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S1: Tim writes Gary, the woman I love is afraid of

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S1: loving and being loved because of two failed marriages. Can

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S1: you help?

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S2: Well, anyone who has gone through two failed marriages is

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S2: going to come to a new relationship with a lot

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S2: of hurt, a lot of pain, and likely lack of

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S2: trust in the person she's now dating. What she needs,

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S2: in my opinion, would be some individual counseling in which

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S2: she works through some of the pain and hurt of

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S2: her past before she gets ready to be involved in

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S2: another relationship. To simply go from one relationship to another,

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S2: carrying with us the baggage of the past sets us

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S2: up for failure in the new relationship. So I would

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S2: suggest that you highly encourage her to get some help

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S2: in working through that before you go very far in

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S2: your relationship.

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S3: This has been a love language. Minute. Doctor Gary Chapman

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S3: is the author of The Five Love Languages. For more,

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S3: visit five Love Languages. Com.