WEBVTT - The Elite Comeback Plan 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:03.160 Welcome to business and the podcast for people making it 0:00:03.160 --> 0:00:07.320 all happen. Running a successful business completely takes over your life, 0:00:07.520 --> 0:00:10.120 but I'm a believer that there is still room for 0:00:10.119 --> 0:00:14.560 some ands like health, wealth, beauty, and maybe even some fashion. 0:00:14.840 --> 0:00:16.960 On this podcast, I'll share with you what's working for 0:00:16.960 --> 0:00:19.840 scaling my nine figure business while keeping you up to 0:00:19.880 --> 0:00:23.040 date on the latest trends, news and fun finds. This 0:00:23.040 --> 0:00:25.920 is a place for business and let's dive in! 0:00:26.400 --> 0:00:30.760 Welcome back to business and guys, it is my birthday today. 0:00:30.760 --> 0:00:35.159 I am 32 freaking years old and I'm celebrating. How 0:00:35.159 --> 0:00:39.159 am I celebrating? By recording this. What? What better celebration 0:00:39.400 --> 0:00:42.239 I've learned as I've gotten older that the thing that 0:00:42.240 --> 0:00:45.519 makes me happiest in my life is my ability to 0:00:45.680 --> 0:00:48.479 get closer to my goals, and I get closer to 0:00:48.520 --> 0:00:52.080 my goals through working very hard. And I like working 0:00:52.080 --> 0:00:54.760 very hard because it's the only thing that actually produces 0:00:55.000 --> 0:00:57.440 the movement and the increase to my goals. So I 0:00:57.480 --> 0:00:59.200 am so happy that I get to do this on 0:00:59.200 --> 0:01:02.110 my birthday. Share this content with you. Because today we're 0:01:02.110 --> 0:01:04.710 talking about how you take back your life. How do 0:01:04.709 --> 0:01:07.710 you have a full freaking comeback in your life to 0:01:07.750 --> 0:01:11.630 where you are a different person and you are making changes, 0:01:11.630 --> 0:01:13.830 and you are tackling all of the areas that you 0:01:13.830 --> 0:01:17.550 know you have been a little crazy with. You know, 0:01:17.550 --> 0:01:20.069 that you've maybe been negligent on so that you can 0:01:20.069 --> 0:01:21.990 have the life that you want. And I don't say 0:01:21.990 --> 0:01:24.270 this in order to brag. I don't say this in 0:01:24.270 --> 0:01:26.510 order to like, say, you know, look at me. My 0:01:26.510 --> 0:01:28.470 life is perfect. Am I like this? Wonderful. My life 0:01:28.470 --> 0:01:30.869 is not perfect, but my life is freaking wonderful. And 0:01:30.870 --> 0:01:34.430 the reason it's wonderful is because I don't hold myself 0:01:34.830 --> 0:01:37.990 to the lies that I tell myself, which is that 0:01:38.030 --> 0:01:41.710 work doesn't matter, or that my house doesn't matter, or 0:01:41.709 --> 0:01:43.790 that my environment doesn't matter. No, I take a lot 0:01:43.830 --> 0:01:46.390 of responsibility for these things. And so I break down 0:01:46.390 --> 0:01:51.910 in this particular episode, the specific five areas, plus the 0:01:51.910 --> 0:01:55.870 first requirement, which is a little controversial, that it takes 0:01:55.870 --> 0:01:59.710 in order to have a full freaking comeback. Let's dive in. 0:01:59.750 --> 0:02:02.260 First up is to stop altering your brain. You do 0:02:02.260 --> 0:02:05.700 not need drugs, so stop doing them. You cannot change 0:02:05.700 --> 0:02:08.620 your life if you are high while trying. There is 0:02:08.620 --> 0:02:12.060 nothing good that comes on the other side of taking drugs. 0:02:12.060 --> 0:02:15.660 Even just the mentality of thinking that you have some 0:02:15.660 --> 0:02:19.820 sort of dependency because you need something in order to perform, 0:02:19.940 --> 0:02:22.179 you need something in order to feel okay. You need 0:02:22.180 --> 0:02:25.540 something in order to help you out. You have everything 0:02:25.540 --> 0:02:28.300 that you need at your fingertips to be able to 0:02:28.340 --> 0:02:30.620 create the life that you want. So thinking that you 0:02:30.620 --> 0:02:32.899 have to pop some pill, thinking that you have to 0:02:32.940 --> 0:02:36.500 use marijuana or anything else that forces you to be 0:02:36.500 --> 0:02:39.940 in a different mindset, is what's actually holding your incredible 0:02:39.980 --> 0:02:42.300 brain from actually being able to create the life that 0:02:42.300 --> 0:02:44.900 you want. Because its an inhibitor, its something that's getting 0:02:44.900 --> 0:02:46.940 in the way of the actual you. And it is 0:02:46.940 --> 0:02:49.700 so easy in today's society, and I'm so okay with 0:02:49.740 --> 0:02:52.139 getting canceled for this to just make it seem like 0:02:52.139 --> 0:02:54.060 I can pop an antidepressant, and all of a sudden 0:02:54.060 --> 0:02:56.419 I'm going to be happy, I promise you, you're not. 0:02:56.460 --> 0:02:59.540 We are being sold lies. This is not the truth. 0:02:59.540 --> 0:03:01.850 And for people who really want to get a handle 0:03:01.850 --> 0:03:04.690 on their life, they do not need drugs in order 0:03:04.690 --> 0:03:06.530 to do it. Now, you might be thinking that, you know, 0:03:06.530 --> 0:03:08.930 some high performing people that do use drugs do not 0:03:08.930 --> 0:03:11.570 think for a second that just because they use drugs, 0:03:11.570 --> 0:03:13.889 that's actually why they are performing. These two things are 0:03:13.889 --> 0:03:19.690 not connected. So antidepressants, marijuana, recreational drugs, anything that you 0:03:19.690 --> 0:03:21.650 think you need to take in order for you to 0:03:21.690 --> 0:03:24.530 get an edge off in order for you to perform better? 0:03:24.810 --> 0:03:28.290 Take that mindset away because you don't actually need them. 0:03:28.290 --> 0:03:32.530 What you don't realize is these substances are hijacking your 0:03:32.530 --> 0:03:36.250 perceptions and your thoughts. Drugs do not make you more creative. 0:03:36.330 --> 0:03:41.170 They are just big distractions. Eliminate anything that interrupts your 0:03:41.170 --> 0:03:45.450 natural thoughts from you, thinking something and taking massive action. 0:03:45.450 --> 0:03:48.170 This drug conversation is an important conversation to me because 0:03:48.170 --> 0:03:51.090 most people just say you need to change your mindset, 0:03:51.090 --> 0:03:53.570 you need to get healthy, but they're not actually willing 0:03:53.610 --> 0:03:56.250 to attack the thing that is holding the person back 0:03:56.250 --> 0:03:58.770 from being able to do the things that are required 0:03:58.770 --> 0:04:00.400 to get them to where they want to go. So 0:04:00.400 --> 0:04:02.280 now the drugs are out of the way. Let's talk 0:04:02.320 --> 0:04:05.200 about what you're going to replace a bad habit with 0:04:05.240 --> 0:04:08.320 a good habit, something that makes you stronger. The right 0:04:08.320 --> 0:04:12.080 way to remove anything is to remove it and replace 0:04:12.080 --> 0:04:14.960 it with something else. So get addicted to the gym, 0:04:15.120 --> 0:04:19.280 not distraction. When I was first starting my reboot, it 0:04:19.279 --> 0:04:23.320 was all about getting into the gym as fast as 0:04:23.320 --> 0:04:25.240 I possibly could in the morning. I knew that if 0:04:25.240 --> 0:04:27.400 I put it off in the afternoon, if I was 0:04:27.400 --> 0:04:29.919 going to do an evening workout, make some time throughout 0:04:29.920 --> 0:04:32.080 the day, it just wasn't going to get done. And 0:04:32.080 --> 0:04:35.359 forcing myself to wake up at 530 every single morning 0:04:35.360 --> 0:04:37.560 in order to get my butt into the gym, made 0:04:37.560 --> 0:04:40.160 it so that I couldn't do anything very fun. The 0:04:40.160 --> 0:04:42.480 night before. I had to be in bed by 930 0:04:42.480 --> 0:04:44.119 because I didn't want to have to wake up early 0:04:44.120 --> 0:04:46.680 and be exhausted and tired because I made the commitment 0:04:46.680 --> 0:04:48.960 to be in the gym. Your ability to take control 0:04:48.960 --> 0:04:51.599 of how you look, how you feel in your body, 0:04:51.600 --> 0:04:54.880 how strong you are, the confidence that you can have 0:04:54.920 --> 0:04:58.240 all by going to the gym is a game changer. 0:04:58.279 --> 0:05:02.190 Getting into the gym and associating yourself with people who 0:05:02.190 --> 0:05:05.750 do that discipline daily will change how you view yourself. 0:05:05.750 --> 0:05:08.390 It just feels good. You fit in your clothes nicely. 0:05:08.390 --> 0:05:10.429 There's nothing better than having a great pair of pants 0:05:10.430 --> 0:05:12.070 that actually fit the way that you want them to. 0:05:12.110 --> 0:05:14.029 The nice thing about forcing yourself to go to a 0:05:14.029 --> 0:05:16.990 Pilates class or meeting a friend at the gym is 0:05:16.990 --> 0:05:20.190 you cannot be high and have the remnants of that 0:05:20.190 --> 0:05:23.190 still lingering over while you're on a Pilates reformer, or 0:05:23.190 --> 0:05:26.270 while you're benching £50. I would like to be able 0:05:26.270 --> 0:05:28.270 to bench £50. I'm not quite there yet, but you 0:05:28.270 --> 0:05:31.909 get the point. You can't have that life while also 0:05:31.910 --> 0:05:36.110 having this life of making yourself well and getting stronger. 0:05:36.110 --> 0:05:39.109 These two things do not collide, so you're forcing yourself 0:05:39.110 --> 0:05:41.710 to get in an environment that is like the environment 0:05:41.710 --> 0:05:43.710 you're trying to create. You just haven't created it yet 0:05:43.710 --> 0:05:46.510 and it's not a discipline. So book the workout class 0:05:46.510 --> 0:05:48.590 in order to fill this void in your life. Next up, 0:05:48.589 --> 0:05:51.110 we have to audit. Now, this is not the traditional audit. 0:05:51.110 --> 0:05:52.670 I'm not going to make you pull out a set 0:05:52.670 --> 0:05:55.029 of financials, but I am going to make you audit 0:05:55.029 --> 0:05:57.870 the people you're around because the people you're around are 0:05:57.870 --> 0:06:01.979 either fueling your future where they are feeding your failure. 0:06:02.020 --> 0:06:04.419 Do an audit of who you spend your time with. 0:06:04.420 --> 0:06:07.020 When you think about the five people that you spend 0:06:07.020 --> 0:06:09.620 the most amount of time with. Are they assets to 0:06:09.660 --> 0:06:12.500 you or are they liabilities to you? Are they people 0:06:12.500 --> 0:06:15.580 who are going to help you, feel inspired to take 0:06:15.620 --> 0:06:17.300 actions that are going to help you get to where 0:06:17.300 --> 0:06:18.860 you want to go, or are they people that you 0:06:18.860 --> 0:06:21.540 feel like you really have to justify yourself to the 0:06:21.540 --> 0:06:24.900 people you spend your time around? Will change your life 0:06:24.900 --> 0:06:27.060 and it will either be for the positive or for 0:06:27.060 --> 0:06:30.340 the negative. Last night I had a birthday dinner. I 0:06:30.380 --> 0:06:34.780 just turned the ripe age of 32. It's actually my 0:06:34.779 --> 0:06:38.140 birthday today and we were celebrating last night and I 0:06:38.180 --> 0:06:40.540 got a chance to look around at the people who 0:06:40.540 --> 0:06:42.700 were at this birthday dinner, and I had a moment 0:06:42.700 --> 0:06:47.339 of overwhelming emotion. I was just sitting there watching everybody talk, 0:06:47.540 --> 0:06:50.979 and it's almost like a movie scene where everything moved 0:06:50.980 --> 0:06:54.900 to slow motion. And I looked at each person that 0:06:54.900 --> 0:06:58.700 was sitting around the table and was so appreciative, like, 0:06:59.140 --> 0:07:02.089 from the bottom of my heart, appreciative for the people 0:07:02.089 --> 0:07:05.890 who were there, because each one of them supports me 0:07:05.890 --> 0:07:09.089 in my goals and my dreams. They believe in me 0:07:09.130 --> 0:07:12.650 and actually see that I'm capable, and it's possible for 0:07:12.650 --> 0:07:14.410 me to get to where I want to go. And 0:07:14.410 --> 0:07:18.370 they are also rooting for me like real cheerleaders. And 0:07:18.370 --> 0:07:20.210 when they ask me the question of what is the 0:07:20.210 --> 0:07:22.690 next year going to bring for you, it's like, man, 0:07:22.690 --> 0:07:24.730 I can't wait for this thing to happen and this 0:07:24.730 --> 0:07:26.810 thing to happen. I'm going to spend my time here. 0:07:26.810 --> 0:07:30.010 And there was genuine interest and excitement and where I 0:07:30.010 --> 0:07:33.450 see my life going and most importantly, all the people 0:07:33.450 --> 0:07:36.170 would defend me. Think about that. I have people in 0:07:36.170 --> 0:07:39.770 my life who would defend me. They believe so much 0:07:39.770 --> 0:07:42.410 in me because they have consistency with me, and they 0:07:42.410 --> 0:07:44.770 see who I am day in and day out, that 0:07:44.770 --> 0:07:47.130 they would be willing to go to bat for me 0:07:47.130 --> 0:07:49.690 because they know and trust the type of person that 0:07:49.690 --> 0:07:52.850 I am. You have to build that. That doesn't just happen. 0:07:52.850 --> 0:07:54.810 So when you think about the five people that you 0:07:54.810 --> 0:07:58.610 spend the most time around, do they defend you? Do 0:07:58.610 --> 0:08:01.880 they even defend themselves. Sometimes you get yourself caught up 0:08:01.880 --> 0:08:05.000 with friends who they're cool people, but they don't have 0:08:05.000 --> 0:08:07.640 a backbone. They don't have opinions on something. They don't 0:08:07.640 --> 0:08:10.520 have a point of view. They don't really care about themselves, 0:08:10.520 --> 0:08:13.520 much less for you and for your goals and for 0:08:13.520 --> 0:08:17.240 your dreams. So this defending thing, this protecting thing is 0:08:17.240 --> 0:08:20.080 such an important quality. But you only get people in 0:08:20.080 --> 0:08:22.920 your life like that. If you become the type of 0:08:22.920 --> 0:08:26.840 person who is trustworthy, who is consistent, who is building 0:08:26.840 --> 0:08:29.640 something great, who can be believed in because you're not 0:08:29.640 --> 0:08:32.760 going to create great relationships with people who have real backbones. 0:08:32.800 --> 0:08:34.880 Unless you are the type of person who is a 0:08:34.880 --> 0:08:38.920 great person and has a real backbone and goes after massive, incredible, 0:08:39.120 --> 0:08:41.920 unbelievable targets. So when you do make this list of 0:08:41.920 --> 0:08:47.040 your friends, the five people asset column, liability column, if 0:08:47.040 --> 0:08:50.280 they're in the liability column, I promise you they will 0:08:50.280 --> 0:08:55.400 not help you be successful, be productive and create the 0:08:55.400 --> 0:08:57.720 life that you want. So you have to figure out 0:08:57.720 --> 0:09:00.719 how to handle those people in your life. I'm not 0:09:00.720 --> 0:09:03.280 saying that you just stop being friends with them altogether, 0:09:03.280 --> 0:09:05.440 but I am saying, hey, maybe you should stop spending 0:09:05.440 --> 0:09:07.560 so much time with them because you're reducing your chances 0:09:07.559 --> 0:09:10.800 of getting unstuck. And if you're watching this and you 0:09:10.800 --> 0:09:12.920 really do feel stuck, I have a feeling you wouldn't 0:09:12.920 --> 0:09:15.160 still be here if you didn't actually feel stuck. You 0:09:15.160 --> 0:09:19.719 really feel that painstaking, stuck feeling. You have to create 0:09:19.720 --> 0:09:23.520 this environment that allows you to not be stuck any longer. 0:09:23.520 --> 0:09:25.720 And there is nothing that changes this faster than the 0:09:25.720 --> 0:09:29.360 people that you surround yourself with. Negative relationships keep you 0:09:29.360 --> 0:09:33.280 stuck in old patterns, and even one toxic friend can 0:09:33.280 --> 0:09:36.680 block you from reinventing yourself. So ask yourself if these 0:09:36.679 --> 0:09:39.640 people help you feel confident or make you feel sad 0:09:39.640 --> 0:09:43.800 when you're around them. It is so important to curate 0:09:43.800 --> 0:09:47.040 your friend group with brutal honesty. The next area of 0:09:47.040 --> 0:09:49.960 your comeback has to be your finances. You will not 0:09:49.960 --> 0:09:52.319 feel confident in your comeback if you do not have 0:09:52.320 --> 0:09:54.640 clarity on how you can make more money. And in 0:09:54.640 --> 0:09:56.920 order to make more money, you have to be the 0:09:56.920 --> 0:09:59.550 best of the best at what you do. I don't 0:09:59.550 --> 0:10:01.790 care what you do. You could be a salesperson. You 0:10:01.790 --> 0:10:04.390 could be a recruiter. You could be a head of operations. 0:10:04.390 --> 0:10:07.070 You could be an accounting. Doesn't matter. What would it 0:10:07.070 --> 0:10:11.030 take for you to be the top 1% in your field? 0:10:11.070 --> 0:10:13.630 Who do you need to know? What questions do you 0:10:13.630 --> 0:10:17.230 have to ask? What content are you not familiar with? 0:10:17.270 --> 0:10:20.630 What the top 1% in your field is actually doing? 0:10:20.670 --> 0:10:22.309 To the extent you don't know these questions, you're not 0:10:22.309 --> 0:10:24.310 the top 1%. Maybe you have a lot of ego. 0:10:24.350 --> 0:10:28.390 You're thinking you're hot shit, you're doing great. You're already cruising. 0:10:28.510 --> 0:10:31.670 If that's the case, but you're not actually clear on 0:10:31.670 --> 0:10:35.189 the criteria to become the 1%. Your ego is too 0:10:35.190 --> 0:10:37.630 big and your ego is what's going to keep you stuck. 0:10:37.830 --> 0:10:41.110 Check your ego at the door. Figure out in your 0:10:41.110 --> 0:10:45.069 field what the top 1% are doing and do that today. 0:10:45.110 --> 0:10:47.350 This is not a Monday thing. This is not a 0:10:47.350 --> 0:10:50.030 wait till over the weekend thing. What is required of 0:10:50.030 --> 0:10:52.190 you to be the top 1% in your field? The 0:10:52.190 --> 0:10:57.110 next area is targeting growth. So when you think about growth, 0:10:57.270 --> 0:11:00.459 how do you take growth in being the top 1%, 0:11:00.460 --> 0:11:03.900 so that you get paid disproportionately more than you're paid 0:11:03.900 --> 0:11:06.300 right now, because you are the best in your field, 0:11:06.300 --> 0:11:08.819 you need to get the data and the understanding of 0:11:08.820 --> 0:11:11.260 what is actually required to be the top 1%. There's 0:11:11.260 --> 0:11:15.300 no better way to grow in 2025 than utilizing ChatGPT. 0:11:15.340 --> 0:11:17.620 I literally just have this conversation with one of my 0:11:17.620 --> 0:11:20.100 team members last week. We're going through a new set 0:11:20.100 --> 0:11:22.939 of challenges. This particular team member has a whole department 0:11:22.940 --> 0:11:25.940 that they need to do a massive overhaul in, and 0:11:25.940 --> 0:11:28.900 they felt a little overwhelmed because they don't have the knowledge, 0:11:28.900 --> 0:11:31.380 they don't understand how to make all of these changes. 0:11:31.380 --> 0:11:34.180 So I said, listen up. You're going to type into ChatGPT. 0:11:34.340 --> 0:11:36.980 What do I need to read, listen to, or watch 0:11:37.020 --> 0:11:39.820 at least for an hour every single day in order 0:11:39.820 --> 0:11:42.980 to get myself in the top 1% in this field. 0:11:43.380 --> 0:11:45.940 Create a syllabus for me and lay this out with 0:11:45.940 --> 0:11:48.740 links with all references, so that I can use this 0:11:48.740 --> 0:11:51.900 as my study guide and keep me accountable. ChatGPT whipped 0:11:51.900 --> 0:11:53.980 this up in a matter of 15 seconds, and all 0:11:53.980 --> 0:11:56.219 of a sudden there is a full list of the 0:11:56.220 --> 0:12:00.690 exact actions data Characteristics that this person needs to embody 0:12:00.690 --> 0:12:03.849 and have and do in order to be the top 1%. 0:12:03.890 --> 0:12:06.010 You be the freaking best, but you might not know 0:12:06.010 --> 0:12:07.770 how to be the best. And in the past, it 0:12:07.770 --> 0:12:09.809 was a little challenging to figure this out. You had 0:12:09.809 --> 0:12:11.770 to read a bunch of books. There was a lot 0:12:11.809 --> 0:12:14.570 of data. There were so many YouTube videos out there. 0:12:14.570 --> 0:12:18.650 All of a sudden, ChatGPT can create a personalized roadmap 0:12:18.650 --> 0:12:21.130 for you to figure out the exact areas you need 0:12:21.130 --> 0:12:23.170 to grow in, and you can also give it feedback 0:12:23.170 --> 0:12:25.850 to say, this is where I'm at right now, so 0:12:25.890 --> 0:12:29.730 it customizes your learning plan. It has never been easier 0:12:29.730 --> 0:12:32.689 to grow and to learn than it is today. We 0:12:32.730 --> 0:12:37.929 are in an unprecedented time, so take advantage of this. 0:12:37.929 --> 0:12:39.890 But the way that you take advantage of it is 0:12:39.890 --> 0:12:42.690 by recognizing and owning the fact that you are going 0:12:42.690 --> 0:12:44.890 to be in the top 1%. You are never going 0:12:44.929 --> 0:12:47.170 to make a comeback if you do not master this 0:12:47.170 --> 0:12:50.489 final step, which is getting shit out of your life. 0:12:50.490 --> 0:12:52.530 To get to a new place, you have to leave 0:12:52.530 --> 0:12:55.250 the place that you currently are in. You cannot go 0:12:55.250 --> 0:12:57.250 where you want to go while still being where you are. 0:12:57.250 --> 0:13:00.320 And if where you are is a mess. You have 0:13:00.360 --> 0:13:04.720 unread text messages, unread emails, communication cycles that are left 0:13:04.720 --> 0:13:07.640 open because you're not following up. You're not cleaning your house. 0:13:07.640 --> 0:13:10.600 You're not taking responsibility for your car. What condition is 0:13:10.600 --> 0:13:13.000 your bedroom in? What is your nightstand look like? If 0:13:13.000 --> 0:13:15.439 you really want to get out of the rut, the 0:13:15.440 --> 0:13:17.760 environment around you has to change and you are the 0:13:17.760 --> 0:13:20.520 only person who can change it. What's masterful about this 0:13:20.520 --> 0:13:22.880 is you could knock this out in eight hours. This 0:13:22.880 --> 0:13:25.080 is not a one week project. This is not a 0:13:25.080 --> 0:13:27.840 month long project. You could shut your computer right now 0:13:27.880 --> 0:13:30.960 and say, I'm going to take control of my entire surroundings. 0:13:30.960 --> 0:13:33.240 And by tomorrow morning, I'm going to wake up and 0:13:33.240 --> 0:13:35.079 I'm going to be in a brand new environment. That 0:13:35.080 --> 0:13:38.160 is what's required if you truly want to get unstuck. 0:13:38.160 --> 0:13:40.800 And here's the thing I believe that you can get unstuck. 0:13:40.800 --> 0:13:42.960 There's no reason for you to continue to make sense 0:13:42.960 --> 0:13:46.800 of being upset with yourself, being frustrated with yourself, feeling 0:13:46.800 --> 0:13:49.480 down about what your life looks like. What's really cool 0:13:49.480 --> 0:13:52.120 for me is I mentioned earlier, today is my birthday, 0:13:52.120 --> 0:13:54.560 and I made this cute little Instagram post earlier today 0:13:54.559 --> 0:13:57.240 about being really proud of myself. And I remember when 0:13:57.240 --> 0:14:00.309 I used to wake up on my birthday every single birthday. 0:14:00.309 --> 0:14:02.790 And I would cry because at some point throughout the day, 0:14:02.790 --> 0:14:05.950 I would remember that I am getting older and I 0:14:05.950 --> 0:14:07.870 am not getting closer to where I want to go, 0:14:07.870 --> 0:14:11.510 and it was painfully emotional for me. I couldn't get 0:14:11.510 --> 0:14:15.230 out of my own head around the other 364 days 0:14:15.230 --> 0:14:18.310 that I had spent the previous year, and the fact 0:14:18.309 --> 0:14:20.670 that I didn't do things that I needed to do 0:14:20.710 --> 0:14:22.670 in order to make my environment the way that I 0:14:22.670 --> 0:14:24.550 wanted it to be, in order to get out of 0:14:24.550 --> 0:14:26.630 the rut that I was in. And so on my birthday, 0:14:26.630 --> 0:14:30.070 was just this fat, freaking reminder to me of looking 0:14:30.070 --> 0:14:32.790 in the mirror and saying, I'm not any closer. So 0:14:32.990 --> 0:14:35.470 on this birthday, I'm not shedding a single frickin tier. 0:14:35.470 --> 0:14:37.270 I've never been more excited about my life, and I 0:14:37.310 --> 0:14:40.390 haven't cried on my birthday for at least six years 0:14:40.390 --> 0:14:42.590 because I decided to make a change and I no 0:14:42.590 --> 0:14:46.150 longer listened to my own bullshit that being stuck is okay, 0:14:46.350 --> 0:14:48.830 and that the disaster that was my environment is somebody 0:14:48.830 --> 0:14:52.790 else's job. It's my job. 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