WEBVTT - Pursuing Manhood with God

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<v S1>Coming to you from the Morning Star Mission sponsored studio.

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<v S1>This is Carl and crew on Moody Radio.

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<v S2>Unmerited favor. Unlimited power. The grace of God. Sometimes we

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<v S2>get the first part of that one. That's how you

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<v S2>pass seminary courses.

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<v S3>Unmerited favor.

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<v S2>Yeah, but. But the aspect of grace that we often

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<v S2>forget is this unparalleled, unimaginable power likened unto the raising

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<v S2>of Christ from the dead. It's an amazing thing, God's grace.

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<v S2>It's his grace. Alone, guys. That's it. Um, as we're

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<v S2>steaming towards Mother's Day, I've had a passion this week

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<v S2>to do something very different. And we're going to flip

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<v S2>this around for Father's Day as well. But if you

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<v S2>think about women and the role of men to be

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<v S2>initiating God word in the context of marriage providing men,

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<v S2>you kind of got to unwind this thing because for

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<v S2>I think a lot of us, we go, all right,

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<v S2>what's the. Give me the. Give me the five high

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<v S2>points of what a man is to do to love

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<v S2>a woman. Well, right. I mean, it's easy to go

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<v S2>to that one, but what if the bigger issue here

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<v S2>is we got to unwind ourselves from some stuff, and

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<v S2>we've seen that in our lives, right, Ali?

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<v S3>Yeah. And I think this is obviously the direct application

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<v S3>would be the context of marriage. But you think about

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<v S3>how much our society needs, needs healthy, strong, initiating men.

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<v S3>So even if you're a single woman, you may not

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<v S3>have a direct relationship with a man right now. And

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<v S3>even if you never do, we need strong men.

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<v S2>Yeah. Yes. And you have an indirect relationship insomuch as

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<v S2>these men populate. Let's just take a local church. These

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<v S2>men populated church. So the more we can get men

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<v S2>being men, let's just break it down really simply here. That's.

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<v S2>That's one of the most profound things you're going to experience.

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<v S2>Godly men. but to become that man that God wants

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<v S2>us to be. Sometimes before we go into the what

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<v S2>we're standing for, we've got to unwind something that we

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<v S2>need to be standing against. And I've been intrigued. And

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<v S2>I was up early this morning, and this was actually

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<v S2>two days ago. I first kind of hit on this

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<v S2>again in first Timothy chapter six. You get this great

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<v S2>call on a man's life. But as for you, O

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<v S2>man of God, flee these things. Well, here's the point

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<v S2>before you go on to pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, steadfastness, gentleness,

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<v S2>which are all phenomenal attributes for men. That's in verse

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<v S2>11 of first Timothy six. You got to look and go.

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<v S2>Hold it. What are we fleeing? That's my point. Sometimes

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<v S2>before you take the three steps to great manhood, you

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<v S2>got to unwind the stuff that got our turkey in

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<v S2>a Squisher.

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<v S3>Got to flee some things.

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<v S2>You got to flee some stuff. And the context of

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<v S2>this passage is amazing because it talks about godliness with

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<v S2>contentment is great gain. And then we find this famous

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<v S2>passage for the love of money is the root of

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<v S2>all kinds of evil. It is through this craving that

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<v S2>some have wandered away from the faith and pierced themselves

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<v S2>with many pangs. Isn't that fascinating? The unwinding, the fleeing

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<v S2>that needs to be done is not a letting. And

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<v S2>I'm going to put it in brass tacks terms here.

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<v S2>Don't let the American dream nudge out God's vision for

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<v S2>your life. Man, I get chills just thinking about that.

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<v S2>The American Dream is awesome, but it is minuscule compared

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<v S2>to God's vision for your life. And if your dream

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<v S2>ends with the American dream, and I'm just putting that

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<v S2>in air quotes here, it's the American dream is really

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<v S2>predicated upon getting stuff. And he who dies with the

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<v S2>most toys wins. Right. I mean, come on.

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<v S3>Right. And I mean, and having having enough being able

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<v S3>to provide for a family, having owning your own home,

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<v S3>having the ability to take vacations, all of that's kind

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<v S3>of tied into our own sense of autonomy. Comfort?

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<v S2>Yes. And those are all. There's autonomy, comfort, independence. Those

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<v S2>are all great virtues when it gets tangled with. Now,

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<v S2>I'm starting to love this stuff more than the contentment

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<v S2>that's found in God. Yeah. That gets us in a problem.

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<v S4>Dangerous. It's a good thing that God's given us that

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<v S4>can get out of control.

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<v S2>Yeah, exactly. We take good stuff from God and turn

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<v S2>it into picking idols.

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<v S4>All the time.

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<v S2>So how are we going to unwind this? Oh, boy.

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<v S2>Have we got a treat for you coming up. I mean,

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<v S2>one of my faves. I can't wait to hug this

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<v S2>guy soon. Doctor Crawford Loritts is going to be with us.

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<v S2>We're going to talk about unwinding this. Why? Because to

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<v S2>pursue manhood. There's some stuff we got to flee. Hang on.

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<v S2>Boom crew.

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<v S1>A basketball mom who's mastered the dad joke. Ali is

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<v S1>in the crew. It's Carl and crew on Moody Radio.

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<v S2>But as for you, O man of God, Paul talking

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<v S2>to Timothy, flee these things if you leave that out.

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<v S2>We got a problem here because it goes into pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, steadfastness, gentleness,

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<v S2>fight the good fight of faith, take hold of eternal life.

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<v S2>It's this vision for this incredible life in Christ. But

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<v S2>we can't forget. Flee these things. And you ask, what

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<v S2>are these things? Well, it's all linked around the love

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<v S2>of money. He says, godliness with contentment is great gain,

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<v S2>but the love of money is the root of all evil.

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<v S2>And this is what we need to unwind. I think

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<v S2>some guys get stuck as we're speaking right now. Some

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<v S2>guys are stuck, unable to take hold of this call

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<v S2>on our life to be godly men and therefore loving

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<v S2>the women around us. And as we're steaming towards Mother's Day,

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<v S2>being the husbands that our wives need because subtly, the

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<v S2>American Dream has become an idol. And I love the

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<v S2>American Dream until we worship it. What do you say, Crawford?

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<v S2>Am I crazy?

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<v S5>No, Carl, you're not crazy at all. If you're crazy,

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<v S5>then so am I. You know the statement in verse 11.

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<v S5>But as for you, O man of God, flee these things.

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<v S5>Easy for us to slip over to the identity statement there.

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<v S5>The identity statement. Oh, man of God, really sets you

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<v S5>up to be able to flee these things. In other words,

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<v S5>what brings value to you is God. And what brings

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<v S5>value to your life is God, and these other things

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<v S5>are surrogate Get statements of your identity. You don't need

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<v S5>these things to make you valuable in the sight of God.

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<v S5>So you bring stability to your moment in history. You know,

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<v S5>I mean, as we read these texts and we skip

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<v S5>over these obvious statements that are there.

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<v S3>Doctor Crawford Loritts our guest right now, doctor Loritts, I

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<v S3>was on a zoom call last night, and we it

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<v S3>was a training call, and there was a young man

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<v S3>he shared that the thing that sometimes trips him up

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<v S3>the most. He said, you know, I grew up without much.

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<v S3>There was a lot of lack. And he said, so

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<v S3>one of the things that I feel like holds me

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<v S3>back now is that I have such a need to

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<v S3>try to control. I want to make sure I'm not

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<v S3>in lack anymore. I have my budget, and sometimes that

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<v S3>keeps me from maybe stepping out to do what God's

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<v S3>called me to do. Men are often hardwired with this

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<v S3>desire to be, to be stable, to be self-sufficient, particularly

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<v S3>if they want to pursue a young woman. How do

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<v S3>you balance this? Because that's an honorable desire. I want

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<v S3>to be a good provider. I don't want to bring

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<v S3>somebody else into into my life when I when I

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<v S3>don't feel like I'm stable. But at the same time,

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<v S3>this desire to have money can become in itself an idol.

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<v S3>How do you balance that?

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<v S5>Yeah. You know, you're asking. That's a that is the question,

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<v S5>isn't it? I to have a desire to to take

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<v S5>care of your family, uh, to even have extra things

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<v S5>and to be able to enjoy life. God gives us

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<v S5>all these things to enjoy and to discipline yourself, to

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<v S5>move toward those goals. That is not sinful and wrong.

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<v S5>What is sinful and wrong when you make the resource

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<v S5>the source? In other words, your sources are sources. God. Uh.

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<v S5>And with or without it, I'm going to be okay.

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<v S5>Which means that each step along the way. Yes, I

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<v S5>work hard. Yes, I have these goals. No, I don't

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<v S5>want to, um, be what I used to be in

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<v S5>terms of poverty in this kind of thing. If the

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<v S5>Lord will help me to do something about that. But

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<v S5>I have to constantly remember whether or not those dreams

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<v S5>get translated into reality. I'm not. I'm more than okay.

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<v S5>My source of identity and strength is found in him.

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<v S5>It's when you make these things an identity statement. It's

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<v S5>when you make these things, uh, terminal goals. And it's

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<v S5>when you make these things, uh, expressions of pride and

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<v S5>arrogance and and you become dismissive of other people. That's

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<v S5>when they're idols.

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<v S2>Love it. Doctor Crawford Loritts our guest right now. When

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<v S2>we get back here, Crawford, I want you to unpack

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<v S2>a greater vision for pursuing righteousness, godliness, faith, love, steadfastness, gentleness.

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<v S2>These attributes are something that a woman finds frankly irresistible.

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<v S2>I'm convinced of that. So how do we capture that vision?

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<v S2>Hold on to it so that the love of money

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<v S2>doesn't get sucked into this idolatry. More with Doctor Crawford

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<v S2>Loritts straight ahead.

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<v S1>You can take him out of Alaska, but you can't

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<v S1>take Alaska out of him. Carl is in the crew.

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<v S1>It's Carl and crew on Moody Radio.

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<v S2>As we steam towards Mother's Day. It gives us a

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<v S2>golden opportunity and the opportunity to say, how do we

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<v S2>bless moms, women, wives, how to men be men? Because

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<v S2>the irresistible men, clearly righteous, godly, full of faith, love, steadfastness, gentleness. Oh, Nelly,

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<v S2>that's irresistible. It really is. And what we find here

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<v S2>in Paul speaking to Timothy, he says, listen, I want

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<v S2>you to pursue these things, but you got to flee

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<v S2>this stuff. And in order to flee this stuff, which

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<v S2>is the love of money, which is the root of

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<v S2>all evil. And by the way, we can say this

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<v S2>is not just reserved for wealthy people. You can have

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<v S2>very little means and still have your heart tangled around

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<v S2>the love of money. We know that I've done that

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<v S2>as a young man. We can all do it. But

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<v S2>the question is, how do we get on to this

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<v S2>greater life? We need a vision for it. Doctor Crawford

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<v S2>loritts with us here this morning. Crawford, it seems that

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<v S2>we need to cast this holy grandeur of a vision

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<v S2>for what can be if we're going to get ourselves

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<v S2>kind of untangled from what is holding us back. What

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<v S2>do you say?

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<v S5>I think you're absolutely right. I think you know, Carl,

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<v S5>the way to approach all of this is to make

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<v S5>up our minds, to live in the presence of God

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<v S5>and cultivate our own communion with God. And you've got

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<v S5>you've got to decide to do that. You've got to

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<v S5>decide to do that. What we pursue becomes the stuff

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<v S5>that owns us. And so if I'm pursuing the heart

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<v S5>of God and I'm on a daily basis spending time

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<v S5>alone in his word, and it doesn't just become a

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<v S5>point of reference, it becomes a context of my life.

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<v S5>And that's a major decision you have to make. There

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<v S5>are a lot of Christians who are believers, and but

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<v S5>we assign ourselves a constant struggle because we won't make

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<v S5>up our minds that Jesus is going to be everything

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<v S5>to me in a very practical way. That means I'm

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<v S5>going to apply. And by God's grace and the power

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<v S5>of the Holy Spirit, I'm going to apply the truth

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<v S5>of God's Word. That truth is not given just to

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<v S5>motivate my thinking and kind of like stir up my emotions,

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<v S5>but to transform my life.

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<v S2>Yes.

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<v S5>You know it. You know this, Carl. You've written a

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<v S5>marvelous book about this. It's the choices and decisions we make.

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<v S5>Your line when you're born, you look like your parents.

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<v S5>But when you die, you look like your decisions. And

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<v S5>it's making the decisions, you know. Contentment is not something

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<v S5>that just kind of like out of the air involuntarily

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<v S5>cascades over us. Contentment is a decision. Contentment is a choice.

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<v S5>I choose Karen, and I will be married 54 years

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<v S5>here in a couple of weeks. And but every day

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<v S5>of our married life, I we said I do. May 22nd, 1971.

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<v S5>But every day of our married life, we have to

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<v S5>decide that if she decides that she is a one

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<v S5>man woman and I decide that I am a one

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<v S5>woman man, and everything in my life is determined by that.

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<v S5>And so it is with our walk and relationship with God.

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<v S5>We can't keep bouncing back between these, you know, competing identities.

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<v S5>It's kind of like what Joshua said to the children

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<v S5>of Israel in the valley of Shechem says, okay, choose

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<v S5>this day. Who are you going to serve?

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<v S2>Yeah. That's right.

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<v S3>Doctor Crawford Loritts our guest this morning. Doctor, I know

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<v S3>that one of your big passions is to help raise

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<v S3>up the next generation of Christian leaders. For so many men,

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<v S3>they've not seen this modeled out. I heard someone yesterday

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<v S3>say I didn't have a blueprint for this. I didn't

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<v S3>know what it looked like to be a good dad,

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<v S3>a good husband. And that's the cry of the heart

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<v S3>of many men, is that they're not going to maybe

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<v S3>say it, but they desperately need another man to come

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<v S3>alongside to speak into their lives. How can men pursue

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<v S3>that when maybe it goes against the grain of everything

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<v S3>they've ever known to say, hey, I need some help here.

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<v S5>You know, the way you phrase that question, you've answered it.

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<v S5>The truth of the matter is, no, we didn't have

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<v S5>a blueprint. We didn't have maybe an incarnational blueprint, meaning

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<v S5>a father that did it, another man that did it.

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<v S5>But we do have a blueprint. We do have a blueprint.

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<v S5>It's found in 66 books of the Bible. We do

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<v S5>have a blueprint. It's found in the Holy Spirit that

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<v S5>lives inside of our hearts and lives. We do have

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<v S5>a blueprint. It's found in other men that we need

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<v S5>to invite into our lives as a man, and submit

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<v S5>ourselves to them at a certain point. This sounds cold,

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<v S5>and I don't mean for it to sound cold, but

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<v S5>at a certain point, we've got to stop grieving our

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<v S5>loss to the point in which it hinders us from

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<v S5>creating our future. Uh, you you have to say to yourself,

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<v S5>all of us are deficient. All of us are. All

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<v S5>of us have various deficits, and all of us have.

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<v S5>And I'm using air quotes here have reasons not to

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<v S5>keep moving and stumbling forward. But the clock is ticking. And, uh,

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<v S5>you know, Father Time is undefeated, and we've got to

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<v S5>sit down and say to ourselves, okay, this is what

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<v S5>I don't have, but this is what I do have. Amen. Okay.

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<v S5>What can I do to press into the heart of

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<v S5>God and really make the declarative statement. Like David said,

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<v S5>when my mother and father forsake me, then the Lord

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<v S5>will take me up, and then I need to become

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<v S5>an aggressive, an aggressive follower, meaning, you know, be humble

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<v S5>enough to go to somebody that you admire and say, hey, look,

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<v S5>I like to I like to spend some time with you, man,

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<v S5>and maybe, maybe have a cup of coffee with you

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<v S5>at once in a while. And there's some empty spots

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<v S5>in my life that I think I can learn from

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<v S5>you and aggressively move toward what you can get. And

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<v S5>I think as older men, maybe the guys that are

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<v S5>listening right now, you know, we need to make ourselves

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<v S5>available to some of the men that we see who

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<v S5>are perhaps struggling and have have these spots in their

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<v S5>lives and these deficits and move toward them. You know,

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<v S5>the answers are all around us. The question is, will

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<v S5>I take the initiative to get what I need and

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<v S5>God will help us. I mean, the book is transformative, right?

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<v S5>And so that that's what I say to younger guys

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<v S5>all the time.

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<v S1>She's a choreographer extraordinaire and everything is Greek to her.

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<v S1>Super die is in the crew. It's Carl and crew

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<v S1>on Moody Radio.

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<v S2>Okay, we got mom. Days are steaming toward here. And

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<v S2>you know what? Sometimes the best advice comes from moms.

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<v S3>Usually in a funny package, though. Have you ever noticed that?

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<v S3>Like that mom advice?

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<v S2>What do you mean.

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<v S3>Maybe? Maybe it was just my mom. She always had

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<v S3>a way of saying things that had like, a little

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<v S3>bit of a twist to it, and they kind of

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<v S3>became sort of the mom isms. So there was advice

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<v S3>embedded in there. But I.

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<v S2>Do this.

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<v S3>Or like she would always tell us, um, you know,

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<v S3>her the advice would have been find ways to entertain yourself.

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<v S3>Like you don't need to have other people. You don't

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<v S3>need to have a TV. But. But how it came

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<v S3>out was if you're bored, do a cartwheel. That was

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<v S3>her thing. She said it all the time. We'd say, mom,

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<v S3>I'm bored, I need bored. Do a cartwheel. And we

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<v S3>knew it was mom telling us find ways to entertain yourself,

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<v S3>which was great advice, but it always came with a

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<v S3>little twist.

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<v S6>That's awesome.

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<v S3>We'd love to hear from you this morning. What's the

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<v S3>best advice? You could have had a twist to it,

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<v S3>but it was good, solid mom advice and you still

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<v S3>hear it ringing in your ears today. 800 555 7898 (800) 555-7898.

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<v S2>Yeah. We're taking calls on this one. What's the best

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<v S2>advice mama gave you? It's got to be music for

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<v S2>this one. Young Thunder.

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<v S4>I'm sure I can find something.

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<v S2>Yeah. You got.

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<v S3>To be days like.

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<v S6>This. Mama said there'd be days like this. There'd be days.

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<v S6>That's a good one I like it.

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<v S2>By the way, does that song go on to give

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<v S2>the solution? Mama said get your turkey out of the

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<v S2>squisher by doing this. And that does.

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<v S6>It. Does it? I don't think so.

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<v S3>Look up the lyrics because I don't know much past.

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<v S3>Mama said there'd.

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<v S6>Be days.

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<v S3>Like this. Mama said.

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<v S6>And that's all I said. Mama said oh too funny.

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<v S2>Find out is there. Is there a solution in that lyrics.

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<v S2>Or is it just said that mama said there'd be

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<v S2>days like this? Because that's not the best advice. I mean,

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<v S2>there's got to be better advice than that.

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<v S6>Mama said.

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<v S2>What best advice your mom gave you while there searching

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<v S2>on this one, guys? 855 five 7898. Time to light

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<v S2>up phone lines. We're taking calls on this one. Best

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<v S2>advice your mom gave you? 805 five, five 7898. Call

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<v S2>right now. I'm going to stay here until these phone

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<v S2>lines start lighting up. Mama said what? Best advice? 800 555, 78, 98.

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<v S2>Got to cheer for mom. Got to cheer for mama.

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<v S3>Carl, did your mom's best advice have a little bit

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<v S3>of an Alaska twist to it. I'm curious.

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<v S7>I would think.

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<v S6>Yeah. Well.

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<v S2>I mean, just given the temperatures. Yeah. I mean, it

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<v S2>was like, you know, because it's it's kind of a

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<v S2>universal thing that children do not put on the proper

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<v S2>clothing for the situation.

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<v S6>That's true.

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<v S4>That's true.

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<v S2>Yeah. I mean, it's what's funny is kids get it

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<v S2>wrong on both sides because you lived in when I

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<v S2>lived in Tempe, Arizona when I was in sixth grade

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<v S2>and dad's going to Arizona State University, I, I would

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<v S2>it was really hip. I think bell bottom corduroys were

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<v S2>coming in style and it's like 103 out and mom's like,

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<v S2>what are you doing with the corduroys on? Those are

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<v S2>incredibly hot. No, I'm not, I'm not, I'm not. It's

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<v S2>not overheating me, mom, I promise you. Well, it was

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<v S2>and mom knew it.

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<v S6>You got.

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<v S3>But she's got to fight for the fact that you

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<v S3>fought to wear them. And then you got to pretend

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<v S3>you're not exactly right.

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<v S2>And the same is true in cold weather. Put on

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<v S2>your coat, kid. No, it's not I'm fine.

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<v S6>I'm good.

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<v S2>Don't wear coats. What's what? What's the best advice your

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<v S2>mom gave you? 805, five five, 78, 98 805 five, five, 78, 98.

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<v S6>Take it away.

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<v S3>Got some good advice coming in from mom. Text message.

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<v S3>Mom said read the entire recipe first. That's a good one.

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<v S3>My grandmother used to say if I was bored, stand

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<v S3>on my head and spit out quarters. What? Oh, okay,

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<v S3>I get it. If I was bored, she would say,

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<v S3>do you want me to stand on my head and

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<v S3>spit out quarters as if to say, like I'm supposed

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<v S3>to entertain you? I think your grandma may have known.

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<v S3>My mom, 7567, says on a rainy day, my my

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<v S3>mom always told us to make our own sunshine.

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<v S2>Oh, no, I like that.

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<v S6>That's a good.

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<v S2>Question. Is how do you do that?

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<v S3>I don't know, but it sounds really good.

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<v S6>It sounds good.

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<v S2>Give us a call right now. Light em up. What's

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<v S2>the best advice your mama gave you? 805. Five. Five, 78. 98. Eight. 805. Five. Five. 78. 98.

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<v S2>Mama said there'd be days. Did mama give more advice?

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<v S2>That's the question.

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<v S1>He was sharing the gospel on the radio. And then

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<v S1>he got saved. Young thunders in the crew. It's Carl

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<v S1>and crew on Moody Radio.

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<v S2>Mama said there'd be days like this. There'd be days

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<v S2>like this. My mama said.

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<v S4>Mama said, mama said.

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<v S2>Thank you. I was just waiting for someone to grab that.

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<v S2>We gotta grab it, man.

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<v S8>Mama said, mama said. Young thunder coming through.

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<v S2>You gotta put a little falsetto to it, okay?

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<v S4>You wanna try again?

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<v S3>Oh, wow. Here we go.

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<v S4>All right.

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<v S2>Mama said there'd be days like this. There'd be days

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<v S2>like this. My mama said.

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<v S4>Mama said, mama said.

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<v S3>Is that the Shirelles that sing that?

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<v S7>Yes, yes.

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<v S3>Okay. Young thunder.

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<v S2>But. But covered.

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<v S7>By. Sing it.

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<v S2>But covered by the train wrecks.

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<v S8>Rex.

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<v S2>All right. Getting your feedback here today. What do you got, Allie.

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<v S3>Lots of feedback. The mom advice has a little always

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<v S3>has a little twist. Mom said to do something useful.

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<v S3>My mom said things are never black and white. They're

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<v S3>always shades of gray. My mom said to treat others

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<v S3>as you wish to be treated. I like this one.

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<v S3>My mom said, don't hang with wolves or you will

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<v S3>learn how to howl.

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<v S4>Ooh, I like it. That's fun.

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<v S3>I think that's a version of the bad company corrupts

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<v S3>good morals.

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<v S4>Yes.

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<v S8>That's funny.

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<v S3>You might learn how to howl. Let's go to the phones. Karen.

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<v S3>First time caller from Illinois. Karen, did your mom give

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<v S3>some memorable advice?

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<v S9>Oh, yeah. She gave us a life. Was like a

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<v S9>bouquet of beautiful roses. But it comes with many thorns.

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<v S3>Yeah.

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<v S8>Yeah.

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<v S2>You know what? That's not bad. That's not a bad word.

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<v S4>I like it. Life is beautiful, but it's also hard.

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<v S2>Yeah. So carry the bouquet with Industrial gloves. There are thorns.

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<v S2>Isn't that funny? Some of the most beautiful flowers got

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<v S2>these things that are flat. Ding! You, man. All right,

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<v S2>let's keep going here. Ali, we got more. We got

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<v S2>a lot of calls coming.

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<v S3>Tammy. First time caller from Illinois. Give me your mom advice.

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<v S10>Um, my mother said to always pray no matter what

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<v S10>and to trust God.

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<v S3>That is great advice.

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<v S2>Advice, mom.

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<v S3>Great advice.

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<v S2>Good advice. Let's keep it cooking. Ali.

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<v S3>Joanne from Illinois. Give it to us.

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<v S11>Uh. Good morning. Um, my mom would say, don't be

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<v S11>too quick to say no to your kids, but if

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<v S11>you have to say no, stick with it.

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<v S7>Ooh.

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<v S8>Ooh.

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<v S2>Yeah, that is some good.

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<v S8>That's good parenting advice.

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<v S2>That is phenomenal. Good stuff. What do you say? 800

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<v S2>555 7898. Best advice your mom gave you? 800 555 7898.

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<v S2>Chance for you to cheer for mom Kevin in Illinois.

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<v S2>What do you say, Kev?

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<v S12>Well, my brothers and sisters would pick on me. Mom

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<v S12>would say, uh, when they're picking on you, they're leaving

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<v S12>somebody else alone. Kind of like, suck it up, buttercup. And,

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<v S12>you know, I tied that to John. Uh, the the

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<v S12>the scripture that, uh, to pick up your cross and

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<v S12>deny yourself, you know, because that's what happened when they

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<v S12>would pick on me, I'd feel like they're picking on me.

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<v S12>She said, well, they're picking on you. They're leaving somebody

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<v S12>else alone.

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<v S2>I love that, actually. That's kind of cool. It means

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<v S2>somebody else has got a pass. That's a perspective and

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<v S2>a half. Suck it up, buttercup. I don't know if

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<v S2>that's the best modern day version of Take Up Your Cross,

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<v S2>but it's it's in there somewhere. I love this man.

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<v S2>Give us a call right now. What do you say?

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<v S2>We got a question for you this morning.

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<v S3>Give us your best mom advice. You still hear mom

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<v S3>saying this? Whether she's with you or she's gone on.

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<v S3>Tell us that mom advice you still remember 800 555 7898.

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<v S13>Mama said there'll be days like this. There'll be days

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<v S13>like this. Mama said. She said, mama said, mama said.

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<v S13>There'll be days like this. There'll be days like this.

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<v S13>My mama said, mama said.

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<v S4>I kind of sound like that.

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<v S13>Just like everything was going fine.

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<v S2>How about those background vocals?

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<v S4>It's good.

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<v S13>Ooh. Almost lost my mind. Mama said, boy, he.

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<v S2>Got a lot paid a lot of cheddar for.

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<v S8>Repeating.

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<v S2>The same phrase over and over again.

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<v S4>And you know what? It's a classic. Classic? That's the crazy.

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<v S2>Big time.

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<v S13>Classic.

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<v S2>It's pretty good. Toe tapper getting a lot of feedback here.

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<v S2>This one's a good one. I love this. Oh where

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<v S2>did it go? Mom advice.

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<v S4>Oh, is it the one you were telling me about?

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<v S8>Yeah.

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<v S2>Love is blind, but the neighbors aren't.

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<v S4>What does that mean?

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<v S2>Okay. That is a great. That is a great mom

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<v S2>advice right there.

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<v S8>Okay, that is super.

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<v S3>What does it mean?

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<v S2>Well, it means that you might be blinded by love,

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<v S2>but then, in other words, other folks can see.

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<v S3>What you can't see.

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<v S2>What you can't.

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<v S8>See.

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<v S4>Ah.

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<v S8>Love is blind, but.

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<v S2>Your neighbors.

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<v S8>Aren't. You know what I'm.

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<v S3>Seeing from a lot of this mom advice is that

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<v S3>it's like you got to kind of extract sometimes the.

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<v S4>What do you mean by that?

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<v S3>Extract what? What they really meant when you worry, you

0:27:12.200 --> 0:27:14.280
<v S3>don't trust. When you trust, you don't worry. I like

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<v S3>that mom advice. Let's see. When I became a mom,

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<v S3>my mom said over the years, small children, small problems,

0:27:20.119 --> 0:27:23.399
<v S3>bigger children, bigger problems. Yeah, I think there's some truth

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<v S3>to that.

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<v S2>There's some truth to that.

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<v S3>You'll understand when you get older. Yeah. That's a that's

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<v S3>some mom advice. Oh, this is awesome. 2122 my mom

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<v S3>used to always say every morning, this is a reminder.

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<v S3>This is the day that the Lord has made. Let

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<v S3>us rejoice and be glad in it. This person says,

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<v S3>I think about it every time I leave the house.

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<v S8>Oh.

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<v S4>You know something I was so grateful for when I

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<v S4>started college, I really missed home. I really missed seeing

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<v S4>my parents, and I called.

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<v S8>Home.

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<v S4>Sick. I got home sick, and so I called my mom,

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<v S4>you know, like a week in. And we were just

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<v S4>talking and catching up, and I said, you know, I'm

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<v S4>thinking I might come home, uh, and see you guys

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<v S4>for the weekend. And she said, no, you're not. And

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<v S4>I said, what do you mean? And she said, you

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<v S4>have to stay there for three months. You can't come home.

0:28:08.740 --> 0:28:11.820
<v S4>And I said, why can't I come home? And she said,

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<v S4>because if you come home, you're going to start wanting

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<v S4>to come home every weekend and you're not going to

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<v S4>make any friends. She said you need to stay there

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<v S4>and hang out with some people on the weekend and

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<v S4>make some friends. And and I got really connected with

0:28:22.460 --> 0:28:25.419
<v S4>the people on my dorm floor because my mom wouldn't

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<v S4>let me come home. I was grateful for that.

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<v S2>That's actually really good, mom.

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<v S4>And yeah, she was great.

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<v S2>That is good, mom. And she knew you. She knew you?

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<v S8>Yeah.

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<v S2>Yeah. You're the. You're the youngest of four bros, right?

0:28:40.510 --> 0:28:43.670
<v S4>Yep. Youngest of four. And so, you know, she missed me, too,

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<v S4>but she.

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<v S2>Yeah, of course she did. She missed you. But she

0:28:46.710 --> 0:28:49.030
<v S2>knew what was better for you. She know you can't

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<v S2>come home.

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<v S4>She said you can't come home.

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<v S8>Oh, man.

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<v S2>That is hilarious. Eddie. First time caller in Illinois. What

0:28:56.910 --> 0:28:57.670
<v S2>do you say, Eddie?

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<v S14>How's it going? How's it going? Good morning. Yeah, so

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<v S14>my mom would always tell us, make sure that you

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<v S14>have a backbone and you always stick up for yourself,

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<v S14>no matter what. No matter what the situation is, you

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<v S14>got to make sure you do that, or else everybody's

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<v S14>going to go ahead and try to, you know, tumble

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<v S14>over you.

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<v S8>Yeah. You know.

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<v S2>What? There's some truth to that. And I mean, you

0:29:13.670 --> 0:29:16.550
<v S2>can do that in a weird and dysfunctional way, but

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<v S2>when you do it in the right way and just

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<v S2>have and that's commonly called today boundaries, where it's not

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<v S2>like somebody's going to walk over the top of me.

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<v S2>That's some good stuff. Best advice you ever got, um,

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<v S2>Ali from your mama?

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<v S3>You know one thing. My mom, like I said, she

0:29:33.630 --> 0:29:36.920
<v S3>always had advice with a twist, but she would always

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<v S3>try to pin us down when we would come home

0:29:38.800 --> 0:29:41.840
<v S3>and say things like, well, everybody's fill in the blank.

0:29:41.840 --> 0:29:44.560
<v S3>Or they said, and she always say, who? Who are they?

0:29:44.880 --> 0:29:46.000
<v S3>Who is? Who are they?

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<v S8>I love that.

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<v S3>And so what I took from it, she always tried

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<v S3>to pin down that this idea that we had that

0:29:51.880 --> 0:29:55.480
<v S3>everybody was talking about something or everybody. She would try

0:29:55.480 --> 0:29:57.560
<v S3>to get us to isolate and then it's like, well,

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<v S3>maybe I had one name if I could actually. Well,

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<v S3>actually it was, it was, it was Susie. Okay. And

0:30:04.880 --> 0:30:07.280
<v S3>it sort of she took the power out of this

0:30:07.280 --> 0:30:11.040
<v S3>idea that everybody or they were doing something and therefore

0:30:11.040 --> 0:30:14.360
<v S3>my in in I should be influenced some way by

0:30:14.360 --> 0:30:15.280
<v S3>the masses.

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<v S8>Yeah.

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<v S2>Because feelings are valid, but they are often incorrect.

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<v S3>Yes.

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<v S2>And we need to take your mom's advice now. And

0:30:26.400 --> 0:30:28.800
<v S2>it manifests itself in a lot of ways. I'm feeling this.

0:30:28.800 --> 0:30:32.960
<v S2>I'm feeling that. Oh, because that this this situation. What

0:30:32.960 --> 0:30:35.420
<v S2>what what's really going on here? Just boil it down.

0:30:35.420 --> 0:30:36.860
<v S3>What are they going to think?

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<v S2>Yeah, yeah, really good stuff. My mom's best advice was

0:30:41.460 --> 0:30:45.540
<v S2>I came home to Alaska from Multnomah Bible College and

0:30:45.540 --> 0:30:49.420
<v S2>I had with me the original Facebook. Facebook used to

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<v S2>be just a list of names and pictures. And I

0:30:53.180 --> 0:30:55.260
<v S2>showed her the girl that I was really interested in.

0:30:55.300 --> 0:30:57.340
<v S2>My mom looked at that picture and she looked at

0:30:57.340 --> 0:31:01.700
<v S2>me and she said, you better not mess this up

0:31:01.700 --> 0:31:04.540
<v S2>because this is the girl that you need to marry.

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<v S4>I love.

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<v S2>It. And I did. And her name's Jubes.

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<v S3>Oh, I love it.

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<v S2>Yeah. Good advice. Advice?

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<v S1>You're listening to Curl and crew on Moody Radio.

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<v S2>We're asking you, what did your mom say? We got

0:31:17.620 --> 0:31:20.060
<v S2>two of them back to back that are almost identical.

0:31:21.540 --> 0:31:26.260
<v S2>Wait until your father gets home. Those are dreaded words.

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<v S2>My mom didn't threaten me with it. It was a promise.

0:31:29.980 --> 0:31:34.270
<v S2>It was a promise. And I remember, man, I'm sitting

0:31:34.270 --> 0:31:37.790
<v S2>in my bedroom one day and I'm hearing dad get

0:31:37.790 --> 0:31:39.750
<v S2>the debrief from mom on something.

0:31:40.070 --> 0:31:40.950
<v S4>This is the worst.

0:31:40.990 --> 0:31:42.190
<v S2>And it's the worst because you hear.

0:31:44.190 --> 0:31:44.390
<v S4>Oh.

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<v S7>And then.

0:31:50.270 --> 0:31:55.790
<v S2>And then everything shut down. Yeah. Then the doorknob goes

0:31:55.790 --> 0:31:56.470
<v S2>on my door.

0:31:56.510 --> 0:31:57.150
<v S4>Oh, no.

0:31:57.190 --> 0:32:00.190
<v S2>Turns the slow turn. I think dad did that for

0:32:00.190 --> 0:32:01.030
<v S2>dramatic purpose.

0:32:01.070 --> 0:32:02.790
<v S4>Or you hear the shake of the footsteps up the

0:32:02.790 --> 0:32:04.950
<v S4>staircase or something like that, and you're like, oh, no,

0:32:04.950 --> 0:32:05.910
<v S4>those are coming to me.

0:32:05.950 --> 0:32:08.870
<v S2>Paralyze you with fear. Then my dad did the worst

0:32:08.870 --> 0:32:11.350
<v S2>thing ever. Whenever he punished me, he usually had tears

0:32:11.350 --> 0:32:13.950
<v S2>in his eyes. Which is a great dad, by the way.

0:32:13.990 --> 0:32:14.750
<v S4>He's a good dad.

0:32:14.950 --> 0:32:17.469
<v S2>And one time, he, uh, he had to give me

0:32:17.470 --> 0:32:20.190
<v S2>a swat. I had it coming. I'm not even going

0:32:20.190 --> 0:32:23.430
<v S2>to tell you what I did. It was not good. And, uh,

0:32:24.190 --> 0:32:26.870
<v S2>he pulled out the line. He was famous for this.

0:32:26.870 --> 0:32:28.790
<v S2>This hurts me. Carl, he didn't say more than it

0:32:28.790 --> 0:32:32.520
<v S2>hurts you because he knew that it hurt. He said,

0:32:32.520 --> 0:32:34.000
<v S2>this hurts me to have to do this because I

0:32:34.000 --> 0:32:39.320
<v S2>love you, but you can't. You can't keep doing this nonsense. Boy,

0:32:39.520 --> 0:32:41.720
<v S2>did I get the lesson on that one. That day

0:32:41.720 --> 0:32:45.680
<v S2>was a rough day. Ouch. But it was good. Dad

0:32:45.680 --> 0:32:49.800
<v S2>loved me. Sometimes your parents said something, and I mean

0:32:49.840 --> 0:32:53.120
<v S2>take it to the bank. They said it. What was it?

0:32:53.160 --> 0:32:55.280
<v S2>We're getting so much feedback here, Alan.

0:32:55.320 --> 0:33:01.440
<v S3>Yeah. Don't make me stop this car. Do you want

0:33:01.440 --> 0:33:03.520
<v S3>some cheese with that whine?

0:33:04.520 --> 0:33:06.720
<v S7>Oh, good. That's good.

0:33:07.120 --> 0:33:10.560
<v S3>Lots of. Wait until your father gets home. Let's see.

0:33:10.720 --> 0:33:13.400
<v S3>You will eat it before you wait. You will eat

0:33:13.400 --> 0:33:16.920
<v S3>it before you. Before it eats you. What?

0:33:16.920 --> 0:33:18.560
<v S2>You will eat it before it eats you.

0:33:19.200 --> 0:33:21.000
<v S3>Leftover food. You know.

0:33:21.040 --> 0:33:21.360
<v S7>Mom's.

0:33:21.360 --> 0:33:22.000
<v S2>Interesting.

0:33:22.000 --> 0:33:24.200
<v S7>Or something before it takes over you.

0:33:24.240 --> 0:33:26.760
<v S3>Maybe. I feel like a lot of the mom advice.

0:33:26.760 --> 0:33:29.760
<v S3>You got to kind of just extract the good out

0:33:29.760 --> 0:33:32.140
<v S3>of it, because sometimes it got a little wild. Let's

0:33:32.140 --> 0:33:34.460
<v S3>go to Ellie. First time caller from Chicago. What did

0:33:34.460 --> 0:33:35.660
<v S3>your mom always say?

0:33:37.060 --> 0:33:40.500
<v S15>She said, um, if you don't have anything nice to say,

0:33:40.540 --> 0:33:41.500
<v S15>don't say it.

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<v S3>It's good advice.

0:33:43.740 --> 0:33:46.420
<v S7>I feel like her inflection. Don't say it. Don't say it.

0:33:46.460 --> 0:33:46.900
<v S4>That's a good.

0:33:46.900 --> 0:33:48.180
<v S7>One. That's good.

0:33:49.100 --> 0:33:51.380
<v S2>Yeah. I mean, there's good ones, man. Give us a

0:33:51.380 --> 0:33:55.740
<v S2>call 800 555, 7898. What was your. You can take

0:33:55.740 --> 0:33:57.780
<v S2>it to the bank. Mama was going to say this

0:33:58.300 --> 0:34:00.620
<v S2>was usually in pressure packed situations.

0:34:01.220 --> 0:34:02.060
<v S7>It's predictable.

0:34:02.620 --> 0:34:07.100
<v S2>805 five five 7898. Come in from far and wide.

0:34:07.100 --> 0:34:09.660
<v S2>We're taking your calls. Would your mom say take it

0:34:09.660 --> 0:34:11.900
<v S2>to the bank? What did she say?

0:34:11.940 --> 0:34:14.500
<v S3>Let's go to calm. Calling in from Illinois. What's that

0:34:14.500 --> 0:34:16.100
<v S3>thing your mom always said?

0:34:18.700 --> 0:34:20.900
<v S10>Mom always said to me.

0:34:21.300 --> 0:34:27.940
<v S16>God doesn't like ugly. And that was when we were misbehaving,

0:34:28.380 --> 0:34:32.710
<v S16>and it would just Shake us in our core and,

0:34:32.750 --> 0:34:35.710
<v S16>you know, cause reflection at that time. Of course.

0:34:36.070 --> 0:34:37.430
<v S2>God doesn't like ugly.

0:34:37.469 --> 0:34:39.910
<v S3>I definitely heard that one. Calm. That one.

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<v S2>Oh that's great, Brent in Chicago. What do you say, Brent?

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<v S17>My mom always told my sister and I there's always

0:34:49.390 --> 0:34:55.230
<v S17>consequence to sin. Maybe not now, maybe later.

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<v S2>You know what?

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<v S17>That's a good.

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<v S2>That's a good mom, man. And if you can stoop

0:35:00.150 --> 0:35:01.830
<v S2>down to their level, look them square in the eye

0:35:01.830 --> 0:35:04.870
<v S2>and say it. That's not bad. That's good. All right,

0:35:04.870 --> 0:35:05.790
<v S2>let's keep cooking here.

0:35:06.030 --> 0:35:08.710
<v S3>Let's go to Christian from Chicago. Go ahead. Give it

0:35:08.710 --> 0:35:10.150
<v S3>to us. What did mom always say?

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<v S18>You know, whenever I would complain about not being able

0:35:14.230 --> 0:35:17.589
<v S18>to do something, and I'd say I can't. She'd say,

0:35:17.590 --> 0:35:20.669
<v S18>I can't. Never tried. And boy, does that roll around

0:35:20.670 --> 0:35:21.430
<v S18>in my head.

0:35:21.469 --> 0:35:22.830
<v S2>Oh that's good.

0:35:23.350 --> 0:35:25.430
<v S7>I can't never try.

0:35:25.469 --> 0:35:26.469
<v S4>That's a great one.

0:35:26.510 --> 0:35:29.670
<v S2>I love it. Uh, Rose, what do you say, Rose?

0:35:31.600 --> 0:35:34.439
<v S10>My mom always said you made your bed. Now you

0:35:34.480 --> 0:35:35.160
<v S10>lay in it.

0:35:37.000 --> 0:35:39.120
<v S2>You're calling it from North Carolina, so you got a

0:35:39.120 --> 0:35:42.359
<v S2>little beautiful accent, at least to our ears on that one.

0:35:42.360 --> 0:35:45.160
<v S2>And that is true. You make your bed, you lay

0:35:45.160 --> 0:35:47.759
<v S2>in it. Yeah. These things are classic, man. They really are.

0:35:47.800 --> 0:35:50.440
<v S2>They got etched in the in the in the minds

0:35:50.440 --> 0:35:52.719
<v S2>and mouths of moms all the time. What do you got?

0:35:53.000 --> 0:35:56.479
<v S3>How about this one? Uh, this person added dinner was

0:35:56.480 --> 0:35:59.120
<v S3>always at five. So mom used to say, I'm not

0:35:59.160 --> 0:36:07.759
<v S3>running a cafeteria. That's often said if there's, like, requests

0:36:07.760 --> 0:36:11.160
<v S3>for different foods. So it could also be interpreted as

0:36:11.160 --> 0:36:14.520
<v S3>I'm not running a diner. Any attempt to have a

0:36:14.520 --> 0:36:19.400
<v S3>variation on the meal that's presented before you usually got abomasum?

0:36:19.440 --> 0:36:20.000
<v S4>So good.

0:36:20.320 --> 0:36:23.120
<v S2>Eleanor, Illinois. What do you say, Eleanor? What'd your mom say?

0:36:23.840 --> 0:36:26.800
<v S19>Oh, when we were kids, we'd go, but, mom, it

0:36:26.800 --> 0:36:30.460
<v S19>never happened before. War. And she'd say, that's what the

0:36:30.460 --> 0:36:31.980
<v S19>farmer said when the cow died.

0:36:34.820 --> 0:36:37.299
<v S7>What? I would lose it. I would absolutely lose it

0:36:37.300 --> 0:36:40.540
<v S7>if my mother said that to me. Wow.

0:36:41.900 --> 0:36:43.940
<v S20>This is good. This is good.

0:36:43.980 --> 0:36:47.260
<v S2>Arnett Nelson. Chicago, Illinois. What do you say?

0:36:49.860 --> 0:36:53.940
<v S16>Um, I. My mom used to say, don't play with me.

0:36:53.940 --> 0:36:55.739
<v S16>I'm not one of your little friends.

0:36:55.780 --> 0:36:57.580
<v S7>Yes. Okay.

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<v S3>I love this so much because the first time I've

0:37:00.739 --> 0:37:04.339
<v S3>heard myself say that exact phrase to my kids, I said,

0:37:04.340 --> 0:37:06.620
<v S3>I'm becoming my mom. I just said, I'm not one

0:37:06.620 --> 0:37:07.620
<v S3>of your little friends.

0:37:07.620 --> 0:37:08.660
<v S16>Your little friends?

0:37:08.739 --> 0:37:09.739
<v S7>Exactly.

0:37:10.020 --> 0:37:11.419
<v S2>Oh my goodness.

0:37:11.739 --> 0:37:12.739
<v S3>Oh that's funny.

0:37:13.540 --> 0:37:16.739
<v S2>Oh my goodness, Paulette in Florida. What do you say, Paulette?

0:37:17.860 --> 0:37:20.100
<v S10>My mom would when she gave us a whooping and

0:37:20.100 --> 0:37:22.540
<v S10>we kept crying. She would say, keep on crying. I'll

0:37:22.540 --> 0:37:23.980
<v S10>give you something to cry about.

0:37:25.100 --> 0:37:27.100
<v S3>That one was a common one.

0:37:27.140 --> 0:37:27.820
<v S7>Very common.

0:37:27.860 --> 0:37:30.910
<v S3>I feel like that one. I want to to never

0:37:30.910 --> 0:37:31.590
<v S3>happen again.

0:37:32.469 --> 0:37:33.669
<v S7>Anyone feel that with me?

0:37:33.989 --> 0:37:36.390
<v S3>I feel like let's let's let's retire that one because.

0:37:36.430 --> 0:37:38.750
<v S2>I think that's in the category. Can we do a

0:37:38.750 --> 0:37:39.149
<v S2>little better?

0:37:39.190 --> 0:37:41.790
<v S3>Yeah, we can, we can we can do better than that. Thanks.

0:37:41.790 --> 0:37:46.390
<v S2>Pauletta flows out of just flows out of frustration. That's

0:37:46.390 --> 0:37:48.630
<v S2>all it is. Oh my goodness. We've got more text

0:37:48.630 --> 0:37:50.870
<v S2>messages than you can shake a stick at.

0:37:50.910 --> 0:37:53.350
<v S3>Oh if you're doing something, do it the right. Do

0:37:53.350 --> 0:37:55.030
<v S3>it right the first time.

0:37:55.750 --> 0:37:59.549
<v S2>Yeah I mean didn't we all hear that one, guys?

0:37:59.590 --> 0:38:00.149
<v S7>Hands down.

0:38:00.190 --> 0:38:01.790
<v S3>Oh, this is a good one. In the winter time,

0:38:01.790 --> 0:38:04.350
<v S3>my mom used to say, dress sanely, not vainly.

0:38:05.070 --> 0:38:05.670
<v S7>Oh, I.

0:38:05.710 --> 0:38:06.190
<v S2>Love.

0:38:06.190 --> 0:38:12.190
<v S7>That. I gotta save that one. That's good.

0:38:12.230 --> 0:38:13.110
<v S3>Not vainly.

0:38:13.469 --> 0:38:15.230
<v S2>It's got a nice little rhyme to it.

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<v S7>Awesome. Well done. Mom.

0:38:16.750 --> 0:38:19.150
<v S3>Kindness doesn't cost you anything.

0:38:19.469 --> 0:38:19.989
<v S7>Yeah.

0:38:20.030 --> 0:38:22.069
<v S3>Tell me who you're hanging with and I'll tell you

0:38:22.070 --> 0:38:22.910
<v S3>who you are.

0:38:23.510 --> 0:38:26.430
<v S2>Ooh, those are zingers.

0:38:26.469 --> 0:38:27.069
<v S7>That's another good.

0:38:27.120 --> 0:38:28.080
<v S4>One. I love it, all right.

0:38:28.120 --> 0:38:29.759
<v S2>I am pinning you down. What do you say to

0:38:29.760 --> 0:38:31.439
<v S2>your kids? If they were here, what would they say?

0:38:31.480 --> 0:38:32.520
<v S2>Mom always says.

0:38:32.560 --> 0:38:34.040
<v S3>Well, one of the things I used to do when

0:38:34.040 --> 0:38:36.560
<v S3>they were little is I. They. If they did something nice,

0:38:36.560 --> 0:38:38.759
<v S3>I would say you just blessed my socks off. And

0:38:38.760 --> 0:38:41.640
<v S3>I would take off my socks and I would throw

0:38:41.680 --> 0:38:44.560
<v S3>them at the ceiling, and I would do it very dramatically,

0:38:44.880 --> 0:38:46.359
<v S3>or I would say nothing and I would.

0:38:46.360 --> 0:38:47.040
<v S7>Just throw.

0:38:47.040 --> 0:38:47.719
<v S3>The socks.

0:38:47.760 --> 0:38:48.960
<v S7>That's awesome. Yep.

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<v S1>It's Carl and crew on Moody Radio.

0:38:52.400 --> 0:38:57.480
<v S2>We're taking your comments and calls 800 555 7898. What's

0:38:57.480 --> 0:39:03.280
<v S2>the best advice you ever got from mom Jenny in Illinois?

0:39:03.320 --> 0:39:04.920
<v S2>First time caller. What do you say, Jenny?

0:39:06.280 --> 0:39:09.360
<v S19>Um, my mom would always say to me, this too

0:39:09.400 --> 0:39:10.319
<v S19>shall pass.

0:39:10.719 --> 0:39:13.759
<v S2>Yeah, boy, I think I think your mom and my

0:39:13.760 --> 0:39:15.839
<v S2>mom and everyone else's mom were reading out of the

0:39:15.840 --> 0:39:16.640
<v S2>same book.

0:39:16.960 --> 0:39:19.720
<v S4>So was there a book alley? Is there a book, Diana?

0:39:19.760 --> 0:39:20.200
<v S4>A book?

0:39:21.440 --> 0:39:22.279
<v S2>Is there a mom book?

0:39:22.320 --> 0:39:23.800
<v S7>It's a secret book. Okay.

0:39:24.640 --> 0:39:25.439
<v S4>Seems like it.

0:39:26.219 --> 0:39:29.060
<v S2>Uh, Jerry in Illinois. What do you say, Jerry? What'd

0:39:29.060 --> 0:39:30.340
<v S2>your mama say? Best advice?

0:39:31.340 --> 0:39:34.100
<v S21>Yes. Hello, Carl and crew. My mama said do what

0:39:34.100 --> 0:39:37.500
<v S21>you can. Can what you can, and sit on it

0:39:37.540 --> 0:39:38.380
<v S21>while you can.

0:39:40.860 --> 0:39:43.420
<v S2>I love that one. I've heard that a couple different ways.

0:39:43.420 --> 0:39:45.740
<v S2>I always heard it is get all you can, can

0:39:45.780 --> 0:39:49.299
<v S2>all you get and sit on the can. But the

0:39:49.300 --> 0:39:51.940
<v S2>bottom line is make sure you don't lose what you're getting.

0:39:52.180 --> 0:39:52.500
<v S7>Wow.

0:39:52.540 --> 0:39:54.900
<v S2>Right, Jerry, that makes perfect sense to you and me.

0:39:56.140 --> 0:39:58.460
<v S21>Yes it does. Yes it does. Never forget it. I

0:39:58.460 --> 0:39:59.620
<v S21>always love my mama.

0:40:00.219 --> 0:40:03.739
<v S2>Oh, that's great man. Got a can it man, or

0:40:03.739 --> 0:40:04.780
<v S2>else you're going to lose it.

0:40:04.820 --> 0:40:08.420
<v S3>Good feedback on text message. This is really good mom advice.

0:40:08.420 --> 0:40:11.540
<v S3>If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything.

0:40:14.380 --> 0:40:15.100
<v S2>No, I.

0:40:15.140 --> 0:40:15.819
<v S7>Am a.

0:40:15.860 --> 0:40:16.859
<v S2>Big believer in.

0:40:16.900 --> 0:40:17.260
<v S7>That.

0:40:17.380 --> 0:40:21.259
<v S2>Really good if you don't fudge the facts. And this

0:40:21.260 --> 0:40:23.660
<v S2>has to do with even, like stretching things.

0:40:23.700 --> 0:40:24.100
<v S7>Yes.

0:40:24.540 --> 0:40:26.390
<v S2>Just tell the truth.

0:40:26.989 --> 0:40:28.350
<v S4>Yeah, it's better that way.

0:40:28.710 --> 0:40:32.669
<v S2>Way better that way. Getting a lot of feedback coming in.

0:40:32.670 --> 0:40:33.390
<v S2>What do you got, Allie?

0:40:33.430 --> 0:40:35.750
<v S3>Yeah, this one said. I don't remember my mom giving

0:40:35.750 --> 0:40:38.589
<v S3>me advice, but she displayed her advice by being on

0:40:38.590 --> 0:40:40.590
<v S3>bended knees in front of the Bible.

0:40:41.150 --> 0:40:41.550
<v S4>Ooh.

0:40:42.190 --> 0:40:42.950
<v S7>That's a good.

0:40:42.989 --> 0:40:44.910
<v S2>Mom. That's beautiful, isn't it?

0:40:44.950 --> 0:40:47.270
<v S3>Oh, that's a good one from, uh, from a gentleman.

0:40:47.270 --> 0:40:50.230
<v S3>He says my best advice from my mom. Marry that girl.

0:40:55.270 --> 0:40:58.830
<v S2>Yeah, I that's what my mama told me. She. My

0:40:58.830 --> 0:41:01.430
<v S2>mom lived it more than she told me what to do.

0:41:01.590 --> 0:41:04.750
<v S2>But I came home from Bible college the first year,

0:41:05.110 --> 0:41:09.069
<v S2>and I met a young lady, and I. I was

0:41:09.070 --> 0:41:11.470
<v S2>really excited to show mom. And back in the day,

0:41:11.469 --> 0:41:16.070
<v S2>we actually had a Facebook. Okay. At our college, a Facebook,

0:41:17.030 --> 0:41:20.629
<v S2>which was before Facebook or before what was the first one?

0:41:20.630 --> 0:41:21.390
<v S2>Before Facebook?

0:41:21.390 --> 0:41:22.110
<v S4>What was Myspace?

0:41:22.110 --> 0:41:22.510
<v S7>Myspace?

0:41:22.510 --> 0:41:25.600
<v S2>Myspace? It was a long time before any of that

0:41:25.600 --> 0:41:29.560
<v S2>and it was you. Everybody that was in college had

0:41:29.560 --> 0:41:31.640
<v S2>a face with a name under him in the year

0:41:31.640 --> 0:41:34.280
<v S2>that they were in, and I brought home the book

0:41:34.320 --> 0:41:36.560
<v S2>and I said, this is the girl right here, Jane

0:41:36.560 --> 0:41:40.680
<v S2>Ann Stratton. And she looked at her. She said, describe

0:41:40.680 --> 0:41:43.520
<v S2>her to me. And I explained her and she said,

0:41:43.520 --> 0:41:46.840
<v S2>don't you dare let this girl go, Carl. And I didn't.

0:41:46.880 --> 0:41:51.000
<v S2>I married her. Married. Jujubes. And that was that was

0:41:51.000 --> 0:41:54.320
<v S2>some good advice. She actually. I have a picture somewhere

0:41:54.320 --> 0:41:57.960
<v S2>where she's got her. She's. She's mom's sitting on my lap.

0:41:57.960 --> 0:42:00.960
<v S2>She's got the book kind of up against my chest,

0:42:00.960 --> 0:42:04.880
<v S2>and she's pointing at the picture of jujubes, and, and

0:42:04.880 --> 0:42:07.680
<v S2>she's got a big old grin like, this is my

0:42:07.719 --> 0:42:10.640
<v S2>my son's girl. God willing. Isn't that cool?

0:42:10.680 --> 0:42:11.040
<v S4>It's got a.

0:42:11.040 --> 0:42:12.040
<v S7>Picture. That's sweet.

0:42:12.440 --> 0:42:15.279
<v S2>Yeah, it's pretty cool. Uh, what do you say? What's

0:42:15.280 --> 0:42:17.279
<v S2>the best advice you ever got from your mom? Let's

0:42:17.280 --> 0:42:18.560
<v S2>go back to the phone lines. Who do we have?

0:42:19.080 --> 0:42:22.640
<v S3>Kathy from Illinois just got about 30s. Give it to us, Kathy.

0:42:24.219 --> 0:42:27.340
<v S11>My mother was a military nurse during World War two,

0:42:27.380 --> 0:42:29.700
<v S11>and when we were growing up, she would always say,

0:42:30.580 --> 0:42:32.660
<v S11>I expect you to do these things that I asked

0:42:32.660 --> 0:42:34.820
<v S11>you to do. And when I get home, I expect

0:42:34.820 --> 0:42:35.820
<v S11>to see them done.

0:42:36.660 --> 0:42:39.340
<v S2>That's a military nurse, no doubt.

0:42:39.739 --> 0:42:40.380
<v S4>No doubt.

0:42:40.420 --> 0:42:40.700
<v S7>About it.

0:42:40.739 --> 0:42:46.940
<v S2>My goodness, I expect these things to be done. Oh, sweet. Oh,

0:42:46.940 --> 0:42:49.220
<v S2>we're getting a lot of feedback here. And we'll respond

0:42:49.219 --> 0:42:50.779
<v S2>to as many of you as we can, but we

0:42:50.780 --> 0:42:52.339
<v S2>want to make sure before we get out of here

0:42:52.340 --> 0:42:54.500
<v S2>that we tell you about this cool Moms Day effort

0:42:54.500 --> 0:42:56.180
<v S2>that we've got going. And one of you are going

0:42:56.219 --> 0:42:56.580
<v S2>to win.

0:42:56.620 --> 0:42:59.340
<v S3>Some Moms Day giveaway. You can enter for yourself, mom,

0:42:59.340 --> 0:43:01.100
<v S3>or you can enter for a mom or a mom

0:43:01.140 --> 0:43:03.219
<v S3>figure in your life who you want to bless. Just

0:43:03.219 --> 0:43:05.180
<v S3>text the word mom. Fill out the entry form and

0:43:05.180 --> 0:43:10.580
<v S3>you're all set. Text mom to 800 555 7898. Text

0:43:10.580 --> 0:43:15.140
<v S3>mom to 800 555 7898.

0:43:15.180 --> 0:43:19.219
<v S2>Yeah, what a blessing this is house fires helping you

0:43:19.219 --> 0:43:22.939
<v S2>take your next step with Jesus. Let's go walk with

0:43:22.940 --> 0:43:23.580
<v S2>him today.