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S1: One of the most important relationship realities is that I

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S1: am responsible for my own attitude.

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S2: Doctor Gary Chapman with a love language minute.

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S1: Attitude has to do with the way I choose to

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S1: think about things. Two people were in a troubled marriage.

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S1: One cursed, the other prayed. The difference always is attitude.

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S1: Focus on how terrible the situation is and it will

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S1: get worse. Focus on one positive thing and another will

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S1: appear in the darkest night of a troubled marriage. There's

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S1: always a flicker of light. Focus on the light and

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S1: it will eventually flood the room. God wants to use

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S1: your marriage in two ways. He wants to build the

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S1: character of Christ in you, and he wants to use

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S1: you to enrich the life of your spouse. Saying yes

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S1: to God is the best possible attitude.

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S2: Doctor Gary Chapman is the author of the Five Love Languages.

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S2: For more, visit five Love Languages. Com.