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S1: A love language minute. Here's Doctor Gary Chapman on military

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S1: couples loving each other while deployed.

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S2: Marriage has to do with giving yourself to the benefit

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S2: of the other person. And if I find out that

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S2: my wife's language is acts of service and that she really,

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S2: really feels love when I wash dishes, vacuum floors, and

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S2: those kind of things, maybe I didn't grow up with

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S2: a framework where my father did those things, but I'm

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S2: not married to my mother. I'm married to my wife,

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S2: and that's her language. So, you know, from my perspective,

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S2: I say, bring on the laundry, bring on the dishes.

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S2: I'm willing to do whatever to make this woman know

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S2: that I love her. That's the attitude that we have

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S2: to have in order to love each other when we're together,

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S2: and then consequently learn how to do it when we're deployed.

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S1: Doctor Gary Chapman is the author of the Five Love

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S1: Languages Military Edition. For more information, go to five Love languages.com.