1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:04,600 S1: Coming to you live from the Morning Star Mission sponsored studio. 2 00:00:04,920 --> 00:00:08,240 S1: This is Carl and crew on Moody Radio. 3 00:00:09,960 --> 00:00:12,640 S2: It is Carl and crew in a whole week where 4 00:00:12,640 --> 00:00:16,000 S2: we're talking prosperity. And we're going to be getting to 5 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:20,799 S2: that in this hour. But first, I want to disavow 6 00:00:20,800 --> 00:00:26,400 S2: you of something. And that is really a deception that 7 00:00:26,400 --> 00:00:29,040 S2: Satan tries to weave in our mind, and that is 8 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:33,240 S2: we need to have our act together to come to God. 9 00:00:33,920 --> 00:00:37,239 S2: Is anyone else here grateful that we don't have to 10 00:00:37,280 --> 00:00:39,640 S2: have our act together to come to God? 11 00:00:39,680 --> 00:00:44,239 S3: I wouldn't be there yet because my act, my my 12 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:47,879 S3: act fluctuates on a daily basis. You know, I sometimes 13 00:00:47,880 --> 00:00:50,840 S3: I'm there, sometimes I'm not. Sometimes I'm feeling like, hey, 14 00:00:50,840 --> 00:00:54,360 S3: things are going pretty good. Sometimes Young Thunder makes some 15 00:00:54,480 --> 00:00:57,880 S3: pretty dumb mistakes. And, uh, and if God was just 16 00:00:57,880 --> 00:00:59,720 S3: waiting for me to get all that cleaned up, I'd 17 00:00:59,760 --> 00:01:00,700 S3: be in big trouble. 18 00:01:00,740 --> 00:01:05,900 S2: Yeah, we all would. Yeah. My story's pretty gruesome. Actually, 19 00:01:05,900 --> 00:01:09,700 S2: there's aspects of my story that were just incredibly heartbreaking. 20 00:01:09,700 --> 00:01:12,820 S2: Needed to dig out for out of it for a 21 00:01:12,819 --> 00:01:17,020 S2: number of years. Yeah, I found myself not only addicted 22 00:01:17,020 --> 00:01:20,660 S2: to cocaine in my young 20s, but addicted to alcohol. 23 00:01:21,100 --> 00:01:26,020 S2: And I was trying to do everything possible to make 24 00:01:26,020 --> 00:01:30,259 S2: my life work in my own terms. And it wasn't. 25 00:01:30,300 --> 00:01:34,980 S2: It wasn't working at all. But I can honestly tell 26 00:01:34,980 --> 00:01:38,980 S2: you that when God came to me and I met 27 00:01:38,980 --> 00:01:42,580 S2: him there as he was reaching out to me, I 28 00:01:42,580 --> 00:01:49,100 S2: was a mess. There was nothing from an earthly perspective 29 00:01:49,100 --> 00:01:54,180 S2: or a supernatural perspective that invited God's presence into my life, 30 00:01:54,220 --> 00:01:59,230 S2: except that I was a mess. And I think the 31 00:01:59,230 --> 00:02:04,550 S2: tendency is to believe that somehow, some way, we need 32 00:02:04,550 --> 00:02:07,310 S2: to clean ourselves up just a bit for God to 33 00:02:07,350 --> 00:02:11,709 S2: even have any kind of affection for us or want 34 00:02:11,750 --> 00:02:15,109 S2: to work with us. But from my own story, I 35 00:02:15,110 --> 00:02:18,670 S2: can tell you with absolute certainty. When I was at 36 00:02:18,669 --> 00:02:24,910 S2: my worst, God was at his best. Yeah. And that 37 00:02:24,910 --> 00:02:27,710 S2: for some of you, this early morning on this Wednesday 38 00:02:27,710 --> 00:02:33,510 S2: morning is a big sign of hope. It's a big billboard, 39 00:02:34,790 --> 00:02:38,070 S2: and I need you to believe today that although you 40 00:02:38,070 --> 00:02:42,590 S2: feel like you have nothing to offer God and you don't. 41 00:02:43,950 --> 00:02:47,109 S2: God's not done with you. And as a matter of fact, 42 00:02:47,110 --> 00:02:51,790 S2: we can come to God as we are overcome what 43 00:02:51,790 --> 00:02:56,590 S2: seems impossible by his grace and love and power and 44 00:02:56,590 --> 00:03:00,930 S2: live as we never imagined because we come to him 45 00:03:01,450 --> 00:03:08,930 S2: with nothing. See, the gospel is he did everything. We 46 00:03:08,970 --> 00:03:16,049 S2: do nothing. And the best we bring. God is a broken, 47 00:03:16,090 --> 00:03:21,810 S2: huddled mass of cells saying, God, can you do something 48 00:03:21,810 --> 00:03:24,889 S2: with me? And he can. That's the beauty of the gospel. 49 00:03:24,930 --> 00:03:25,610 S2: Young thunder. 50 00:03:25,889 --> 00:03:28,209 S3: It is the beauty of the gospel. It's, you know, I, 51 00:03:28,770 --> 00:03:32,570 S3: I used to have to I just being honest here. 52 00:03:32,570 --> 00:03:35,290 S3: I used to have to battle the temptation to want 53 00:03:35,290 --> 00:03:37,770 S3: to have had something to do with it or that I, 54 00:03:37,810 --> 00:03:41,610 S3: you know, I wasn't all that bad that, you know, I, 55 00:03:41,690 --> 00:03:44,130 S3: I was okay. I did some things. Okay. I did 56 00:03:44,130 --> 00:03:46,970 S3: some things. Fine. Maybe my sin wasn't that bad, but no, 57 00:03:47,010 --> 00:03:49,410 S3: even the even the things that we count as the 58 00:03:49,410 --> 00:03:52,450 S3: smallest of sins are egregious to the Lord. And they 59 00:03:52,450 --> 00:03:54,890 S3: break us and they destroy us. They put death into 60 00:03:54,890 --> 00:03:59,030 S3: our lives. And Um, when I came to him, I 61 00:03:59,030 --> 00:04:02,510 S3: didn't do anything other than just agree with him that 62 00:04:02,510 --> 00:04:06,590 S3: I needed his saving me. That's not doing anything. That's just, 63 00:04:06,590 --> 00:04:10,550 S3: like you said, placing my broken self down before him, saying, 64 00:04:10,590 --> 00:04:14,070 S3: you're right. I do need you. Please do something with this. 65 00:04:14,270 --> 00:04:17,470 S3: And by his grace and his power, he did. I 66 00:04:17,470 --> 00:04:20,150 S3: didn't have to change anything before I came to him. 67 00:04:20,150 --> 00:04:22,789 S3: I came to him. And then he changed things in me. 68 00:04:23,550 --> 00:04:27,910 S2: Yeah, that's. That's the power of the gospel. You know, 69 00:04:27,950 --> 00:04:29,989 S2: later on in this hour, we're going to be talking 70 00:04:29,990 --> 00:04:35,230 S2: about the calling of the first disciples. And he just 71 00:04:35,230 --> 00:04:37,870 S2: saw a couple of guys here and a couple of 72 00:04:37,870 --> 00:04:42,510 S2: guys there, and they were fishermen. And he said, hey, 73 00:04:42,550 --> 00:04:48,750 S2: Simon and Andrew, come on, drop your nets. Come follow me. 74 00:04:49,550 --> 00:04:52,350 S2: And I'm going to make you fishers of men. Imagine 75 00:04:52,350 --> 00:04:57,360 S2: what they thought when he said that to them. I'm 76 00:04:57,360 --> 00:04:57,600 S2: not sure. 77 00:04:57,600 --> 00:04:58,640 S3: They didn't understand it. 78 00:04:58,640 --> 00:05:01,760 S2: I'm sure they didn't understand it. But he said, come on, 79 00:05:01,760 --> 00:05:02,400 S2: let's go. 80 00:05:02,440 --> 00:05:04,400 S3: Yeah, and you know what I love? The response is, 81 00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:06,480 S3: even though they didn't understand it, it says they dropped 82 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:07,920 S3: their nets and they followed him. 83 00:05:08,880 --> 00:05:11,560 S2: Yeah. So I don't know where you are today, but 84 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:14,760 S2: I know this. You can come to God as you are. 85 00:05:14,760 --> 00:05:16,800 S2: And we're going to be talking about that this half 86 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:21,040 S2: hour with a guy named Henry Cloud. Doctor Henry Cloud, 87 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:26,800 S2: author of boundaries. It sold a few books, almost 20 88 00:05:26,800 --> 00:05:28,440 S2: million copies worldwide. 89 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:29,640 S3: Just a couple. 90 00:05:29,680 --> 00:05:33,640 S2: Just a couple. Uh, but he has a new devotional out, 91 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:36,240 S2: and we're going to get into that. But right now, father, 92 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:41,400 S2: in Jesus name, comfort every person who's wondered, can you 93 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:45,400 S2: do something with me today? For some, they've never yet 94 00:05:45,400 --> 00:05:49,120 S2: followed you, but for some they've followed you and been 95 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:51,880 S2: disciples for a number of years. But they find themselves 96 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:56,220 S2: in a place where they just wonder, can you do 97 00:05:56,220 --> 00:06:00,700 S2: something with this? With me? And the answer is yes 98 00:06:00,700 --> 00:06:04,339 S2: and amen. And I thank you for it. In Jesus name, 99 00:06:04,740 --> 00:06:05,500 S2: let it be. 100 00:06:06,580 --> 00:06:10,340 S1: Your spiritual pit stop to keep you going in the race. 101 00:06:10,500 --> 00:06:12,700 S1: You're listening to Carl and crew. 102 00:06:13,260 --> 00:06:16,860 S2: So if we could disavow you of anything, it's that 103 00:06:16,860 --> 00:06:20,780 S2: we need to bring something to the table in order 104 00:06:20,779 --> 00:06:23,820 S2: to meet with God's approval. Just shared with you a 105 00:06:23,820 --> 00:06:27,220 S2: few minutes ago that with a raging cocaine addiction and 106 00:06:27,220 --> 00:06:30,820 S2: alcohol addiction, and I was a total piece of work 107 00:06:31,060 --> 00:06:34,380 S2: back in the early 80s. I had nothing to bring 108 00:06:34,420 --> 00:06:38,900 S2: to God. Absolutely nothing. I was one mess of a 109 00:06:38,900 --> 00:06:42,620 S2: young man, and yet God intervened in my life, called 110 00:06:42,620 --> 00:06:46,460 S2: me out of darkness, and he changed me. And he's 111 00:06:46,460 --> 00:06:49,660 S2: still changing me. And he's changing you to this day. 112 00:06:50,980 --> 00:06:54,070 S2: Henry cloud with me right now. Henry, there's is a 113 00:06:54,070 --> 00:06:57,030 S2: notion that we've got to get something squared away in 114 00:06:57,029 --> 00:06:59,550 S2: our life to be worthy of even having a conversation 115 00:06:59,550 --> 00:07:01,150 S2: with God. It's real, isn't it? 116 00:07:02,230 --> 00:07:05,190 S4: It is real. You know, we have that notion, I think, Karl, 117 00:07:05,190 --> 00:07:09,390 S4: it's like original sin. You know, we we disconnected from God. 118 00:07:09,390 --> 00:07:12,190 S4: God was the source of everything. We disconnected and we 119 00:07:12,190 --> 00:07:15,750 S4: started to kind of think we we are the source. 120 00:07:15,750 --> 00:07:18,310 S4: We got to do everything. We're like, God, that's not 121 00:07:18,310 --> 00:07:23,230 S4: the way anything starts. Everything starts with our. The Bible's 122 00:07:23,230 --> 00:07:25,950 S4: word is trust. We open up and we say, help! 123 00:07:25,950 --> 00:07:28,030 S4: Blessed are the poor in spirit. You don't need to 124 00:07:28,070 --> 00:07:30,470 S4: take a shower before you get in the bathtub. Yeah, 125 00:07:30,510 --> 00:07:32,710 S4: and people try to clean themselves up before they come 126 00:07:32,710 --> 00:07:35,270 S4: to God or do this or do that. Now God's 127 00:07:35,270 --> 00:07:36,870 S4: going to pick you up where you are. 128 00:07:37,190 --> 00:07:40,550 S2: You know, it's an interesting thing, Henry. Uh, David Nelms, 129 00:07:40,590 --> 00:07:42,350 S2: I don't even know if you know that name. He's 130 00:07:42,350 --> 00:07:46,790 S2: with the Timothy Initiative. They're planting, I think, 85,000 churches 131 00:07:46,790 --> 00:07:50,910 S2: this year in mainly Muslim, really difficult regions of the world. 132 00:07:50,910 --> 00:07:54,450 S2: And these are verifiable church Plants that are usually under 133 00:07:54,450 --> 00:08:00,170 S2: trees in little, little homes, you name it, but they're there. 134 00:08:00,210 --> 00:08:03,970 S2: The gospel is thriving in places where people are being 135 00:08:03,970 --> 00:08:07,370 S2: persecuted for faith. What did we do in the West 136 00:08:07,370 --> 00:08:10,010 S2: that caused us to think we need to bring something 137 00:08:10,010 --> 00:08:13,210 S2: to God? What did we do? I it's it's probably 138 00:08:13,210 --> 00:08:15,810 S2: part of that religious spirit where it's like, you got 139 00:08:15,810 --> 00:08:18,050 S2: to get to small group, you got to, you know, 140 00:08:18,410 --> 00:08:21,250 S2: we had all the list of things we got to do, 141 00:08:21,650 --> 00:08:24,410 S2: but we got to put that thing to death, don't we, Henry? 142 00:08:25,250 --> 00:08:28,450 S4: That's the way you see it throughout the scriptures. You know, 143 00:08:29,010 --> 00:08:32,050 S4: the religious spirit, as you say. You know, you think 144 00:08:32,050 --> 00:08:37,290 S4: about it. We we we started in relationship and we 145 00:08:37,290 --> 00:08:41,690 S4: only had one commandment. And really don't, don't eat of 146 00:08:41,690 --> 00:08:44,330 S4: the tree where you're going to have to figure it out. 147 00:08:44,370 --> 00:08:46,449 S4: You the knowledge of good and evil. Now you're going 148 00:08:46,490 --> 00:08:48,370 S4: to know what's good and bad and what to do. 149 00:08:48,410 --> 00:08:50,290 S4: And this, that and the other. We weren't even supposed 150 00:08:50,290 --> 00:08:52,030 S4: to eat of that tree. We were just supposed to 151 00:08:52,030 --> 00:08:55,069 S4: stay connected. Well, we lost our connection. And what replaced it? 152 00:08:55,070 --> 00:08:57,790 S4: The law. You know, we lost the relationship. Now we 153 00:08:57,830 --> 00:09:02,150 S4: got religion. Yeah, well, that's not the way it works. 154 00:09:02,309 --> 00:09:05,110 S4: When you were describing that, Carl, you said under trees 155 00:09:05,110 --> 00:09:07,469 S4: and in homes and it's thriving. I said, wow, that 156 00:09:07,470 --> 00:09:08,949 S4: sounds like the New Testament. 157 00:09:08,950 --> 00:09:11,670 S2: Yeah. No, it's a it's a picture of the book 158 00:09:11,670 --> 00:09:15,030 S2: of acts in the book of acts goes on. You've 159 00:09:15,030 --> 00:09:18,190 S2: worked with so many people, Henry Claude, if you don't 160 00:09:18,190 --> 00:09:21,470 S2: know of this man, my goodness. Author of boundaries, co-author 161 00:09:21,470 --> 00:09:26,310 S2: of boundaries, nearly 20 million copies sold globally, and clinical 162 00:09:26,309 --> 00:09:31,270 S2: psychologist and big time best selling author. Great communicator, uh, 163 00:09:31,270 --> 00:09:37,430 S2: leadership coach. Now for CEOs, leadership teams, executives. All right, 164 00:09:37,470 --> 00:09:39,350 S2: boil it all down. What have you what have you 165 00:09:39,350 --> 00:09:43,470 S2: learned that keeps people from coming to God? Boil it down, Henry. 166 00:09:43,790 --> 00:09:46,550 S4: We experience it in so many ways. Some people think 167 00:09:46,710 --> 00:09:48,590 S4: you know, well, I don't know enough. I'm not good enough. 168 00:09:48,590 --> 00:09:51,679 S4: Or their doubts keep them coming from God or their assumptions, 169 00:09:51,679 --> 00:09:53,640 S4: keep them from coming to God. When I wrote the book, 170 00:09:53,640 --> 00:09:58,760 S4: why I believe that book was written because I wanted 171 00:09:58,760 --> 00:10:02,040 S4: to my non-Christian friends to know why I believe this stuff. 172 00:10:02,040 --> 00:10:06,679 S4: Because they. In today's culture, if you say you're a Christian, 173 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:09,680 S4: people already think they know they got you figured out. 174 00:10:09,679 --> 00:10:11,760 S4: And there's a list of 20. Oh, you're one of 175 00:10:11,760 --> 00:10:14,280 S4: these and you're one of these and you're one of these. Yeah, 176 00:10:14,320 --> 00:10:18,360 S4: we have assumptions. We have our own interpretations of everything. 177 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:23,640 S4: The Pharisees interpreted Jesus, you know, right there, healing and 178 00:10:23,640 --> 00:10:27,439 S4: delivering people in front of them. And they they said, well, 179 00:10:27,440 --> 00:10:30,080 S4: you're doing that from the wrong power. You know, we 180 00:10:30,080 --> 00:10:34,439 S4: have these ways of seeing the world. And when we 181 00:10:34,440 --> 00:10:39,080 S4: think we know before we know whether we think we 182 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:41,600 S4: know I'm not good enough or know that I've done 183 00:10:41,600 --> 00:10:46,880 S4: something too bad, we gotta lay all that down and say, God, 184 00:10:47,080 --> 00:10:51,580 S4: here I am. You know, Romans 12 says that we 185 00:10:51,620 --> 00:10:55,219 S4: start with surrender. You bring us. You just lay on 186 00:10:55,220 --> 00:10:59,339 S4: the altar, say the Holy Sacrifice here I am. Yeah. 187 00:10:59,380 --> 00:11:01,820 S4: And he'll he'll tell you what you gotta do. But 188 00:11:01,820 --> 00:11:05,780 S4: you gotta start with not thinking, you know, and those obstacles, 189 00:11:05,780 --> 00:11:10,620 S4: there's always going to be obstacles. Surrender your obstacles. Like Thomas. Say, 190 00:11:10,980 --> 00:11:13,140 S4: here's what I think I doubt you. I don't believe this. 191 00:11:13,140 --> 00:11:15,460 S4: I don't believe that a fish swallows somebody. Are you 192 00:11:15,500 --> 00:11:20,020 S4: kidding me? Take take all that stuff and just surrender it. 193 00:11:20,059 --> 00:11:24,540 S2: Yeah. It's beautiful. Doctor Henry Cloud, my guest right now. Okay. 194 00:11:24,580 --> 00:11:28,020 S2: I want you to go through your memory bank. Of 195 00:11:28,020 --> 00:11:30,380 S2: all the people that you've worked with over the years 196 00:11:30,380 --> 00:11:33,460 S2: and just cherry pick one story of someone that you 197 00:11:33,500 --> 00:11:36,300 S2: can say. Man, they brought nothing to God. But I 198 00:11:36,340 --> 00:11:40,860 S2: saw him radically alter them as they just postured themselves 199 00:11:40,860 --> 00:11:43,900 S2: like a child. I love that word nebulous in the 200 00:11:43,900 --> 00:11:47,700 S2: New Testament, one without words. They just came to God 201 00:11:47,700 --> 00:11:51,920 S2: as a child. and you saw God totally remake that 202 00:11:51,920 --> 00:11:53,440 S2: person who comes to your mind. 203 00:11:54,559 --> 00:11:57,560 S4: It's interesting. Who comes to my mind is somebody that 204 00:11:57,559 --> 00:12:01,040 S4: had a lot to bring, and that was a pastor 205 00:12:01,040 --> 00:12:06,560 S4: who we admitted to the hospital for depression. Beloved pastor. Big, 206 00:12:06,559 --> 00:12:10,160 S4: big church, thriving church. Everybody loved him. He was a great, 207 00:12:10,200 --> 00:12:13,840 S4: you know, all this except he had one interesting tidbit 208 00:12:13,840 --> 00:12:16,920 S4: about his life. He slept with a loaded gun, thinking 209 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:19,640 S4: I might wake up tomorrow. I might have to end 210 00:12:19,640 --> 00:12:23,920 S4: it all. Wow. And he was depressed. And and so 211 00:12:23,920 --> 00:12:26,560 S4: he he he checked her in the hospital the first morning. 212 00:12:26,559 --> 00:12:28,559 S4: I did a teaching group, and I got the whiteboard out, 213 00:12:28,559 --> 00:12:30,440 S4: and I wrote the word sin. Today we're going to 214 00:12:30,440 --> 00:12:34,480 S4: talk about sin. And and he he's sitting there and 215 00:12:35,040 --> 00:12:37,800 S4: and I, I drew two columns. I said, there's two, 216 00:12:38,200 --> 00:12:42,040 S4: two things about sin. There's sin that we do by us, 217 00:12:42,360 --> 00:12:45,200 S4: sin by us. And then there's sin, the son to us. 218 00:12:45,920 --> 00:12:49,089 S4: And the Bible says, you know, the world can do 219 00:12:49,090 --> 00:12:51,809 S4: a lot of bad things to us. And today we're 220 00:12:51,809 --> 00:12:55,809 S4: going to talk about that side of the equation. Anyway, 221 00:12:56,010 --> 00:12:59,010 S4: I was talking about how our trust muscle is broken 222 00:12:59,809 --> 00:13:02,210 S4: and that we can be isolated and cut off from 223 00:13:02,210 --> 00:13:04,770 S4: everything we need because we can't open up and trust 224 00:13:04,770 --> 00:13:09,170 S4: from a vulnerable place. And then he interrupted me and 225 00:13:09,170 --> 00:13:12,050 S4: he said, wait a minute, I think that might be me. 226 00:13:12,770 --> 00:13:14,650 S4: And I said, what do you mean? He said, well, 227 00:13:14,690 --> 00:13:17,370 S4: he told the story about when trust was broken through 228 00:13:17,450 --> 00:13:21,370 S4: horrible incidents in his childhood. And he said, I remember saying, 229 00:13:21,370 --> 00:13:24,690 S4: I'll never trust anybody again. He said, when you wrote 230 00:13:24,690 --> 00:13:27,050 S4: sin up there, I was about ready to check out. 231 00:13:27,050 --> 00:13:28,969 S4: He said, I'm a pastor. I've taught on sin for 232 00:13:28,970 --> 00:13:33,410 S4: 25 years. But then you wrote the other column that 233 00:13:33,450 --> 00:13:38,330 S4: what happens to us? And he surrendered. And I keep 234 00:13:38,330 --> 00:13:40,329 S4: using that word. I don't know other word to use. 235 00:13:40,330 --> 00:13:44,210 S4: But he he said, I realized I had to let 236 00:13:44,210 --> 00:13:49,470 S4: go and open up and begin to trust God. Trust 237 00:13:49,510 --> 00:13:56,150 S4: you guys. Trust my counselor. Later he went after he 238 00:13:56,190 --> 00:14:00,069 S4: got well and he went back to the pastorate. He 239 00:14:00,070 --> 00:14:02,710 S4: brought a whiteboard up on the stage and said, we're 240 00:14:02,710 --> 00:14:07,430 S4: going to change the way we do church. And and 241 00:14:07,470 --> 00:14:12,350 S4: he he kind of turned it into a, a different way. 242 00:14:12,750 --> 00:14:16,430 S4: But I bring him up, Carl, because, you know, even 243 00:14:16,470 --> 00:14:19,790 S4: even the people who have what we have been taught 244 00:14:19,790 --> 00:14:23,430 S4: a lot of times, a lot to bring to God. Yeah. 245 00:14:23,470 --> 00:14:26,190 S4: Like the rich young ruler had a lot to bring 246 00:14:26,230 --> 00:14:31,750 S4: to him. But we gotta come with what we don't have. 247 00:14:31,790 --> 00:14:35,310 S4: Paul said our strength is in our weakness. You will 248 00:14:35,310 --> 00:14:38,390 S4: glory in his weakness, as he said. Yeah, that's where 249 00:14:38,390 --> 00:14:40,990 S4: our strength is. You know, Jesus said he came to 250 00:14:41,030 --> 00:14:43,750 S4: seek and to save that which was lost. Seek means 251 00:14:43,750 --> 00:14:48,040 S4: he's looking. He's looking for it. Save in the Bible. 252 00:14:48,360 --> 00:14:50,000 S4: The Greek word means to heal. 253 00:14:50,720 --> 00:14:51,280 S2: Yes. 254 00:14:51,680 --> 00:14:56,760 S4: The word for lost means utterly broken beyond repair. There's 255 00:14:56,760 --> 00:15:00,920 S4: nothing you can do about it. He's looking to heal 256 00:15:01,200 --> 00:15:03,080 S4: what you can't fix. 257 00:15:03,320 --> 00:15:05,600 S5: Yeah. That is. That's the doorway. 258 00:15:06,720 --> 00:15:09,160 S2: Uh, sweet conversation here. So let me pull on a 259 00:15:09,160 --> 00:15:14,400 S2: thread here. Uh, there is a epidemic, especially post-Covid, uh, 260 00:15:14,400 --> 00:15:17,920 S2: in the Western church. And I know this because my 261 00:15:17,920 --> 00:15:24,040 S2: wife has 43 adult children that were raised in imperfect 262 00:15:24,040 --> 00:15:29,440 S2: but great homes, and they have walked away. Now, as 263 00:15:29,440 --> 00:15:32,200 S2: a pastor, I'm seeing there's an upside here, because there's 264 00:15:32,240 --> 00:15:36,000 S2: a certain level of intentionality in the church post-Covid that 265 00:15:36,000 --> 00:15:39,120 S2: maybe wasn't there before. And there's other things that have 266 00:15:39,120 --> 00:15:42,120 S2: gone on. There's a permission slip that's been handed out 267 00:15:42,120 --> 00:15:46,340 S2: to kids that frankly don't want to play the game 268 00:15:46,340 --> 00:15:49,820 S2: anymore of going to church, but a lot of these 269 00:15:49,820 --> 00:15:55,140 S2: parents are absolutely crushed. They're like, what did I screw up? 270 00:15:55,140 --> 00:15:57,900 S2: And the fact is, I've coached and mentored a lot 271 00:15:57,900 --> 00:16:00,020 S2: of them, and there's things that I've asked them and 272 00:16:00,020 --> 00:16:02,020 S2: urge them and they've done it. Go back and say, 273 00:16:02,020 --> 00:16:04,460 S2: would you forgive me for fill in the blank? And 274 00:16:04,460 --> 00:16:07,820 S2: they've done that. But they so longed to see these 275 00:16:07,820 --> 00:16:12,140 S2: kids come to the Lord because I've I've asked them, 276 00:16:12,180 --> 00:16:15,260 S2: let's reconsider this. Maybe it's not come back to church. 277 00:16:15,260 --> 00:16:18,180 S2: Maybe they were never in Christ. And for the vast majority, 278 00:16:18,180 --> 00:16:20,260 S2: they never were. They were in a church culture, but 279 00:16:20,260 --> 00:16:22,340 S2: they were never in Christ. And a lot of these 280 00:16:22,340 --> 00:16:24,060 S2: kids have gone out and they've made a good way. 281 00:16:24,060 --> 00:16:27,900 S2: They're professionals. They're they're killing it and they're industry. And 282 00:16:27,900 --> 00:16:31,020 S2: some are just washed out, but many are doing really well. 283 00:16:31,020 --> 00:16:34,020 S2: But the parents are left a wreck. They've seen God 284 00:16:34,020 --> 00:16:36,900 S2: work in their life, Henry. They've seen the power of God. 285 00:16:36,900 --> 00:16:41,060 S2: They've witnessed it. But now because and for someone listening 286 00:16:41,060 --> 00:16:44,360 S2: right now, this is you. You got a wayward kid. 287 00:16:45,160 --> 00:16:49,520 S2: And it's it's so debilitating that it starts to call 288 00:16:49,520 --> 00:16:52,840 S2: into question everything that you've been in life. And maybe 289 00:16:52,840 --> 00:16:56,640 S2: it's not a kid. Maybe it's finances, maybe it's professionally something, 290 00:16:56,840 --> 00:17:01,480 S2: isn't it? Something how? It's it's the broken pieces that 291 00:17:01,480 --> 00:17:04,159 S2: God wants us to bring to him. But we we 292 00:17:04,200 --> 00:17:09,440 S2: sit and we question the goodness of God whether I'm worthy. Um, 293 00:17:09,440 --> 00:17:13,080 S2: and we, we begin to go through this litany of 294 00:17:13,080 --> 00:17:17,480 S2: things that leave us paralyzed in our own faith. Speak 295 00:17:17,480 --> 00:17:20,080 S2: to that person, Henry Carr. 296 00:17:20,119 --> 00:17:23,360 S4: The first thing I would say to them is, um, 297 00:17:23,400 --> 00:17:28,560 S4: you are not alone. God has your same problem. And 298 00:17:28,560 --> 00:17:31,600 S4: you might be thinking, well, maybe I didn't do everything right. Well, 299 00:17:31,640 --> 00:17:35,280 S4: God did everything right. Yeah, and he has your same problem. 300 00:17:35,520 --> 00:17:35,960 S5: Yeah. 301 00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:41,200 S4: His kids left home and turned away from him. That 302 00:17:41,200 --> 00:17:45,690 S4: is a story of humanity. I mean, we know the 303 00:17:45,690 --> 00:17:49,850 S4: father and the in the prodigal story. We know the 304 00:17:49,850 --> 00:17:53,210 S4: father wasn't a jerk. Look how he welcomed his son 305 00:17:53,210 --> 00:17:54,090 S4: when he came back. 306 00:17:54,130 --> 00:17:55,010 S5: He was a class. 307 00:17:55,010 --> 00:17:56,330 S2: Act, dad, wasn't he, Henry? 308 00:17:56,369 --> 00:18:00,410 S4: Yeah. And so you've got to. You've got to start 309 00:18:00,410 --> 00:18:04,610 S4: there anytime you start with you. And certainly there are 310 00:18:04,609 --> 00:18:08,130 S4: people that, you know, they did some bad stuff and 311 00:18:08,130 --> 00:18:10,570 S4: their kids ran away and all of that. But you've 312 00:18:10,570 --> 00:18:18,490 S4: got to understand, this is a human story that people 313 00:18:18,490 --> 00:18:21,410 S4: run away from God. And a lot of times, Karl, 314 00:18:21,410 --> 00:18:24,689 S4: we see the ones that second generation, they follow in 315 00:18:24,690 --> 00:18:27,490 S4: their parents footsteps and they do all the church stuff 316 00:18:27,490 --> 00:18:29,170 S4: and this, that and the other. And it looks good 317 00:18:29,170 --> 00:18:33,050 S4: in their 20s and 30s. And then at 40 they crash. Yeah. 318 00:18:33,090 --> 00:18:37,369 S4: Because whatever was needing to happen at a deep level 319 00:18:37,410 --> 00:18:39,290 S4: just hadn't happened yet. I'm thinking of the book of 320 00:18:39,330 --> 00:18:43,510 S4: Hebrews where where he's talking about, you know, the people 321 00:18:43,510 --> 00:18:45,510 S4: that are on the verge of falling away and he's 322 00:18:45,510 --> 00:18:49,430 S4: he's calling them to to remain. And there's a phrase 323 00:18:49,430 --> 00:18:51,790 S4: in there and he says, you know, he's writing to him. 324 00:18:51,790 --> 00:18:54,110 S4: He says, But I'm thinking of you, or I can't 325 00:18:54,109 --> 00:18:56,670 S4: remember exactly the phrase, but and you did all this 326 00:18:56,670 --> 00:19:02,150 S4: stuff and the things that accompany salvation. And you're right 327 00:19:02,150 --> 00:19:05,950 S4: that a lot of times, you know, God has no grandkids. 328 00:19:06,550 --> 00:19:10,350 S4: A lot of times people can grow up under the 329 00:19:10,350 --> 00:19:16,149 S4: umbrella of the parent's faith, and inside they better. They've 330 00:19:16,150 --> 00:19:18,990 S4: got to become a child of God, not a grandkid. 331 00:19:19,030 --> 00:19:19,590 S5: Yeah. 332 00:19:19,990 --> 00:19:22,470 S4: And I can't tell you how many stories I've heard 333 00:19:22,470 --> 00:19:28,590 S4: of faithful parents praying, sometimes through decades. And then it happens. 334 00:19:28,910 --> 00:19:31,510 S4: If there is stuff you've done, like Carl said, own 335 00:19:31,550 --> 00:19:33,390 S4: that and say, you know what, I think maybe I 336 00:19:33,390 --> 00:19:35,830 S4: was too heavy handed here. I didn't really listen to 337 00:19:35,830 --> 00:19:39,230 S4: you or, you know, that's fine. That's good. All of 338 00:19:39,270 --> 00:19:44,810 S4: that's really good. But don't forget, this is a human 339 00:19:44,810 --> 00:19:49,130 S4: problem and everybody's story until they take their dying breath. 340 00:19:49,490 --> 00:19:53,929 S4: God is looking for them. He's looking for them. And 341 00:19:54,570 --> 00:19:58,530 S4: keep praying. Keep having faith. And the other time. Other 342 00:19:58,530 --> 00:20:02,250 S4: thing is you're going to find comfort in in the tribe. 343 00:20:02,410 --> 00:20:05,730 S4: You know, don't do this in isolation and blaming yourself in. 344 00:20:05,730 --> 00:20:06,010 S5: A. 345 00:20:06,250 --> 00:20:09,449 S4: You know, in a prayer closet somewhere and loathing yourself. 346 00:20:10,090 --> 00:20:14,290 S4: Give us some other parents that have experienced this. That's 347 00:20:14,290 --> 00:20:16,290 S4: a really important part of it as well. 348 00:20:16,410 --> 00:20:17,330 S5: Yeah. It's beautiful. 349 00:20:17,970 --> 00:20:21,490 S2: Henry. See, you wrote a devo. What was your intention? 350 00:20:21,490 --> 00:20:23,770 S2: 90 day invitation to come to God as you are. 351 00:20:23,810 --> 00:20:27,050 S2: To know him as the title. 90 day invitation to 352 00:20:27,090 --> 00:20:30,010 S2: come to God as you are. What was your motivation 353 00:20:30,010 --> 00:20:30,610 S2: in this? 354 00:20:31,890 --> 00:20:35,530 S4: Uh, well, I'd written the book that that the content 355 00:20:35,530 --> 00:20:38,610 S4: comes from called why I believe, and it's my story 356 00:20:38,890 --> 00:20:43,139 S4: of my faith journey. And that book, you know, it's 357 00:20:43,140 --> 00:20:46,220 S4: sort of like Moses. Moses said we were slaves in Egypt. 358 00:20:46,220 --> 00:20:47,939 S4: God brought us out with a mighty hand with all 359 00:20:47,940 --> 00:20:50,139 S4: these miracles. And then he gave us his ways so 360 00:20:50,140 --> 00:20:52,980 S4: that we would walk in them, and that would become 361 00:20:53,020 --> 00:20:55,740 S4: our righteousness, and we would always prosper. Well, that was me. 362 00:20:55,740 --> 00:20:58,580 S4: I was in Egypt, you know, I was broken and 363 00:20:58,619 --> 00:21:02,020 S4: hit bottom just like you did. Yeah. And then God 364 00:21:02,020 --> 00:21:06,500 S4: intervened with miracles and a bunch of stuff. And then 365 00:21:06,980 --> 00:21:10,140 S4: he began to teach me his ways. And I found 366 00:21:10,140 --> 00:21:15,619 S4: those ways to be healing. And so as a psychologist, um, 367 00:21:15,619 --> 00:21:18,580 S4: and you know this, Carl, anybody's been in the spiritual 368 00:21:18,580 --> 00:21:24,180 S4: life very long. That growth is a process. And, you know, 369 00:21:24,220 --> 00:21:27,940 S4: we even know from neuroscience that that it takes four things. 370 00:21:27,940 --> 00:21:30,980 S4: You got to have an awareness of a concept, but 371 00:21:30,980 --> 00:21:33,620 S4: you're not changed just because you heard a sermon. Then 372 00:21:33,619 --> 00:21:36,820 S4: you gotta focus on it in real time as you're 373 00:21:36,820 --> 00:21:41,760 S4: doing it. The third thing is deliberate practice. Do something. 374 00:21:42,080 --> 00:21:44,960 S4: And then you got to have relational support throughout that process. 375 00:21:44,960 --> 00:21:48,280 S4: And that builds new circuitry that builds new wiring, builds 376 00:21:48,280 --> 00:21:53,880 S4: new character. And so what a 90 day trip does 377 00:21:53,920 --> 00:21:57,720 S4: is it's long enough with a structure that things can 378 00:21:57,760 --> 00:21:59,640 S4: begin to really, really take root. 379 00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:01,240 S2: Your swing, Henry. 380 00:22:01,720 --> 00:22:04,359 S4: You have to, but you gotta have a structure to 381 00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:06,480 S4: do it. You know, you put a lattice up so 382 00:22:06,480 --> 00:22:11,639 S4: a plant grows. The structure of its the way, its architecture, 383 00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:15,119 S4: it grows it in a certain direction. Or if you 384 00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:18,280 S4: didn't have the structure, then it can kind of become 385 00:22:18,280 --> 00:22:21,440 S4: a wild child. So it's a 90 day structure of 386 00:22:21,440 --> 00:22:24,360 S4: little bitty snippets, you know, a few minutes a day 387 00:22:24,400 --> 00:22:26,400 S4: that's going to make you aware of something that you 388 00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:29,680 S4: take through the real time of that day. And that's 389 00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:31,160 S4: why I wrote it. That's how it works. 390 00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:31,840 S5: I love it. 391 00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:34,720 S2: Well, if you want to regroup a swing little golf 392 00:22:34,720 --> 00:22:39,050 S2: metaphor here, or you want to start baking bread that's 393 00:22:39,050 --> 00:22:43,330 S2: going to actually rise. This is an awesome thing here guys. 394 00:22:43,330 --> 00:22:46,129 S2: To know him a 90 day invitation to come to 395 00:22:46,170 --> 00:22:49,890 S2: God as you are, not as you hope to be. 396 00:22:49,890 --> 00:22:51,730 S2: Not as you dream to be, not as you think 397 00:22:51,770 --> 00:22:54,889 S2: you are. I love that Tyson quote. God can't. God 398 00:22:54,890 --> 00:22:58,250 S2: can't fix who you pretend to be, but he can 399 00:22:58,250 --> 00:23:01,410 S2: fix you as you are guys. And so here's what 400 00:23:01,410 --> 00:23:07,250 S2: I want you to do. Text cloud to (800) 555-7898 one link. 401 00:23:07,290 --> 00:23:10,410 S2: It'll get you there. And this is a season man. 402 00:23:10,450 --> 00:23:14,330 S2: This is a season. What a way. Just wrap up 25. 403 00:23:14,369 --> 00:23:19,530 S2: Get into this Devo. Carry it into 26. So check 404 00:23:19,530 --> 00:23:25,970 S2: it out. Text cloud to (800) 555-7898. And uh, we'll get 405 00:23:25,970 --> 00:23:27,050 S2: you all hooked up. 406 00:23:28,369 --> 00:23:32,330 S1: Take your next step with Jesus. Today you're listening to 407 00:23:32,369 --> 00:23:33,410 S1: Carl and crew. 408 00:23:34,170 --> 00:23:37,030 S2: I got another thing. Evidence that we are living in 409 00:23:37,070 --> 00:23:39,670 S2: a great. Yes. We're broadcasting from Chicago, living in a 410 00:23:39,670 --> 00:23:42,470 S2: great city. We're number one. We're number. 411 00:23:42,470 --> 00:23:44,510 S6: One. We're number one. 412 00:23:44,869 --> 00:23:47,870 S2: For take it away, young Thunder. Breaking news. 413 00:23:47,910 --> 00:23:49,109 S3: Yeah. Worst traffic. 414 00:23:49,150 --> 00:23:50,950 S7: Okay, I was going to say, are we talking about 415 00:23:50,990 --> 00:23:52,669 S7: the bears or are we talking. 416 00:23:52,750 --> 00:23:53,590 S3: We are number one there. 417 00:23:53,590 --> 00:23:54,590 S7: Traffic? 418 00:23:54,910 --> 00:23:57,629 S2: Yeah, we're talking traffic. This is a great little story. 419 00:23:57,630 --> 00:24:00,070 S2: This will warm the cockles of your heart of why 420 00:24:00,070 --> 00:24:03,230 S2: you don't live here. Go ahead, young thunder. 421 00:24:03,270 --> 00:24:05,389 S3: Yeah. According to a report that came out from a 422 00:24:05,390 --> 00:24:09,270 S3: data firm, Chicago drivers lose an average of 112 hours 423 00:24:09,270 --> 00:24:12,070 S3: annually in peak traffic compared to the time they would 424 00:24:12,109 --> 00:24:16,790 S3: have spent in normal traffic. So 112 hours just sitting 425 00:24:16,790 --> 00:24:17,470 S3: on the road. 426 00:24:17,750 --> 00:24:20,390 S2: Really good news. Really good news. We beat New York. 427 00:24:20,869 --> 00:24:21,389 S5: New York. 428 00:24:21,430 --> 00:24:21,910 S2: Wow. 429 00:24:22,390 --> 00:24:24,429 S3: The busiest city in the world. Somehow we beat. 430 00:24:24,430 --> 00:24:25,310 S6: Them. How? 431 00:24:25,750 --> 00:24:25,990 S2: I don't. 432 00:24:25,990 --> 00:24:26,070 S3: Know. 433 00:24:26,109 --> 00:24:26,389 S2: Oh. 434 00:24:26,550 --> 00:24:26,790 S5: Oh. 435 00:24:27,109 --> 00:24:28,510 S2: We lost the Olympics. 436 00:24:28,750 --> 00:24:29,470 S7: Don't drive. 437 00:24:29,950 --> 00:24:31,830 S6: Do you have a moment I could share with you? 438 00:24:32,310 --> 00:24:34,350 S3: And, you know, we've had a lot of construction in 439 00:24:34,350 --> 00:24:36,690 S3: the past couple of years, blocking down a lot of 440 00:24:36,690 --> 00:24:37,570 S3: lanes on some of our. 441 00:24:37,650 --> 00:24:40,609 S2: We've got two seasons, we got winter and we got construction. Yeah. 442 00:24:40,650 --> 00:24:43,730 S2: So here's the deal. Uh, we lost the Olympics due 443 00:24:43,730 --> 00:24:46,130 S2: to that. Now, the only hope we have and I 444 00:24:46,130 --> 00:24:48,890 S2: know this is Chicago centric here, but pardon us for 445 00:24:48,890 --> 00:24:51,330 S2: a moment here. We got something to celebrate. The bears 446 00:24:51,369 --> 00:24:54,690 S2: are going to be moving to a place called Arlington Heights. Yeah, 447 00:24:54,930 --> 00:24:57,530 S2: and they've got lots of acreage there. And there's a 448 00:24:57,530 --> 00:25:00,330 S2: chance they not only build a stadium, but build a track. 449 00:25:00,330 --> 00:25:03,690 S2: And maybe we could have the Olympics here because we 450 00:25:03,690 --> 00:25:05,970 S2: couldn't get them. Because you can't get from the airport 451 00:25:05,970 --> 00:25:12,810 S2: to downtown without having serious clogged roads, unfortunately. 452 00:25:12,850 --> 00:25:14,170 S6: Very true, very true. 453 00:25:14,410 --> 00:25:16,690 S2: So. So there's there's hope. 454 00:25:16,930 --> 00:25:17,690 S3: There is hope. 455 00:25:17,850 --> 00:25:18,490 S2: There's hope. 456 00:25:18,850 --> 00:25:19,330 S3: But. 457 00:25:19,369 --> 00:25:21,850 S2: All right, just a little quick Chicago thing there. We're 458 00:25:21,850 --> 00:25:27,010 S2: number one. We're in the United States of America. So 459 00:25:27,010 --> 00:25:30,330 S2: just be everyone in Chicago. You aren't losing your minds. 460 00:25:30,330 --> 00:25:33,890 S2: It is that bad. Yeah. It's just it's it's that bad. 461 00:25:34,010 --> 00:25:38,540 S2: That Oh, and I did a dude thing yesterday. Ali, 462 00:25:38,900 --> 00:25:40,220 S2: when you were out. I did. 463 00:25:40,220 --> 00:25:41,100 S7: It. What'd you do? 464 00:25:41,619 --> 00:25:43,619 S2: I was out as well, I did it. It's a 465 00:25:43,619 --> 00:25:48,340 S2: total dude thing, I forgot. Young Thunder's birthday steamrolled you. 466 00:25:48,380 --> 00:25:50,340 S6: I'm texting him this morning going, um. 467 00:25:50,740 --> 00:25:54,020 S2: Do you remember the birthday yesterday? And I said no. 468 00:25:55,460 --> 00:25:58,700 S7: So you just sat here all morning and didn't say anything? 469 00:25:58,700 --> 00:25:59,460 S7: That it was your birthday? 470 00:25:59,460 --> 00:26:00,699 S3: I told him late. 471 00:26:00,740 --> 00:26:03,460 S2: After the show was almost over. We were. We were. 472 00:26:03,500 --> 00:26:04,619 S2: By the way, it's my birthday. 473 00:26:04,660 --> 00:26:07,340 S3: We were well into it when I said, hey, just, uh. 474 00:26:07,380 --> 00:26:07,860 S6: Just. 475 00:26:07,900 --> 00:26:10,580 S3: Just a reminder for content purposes. I'm not trying to 476 00:26:10,580 --> 00:26:12,580 S3: be like, it's my birthday, but, you know, it's. 477 00:26:12,580 --> 00:26:15,060 S2: On the calendar. Who watches? Who looks at calendars? I mean, 478 00:26:15,060 --> 00:26:17,219 S2: I know it was on the calendar just because it 479 00:26:17,260 --> 00:26:20,500 S2: says it right here. Young Thunder's birthday on my run sheet. 480 00:26:20,940 --> 00:26:21,500 S3: Yeah. 481 00:26:21,540 --> 00:26:23,940 S6: It's okay. Jonathan, we got treats today. 482 00:26:23,980 --> 00:26:27,700 S2: Jonathan's birthday. And it's. This is what it said yesterday. 483 00:26:27,740 --> 00:26:30,220 S2: My run cheat. I've got everything right here. And it 484 00:26:30,220 --> 00:26:32,620 S2: says Jonathan's birthday treats tomorrow. 485 00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:33,520 S3: Yeah. 486 00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:36,080 S2: So. Well. 487 00:26:36,560 --> 00:26:39,320 S3: Diane is the birthday queen, so she. Absolutely. She keeps 488 00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:40,919 S3: track of all of that stuff. She brings the. 489 00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:43,760 S6: Treats because I was out yesterday. So. Yeah. Treats tomorrow 490 00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:45,320 S6: when I'm back, you know. 491 00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:46,160 S3: That's okay. 492 00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:46,640 S6: There you go. 493 00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:48,400 S3: Happy belated thank you guys. 494 00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:50,639 S2: So I want to say I want to say a 495 00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:53,280 S2: couple of things here. First off. And from the bottom 496 00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:55,960 S2: of my heart I love you Young Thunder. You are 497 00:26:56,000 --> 00:27:00,520 S2: an inspiration to me. Even though you're 30 years old yesterday. 498 00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:04,440 S2: You're an inspiration. You are a great man of God. 499 00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:08,840 S2: You are a dear soul and I love you so much. 500 00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:11,040 S2: It's so such a joy to be partnered up with 501 00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:11,720 S2: you in ministry. 502 00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:14,159 S3: Thank you brother. I really appreciate those words. It's more 503 00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:17,400 S3: encouraging than you know. And, uh, and I'm grateful. So 504 00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:17,960 S3: thank you. 505 00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:20,680 S2: And I'm going to give it a go here and 506 00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:22,600 S2: ally and I'm going to help me with the drum 507 00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:27,920 S2: roll portion here. But happy birthday to you. Happy birthday 508 00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:32,500 S2: to you. Happy birthday Young. 509 00:27:32,540 --> 00:27:42,180 S8: Thunder. Little Joe Cocker right there. Happy birthday to you. 510 00:27:44,220 --> 00:27:47,659 S3: Yeah. Thank you so much, guys. Appreciate you. 511 00:27:47,820 --> 00:27:49,100 S6: We love you. Have a bagel. 512 00:27:49,140 --> 00:27:49,620 S3: Love you guys. 513 00:27:49,619 --> 00:27:51,140 S6: Too. And I did. 514 00:27:51,180 --> 00:27:54,700 S7: Get a little peek of a video that Young Thunder's 515 00:27:54,700 --> 00:27:55,619 S7: bride sent. 516 00:27:55,619 --> 00:27:55,939 S6: Me. 517 00:27:56,340 --> 00:27:59,260 S7: She had a little surprise for him in the form 518 00:27:59,260 --> 00:28:02,180 S7: of Silly String when he came through the door on 519 00:28:02,180 --> 00:28:04,739 S7: his birthday. So he got silly stringed. Is that a word? 520 00:28:04,780 --> 00:28:06,060 S7: Can you take that silly string? 521 00:28:06,100 --> 00:28:06,580 S3: Silly string? 522 00:28:06,580 --> 00:28:08,419 S7: So I'm going to be posting that up on Facebook 523 00:28:08,460 --> 00:28:11,140 S7: and Instagram on Carl and crew, so you'll find that there. 524 00:28:11,180 --> 00:28:13,020 S2: Did it scare you a little bit when she. 525 00:28:13,060 --> 00:28:15,900 S3: Oh goodness. Yeah. So good. I come into the house 526 00:28:15,900 --> 00:28:19,180 S3: and she was she was standing behind where the door 527 00:28:19,180 --> 00:28:22,220 S3: was gonna swing. So you know. So I opened the door. 528 00:28:22,220 --> 00:28:25,659 S3: I don't see her good. And I walk in a 529 00:28:25,660 --> 00:28:28,659 S3: split second and like, just before she started to spray, 530 00:28:28,660 --> 00:28:32,149 S3: I turned toward the closet and I see her out 531 00:28:32,150 --> 00:28:33,830 S3: of the corner of my eye and my first. My 532 00:28:33,830 --> 00:28:35,470 S3: first reaction is to try to get out of the 533 00:28:35,470 --> 00:28:37,710 S3: way and duck, because I see her with her phone 534 00:28:37,710 --> 00:28:40,070 S3: and her silly string can in her hands, and I'm like, ah. 535 00:28:40,230 --> 00:28:43,030 S3: And then she got me. And yeah, it was it 536 00:28:43,030 --> 00:28:43,870 S3: was all over. 537 00:28:43,910 --> 00:28:45,670 S6: Way to go, Shannon. Good job. 538 00:28:45,710 --> 00:28:47,310 S3: It was a lot of fun, I loved it. 539 00:28:49,110 --> 00:28:52,110 S2: You look at the, uh. Boy is whiplash here, guys, 540 00:28:52,150 --> 00:28:55,630 S2: but we're getting back to regular programming here. We're going 541 00:28:55,670 --> 00:28:59,070 S2: to take your calls on this topic. And I have 542 00:28:59,070 --> 00:29:04,210 S2: been so fired up about this. It was probably 48 543 00:29:04,210 --> 00:29:07,310 S2: hours ago. I was just going through what we're going 544 00:29:07,350 --> 00:29:09,550 S2: to be talking about, and we had a little adjustment 545 00:29:10,790 --> 00:29:15,110 S2: because I noticed something in the word that is so 546 00:29:15,230 --> 00:29:20,430 S2: epic Jesus early on, first gospel written gospel of Mark 547 00:29:21,110 --> 00:29:24,590 S2: 16 verses in and he's already gone through temptation for 548 00:29:24,590 --> 00:29:29,350 S2: 40 days. And John the Baptist came baptizing for repentance. 549 00:29:29,350 --> 00:29:33,330 S2: And then Jesus is baptized and his public ministry is 550 00:29:33,330 --> 00:29:36,610 S2: just kicking off, and he calls Simon and Andrew, and 551 00:29:36,610 --> 00:29:38,850 S2: he says, come, follow me. And they drop their nets. 552 00:29:39,970 --> 00:29:43,210 S2: And they they had been casting them out into the sea. 553 00:29:43,210 --> 00:29:46,170 S2: So they just up and boom, dropped those things and go. 554 00:29:46,490 --> 00:29:50,250 S2: And then James and John, sons of Zebedee, they're mending nets. 555 00:29:50,250 --> 00:29:53,130 S2: And having been a commercial fisherman in Alaska for eight seasons, 556 00:29:53,130 --> 00:29:56,450 S2: I'm with these guys. I mean, I've got the the 557 00:29:56,490 --> 00:29:59,250 S2: repair needle. I'm sorry. I'm knocking things around in here. 558 00:29:59,530 --> 00:30:03,010 S2: I got my the the needle that we use to 559 00:30:03,050 --> 00:30:08,010 S2: repair gear nets, but we called it gear. I got it, 560 00:30:08,050 --> 00:30:11,690 S2: my mind's eye. And they dropped that. And they say, dad, 561 00:30:11,690 --> 00:30:14,210 S2: we got to go. Family business. Glad you got some 562 00:30:14,210 --> 00:30:17,170 S2: guys here on board because we got to go. We're 563 00:30:17,170 --> 00:30:19,450 S2: going to go follow Jesus. You look at the woman 564 00:30:19,450 --> 00:30:21,650 S2: at the well, she had to sit down. Shame. And 565 00:30:21,650 --> 00:30:24,370 S2: she walked out into Samaria and says, you can't believe it. 566 00:30:24,370 --> 00:30:26,810 S2: I met a guy that he told me everything that 567 00:30:26,810 --> 00:30:31,220 S2: you've ever known, but he gave me life and she 568 00:30:31,260 --> 00:30:34,620 S2: set it down. And Josiah, my favorite king, he set 569 00:30:34,620 --> 00:30:37,100 S2: down all the gods of his father and grandfather, and 570 00:30:37,100 --> 00:30:42,780 S2: he torched him and crushed him into ashes. Ground them 571 00:30:42,780 --> 00:30:47,900 S2: into powder. You know, when we follow God, my premise 572 00:30:47,940 --> 00:30:50,100 S2: is this. And I. I'm telling you, I don't care 573 00:30:50,100 --> 00:30:55,020 S2: if it's Moses. He set down palace living to go 574 00:30:55,060 --> 00:30:59,180 S2: lead a bunch of knuckleheads to follow God. Isn't that something? 575 00:30:59,220 --> 00:31:03,300 S7: Yeah. I mean, he could have taken the riches and 576 00:31:03,300 --> 00:31:05,860 S7: the cushy life that was available to him. 577 00:31:06,100 --> 00:31:08,220 S9: Yeah, he could have hung in there, but he didn't. 578 00:31:09,140 --> 00:31:13,460 S2: In Abraham, he took off into who knows where. And Sarah, man, 579 00:31:13,580 --> 00:31:16,620 S2: they're getting visions from God about stars in the sky. 580 00:31:16,620 --> 00:31:21,980 S2: And she's like, ha ha. And and give the line 581 00:31:21,980 --> 00:31:23,020 S2: that you love Ali. 582 00:31:23,500 --> 00:31:27,740 S7: She laughs. And is it the angel of that appears 583 00:31:27,740 --> 00:31:32,040 S7: to them And and she says, I didn't laugh. And 584 00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:35,280 S7: he says, oh, but you did laugh. And I just 585 00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:38,320 S7: for some reason, that is so how it would happen 586 00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:41,080 S7: exactly today. It just always cracks me up. 587 00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:41,760 S2: It's beautiful. 588 00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:42,320 S3: Relatable. 589 00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:46,160 S2: So relatable. It's this relatable. I want to ask you, 590 00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:48,680 S2: what did you have to set down to follow Jesus? 591 00:31:50,520 --> 00:31:52,959 S2: What did you have to set down to follow Jesus? 592 00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:57,960 S2: It could have been a geography. A place that you 593 00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:02,120 S2: had to leave. Could have been a group of friends could. 594 00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:03,800 S2: I don't want to give you too much because you 595 00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:05,640 S2: know it in your heart right now. Just call in 596 00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:09,160 S2: with that. That's it. That's it. What you have to 597 00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:10,719 S2: set down to follow Jesus. 598 00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:15,080 S1: This is Carol and crew on Moody Radio. 599 00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:18,880 S2: Okay, pop up banner out here really quickly, because we 600 00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:21,640 S2: just got a few days before it kicks off, and 601 00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:25,360 S2: it's candlelight carols. Now, you might say, Carl, it's in Chicago. Yeah, 602 00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:27,580 S2: but it's going to be across the network. Let's get 603 00:32:27,580 --> 00:32:28,740 S2: the details out there, Ali. 604 00:32:28,780 --> 00:32:32,100 S7: Candlelight carols is coming up this weekend, Friday and Saturday. 605 00:32:32,140 --> 00:32:34,459 S7: There are two shows each day. This is going to 606 00:32:34,460 --> 00:32:37,380 S7: be a lot of different types of music, a blend 607 00:32:37,380 --> 00:32:40,460 S7: of drama. There's also going to be a Christmas market. 608 00:32:40,460 --> 00:32:43,860 S7: Food trucks really a great opportunity for you to bring 609 00:32:43,860 --> 00:32:46,660 S7: in the season with your family. Text the word carols 610 00:32:46,660 --> 00:32:52,380 S7: and we'll get you the details. Text carols to 805, 55, 7898. 611 00:32:52,380 --> 00:32:57,420 S7: Carols to 805, 55, 78, 98. Quick note if you're 612 00:32:57,420 --> 00:33:00,660 S7: outside of Chicagoland, December 20th is when we're going to 613 00:33:00,660 --> 00:33:04,460 S7: be replaying Candlelight Carols on the Moody Radio Network. 614 00:33:04,500 --> 00:33:07,300 S2: Yeah, and you want to tune in because it is epic. 615 00:33:07,340 --> 00:33:12,180 S2: I mean, the, the the amount, the amount of talent 616 00:33:12,460 --> 00:33:15,020 S2: and the work that they put into it is profound. 617 00:33:15,060 --> 00:33:17,860 S2: All right. What did you need to lay down to 618 00:33:17,900 --> 00:33:20,340 S2: follow Jesus? That's our question here. Let's get a few 619 00:33:20,340 --> 00:33:21,260 S2: more of you in here. 620 00:33:21,300 --> 00:33:24,460 S7: Let's go to Marcy. First time caller from Orrville, Ohio. 621 00:33:24,620 --> 00:33:25,740 S7: What was it for you? 622 00:33:26,030 --> 00:33:31,190 S10: Good morning. I'm so excited. Um, I laid down alcohol. Actually, 623 00:33:31,230 --> 00:33:35,510 S10: I have been free from from drinking. And it is. 624 00:33:35,550 --> 00:33:40,229 S10: It's exhilarating. I never knew how how I could go 625 00:33:40,230 --> 00:33:42,750 S10: to family functions. And this time of the year, especially 626 00:33:42,750 --> 00:33:47,390 S10: with the holidays and Thanksgivings and Christmas parties and social 627 00:33:47,390 --> 00:33:51,110 S10: drinking all over and. And how I could just be 628 00:33:51,110 --> 00:33:54,030 S10: free from that. It's absolutely the Holy Spirit. 629 00:33:54,630 --> 00:33:57,590 S2: You don't need to medicate that pain anymore. Marcy. 630 00:33:57,950 --> 00:34:01,510 S10: No, no, I don't even need to drink casually. I 631 00:34:01,510 --> 00:34:03,710 S10: don't even need to drink. You know, I used to 632 00:34:03,750 --> 00:34:05,590 S10: even I got to the point where I was limiting 633 00:34:05,590 --> 00:34:07,470 S10: where it's like, oh, I'll just have, like, 1 or 634 00:34:07,470 --> 00:34:10,230 S10: 2 or I don't, I don't know. I was rationalizing like, 635 00:34:10,390 --> 00:34:15,590 S10: everyone drinks. And so, um, but I just this is just, 636 00:34:15,630 --> 00:34:18,150 S10: you know, personally, I, you know, not a judgment on, 637 00:34:18,150 --> 00:34:18,830 S10: on people's. 638 00:34:18,830 --> 00:34:19,390 S9: Opinions. 639 00:34:19,430 --> 00:34:22,950 S10: Of alcohol, but for, but for me, it's been like 640 00:34:22,989 --> 00:34:28,410 S10: the most Profound, um, decision I've ever made. 641 00:34:28,610 --> 00:34:29,010 S9: Yeah. 642 00:34:29,010 --> 00:34:29,930 S2: It's great. Marcy. 643 00:34:30,170 --> 00:34:33,410 S10: Um, it's it's awesome. So. 644 00:34:33,770 --> 00:34:37,690 S2: Boom. Sister, that is powerhouse. Thank you for calling in today. 645 00:34:37,730 --> 00:34:39,450 S2: Got a question for you. And we're going to get 646 00:34:39,450 --> 00:34:41,410 S2: a bunch of calls in here if we can. All 647 00:34:41,410 --> 00:34:42,370 S2: we need is. You ready? 648 00:34:42,650 --> 00:34:44,970 S7: Yep. We're ready for you. What did you have to 649 00:34:45,090 --> 00:34:48,649 S7: put down or lay down in order to follow Christ? 650 00:34:48,690 --> 00:34:52,209 S7: 800 555 7898. 651 00:34:52,250 --> 00:34:55,250 S2: Lisa, first time caller, Central Florida. What do you say, Lisa? 652 00:34:56,210 --> 00:35:00,729 S11: Good morning. Chicago. Um, Central Florida, former Chicagoan here, but 653 00:35:00,730 --> 00:35:04,210 S11: I have never tuned in. And when you asked, it 654 00:35:04,210 --> 00:35:07,610 S11: was really reflective. Two years ago, I was laid off 655 00:35:07,610 --> 00:35:13,810 S11: from a very glamorous PR job and followed many glamorous 656 00:35:13,810 --> 00:35:19,049 S11: opportunities in corporate America like space X or Global Marriott 657 00:35:19,050 --> 00:35:22,610 S11: and things of the such. And God continued to tell me, 658 00:35:22,610 --> 00:35:26,380 S11: I don't want your money anymore. I want your time 659 00:35:27,020 --> 00:35:32,340 S11: and had to go into a calling hiatus of what 660 00:35:32,340 --> 00:35:37,939 S11: continues to be over two years of basically giving up 661 00:35:37,940 --> 00:35:41,620 S11: most of my financial income to give God my time. 662 00:35:42,100 --> 00:35:47,259 S2: Wow, Lisa, that is powerful and fresh for you. Way 663 00:35:47,260 --> 00:35:49,820 S2: to go, sister. Here's the promise in Scripture. The gospel 664 00:35:49,820 --> 00:35:52,620 S2: is going to keep expanding in your soul. Isn't that sweet? 665 00:35:54,020 --> 00:35:58,780 S11: Absolutely. And just, you know, him opening doors to share 666 00:35:58,780 --> 00:36:03,500 S11: the gospel and have multiple virtual Bible studies with people 667 00:36:03,500 --> 00:36:06,100 S11: that he's entrusted and put in my life, and just 668 00:36:06,140 --> 00:36:11,900 S11: seeing the spiritual fruit versus the financial or and always providing. 669 00:36:11,900 --> 00:36:15,500 S11: So he's provided in one form or another. Um, but 670 00:36:15,540 --> 00:36:18,299 S11: in addition to that, I see spiritual fruit in my 671 00:36:18,300 --> 00:36:24,400 S11: family and friends. And, um, the gospel indeed is expanding. 672 00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:29,680 S11: And so it's encouraging because he can when he calls. 673 00:36:29,719 --> 00:36:34,000 S11: And if you open that door, he will do things 674 00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:35,360 S11: you can't dream of. 675 00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:38,560 S2: Okay, I've got something for you. I don't often get this, 676 00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:41,680 S2: but I have a deep prompting from the Holy Spirit. 677 00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:45,360 S2: I need you to listen close, Lisa. Though all those 678 00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:48,960 S2: PR chops that you've got, I can hear. I can 679 00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:51,880 S2: tell by your voice. I can tell in an instant. 680 00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:54,080 S2: As a lead pastor, I can spot this in a 681 00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:59,279 S2: New York second. God's given you talent big time. And 682 00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:02,200 S2: I'm asking you to go to your pastor and tell 683 00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:08,120 S2: him I can. You use my gifting for standing up 684 00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:12,160 S2: and being able to clearly communicate where we're going here? 685 00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:14,680 S2: As a church, you might be a convener on a Sunday, 686 00:37:14,840 --> 00:37:17,680 S2: might be someone like that. I know this sounds crazy, 687 00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:20,680 S2: but I'm asking you by faith to go do it. Lisa, 688 00:37:21,200 --> 00:37:24,540 S2: I'm telling you, sister, God's got some big stuff in 689 00:37:24,540 --> 00:37:25,700 S2: front of you. You hear me? 690 00:37:28,500 --> 00:37:31,220 S11: Wow. Yeah, because I've been fighting that. 691 00:37:32,540 --> 00:37:35,899 S2: Yeah, I'm. I'm. I'm just telling you, you won't make 692 00:37:35,900 --> 00:37:41,820 S2: much cheddar. Trust me, I'm in the biz called Church World. But. Yeah, let's. 693 00:37:41,820 --> 00:37:44,980 S2: Let's go there, sister. I'm proud of you. Boom! That 694 00:37:44,980 --> 00:37:47,020 S2: is beautiful. Isn't that a great story, Ali? 695 00:37:47,300 --> 00:37:50,540 S7: I mean, yes, and the fact that the Holy Spirit 696 00:37:50,540 --> 00:37:54,459 S7: is prompting you to encourage her in that specific way. Lisa, 697 00:37:54,460 --> 00:37:56,500 S7: I'm really excited for you for that. 698 00:37:56,780 --> 00:38:01,940 S2: Yeah, it's so cool. Okay. Really quickly. Debbie. Uh, Covington, Indiana. 699 00:38:01,980 --> 00:38:03,739 S2: First time caller. What do you say? What? Are you 700 00:38:03,780 --> 00:38:04,420 S2: sitting down? 701 00:38:05,540 --> 00:38:10,259 S12: Hi. Good morning. Um, so you can God reveal to 702 00:38:10,260 --> 00:38:12,299 S12: me a long time ago that even good things can 703 00:38:12,300 --> 00:38:17,580 S12: become idols. And, uh, when I had my two lovely boys, 704 00:38:18,180 --> 00:38:21,910 S12: they became my idols. And, um, I was so obsessed 705 00:38:21,910 --> 00:38:27,270 S12: with them. And, uh, fear took over and control and anxiety. 706 00:38:27,270 --> 00:38:29,469 S12: And the hardest thing that God ever asked me to 707 00:38:29,469 --> 00:38:34,030 S12: do was to give me my child. Give him my children. Wow. And, um. 708 00:38:34,550 --> 00:38:39,670 S12: And I remember going forward and kneeling and laying them 709 00:38:39,670 --> 00:38:42,870 S12: at the altar like a sacrifice and saying, God, they're yours. 710 00:38:42,910 --> 00:38:46,030 S12: They were never mine to begin with. They're yours. And 711 00:38:46,030 --> 00:38:49,390 S12: the moment that happened, it was like this release of 712 00:38:49,390 --> 00:38:52,110 S12: all this anxiety and fear and like, what's going to 713 00:38:52,110 --> 00:38:54,350 S12: happen to my children? What are they going to do? 714 00:38:54,390 --> 00:38:57,589 S12: You know what? But it all went away. And it 715 00:38:57,590 --> 00:39:00,350 S12: was it was God, you're going to use them and 716 00:39:00,510 --> 00:39:02,190 S12: you're going to be the one. You're going to be 717 00:39:02,190 --> 00:39:05,469 S12: the father. You're going to you're I trust them, and 718 00:39:05,469 --> 00:39:08,989 S12: I trust you enough to take them and do what 719 00:39:08,989 --> 00:39:12,590 S12: you need to do. So, um, a little different, but yeah, 720 00:39:12,630 --> 00:39:14,510 S12: I had no I had to lay down. 721 00:39:15,190 --> 00:39:19,510 S2: Different but powerful for a lot of people listening today. Right, Ali? 722 00:39:19,550 --> 00:39:21,850 S7: Very much so. Thank you for your call this morning, Debbie. 723 00:39:22,130 --> 00:39:27,730 S1: That's powerhouse walking closer to Jesus every day. You're listening 724 00:39:27,770 --> 00:39:28,970 S1: to Carl and crew. 725 00:39:30,170 --> 00:39:32,570 S2: Oh my goodness. So you got to set something down. 726 00:39:32,570 --> 00:39:35,170 S2: Scott Lake, Zurich, Illinois. Thanks for holding on. What'd you 727 00:39:35,170 --> 00:39:37,969 S2: have to set down to follow? Jesus. And boy, everything 728 00:39:37,969 --> 00:39:39,530 S2: grew from there, didn't it, buddy? 729 00:39:40,610 --> 00:39:42,569 S13: Yeah. First off, I want to say all that you 730 00:39:42,570 --> 00:39:44,890 S13: guys just said proves God's got a sense of humor. 731 00:39:45,210 --> 00:39:45,890 S2: Yeah, that's. 732 00:39:45,890 --> 00:39:46,770 S6: A fact, right? 733 00:39:47,810 --> 00:39:50,810 S13: I had to set down my pride. Um, you know, 734 00:39:50,850 --> 00:39:54,490 S13: growing up, I was always prideful in who I am, 735 00:39:54,530 --> 00:39:58,330 S13: my my heritage and all of that. And that became 736 00:39:58,330 --> 00:40:03,090 S13: an idol to me. And I it was almost like 737 00:40:03,130 --> 00:40:07,609 S13: a sense of righteousness that I, I was following the rules. 738 00:40:07,610 --> 00:40:10,130 S13: I had to make sure everybody else followed the rules. 739 00:40:10,130 --> 00:40:13,730 S13: And all of that came from pride. And then where 740 00:40:13,730 --> 00:40:18,250 S13: that led to as I was growing up was I 741 00:40:18,250 --> 00:40:20,830 S13: was proud of who I was, and I didn't want 742 00:40:20,870 --> 00:40:21,430 S13: to show. 743 00:40:21,950 --> 00:40:23,229 S2: Um, what you were. 744 00:40:23,270 --> 00:40:26,989 S13: Might be vulnerable out there. And being Christian, you know, 745 00:40:26,989 --> 00:40:29,069 S13: and I still struggle with that. I still have to 746 00:40:29,110 --> 00:40:32,590 S13: lay that down almost daily. But pride was the biggest 747 00:40:32,590 --> 00:40:33,950 S13: thing that I had to lay down. 748 00:40:33,989 --> 00:40:36,830 S2: I love it. Scott. Man, that's honest, bro. Dawg. And 749 00:40:36,830 --> 00:40:40,790 S2: that's beautiful. And I'm proud of you. See, it's it's. 750 00:40:41,030 --> 00:40:43,310 S2: And boom. This is why we call you the boom crew. 751 00:40:43,390 --> 00:40:47,670 S2: I love this so much. I'm. I'm so noodling on it. 752 00:40:47,670 --> 00:40:50,149 S2: I I'm not going to write a book about it, 753 00:40:50,150 --> 00:40:53,270 S2: but I thought it would be a great book. All, all. 754 00:40:53,310 --> 00:40:55,989 S2: You go all the way through from Genesis to Revelation 755 00:40:55,989 --> 00:40:59,509 S2: and all the people that experienced the bounty of God. 756 00:41:00,230 --> 00:41:06,190 S2: I contend everyone had to set down something. Everyone had to. 757 00:41:06,670 --> 00:41:08,629 S7: Yeah. I'm sitting here kind of thinking about that in 758 00:41:08,630 --> 00:41:11,350 S7: real time. And I mean, you often say that you 759 00:41:11,390 --> 00:41:15,470 S7: you don't have Jesus as an add on to your life. No. 760 00:41:15,510 --> 00:41:17,350 S7: You don't take him and add him on to everything 761 00:41:17,350 --> 00:41:18,720 S7: you already got going on? 762 00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:23,920 S2: No, the add on people are not born again. That's. 763 00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:25,960 S2: You're right on. Ali, you're going to get me up 764 00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:26,680 S2: on a soapbox. 765 00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:27,320 S6: Okay. 766 00:41:28,200 --> 00:41:32,160 S2: I'm. I'm telling you guys, this is a big deal. 767 00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:36,280 S2: Maybe one of the greatest evidences of authentic faith is 768 00:41:36,280 --> 00:41:39,799 S2: when you can point to something of value that you 769 00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:44,680 S2: had to set down to follow Jesus. Okay, quick one 770 00:41:44,680 --> 00:41:46,839 S2: here before we get to David Nelms, because he's live 771 00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:51,400 S2: he lives works in regions where without setting something down, 772 00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:55,120 S2: there is no salvation and the cost is incredibly high. 773 00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:58,840 S2: But I forgot something yesterday while you girls were out. 774 00:41:58,880 --> 00:41:59,680 S6: What'd you forget? 775 00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:04,160 S2: True. Dude thing. Total dude. Total dude thing here, right? 776 00:42:04,200 --> 00:42:05,799 S7: I know where we're going with this. 777 00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:09,120 S2: Total dude thing. So let me just riff on my 778 00:42:09,120 --> 00:42:13,680 S2: own here. Happy birthday to you. Happy birthday to you. 779 00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:17,420 S2: Happy birthday, young thunder. Give me a drum roll. somebody. 780 00:42:17,460 --> 00:42:22,259 S2: For the final finish. Here. There we go. Happy birthday 781 00:42:22,260 --> 00:42:25,259 S2: to you. And on a serious note, I want to 782 00:42:25,260 --> 00:42:27,420 S2: tell you, Young Thunder, I love you. I'm proud of you. 783 00:42:28,020 --> 00:42:31,299 S2: I am such a big fan of yours. And on 784 00:42:31,300 --> 00:42:33,739 S2: a serious note, my birthday gift to you this year 785 00:42:33,739 --> 00:42:36,940 S2: is just saying you are an incredible dude. And I'm 786 00:42:36,940 --> 00:42:39,259 S2: so privileged and humbled to be working with you. 787 00:42:39,300 --> 00:42:41,900 S3: Oh, thank you man. I'm. I am privileged and humbled 788 00:42:41,900 --> 00:42:43,540 S3: to be working with you. All of you. 789 00:42:43,580 --> 00:42:45,100 S6: Oh, this is so sweet. 790 00:42:45,140 --> 00:42:48,980 S3: Yeah. It's a it's a good time. I'm really excited 791 00:42:48,980 --> 00:42:51,340 S3: for what God has for me in the future and 792 00:42:51,340 --> 00:42:53,500 S3: where he's brought me to up to this point. 793 00:42:53,700 --> 00:42:59,700 S6: Yeah. Happy birthday. Thank you. Thunder. Misty. Yesterday. Happy. Happy. 794 00:42:59,900 --> 00:43:00,980 S6: I know we missed his. 795 00:43:00,980 --> 00:43:01,460 S7: Birthday. 796 00:43:01,460 --> 00:43:01,780 S6: But. 797 00:43:02,260 --> 00:43:03,739 S7: We're celebrating you a day. 798 00:43:03,780 --> 00:43:05,820 S6: Late. I brought treats. Is that okay? 799 00:43:06,140 --> 00:43:06,660 S3: I'll take. 800 00:43:06,660 --> 00:43:07,300 S6: Them. Okay. 801 00:43:08,820 --> 00:43:13,340 S2: All right. Noodling on this thing out of Mach one. And, uh, 802 00:43:13,340 --> 00:43:15,299 S2: a little bit of a theme shift from where I 803 00:43:15,300 --> 00:43:18,390 S2: started here an hour ago. But hey, that's the way 804 00:43:18,430 --> 00:43:21,030 S2: God rolls in our hearts around here. But look, here's 805 00:43:21,030 --> 00:43:24,350 S2: the deal. You gotta set something down. If you're going 806 00:43:24,390 --> 00:43:26,990 S2: to follow Jesus. You know how we pressure test this? 807 00:43:27,230 --> 00:43:30,190 S2: We go to the toughest places in the world, and it's. 808 00:43:30,710 --> 00:43:33,710 S2: I'm sure it's evident. David Nelms, the expert on this 809 00:43:33,710 --> 00:43:35,070 S2: stuff coming up. Hang on. 810 00:43:35,670 --> 00:43:38,469 S1: It's Carl and crew on Moody Radio. 811 00:43:38,670 --> 00:43:42,070 S2: You know, I get asked this as a pastor very often, 812 00:43:42,310 --> 00:43:46,109 S2: and we get asked this via text, email, people sometimes 813 00:43:46,110 --> 00:43:48,790 S2: spiritually freaking out. How can I know that I'm really 814 00:43:48,790 --> 00:43:52,990 S2: born again? There's a lot of ways that Scripture points 815 00:43:52,989 --> 00:43:56,950 S2: to evidence that you're truly transformed, but one of them 816 00:43:56,950 --> 00:44:00,790 S2: is this rather than just as Ali just spoke about 817 00:44:00,790 --> 00:44:05,710 S2: an ad on Jesus the Greatest, I think initial evidence 818 00:44:05,710 --> 00:44:09,510 S2: that you are a follower of Jesus is that you 819 00:44:09,510 --> 00:44:14,190 S2: have left something in order to take hold of following him, 820 00:44:14,350 --> 00:44:20,250 S2: something has to be set down. David Nelms. It's true, 821 00:44:20,250 --> 00:44:22,970 S2: isn't it, buddy? You see it wherever you work, don't you? 822 00:44:23,770 --> 00:44:26,570 S14: Yeah, I do. Carl, it's good to hear your voice, 823 00:44:26,570 --> 00:44:29,569 S14: by the way. But yeah, I do, pretty much everywhere. 824 00:44:29,969 --> 00:44:32,170 S7: Doctor David Nelms, our guest right now, he's the founder 825 00:44:32,170 --> 00:44:35,450 S7: of the Timothy Initiative. Tell us a little bit about 826 00:44:35,450 --> 00:44:38,049 S7: what you do that we've alluded to it, but give 827 00:44:38,050 --> 00:44:40,410 S7: us the flyover about Timothy Initiative. 828 00:44:40,850 --> 00:44:46,129 S14: We train indigenous leaders primarily in countries where there's a 829 00:44:46,130 --> 00:44:50,609 S14: heavy volume of unreached people groups. We train them to 830 00:44:50,650 --> 00:44:55,610 S14: make disciple makers. Some of them then in turn plant churches. 831 00:44:56,130 --> 00:44:59,690 S14: It's a little bit different model. We're not after church 832 00:44:59,690 --> 00:45:03,650 S14: growth as much as we are church health, which leads 833 00:45:03,650 --> 00:45:09,650 S14: to rapid reproduction and multiplication. So if you're in a 834 00:45:09,650 --> 00:45:13,009 S14: people group with a thousand villages, there may only be 835 00:45:13,010 --> 00:45:15,590 S14: a church in ten or 15 or 20 of them. 836 00:45:16,150 --> 00:45:19,190 S14: And so the goal is to have a body of 837 00:45:19,190 --> 00:45:24,310 S14: believers within walking distance of every man, woman, boy and 838 00:45:24,310 --> 00:45:28,670 S14: girl in that people group. We call that goal achieve, 839 00:45:28,670 --> 00:45:33,190 S14: which is an acronym for a church in every village, everywhere. 840 00:45:33,830 --> 00:45:36,990 S14: And so that's a real quick overview of what we do. 841 00:45:37,190 --> 00:45:40,790 S2: That's dynamite. David Nelms, you, uh, have a vantage point. 842 00:45:40,790 --> 00:45:45,029 S2: That's dynamite. And we've we struggle here in the West, 843 00:45:45,030 --> 00:45:47,590 S2: and we tackle this all the time. And it's because 844 00:45:47,590 --> 00:45:52,310 S2: it's such a veil of deception. This notion that we 845 00:45:52,350 --> 00:45:56,150 S2: can add Jesus to our life without giving up anything. 846 00:45:56,150 --> 00:45:59,790 S2: Now we get it. It's a free gift of salvation. 847 00:46:00,110 --> 00:46:03,109 S2: But the fact is, the cost of discipleship, whether it's 848 00:46:03,110 --> 00:46:06,030 S2: the woman at the well who sat down shame. Whether 849 00:46:06,030 --> 00:46:10,190 S2: it's King Josiah who followed God by torching all of 850 00:46:10,190 --> 00:46:13,040 S2: his dad and grandads false gods and going after the 851 00:46:13,040 --> 00:46:16,320 S2: God of his father, David. Whether it's Matthew who gave 852 00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:19,279 S2: up ill gotten gained to follow Jesus, whether it's you, 853 00:46:19,320 --> 00:46:22,600 S2: name it James. John, who left a family business with 854 00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:28,280 S2: Zebedee and set down fishing nets. Everybody sets down something. 855 00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:32,400 S2: The question I have is, what are people setting down 856 00:46:32,400 --> 00:46:36,160 S2: in the areas in which you work? And that cost 857 00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:37,960 S2: attached to following Jesus? 858 00:46:38,440 --> 00:46:42,200 S14: Yeah. Well, you're so right. And I would say in 859 00:46:42,239 --> 00:46:45,839 S14: many of the places where we're working, they are literally 860 00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:51,399 S14: setting down everything, literally everything, including their lives. Nigeria has 861 00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:55,480 S14: been in the news a lot lately. We we are training, 862 00:46:55,640 --> 00:47:00,000 S14: I don't know, 10,000 plus church planters across Nigeria. I 863 00:47:00,000 --> 00:47:03,600 S14: can tell you those brothers and sisters, it cost them 864 00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:08,720 S14: literally everything, especially those in the northern part of the country. 865 00:47:08,760 --> 00:47:14,420 S14: I was in a West African country recently, less than 1% 866 00:47:14,420 --> 00:47:19,100 S14: Christian evangelical. And they told me about a young man 867 00:47:19,100 --> 00:47:21,460 S14: who had become a follower of Christ, first one ever 868 00:47:21,460 --> 00:47:25,700 S14: in his family. It cost him everything. In fact, he 869 00:47:25,700 --> 00:47:30,780 S14: was killed four months later, martyred four months after his baptism. 870 00:47:31,340 --> 00:47:34,900 S14: But they were rejoicing for this reason. They called the 871 00:47:34,900 --> 00:47:36,700 S14: name of their country, which I don't want to say 872 00:47:36,700 --> 00:47:40,380 S14: for security reasons. But they said here in and they 873 00:47:40,380 --> 00:47:43,300 S14: call their country. We have a saying that it takes 874 00:47:43,300 --> 00:47:47,299 S14: two years to make one convert. It's how difficult it 875 00:47:47,300 --> 00:47:50,620 S14: is because it cost them everything. But in the past 876 00:47:50,620 --> 00:47:54,540 S14: two years, with the work there, they had seen 51 877 00:47:54,580 --> 00:47:59,580 S14: little churches started with 600 new believers. And so they 878 00:47:59,620 --> 00:48:03,220 S14: were all laughing and rejoicing, saying, we can no longer 879 00:48:03,219 --> 00:48:06,819 S14: say it takes two years to make a single convert, 880 00:48:06,980 --> 00:48:10,540 S14: because we've seen 600 in these last two years. And 881 00:48:10,540 --> 00:48:13,400 S14: by the way, I just got a text, a picture 882 00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:15,919 S14: from them this past week. They just had 12 more 883 00:48:15,920 --> 00:48:19,440 S14: baptisms there and 12th May not seem like a. 884 00:48:19,560 --> 00:48:20,560 S15: Oh, it's a lot. 885 00:48:20,920 --> 00:48:24,120 S14: Listen for there because it literally cost them every I 886 00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:27,680 S14: mean it's I've seen mothers with little children kicked out 887 00:48:27,680 --> 00:48:30,760 S14: of their homes and homeless because they came to Christ. 888 00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:33,879 S14: I met a lady this this summer who was beaten 889 00:48:33,880 --> 00:48:38,080 S14: by her husband badly because she came to Christ. I 890 00:48:38,280 --> 00:48:41,319 S14: met a, uh, what we call a Paul. A trainer 891 00:48:41,600 --> 00:48:45,640 S14: who had he converted from Islam, led his wife to 892 00:48:45,680 --> 00:48:50,400 S14: the Lord, and his wife's family was so furious they 893 00:48:50,440 --> 00:48:54,120 S14: beat him up, took back their daughter, his wife and 894 00:48:54,120 --> 00:48:57,520 S14: his son. He went to the police and they said, 895 00:48:57,520 --> 00:48:59,880 S14: you're the one that broke the law. You know, it's 896 00:48:59,880 --> 00:49:02,840 S14: illegal to convert people. It's been a year and a 897 00:49:02,840 --> 00:49:06,120 S14: half since he's seen his wife and his baby, and 898 00:49:06,120 --> 00:49:09,600 S14: he knows that legally, he has no hope of ever 899 00:49:09,730 --> 00:49:12,130 S14: seeing them again. And yet as he stood there telling 900 00:49:12,130 --> 00:49:15,810 S14: me that story. He's also telling me how he is 901 00:49:15,810 --> 00:49:20,810 S14: faithfully training what we call Timothy's. To make disciples and 902 00:49:20,810 --> 00:49:26,330 S14: plant churches. So yeah, it there. We have brothers and sisters, 903 00:49:26,890 --> 00:49:31,650 S14: Carl and Allie, all over the world. It's costing them everything. 904 00:49:32,090 --> 00:49:35,730 S14: Why should it not cost us everything? It cost him 905 00:49:35,730 --> 00:49:39,570 S14: everything to redeem us. And it cost him his blood. 906 00:49:39,610 --> 00:49:42,330 S14: I don't know why it shouldn't cost us a good 907 00:49:42,330 --> 00:49:43,010 S14: deal to. 908 00:49:43,130 --> 00:49:49,130 S2: Yeah, yeah. David, this is. It's almost breathtaking to hear this. Um, 909 00:49:49,170 --> 00:49:50,770 S2: you know, I think a lot of people hear that, 910 00:49:50,770 --> 00:49:53,650 S2: and they go, I couldn't stand up under that. And 911 00:49:53,690 --> 00:49:58,570 S2: in in the truest sense, we don't really receive that 912 00:49:58,570 --> 00:50:03,290 S2: grace until that grace is required. Don't you see that, David? 913 00:50:03,290 --> 00:50:05,569 S2: Because if we're honest, you and me, brother, I mean, 914 00:50:05,610 --> 00:50:08,529 S2: we're all in with Jesus. We know we've been redeemed. 915 00:50:08,530 --> 00:50:11,630 S2: We know we've been reclaimed. We're we know we're pieces 916 00:50:11,630 --> 00:50:15,270 S2: of work. Ali knows she's a piece of work. But 917 00:50:15,870 --> 00:50:20,270 S2: we it seems that because I've tried to picture myself 918 00:50:20,270 --> 00:50:23,790 S2: being in one of those situations, I can honestly say, 919 00:50:23,830 --> 00:50:27,070 S2: apart from the grace of God, the unction of the spirit, 920 00:50:27,070 --> 00:50:31,030 S2: in that moment, we won't persevere. That's evidence that there's 921 00:50:31,030 --> 00:50:33,310 S2: an infilling of the Holy Spirit. What are your thoughts 922 00:50:33,310 --> 00:50:34,150 S2: on that, David? 923 00:50:34,469 --> 00:50:38,710 S14: Well, Amen to everything. Amen to everything you just said. 924 00:50:38,910 --> 00:50:42,630 S14: And God gives grace, for grace is needed. And, you know, 925 00:50:42,750 --> 00:50:45,790 S14: it's I think we have to look at it as Carl. 926 00:50:45,830 --> 00:50:49,310 S14: I've never gotten over the fact I'm 71. I got 927 00:50:49,310 --> 00:50:51,549 S14: saved when I was eight years old. I didn't I 928 00:50:51,590 --> 00:50:55,990 S14: didn't understand it. I didn't understand everything about salvation then. Obviously, 929 00:50:55,989 --> 00:50:59,310 S14: I'm not sure that I do now. Okay. But but 930 00:50:59,310 --> 00:51:04,350 S14: I've never gotten over the fact that the almighty creator 931 00:51:04,350 --> 00:51:08,040 S14: of the heavens and the earth love me so much. 932 00:51:08,040 --> 00:51:10,719 S14: He sent his son to die for me. If I 933 00:51:10,719 --> 00:51:12,759 S14: were God, I would. I would have looked at me 934 00:51:12,760 --> 00:51:15,280 S14: and walked on by and I would not have given 935 00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:19,160 S14: me a second look. But he loved me, and he. 936 00:51:19,200 --> 00:51:22,640 S14: He gave his son to die for me. And so 937 00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:26,480 S14: I just look at it as what an honor, what 938 00:51:26,520 --> 00:51:29,840 S14: an honor to be able to give up anything for him. 939 00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:32,440 S14: I don't I don't want to give up stuff if 940 00:51:32,440 --> 00:51:35,320 S14: I don't have to, but I want to be willing to. 941 00:51:35,360 --> 00:51:37,440 S14: And I think when that time comes, I think he 942 00:51:37,440 --> 00:51:38,600 S14: provides the grace. 943 00:51:39,040 --> 00:51:43,960 S2: Yeah. He does. David Nelms. Um, my bride and I 944 00:51:43,960 --> 00:51:48,040 S2: are actually going to be joining, uh, a little group 945 00:51:48,400 --> 00:51:51,279 S2: that are going to. I'm, I'm just going to call 946 00:51:51,280 --> 00:51:54,000 S2: it an undisclosed area in this world to check out 947 00:51:54,000 --> 00:51:57,960 S2: what the Timothy Initiative is up to. And that's, that's 948 00:51:57,960 --> 00:52:01,880 S2: coming up in early 2026. That's all I'm going to say. 949 00:52:02,520 --> 00:52:08,100 S2: And I'm looking forward to it only because. As there's 950 00:52:08,100 --> 00:52:12,380 S2: something so inspirational. David, I think the best part is 951 00:52:12,380 --> 00:52:15,540 S2: you walk, you get back on a plane. Coming stateside. 952 00:52:16,219 --> 00:52:19,980 S2: Holiness has a whole new definition for you, doesn't it, friend? 953 00:52:20,900 --> 00:52:24,660 S14: Yeah it does. It really does. Can I tell you 954 00:52:24,660 --> 00:52:25,340 S14: a quick story? 955 00:52:25,380 --> 00:52:27,180 S2: Yeah. Do it, man. Do it. 956 00:52:27,219 --> 00:52:31,900 S14: Yeah. I was in a communist country this summer, and 957 00:52:32,380 --> 00:52:36,339 S14: all Buddhists 100%. And we had a baptism out of 958 00:52:36,340 --> 00:52:39,980 S14: the ocean, and I think 68 new believers got baptized. 959 00:52:40,060 --> 00:52:44,060 S14: They were so excited. They were so excited. And there 960 00:52:44,060 --> 00:52:46,620 S14: was a lady laying there in a hammock tied between 961 00:52:46,620 --> 00:52:50,379 S14: two coconut trees. She was sick. Been a Buddhist all 962 00:52:50,380 --> 00:52:52,980 S14: her life. Little church, first church ever in that area. 963 00:52:53,380 --> 00:52:56,259 S14: And she couldn't walk. But she was so sick. But 964 00:52:56,260 --> 00:52:59,140 S14: she wanted to get baptized. And so they picked her 965 00:52:59,140 --> 00:53:00,819 S14: up and they brought her out to the beach. They 966 00:53:00,820 --> 00:53:03,299 S14: put her in the hammock. She was the last one. 967 00:53:03,300 --> 00:53:05,880 S14: They carried her out, set her down in the water 968 00:53:06,280 --> 00:53:08,839 S14: at the edge of the of the ocean there, and 969 00:53:08,840 --> 00:53:13,280 S14: the waves are hitting her across her back. And they 970 00:53:13,280 --> 00:53:15,600 S14: they filled up a bowl of water and poured over 971 00:53:15,600 --> 00:53:18,280 S14: her head. Carl, it was kind of a half Baptist, 972 00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:20,000 S14: half Presbyterian baptism. 973 00:53:20,040 --> 00:53:22,640 S16: Okay. Yeah. God saw it as the full thing. 974 00:53:22,680 --> 00:53:26,160 S14: Yeah. But anyway, when she got baptized, she was able 975 00:53:26,160 --> 00:53:30,879 S14: to walk back to the hammock, and and I saw her, 976 00:53:30,880 --> 00:53:34,239 S14: and she. There was just a peace over her. And 977 00:53:34,320 --> 00:53:36,800 S14: I got the message after I got home. She died 978 00:53:36,800 --> 00:53:40,320 S14: two days later. But her. Here's what her husband said. 979 00:53:40,360 --> 00:53:42,680 S14: And this fits with what you guys are teaching us 980 00:53:42,680 --> 00:53:46,200 S14: this morning. Her husband said this. He said, do not 981 00:53:46,200 --> 00:53:49,560 S14: feel sorry for me or my wife. He said those 982 00:53:49,560 --> 00:53:53,200 S14: two days were the happiest days of my wife's life. 983 00:53:53,400 --> 00:53:57,600 S14: She was full of peace and joy and comfort. He 984 00:53:57,600 --> 00:54:01,560 S14: said the shame was gone. All those, those, those chains 985 00:54:01,560 --> 00:54:05,330 S14: were broken. The guilt was gone. He said. Those are 986 00:54:05,330 --> 00:54:08,930 S14: the two were the two happiest days of her life, 987 00:54:08,930 --> 00:54:12,210 S14: and now she's in heaven with her creator God, and 988 00:54:12,210 --> 00:54:15,930 S14: he's been going all through his village telling that story. 989 00:54:16,170 --> 00:54:20,049 S14: And so, you know, uh, what she gave up was 990 00:54:20,090 --> 00:54:24,890 S14: guilt and shame and, and sin. And so, you know, 991 00:54:25,170 --> 00:54:28,609 S14: let's tell the world. Amen. Amen. Let's just tell everybody. 992 00:54:28,930 --> 00:54:32,250 S2: Amen. Ali, we've got a link here. And there's some 993 00:54:32,250 --> 00:54:36,090 S2: people listening right now who, you know, you hear something 994 00:54:36,090 --> 00:54:40,370 S2: like this and it's like, let's give to that. 995 00:54:41,370 --> 00:54:41,890 S6: Yeah. 996 00:54:42,610 --> 00:54:46,570 S2: Let's let's give to that. Well, we got away. Ali's 997 00:54:46,570 --> 00:54:47,450 S2: got the goods here. 998 00:54:47,489 --> 00:54:52,890 S7: Yeah. Timothy initiative. They are making disciple makers a disciple 999 00:54:52,930 --> 00:54:57,050 S7: to 855 five, 78, 98. You can find out all 1000 00:54:57,050 --> 00:54:59,930 S7: about the ministry, what they do, how you can get involved. 1001 00:54:59,969 --> 00:55:04,570 S7: Text disciple to 800 555 7898.