured for power. God did it. And when we can 87 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:42,279 S5: begin to look at the everyday world, not just our 88 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:46,240 S5: Bible study or or the activities that we do associated 89 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:48,919 S5: with the church, but we start looking at the things 90 00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:53,760 S5: that aren't directly associated with what Christians are supposed to do. 91 00:04:53,800 --> 00:04:57,240 S5: I'm talking the quiet places of our heart. Early in 92 00:04:57,240 --> 00:05:01,280 S5: the morning, starting off with a posture of humility that's 93 00:05:01,279 --> 00:05:05,800 S5: being positioned for power. And some of you are stuck. 94 00:05:05,800 --> 00:05:08,920 S5: Today I might have a great talk with Pastor Ronnie 95 00:05:08,920 --> 00:05:11,600 S5: Floyd here in just a moment, but I want you 96 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:14,080 S5: to understand where you're stuck. And we've been giving out 97 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:18,200 S5: this quiz. We've got a quiz that takes about three minutes. 98 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:21,039 S5: A few years ago, I put this together with a 99 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:24,440 S5: data scientist who helped me build an algorithm based on 100 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:28,000 S5: biblical truth that with 99% certainty, we're going to pin 101 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:30,800 S5: down where you're stuck today. And I want you to 102 00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:34,440 S5: take this. It'll also show you where you're winning, where 103 00:05:34,440 --> 00:05:37,920 S5: you're a little bit stronger, and what out of seven 104 00:05:37,920 --> 00:05:42,160 S5: areas of life might you be stuck in. And seeing 105 00:05:42,440 --> 00:05:47,480 S5: where you are today can help pinpoint God. Bring me 106 00:05:47,520 --> 00:05:50,830 S5: grace into this situation. Let me be a man. Let 107 00:05:50,830 --> 00:05:53,669 S5: me be a woman that looks to people around me saying, 108 00:05:53,670 --> 00:05:56,790 S5: if I've got any victory at all, God did it. 109 00:05:57,390 --> 00:06:00,790 S5: Humility gets us there. So how do we get this 110 00:06:00,790 --> 00:06:02,630 S5: quiz into their hands, young thunder? 111 00:06:02,670 --> 00:06:05,430 S2: It's real easy. Just text the word quiz. Text the 112 00:06:05,430 --> 00:06:13,110 S2: word quiz to 800 555, 7898. Quiz to 800 555, 7898. 113 00:06:13,470 --> 00:06:16,550 S5: Coming up, pastor to pastor, I'm going to have a 114 00:06:16,550 --> 00:06:18,870 S5: conversation with Ronnie Floyd. We're going to go below the 115 00:06:18,870 --> 00:06:21,630 S5: water because a lot of this stuff is just above 116 00:06:21,630 --> 00:06:24,310 S5: the surface. And as the years go by, pastors will 117 00:06:24,310 --> 00:06:28,430 S5: learn something. It's the unseen things that matter most. 118 00:06:29,830 --> 00:06:32,989 S1: Get to know the team behind the scenes. Follow Carl 119 00:06:32,990 --> 00:06:35,190 S1: and crew on Facebook and Instagram. 120 00:06:35,670 --> 00:06:39,670 S5: It's below the waterline, man. That's what matters most. It 121 00:06:39,670 --> 00:06:42,390 S5: is easy to get caught up in the surface stuff 122 00:06:42,390 --> 00:06:45,510 S5: of this world, and even in a Christian culture, it 123 00:06:45,510 --> 00:06:49,070 S5: is a real threat. Doctor Ronnie Floyd it's a threat, 124 00:06:49,070 --> 00:06:51,430 S5: isn't it? My man. We've pastored a lot of years. 125 00:06:51,589 --> 00:06:52,309 S5: What do you say? 126 00:06:52,990 --> 00:06:55,150 S6: Well, there's no doubt about it. I mean, the main 127 00:06:55,150 --> 00:06:57,589 S6: thing we need to do is take care of our 128 00:06:57,589 --> 00:07:03,349 S6: spiritual lives personally. Where God speaks to us every day, Karl. 129 00:07:03,830 --> 00:07:07,469 S6: And that way, we're more fit. And we are. We 130 00:07:07,510 --> 00:07:11,350 S6: are much more ready to speak publicly when we've been 131 00:07:11,350 --> 00:07:12,750 S6: privately with God. 132 00:07:12,950 --> 00:07:17,030 S5: Yeah, privately with God. You know what's interesting, Ronnie, is 133 00:07:17,230 --> 00:07:20,070 S5: I had Luke Smallbone on here. He's one of the 134 00:07:20,430 --> 00:07:23,110 S5: artists in For King and Country, he and his brother Joel. 135 00:07:23,550 --> 00:07:26,470 S5: And it was so sweet to hear this kid. And 136 00:07:26,470 --> 00:07:29,670 S5: compared to you and me, he's a kid, but he's, um. 137 00:07:29,990 --> 00:07:33,910 S5: He's on a journey right now discovering, uh, the the 138 00:07:33,910 --> 00:07:39,710 S5: the hidden things. And he was talking about wanting to experience, really, 139 00:07:39,710 --> 00:07:42,310 S5: the power of God. He's like God, whether there's miracles 140 00:07:42,310 --> 00:07:45,630 S5: happening around in other people's lives and there aren't mine. 141 00:07:45,630 --> 00:07:48,310 S5: And he sensed the Spirit of God telling them it's 142 00:07:48,310 --> 00:07:50,910 S5: the secret things, it's the hidden things that matter most. 143 00:07:50,910 --> 00:07:54,390 S5: And I was cogitating this morning. Ronnie, how many people 144 00:07:54,390 --> 00:07:58,830 S5: in the church really have that secret life with God? 145 00:07:58,830 --> 00:08:02,710 S5: But that truly is the place where all the other 146 00:08:02,750 --> 00:08:07,150 S5: gifts begin to flow. And Bible studies now matter, and 147 00:08:07,150 --> 00:08:11,750 S5: small group changes things and speak to that engine room 148 00:08:11,750 --> 00:08:15,630 S5: that below the surface, particularly humility. Ronnie, how have you 149 00:08:15,670 --> 00:08:18,270 S5: seen this born out in your own life? 150 00:08:19,110 --> 00:08:24,190 S6: Well, I really believe that when we pray, we're depending 151 00:08:24,190 --> 00:08:29,030 S6: on God. When we don't pray, we're depending on ourselves. 152 00:08:29,510 --> 00:08:30,110 S5: It's that simple. 153 00:08:30,230 --> 00:08:36,189 S6: Jesus called us to prioritize the secret place and the 154 00:08:36,190 --> 00:08:39,670 S6: secret place. What does he say? In Matthew six? He 155 00:08:39,710 --> 00:08:44,589 S6: says that we need to go into an inner room, 156 00:08:44,630 --> 00:08:50,110 S6: a private place. Shut the door and not desire to 157 00:08:50,110 --> 00:08:54,750 S6: be seen by men, but to fellowship with Christ, with 158 00:08:54,750 --> 00:08:59,070 S6: God himself. And when we do that, then obviously we're 159 00:08:59,070 --> 00:09:01,910 S6: in the presence of the Lord. And whatever God chooses 160 00:09:01,910 --> 00:09:05,309 S6: to do with our lives in a public manner, uh, 161 00:09:05,309 --> 00:09:08,150 S6: that's in the Lord's hands. It's not in ours. We 162 00:09:08,150 --> 00:09:13,590 S6: want God personally. We want to experience his presence, and 163 00:09:13,590 --> 00:09:15,510 S6: we leave the results to God. 164 00:09:16,870 --> 00:09:19,830 S5: We know that earnestness at that point. Ronnie will not 165 00:09:19,830 --> 00:09:24,430 S5: be disappointed. God will speak. Um, a lot of us 166 00:09:24,429 --> 00:09:28,710 S5: were raised in a faith tradition that we neglected the 167 00:09:28,710 --> 00:09:31,670 S5: power of the Holy Spirit, and the Holy Spirit is 168 00:09:32,230 --> 00:09:37,150 S5: speaking to us, reminding us of truth. How does listening 169 00:09:37,190 --> 00:09:41,949 S5: to God? Being introspective, asking God, I love David's prayer. 170 00:09:41,990 --> 00:09:44,030 S5: Search me, know me, try me. See if there'd be 171 00:09:44,030 --> 00:09:45,710 S5: any hurtful way in me. And lead me in the 172 00:09:45,710 --> 00:09:50,030 S5: way everlasting. How does that work practically in that secret 173 00:09:50,030 --> 00:09:51,030 S5: place with God? 174 00:09:51,550 --> 00:09:53,910 S6: Well, I believe the the key thing we need to 175 00:09:53,910 --> 00:09:58,110 S6: do in prayer is listen to God. What is God 176 00:09:58,110 --> 00:10:02,189 S6: saying to us? How does God speak to us? I 177 00:10:02,190 --> 00:10:10,110 S6: think the reality is the most tangible, definable, and dependable 178 00:10:10,110 --> 00:10:14,790 S6: way God speaks to us is through His Word. Yes. 179 00:10:14,830 --> 00:10:19,349 S6: Through the Bible. If you want to be a serious 180 00:10:19,390 --> 00:10:25,069 S6: Christian who walks with God, you must embrace the Bible 181 00:10:25,110 --> 00:10:29,390 S6: as the Word of God, not simply believing it, but 182 00:10:29,390 --> 00:10:34,110 S6: letting the thousands of those promises become the energy by 183 00:10:34,110 --> 00:10:39,510 S6: which you stand on those promises by faith, knowing that 184 00:10:39,510 --> 00:10:44,910 S6: God always delivers on every word he has ever said. 185 00:10:45,230 --> 00:10:49,190 S6: He has always fulfilled his word. 186 00:10:49,990 --> 00:10:52,030 S5: You know, you were just reading from the sermon on 187 00:10:52,030 --> 00:10:56,349 S5: the Mount and that I've told some church members recently 188 00:10:56,350 --> 00:10:59,870 S5: at one of our campuses that you could almost camp 189 00:10:59,870 --> 00:11:01,790 S5: out in the sermon on the Mount for a year, 190 00:11:01,790 --> 00:11:06,270 S5: because there is so much truth baked into that one 191 00:11:06,270 --> 00:11:09,790 S5: little message on a mountainside. How do we need to 192 00:11:09,830 --> 00:11:13,270 S5: change even our Bible reading in a way that we're 193 00:11:13,270 --> 00:11:16,230 S5: meeting with God in a secret place, so that we're 194 00:11:16,230 --> 00:11:19,750 S5: internalizing these truths and humbly receiving them? Ronnie. 195 00:11:20,230 --> 00:11:25,230 S6: Well, I believe consistency goes a long way. Carl. And 196 00:11:25,230 --> 00:11:28,670 S6: so many Christians, uh, have never been taught how to 197 00:11:28,710 --> 00:11:32,430 S6: be consistent in their faith, consistent in their walk with Christ. 198 00:11:32,790 --> 00:11:35,670 S6: I mean, the bottom line is, if we don't walk 199 00:11:35,670 --> 00:11:39,790 S6: with Christ personally, how the world are we ever going 200 00:11:39,990 --> 00:11:45,510 S6: to live for Christ publicly? And we must understand that 201 00:11:45,510 --> 00:11:48,830 S6: Jesus wants us to be with him. We're talking about 202 00:11:48,830 --> 00:11:51,110 S6: the King of Kings, and the Lord of Lord wants 203 00:11:51,110 --> 00:11:56,710 S6: to fellowship with you. I was reminded, uh, even this morning, Carl, 204 00:11:57,070 --> 00:12:01,309 S6: in relationship to what we're talking about, of this scripture 205 00:12:01,309 --> 00:12:06,189 S6: that God has used so dynamically in my life. James 206 00:12:06,190 --> 00:12:11,470 S6: 410 humble yourselves in the presence of the Lord, and 207 00:12:11,470 --> 00:12:16,790 S6: he will exalt you. You see, this is where it's at. 208 00:12:16,990 --> 00:12:23,189 S6: We must humble ourselves in the presence of God. Now 209 00:12:23,429 --> 00:12:26,710 S6: we know there are many ways to do that. But 210 00:12:26,710 --> 00:12:31,750 S6: listen to the key here. He calls us to initiate 211 00:12:32,870 --> 00:12:37,790 S6: humbling ourselves toward God. Many times people laugh and they 212 00:12:37,990 --> 00:12:41,590 S6: joke and they say, well, God will humble us or, 213 00:12:41,710 --> 00:12:44,710 S6: you know, I'm going to humble you. Well, it's not 214 00:12:44,710 --> 00:12:49,390 S6: really anybody's business to humble us other than one person alone. 215 00:12:49,390 --> 00:12:53,550 S6: And that is God in a corrective sense. If we 216 00:12:53,550 --> 00:12:58,429 S6: do not humble ourselves before the Lord and trust him 217 00:12:58,429 --> 00:13:01,510 S6: to do with us whatever he chooses to do. 218 00:13:02,429 --> 00:13:04,630 S5: What do you say to someone who feels like their 219 00:13:04,630 --> 00:13:10,110 S5: church busy? They're active in church, but they feel like 220 00:13:10,630 --> 00:13:15,830 S5: that connection with God is something that has diminished or 221 00:13:15,870 --> 00:13:19,110 S5: maybe evaporated years ago, and they're genuinely born again. I'm 222 00:13:19,150 --> 00:13:22,950 S5: talking someone who's been transformed by the power of God, 223 00:13:23,190 --> 00:13:25,750 S5: but it feels like if and we have so many 224 00:13:25,750 --> 00:13:29,470 S5: people honest with themselves here in this listening audience across 225 00:13:29,470 --> 00:13:33,550 S5: North America, Ronnie, which is so beautiful. But what do 226 00:13:33,550 --> 00:13:36,070 S5: you say as a pastor to that person right now 227 00:13:36,070 --> 00:13:39,990 S5: who feels like man I. The joy is gone. The 228 00:13:39,990 --> 00:13:41,990 S5: fruit of the spirit is gone. I don't even have 229 00:13:41,990 --> 00:13:45,750 S5: self-control anymore. It feels like we need to slow down 230 00:13:45,750 --> 00:13:49,390 S5: on religious activity and come back to this closet again. Ronnie. 231 00:13:49,870 --> 00:13:53,230 S6: Well, I would say be faithful. Get yourself in the 232 00:13:53,230 --> 00:13:58,030 S6: secret place. Get on a Bible reading plan. Listen, one 233 00:13:58,030 --> 00:14:03,550 S6: of the most dynamic, powerful, transformative things that has ever 234 00:14:03,550 --> 00:14:07,470 S6: happened in my life is when I began to read 235 00:14:07,470 --> 00:14:11,470 S6: through the Bible every year, I realized that may not 236 00:14:11,470 --> 00:14:16,270 S6: be everybody's goal. Okay. That's fine. But I'm telling you, 237 00:14:16,270 --> 00:14:20,790 S6: the key is you must read the scripture consistently. And 238 00:14:20,790 --> 00:14:23,870 S6: people say, well, I could never read the Bible through 239 00:14:23,870 --> 00:14:26,790 S6: a year. Yes you can. It's only 4 or 5 240 00:14:26,790 --> 00:14:30,910 S6: chapters a day. I mean, that's 15 minutes, 25 minutes, 241 00:14:30,910 --> 00:14:33,870 S6: depending on where you are in the scripture and the 242 00:14:34,030 --> 00:14:39,910 S6: consistency of God's pouring into your mind, giving you what 243 00:14:39,910 --> 00:14:44,590 S6: we call a biblical worldview about everything you see prepares 244 00:14:44,590 --> 00:14:48,150 S6: you for life and it prepares you for the good days, 245 00:14:48,150 --> 00:14:51,950 S6: the bad days, the times you're up, the times you're down, 246 00:14:52,230 --> 00:14:54,830 S6: the times you go to church and God speaks to you. 247 00:14:54,830 --> 00:14:57,070 S6: And the other times you go to church and say, wow, 248 00:14:57,110 --> 00:14:59,430 S6: I didn't get a lot out of today. You know, 249 00:14:59,470 --> 00:15:01,790 S6: the key is, what are you getting out of God 250 00:15:01,790 --> 00:15:05,590 S6: every day? Yes. And are you availing yourself to him? 251 00:15:05,830 --> 00:15:08,830 S6: When we're in the secret place and we're listening to 252 00:15:08,870 --> 00:15:11,590 S6: what God is saying to us in His word, then 253 00:15:11,590 --> 00:15:15,390 S6: we will be more prepared. Carl, in how to talk 254 00:15:15,390 --> 00:15:18,230 S6: to God about whatever is going on in our life. 255 00:15:18,870 --> 00:15:22,150 S5: Yeah. And you've done a great work here just recently. 256 00:15:22,150 --> 00:15:26,470 S5: The supernatural power of prayer and fasting. Uh, I want 257 00:15:26,510 --> 00:15:28,550 S5: I want you to link those together. And the minute 258 00:15:28,550 --> 00:15:32,030 S5: we say fasting, it's like, whoa, slow down here. I 259 00:15:32,030 --> 00:15:35,140 S5: know what a lot of people feel, but withholding a meal? 260 00:15:35,140 --> 00:15:37,980 S5: Let's not go to a 40 day fast. Let's back 261 00:15:38,020 --> 00:15:41,940 S5: up to a meal. What can we anticipate when we 262 00:15:41,980 --> 00:15:46,540 S5: combine prayer and withholding food, particularly? A lot of times 263 00:15:46,540 --> 00:15:48,620 S5: people say fast from TV and that could be a 264 00:15:48,620 --> 00:15:52,140 S5: good discipline. But there's something about withholding food for a 265 00:15:52,140 --> 00:15:55,140 S5: moment in time that. What's it do, Ronnie? 266 00:15:55,780 --> 00:15:59,060 S6: Well, let's take an example what you just said. Okay. 267 00:15:59,420 --> 00:16:02,140 S6: Let's say that we eat breakfast and we're going to 268 00:16:02,140 --> 00:16:07,500 S6: eat dinner, but we're going to reserve the lunch time. Okay. 269 00:16:07,540 --> 00:16:11,540 S6: Let's say from 9:00 in the morning until 5:00 in 270 00:16:11,540 --> 00:16:16,420 S6: the afternoon, where that's going to be time that we 271 00:16:16,460 --> 00:16:20,420 S6: are going to declare ourselves on a personal fast before 272 00:16:20,420 --> 00:16:24,380 S6: the Lord. Identify what you're going to talk to God about. 273 00:16:24,860 --> 00:16:28,260 S6: And then in the noon time when you normally eat, 274 00:16:28,300 --> 00:16:32,020 S6: pull aside for 20 to 30 minutes. Open your Bible 275 00:16:32,540 --> 00:16:35,740 S6: and ask God to speak to you about what you're 276 00:16:35,740 --> 00:16:40,460 S6: talking to him about, whether that's a family issue, financial issue, 277 00:16:40,780 --> 00:16:44,980 S6: vocational issue, whether it's about our country or about your 278 00:16:44,980 --> 00:16:48,740 S6: children or whatever it may be about your own life. God, 279 00:16:48,740 --> 00:16:50,940 S6: I need direction. I need to know whether or not 280 00:16:50,940 --> 00:16:53,460 S6: to buy this house. I need to know whether or 281 00:16:53,460 --> 00:16:56,100 S6: not I need to take this job. I need to 282 00:16:56,140 --> 00:16:58,260 S6: know when you want me to quit, when you want 283 00:16:58,260 --> 00:17:01,180 S6: me to to to get started again. I mean, I 284 00:17:01,180 --> 00:17:04,540 S6: need to understand what you desire for me. And so 285 00:17:04,540 --> 00:17:08,900 S6: I'm going to draw aside, withdraw aside with God and 286 00:17:08,900 --> 00:17:12,340 S6: God alone. And in those several hours, even if I'm 287 00:17:12,340 --> 00:17:14,699 S6: in the midst of working during the day, that doesn't 288 00:17:14,700 --> 00:17:18,820 S6: distract from that. You just need to always have a 289 00:17:18,820 --> 00:17:24,340 S6: time of withdrawing and and and focusing your time, those 290 00:17:24,340 --> 00:17:27,300 S6: few hours. This is what I'm going to talk to 291 00:17:27,340 --> 00:17:29,939 S6: God about every time I even think I'm going to 292 00:17:29,940 --> 00:17:33,179 S6: have a hunger pain? That's God calling me to call 293 00:17:33,180 --> 00:17:36,780 S6: upon him. Lord, you've told me to get aside today 294 00:17:37,060 --> 00:17:41,420 S6: and I am humbling myself through fasting and prayer. In 295 00:17:41,420 --> 00:17:45,300 S6: this brief series of hours, so that I can talk 296 00:17:45,300 --> 00:17:50,980 S6: to you about what I need in relationship to my 297 00:17:50,980 --> 00:17:54,020 S6: walk with you. Help me Lord. Speak to me through 298 00:17:54,060 --> 00:17:58,139 S6: your word and get yourself in the Bible. God speaks 299 00:17:58,140 --> 00:17:59,420 S6: through the Bible. 300 00:17:59,700 --> 00:18:02,780 S5: Yeah. He does. And then that Bible, as it begins 301 00:18:02,780 --> 00:18:05,379 S5: to percolate in our hearts, we get a sensitivity to 302 00:18:05,420 --> 00:18:07,460 S5: the spirit. I gotta tell you, Ronnie, the Lord woke 303 00:18:07,460 --> 00:18:10,580 S5: me up this morning at 2:30 a.m., so I'm a 304 00:18:10,580 --> 00:18:13,060 S5: little bit short on some sleep here, but I'm grateful 305 00:18:13,060 --> 00:18:17,260 S5: to God. Here's what happened. I was woken at 230 306 00:18:17,740 --> 00:18:21,619 S5: immediately with something that the Spirit of God prompted on me, 307 00:18:21,619 --> 00:18:24,260 S5: and that was. We're jumping into a new series on 308 00:18:24,260 --> 00:18:28,020 S5: both of our campuses where I'm lead pastor here in Chicagoland. 309 00:18:28,980 --> 00:18:31,820 S5: And the Lord told me, you've got the wrong title 310 00:18:31,820 --> 00:18:36,300 S5: for this series. And I, Ronnie, you know what I'm 311 00:18:36,340 --> 00:18:40,740 S5: talking about, because it was almost an audible voice, and 312 00:18:40,740 --> 00:18:43,700 S5: all I can say is that. And you might ask, well, 313 00:18:43,740 --> 00:18:47,179 S5: how in the world is that related to Scripture? I 314 00:18:47,220 --> 00:18:50,180 S5: feel like, in fact, God used my bride in a 315 00:18:50,180 --> 00:18:53,780 S5: very powerful way because I had given her the title 316 00:18:53,780 --> 00:18:56,220 S5: for this series, and she said, I don't know about 317 00:18:56,220 --> 00:19:00,619 S5: that one, and I baked on that for about a 318 00:19:00,619 --> 00:19:04,179 S5: week and a half. I liked it, but I didn't 319 00:19:04,180 --> 00:19:07,979 S5: love it. And what it was related to was a 320 00:19:07,980 --> 00:19:11,220 S5: word that she said. She said, I want to make 321 00:19:11,220 --> 00:19:15,100 S5: sure that a title to a series is Giving Jesus 322 00:19:15,100 --> 00:19:21,260 S5: my Jesus. She said the the proper platform that represents 323 00:19:21,260 --> 00:19:25,500 S5: his life. Well. So I've got this, this topic of 324 00:19:25,660 --> 00:19:29,500 S5: humility this morning, and I've got a wife speaking to 325 00:19:29,540 --> 00:19:33,419 S5: me about something. And it God wakes me up at 230, 326 00:19:33,940 --> 00:19:36,460 S5: and I have joy in my heart because I wrote 327 00:19:36,460 --> 00:19:39,820 S5: down three words for what the series is going to be. 328 00:19:39,859 --> 00:19:42,020 S5: It doesn't matter what it's going to be. Three words 329 00:19:42,020 --> 00:19:44,980 S5: that I feel like the Spirit of God said that 330 00:19:44,980 --> 00:19:50,780 S5: represents me rightly, that represents my son rightly. When you 331 00:19:50,780 --> 00:19:54,459 S5: begin to be in the word and hear the voice 332 00:19:54,460 --> 00:19:57,700 S5: of God, you will hear his voice. Is what I'm 333 00:19:57,700 --> 00:20:00,380 S5: saying right, Ronnie, this is not a pipe dream, my friend. 334 00:20:00,740 --> 00:20:03,859 S6: No, this is really. This is the truth. I mean, 335 00:20:03,859 --> 00:20:08,540 S6: we have to understand God's word. The Bible is God's 336 00:20:08,540 --> 00:20:14,220 S6: word and words to our life, and it literally becomes 337 00:20:14,220 --> 00:20:19,260 S6: a lamp unto our feet and a light for our path. 338 00:20:19,260 --> 00:20:22,419 S6: And if we put those words in our heart, we're 339 00:20:22,420 --> 00:20:25,419 S6: not going to be near as is prone to sin 340 00:20:25,420 --> 00:20:28,860 S6: against God. Yeah, and if anyone wants to walk in 341 00:20:28,859 --> 00:20:32,500 S6: the spirit, anyone wants to be filled with the spirit. 342 00:20:32,500 --> 00:20:35,980 S6: Anyone wants to be used by God in a in 343 00:20:36,020 --> 00:20:42,100 S6: a grand manner. Get yourself in the Bible, humble yourself 344 00:20:42,100 --> 00:20:46,899 S6: and say the world doesn't have the answer. It doesn't 345 00:20:46,900 --> 00:20:52,859 S6: matter who I listen to about whatever God I need 346 00:20:52,859 --> 00:20:57,060 S6: to hear from you. Yeah, I open this book, speak 347 00:20:57,060 --> 00:21:01,380 S6: to my life. Yeah. And that's what God does. 348 00:21:01,660 --> 00:21:04,060 S5: So good, Ronnie. And some of you might say, well, 349 00:21:04,060 --> 00:21:06,260 S5: how in the world did that prompting Carl have anything 350 00:21:06,300 --> 00:21:07,859 S5: to do with the Word of God? I'd been poring 351 00:21:07,859 --> 00:21:11,140 S5: over the first chapter of Mark, and I was so 352 00:21:11,140 --> 00:21:15,780 S5: struck by the humility of John the Baptist. Short excerpt. 353 00:21:15,780 --> 00:21:19,660 S5: And then the teachings of Jesus to repent and then 354 00:21:19,660 --> 00:21:24,859 S5: follow me. And I, God used the words of Mark 355 00:21:25,420 --> 00:21:28,540 S5: with the words of my bride and the prompting of 356 00:21:28,540 --> 00:21:30,500 S5: the spirit to wake me up and to change a 357 00:21:30,500 --> 00:21:33,020 S5: series title. It may seem like a small thing, but 358 00:21:33,020 --> 00:21:34,380 S5: it's not, is it, Ronnie? 359 00:21:34,660 --> 00:21:37,500 S6: No, it's not a small thing at all, because as 360 00:21:37,500 --> 00:21:40,699 S6: a pastor and a preacher of the Word of God, 361 00:21:40,700 --> 00:21:44,379 S6: one thing you want to always do is when you 362 00:21:44,380 --> 00:21:49,340 S6: stand up. It's not that you're going to share a 363 00:21:49,340 --> 00:21:52,980 S6: text alone, it is that you have been with God 364 00:21:52,980 --> 00:21:57,300 S6: in such a way that that text is burning in 365 00:21:57,300 --> 00:22:01,020 S6: your heart. And not only do you have a text, 366 00:22:01,020 --> 00:22:06,540 S6: but that text has you and it possesses you, and 367 00:22:06,580 --> 00:22:12,300 S6: it fills you with passion and expectancy that God is 368 00:22:12,300 --> 00:22:15,340 S6: going to work in a powerful, powerful way. 369 00:22:15,660 --> 00:22:18,420 S5: Love it, doctor Ronnie Floyd, I've got a link for you. 370 00:22:18,420 --> 00:22:22,340 S5: Boom crew if you want to take prayer and fasting 371 00:22:22,340 --> 00:22:25,660 S5: with holding a meal with the Word of God open 372 00:22:25,660 --> 00:22:28,220 S5: before you and begin to hear the voice of God. 373 00:22:28,220 --> 00:22:32,580 S5: You will, you will. And here's the link I've got 374 00:22:32,580 --> 00:22:34,939 S5: for you. It'll get you two places. One is to 375 00:22:34,980 --> 00:22:37,659 S5: some great blogs along these lines, and a link to 376 00:22:37,700 --> 00:22:41,859 S5: a book called The Supernatural Power of Prayer and Fasting 377 00:22:42,300 --> 00:22:47,580 S5: 12 Ways God Will Change Your Life. Live a Righteous 378 00:22:47,580 --> 00:22:51,940 S5: and Fulfilled life. I know you want that. So simply 379 00:22:52,180 --> 00:22:57,540 S5: text the word right now just to (800) 555-7898. Just text 380 00:22:57,540 --> 00:23:03,060 S5: the word fast to 800 555 7898. Take a look. 381 00:23:03,100 --> 00:23:04,820 S5: Could be the Spirit of God is working in your 382 00:23:04,820 --> 00:23:07,380 S5: heart this morning. Just take a look at this link. 383 00:23:07,820 --> 00:23:14,780 S5: Text the word fast to 800 555 7898. Pastor Ronnie Floyd, 384 00:23:14,940 --> 00:23:17,940 S5: a great man of God and what an opportunity we 385 00:23:17,940 --> 00:23:23,100 S5: have today. Text the word fast to 805, 55, 78, 98. 386 00:23:23,820 --> 00:23:28,060 S1: Standing on the rock each and every day. You're listening 387 00:23:28,100 --> 00:23:29,900 S1: to Carl and crew. All right. 388 00:23:29,900 --> 00:23:31,419 S5: I got a crazy one for you to prove a 389 00:23:31,420 --> 00:23:33,699 S5: point here in a fun, crazy kind of way. 390 00:23:33,740 --> 00:23:34,100 S2: Uh oh. 391 00:23:34,820 --> 00:23:36,139 S5: Got a question for you. 392 00:23:36,260 --> 00:23:37,379 S4: Okay, here we go. 393 00:23:38,060 --> 00:23:42,420 S5: When did you find yourself stuck in something? And you're like, oh, 394 00:23:42,580 --> 00:23:45,740 S5: I can't get out. And I'm not talking the life alert. 395 00:23:45,740 --> 00:23:48,140 S5: I'm not talking. I've fallen down and I can't get up. 396 00:23:48,260 --> 00:23:50,820 S5: It could be, but when when did you find yourself 397 00:23:50,820 --> 00:23:56,060 S5: stuck in something? And I had a thankfully, a little truck. 398 00:23:56,460 --> 00:23:58,100 S5: And when I say a little truck, I'm glad it 399 00:23:58,100 --> 00:24:01,100 S5: wasn't a big truck door. But those little trucks have 400 00:24:01,100 --> 00:24:04,659 S5: molding across the top that it's pretty light. And I 401 00:24:04,660 --> 00:24:06,980 S5: don't know how I did it to myself, but I 402 00:24:06,980 --> 00:24:09,540 S5: did it. I went and shut that door and I 403 00:24:09,540 --> 00:24:14,020 S5: had my hand there and the whole door shut. 404 00:24:14,060 --> 00:24:14,540 S2: No. 405 00:24:14,900 --> 00:24:15,420 S5: Yeah. 406 00:24:15,460 --> 00:24:17,740 S2: And it shut. Oh no no no no. 407 00:24:18,340 --> 00:24:20,380 S5: Fingers closed into the door. 408 00:24:20,660 --> 00:24:21,060 S2: Ouch! 409 00:24:21,260 --> 00:24:23,980 S5: Now, I didn't have to yell. Except that I did. 410 00:24:24,020 --> 00:24:24,420 S2: Right. 411 00:24:24,460 --> 00:24:30,060 S5: Because it was some serious pain. And I flipped that 412 00:24:30,060 --> 00:24:33,460 S5: thing up. That handle and boom, release. And it's like, 413 00:24:33,460 --> 00:24:34,380 S5: oh my goodness. 414 00:24:34,420 --> 00:24:35,140 S2: Oh, horrible. 415 00:24:35,380 --> 00:24:39,220 S5: By the way, I had a horrible story. Oh my goodness. 416 00:24:39,820 --> 00:24:42,540 S5: So I was out watching some friends of mine do 417 00:24:42,540 --> 00:24:48,540 S5: some skydiving. And this this one, this one proved to me, no, 418 00:24:48,580 --> 00:24:53,820 S5: not doing it. So there's this woman in Alaska. I 419 00:24:53,820 --> 00:24:55,740 S5: think it was her. It might have been one of her. 420 00:24:55,780 --> 00:24:57,379 S5: One of the people that were with her. It doesn't 421 00:24:57,380 --> 00:25:00,940 S5: matter who it was. But here's she was an amazing skydiver. 422 00:25:00,940 --> 00:25:03,899 S5: By that time, I think she'd done, like, 1400 jumps, 423 00:25:03,900 --> 00:25:07,979 S5: something like that. So she's very accustomed to jumping out 424 00:25:08,020 --> 00:25:11,859 S5: of planes. Well, you got these pins in your chute, right? 425 00:25:12,060 --> 00:25:16,850 S5: And and those pins in sequence. When you pull the ripcord, 426 00:25:16,890 --> 00:25:19,050 S5: they all the pins come out so it opens. It's 427 00:25:19,050 --> 00:25:21,450 S5: not one pin that comes out. They all open up. 428 00:25:21,450 --> 00:25:23,330 S5: At least they did back in the day. Some of 429 00:25:23,330 --> 00:25:25,530 S5: you might be going, they don't do that anymore, Carl. 430 00:25:25,570 --> 00:25:28,330 S5: All right. Well, they used to be pins in sequence, 431 00:25:28,369 --> 00:25:32,610 S5: all attached to a wire. And when you pull them all, 432 00:25:32,650 --> 00:25:34,969 S5: all 4 or 5 of these pins, I think it 433 00:25:34,970 --> 00:25:38,770 S5: was something like that kind of come out and then boom, 434 00:25:38,810 --> 00:25:41,890 S5: out comes the chute. Well, when they were getting out 435 00:25:41,890 --> 00:25:45,730 S5: of the plane, they, they kind of were getting up 436 00:25:45,730 --> 00:25:48,530 S5: and they were too high and they bumped the top 437 00:25:48,530 --> 00:25:51,330 S5: of the plane. And when they bumped the top of 438 00:25:51,330 --> 00:25:54,450 S5: the plane, it took one of those pins and it 439 00:25:54,490 --> 00:26:00,530 S5: bent it up just enough that when it came time 440 00:26:00,530 --> 00:26:03,649 S5: to pull the ripcord, they couldn't get the chute open. 441 00:26:04,330 --> 00:26:07,250 S5: And so we're watching this. Oh, I know, can you 442 00:26:07,250 --> 00:26:11,050 S5: imagine being on the pulling into that ripcord? No. So 443 00:26:11,090 --> 00:26:14,410 S5: they're they're trying to pull on this ripcord and that 444 00:26:14,410 --> 00:26:16,890 S5: pins up and they pulled with all their might. They 445 00:26:16,890 --> 00:26:19,410 S5: couldn't get it loose. So boom! They deploy the reserve 446 00:26:19,450 --> 00:26:20,970 S5: chute and everything was fine. 447 00:26:21,250 --> 00:26:21,850 S2: Oh, good. 448 00:26:22,250 --> 00:26:23,530 S5: Okay, you guys got one? 449 00:26:23,570 --> 00:26:26,169 S2: Yeah, I think at the time I was probably ten. 450 00:26:26,210 --> 00:26:29,929 S2: I have three older brothers. And so, you know, taking 451 00:26:29,930 --> 00:26:33,250 S2: advantage of the little one was a common practice and 452 00:26:33,770 --> 00:26:36,649 S2: and I was the little one. And, uh, and so 453 00:26:36,650 --> 00:26:40,930 S2: we were driving in my brother's, uh, convertible in the summer, 454 00:26:40,930 --> 00:26:43,050 S2: and me and my, my brother closest to me are 455 00:26:43,050 --> 00:26:44,889 S2: sit in the back. The two oldest ones are sitting 456 00:26:44,890 --> 00:26:47,169 S2: up in the front and they're driving. And they all 457 00:26:47,170 --> 00:26:49,970 S2: had this plan that I didn't know about, that they're 458 00:26:49,970 --> 00:26:52,010 S2: driving down this street, and all of a sudden my 459 00:26:52,010 --> 00:26:55,450 S2: oldest brother slows the car down. He stops it, he 460 00:26:55,450 --> 00:26:58,169 S2: puts it in park, and they all just get out 461 00:26:58,210 --> 00:27:00,650 S2: of the car and run off into the woods. And 462 00:27:01,330 --> 00:27:04,250 S2: they just left the car running, sitting in the middle 463 00:27:04,250 --> 00:27:06,250 S2: of the street. And I'm the only one who didn't 464 00:27:06,250 --> 00:27:08,770 S2: know about anything. So I'm sitting, I'm ten, I can't 465 00:27:08,770 --> 00:27:14,610 S2: do anything with the car. And so I'm sitting there going, uh, guys, guys. 466 00:27:14,810 --> 00:27:17,090 S2: And they've all just run off into the trees and 467 00:27:17,090 --> 00:27:18,050 S2: I can't see. 468 00:27:18,090 --> 00:27:20,450 S5: See, I know you enough to know you were panicking 469 00:27:20,450 --> 00:27:21,170 S5: in that moment. 470 00:27:21,210 --> 00:27:22,090 S2: Oh, yeah. I was. 471 00:27:22,130 --> 00:27:22,250 S5: A. 472 00:27:22,290 --> 00:27:23,050 S2: Panicky kid. 473 00:27:23,170 --> 00:27:24,090 S4: Brothers, man. 474 00:27:24,250 --> 00:27:26,290 S2: I know, and they just left me there. They. I mean, 475 00:27:26,330 --> 00:27:28,130 S2: they came back, but they're losing. 476 00:27:28,690 --> 00:27:30,810 S5: They're losing some rewards for that one. 477 00:27:30,850 --> 00:27:31,129 S2: Oh, my. 478 00:27:31,170 --> 00:27:31,850 S5: God. Ain't gonna go. 479 00:27:31,890 --> 00:27:33,850 S2: Well, I know Jesus is gonna have a talk with him, 480 00:27:33,850 --> 00:27:35,730 S2: but yeah, they they just left me there in the 481 00:27:35,730 --> 00:27:37,770 S2: car and I felt stuck because I was like, I 482 00:27:37,770 --> 00:27:39,050 S2: don't know what to do. 483 00:27:39,490 --> 00:27:42,410 S4: I have yeah, I have to write a comic movie. 484 00:27:42,410 --> 00:27:45,210 S4: This is many, many years ago, but, uh, company I 485 00:27:45,210 --> 00:27:47,970 S4: was working for had a beautiful, like, Christmas party. This 486 00:27:47,970 --> 00:27:51,450 S4: was at a beautiful, like, restaurant back then. I'm dressed 487 00:27:51,450 --> 00:27:53,410 S4: to the hilt. Yeah, okay. And I've got, like, this 488 00:27:53,410 --> 00:27:55,050 S4: cape that goes with the dress. I get out of 489 00:27:55,050 --> 00:27:57,130 S4: the cab and guess what? The cab drives off with 490 00:27:57,250 --> 00:28:01,250 S4: my cape. Cape stuck in the door and all my 491 00:28:01,930 --> 00:28:04,250 S4: employees and my friends, they see this. I mean, I 492 00:28:04,250 --> 00:28:06,169 S4: had to. You have to laugh, right? What are you 493 00:28:06,170 --> 00:28:06,610 S4: gonna do? 494 00:28:07,050 --> 00:28:08,010 S5: It was gone. 495 00:28:08,250 --> 00:28:10,290 S4: Well, it was gone, at least for a few blocks. 496 00:28:10,330 --> 00:28:12,489 S4: One dear friend chased it, but by the time I 497 00:28:12,490 --> 00:28:13,690 S4: got it back, it had been raining. 498 00:28:13,730 --> 00:28:14,169 S5: It was a. 499 00:28:14,170 --> 00:28:16,690 S4: Mess. It was a mess. But yeah. There went my cape. 500 00:28:17,210 --> 00:28:18,530 S4: There goes my cape. Oh. 501 00:28:19,090 --> 00:28:21,570 S5: Oh, she's still. She's still super dry, though. 502 00:28:21,730 --> 00:28:22,130 S2: Looks good. 503 00:28:22,170 --> 00:28:22,730 S4: That's right. 504 00:28:23,050 --> 00:28:25,690 S5: She's still super dry. She didn't need a cape. No, 505 00:28:25,810 --> 00:28:26,609 S5: she didn't need a cape. 506 00:28:26,650 --> 00:28:27,530 S4: I didn't need that cape. 507 00:28:27,970 --> 00:28:32,689 S1: She's a choreographer extraordinaire, and everything is Greek to her. 508 00:28:33,050 --> 00:28:36,810 S1: Super di is in the crew. It's Carl and crew 509 00:28:36,850 --> 00:28:38,090 S1: on Moody Radio. 510 00:28:38,450 --> 00:28:41,050 S5: It's Carl and crew helping you take your next step 511 00:28:41,050 --> 00:28:43,050 S5: with Jesus and having a little bit of fun on 512 00:28:43,050 --> 00:28:45,490 S5: this whole principle of being stuck. We got a lot 513 00:28:45,490 --> 00:28:47,970 S5: of you have been taking the quiz. Spiritually, we can 514 00:28:47,970 --> 00:28:51,250 S5: get stuck in practically everyday life. We can get stuck. 515 00:28:51,250 --> 00:28:54,210 S5: I'm glad I encouraged someone, they said, and I thought 516 00:28:54,210 --> 00:28:57,570 S5: I was the only one where my whole hand was 517 00:28:57,570 --> 00:29:00,090 S5: caught in a car door. I yelled to and mom 518 00:29:00,090 --> 00:29:02,650 S5: opened that door fast. I couldn't believe I didn't have 519 00:29:02,650 --> 00:29:06,650 S5: a broken finger. That's true, my man. It happens. So 520 00:29:06,650 --> 00:29:09,970 S5: you got stuck. You got a stuck story. Could be funny. 521 00:29:09,970 --> 00:29:14,330 S5: Could be crazy. Sheila. First time caller. Mccordsville. Indiana. What 522 00:29:14,330 --> 00:29:15,170 S5: do you say? Sheila? 523 00:29:15,410 --> 00:29:17,890 S7: Good morning, everyone, and thank you so much for your show. 524 00:29:17,930 --> 00:29:20,090 S7: It's it's very much a blessing. So thank you so 525 00:29:20,090 --> 00:29:21,290 S7: much to listen every morning. 526 00:29:21,490 --> 00:29:22,010 S5: Thank you. 527 00:29:22,050 --> 00:29:25,730 S7: Um, I was calling one morning. One evening I was 528 00:29:25,890 --> 00:29:28,050 S7: leaving work, trying to get ready to go work out, 529 00:29:28,050 --> 00:29:31,290 S7: and I was changing clothes really quick. Went to run 530 00:29:31,290 --> 00:29:33,890 S7: out the door and my wedding ring got caught on 531 00:29:33,890 --> 00:29:37,450 S7: the plate, um, of the doorframe where the door locks. 532 00:29:37,850 --> 00:29:40,450 S7: And so my wedding ring got caught on that I 533 00:29:40,450 --> 00:29:42,530 S7: was running full speed, went around the corner, and it 534 00:29:42,530 --> 00:29:46,370 S7: literally yanked me back. And so, um, I turned around, 535 00:29:46,370 --> 00:29:50,090 S7: I did I did dislodge my finger from the plate, 536 00:29:50,290 --> 00:29:53,130 S7: and then my ring was stuck into my skin. So 537 00:29:53,130 --> 00:29:55,490 S7: it was just one of those things that it's a 538 00:29:55,490 --> 00:29:58,170 S7: lesson in life to slow down. But, um, yeah, it 539 00:29:58,170 --> 00:29:59,010 S7: was really. 540 00:29:59,770 --> 00:30:02,130 S5: Yeah. That's what we got to ask Sheila. You're right on. 541 00:30:02,490 --> 00:30:06,730 S5: What's the lesson in life here? Slow down. Sheila from Mccordsville, Indiana. 542 00:30:06,770 --> 00:30:09,250 S5: Way to go, Sheila. Thank you for calling in. Spencer. 543 00:30:09,290 --> 00:30:11,610 S5: Grand Rapids, Michigan. What do you say, Spence? 544 00:30:13,050 --> 00:30:16,090 S8: Good morning everyone. Hey, Carl. I had my fingers caught 545 00:30:16,090 --> 00:30:18,770 S8: in the door like that when I was a kid, too. Okay, good. 546 00:30:18,810 --> 00:30:21,810 S8: Is my. My first year as a brick mason. I 547 00:30:21,810 --> 00:30:25,730 S8: was in Oklahoma, and, uh, it had been raining and 548 00:30:25,730 --> 00:30:29,330 S8: the rainy season. And I fell from the third jack 549 00:30:29,370 --> 00:30:34,170 S8: up of scaffolding, which was approximately 18ft, and fell straight 550 00:30:34,170 --> 00:30:38,610 S8: down the scaffold into the mud. And my boots got stuck. 551 00:30:38,610 --> 00:30:40,650 S8: I couldn't get myself out, and I had to have 552 00:30:40,650 --> 00:30:43,050 S8: two guys pull me out of the mud and retrieve 553 00:30:43,050 --> 00:30:44,330 S8: my boots after the fact. 554 00:30:44,330 --> 00:30:49,130 S5: So you know the problem. Yeah. Well, weren't you called 555 00:30:49,130 --> 00:30:52,090 S5: hotties or or or or what's that term for? Guys 556 00:30:52,090 --> 00:30:55,330 S5: that are bricklayers hauling. Did you did you do bricks 557 00:30:55,330 --> 00:30:58,130 S5: or was it concrete block or both? 558 00:30:58,170 --> 00:31:00,610 S8: Yeah, both. Uh, we're on a on a brick job 559 00:31:00,610 --> 00:31:02,530 S8: at that time. An apartment complex, so. 560 00:31:02,570 --> 00:31:05,090 S5: Oh, my goodness, you don't you don't live that one 561 00:31:05,090 --> 00:31:08,570 S5: down with your with your comrades out there, that's for sure. Spencer. 562 00:31:08,610 --> 00:31:13,450 S5: Grand Rapids, Michigan. Thank you for calling in, Frank in DeKalb, Illinois. 563 00:31:13,450 --> 00:31:14,370 S5: What do you say, Frank? 564 00:31:14,730 --> 00:31:15,090 S8: Hey. 565 00:31:15,570 --> 00:31:17,690 S9: When I was younger, I was playing hide and seek 566 00:31:17,690 --> 00:31:22,810 S9: with my sisters, and we had a foldaway bed couch, 567 00:31:23,090 --> 00:31:25,610 S9: and I said, I'm gonna hide in here and put 568 00:31:25,610 --> 00:31:28,290 S9: myself in there. And I pulled it and closed it 569 00:31:28,290 --> 00:31:31,010 S9: in on me, and I couldn't get out. I mean, 570 00:31:31,050 --> 00:31:33,410 S9: we were playing hide and seek. I'm. I'm eight years 571 00:31:33,410 --> 00:31:35,890 S9: old and I'm hiding really good. But all of a sudden, 572 00:31:35,890 --> 00:31:39,450 S9: I realized I cannot get out of here. And they're going, 573 00:31:39,490 --> 00:31:42,570 S9: where are you? I'm in here. They couldn't find me 574 00:31:42,610 --> 00:31:45,010 S9: for about 2 or 3 minutes. I'm going. How am 575 00:31:45,010 --> 00:31:46,890 S9: I going to get out of here? And they go, 576 00:31:47,210 --> 00:31:50,170 S9: we can't pull the couch out. I said, well, get mom. 577 00:31:50,730 --> 00:31:52,490 S5: Get mom now. 578 00:31:53,530 --> 00:31:56,810 S9: Yeah, yeah, I pulled it in, but I stuck and 579 00:31:56,810 --> 00:31:57,770 S9: I couldn't get out. 580 00:31:58,050 --> 00:32:00,209 S5: What'd your mom say? What'd your mom say when she 581 00:32:00,210 --> 00:32:01,050 S5: pulled you out of there? 582 00:32:01,130 --> 00:32:03,489 S9: Why didn't you? She goes. Why did how do you 583 00:32:03,530 --> 00:32:05,770 S9: close this thing? I said, well, I was pulling it. 584 00:32:05,770 --> 00:32:07,490 S9: All of a sudden it just fell in on me 585 00:32:07,490 --> 00:32:09,410 S9: and I didn't want to close it the whole way. 586 00:32:09,410 --> 00:32:11,770 S9: She goes, well, it's a good hiding spot, but don't 587 00:32:11,770 --> 00:32:14,090 S9: ever do that again, okay? I won't. 588 00:32:16,570 --> 00:32:20,530 S1: Take your next step with Jesus. Today you're listening to 589 00:32:20,570 --> 00:32:21,610 S1: Carl and crew. 590 00:32:22,050 --> 00:32:25,890 S5: Kathy. First time caller in Weston, Florida. Thanks for calling in, Kathy. 591 00:32:25,930 --> 00:32:27,050 S5: How'd you get stuck? 592 00:32:27,370 --> 00:32:29,969 S10: Oh, this is a good one. I used to clean stalls, 593 00:32:30,330 --> 00:32:33,770 S10: so we put the manure in these great big garbage cans. 594 00:32:33,810 --> 00:32:35,850 S10: They were like 90 gallon. They were, I don't know, 595 00:32:35,890 --> 00:32:36,850 S10: four feet tall. 596 00:32:37,090 --> 00:32:37,850 S5: Oh, those are big. 597 00:32:37,850 --> 00:32:39,770 S10: I got it full to the top. Yeah, it was 598 00:32:39,770 --> 00:32:42,730 S10: really big and heavy. Really heavy. So I got it 599 00:32:42,730 --> 00:32:44,730 S10: full to the top because I was lazy. I didn't 600 00:32:44,730 --> 00:32:47,610 S10: want to go get another one. It was as full 601 00:32:47,610 --> 00:32:50,290 S10: as it could be. So I always just kind of 602 00:32:50,330 --> 00:32:53,090 S10: took it over and roll it out to the road. Well, 603 00:32:53,090 --> 00:32:55,530 S10: I think you can guess where this is going. It 604 00:32:55,570 --> 00:32:58,530 S10: passed the tipping point and fell on top of me, 605 00:32:58,890 --> 00:33:02,690 S10: and my legs were stuck underneath and I could not move. 606 00:33:03,130 --> 00:33:06,050 S10: There was nobody around. I couldn't reach my phone. But 607 00:33:06,050 --> 00:33:09,130 S10: my hands are free. So you might know where this 608 00:33:09,130 --> 00:33:09,490 S10: is going. 609 00:33:09,530 --> 00:33:12,370 S5: Oh my word. You started digging on manure. 610 00:33:13,690 --> 00:33:16,450 S10: The only way I could get out was to take 611 00:33:16,450 --> 00:33:19,330 S10: some of the manure out of the garbage can. Well, 612 00:33:19,370 --> 00:33:22,330 S10: of course it had to go on top of me because. 613 00:33:22,730 --> 00:33:24,969 S10: Because it's the only place it could go. Because the 614 00:33:24,970 --> 00:33:27,330 S10: only thing sticking out was my chest and my hands. 615 00:33:27,890 --> 00:33:30,810 S10: So I finally got it light enough where I could 616 00:33:30,810 --> 00:33:33,290 S10: push it off my legs and get my legs out. 617 00:33:34,290 --> 00:33:36,250 S2: Oh, man. That's horrible. 618 00:33:36,290 --> 00:33:40,570 S5: Kathy, I love it. I love it, Kathy I love it, Kathy. 619 00:33:40,610 --> 00:33:43,250 S5: Who was the first person you told about? Told that 620 00:33:43,250 --> 00:33:45,490 S5: to somebody in the home or something? 621 00:33:45,530 --> 00:33:47,290 S10: Sure. Probably my husband. 622 00:33:47,770 --> 00:33:49,530 S5: Oh, you were married at the time? 623 00:33:50,290 --> 00:33:52,930 S10: Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. This is not. Well, it was 624 00:33:52,930 --> 00:33:56,410 S10: probably about 20 years ago. I've been married 44, so. Yeah, 625 00:33:56,450 --> 00:33:59,290 S10: my husband knows I did crazy things like that. So. 626 00:33:59,490 --> 00:34:02,330 S10: And I still ride horses. I don't clean stalls anymore, 627 00:34:02,330 --> 00:34:03,210 S10: but I still ride. 628 00:34:03,610 --> 00:34:07,810 S5: Oh my word. Oh my goodness. Thank you Kathy. First 629 00:34:07,810 --> 00:34:11,730 S5: time caller, Western Florida. Way to go. Danny in Bedford, Indiana. Danny, 630 00:34:11,770 --> 00:34:13,090 S5: what do you say? What's your story? 631 00:34:13,330 --> 00:34:16,129 S11: My story is the day before my wedding, we had 632 00:34:16,130 --> 00:34:18,410 S11: the rehearsal, and my friends and I went on a 633 00:34:18,410 --> 00:34:22,370 S11: river fishing trip and ran out of gas. So here 634 00:34:22,370 --> 00:34:24,689 S11: I am, stuck on the river all day long, doing 635 00:34:24,690 --> 00:34:26,489 S11: everything I can to get back. We're trying to use 636 00:34:26,489 --> 00:34:29,410 S11: a trolling motor, trying to paddle everything we can. So 637 00:34:29,410 --> 00:34:32,169 S11: I show up just in time for the rehearsal and 638 00:34:32,170 --> 00:34:35,609 S11: I'm still in my fishing clothes, burnt to a crisp look, 639 00:34:35,650 --> 00:34:37,489 S11: like a lobster. My wife, as soon as I walk in, 640 00:34:37,489 --> 00:34:40,170 S11: she said, oh my goodness, she looked like a lobster. 641 00:34:40,530 --> 00:34:44,690 S11: And now all of my wedding photos. All my wedding photos. 642 00:34:44,690 --> 00:34:46,569 S11: I am just bright red. And every time we look 643 00:34:46,570 --> 00:34:49,330 S11: at them, she reminds me, you need to get gas 644 00:34:49,330 --> 00:34:50,130 S11: in the boat. 645 00:34:51,730 --> 00:34:52,930 S4: That's so good. Oh. 646 00:34:53,330 --> 00:34:59,090 S5: Danny. That's outstanding. Danny. That's outstanding. Danny from Bedford, Indiana. Oh, 647 00:34:59,130 --> 00:35:03,370 S5: these are too good. Oh, thank you all for calling in. Oh, 648 00:35:03,370 --> 00:35:05,170 S5: we can't get to every one of these because I 649 00:35:05,210 --> 00:35:09,969 S5: got to shift gears. But those are outstanding, Danny. Get, get. 650 00:35:10,130 --> 00:35:13,489 S5: He will never stop hearing about this as long as 651 00:35:13,530 --> 00:35:14,250 S5: his bride. 652 00:35:14,690 --> 00:35:17,569 S2: Well, the pictures of one of his most important days 653 00:35:17,610 --> 00:35:18,530 S2: tell the story. 654 00:35:18,690 --> 00:35:23,170 S5: He's lobster red. Oh. Burned to a crisp. No guests. 655 00:35:23,210 --> 00:35:26,010 S5: And by the way, that trolling motor thing. You trying 656 00:35:26,010 --> 00:35:29,610 S5: to paddle upstream? I lived that nightmare. I lived it 657 00:35:29,890 --> 00:35:33,330 S5: on the little Susitna. Got all the way down, sheared 658 00:35:33,330 --> 00:35:35,930 S5: off all the shear pins on her propeller. And I 659 00:35:35,969 --> 00:35:40,690 S5: am carving hardwood shear pins. That basically keeps the prop moving. 660 00:35:41,130 --> 00:35:46,090 S5: That worked really well. Not at all. It steals your pins. 661 00:35:46,090 --> 00:35:49,890 S5: The only way to go. Hardwood shear pins do not work. Oh, 662 00:35:49,930 --> 00:35:53,529 S5: it's just crazy. Uh, Daniel, get you in your first, uh, 663 00:35:53,530 --> 00:35:56,480 S5: first time caller, Saint Pete Beach, Florida. my man. What 664 00:35:56,480 --> 00:35:57,240 S5: do you say? Daniel? 665 00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:00,480 S12: Hey. Good morning. How you guys doing? 666 00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:02,439 S5: Doing great. Just got a quick minute, dude. 667 00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:05,680 S12: My story. Yeah. My story is a little serious, a 668 00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:09,560 S12: little serious. Around 7 to 10 years old, we playing 669 00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:14,160 S12: hide and go seek out in my backyard. My brother, relatives. 670 00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:18,880 S12: Neighborhood kids. And I got locked down in a old refrigerator. 671 00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:19,280 S5: Oh. 672 00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:23,040 S12: One of the real thick old refrigerators. And this was 673 00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:26,080 S12: before they started running commercials about taking the doors off 674 00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:30,920 S12: the refrigerator. Because. Kids were dying that way. Well, somehow, 675 00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:33,120 S12: I don't know if somebody pushed it the door down. 676 00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:35,120 S12: Didn't know I was in there, but I got down 677 00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:37,600 S12: in the refrigerator and I got locked in there. It 678 00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:40,640 S12: didn't open till I called on the name of Jesus. 679 00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:43,960 S12: I remember my son's teacher saying, if kids, if you 680 00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:46,520 S12: ever get in trouble, just call on Jesus. Call on Jesus. 681 00:36:46,920 --> 00:36:50,760 S12: And I called everybody name at the last minute. I'm crying, 682 00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:53,040 S12: snot running down my face. I'm screaming. I can hear 683 00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:55,920 S12: people running by the refrigerator, but nobody knew I was 684 00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:58,800 S12: in there. And the last thing I did, I said, Jesus, 685 00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:00,560 S12: I don't want to die. Jesus, I don't want to die. 686 00:37:00,600 --> 00:37:03,160 S12: And I hit the refrigerator door and it popped open. 687 00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:08,799 S5: Oh, Daniel. First time caller from Saint Pete Beach. That 688 00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:11,880 S5: is a beautiful transition, because this is where we're going, man. 689 00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:17,479 S5: Sometimes you feel stuck alone. No one can help. But 690 00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:24,000 S5: God can. That's the point. And it's beautiful, man. Remember this. 691 00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:26,759 S5: No matter where you are, no matter what, it may 692 00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:31,160 S5: feel like God can do it, guys. God can. 693 00:37:31,680 --> 00:37:34,400 S1: You can take him out of Alaska, but you can't 694 00:37:34,440 --> 00:37:38,239 S1: take Alaska out of him. Carl is in the crew. 695 00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:41,040 S1: It's Carl and crew on Moody Radio. 696 00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:44,000 S5: Oh my goodness. Cracking up over these stories. If you 697 00:37:44,000 --> 00:37:47,560 S5: weren't with us in this last segment that we had. Oh, 698 00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:50,719 S5: the amount of people that get stuck in the craziest 699 00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:53,680 S5: spots and then have a story to tell. Pretty amazing. 700 00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:54,480 S4: They were good. 701 00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:55,680 S2: Oh my goodness. 702 00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:59,920 S5: Oh my goodness. Some of those are scary. In fact 703 00:37:59,920 --> 00:38:03,680 S5: this last caller that we had um, what a what 704 00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:08,400 S5: a what a tough one. Getting caught in a refrigerator. Daniel. Before. Daniel. Yeah, 705 00:38:08,440 --> 00:38:10,680 S5: from from Florida. Right. Where was he from? 706 00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:11,279 S2: Yeah. Saint. 707 00:38:12,200 --> 00:38:17,600 S5: Saint Pete. Uh. Guys, there's. Sometimes when we feel stuck 708 00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:19,359 S5: spiritually and we don't know what in the world we're 709 00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:21,000 S5: going to do, how are we going to get out 710 00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:24,200 S5: of this one? But I just want to remind you 711 00:38:24,200 --> 00:38:26,880 S5: that the way up is down in God's kingdom. I 712 00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:28,600 S5: want to take you to a fishing trip I did 713 00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:32,840 S5: with my dad. It was on Ship Creek downtown Anchorage, Alaska. 714 00:38:32,840 --> 00:38:35,279 S5: We had the Hilton Tower and above us. Hilton had 715 00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:38,600 S5: just been built. So you get these, well, relatively big 716 00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:42,080 S5: buildings in Anchorage, Alaska. But we drive from kind of 717 00:38:42,080 --> 00:38:45,640 S5: the hillside across town, downtown, across the bridge, Ship Creek, 718 00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:48,799 S5: a beautiful river. Well, no, it's not beautiful at all. 719 00:38:48,800 --> 00:38:51,120 S5: It's beautiful when it's low and it's running out, but 720 00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:55,040 S5: it's right at the mouth of Ship Creek, where tides 721 00:38:55,040 --> 00:38:57,860 S5: from Cook Inlet come in and come out every six 722 00:38:57,860 --> 00:39:02,520 S5: hours over 20 foot tides. So imagine where you're standing 723 00:39:02,520 --> 00:39:06,020 S5: at your feet. There's no water. And then in six 724 00:39:06,020 --> 00:39:11,760 S5: hours you are 14ft underwater. If you're six feet tall, 725 00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:15,200 S5: 14ft underwater. So you got to get that. You got to. 726 00:39:15,360 --> 00:39:18,040 S5: This is not like Tahiti, where you've got, you know, 727 00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:21,760 S5: six inch tides or something like that. These are monster tides, 728 00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:26,200 S5: second biggest in the world. And it can get dicey. 729 00:39:26,200 --> 00:39:28,520 S5: And what's what the tides bring in are a lot 730 00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:30,760 S5: of silt and mud. And it's just I mean, it's 731 00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:33,840 S5: always there. So the tide was out. We were waiting 732 00:39:33,840 --> 00:39:36,640 S5: for the incoming tide to bring in more salmon, because 733 00:39:36,640 --> 00:39:41,080 S5: the tides at peak runs bring in big thousands upon 734 00:39:41,120 --> 00:39:44,040 S5: thousands of salmon. And these things are getting ready to feed. 735 00:39:44,040 --> 00:39:47,439 S5: And they hit eggs on a single hook or treble hook, 736 00:39:47,440 --> 00:39:50,080 S5: something like that. Sometimes they'll hit a pixie. If you're 737 00:39:50,080 --> 00:39:54,440 S5: a fisherman, they'll hit a pixie out there. And so 738 00:39:55,120 --> 00:39:58,520 S5: we're getting our rambler backed up. Yep. Yeah. Rambler. If 739 00:39:58,560 --> 00:40:01,520 S5: you've never seen a rambler. Boy, what a beast to behold. 740 00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:05,799 S5: Rattles all the way. Wherever you drive, it just rattles 741 00:40:05,920 --> 00:40:07,200 S5: the rattle and rambler. 742 00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:08,320 S4: I remember those. 743 00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:11,720 S5: Oh my word. So we back up to a parking space, 744 00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:13,239 S5: and we're getting all of our gear out and getting 745 00:40:13,239 --> 00:40:16,080 S5: ready to go. We got our hip waders on, and 746 00:40:16,080 --> 00:40:17,360 S5: we aren't going to go all the way down to 747 00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:20,080 S5: the bottom. We're going to wait for this tide to 748 00:40:20,120 --> 00:40:22,200 S5: come in. And the banks are pretty steep, but they're 749 00:40:22,200 --> 00:40:25,359 S5: filled with this silty mud. And we see a guy 750 00:40:25,360 --> 00:40:27,360 S5: down there fishing, and there were others down there fishing. 751 00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:29,520 S5: But you got to pick your route very carefully. And 752 00:40:29,520 --> 00:40:33,520 S5: he didn't. And he's getting stuck in the mud. It's 753 00:40:33,520 --> 00:40:36,239 S5: got we got time. Tide hasn't turned yet and the 754 00:40:36,239 --> 00:40:39,000 S5: tide doesn't come in immediately. Over six hours you get 755 00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:43,640 S5: over 20ft of water in there. But he starts to 756 00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:45,960 S5: get stuck. And my dad's looking at this guy, and 757 00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:48,360 S5: I'm looking at dad, and he's looking down at me, 758 00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:51,040 S5: and he's now looking at the guy down on the mudflats, 759 00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:53,480 S5: deep down right at the creek bed where it's running 760 00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:55,200 S5: out and the tide is beginning to turn. So now 761 00:40:55,200 --> 00:40:57,600 S5: the creek that was running out is now still and 762 00:40:57,600 --> 00:41:00,879 S5: water is starting to come in. And he yells down. 763 00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:02,239 S5: The guy says, hey, you're going to want to get 764 00:41:02,239 --> 00:41:05,960 S5: up out of there. Well, he tries, but every time 765 00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:08,680 S5: he put down his foot, it would go. It would 766 00:41:08,719 --> 00:41:11,600 S5: sink more deeply into the mud, and then he'd push 767 00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:14,400 S5: with the other foot, and that foot would go further down. 768 00:41:14,400 --> 00:41:16,920 S5: And he wasn't making any headway. He was getting deeper 769 00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:22,640 S5: and deeper into the mudflats, dangerous mudflats of Alaska. He's 770 00:41:22,640 --> 00:41:24,680 S5: got a tackle box in one hand. He's got a 771 00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:28,280 S5: rod and reel. Nice rig, everything beautiful, man. Just like new. 772 00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:33,120 S5: That's probably part of the problem here. And my dad 773 00:41:33,120 --> 00:41:35,840 S5: at one point says, hey, buddy, uh, we're going to 774 00:41:35,840 --> 00:41:39,359 S5: have to help you here. He says, okay. And my 775 00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:41,560 S5: dad throws down a rope. He says, tie it around 776 00:41:41,560 --> 00:41:43,279 S5: your waist. He says, I'm going to hook this up 777 00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:45,600 S5: to the car, and I'm going to gently give you 778 00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:47,200 S5: a little tug here and we're going to get you 779 00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:51,520 S5: pulled out. And he tries it. My dad just told 780 00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:53,440 S5: him one thing. He said, lay down on the mud, 781 00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:55,359 S5: and the guy didn't want to do that. You don't 782 00:41:55,360 --> 00:41:56,640 S5: want to lay down on the mud. You got all 783 00:41:56,640 --> 00:41:58,919 S5: this nice gear and equipment. You got your coat on, 784 00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:00,960 S5: you got everything going. You're like, ah, I don't want 785 00:42:00,960 --> 00:42:02,680 S5: to lay it on the mud. He thought, I'm just 786 00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:04,439 S5: going to let him tug on me a little bit. Well, 787 00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:08,960 S5: nothing's working because it's leverage, man. And this guy's standing up. 788 00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:12,399 S5: So my dad gets out of the rambler, yells down 789 00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:15,000 S5: at him, Bud, you're going to have to lay down. 790 00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:17,680 S5: You've got to lay down on the mud. You can't 791 00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:20,320 S5: worry about getting dirty now. The water's coming in, guys, 792 00:42:21,160 --> 00:42:23,080 S5: and it's just a couple of feet from him at 793 00:42:23,080 --> 00:42:26,640 S5: this point. So the only way and just dawned on 794 00:42:26,640 --> 00:42:28,560 S5: me when I've told this story so many times, it 795 00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:30,399 S5: just dawned on me because the only way you're going 796 00:42:30,440 --> 00:42:32,040 S5: to get out of there is to lay down. Now 797 00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:35,040 S5: he's going to be right near the water's surface really quickly. 798 00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:35,720 S2: Yeah. 799 00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:39,200 S5: So as my dad puts a tug to it on 800 00:42:39,200 --> 00:42:42,800 S5: the Rambler, this guy lays down in the mud finally. 801 00:42:42,800 --> 00:42:45,200 S5: And as he lays down, put a little pressure on 802 00:42:45,239 --> 00:42:48,959 S5: that rope. And slowly but surely, this guy gets pulled 803 00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:51,920 S5: out of his hip. Waders. Hip waders. Long gone. They're 804 00:42:51,960 --> 00:42:54,160 S5: there forever buried in the mudflats. 805 00:42:55,440 --> 00:42:56,360 S2: On Ship Creek. 806 00:42:56,840 --> 00:42:59,360 S5: Oh, yeah. They're still there. Yeah, they're still there, along 807 00:42:59,360 --> 00:43:01,359 S5: with a lot of other hip waders, by the way. 808 00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:01,840 S2: Yeah. 809 00:43:03,040 --> 00:43:06,839 S5: And so we're pulling we're pulling this guy out. And 810 00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:09,479 S5: when we got him to safety he was one happy guy. 811 00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:14,600 S5: No tackle box, no rod and reel, no equipment and 812 00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:18,440 S5: mud all over him. But he's alive. And here's the 813 00:43:18,440 --> 00:43:22,919 S5: spiritual point of the day. Look, you might get it, 814 00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:26,000 S5: but if you didn't, let me just tell you what's 815 00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:30,319 S5: going on here spiritually. If you humble yourself under the 816 00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:33,360 S5: mighty hand of God, he will lift you up. This 817 00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:36,279 S5: attempting to get out of whatever you are in that 818 00:43:36,280 --> 00:43:40,640 S5: has you stuck spiritually. You keep working yourself and all 819 00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:43,359 S5: you're going to get is deeper into the silt and 820 00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:49,120 S5: the soup of life. This is God's job. God actually 821 00:43:49,120 --> 00:43:51,640 S5: stands in opposition to the proud, but he gives grace. 822 00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:54,480 S5: In other words, his power to the humble. Lay yourself down. 823 00:43:56,239 --> 00:43:58,879 S5: The fear of the Lord is instruction in wisdom and 824 00:43:58,880 --> 00:44:05,640 S5: humility comes before honor. And the reward for humility and 825 00:44:05,640 --> 00:44:08,600 S5: fear of the Lord is riches and honor and life. 826 00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:13,200 S5: This guy lived again. He was grateful to dad. Gave 827 00:44:13,200 --> 00:44:15,839 S5: him a big old hug. You might say, man, a 828 00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:19,399 S5: muddy guy like that, he he must have known what 829 00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:21,960 S5: was coming his way. He ultimately put two and two 830 00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:25,240 S5: together and goes, whew! If not for this guy coming along, 831 00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:32,960 S5: my dad, I'd be a dead man. There's a lot 832 00:44:32,960 --> 00:44:37,960 S5: of self effort that goes into getting ourselves unstuck from 833 00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:43,640 S5: sin that's missing the mark. Something that's got you and I. 834 00:44:43,640 --> 00:44:46,040 S5: And I go back to this often because it's become 835 00:44:46,040 --> 00:44:49,319 S5: a big thing in Christian circles. Some people have have 836 00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:52,400 S5: thought the grace of God has given me permission to 837 00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:55,319 S5: fill in the blank. And and one of them is alcohol. 838 00:44:55,320 --> 00:44:56,960 S5: And the reason I'm on this is I see how 839 00:44:56,960 --> 00:45:02,480 S5: devastating it is to even genuine Jesus followers who need 840 00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:07,280 S5: wine more than they need God, or so they think. 841 00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:12,719 S5: And I just want you to know today, if it's 842 00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:18,120 S5: if it's lack of good time redemption, if it's you're 843 00:45:18,120 --> 00:45:21,719 S5: stuck in the soup of alcohol, you're stuck in the 844 00:45:21,719 --> 00:45:27,959 S5: soup of self-righteousness and pride, and you're just working your 845 00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:30,760 S5: way and you're just going further and further into the mud. 846 00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:32,760 S5: I want you to know there's one way out, one 847 00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:35,080 S5: way only, and that's to humble yourself under the mighty 848 00:45:35,120 --> 00:45:37,759 S5: hand of God. And he will lift you up. He 849 00:45:37,760 --> 00:45:41,150 S5: will do it. Coming up here in a moment, I'm 850 00:45:41,150 --> 00:45:44,390 S5: going to have a very different conversation. Host to host 851 00:45:44,390 --> 00:45:46,390 S5: Chris Faber is going to be with me. We're going 852 00:45:46,430 --> 00:45:50,150 S5: to talk about the deeper things of life, hearing the 853 00:45:50,150 --> 00:45:53,790 S5: voice of God. I'm going to ask him questions like, 854 00:45:54,310 --> 00:45:56,469 S5: you've seen a lot of people walk in victory. What's 855 00:45:56,469 --> 00:46:01,430 S5: characteristic of these people that walk in victory? What defines 856 00:46:01,469 --> 00:46:04,550 S5: a person that gets unstuck from the stuff of life? 857 00:46:05,190 --> 00:46:08,229 S5: Hang on, my friend and yours, Chris Faber, coming up 858 00:46:08,230 --> 00:46:08,990 S5: straight ahead. 859 00:46:09,790 --> 00:46:13,550 S1: Your spiritual pit stop to keep you going in the race. 860 00:46:13,670 --> 00:46:15,910 S1: You're listening to Carl and crew. 861 00:46:16,390 --> 00:46:18,910 S5: What do you do when you get stuck spiritually? You 862 00:46:18,910 --> 00:46:21,589 S5: feel like the joy is gone. Self-control is gone. Those 863 00:46:21,590 --> 00:46:26,629 S5: are fruits of the spirit. Peace, kindness. I gotta tell you, 864 00:46:26,630 --> 00:46:29,069 S5: the way up is down. God's economy. Young thunder. We 865 00:46:29,110 --> 00:46:31,069 S5: say it around here all the time, my man. In 866 00:46:31,070 --> 00:46:35,110 S5: God's economy, the way up is down. Always and forever. 867 00:46:35,190 --> 00:46:38,310 S2: No doubt about it. It's. it is so counterintuitive to 868 00:46:38,350 --> 00:46:41,989 S2: what the world would say you have to do. But 869 00:46:41,989 --> 00:46:43,430 S2: it works every time. 870 00:46:43,630 --> 00:46:45,669 S5: Yeah. You might be on a mad scramble today, going, 871 00:46:45,710 --> 00:46:47,550 S5: how am I going to get out of this mess? 872 00:46:47,550 --> 00:46:50,430 S5: And the I think the conventional wisdom is you got 873 00:46:50,430 --> 00:46:52,910 S5: to try a little harder. What if we told you 874 00:46:52,910 --> 00:46:56,270 S5: you got to go a little lower with me right now? Oh, 875 00:46:56,430 --> 00:46:59,669 S5: good man of God. Chris Fabry from Chris Fabry live. 876 00:46:59,710 --> 00:47:00,950 S5: How you doing, young man? 877 00:47:01,230 --> 00:47:05,270 S1: I'm awake and upright and ambulatory. How about you, Carl? 878 00:47:05,310 --> 00:47:07,790 S5: I'm doing great. You know what? I want to peel 879 00:47:07,790 --> 00:47:09,989 S5: it back. Let's get after it. Here. You've talked with 880 00:47:09,989 --> 00:47:11,990 S5: a lot of people over a lot of years. You've 881 00:47:11,989 --> 00:47:14,910 S5: seen those that have walked in victory. No one is. 882 00:47:15,469 --> 00:47:19,470 S5: No one is immune or avoids getting stuck at times 883 00:47:19,469 --> 00:47:23,270 S5: in life. And it can be. It can be a 884 00:47:23,590 --> 00:47:25,989 S5: missing of the mark, a sin. That's what it's called 885 00:47:25,989 --> 00:47:28,109 S5: in Scripture, just means to miss the mark. It can 886 00:47:28,110 --> 00:47:31,150 S5: be a repetitive thing that it's like, boy, I'm living 887 00:47:31,150 --> 00:47:33,510 S5: in secret with this thing and I can't get out. 888 00:47:34,190 --> 00:47:37,790 S5: This whole issue of humility, Chris. It's foundational, isn't it, 889 00:47:37,830 --> 00:47:39,630 S5: my man? Pour out your heart for a minute. 890 00:47:39,670 --> 00:47:41,910 S1: Yeah. You and I have both the same book that 891 00:47:41,910 --> 00:47:44,430 S1: we've gone through several times by Andrew Murray. 892 00:47:45,510 --> 00:47:46,350 S5: Murray guy. 893 00:47:46,430 --> 00:47:49,549 S1: I had a listener send this to me, and she said, 894 00:47:49,550 --> 00:47:52,390 S1: I think you'd really like this. And it's like, I 895 00:47:52,430 --> 00:47:55,630 S1: don't I don't look at things that I don't underline, 896 00:47:55,630 --> 00:47:59,950 S1: underline everything, you know, but, um, yeah, the one of the, 897 00:47:59,989 --> 00:48:02,430 S1: one of the things that I have and this echoes 898 00:48:02,430 --> 00:48:05,230 S1: from Don Cole, who used to be radio pastor, and 899 00:48:05,230 --> 00:48:07,669 S1: it was a good friend that I worked side by 900 00:48:07,670 --> 00:48:11,109 S1: side with who taught me so much. But his line 901 00:48:11,110 --> 00:48:13,430 S1: that I continue to remember, if you're going to walk 902 00:48:13,430 --> 00:48:16,430 S1: in victory, you have to see struggle not as failure, 903 00:48:16,430 --> 00:48:20,109 S1: but as a sign of God at work. And the 904 00:48:20,110 --> 00:48:23,229 S1: thing that I see in people who get stuck is 905 00:48:23,270 --> 00:48:28,110 S1: they they start looking at themselves rather than the sovereignty 906 00:48:28,190 --> 00:48:30,950 S1: of God, the goodness of God. You know, hearing his 907 00:48:30,950 --> 00:48:34,750 S1: voice in the middle of the stuckness that God is 908 00:48:34,750 --> 00:48:37,910 S1: using this thing in my life, if I will let 909 00:48:37,910 --> 00:48:41,070 S1: go of it, if I will let go of even 910 00:48:41,070 --> 00:48:44,750 S1: the ability for me to feel better about myself and 911 00:48:44,790 --> 00:48:47,390 S1: will just say, look, this is where I am. This 912 00:48:47,390 --> 00:48:49,989 S1: is where I'm walking in this slough of despond or 913 00:48:49,989 --> 00:48:53,870 S1: whatever it is. If I let that do its work, 914 00:48:53,870 --> 00:48:56,950 S1: let the weakness do its work in my heart, then 915 00:48:56,950 --> 00:49:00,070 S1: I will be in a much better place, because that's 916 00:49:00,070 --> 00:49:02,670 S1: the place of surrender and submission to him. 917 00:49:02,910 --> 00:49:06,870 S5: Yeah. Weakness. It's an interesting thing. Nobody claims weakness as 918 00:49:06,870 --> 00:49:09,870 S5: a commodity, but in God's kingdom it is in our weakness. 919 00:49:09,870 --> 00:49:13,029 S5: He is strong. Second Corinthians 12. Amazing passage. If you 920 00:49:13,030 --> 00:49:16,109 S5: need that today, go there. Give us a story from 921 00:49:16,110 --> 00:49:18,110 S5: your life, and I want you to be as vulnerable 922 00:49:18,110 --> 00:49:21,189 S5: as you can be here. We're big on authenticity and 923 00:49:21,190 --> 00:49:24,430 S5: you are too. Chris, how does this work in your life? 924 00:49:24,550 --> 00:49:28,790 S1: Well, the thing that came to my mind very first was, uh, 925 00:49:28,790 --> 00:49:31,189 S1: the house that we lived in in Colorado a few 926 00:49:31,350 --> 00:49:34,790 S1: years ago, and we were stuck in this place at 927 00:49:34,830 --> 00:49:37,950 S1: a place where our kids were sick, our pets were sick, 928 00:49:37,989 --> 00:49:41,310 S1: my wife and I were sick, and we we couldn't 929 00:49:41,310 --> 00:49:43,990 S1: figure it out. And we'd done all that. We'd run 930 00:49:43,989 --> 00:49:47,390 S1: to every doctor. I mean, it was something like Andrea, uh, 931 00:49:47,710 --> 00:49:51,830 S1: catalogued 60 to 70 some doctors for all of the 932 00:49:51,830 --> 00:49:55,510 S1: different maladies that that everybody had. And they were all different. 933 00:49:55,750 --> 00:49:58,910 S1: We couldn't figure it out. And a neighbor of ours said, 934 00:49:58,910 --> 00:50:01,229 S1: have you ever thought that maybe it's your house that's 935 00:50:01,230 --> 00:50:04,750 S1: making you sick? And at first we kind of pushed 936 00:50:04,750 --> 00:50:09,509 S1: it off, and then we started thinking, well, maybe there's 937 00:50:09,510 --> 00:50:13,070 S1: something to this. And I was on an airplane coming 938 00:50:13,070 --> 00:50:17,630 S1: back from Chicago to Colorado, and Andrea had just called 939 00:50:17,630 --> 00:50:21,590 S1: me and she had talked with another expert who said, 940 00:50:21,750 --> 00:50:24,110 S1: I think this is right. I think it's your house 941 00:50:24,110 --> 00:50:26,549 S1: that's making you sick. And I think you need to 942 00:50:26,550 --> 00:50:31,750 S1: leave it. I think you need to to walk away. Wow. And, uh, 943 00:50:31,989 --> 00:50:33,790 S1: and this is a house that we thought we were 944 00:50:33,790 --> 00:50:35,270 S1: going to, you know, we bought it. 945 00:50:35,310 --> 00:50:36,149 S5: That's your life house? 946 00:50:36,230 --> 00:50:38,350 S1: Yeah. It was. We were going to die in that house. 947 00:50:38,350 --> 00:50:41,910 S1: We almost did. Um, and and as I'm. And as 948 00:50:41,910 --> 00:50:45,030 S1: I'm flying back, I'm, I'm running through all this stuff, 949 00:50:45,030 --> 00:50:48,469 S1: especially for me as provider, you know, I what's going 950 00:50:48,469 --> 00:50:50,990 S1: to happen to us financially if we do this. What's 951 00:50:51,510 --> 00:50:53,989 S1: this is a huge how in the world and all 952 00:50:54,030 --> 00:50:57,990 S1: of this. And I got to the place where I said, 953 00:50:58,270 --> 00:51:01,029 S1: you know, if, if, if we're wrong about this, if 954 00:51:01,030 --> 00:51:04,629 S1: the doctor's wrong, if my wife is wrong, then we 955 00:51:04,630 --> 00:51:08,390 S1: can go back. If the doctor's right and my wife 956 00:51:08,390 --> 00:51:12,390 S1: is right, then what will I think 10 or 15 957 00:51:12,390 --> 00:51:15,390 S1: years down the road if I don't, if I don't 958 00:51:15,390 --> 00:51:22,510 S1: surrender this. And and so that plane flight was my Gethsemane. Uh, 959 00:51:22,910 --> 00:51:25,790 S1: am I going to. And no sweat. Drops of blood. 960 00:51:26,030 --> 00:51:29,390 S1: But it was just this wrestling. And by the time 961 00:51:29,390 --> 00:51:33,430 S1: I landed in Denver and then had to drive the 962 00:51:33,430 --> 00:51:36,230 S1: two hours, you know, south to get there, I was 963 00:51:36,230 --> 00:51:38,750 S1: I was at the place where I was ready to say, okay. 964 00:51:38,989 --> 00:51:41,469 S1: And it went in and I took my suit off 965 00:51:41,750 --> 00:51:45,830 S1: and laid my, you know, a valise or whatever I 966 00:51:45,830 --> 00:51:49,989 S1: was carrying, you know, the the knapsack down. And I 967 00:51:49,989 --> 00:51:52,830 S1: got dressed in a t shirt and shorts and walked 968 00:51:52,830 --> 00:51:56,030 S1: out the door, and that was it. Everything we had 969 00:51:56,030 --> 00:52:00,270 S1: in the house, we left there and we walked away. Now, 970 00:52:00,310 --> 00:52:03,230 S1: I worked in the. There's more to this story, I'll 971 00:52:03,230 --> 00:52:07,509 S1: tell you later, but that's basically I had to I 972 00:52:07,510 --> 00:52:12,150 S1: had to surrender in order to get to the life 973 00:52:12,150 --> 00:52:15,790 S1: and the the healing and the repair. And it was 974 00:52:15,790 --> 00:52:19,549 S1: it was brutal. It was grueling. You know, everything in 975 00:52:19,590 --> 00:52:23,950 S1: me screamed, no, don't, don't do that. You can't do. 976 00:52:23,950 --> 00:52:28,910 S1: That's a dumb thing to do. Um, but then I 977 00:52:28,910 --> 00:52:32,510 S1: started to see the turnaround. Then I started to see 978 00:52:32,510 --> 00:52:36,670 S1: the health that came from those decisions, breathing clean air. 979 00:52:36,710 --> 00:52:39,989 S1: We had stachybotrys behind the walls. You know, it was 980 00:52:40,030 --> 00:52:43,870 S1: this black mold that we couldn't see. Yeah. And and 981 00:52:43,870 --> 00:52:46,509 S1: it was affecting all of us. It was affecting all 982 00:52:46,510 --> 00:52:49,150 S1: of us differently, too. That's the thing. It's the thing that, 983 00:52:49,190 --> 00:52:52,390 S1: you know, sin will do. It'll affect one person one 984 00:52:52,390 --> 00:52:55,790 S1: way and another person another way. So that has been 985 00:52:55,790 --> 00:52:59,710 S1: this object lesson in my life, that if you will 986 00:52:59,710 --> 00:53:02,989 S1: surrender and I'm not telling everybody, everybody gets mold. You 987 00:53:02,989 --> 00:53:04,630 S1: don't have to walk away from your house. There are 988 00:53:04,630 --> 00:53:07,910 S1: things that you can do. But for me, spiritually, that's 989 00:53:07,910 --> 00:53:11,709 S1: the thing. I got to lay down my own ability, 990 00:53:11,750 --> 00:53:16,430 S1: my own actions, my own, uh, stress and struggle, you know, 991 00:53:16,469 --> 00:53:19,350 S1: in this whole thing, and allow God to do what 992 00:53:19,350 --> 00:53:20,390 S1: he's going to do. 993 00:53:20,750 --> 00:53:24,509 S5: Yeah. Chris, it's it's interesting because that's a great metaphor. 994 00:53:25,190 --> 00:53:28,350 S5: There is something in our lives and it and it 995 00:53:28,390 --> 00:53:34,310 S5: affects everyone differently. Uh, that moment of humility you're going 996 00:53:34,310 --> 00:53:36,750 S5: up against a lot. What are people going to think? 997 00:53:36,790 --> 00:53:39,750 S5: Am I going to look crazy? Uh, those are real 998 00:53:39,790 --> 00:53:42,509 S5: battles that we face. And they're just. You're talking to 999 00:53:42,510 --> 00:53:45,189 S5: a lot of people right now that feel stuck. And 1000 00:53:45,190 --> 00:53:47,709 S5: it might not be a moldy home. It could be 1001 00:53:47,710 --> 00:53:50,390 S5: stuck in you name it, fill in the blank. And 1002 00:53:50,430 --> 00:53:53,189 S5: I want you to do this exercise right now. If 1003 00:53:53,190 --> 00:53:55,910 S5: you could get victory over this one thing that God's 1004 00:53:55,910 --> 00:53:58,509 S5: revealed to you that you know would have a domino 1005 00:53:58,510 --> 00:54:02,310 S5: effect to every other victory and promise in Christ Jesus, 1006 00:54:02,310 --> 00:54:04,790 S5: what would that one thing be? And if the Spirit 1007 00:54:04,790 --> 00:54:07,230 S5: of God laid that on your heart? Right now, a 1008 00:54:07,270 --> 00:54:09,430 S5: lot of people have brought to mind so many different 1009 00:54:09,430 --> 00:54:12,710 S5: things right now that they know they need to walk 1010 00:54:12,710 --> 00:54:17,390 S5: away from in humility and surrender. What do you say, Chris? 1011 00:54:17,390 --> 00:54:20,270 S5: Because there's a lot of voices from Satan and demonic 1012 00:54:20,270 --> 00:54:23,589 S5: forces that are lying and screaming in our ears. What 1013 00:54:23,590 --> 00:54:24,190 S5: do you say? 1014 00:54:25,110 --> 00:54:28,990 S1: I say what Andrew Murray said, do what God says 1015 00:54:28,989 --> 00:54:33,549 S1: is your work and that is humble yourself. Trust him 1016 00:54:33,550 --> 00:54:36,549 S1: to do what he says is his work. He will 1017 00:54:36,550 --> 00:54:42,430 S1: exalt you in due time if you will obey him. Again, 1018 00:54:42,430 --> 00:54:45,989 S1: I go back to Gethsemane, not my will, but yours. 1019 00:54:46,430 --> 00:54:52,870 S1: And and that is the full rock ribbed. Trust that 1020 00:54:52,870 --> 00:54:57,230 S1: God is good, first of all, that he is sovereign. 1021 00:54:57,390 --> 00:55:00,710 S1: Second of all, that he is at work in whatever 1022 00:55:00,710 --> 00:55:03,630 S1: this thing is that you don't want to be stuck in. 1023 00:55:04,030 --> 00:55:07,750 S1: Third of all, and your work is to humble yourself 1024 00:55:07,750 --> 00:55:10,390 S1: and to say, I can't do this, I need, I 1025 00:55:10,390 --> 00:55:15,310 S1: need your help, God. And that then invites other people in. 1026 00:55:15,430 --> 00:55:18,989 S1: I talk with Tommy and Kevin yesterday about, you know, 1027 00:55:19,030 --> 00:55:23,060 S1: hospitality of weakness, that our weakness is the very place, 1028 00:55:23,060 --> 00:55:26,940 S1: the entree for not only God to work in us, 1029 00:55:27,140 --> 00:55:29,500 S1: but then to connect us with the people that are 1030 00:55:29,500 --> 00:55:31,500 S1: around us who really care about us. 1031 00:55:31,860 --> 00:55:35,620 S5: I love it. Chris, this is an important topic. There's 1032 00:55:35,620 --> 00:55:40,900 S5: no more important topic. I mean, Andrew Murray says humility 1033 00:55:40,900 --> 00:55:45,700 S5: is the one virtue that gives birth to every other virtue. 1034 00:55:45,739 --> 00:55:48,540 S5: You've you've tested that. It's true, isn't it, my man? 1035 00:55:48,860 --> 00:55:52,459 S1: Yeah it is. And and but it's hard. It's hard 1036 00:55:52,460 --> 00:55:55,460 S1: to lean into that because everything in me wants to. Well, 1037 00:55:55,460 --> 00:55:56,859 S1: I want to do this and I want to get 1038 00:55:56,860 --> 00:55:59,820 S1: another expert. And I want to remediate again, you know, 1039 00:56:00,580 --> 00:56:02,780 S1: and spend a lot more money on this thing because 1040 00:56:02,780 --> 00:56:05,700 S1: I want to salvage this thing. It's like, no, no, 1041 00:56:06,100 --> 00:56:11,500 S1: walk away in humility. Allow God to do in you 1042 00:56:11,540 --> 00:56:14,700 S1: what you can't do yourself so that through you he 1043 00:56:14,700 --> 00:56:15,660 S1: can be strong. 1044 00:56:16,100 --> 00:56:19,940 S5: Yeah. That's beautiful. That's exactly what God had us talking 1045 00:56:19,940 --> 00:56:23,700 S5: about today, Chris. I love you, my man. You're listening 1046 00:56:23,900 --> 00:56:24,820 S5: to this girl. 1047 00:56:24,980 --> 00:56:26,899 S1: I'm glad to get to to talk with you early 1048 00:56:26,900 --> 00:56:29,140 S1: in the morning here. Yes, it's early for me. 1049 00:56:29,380 --> 00:56:31,740 S5: Well, it's early for us still, but it's real early 1050 00:56:31,739 --> 00:56:34,500 S5: for you. Chris, I want to thank you. You're listening 1051 00:56:34,500 --> 00:56:36,739 S5: right now to a man that you might say, man, 1052 00:56:36,739 --> 00:56:39,540 S5: that guy's got a radio voice. Well, he's got a 1053 00:56:39,540 --> 00:56:44,220 S5: radio show. It's called Chris Fabry Live, and he's an 1054 00:56:44,219 --> 00:56:48,140 S5: author of some great novels, great works. And we've got 1055 00:56:48,140 --> 00:56:51,899 S5: a one stop shop for you. Ours got there's an 1056 00:56:51,900 --> 00:56:57,540 S5: hour filled with power and really cool ways. Uh, Chris 1057 00:56:57,580 --> 00:57:01,100 S5: is not nearly as rambunctious as his friend Carl. That's 1058 00:57:01,100 --> 00:57:05,740 S5: a good word. Rambunctious. But boy, he is sincere. And 1059 00:57:05,739 --> 00:57:08,100 S5: he brings in some phenomenal guests. You're going to want 1060 00:57:08,140 --> 00:57:10,300 S5: to check it out. I just want you to, uh. 1061 00:57:10,300 --> 00:57:13,500 S5: You can check out novels. You can check out where 1062 00:57:13,500 --> 00:57:15,540 S5: how you can listen to Chris in your listening area, 1063 00:57:15,540 --> 00:57:18,300 S5: wherever you are in North America and beyond. I want 1064 00:57:18,300 --> 00:57:22,420 S5: you to check it out. Just text live. Just one word. Live. 1065 00:57:22,780 --> 00:57:25,740 S5: That's for Chris Fabry. Live. You got it. Text live 1066 00:57:25,740 --> 00:57:30,860 S5: to 800 555 7898. Just that one word. Live to 1067 00:57:30,900 --> 00:57:36,220 S5: 800 555 7898. And, Chris, I want to thank you 1068 00:57:36,220 --> 00:57:38,900 S5: from the bottom of my heart. This is this is 1069 00:57:38,900 --> 00:57:43,780 S5: really cool. I'm God's doing a great work here today. Um, 1070 00:57:43,780 --> 00:57:46,660 S5: I it's been really interesting, man. I had Ronnie Floyd 1071 00:57:46,660 --> 00:57:52,340 S5: on earlier, and, uh, there's something about stopping to consider 1072 00:57:52,340 --> 00:57:56,540 S5: beyond all the hustle behind all the beyond all the 1073 00:57:57,020 --> 00:58:01,780 S5: outward Christianity. It's those hidden places, those secret places where 1074 00:58:01,820 --> 00:58:04,060 S5: God does his most powerful work. I'm going to give 1075 00:58:04,060 --> 00:58:05,900 S5: you a final word, Chris. What's on your heart? 1076 00:58:06,180 --> 00:58:09,380 S1: Well, the first step in this whole thing is to 1077 00:58:09,420 --> 00:58:12,660 S1: see it. And if God is pressing down on that 1078 00:58:12,660 --> 00:58:15,260 S1: nerve in your life and you say, I see. Slow 1079 00:58:15,340 --> 00:58:18,020 S1: down long enough to be able to see it then. 1080 00:58:18,340 --> 00:58:20,620 S1: That's the first step. That's a good thing. It's a 1081 00:58:20,620 --> 00:58:24,420 S1: hard thing. And if you're if you're struggling with that, again, 1082 00:58:24,420 --> 00:58:27,060 S1: it's not a sign of failure. Struggle is a sign 1083 00:58:27,100 --> 00:58:29,740 S1: of life. Lean into that and let God do his 1084 00:58:29,740 --> 00:58:32,220 S1: work in you and through you today. 1085 00:58:32,420 --> 00:58:36,260 S5: Good word again. The word is live. L I v 1086 00:58:36,340 --> 00:58:41,580 S5: e l I v e to 800 555 7898. 1087 00:58:42,060 --> 00:58:45,060 S13: He was sharing the gospel on the radio and then 1088 00:58:45,100 --> 00:58:49,580 S13: he got saved. Young thunders in the crew. It's Colin 1089 00:58:49,580 --> 00:58:51,180 S13: crew on Moody radio. 1090 00:58:51,460 --> 00:58:54,540 S5: All right, so we're talking about a tough one, and 1091 00:58:54,540 --> 00:58:56,260 S5: some of you might be tempted to turn away. And 1092 00:58:56,260 --> 00:59:03,340 S5: that is sacrifice over riches or sacrifice over any substitute God, 1093 00:59:03,340 --> 00:59:05,060 S5: something that may be getting in the way. So I'm 1094 00:59:05,060 --> 00:59:07,380 S5: going to have some fun with this one. I want 1095 00:59:07,420 --> 00:59:10,380 S5: to ask you, Young Thunder, what is the crazy little 1096 00:59:10,380 --> 00:59:13,820 S5: thing that has such great value in your life. 1097 00:59:13,940 --> 00:59:17,900 S2: It's a good question. Uh, sports. Sports is the crazy 1098 00:59:17,900 --> 00:59:20,980 S2: little thing that has, uh, so much value in my life. 1099 00:59:21,020 --> 00:59:23,540 S5: You know what? That that's a good one to talk about. 1100 00:59:23,540 --> 00:59:26,660 S5: Because sports is blowing up right now, and, you know, 1101 00:59:26,660 --> 00:59:28,940 S5: it's become an idol when you got these prop bets, 1102 00:59:28,980 --> 00:59:30,300 S5: things going on. You know, they're. 1103 00:59:30,300 --> 00:59:30,580 S2: Trying. 1104 00:59:30,580 --> 00:59:34,060 S5: To pass legislation now so that prop bets, what are 1105 00:59:34,060 --> 00:59:36,500 S5: prop bets by the way in that in game betting 1106 00:59:36,500 --> 00:59:37,060 S5: or something. 1107 00:59:37,100 --> 00:59:41,700 S2: Yes. So uh, you know, for example, it can be, uh, 1108 00:59:41,700 --> 00:59:45,580 S2: a football game, the bears versus the Steelers. Uh, you 1109 00:59:45,620 --> 00:59:48,740 S2: can make bets that what are the bears going to 1110 00:59:48,740 --> 00:59:51,060 S2: do on this play? Are they going to pass it? 1111 00:59:51,060 --> 00:59:53,420 S2: Are they going to run it? And then there's odds 1112 00:59:53,420 --> 00:59:56,180 S2: based off of that that you would then bet if 1113 00:59:56,220 --> 00:59:58,420 S2: you bet this side it's less likely. So you'd make 1114 00:59:58,420 --> 01:00:01,020 S2: more money if you won. And this side it's more likely. 1115 01:00:01,060 --> 01:00:03,500 S2: So you'd make less money if you won. Uh, but 1116 01:00:03,500 --> 01:00:06,620 S2: people will bet on the in game. Who's going to 1117 01:00:06,660 --> 01:00:09,260 S2: catch the next ball? You know, that type of thing. 1118 01:00:09,380 --> 01:00:12,100 S5: Yeah. So sports and money are kind of cluttered there 1119 01:00:12,140 --> 01:00:14,780 S5: and you know which one's the god. But I'll confess 1120 01:00:14,780 --> 01:00:16,780 S5: to you, when the 40 Niners were on their run 1121 01:00:16,780 --> 01:00:20,260 S5: in the 80s and early 90s, I was on cloud nine. 1122 01:00:20,260 --> 01:00:22,860 S5: But when they started tailing off a little bit, boy, 1123 01:00:22,860 --> 01:00:25,820 S5: it messed with my psyche. On Sunday afternoons. Allie. 1124 01:00:26,260 --> 01:00:26,980 S2: Absolutely. 1125 01:00:27,020 --> 01:00:29,540 S3: And you can see it because, you know and I 1126 01:00:29,660 --> 01:00:33,940 S3: mine is probably sports, but it's specifically like my kids sports. 1127 01:00:34,220 --> 01:00:34,860 S5: Yeah. You're a. 1128 01:00:34,860 --> 01:00:38,820 S3: Mama. Find yourself becoming overly invested. And, you know, my 1129 01:00:38,820 --> 01:00:43,060 S3: daughter's high school basketball season kicked off, and I found 1130 01:00:43,060 --> 01:00:48,180 S3: myself so, like, kind of stressed and sort of obsessing 1131 01:00:48,180 --> 01:00:50,380 S3: over it. And I had to check my heart like, 1132 01:00:50,380 --> 01:00:53,900 S3: why is this why? Why is this so tethered to 1133 01:00:53,940 --> 01:00:57,060 S3: my emotions? Why am I thinking about this so much? 1134 01:00:57,100 --> 01:01:01,540 S3: And I realized that this can become the thing that 1135 01:01:01,540 --> 01:01:02,740 S3: has a hold. 1136 01:01:02,900 --> 01:01:05,419 S5: Okay, so here's what we're going to do coming up. 1137 01:01:05,420 --> 01:01:08,580 S5: We are going to let Ali testify how the Lordship 1138 01:01:08,580 --> 01:01:13,020 S5: of Jesus Christ works when her daughter or son. And 1139 01:01:13,020 --> 01:01:15,780 S5: this is for all parents because it's relevant to all y'all. 1140 01:01:15,780 --> 01:01:18,340 S5: Don't say you're on the righteous high ground because when 1141 01:01:18,340 --> 01:01:20,660 S5: Johnny's not getting minutes and he should be, and you 1142 01:01:20,660 --> 01:01:23,220 S5: know it because you got a stat box to prove it. 1143 01:01:24,660 --> 01:01:30,220 S5: Or when a foul is missed on your kid, it's like, hey, 1144 01:01:31,380 --> 01:01:35,420 S5: so how do you unwind that and get your get 1145 01:01:35,420 --> 01:01:38,460 S5: your mind back? We'll get that from Ali. Coming up. 1146 01:01:38,980 --> 01:01:43,500 S13: A basketball mom who's mastered the dad joke. Ali is 1147 01:01:43,500 --> 01:01:47,220 S13: in the crew. It's Carl and crew on Moody Radio. 1148 01:01:47,460 --> 01:01:51,180 S5: Okay, so Ali has been honest with this this morning, 1149 01:01:51,180 --> 01:01:54,220 S5: and this is. You're confessing everyone's issue, and that is 1150 01:01:54,260 --> 01:01:57,340 S5: we love our kids so much, and they get into sports. And, 1151 01:01:57,340 --> 01:02:00,020 S5: I mean, it can be eight year olds playing soccer, 1152 01:02:00,060 --> 01:02:00,900 S5: you know what I mean? 1153 01:02:00,940 --> 01:02:02,980 S3: And this can be anything. I mean, as a parent, 1154 01:02:02,980 --> 01:02:05,980 S3: this can go beyond sports. Maybe your kids are into 1155 01:02:06,380 --> 01:02:10,419 S3: music or the arts or their academics. Academics. And you 1156 01:02:10,420 --> 01:02:14,979 S3: can start to very subtly connect how you feel your 1157 01:02:14,980 --> 01:02:19,580 S3: emotions with how well they're doing in whatever arena that 1158 01:02:19,580 --> 01:02:22,860 S3: they're in. And it happens. And I always say, if 1159 01:02:22,900 --> 01:02:26,300 S3: you're if you've never struggled with this at all as 1160 01:02:26,300 --> 01:02:29,660 S3: a parent, I'm not sure you're 100% honest with yourself 1161 01:02:29,660 --> 01:02:32,340 S3: because I don't know a parent who hasn't at least 1162 01:02:32,340 --> 01:02:35,700 S3: had the temptation to make more of whatever it is 1163 01:02:36,100 --> 01:02:37,460 S3: than it should be. Right. 1164 01:02:37,700 --> 01:02:40,860 S5: Yeah. For sure. And and I've been there. And you 1165 01:02:40,860 --> 01:02:43,740 S5: know where you're wrestling with that. You know where you're 1166 01:02:43,740 --> 01:02:45,900 S5: wrestling with that young thunder. You don't know this yet, 1167 01:02:45,900 --> 01:02:48,620 S5: but Ali and I do. It's when you have a 1168 01:02:48,620 --> 01:02:54,180 S5: piece of wood that you're sitting on. It's. Or metal. No. Right. Ali? 1169 01:02:54,220 --> 01:02:54,700 S4: Oh, yeah. 1170 01:02:54,740 --> 01:02:58,220 S5: This is it's called a bleacher. And you get a 1171 01:02:58,220 --> 01:03:01,020 S5: bleacher moment with God, or we're going to take Ali 1172 01:03:01,020 --> 01:03:03,300 S5: to the bleacher, and you're going to hear her story 1173 01:03:03,300 --> 01:03:06,700 S5: about how she wrestles with this real time coming up. 1174 01:03:07,460 --> 01:03:11,460 S13: Walking closer to Jesus every day. You're listening to Carl 1175 01:03:11,460 --> 01:03:12,060 S13: and crew. 1176 01:03:13,020 --> 01:03:16,939 S5: Okay, so we're talking about not being a person that 1177 01:03:16,940 --> 01:03:19,420 S5: has substitute gods. And what do you do when the 1178 01:03:19,420 --> 01:03:23,340 S5: substitute god crops its ugly head? Do you wrestle with 1179 01:03:23,340 --> 01:03:27,380 S5: God or do you let him pin you? So, Allie, 1180 01:03:27,380 --> 01:03:30,540 S5: I'm taking you to a bleacher seat. Most often would. 1181 01:03:30,580 --> 01:03:34,540 S5: Sometimes metal, usually very uncomfortable. On top of that, you 1182 01:03:34,580 --> 01:03:37,940 S5: got an uncomfortable situation. Your kids not getting right, minutes. 1183 01:03:37,940 --> 01:03:41,020 S5: The ref didn't see that foul and you are ticked off. 1184 01:03:41,660 --> 01:03:44,580 S3: I'm actually going to take you to. What usually works 1185 01:03:44,580 --> 01:03:47,540 S3: more for me is the prep the ow before. 1186 01:03:47,860 --> 01:03:49,660 S5: So not not in game. 1187 01:03:49,700 --> 01:03:54,300 S3: The before because I because I know myself, I try 1188 01:03:54,340 --> 01:03:59,100 S3: to prepare my heart. It sounds ridiculous. 1189 01:03:59,140 --> 01:03:59,580 S4: It's not. 1190 01:03:59,620 --> 01:04:00,900 S5: This is really good. 1191 01:04:00,940 --> 01:04:04,300 S3: You know, my daughter plays high school basketball. And so 1192 01:04:04,340 --> 01:04:07,180 S3: I was feeling all types of emotions. This week. I 1193 01:04:07,180 --> 01:04:09,980 S3: was a little stressed. I was a little anxious. I 1194 01:04:09,980 --> 01:04:12,660 S3: found myself really thinking about it. You know, this first 1195 01:04:12,660 --> 01:04:15,660 S3: game is so important. And so I think the first 1196 01:04:15,660 --> 01:04:19,020 S3: thing is just being honest with the Lord. Like I God, 1197 01:04:19,020 --> 01:04:22,180 S3: I care way more than I know that I should 1198 01:04:22,180 --> 01:04:24,900 S3: right now about the outcome of this game, or about 1199 01:04:24,900 --> 01:04:26,540 S3: how well my child performs. 1200 01:04:26,540 --> 01:04:27,580 S14: How do you do that? 1201 01:04:27,620 --> 01:04:31,700 S3: I think the honesty is the first part, the admission, 1202 01:04:31,700 --> 01:04:33,820 S3: because you can try to deny it. You can act 1203 01:04:33,820 --> 01:04:37,060 S3: like it's not there. But I think brutal gut level 1204 01:04:37,060 --> 01:04:40,540 S3: honesty with the Lord is important and then confessing what 1205 01:04:40,540 --> 01:04:43,060 S3: you know to be true. And so for me, that's 1206 01:04:43,060 --> 01:04:46,020 S3: driving to the game. And God, you are sovereign over 1207 01:04:46,020 --> 01:04:50,140 S3: all of this. You hold my child's future. You determine 1208 01:04:50,220 --> 01:04:52,900 S3: what she does, what she doesn't do. I'm not going 1209 01:04:52,940 --> 01:04:55,380 S3: to make more of this game than what there needs 1210 01:04:55,380 --> 01:04:55,900 S3: to be. 1211 01:04:55,940 --> 01:04:57,900 S5: Okay? I was just going to ask you that is, 1212 01:04:57,940 --> 01:05:02,220 S5: does it help for you to rehearse this reality? Because 1213 01:05:02,410 --> 01:05:06,530 S5: Me not being the father to your daughter, I can 1214 01:05:06,530 --> 01:05:08,810 S5: look at you and go, come on, it's only a game. 1215 01:05:08,810 --> 01:05:11,850 S5: Easy for me to say. Until it was my son. 1216 01:05:11,890 --> 01:05:12,330 S4: Sure. 1217 01:05:13,010 --> 01:05:19,210 S5: Playing for state championship in basketball. Ah, it's. It's hard 1218 01:05:19,450 --> 01:05:21,250 S5: to see that this is only a game. 1219 01:05:21,290 --> 01:05:23,330 S3: That it's only a game. And so confessing what you 1220 01:05:23,330 --> 01:05:25,370 S3: know to be true about the Lord and so that 1221 01:05:25,370 --> 01:05:28,330 S3: you try to. And it does it work perfectly. No. 1222 01:05:28,530 --> 01:05:31,530 S3: But I think that the Lord is honored by the 1223 01:05:31,890 --> 01:05:37,130 S3: honest confession and pursuit of his better. 1224 01:05:39,130 --> 01:05:40,850 S5: So we're going to take this a step further. We 1225 01:05:40,890 --> 01:05:43,530 S5: got Young Thunder here, and he's got a precious little girl, 1226 01:05:43,570 --> 01:05:45,970 S5: her blue eyes. I told him the other day, I said, 1227 01:05:45,970 --> 01:05:47,970 S5: you better get some kind of a bat or something 1228 01:05:47,970 --> 01:05:50,730 S5: near the front door, because you gotta you gotta have 1229 01:05:50,730 --> 01:05:53,850 S5: that there. But it's going to crop its head because 1230 01:05:53,890 --> 01:05:58,170 S5: guess what? It's his daughter. How can a young person 1231 01:05:58,170 --> 01:06:02,570 S5: prepare right now so that you don't have to unwind 1232 01:06:02,570 --> 01:06:06,450 S5: yourself like a corkscrew when you're sitting there watching it happen. 1233 01:06:06,970 --> 01:06:07,729 S3: Are you asking me? 1234 01:06:07,730 --> 01:06:08,810 S5: I'm asking you. 1235 01:06:09,210 --> 01:06:14,330 S3: I think continuing to seek the Lord and to surrender 1236 01:06:14,330 --> 01:06:19,530 S3: your child to the Lord. Because what can happen so easily, 1237 01:06:19,530 --> 01:06:21,770 S3: and it's not just with sports, is that you love 1238 01:06:21,770 --> 01:06:25,490 S3: this child so much, and every child wants to see 1239 01:06:25,490 --> 01:06:29,570 S3: their child. Every parent wants to see their child succeed. 1240 01:06:29,570 --> 01:06:31,450 S3: You want to see them successful. You want to see 1241 01:06:31,450 --> 01:06:33,570 S3: them happy. You want to see them be able to 1242 01:06:33,610 --> 01:06:36,970 S3: perform in the thing that they care about, but continuing 1243 01:06:37,010 --> 01:06:41,170 S3: to give them to the Lord, their plans, their future, 1244 01:06:41,370 --> 01:06:43,730 S3: and trusting that his way is best. And I know 1245 01:06:43,730 --> 01:06:46,810 S3: that that sounds cliche, but we have to remind ourselves 1246 01:06:46,810 --> 01:06:49,970 S3: that we are stewarding this child, in this case, this 1247 01:06:49,970 --> 01:06:53,130 S3: little girl. You're stewarding her, you are training her, you 1248 01:06:53,170 --> 01:06:55,930 S3: are teaching her. But ultimately she belongs to the Lord. 1249 01:06:55,930 --> 01:06:58,690 S3: So what he wants for her is way more important 1250 01:06:58,690 --> 01:07:01,690 S3: than what you and your wife want for. And I 1251 01:07:01,730 --> 01:07:05,690 S3: speak from 16 now years of parenting experience, having battled 1252 01:07:05,690 --> 01:07:06,730 S3: this quite a bit. 1253 01:07:07,210 --> 01:07:10,090 S5: Yeah, it's good stuff. I want to add a wrinkle 1254 01:07:10,090 --> 01:07:13,690 S5: to this. It's really interesting. So my adult son is older, 1255 01:07:13,930 --> 01:07:17,970 S5: he's in his 30s, and he shared with me something 1256 01:07:17,970 --> 01:07:20,250 S5: that I knew was happening, and I didn't know what 1257 01:07:20,250 --> 01:07:22,170 S5: kind of an impact it had on him. When he 1258 01:07:22,170 --> 01:07:24,050 S5: was a sophomore in high school, he had a coach 1259 01:07:24,050 --> 01:07:29,130 S5: that was insane, like mean, and I saw some of 1260 01:07:29,130 --> 01:07:30,850 S5: it and came and gave me a little bit of it. 1261 01:07:30,890 --> 01:07:35,410 S5: In retrospect, I wish I would have actually engaged there 1262 01:07:35,410 --> 01:07:37,890 S5: a little bit more. This is a high ridge, isn't it? 1263 01:07:37,890 --> 01:07:41,810 S5: Because I'm I actually had a cringe moment when my 1264 01:07:41,810 --> 01:07:44,010 S5: adult son was talking to me. He said I lost 1265 01:07:44,010 --> 01:07:46,850 S5: my love of the game when I was hitting my prime. Dad. 1266 01:07:46,890 --> 01:07:47,330 S4: Yeah. 1267 01:07:48,170 --> 01:07:51,250 S5: Isn't that isn't that hard? And I and I, I 1268 01:07:51,290 --> 01:07:53,650 S5: wish I would have pulled him out of that. I 1269 01:07:53,690 --> 01:07:56,169 S5: pulled him out, but I wish I would have pulled 1270 01:07:56,170 --> 01:07:59,970 S5: him sooner. There was a little bit of hesitancy because 1271 01:07:59,970 --> 01:08:02,250 S5: I'm a pastor of a big church in the town 1272 01:08:02,250 --> 01:08:04,930 S5: and boy, what would that. But in retrospect, I should 1273 01:08:04,970 --> 01:08:07,410 S5: have jumped in. How do you hit that balance? Ali. 1274 01:08:08,370 --> 01:08:13,570 S3: Prayerfully. I mean, when you when you're talking about confronting situations, 1275 01:08:13,610 --> 01:08:16,050 S3: I mean, we just had a whole conversation about being 1276 01:08:16,090 --> 01:08:20,450 S3: unaffordable and about anger and releasing the anger. It's hard 1277 01:08:20,450 --> 01:08:23,769 S3: because you start to feel really wrapped up in this. 1278 01:08:23,770 --> 01:08:26,689 S3: And you, you don't want to see your child mistreated. So, 1279 01:08:26,729 --> 01:08:28,530 S3: I mean, you got to trust the Holy Spirit there. 1280 01:08:28,570 --> 01:08:31,410 S3: I that's all I can offer is that trusting the 1281 01:08:31,410 --> 01:08:34,410 S3: the leading of the Holy Spirit and going into things 1282 01:08:34,410 --> 01:08:37,450 S3: prayerfully where you try to surrender as much as you 1283 01:08:37,450 --> 01:08:43,370 S3: can your own preferences, your your own offense even, and 1284 01:08:43,370 --> 01:08:45,809 S3: trusting that the Lord's going to lead it well. 1285 01:08:45,810 --> 01:08:48,250 S5: This is going to be really good exercise because we're 1286 01:08:48,250 --> 01:08:50,009 S5: warming you up for the weekend. Ali. 1287 01:08:50,330 --> 01:08:50,929 S4: That's right. 1288 01:08:53,930 --> 01:08:56,410 S2: You know, I want to add something we've been talking 1289 01:08:56,410 --> 01:09:00,290 S2: about continuing to seek the Lord's face in prayer. Uh, 1290 01:09:00,810 --> 01:09:05,729 S2: I was reading this last night. Uh, second Chronicles 20, uh, 1291 01:09:05,729 --> 01:09:10,330 S2: when Jehoshaphat is getting ready for battle, uh, between Moab 1292 01:09:10,330 --> 01:09:13,689 S2: and Ammon and their army was the army of Judah was, 1293 01:09:13,729 --> 01:09:17,729 S2: you know, ill equipped comparatively. And so he brings all 1294 01:09:17,729 --> 01:09:20,250 S2: the people together and he prays. And at the end 1295 01:09:20,250 --> 01:09:23,450 S2: of his prayer he says, Lord, we do not know 1296 01:09:23,450 --> 01:09:26,570 S2: what to do, but our eyes are on you. And 1297 01:09:26,610 --> 01:09:30,290 S2: I think that that's a good posture to have in 1298 01:09:30,330 --> 01:09:32,889 S2: terms of preparation and stuff. Because, Ali, you were saying, 1299 01:09:33,090 --> 01:09:35,570 S2: you know, how do we discern what's the right thing 1300 01:09:35,570 --> 01:09:38,530 S2: to do, when to jump in, when not to jump in? 1301 01:09:38,810 --> 01:09:41,929 S2: And I think just that starting sentence is a good 1302 01:09:41,930 --> 01:09:44,490 S2: prayer for all of us to pray, is we don't 1303 01:09:44,490 --> 01:09:46,490 S2: know what to do, but our eyes are on you. 1304 01:09:46,530 --> 01:09:49,290 S3: I love that beautiful man. 1305 01:09:50,610 --> 01:09:54,250 S5: It's Carl and crew helping you take your next step 1306 01:09:54,250 --> 01:09:55,130 S5: with Jesus.