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Speaker 1: It's a Minnesota Goodbye. It's Jenny and Bailey today. Vontes

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Speaker 1: a little bit caught up with a lot of work,

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Speaker 1: so he is not going to be on today, So

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Speaker 1: if there's anything director towards him, we'll say that for Monday. Okay, First, Emil,

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Speaker 1: how do two you all? I'm listening to the Minnesota

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Speaker 1: Goodbye and you mentioned your dad claiming you as a

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Speaker 1: dependent and asking for a loan intuition information. My question is,

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Speaker 1: if you paid for it all, why would you share

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Speaker 1: that information with him? At a minimum, you should have

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Speaker 1: run that past your mom for her opinion. Just find

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Speaker 1: it odd that as frugal as you are, you would

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Speaker 1: share that with him. With him Love the podcast. That's

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Speaker 1: from Rebecca. Rebecca, I was nineteen years old and didn't

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Speaker 1: know shit about taxes. Okay, I didn't know what I

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Speaker 1: was doing when he was like, hey, I'm going to

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Speaker 1: need your tuition stuff.

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Speaker 2: So that was sad when your parent asks you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I also, my parents didn't like each other,

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Speaker 1: so there was no there weren't going to be things.

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Speaker 1: I was running past my mom yeah, over my dad

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Speaker 1: because they already didn't like each other enough, which caused

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Speaker 1: enough stress in my life. So there's your answer, Rebecca.

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Speaker 1: I was young and didn't understand tax back then. So

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Speaker 1: there you go. At this point in my life. Never whatever.

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Speaker 1: Oh right, next female, I'm writing to tell a story

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Speaker 1: about someone who should have gone to the hospital sooner.

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Speaker 1: So this is a story about my dad. My dad

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Speaker 1: is a hypochondriac. When I was in fourth grade, he

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Speaker 1: had what we thought was the flu. He didn't leave

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Speaker 1: how bad it was though, probably because you know he's

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Speaker 1: a hypochondriac.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Well, he finally went into the emergency room. His appendix

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Speaker 1: he could have died this appendix burst. Yeah, oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think I I think I've heard that before.

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Speaker 2: Bad right, But.

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Speaker 3: Like, what is the difference between an internal and an

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Speaker 1: No, idea isn't your entire I was gonna say, I

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Speaker 1: feel like I've only ever heard of like an appendix

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Speaker 3: So maybe it means like within the appendix. It's inside

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Speaker 1: But she continues on saying this hospital trip also helped

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Speaker 1: him quit smoking as well.

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Speaker 1: And that comes from britt crazy. Okay, let's see next one.

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Speaker 1: It says, Hey, all, it's been a while since I

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Speaker 1: wrote in, and I was listening to last Thursday's episode

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Speaker 1: made a comment that kids will long outgrow car seats

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Speaker 1: my father in law's car, and I noticed it in

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Speaker 1: the back seat. This particular car seat had been manufactured

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Speaker 1: on February second of two thousand and seven. Based on

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Speaker 1: this particular model, it had expired in twenty thirteen. Apparently,

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Speaker 1: That doesn't surprise me at all because things with childcare

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Speaker 1: The car seats expire. I think they expire just based

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Speaker 1: so okay. Anyways, that comes from Jenny. She says, love

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Speaker 1: the Morning Zoo. Hey, first time writer here for The

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Speaker 1: Minnesota Goodbye. I listened to the show every day, and

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Speaker 1: I've listened to every episode of The Minnesota Goodbye. I

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Speaker 1: so I figured it it might be time to contribute

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Speaker 1: grammar police email that you all talked about. On yesterday's podcast.

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Speaker 1: Bailey mentioned she didn't understand when to use I or

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Speaker 1: me in a sentence when referring to herself at another person.

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Speaker 1: You've got it right that you need to remove the

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Speaker 1: But you also have to consider this sentence structure. Typically,

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Speaker 1: It's one of those things that like if you've done

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Speaker 2: Exactly for that, my dad.

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Speaker 1: I would like to give us as radio DJs. I

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Speaker 1: know that we're supposed to be like flawless. We're not, though,

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Speaker 1: and we speak live and so a lot of times

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Speaker 1: you all know I pronounce things wrong. I'll be like, Bailey,

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Speaker 1: I'm not a very articulate person in general. Well, yeah

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Speaker 3: I don't think so like I if you had to

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Speaker 3: ask me, like, hey, what do you think about this thing?

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Speaker 3: If I didn't like have time to think about it

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Speaker 2: Well how I feel?

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you're not giving yourself enough credit because

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Speaker 1: I think you do a thought. I think you do

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Speaker 1: Here is another email. It says, hey, y'all, since you

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Speaker 1: the podcast One Family Perks a few weeks ago, you

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Speaker 1: Thank you run. That was very That was a funny math.

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Speaker 3: So she used to bring home like boxes of donuts,

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Speaker 3: she purchased food for nine.

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Speaker 3: She didn't purchase any food because she got all of

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Speaker 1: All I can think in my head is the fact

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Speaker 3: Right exactly. So she's out here being the most frugal. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm writing in after hearing the news article that you're

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Speaker 1: find these new shocking because, like Jenny and Bailey, I

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Speaker 1: I probably own around forty to fifty pairs of underwear,

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Speaker 2: Exactly bigger than my fist.

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Speaker 1: After you'ar and you all discussed the topic and made

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Speaker 1: getting our panties from Victoria's Secret or is this a

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Speaker 1: I'm not getting the mine from there. I almost always

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Speaker 3: Now, I started. Honestly, I was convinced by an Instagram ad. Yikes,

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Speaker 3: But I go to this company called cheek Boss okay,

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Speaker 3: because it's like buttery soft and they always have some

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Speaker 3: a pair of underwear, but like they last a long time.

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Speaker 3: They have fun like uh what is it? Fun prints?

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Speaker 3: And so I get all of my underwear from cheek

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Speaker 3: Boss and I literally don't The other underwear that I do.

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Speaker 2: Have is from Target okay, and that's it.

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Speaker 3: But I have heard that the costco like underwear that

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Speaker 1: I even tried those, but I've had sleeping shorts from

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Speaker 1: there that I've had like five years that I'm obsessed with. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: next question is what cuf? What cut is the most comfortable?

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Speaker 1: I wear thongs, and I know a lot of people

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Speaker 3: It's definitely got polyester because they're stretchy, but they're like

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I don't Yeah, I'll go ahead, go ahead, No,

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Speaker 1: what cut do you?

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Speaker 3: I usually do the the cheek ones like cheeks stirs

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Speaker 2: Because I don't want them. I don't want a pantylin.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, they like half go up but then mostly

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Speaker 1: There you go. Yeah, I don't know that we'll have

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Speaker 1: really better for you, like gnecologists say, oh, Bailey's shaking

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes they are. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Oh so that makes sense. So then things get.

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Speaker 2: Get all like you know, coop duck and they're cooped up.

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Speaker 2: They get dark and they can't get out. Yeah, so

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Speaker 3: When you're sleeping, to sleep in cotton underwear or no underwear.

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Speaker 3: There's no way I could sleep without underwear on. To

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Speaker 3: be perfectly honest, I feel like the people who sleep

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Speaker 1: Yeah you can't, all right, and real quick. The last

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Speaker 1: And this comes from she says love Michelle. Michelle, I

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Speaker 1: thirty Yeah, probably I have like thirty something, and I

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Speaker 1: That was the funny one. Thanks Michelle. All Right, we

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