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S1: Daniel writes. Gary, I'm new to the love language concept.

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S1: What's the first step in understanding and applying them?

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S2: And when you've got the concept down that people have

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S2: different languages, now discover your own and discover your spouse's.

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S2: You can do that by going to five Love languages.

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S2: Com and take the quiz. Or you can also ask yourself,

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S2: how do I typically express my love and appreciation to

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S2: other people? Because that is probably your love language. What

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S2: do I complain about most often? That also reveals your

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S2: love language? What do I request of people most often?

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S2: Another clue put those together. I think you'll discover it

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S2: once you know it. Then it's a matter of choosing

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S2: to speak the love language of the other person, and

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S2: if they reciprocate emotionally, the climate of your relationship will

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S2: be enhanced. That's my desire for you.

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S3: Doctor Gary Chapman is the author of the Five Love Languages.

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S3: For more answers, visit Start Marriage Right.com.