WEBVTT - EP 147 | Discovering Your Worth with Hofit Golan 0:00:00.050 --> 0:00:03.680 Welcome back to another episode of Building Billions. It's Natalie Dawson, 0:00:03.680 --> 0:00:07.310 your host, but more importantly, a testament of what is possible. 0:00:07.310 --> 0:00:10.160 Forget about playing it safe or sticking to the script. 0:00:10.160 --> 0:00:13.310 As a business owner, it's time you redefine success on 0:00:13.310 --> 0:00:16.070 your own terms. My mission is to not only give 0:00:16.070 --> 0:00:19.489 you a sense of ownership, motivation, and strategic direction in 0:00:19.489 --> 0:00:23.120 your business, but I'm here to affirm that it's perfectly fine. 0:00:23.120 --> 0:00:26.630 In fact, it's crucial to break the mold and chase 0:00:26.630 --> 0:00:30.230 what seems unattainable. It's time to be unreasonable with all 0:00:30.260 --> 0:00:34.339 of the personal, professional, and financial goals not only for you, 0:00:34.340 --> 0:00:37.610 but for your family and your team members too. This 0:00:37.610 --> 0:00:42.050 podcast is your guidebook. Let's build billions together. Make sure 0:00:42.050 --> 0:00:44.449 you subscribe to my YouTube channel for more insights and 0:00:44.450 --> 0:00:48.050 some incredible guests. With that, grab your pen and paper 0:00:48.050 --> 0:00:50.750 or your notes app and listen up as the next 0:00:50.750 --> 0:00:56.060 episode of Building Billions starts right now. Well, I am 0:00:56.060 --> 0:00:59.150 so excited for this episode because I have had the 0:00:59.150 --> 0:01:02.810 pleasure of meeting this incredible woman on a handful of occasions. 0:01:02.810 --> 0:01:04.700 And then I went and stalked her social media, which 0:01:04.700 --> 0:01:06.230 is exactly what you're going to want to do. After 0:01:06.230 --> 0:01:09.530 hearing this episode and realized how much of a powerhouse 0:01:09.530 --> 0:01:12.470 she truly is. I want to welcome her feet onto 0:01:12.500 --> 0:01:14.060 building billions welcome. 0:01:14.090 --> 0:01:16.820 From one powerhouse to the other. It's a pleasure to 0:01:16.819 --> 0:01:17.390 be here. 0:01:17.420 --> 0:01:20.779 I love that you are such an enigma to me. 0:01:20.780 --> 0:01:23.720 I was just explaining to this this to her offline 0:01:23.720 --> 0:01:28.580 because you are just so warm and so kind and 0:01:28.580 --> 0:01:32.419 so lovely and just, like, really a powerhouse in person. 0:01:32.420 --> 0:01:35.059 And then I look at your social media and you 0:01:35.060 --> 0:01:39.289 are this influencer and walking the red carpet and in 0:01:39.290 --> 0:01:42.350 all of these places, doing all of these things that 0:01:42.350 --> 0:01:44.300 I feel like are so easy to put somebody on 0:01:44.300 --> 0:01:48.350 a pedestal and not equate kindness and being wonderful and 0:01:48.350 --> 0:01:51.530 soft to like most people, try to separate those two 0:01:51.560 --> 0:01:54.440 because they're they can't you can't have both, right? They 0:01:54.440 --> 0:01:57.020 tell you you can't have both, but you do have that. 0:01:57.020 --> 0:02:00.480 You have this incredible life, but you also are so 0:02:00.510 --> 0:02:04.440 warm and kind. Can you walk us through how you 0:02:04.440 --> 0:02:07.020 got started in the work that you do, and give 0:02:07.020 --> 0:02:09.540 us a little bit of a background of what makes 0:02:09.540 --> 0:02:10.769 you who you are today? 0:02:10.800 --> 0:02:14.880 Wow, thanks. Thank you. First of all, for that amazing intro. Um, 0:02:15.870 --> 0:02:18.330 I don't even know where to start, but the honest 0:02:18.330 --> 0:02:20.760 truth is to to what you were saying about being 0:02:20.760 --> 0:02:25.559 kind or being nice while being amazing. Well, well, doing 0:02:25.560 --> 0:02:28.080 what you love to do, right? You can call it 0:02:28.110 --> 0:02:31.440 what you want to call it, but one doesn't cost 0:02:31.470 --> 0:02:33.960 the other. I used to always say when I was 0:02:33.960 --> 0:02:38.399 doing charity work, that you can do good for others 0:02:38.400 --> 0:02:42.630 and yourself at the same time. So while you're giving 0:02:42.660 --> 0:02:45.720 to yourself, you can also give to others. And by 0:02:45.720 --> 0:02:49.860 lifting others, you actually elevate yourself. And so people always 0:02:49.860 --> 0:02:55.620 think of a compartmentalized approach to themselves or to their business, 0:02:55.620 --> 0:02:58.130 to their their family and love life. They have this 0:02:58.130 --> 0:03:01.310 separation like the church and state. I don't have a 0:03:01.310 --> 0:03:03.260 church and I don't have a state. I just have 0:03:03.260 --> 0:03:05.720 that 24 hours in a day and I want to 0:03:05.720 --> 0:03:08.930 optimize every second. I want to make it like a 0:03:08.930 --> 0:03:13.310 little cow in them. I want those to work for 0:03:13.310 --> 0:03:15.919 me because I know that this is my one life. 0:03:15.919 --> 0:03:19.640 I am the driver of that life, and I want 0:03:19.669 --> 0:03:22.970 to do the best I can for myself in that life. 0:03:22.970 --> 0:03:28.970 But that said, in doing that, you can simultaneously without 0:03:28.970 --> 0:03:32.630 spending an ounce of extra effort, do it for someone 0:03:32.630 --> 0:03:36.350 else and you're stronger together. And I believe in the 0:03:36.350 --> 0:03:40.040 squad mentality. I believe in the teamwork mentality. I believe 0:03:40.040 --> 0:03:43.580 that what you raise yourself, you can raise others. I'm 0:03:43.580 --> 0:03:45.620 not one of those girls that doesn't want any other 0:03:45.620 --> 0:03:48.500 girl around her to be pretty or successful. In fact, 0:03:48.500 --> 0:03:50.090 if you go on my social media, you'll see all 0:03:50.090 --> 0:03:54.350 my girlfriends are super hot, younger, super successful, and I 0:03:54.350 --> 0:03:57.230 want to elevate. I celebrate that. I love to be 0:03:57.230 --> 0:04:03.020 attracted to people who are successful or doing what they 0:04:03.020 --> 0:04:05.840 love to do, or at least having the passion and 0:04:05.840 --> 0:04:08.270 desire to chase what it is that they want to do. 0:04:08.300 --> 0:04:11.150 Because you could be anywhere in your journey. Success is 0:04:11.150 --> 0:04:15.529 a concept and what you really have to realize that 0:04:15.530 --> 0:04:17.810 you never reach your goal. If you really want to 0:04:17.810 --> 0:04:22.100 live a truly successful life, you will reach your goal 0:04:22.100 --> 0:04:26.029 one time. And if you're lucky enough to realize that goal, 0:04:26.060 --> 0:04:29.779 it'll be like on your deathbed, few breaths before you 0:04:29.779 --> 0:04:33.200 leave this earth. That is when you reach your goal. 0:04:33.200 --> 0:04:36.620 That is the end of you making plans, having things 0:04:36.620 --> 0:04:39.560 to look forward to. Then you only looking back and 0:04:39.560 --> 0:04:43.700 hopefully you're saying, did it suck that cow dry? I'm 0:04:43.700 --> 0:04:47.300 good to go. Take me so. But till that moment 0:04:47.300 --> 0:04:52.729 comes you're never there. You're never successful. Because you got 0:04:52.730 --> 0:04:57.500 to keep yourself challenged. You got to keep yourself interested, motivated. 0:04:57.500 --> 0:05:02.540 You got to keep yourself hungry to go to any level. 0:05:02.570 --> 0:05:05.360 Call it the next level. Call it another level. But 0:05:05.360 --> 0:05:08.840 you got to keep yourself driven to get out of 0:05:08.839 --> 0:05:13.490 bed and go do something exciting with your day. How 0:05:13.490 --> 0:05:14.480 do you do that? 0:05:14.480 --> 0:05:16.670 Like what is the what is the mechanism that you 0:05:16.670 --> 0:05:20.900 choose to keep that motivation and even look at life 0:05:20.900 --> 0:05:22.730 like you're just like sucking everything. 0:05:22.760 --> 0:05:23.989 What's the alternative? 0:05:24.020 --> 0:05:27.680 Well, watching television, I mean, so many people are just TV. 0:05:27.710 --> 0:05:29.900 There's nothing wrong with it. But they don't do. 0:05:29.930 --> 0:05:32.869 Like people who do watch television and, like, are on 0:05:32.870 --> 0:05:36.739 social media constantly and really don't have this viewpoint that 0:05:36.740 --> 0:05:40.910 you're talking about struggle to find motivation because they escape 0:05:40.910 --> 0:05:44.839 through these different avenues. And so how do you still 0:05:44.839 --> 0:05:49.310 use those avenues but also create this life that is 0:05:49.310 --> 0:05:53.660 so spectacular and you have accomplished really, It's like incredible things. 0:05:53.690 --> 0:05:56.750 Close your eyes for three seconds. What do you hear 0:05:56.750 --> 0:06:00.049 inside your head? That's you talking to you. Is there 0:06:00.050 --> 0:06:04.400 a voice that's more loud in your head? If there is. 0:06:04.430 --> 0:06:07.880 Change that voice. Change the frequency. Go to Am to FM, 0:06:07.910 --> 0:06:11.630 FM to am, go digital. Go download. The voice that 0:06:11.630 --> 0:06:13.520 you need to hear is in your head. It's you. 0:06:13.610 --> 0:06:16.280 Are you talking to yourself? What did you. What do 0:06:16.279 --> 0:06:19.460 you want to do? What makes you happy? That's it, 0:06:19.460 --> 0:06:21.950 that's it. It begins with the seed of thought. You know, 0:06:21.980 --> 0:06:24.560 there's the movie. Inception really resonated with me. And there's 0:06:24.589 --> 0:06:27.110 a scene. There's a scene in the movie where it 0:06:27.110 --> 0:06:32.930 says the idea. There's nothing more powerful than an idea, 0:06:32.960 --> 0:06:37.040 because once it catches in the mind, it spreads all 0:06:37.040 --> 0:06:42.560 through you. Once you get an idea, it's the seed 0:06:42.560 --> 0:06:45.830 that will become a tree that will become a forest. 0:06:45.830 --> 0:06:48.919 But it has to start with that idea. That idea 0:06:48.920 --> 0:06:52.930 is you talking to yourself? Your heart talking to your head. 0:06:52.960 --> 0:06:56.860 Your head. Talking to your heart. Your soul saying this 0:06:56.860 --> 0:06:59.080 is what I want. This is what makes me happy. 0:06:59.080 --> 0:07:03.039 And we are trained in society from childhood to dial 0:07:03.040 --> 0:07:05.590 that voice down. Because you're told as a child, what 0:07:05.589 --> 0:07:07.720 do you want to be when you grow up? That's 0:07:07.720 --> 0:07:09.550 a lot of pressure. I don't know what I want 0:07:09.580 --> 0:07:12.220 to be when I grow up right now, and I 0:07:12.250 --> 0:07:14.260 kind of grew up and I'm still growing up, I 0:07:14.260 --> 0:07:16.540 don't know, ask me what I do for a living. 0:07:16.540 --> 0:07:19.690 And I might be like, today, it's one thing, tomorrow 0:07:19.690 --> 0:07:21.940 it's another one day I'm an influencer, another day I'm 0:07:21.940 --> 0:07:26.110 a public speaker, and tomorrow might be a biohacker. And 0:07:26.140 --> 0:07:29.440 right now I'm a crypto queen. It's hot. But a 0:07:29.440 --> 0:07:31.990 year ago it was crashing that came off my profile quick. 0:07:32.020 --> 0:07:35.290 I'm just saying it's okay not to know all the 0:07:35.290 --> 0:07:38.710 answers to your life when you're a kid or even 0:07:38.710 --> 0:07:42.250 when you're an adult, because the beauty is you own 0:07:42.280 --> 0:07:46.720 your time and you can constantly discover versions of yourself. 0:07:46.720 --> 0:07:51.370 You can constantly challenge yourself. You are allowed to U-turn. 0:07:51.370 --> 0:07:53.500 You are allowed to turn left. You are allowed to 0:07:53.530 --> 0:07:57.790 redefine who you want to be. Because just because some 0:07:57.790 --> 0:08:01.540 teacher or your family, or your neighbors or your friends 0:08:01.840 --> 0:08:04.600 put an ideology of you that this is who you 0:08:04.600 --> 0:08:07.570 need to be. This is your definition of success. If 0:08:07.570 --> 0:08:11.470 it's not resonating with you, if it's not making you 0:08:11.470 --> 0:08:13.270 excited to get out of bed, if you wouldn't do 0:08:13.270 --> 0:08:18.670 it for free, then do something else. It's okay to 0:08:18.670 --> 0:08:22.150 turn your back on your past that led you to 0:08:22.180 --> 0:08:25.750 where you need to be. If that means you're turning 0:08:25.750 --> 0:08:29.320 in a different direction because there's no mistakes, falling off 0:08:29.320 --> 0:08:33.370 the horse is as important as riding it like Seabiscuit, 0:08:33.400 --> 0:08:38.860 because in the failure comes your opportunity to learn, to educate, 0:08:38.890 --> 0:08:44.679 to strengthen and to reevaluate and come back stronger. Nobody 0:08:44.679 --> 0:08:48.910 rarely wins their first race, right? Get a train. You 0:08:48.910 --> 0:08:51.850 got to get good. Venus Williams didn't go into the 0:08:51.850 --> 0:08:56.410 first match and win. She came in hot and amazing 0:08:56.410 --> 0:09:00.970 but got there trained from childhood. It wasn't like you 0:09:00.970 --> 0:09:06.280 were born winning tournaments. So everybody needs to calm down 0:09:06.280 --> 0:09:10.239 a little bit. Chill, relax with the self pressure and 0:09:10.240 --> 0:09:13.180 relax with the FOMO. And by all means, don't go 0:09:13.179 --> 0:09:15.969 into my social media and look at my life and 0:09:15.970 --> 0:09:20.020 think that something is missing from yours. Because everything I have, 0:09:20.020 --> 0:09:24.280 I gave myself, there's no daddy, there's no husband, there's 0:09:24.280 --> 0:09:28.689 no provider. I am my provider. And the bank that 0:09:28.690 --> 0:09:31.930 I rely on is the Bank of Guerlain. And it's 0:09:31.929 --> 0:09:35.380 here between my ears. This is my bank. You got 0:09:35.380 --> 0:09:39.370 your bank and you have your bank. You're born with it. 0:09:39.370 --> 0:09:44.200 So one of the mistakes that women do to women, 0:09:44.200 --> 0:09:47.140 I think the moms, is that they they say to 0:09:47.170 --> 0:09:51.550 little girls, and maybe it's changing in today's generation, but 0:09:51.550 --> 0:09:55.150 in my generation, growing up, find yourself a rich husband. 0:09:55.630 --> 0:09:58.810 I am a rich husband to myself. I am my 0:09:58.809 --> 0:10:02.320 own rich husband, and that gives me the power to 0:10:02.350 --> 0:10:05.710 own my day, to own my time. What I got, 0:10:05.740 --> 0:10:09.070 I earned myself. It's not about the stuff. Because if 0:10:09.070 --> 0:10:12.760 somebody gives you a beautiful ring or a beautiful handbag, 0:10:12.790 --> 0:10:17.050 you're happy for three seconds. Then what? Then you're like, 0:10:17.050 --> 0:10:19.179 resent the person because they didn't give you something the 0:10:19.179 --> 0:10:21.970 next day, and then you want more things, and then 0:10:21.970 --> 0:10:27.220 you become transactional, and then you're treated as an transactional 0:10:27.309 --> 0:10:29.949 in return. And women wonder, why is he treating me 0:10:29.950 --> 0:10:33.310 like that? Why did he treat me? Well, you set 0:10:33.309 --> 0:10:37.780 the dialogue by being transactional. I mean, don't get me wrong, 0:10:37.780 --> 0:10:40.809 I love getting gifts. There's nothing wrong with that. But 0:10:40.809 --> 0:10:43.570 that is not what is my mission in what I 0:10:43.600 --> 0:10:46.900 surround myself with. self-worth. I surround myself with people that 0:10:46.900 --> 0:10:51.160 give me goosebumps and they make me think like, man, 0:10:51.160 --> 0:10:53.920 I need to do more. Like, look at my partner, 0:10:53.950 --> 0:10:59.260 the guy I date. He's a superhuman Superman. And I'm thinking, 0:10:59.260 --> 0:11:02.050 I haven't done anything in my life. I'm not jumping 0:11:02.050 --> 0:11:05.109 out of airplanes or running across the world with my 0:11:05.110 --> 0:11:09.699 feet burning off or flying helicopters. I always surround myself 0:11:09.700 --> 0:11:13.780 with people that are more successful, more inspiring, more rich. 0:11:13.809 --> 0:11:15.790 I want to be the smallest person in the room 0:11:15.790 --> 0:11:20.230 because you know why? They will bring me up and 0:11:20.230 --> 0:11:23.559 I bring other people up along the way, because it's 0:11:23.559 --> 0:11:27.910 so rewarding to give back and share with other people 0:11:27.910 --> 0:11:30.730 what you've learned along the way. That is how knowledge 0:11:30.730 --> 0:11:35.140 should be acquired and passed along. So when you look 0:11:35.170 --> 0:11:38.170 at it like that, there's no room for the ego 0:11:38.170 --> 0:11:41.349 and the patting yourself on your back. Or this I 0:11:41.380 --> 0:11:43.209 am this or that, because I am none of it. 0:11:43.210 --> 0:11:47.290 I'm just me trying to fill my days with joy 0:11:47.290 --> 0:11:51.400 and excitement and fulfillment, and then keep going and do 0:11:51.400 --> 0:11:57.160 it again. And then if you define that as something aspirational, 0:11:57.190 --> 0:11:59.590 go do it. And if you want to learn how, 0:11:59.590 --> 0:12:03.640 I'm here and I'll share my my system with you. Um, 0:12:04.030 --> 0:12:07.660 but the only voice that you listen to is your own, 0:12:07.660 --> 0:12:10.450 and that will drive you. If you have other people 0:12:10.450 --> 0:12:13.360 in your ear, it's time to change them. Mm. 0:12:13.570 --> 0:12:16.689 It's beautiful because most people are listening to other people 0:12:16.690 --> 0:12:20.110 or watching other people's social media accounts and thinking, I'm 0:12:20.110 --> 0:12:22.300 not there yet. I don't have that. And then you 0:12:22.300 --> 0:12:24.970 start putting labels on, oh, she got lucky. She was 0:12:24.970 --> 0:12:27.280 born into this. She was able to do these things 0:12:27.280 --> 0:12:30.460 that I wasn't for. Insert the blank reason. So when 0:12:30.460 --> 0:12:35.350 you think about yourself and your journey with comparison to 0:12:35.380 --> 0:12:39.189 other people in your space, other people who are influencers, 0:12:39.220 --> 0:12:43.220 other people who donate their time philanthropically, how do you 0:12:43.250 --> 0:12:47.210 continue to listen to yourself and not even just like 0:12:47.210 --> 0:12:49.459 subtly kind of have those like little creeping in. 0:12:49.490 --> 0:12:52.910 Thoughts of FOMO? Okay, I had that. Okay. I've had 0:12:52.910 --> 0:12:56.480 that illness and that's fine. But I used my FOMO 0:12:56.510 --> 0:13:00.050 as a driver. I use it as a motivator. I 0:13:00.050 --> 0:13:03.319 was like, I want that. I'm going and getting it. 0:13:03.350 --> 0:13:07.520 I didn't complain about it. I just found a roadmap. 0:13:07.880 --> 0:13:11.060 I'm here and I need to get there. Now, you 0:13:11.090 --> 0:13:14.000 you put your own Google Waze in your head and 0:13:14.000 --> 0:13:15.800 you're like, can I go this way? How do I 0:13:15.800 --> 0:13:19.220 know that can get me there? You activate your network 0:13:19.250 --> 0:13:22.550 is your net worth. So you put people around you 0:13:22.580 --> 0:13:26.030 that are like minded so that you can kind of 0:13:26.059 --> 0:13:29.390 grow together, and you plug into each other's worlds and 0:13:29.390 --> 0:13:34.670 you elevate each other. And if the people around you don't, 0:13:36.230 --> 0:13:39.319 I don't like to say affirm, because today affirmation has 0:13:39.320 --> 0:13:43.120 been used in a completely different woke direction, which I 0:13:43.120 --> 0:13:46.690 don't affirm. Um, but if people around you are not 0:13:46.690 --> 0:13:51.969 supporting you and empowering you and and giving you constructive 0:13:51.970 --> 0:13:55.120 feedback because I don't mean having people around you that 0:13:55.120 --> 0:13:58.090 are just your. Yes, sir. Yes, ma'am. No, you don't 0:13:58.090 --> 0:14:00.460 want that. That's the worst kind of people. But people 0:14:00.460 --> 0:14:03.760 around you that are not empowering you to really live 0:14:03.790 --> 0:14:07.480 the life you want to live. Change them. There's eight people, 0:14:07.510 --> 0:14:12.190 8 billion people on the planet. Make new friends. What's 0:14:12.190 --> 0:14:17.140 the problem? If people around you are not empowering you 0:14:17.140 --> 0:14:20.320 to move forward? It's time to close that chapter and 0:14:20.320 --> 0:14:23.050 write a new chapter with people that will do that 0:14:23.050 --> 0:14:23.470 for you. 0:14:23.920 --> 0:14:26.710 I figured out this hack where I will follow people 0:14:26.710 --> 0:14:29.830 or look at other people's lives. And when I do 0:14:29.830 --> 0:14:32.620 have those feelings of like, man, I'd like to do that, 0:14:32.620 --> 0:14:35.500 or like, that looks cool, and how do I create 0:14:35.500 --> 0:14:37.990 that in my own life? Instead of being frustrated with 0:14:37.990 --> 0:14:41.500 myself or down on myself for thinking that I'm lame or, 0:14:41.530 --> 0:14:44.590 you know, whatever the FOMO is, I just think I 0:14:44.590 --> 0:14:48.250 want that, and I don't have it yet. So if 0:14:48.250 --> 0:14:50.890 you just don't have it yet, you can still believe 0:14:50.890 --> 0:14:52.870 in yourself if you really want it to. Your point 0:14:52.870 --> 0:14:54.820 about like listening to your own voice. Like, if I 0:14:54.820 --> 0:14:58.570 really want this in this lifetime, I just don't have 0:14:58.570 --> 0:15:01.990 it yet. But I will get it because it's important 0:15:01.990 --> 0:15:03.940 to me. And if I go through that whole train 0:15:03.970 --> 0:15:07.180 of thought and I'm like, well, is this really worth pursuing? 0:15:07.210 --> 0:15:09.490 As if like, it's a goal and it's something that 0:15:09.490 --> 0:15:11.800 I'm going to go after or is or is it 0:15:11.800 --> 0:15:15.790 not that important? And it's just some like, silly thing, 0:15:15.790 --> 0:15:17.800 maybe I don't really want it and I can be 0:15:17.830 --> 0:15:20.350 happy that that person has that, but that's not my 0:15:20.350 --> 0:15:22.930 path and that's okay. That it's not my path. 0:15:22.960 --> 0:15:25.600 If you don't miss it before you go to bed, 0:15:25.600 --> 0:15:30.040 you didn't actually want it. It's very easy to be 0:15:31.450 --> 0:15:36.460 influenced into thinking you want something. It's trending. It's cool. 0:15:36.460 --> 0:15:41.290 Everyone's doing this. Everyone's doing this trend, I need it. 0:15:41.620 --> 0:15:45.640 I've seen people literally go on vacation because they want 0:15:45.670 --> 0:15:48.460 to be somewhere, because they want that picture that their 0:15:48.460 --> 0:15:53.170 influencers are doing. If you don't miss it before you 0:15:53.170 --> 0:15:56.140 go to bed, you don't need it. Listen to your 0:15:56.140 --> 0:15:59.830 inner voice as your guide. Simutaneously. It's great to be 0:15:59.830 --> 0:16:02.890 influenced because that's what we're doing. We're showing people cool 0:16:02.890 --> 0:16:05.260 things to do and cool ways to do it. But 0:16:05.260 --> 0:16:08.590 always take a step back and go, this. Yeah, I 0:16:08.590 --> 0:16:11.890 like that. That works for me, but not this one doesn't. 0:16:11.920 --> 0:16:18.070 Don't be completely gullible. Simultaneously are so easily influenced. Just 0:16:18.070 --> 0:16:22.360 because someone you look up to is doing it doesn't 0:16:22.360 --> 0:16:25.060 mean that you need to do it. And what I've 0:16:25.060 --> 0:16:29.229 always said to my community don't get jealous, get inspired, 0:16:29.320 --> 0:16:33.850 get inspired, then get motivated, get motivated, then get into action. 0:16:33.850 --> 0:16:37.600 Because that's what I did. I identified as a teenager 0:16:37.840 --> 0:16:41.530 what my life needed to look like. How did you 0:16:41.530 --> 0:16:47.260 do that? So I was, for me, my environment. 0:16:47.260 --> 0:16:48.550 I really want the story. 0:16:48.550 --> 0:16:51.609 I just, I was fascinated. I was born in Israel 0:16:51.610 --> 0:16:55.000 and then when I was quite young, we moved around 0:16:55.000 --> 0:16:58.300 a lot because of my parents jobs. And I moved 0:16:58.300 --> 0:17:00.730 to Canada, actually, I moved first to New York, then 0:17:00.730 --> 0:17:03.790 back to Israel, then to Canada, and we were supposed 0:17:03.790 --> 0:17:06.520 to only move to Canada for a year, and we 0:17:06.520 --> 0:17:09.160 ended up never going back to Israel. And it was 0:17:09.160 --> 0:17:11.320 very difficult for me as a kid because I had 0:17:11.320 --> 0:17:15.820 my family, my community, my friends, and I was really, really, 0:17:16.119 --> 0:17:20.440 really lonely and really bullied because I have a funny 0:17:20.440 --> 0:17:25.810 name and a funny accent. And, um, there was no 0:17:25.810 --> 0:17:30.190 social media back then. There was no talk about mental health. 0:17:30.190 --> 0:17:33.760 So if you're bullied, you just had to deal with it. Um, 0:17:34.270 --> 0:17:39.430 And my inner voice was saying to me, I'm not 0:17:39.430 --> 0:17:41.800 happy where I am, and I'm not happy with this 0:17:41.800 --> 0:17:46.300 lifestyle that's being pushed on to me. What am I missing? 0:17:46.330 --> 0:17:49.000 What do I love? And when we started traveling, we 0:17:49.030 --> 0:17:51.189 went to the Caribbean. And I'll never forget this. I 0:17:51.190 --> 0:17:56.440 was in Cuba when the family trip with family and friends, 0:17:56.440 --> 0:17:59.020 and I said to me, I like the energy of 0:17:59.020 --> 0:18:04.720 this place. I like this Caribbean vibe, but I still 0:18:04.720 --> 0:18:09.520 want the amenities of a New York Toronto energy. Worst 0:18:09.520 --> 0:18:12.730 place on earth has this? I spun the globe in 0:18:12.730 --> 0:18:15.820 my head and I'm. And I'm like 16 years old 0:18:15.820 --> 0:18:18.670 and there's no internet. There's no none of these beautiful things. 0:18:18.670 --> 0:18:20.830 You have to you can't Google or talk to Siri. 0:18:20.859 --> 0:18:23.500 So I spun the globe in my head and I 0:18:23.530 --> 0:18:28.239 landed on Florida and I decided, um, that I'm going 0:18:28.270 --> 0:18:32.830 to move to Florida at 16, 16, 17, something like that. Okay. 0:18:32.859 --> 0:18:35.680 I just it resonated with me. I'm like, it has 0:18:35.680 --> 0:18:38.710 nice weather and I'm going to move to Miami. I've 0:18:38.710 --> 0:18:42.880 never been to Miami. I didn't know a soul in Miami. 0:18:43.119 --> 0:18:48.400 I just it just came to me. Miami. I'm moving here. 0:18:48.400 --> 0:18:51.790 And I used to walk around telling everybody that would listen. 0:18:51.820 --> 0:18:55.810 I'm moving to Miami. One day I'm moving to Miami. And, um, 0:18:56.050 --> 0:18:59.170 I would get cast on a big TV show, um, 0:18:59.619 --> 0:19:03.130 a year later called Electric Circus on Much Music, which 0:19:03.130 --> 0:19:06.820 is the Canadian MTV. And I used to go salsa 0:19:06.820 --> 0:19:10.150 dancing every Sunday. I'm going to condense a long story 0:19:10.150 --> 0:19:14.080 into a short story. Um, long story short, we were 0:19:14.080 --> 0:19:20.290 salsa dancing. Janet Jackson, Janet Jackson's manager, sees me dancing, 0:19:20.320 --> 0:19:24.129 approaches my girlfriend, invites her to the. Invites us to 0:19:24.160 --> 0:19:28.060 the Janet Jackson show. My girlfriend, who was no real friend. 0:19:28.090 --> 0:19:30.609 Turns out that she takes the tickets, doesn't tell me 0:19:30.609 --> 0:19:33.180 about it. Tries to invite anybody and everybody but me 0:19:33.180 --> 0:19:37.260 to the show, but she gets canceled by everybody. And 0:19:37.290 --> 0:19:39.600 on the day of the show, these tickets that were 0:19:39.600 --> 0:19:42.389 intended for me, that I never knew that were even 0:19:42.390 --> 0:19:46.409 in existence. You know, jealousy between girls and all that 0:19:46.410 --> 0:19:50.369 silly stuff. She invites me out of desperation because nobody 0:19:50.369 --> 0:19:52.500 was going to go with her. And it happened to 0:19:52.500 --> 0:19:55.050 be a very high holiday in a Jewish religion. Sorry, mom, 0:19:55.050 --> 0:19:58.649 you're probably just discovering this now. Yom Kippur. I was 0:19:58.650 --> 0:20:01.050 supposed to be fasting, going to synagogue, but it was 0:20:01.050 --> 0:20:03.840 a very bad Jew. I decided to sneak out of 0:20:03.840 --> 0:20:07.260 the house. Something in me said like, go to this concert. 0:20:07.260 --> 0:20:10.020 I don't get invited to cool stuff in Toronto back then. 0:20:10.020 --> 0:20:13.379 And we had backstage passes. I never got invited to 0:20:13.410 --> 0:20:16.859 a backstage before. So I'm like, I'm going. So I 0:20:16.859 --> 0:20:21.959 took a bus, a subway, I walked. I snuck out 0:20:21.960 --> 0:20:24.000 of the house. I got to the I got to 0:20:24.030 --> 0:20:27.630 the concert. We got there a bit late. Um, saw 0:20:27.630 --> 0:20:32.939 the concert, had fantastic seats And, um, this is many 0:20:32.940 --> 0:20:36.659 years ago, so I just remember that the concert finishes, 0:20:36.660 --> 0:20:39.270 the stadium is starting to empty out. I go to 0:20:39.300 --> 0:20:41.189 the front of the stage with my little sticker that 0:20:41.190 --> 0:20:44.040 says backstage stuck on me proudly, and they go to 0:20:44.040 --> 0:20:46.229 the security and I go, hi. I got backstage for 0:20:46.230 --> 0:20:49.320 Janet Jackson. Security goes, oh no, you missed that. That 0:20:49.320 --> 0:20:52.320 was before the concert. Janet is packing up. She's going 0:20:52.320 --> 0:20:57.180 to Montreal. Concert's over. Go home, little girl. And when 0:20:57.180 --> 0:21:00.600 I want something, nothing gets in my way. And I'm like, no, no, no, 0:21:00.630 --> 0:21:05.129 I got backstage. See, the sticker says backstage. You're in 0:21:05.130 --> 0:21:10.379 my way. Move, bitch out. I'm going there. Yeah. He's like, no. 0:21:10.380 --> 0:21:13.619 And he's like three times my size. And he's like, no. 0:21:13.650 --> 0:21:17.129 And I'm like, but my ticket says backstage, do you 0:21:17.130 --> 0:21:20.100 have a manager? Do you have someone who can talk 0:21:20.100 --> 0:21:23.490 to you? Um, and this goes back and forth for 0:21:23.490 --> 0:21:27.600 some time because all I know is my girlfriend disappeared. Um, 0:21:28.380 --> 0:21:33.480 The stadium is empty. 50,000 people are gone. And I'm still, like, 0:21:33.990 --> 0:21:37.170 pointing at the sticker, going like I'm going backstage and 0:21:37.170 --> 0:21:39.720 this guy shows up out of the blue like I've 0:21:39.720 --> 0:21:43.649 never met. And he goes, hi, what's going on here? 0:21:43.650 --> 0:21:46.560 And I'm like, hi. I've got backstage passes. And he 0:21:46.560 --> 0:21:49.140 looks at me and he goes, were you at this 0:21:49.140 --> 0:21:55.560 nightclub dancing salsa three weeks ago? I go, you're creepy, 0:21:55.590 --> 0:21:59.970 but yes. Um. Why? He goes, you were wearing this 0:21:59.970 --> 0:22:04.560 Tommy Hilfiger outfit. I'm like, extra creepy. But yes, that 0:22:04.560 --> 0:22:07.619 was me. Does that mean I get to work backstage? 0:22:07.800 --> 0:22:12.420 He goes, I'm jacked. And I'm like, great. Who cares? 0:22:13.080 --> 0:22:16.230 And he's like, I gave you the tickets. I'm like, 0:22:16.260 --> 0:22:18.510 you didn't give me any tickets. My friend gave me 0:22:18.540 --> 0:22:21.690 tickets and she just told me about it today. He goes, no, no, no, 0:22:21.690 --> 0:22:24.330 those tickets were yours. I was too shy to talk 0:22:24.330 --> 0:22:26.340 to you. So when you went to the bathroom, I 0:22:26.340 --> 0:22:29.010 went to your friend and said, I'd love to invite 0:22:29.369 --> 0:22:32.760 you and her to the show, and I gave her 0:22:32.760 --> 0:22:37.050 the tickets, hoping that I'd meet you backstage and you 0:22:37.050 --> 0:22:40.139 didn't show up backstage. And I said, well, I just 0:22:40.140 --> 0:22:45.929 was invited a few hours ago. Um, but if you 0:22:45.930 --> 0:22:49.919 wanted to invite me. Here I am backstage, and he's like, 0:22:49.920 --> 0:22:52.889 he lifts the rope and he goes, let's go backstage. 0:22:52.920 --> 0:22:56.640 And we go straight to Janet Jackson's bus. And I 0:22:56.640 --> 0:22:58.139 get on the bus and I sit with him and 0:22:58.140 --> 0:23:00.420 I go, by the way, you have an accent. Where 0:23:00.420 --> 0:23:03.810 are you from? And he goes, Florida. I go, that's funny, 0:23:03.810 --> 0:23:07.020 I'm going to move to Miami. And Janet Jackson turns around. 0:23:07.050 --> 0:23:10.350 She goes, I've got this apartment HBO rented for me 0:23:10.350 --> 0:23:13.410 in Miami for the Velvet Rope tour, and I use it. 0:23:13.410 --> 0:23:16.590 You can go stay there. No. Two weeks later, I 0:23:16.590 --> 0:23:20.220 was in Janet's apartment, and I never left Miami. And 0:23:20.220 --> 0:23:22.679 now I've got my green card, and here I am. 0:23:22.710 --> 0:23:25.560 I've lived all around the world since then, but that's 0:23:25.560 --> 0:23:28.260 what I mean with setting attention. And guys, there was 0:23:28.260 --> 0:23:31.440 no internet, there was no Instagram, there was no Facebook, 0:23:31.470 --> 0:23:35.129 there was no internet, there was no cell phones. Do 0:23:35.130 --> 0:23:37.800 you make it happen? It's manifestation by the power of 0:23:37.800 --> 0:23:40.260 putting it out there. But it's not just putting it 0:23:40.260 --> 0:23:43.889 out there, praying in your church and then thinking it's 0:23:43.890 --> 0:23:48.240 going to drop on your lap. It's everything I told everybody, 0:23:48.240 --> 0:23:51.119 and one day I told the right person and that 0:23:51.119 --> 0:23:54.629 person opened that door. And till today, him and I 0:23:54.630 --> 0:23:57.510 are friends. In fact, he was doing the pink concert 0:23:57.510 --> 0:23:59.429 the other day, so he sent me tickets to that. 0:23:59.460 --> 0:24:03.300 He still takes my parents to concerts. My mom especially 0:24:03.300 --> 0:24:05.970 like loves it when he's in town. She goes because 0:24:05.970 --> 0:24:08.850 he's with Live Nation. And the moral of that story 0:24:08.850 --> 0:24:12.450 is there's always a door in front of you, but 0:24:12.450 --> 0:24:15.900 you're responsible to identify it, to push it open and 0:24:15.900 --> 0:24:20.100 to step through it. Life will give you those opportunities, 0:24:20.100 --> 0:24:24.570 but you have to take take them and turn them 0:24:24.570 --> 0:24:29.160 into your favor. It's amazing. And then along the way, 0:24:29.160 --> 0:24:32.879 I've continuously looked for what is the next thing I 0:24:32.880 --> 0:24:35.610 want to build and where is that next door? 0:24:35.640 --> 0:24:38.460 How do you not feel silly in the process, when 0:24:38.460 --> 0:24:42.119 you're identifying at 16 years old that you want to 0:24:42.119 --> 0:24:45.090 move to Florida? Nobody you know lives in Florida, or 0:24:45.090 --> 0:24:49.230 you're identifying that you want to start posting content online. 0:24:49.230 --> 0:24:52.109 And it's like before you become known for that thing 0:24:52.109 --> 0:24:55.860 and before it happens, where you have maybe the imposter syndrome, 0:24:55.859 --> 0:24:59.159 the doubt that you feel, the uncertainty. What what is 0:24:59.160 --> 0:25:04.169 your process for, like working through your own, maybe limiting 0:25:04.170 --> 0:25:06.930 beliefs or what people know you as and getting past 0:25:06.930 --> 0:25:07.800 all of that? 0:25:07.980 --> 0:25:13.260 Those only exist if you empower the voice that's not 0:25:13.260 --> 0:25:17.159 the one that's yours. Those exist because you want to 0:25:17.190 --> 0:25:21.720 cater to someone else's opinion. You want to please someone else. 0:25:21.720 --> 0:25:25.830 You care if I turned my likes off on Instagram? 0:25:25.830 --> 0:25:29.190 Because I don't care if you like it or not. 0:25:29.220 --> 0:25:32.550 That's your choice. I'm putting out my content. If you 0:25:32.550 --> 0:25:35.040 enjoy it, by all means enjoy it. If you want 0:25:35.070 --> 0:25:38.910 to comment, go ahead. But it's not why I do 0:25:38.910 --> 0:25:41.040 it and I'm not going to look. I don't look 0:25:41.040 --> 0:25:43.919 for myself. And it's. And I don't need to show 0:25:43.920 --> 0:25:46.290 the world if it worked or if it didn't. If 0:25:46.290 --> 0:25:49.830 it went viral, it didn't. I don't care because I'm 0:25:49.830 --> 0:25:52.710 just doing it for me. I like it. I think 0:25:52.710 --> 0:25:55.770 the brand I'm working with might like it. Here it is. 0:25:56.220 --> 0:25:59.189 Once I post it, I'm done with it. And the 0:25:59.190 --> 0:26:04.440 point is, those feelings only come if you're giving somebody 0:26:04.440 --> 0:26:07.590 that's not you the power to tell you that you 0:26:07.590 --> 0:26:11.310 did good or not, that that post is important or not. 0:26:11.310 --> 0:26:15.389 That what you did is validated or not. If you 0:26:15.420 --> 0:26:19.020 validate yourself and I don't mean the cuckoo stuff, okay. 0:26:19.050 --> 0:26:22.500 If you're barking and you want to validate yourself as 0:26:22.500 --> 0:26:27.540 an animal. Get help because that. I'm sorry. I'm not 0:26:27.540 --> 0:26:29.940 validating that. If you come to me and you want 0:26:29.940 --> 0:26:33.300 me to call you a pizza, I'm putting hot sauce 0:26:33.300 --> 0:26:35.550 on you and I'm gonna bite you so damn hard. 0:26:35.550 --> 0:26:38.010 You're going to regret that. So don't come to me 0:26:38.010 --> 0:26:40.320 for the crazy, because I don't do good with it. 0:26:40.350 --> 0:26:43.260 I'm not built for that. I'm extremely rational. One plus 0:26:43.290 --> 0:26:45.810 one is two. And it always has been. It always 0:26:45.810 --> 0:26:48.810 will be. And if you want to debate me on 0:26:48.840 --> 0:26:51.660 that and you can't prove it with science. I come 0:26:51.660 --> 0:26:56.310 from scientific background. My dad's a scientist. I'm the wrong audience. 0:26:56.310 --> 0:27:01.230 So pick your battles, pick your audience, pick your tribe. 0:27:01.230 --> 0:27:04.230 And the great thing with me is I don't need 0:27:04.230 --> 0:27:06.869 everyone to agree with me. I don't need everyone to 0:27:06.900 --> 0:27:10.230 validate me. And I think that we're breeding weakness by 0:27:10.230 --> 0:27:14.160 telling others that they need to be affirmed. Hello. If 0:27:14.160 --> 0:27:17.820 you affirm yourself and you're not stabbing someone to death 0:27:17.820 --> 0:27:22.260 in a back alley. Then you're good. As long as 0:27:22.260 --> 0:27:26.909 you're within morality and rationality and the law to what you, 0:27:26.940 --> 0:27:31.230 to you. And then build the tribe around that, that 0:27:31.230 --> 0:27:35.160 supports and elevates and also keeps you in check. You 0:27:35.160 --> 0:27:37.260 need to be kept in check. You need to be 0:27:37.260 --> 0:27:41.969 told when you're when you're in the wrong direction because 0:27:42.270 --> 0:27:44.520 you're not always going to be right. And that's where 0:27:44.520 --> 0:27:48.119 your community comes in to say, this is better. This 0:27:48.119 --> 0:27:50.940 will work better for you. This is a different route 0:27:50.940 --> 0:27:53.129 than you thought, but actually you'll get to where you 0:27:53.130 --> 0:27:56.250 need to go faster. And that's why you should always 0:27:56.250 --> 0:27:59.850 start with your voice. But then build your board members. 0:27:59.850 --> 0:28:03.359 And your board members are your friends, your family. But 0:28:03.359 --> 0:28:06.480 even the best companies, right? Like Ten-x, you have a board, 0:28:06.480 --> 0:28:10.890 you have a team. You have a network that's keeping 0:28:10.890 --> 0:28:14.520 the the the company alive. It's just not one person. 0:28:14.520 --> 0:28:19.020 That's why when you say unapproachable, you have to be approachable, 0:28:19.050 --> 0:28:22.470 but it's to the right person. Am I sitting in 0:28:22.470 --> 0:28:26.790 an Uber and talking with the Uber driver? Happily? Sometimes, yes, sometimes. 0:28:26.790 --> 0:28:30.060 I'm on my phone. Right. You got to pick who 0:28:30.090 --> 0:28:33.960 you exchange your energy with. You got to pick whose 0:28:33.960 --> 0:28:37.320 advice you want to take. You want to pick who 0:28:37.350 --> 0:28:39.180 that person is that you call at 4:00 in the 0:28:39.180 --> 0:28:41.610 morning if you have an emergency. And who is the 0:28:41.610 --> 0:28:43.590 friend that you call for? Which picture should be the 0:28:43.590 --> 0:28:47.670 cover on my post? There's different, different categories for everyone, 0:28:47.670 --> 0:28:50.280 and there's a space for all sorts of kind of friends. 0:28:50.280 --> 0:28:52.530 You don't need one person that wears all the hats. 0:28:52.530 --> 0:28:57.570 You build your board, and that's how I look at it. Yeah, 0:28:57.600 --> 0:28:57.959 and they all. 0:28:57.960 --> 0:29:00.209 Have different roles, and you put them in different roles, 0:29:00.210 --> 0:29:02.580 and you get to make those decisions of who gets 0:29:02.580 --> 0:29:05.070 to stay and who gets fired and who you're bringing 0:29:05.070 --> 0:29:06.180 on and onboarding. 0:29:06.210 --> 0:29:08.820 Exactly. 8 billion people in the world. If somebody doesn't 0:29:08.820 --> 0:29:12.510 serve you. See you later. Yeah. I'm so with you. 0:29:12.540 --> 0:29:15.930 It's good. So before this show started, we were talking 0:29:15.930 --> 0:29:18.810 about the billionaire lifestyle and I would love to have 0:29:18.810 --> 0:29:21.810 you share. The podcast is called Building Billions. I am 0:29:21.810 --> 0:29:25.980 a huge proponent of all people stating how much net 0:29:25.980 --> 0:29:30.060 worth they want, what financial targets drive them, and making 0:29:30.060 --> 0:29:32.910 these conversations more accessible because a lot of people aren't 0:29:32.940 --> 0:29:35.940 talking about that. And so walk me through what you 0:29:35.970 --> 0:29:38.370 were sharing a little bit earlier about this idea of 0:29:38.370 --> 0:29:42.150 building your life as a lifestyle that pays for the 0:29:42.150 --> 0:29:45.960 things that you want and that you believe you should have. 0:29:45.960 --> 0:29:50.460 I decided that not only do I want to build 0:29:50.490 --> 0:29:55.770 a billionaire lifestyle with the Bank of Gulen, so fueling 0:29:55.770 --> 0:29:58.830 it for myself and never being with the handouts and 0:29:58.830 --> 0:30:01.590 give me I want to build. I want to add value. 0:30:01.590 --> 0:30:03.480 I want to lead with value and then meet people. 0:30:03.480 --> 0:30:07.440 I think, how can I add value? Look, we did 0:30:07.440 --> 0:30:10.620 a project with you guys, with our creators home and 0:30:10.620 --> 0:30:15.840 with Ten-x and Gary Brecher and Ten-x Health, and, Um, I'll. 0:30:15.960 --> 0:30:17.970 I'll use this as an example. You guys sponsored a 0:30:17.970 --> 0:30:22.500 weekend in a 30 day creator's home. So when you 0:30:22.500 --> 0:30:24.780 guys came on, is that right? Like, how do I 0:30:24.780 --> 0:30:28.590 add more value? So I took that two day sponsorship 0:30:28.590 --> 0:30:32.820 and added 28 more days that I didn't charge for 0:30:32.850 --> 0:30:36.780 you when I when we went together. We elevate, you 0:30:36.780 --> 0:30:40.470 grow and I grow and we lift each other. So 0:30:40.860 --> 0:30:43.770 first of all, your network, as you guys love to say, 0:30:43.770 --> 0:30:46.740 is your net worth. Surround yourself with people that are 0:30:46.740 --> 0:30:48.990 living the life you want to live and can open 0:30:48.990 --> 0:30:51.330 you the doors that take you to the next level. 0:30:51.330 --> 0:30:56.520 Number one. So networking is incredibly important. Be mindful of 0:30:56.550 --> 0:31:00.060 who you keep around you because your time is limited. 0:31:00.060 --> 0:31:05.130 So having people that expand your mind, body, soul, creativity, 0:31:05.160 --> 0:31:09.450 your passions, your health and your wealth is important. Be 0:31:09.450 --> 0:31:13.740 strategic in who you spend your time with. Secondly, I 0:31:13.800 --> 0:31:16.380 thought about. I like to cut the line. So while 0:31:16.380 --> 0:31:20.610 I worked getting to being a billionaire, I'm going to 0:31:20.640 --> 0:31:23.640 find a way to live the lifestyle, but not only 0:31:23.640 --> 0:31:26.850 get to live it, get paid to live it. Because 0:31:26.850 --> 0:31:30.180 what's better than being a billionaire? Is someone paying you 0:31:30.180 --> 0:31:32.130 to sit on the jet. Someone paying you to sit 0:31:32.160 --> 0:31:34.530 on the yacht. Someone paying you to stay in a 0:31:34.530 --> 0:31:38.130 five star hotel. Someone paying you to wear beautiful diamonds. 0:31:38.130 --> 0:31:41.910 Or a beautiful dress or beautiful makeup. And that is 0:31:41.910 --> 0:31:46.140 the power. The power is not being on a jet 0:31:46.170 --> 0:31:47.790 or a yacht, because that's up to you if that's 0:31:47.790 --> 0:31:51.510 your goal. But if you do what you love to do, 0:31:51.540 --> 0:31:53.790 you'll never work a day in your life. And if 0:31:53.790 --> 0:31:57.660 you find a way to monetize your passions, then you're 0:31:57.660 --> 0:32:02.040 already billionaire billionaires. Because now you're getting paid to do 0:32:02.040 --> 0:32:04.530 the things you love to do that you would do 0:32:04.560 --> 0:32:07.410 with the money you earned if you were doing a 0:32:07.410 --> 0:32:10.020 normal job. So if I was working a normal job, 0:32:10.020 --> 0:32:12.540 what would I do with my money? I'd go on vacations. 0:32:12.540 --> 0:32:17.310 Really nice ones. And now I get paid to go 0:32:17.310 --> 0:32:21.210 on nice trips and share those adventures on my social media. 0:32:21.210 --> 0:32:22.950 And if I don't get paid to do it, at 0:32:22.980 --> 0:32:25.320 least I'm not being charged to do it. Which allows 0:32:25.320 --> 0:32:29.790 me to continue just living out my passions. And by 0:32:29.790 --> 0:32:34.230 sharing it and by storytelling it, I built an audience, 0:32:34.230 --> 0:32:38.760 and now I'm a media source to the brands that 0:32:38.760 --> 0:32:43.500 want to reach that audience. And those brands are the 0:32:43.530 --> 0:32:46.980 goals of the billionaires, because that's where they want to be. 0:32:47.010 --> 0:32:48.570 That's who they want to work with. That's where they 0:32:48.570 --> 0:32:52.290 want to vacation. That's how they want to travel or 0:32:52.470 --> 0:32:59.520 fill in the blank. And so I architect, I designed 0:32:59.520 --> 0:33:02.580 the lifestyle that I want to live without having the 0:33:02.580 --> 0:33:06.030 means to live it, but by finding a different currency 0:33:06.060 --> 0:33:09.420 in my billions is my digital currency. And we all 0:33:09.420 --> 0:33:12.710 have that. We all have something to give. You might 0:33:12.710 --> 0:33:16.160 be really good at styling. I love your style. I 0:33:16.160 --> 0:33:18.170 might call you for fashion. You're like a real life 0:33:18.170 --> 0:33:21.140 Barbie to me. You are. So is she. So she's like, 0:33:21.170 --> 0:33:26.120 we're we're we're Barbie sisters. And so I might call 0:33:26.120 --> 0:33:29.720 you and be like, you've got such great sense of style. 0:33:29.750 --> 0:33:32.060 You're so feminine. How can I be a little bit 0:33:32.060 --> 0:33:34.700 more feminine? I could be like a bully, like a bulldozer, 0:33:34.730 --> 0:33:39.320 you know? So everyone has something to give. Everyone has 0:33:39.320 --> 0:33:43.850 something that inspires someone else. Everyone has gone through an 0:33:43.850 --> 0:33:48.560 up and a down, and in that experience, they learned something. 0:33:48.560 --> 0:33:52.400 And that knowledge is valuable to someone. Someone's trash is 0:33:52.400 --> 0:33:56.480 somebody else's gold. So it's not about me and what 0:33:56.480 --> 0:34:00.170 I've done or what you have done. It's about acknowledging 0:34:00.170 --> 0:34:04.430 in yourself what it is that people come to you for, 0:34:04.460 --> 0:34:07.370 and how you could turn that into the business and 0:34:07.370 --> 0:34:09.440 what people come to you for. You're good at. If it. 0:34:09.469 --> 0:34:11.450 You're good at it. Means you kind of like it. 0:34:11.480 --> 0:34:14.750 And if you like it, you're monetizing it. And now 0:34:14.750 --> 0:34:17.300 you're getting paid to do what you love to do 0:34:17.330 --> 0:34:21.800 that you would anyway do for free. And so your 0:34:21.800 --> 0:34:25.100 life is becoming the bank. And if it leads you 0:34:25.100 --> 0:34:28.940 to a millionaire or billionaire and that's your definition of success, 0:34:28.940 --> 0:34:33.109 then great. But billions is an abundance. And abundance can 0:34:33.110 --> 0:34:36.800 be designed and defined in so many ways. You could 0:34:36.800 --> 0:34:44.239 be living in a humble tikki in Ubud, Bali, waking 0:34:44.239 --> 0:34:46.940 up to your monkeys and coconut. But you are a 0:34:46.940 --> 0:34:51.320 billionaire because you own your time. You're at peace. You're 0:34:51.320 --> 0:34:59.000 surrounded with beautiful nature. You're eating. Organic farm to table 0:34:59.000 --> 0:35:02.270 nature's food. And you're not poisoning your body and you 0:35:02.300 --> 0:35:05.839 are living an amazing quality of life. Do you have 0:35:05.870 --> 0:35:09.380 billions in your bank? No. But do you need it? No. 0:35:09.410 --> 0:35:14.030 Also remember, don't desire what you actually don't need. How 0:35:14.030 --> 0:35:17.900 many people do I know that have multiple homes? They 0:35:17.900 --> 0:35:23.060 haven't been to the second, third, fourth, fifth home in forever. 0:35:23.090 --> 0:35:26.750 I had a friend in, um. I'll tell this story. 0:35:26.750 --> 0:35:31.250 I won't say the name. A billionaire friend in Mumbai, India. 0:35:31.250 --> 0:35:34.160 And I went to his house and he told me, ah, 0:35:34.190 --> 0:35:36.800 do you like my pool? I just moved it. We're 0:35:36.800 --> 0:35:38.360 in his mansion. I go, what do you mean? You 0:35:38.360 --> 0:35:40.670 moved your pool? I go every two years. I move 0:35:40.670 --> 0:35:42.560 the pool to a different part of the house. Sometimes 0:35:42.560 --> 0:35:44.690 I put it on the roof, sometimes in the backyard. 0:35:44.690 --> 0:35:47.270 Sometimes we build a new floor for it, sometimes in 0:35:47.270 --> 0:35:49.730 the front. I go, what do you do that? He goes, 0:35:49.730 --> 0:35:52.160 it's fun. I mean, I'm bored. And then he took 0:35:52.160 --> 0:35:55.190 me to a room that had Monets and Picasso's and 0:35:55.190 --> 0:35:57.770 all this art, and he had to go look under 0:35:57.770 --> 0:36:02.300 his multi-million dollar art. To like this one is to 0:36:02.300 --> 0:36:07.819 tell me, Picasso. No. And I'm like. And he's like, 0:36:07.820 --> 0:36:09.799 I've been in this room two times. I'm like, well, 0:36:09.800 --> 0:36:13.460 why did you buy all this art? Oh it's valuable. 0:36:13.460 --> 0:36:18.470 It's it's, you know, it shows that I can. And 0:36:18.469 --> 0:36:22.280 I'm like, why would you spend this time and effort 0:36:22.280 --> 0:36:26.870 acquiring something to stick it in a room that you 0:36:26.870 --> 0:36:28.760 never go to? At least put it in the toilet. 0:36:28.760 --> 0:36:30.259 So when you have a poop, you can look at 0:36:30.260 --> 0:36:33.050 it and appreciate it. Appreciate it, you know, make the 0:36:33.050 --> 0:36:35.779 time go by. I'm just like, I would put it 0:36:35.780 --> 0:36:38.870 in my toilet. At least I look at it, you know? 0:36:38.900 --> 0:36:41.900 I mean, I hang up art in the toilet. I 0:36:41.900 --> 0:36:43.910 think it's a great place. You spend time in there. 0:36:43.940 --> 0:36:48.620 It's important people undermine that real estate. It's true. It's 0:36:48.620 --> 0:36:50.330 a good time. I'm just saying that's a good tip. 0:36:50.360 --> 0:36:51.260 I was actually just using the. 0:36:51.260 --> 0:36:51.980 Restroom in our. 0:36:52.010 --> 0:36:55.160 Office. It's. There's no there's nothing in it. I'm like. 0:36:55.190 --> 0:36:57.590 It's just to give you magazines. But nobody reads magazines. 0:36:57.590 --> 0:37:00.380 They're all in their phone getting like, you know, like 0:37:00.380 --> 0:37:03.620 what would be a next version of a humpback? I 0:37:03.620 --> 0:37:06.770 don't know. Humpback of Notre Dame. Yeah, all of us. 0:37:06.920 --> 0:37:13.970 Hump neck. Neck issues for sure. Double chins. Great. And so. Hey. Yeah. Well, reality, 0:37:14.000 --> 0:37:19.189 the the Instagram versus reality side, right? Totally. All day long. 0:37:19.190 --> 0:37:22.580 And just try to type like this. But the point 0:37:22.580 --> 0:37:27.110 I'm saying is these people have all the wealth they 0:37:27.110 --> 0:37:32.120 can have. I have a friend that's made $700 million 0:37:32.120 --> 0:37:36.350 since Sunday till today. Oh, wow. In crypto. He's not 0:37:36.350 --> 0:37:38.750 gonna live long enough to spend that. I don't know. 0:37:38.780 --> 0:37:42.830 That's in a few days. Yeah. Wow. Well, you know, 0:37:42.860 --> 0:37:45.500 what's he gonna do with that? Buy another yacht. He's 0:37:45.500 --> 0:37:50.390 got seven. Buy another jet. He's got two. Buy another home. He's. 0:37:50.390 --> 0:37:52.700 But he's got one. But only he can only be 0:37:52.700 --> 0:37:57.110 in one home. Yeah. So all I'm saying is desire. 0:37:57.110 --> 0:38:01.580 What will actually fulfill you and know where the point. 0:38:01.580 --> 0:38:05.569 The tipping point is where your desires become your enemy. 0:38:05.600 --> 0:38:09.290 Where they start to torture you. Where that self-doubt comes. 0:38:09.320 --> 0:38:13.610 Where that. Oh my God, I don't have this. That 0:38:13.610 --> 0:38:15.650 means I'm a failure. I can't show it off to 0:38:15.680 --> 0:38:18.500 my friends, my Birkin or my watch or my. Who 0:38:18.500 --> 0:38:23.540 cares what? Um, so you have to find that balance. 0:38:23.540 --> 0:38:29.360 Because billions is your ability to wake up in the morning, 0:38:29.390 --> 0:38:32.930 be at peace with yourself, own your day and go 0:38:32.930 --> 0:38:35.450 to bed going like I am grateful for x, y, 0:38:35.450 --> 0:38:39.620 z because today I did things that I feel grateful for. 0:38:39.620 --> 0:38:44.720 And if that's getting you to bed at peace, you're 0:38:44.719 --> 0:38:46.790 a billionaire. Yep, you're doing it right. 0:38:46.820 --> 0:38:49.040 You know, I think of those people who are making 0:38:49.040 --> 0:38:53.450 that amount of money at some point. You can only 0:38:53.450 --> 0:38:56.509 buy so many things, right? There's only so many watches 0:38:56.510 --> 0:39:01.219 or bags or you name it, jets. Um, but at 0:39:01.219 --> 0:39:05.640 some point. I find this with myself. Often I like, 0:39:05.670 --> 0:39:08.700 do I really need this? I think everybody at whatever 0:39:08.820 --> 0:39:11.190 threshold that they're at can really ask an honest question like, 0:39:11.219 --> 0:39:13.170 do I really need this thing? And does it bring 0:39:13.170 --> 0:39:14.940 me joy? Or does it add to my life in 0:39:14.940 --> 0:39:18.299 some way? Or is the motive behind this to impress somebody, 0:39:18.300 --> 0:39:21.870 to have some status symbol to fill some void, to 0:39:21.900 --> 0:39:24.870 just have another thing like a dopamine hit? But then 0:39:24.870 --> 0:39:27.210 once you like, reach that point when you recognize that 0:39:27.210 --> 0:39:31.290 you're making spending decisions based off of things that aren't 0:39:31.290 --> 0:39:34.530 important to you, and you kind of get slapped in 0:39:34.530 --> 0:39:39.719 the face with causes and people who need you, all 0:39:39.719 --> 0:39:42.600 of a sudden, the motivation can very easily turn to, well, 0:39:42.600 --> 0:39:46.500 I want to make more money, not just to spend 0:39:46.500 --> 0:39:48.690 on whatever I want, but to be able to make 0:39:48.690 --> 0:39:50.700 an impact. And I know that you have done a 0:39:50.700 --> 0:39:55.110 significant amount of philanthropic work. And so how do those 0:39:55.110 --> 0:39:58.140 things tie together in the world that you live in, 0:39:58.140 --> 0:40:04.190 where there is so much lavish luxury stuff, while also 0:40:04.190 --> 0:40:07.489 being able to kind of shield that or redirect that 0:40:07.489 --> 0:40:11.720 conversation to giving back, making a difference, creating an impact, 0:40:11.719 --> 0:40:14.180 and not using wealth just for the finer things in life, 0:40:14.180 --> 0:40:16.730 but also to really change people's lives. 0:40:16.760 --> 0:40:21.770 So it takes the same energy to give to others 0:40:21.800 --> 0:40:25.490 as it does to yourself simultaneously. I'll give you an example. 0:40:25.489 --> 0:40:29.420 When I was launching my fashion line, I had, um, 0:40:29.450 --> 0:40:32.299 in London, we were launching a fashion line. It was 0:40:32.300 --> 0:40:36.380 me and my designer, incredibly talented designer, but we didn't have. 0:40:36.410 --> 0:40:40.819 I was like 22. I didn't know it was 25 0:40:40.820 --> 0:40:44.270 and I didn't have investors. I didn't have a lot 0:40:44.300 --> 0:40:46.730 of money. I moved to the US with $200 in 0:40:46.730 --> 0:40:51.140 my pocket. Wow. I had this is a side story, 0:40:51.170 --> 0:40:54.050 a funny story. I had a bank account that I 0:40:54.050 --> 0:40:58.670 earned from, like, working side hustles as a teenager and 0:40:58.670 --> 0:41:01.430 then when I moved to the US, because remember, there's 0:41:01.430 --> 0:41:04.100 no digital world back then I had like 200 bucks 0:41:04.100 --> 0:41:06.770 to my name, and then I built everything and I 0:41:06.800 --> 0:41:12.259 forgot that I had a $15,000 in a bank, which, 0:41:12.440 --> 0:41:14.870 you know, is not life changing. But back then we're 0:41:14.870 --> 0:41:17.180 talking about like in the late 90s, it was a 0:41:17.180 --> 0:41:19.580 decent amount of money. Yeah. For a 20 something year old, 0:41:19.730 --> 0:41:23.450 like 15, $20,000 in a bank from like side hustles, 0:41:23.480 --> 0:41:27.200 like selling pizzas on the weekend, working at the shoe store, 0:41:27.230 --> 0:41:30.590 being a go go dancer at bar mitzvahs, like, whatever, 0:41:30.770 --> 0:41:33.710 you know, did it. And I forgot because my parents 0:41:33.739 --> 0:41:37.489 being good Jewish parents like, save your money. So I 0:41:37.520 --> 0:41:39.890 saved it so much I forgot it was there. I 0:41:39.890 --> 0:41:43.580 moved to US $200. I only acknowledge what was in 0:41:43.580 --> 0:41:45.799 front of me, and I acted like as if I 0:41:45.800 --> 0:41:51.350 was poor. And that mentality though, that like, that's like 0:41:51.380 --> 0:41:55.220 that fear of like, oh my God, that trained me 0:41:55.219 --> 0:41:58.340 for everything. Because even though I, my parents have a 0:41:58.370 --> 0:42:01.850 beautiful 7000 square foot house in Toronto. We live in 0:42:01.850 --> 0:42:05.540 a very affluent neighborhood. We never had to struggle a day. 0:42:05.570 --> 0:42:09.230 I literally moved to Miami. I don't know what happened. 0:42:09.260 --> 0:42:12.560 I forgot, and I acted like in my mind for 0:42:12.560 --> 0:42:15.470 the first year. Like, if I don't make another dollar, 0:42:15.739 --> 0:42:18.680 I'm on the street. I'm calling my parents because I've 0:42:18.680 --> 0:42:24.109 got too much pride. So I get a letter from 0:42:24.110 --> 0:42:29.180 the bank 15 or 20 years later, or I don't 0:42:29.210 --> 0:42:31.460 know how many years, like maybe less than, like ten, 0:42:31.460 --> 0:42:34.730 15 years later to my parents home, which we still had. 0:42:34.730 --> 0:42:41.450 Our family home, thankfully. Is Miss Gulan deceased? No. It's 0:42:41.630 --> 0:42:45.710 terrifying because this account has been untouched for at that 0:42:45.710 --> 0:42:49.610 point over 20 years just sitting there. So the bank 0:42:49.640 --> 0:42:53.210 wants to like, close the account. They're like is don't 0:42:53.239 --> 0:42:57.050 Google me. I'm like, hello? Hi. I'm very much here. 0:42:57.080 --> 0:43:01.670 Very not deceased. Is she deceased? And I'm like, oh, 0:43:02.060 --> 0:43:06.919 I have all this money I made when I was 16, 17, 18, 0:43:06.920 --> 0:43:10.069 and I still have that account. I've yet to touch 0:43:10.070 --> 0:43:12.980 that account. The bank knows I'm alive. But the moral 0:43:12.980 --> 0:43:16.040 of the story is you need a lot less than 0:43:16.040 --> 0:43:20.120 you realize, and you think you need a lot less. 0:43:20.120 --> 0:43:24.380 Happiness is a construct that you have to allow yourself 0:43:24.380 --> 0:43:27.980 to have. The only thing that will give you happiness 0:43:28.010 --> 0:43:32.180 is your mindset. Getting it piece with your heart and 0:43:32.180 --> 0:43:36.500 your soul and your intentions, and you own that ability. 0:43:36.920 --> 0:43:40.100 And then everything else is a hit. Like you said, 0:43:40.100 --> 0:43:43.250 you're happy and then your brain is like, okay, what's next? 0:43:43.489 --> 0:43:48.290 That said, don't get me wrong, I have a house 0:43:48.290 --> 0:43:52.100 in London, six floors stuffed with stuff that I'll never 0:43:52.130 --> 0:43:55.370 be able to. I have more shoes than that Imelda 0:43:55.820 --> 0:43:59.180 was a crazy shoe collector. I have more shoes than 0:43:59.180 --> 0:44:02.000 I have feet will ever wear. I have more gowns 0:44:02.000 --> 0:44:05.180 than I have. Days will live and where? I have 0:44:05.210 --> 0:44:09.469 too much of everything. Um. And I still want more. 0:44:09.500 --> 0:44:12.500 There's nothing wrong with wanting things. There's nothing wrong with motivation. 0:44:12.530 --> 0:44:15.680 There's nothing wrong with wanting wealth. I'll tell you something 0:44:15.680 --> 0:44:19.069 like rich shaming is a joke. Because if you go 0:44:19.070 --> 0:44:23.150 to any person who is struggling, they will take your 0:44:23.150 --> 0:44:25.880 spot and they will not apologize and they won't even 0:44:25.880 --> 0:44:29.299 look back. So don't for one second think that you 0:44:29.300 --> 0:44:33.560 should sit there and feel shame for wanting or achieving 0:44:33.560 --> 0:44:36.470 whatever it is you achieve. Because believe me, there's a 0:44:36.469 --> 0:44:38.779 billion plus people that will kick you off that seat 0:44:38.780 --> 0:44:42.140 and won't even say thank you. So if you're sitting 0:44:42.140 --> 0:44:44.600 on your jet. Level up. If you're sitting on your yacht. 0:44:44.630 --> 0:44:47.840 Toast to you. And if you're dreaming of it, go 0:44:47.840 --> 0:44:50.750 and get it. Because there's so many ways today to 0:44:50.780 --> 0:44:55.670 achieve those goals. Social media TikTok. Instagram has made it 0:44:55.670 --> 0:44:59.960 so easy for you to get your message to the world, 0:44:59.960 --> 0:45:03.080 to build a community, to build a fan base. Brands 0:45:03.080 --> 0:45:05.810 don't even look for mega influencers anymore. They're working with 0:45:05.810 --> 0:45:10.400 micro and macro and nano, and so there's a spot 0:45:10.400 --> 0:45:15.650 for everyone, and there's no excuse for you not to leave. 0:45:15.680 --> 0:45:19.040 Live the ultimate lifestyle that you can live. And you 0:45:19.040 --> 0:45:23.629 shouldn't apologize for being hungry or motivated. And yes, while 0:45:23.660 --> 0:45:26.690 being nice, you also have to be a shark and 0:45:26.690 --> 0:45:29.930 know when to say no. And one of my favorite 0:45:29.930 --> 0:45:33.770 things to do on Instagram will surprise you. I'm ready. 0:45:33.800 --> 0:45:37.610 Block you. Block people all day long. The haters, the 0:45:37.969 --> 0:45:38.870 negative people. 0:45:38.900 --> 0:45:41.540 Whatever. Okay, you think I want those followers? I get 0:45:41.540 --> 0:45:45.020 rid of them before they get rid of themselves, because 0:45:45.260 --> 0:45:49.250 this is my community and it's my space. And in 0:45:49.280 --> 0:45:52.840 that space I get to decide who gets to interact 0:45:52.840 --> 0:45:55.900 because I care about my followers. I read all their messages. 0:45:55.900 --> 0:45:58.960 I respond to them as often as I can, and 0:45:58.960 --> 0:46:02.350 if somebody comes there, that doesn't resonate with me in 0:46:02.350 --> 0:46:04.239 that way, I'm not going to have a debate with them. 0:46:04.239 --> 0:46:06.790 I'm not your mommy. I'm not here to teach you 0:46:06.790 --> 0:46:10.180 or change your mind. If you're sliding into my DM 0:46:10.180 --> 0:46:14.680 or into my comment section, or if I somehow see 0:46:14.680 --> 0:46:19.210 that on your page, you're don't resonate with my values. 0:46:19.210 --> 0:46:22.029 You're gone before you know it. Because it's my space, 0:46:22.030 --> 0:46:24.610 it's my home, and you're not going to bring anybody 0:46:24.610 --> 0:46:27.850 into your home, are you? And even though it's public, 0:46:27.880 --> 0:46:30.580 I still have that power to say not you either, 0:46:30.640 --> 0:46:34.300 because at the end of the day, your energy is 0:46:34.300 --> 0:46:36.430 even affected by the people on the other side of 0:46:36.460 --> 0:46:40.270 that digital space. And if somebody is coming into your 0:46:40.270 --> 0:46:44.529 space and they are bullying you, harassing you, shaming you, 0:46:44.770 --> 0:46:48.670 block them, forget them, move on, replace them. It's fun. 0:46:48.700 --> 0:46:52.330 I think it's really fun. My boyfriend is too nice 0:46:52.360 --> 0:46:56.049 guy to block. I'm like, he gets harassed sometimes by people. 0:46:56.080 --> 0:46:58.360 Or the first time he had a hater, he really 0:46:58.360 --> 0:47:02.350 felt bad. And I'm like, just block. It's part of the. 0:47:02.380 --> 0:47:06.520 Part of the process. Just I find it really motivating. 0:47:06.550 --> 0:47:10.450 And not just in real block in real life too. Yeah. Oh, yeah. 0:47:11.050 --> 0:47:14.980 For sure. And in real life. I don't know, there's 0:47:14.980 --> 0:47:18.640 something about people who know the right button to push. 0:47:18.640 --> 0:47:20.529 There's one thing when it's just, like, really just, like, 0:47:20.530 --> 0:47:24.100 nasty and derogatory and, like, truly hateful. And I'm all 0:47:24.100 --> 0:47:27.370 about blocking those people. But I can remember so many 0:47:27.370 --> 0:47:31.959 times that I've actually screenshotted the direct messages. I one time, like, 0:47:31.989 --> 0:47:35.560 received a letter to my house, uh, or just comments 0:47:35.560 --> 0:47:39.310 where people point out the things that I might have 0:47:39.310 --> 0:47:42.460 been insecure about in my life, or that I've had 0:47:42.460 --> 0:47:46.030 doubts or reservations about for myself, about just how people 0:47:46.030 --> 0:47:49.690 perceive me. And there is something that is so motivating 0:47:49.719 --> 0:47:53.890 to me in seeing that, that I absolutely every single 0:47:53.890 --> 0:47:56.710 time I screenshot it. And sometimes I'm even, you know, 0:47:56.739 --> 0:47:59.710 playful back where I will engage if you want. I 0:47:59.710 --> 0:48:04.270 won't get defensive, but I, you know, I, I find 0:48:04.270 --> 0:48:07.390 it helpful and therapeutic for me to be able to 0:48:07.420 --> 0:48:09.610 have my little quippy response back. 0:48:09.640 --> 0:48:13.360 Oh yeah. No. Yeah, I totally. Sometimes I get into 0:48:13.360 --> 0:48:16.779 it too. Um, usually it's not. Usually I get into 0:48:16.780 --> 0:48:19.989 it on other posts or pop up on my feed. 0:48:20.260 --> 0:48:23.140 Issues that I care about that are really not part 0:48:23.140 --> 0:48:25.540 of what I'm sharing, and I get into it there. 0:48:25.540 --> 0:48:27.970 It's funny, I got in trouble a few times, but 0:48:27.969 --> 0:48:30.910 I don't care. I'll own it. Um, because I'm not 0:48:30.940 --> 0:48:34.570 a I'm not just gonna agree with everything I see, 0:48:34.570 --> 0:48:37.930 but what I say to to what you said before, 0:48:37.960 --> 0:48:41.230 and I'll say that to anyone that has some kind 0:48:41.230 --> 0:48:43.600 of a voice or is getting some kind of feedback. 0:48:44.050 --> 0:48:49.510 If you're getting feedback that's negative, Look at yourself as 0:48:49.510 --> 0:48:54.460 a power station and look at that feedback as energy. 0:48:54.700 --> 0:48:59.140 And you are milling the energy and you're converting it 0:48:59.140 --> 0:49:03.430 into power. You have the ability to take all the 0:49:03.430 --> 0:49:07.180 hate that the world can throw at you and turn 0:49:07.180 --> 0:49:10.720 it into your superpower, turn it into your what fuels 0:49:10.719 --> 0:49:14.590 your batteries? And you could laugh at all those that 0:49:14.590 --> 0:49:17.650 want to bring you down. As you go up, wave 0:49:17.650 --> 0:49:21.040 at them as you go up because they are victims 0:49:21.040 --> 0:49:25.569 of their hate. They are disabled by that hate. They 0:49:25.600 --> 0:49:29.410 are paralyzed. They are sitting in their grandma's basement in 0:49:29.410 --> 0:49:34.600 the dark, thinking and putting their energy into you while 0:49:34.600 --> 0:49:36.879 you don't even know they exist. And what? You might 0:49:36.910 --> 0:49:41.200 have acknowledged that comment for a millisecond and engage it 0:49:41.200 --> 0:49:45.040 for another millisecond. You move on with your incredible life 0:49:45.040 --> 0:49:48.100 and they stay in their misery. So always be the 0:49:48.100 --> 0:49:51.520 person that takes the shit that the world wants to 0:49:51.520 --> 0:49:54.280 throw at you and turn that into gold. 0:49:54.370 --> 0:49:58.180 Amazing, I love it. Well, you are spectacular. Thank you 0:49:58.180 --> 0:50:03.640 for being on this show. Please check her social media out. 0:50:03.640 --> 0:50:06.310 She is fantastic. And where can people find you online? 0:50:06.310 --> 0:50:08.950 What is like the platform of choice for you? Um. 0:50:09.219 --> 0:50:11.589 Instagram. Instagram official. Okay. 0:50:11.620 --> 0:50:16.569 And if they decide to comment something nasty, she's just 0:50:16.570 --> 0:50:17.200 going to actually. 0:50:17.200 --> 0:50:19.569 Read the comments. I don't read all the comments all 0:50:19.570 --> 0:50:22.330 the time, but look, at the end of the day, 0:50:22.660 --> 0:50:26.440 it's I'm not saying that you you have to agree 0:50:26.440 --> 0:50:28.899 with me. I'm not looking. But if you come in there, 0:50:28.930 --> 0:50:31.690 like I'll give you an example. As we're wrapping up, 0:50:31.719 --> 0:50:36.310 anti-Semitism has been like in on an insane rise. You 0:50:36.310 --> 0:50:39.700 can go and have your opinions, whatever. If you come 0:50:39.700 --> 0:50:42.580 into my page and you're going to go and chanting 0:50:42.610 --> 0:50:46.330 against the right of my family to exist. I'm gonna 0:50:46.360 --> 0:50:49.390 block you. I'm not gonna go and give you energy 0:50:49.390 --> 0:50:51.520 and try to say. But why do you think like this? 0:50:51.760 --> 0:50:54.010 If your mother didn't educate you, then there's no hope 0:50:54.010 --> 0:50:57.459 that I will. So if you're coming for. You're so 0:50:57.460 --> 0:51:00.879 wrong on something, I'm going to hit that hate button. 0:51:00.910 --> 0:51:02.350 But if you say that you don't like my hair 0:51:02.380 --> 0:51:05.560 or my outfit, I don't care. I'm not gonna block 0:51:05.560 --> 0:51:07.810 you for that for sure. I'm saying there's there's a 0:51:07.810 --> 0:51:12.880 line that people cross. I just remove them for everything else. 0:51:13.840 --> 0:51:15.910 Who cares? Totally. Don't give it energy. 0:51:15.940 --> 0:51:18.190 Yep. It's just a second of time. It's a blip 0:51:18.190 --> 0:51:20.410 in a lifetime. And you get to go. Keep creating 0:51:20.410 --> 0:51:21.160 your life. 0:51:22.210 --> 0:51:26.919 Use your time to be your power to build your billions. 0:51:27.700 --> 0:51:30.790 With that, thank you for being on building billions. Can't 0:51:30.790 --> 0:51:32.440 wait to see you guys next time. Don't forget to 0:51:32.469 --> 0:51:36.190 subscribe to the channel and share this episode with anybody 0:51:36.219 --> 0:51:38.590 who you think in your life could be benefited by 0:51:38.590 --> 0:51:43.360 hearing all of the amazing words from this incredible powerhouse woman.