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Speaker 1: We're live on ninety three three FLZ. It's The Joe Show,

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Speaker 1: and we're currently in the stages of not only planning it,

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Speaker 1: but putting together the guest list, and you know, then

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Speaker 1: we got to send out to save the dates and

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Speaker 1: all that stuff. We're a bit of ways away from that.

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Speaker 1: As we're talking about who should be invited and who

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Speaker 1: shouldn't be invited. There is a couple that are pretty

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Speaker 1: close to my fiance and I and what type of

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Speaker 1: couple are they? Well, this is the type of couple

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Speaker 1: that they are. They stay together, they break up, they

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Speaker 1: stay together, they break up, they stay together, they break up,

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Speaker 1: they stay together, they break up. They've been together for

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Speaker 1: longer than a listen and I have been together. They've

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Speaker 1: been together for like eight years. But they stay together,

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Speaker 1: they break up, the stay together, they break up.

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Speaker 2: Clearly not engaged either.

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Speaker 1: No, they've been doing this recently. I'd say that this

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Speaker 1: has been happening for the last three months. They've probably

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Speaker 1: broken up like times. And the thing is is that

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Speaker 1: even though we haven't sent out to save the dates,

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Speaker 1: they're one of those couples that we've spent a lot

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Speaker 1: of time with each other and we've talked about the wedding.

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Speaker 1: We've gone. Oh, like they even know. We kind of

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Speaker 1: kept this a super secret with a lot of people.

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Speaker 1: They even know where we're getting married, so they know

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Speaker 1: that We've had conversations with them about, you know, picking

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Speaker 1: up food and stuff like that. Alissa has shared intimate

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Speaker 1: details about certain things that I'm not even allowed to

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Speaker 1: know just yet with this woman. And well, here's the thing.

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Speaker 1: As we're putting together the list. You know, people cost money, Okay,

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Speaker 1: and I get the whole. You can invite someone and

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Speaker 1: then if you choose to, like they can't come, you

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Speaker 1: can use that invitation for someone else. But we're trying

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Speaker 1: to make this as small as possible. It's literally like

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Speaker 1: every single night we look at and we're like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: well maybe this person doesn't have to come. I want

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Speaker 1: to know because I told her yesterday, I said, I

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Speaker 1: think this person should just be off. I think that

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Speaker 1: they're uninvited. I think that we give her because we're

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Speaker 1: not even giving plus ones no one. If you you

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Speaker 1: gotta be not I don't care if you're married. We

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Speaker 1: both need to have a relationship with you. And I'm

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Speaker 1: talking about a close relationship. If you're gonna be invited.

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Speaker 1: I've said this before. I think that they're gonna be

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Speaker 1: people that don't get invited, that they're probably going to

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Speaker 1: not be too happy about it. And I think this

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Speaker 1: person's gonna have to be a part of it. I

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Speaker 1: think that they're significant now there's probably gonna be pissed

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Speaker 1: too if they're still together. To me, it's just they

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Speaker 1: break up so much lately. I don't I don't want

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Speaker 1: to give this invitation to where next thing, you know,

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Speaker 1: we're having this person go who. I don't think it's

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Speaker 1: like a five rule plan, like if you're not gonna

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Speaker 1: be friends with them, and there's a rule if you're

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Speaker 1: not gonna be friends with them in five years after

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Speaker 1: your wedding, they should not go to your wedding. So

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Speaker 1: you need to really look at it and go, will

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Speaker 1: I be friends with you in five years? If the

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Speaker 1: answer is no, they shouldn't come to your wedding. I

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Speaker 1: had so many people bring that up to me. I

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Speaker 1: think that this person will be in my life if

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Speaker 1: they're still together, but I don't think that they'll even

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Speaker 1: make it to the wedding.

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Speaker 2: But have you thought about, Joe, the repercussions if you

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Speaker 2: don't invite this couple You've.

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Speaker 1: Known me some high school. Of course I'm freaking out

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Speaker 3: Well, then you've got it. Then you can't send the offer.

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Speaker 3: If this is somebody that you're close in the high school,

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Speaker 3: it doesn't matter. If they're going back and forth, back

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Speaker 3: and forth, back and forth. You still have to deal

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Speaker 3: with somebody thick and thin, like for me for example. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I get why. I don't get I don't get a

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Speaker 3: plus one to this wedding.

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Speaker 2: Well, but I know, I.

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Speaker 1: Think I think you're on you're on the hey, you know,

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Speaker 1: like this weekend. This weekend, Redina plays her cards right,

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Speaker 1: she could get breaking news.

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Speaker 2: You might get an invite.

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying that she's got one now, but she's

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Speaker 1: got some time.

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Speaker 2: But I don't think you can.

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Speaker 3: I think it's a douche move to uninvite them, even

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Speaker 3: though you haven't officially sent out the arry.

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Speaker 1: It's your wedding. There's no douche move at all. You

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Speaker 1: want them there, you don't if you don't want them,

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Speaker 1: there's your special day.

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Speaker 2: You get what you want. But they're they're friends of yours.

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Speaker 1: They he has better friends. If he only gets a

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Speaker 1: certain amount, you should invite the closest of the closest.

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Speaker 1: Let's do this eight hundred and four ninety three ninety

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Speaker 1: three two things. One should this person go? And then

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Speaker 1: the main one I want to know about is why

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Speaker 1: did you want to invite them? Why did they not

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Speaker 1: get an invitation to your wedding? Because I really would,

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Speaker 1: I would, I would love to hear more about that.

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Speaker 1: And it's almost like kind of like I'm watching game

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Speaker 1: tape from other people's weddings being strategic with how this

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Speaker 1: is going to happen. I never thought someone just said, damn,

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Speaker 1: Jed's Girlfriend's not getting an invitation. I've only been around

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Speaker 1: Jed's girlfriend twice, so I guess spend more time time,

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Speaker 1: I spend more time.

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Speaker 4: I understand. I'm not sulty about that. I said, Ashley's

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Speaker 4: not getting plus Jed loves that, but she's not getting

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Speaker 4: a plus one. There's coworkers hours who are in very

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Speaker 4: very very serious relationships who will not be getting a

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Speaker 4: plus one. There are friends that will not be Oh

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Speaker 4: my god, there's a friend of Alyssa' who's not getting a

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Speaker 4: plus one that I already know she's There's gonna be

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Speaker 4: a lot of drama attached to it.

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Speaker 1: But that's a Lista's friend and I'm gonna lie. You know,

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Speaker 1: this is gonna do what she does.

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Speaker 2: Not my problem.

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Speaker 1: We will be But Megan, I talk to me about

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Speaker 1: this whole wedding invitation.

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Speaker 5: So my wedding is in February, and I told this

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Speaker 5: friend they weren't invited because I didn't tell them why.

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Speaker 5: I told them, Oh, we just didn't have enough invites.

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Speaker 5: But they're not invited because they caused me stressed. But

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Speaker 5: we've been friends for a really long time. Yeah, so

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Speaker 5: I think you're totally in the.

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Speaker 1: Right with this one, you think.

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Speaker 5: And I technically didn't invite them because I don't know

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Speaker 5: their boyfriend and I don't like their boyfriend from what

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Speaker 5: they tell me.

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Speaker 1: A lot of problems attached to that though.

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Speaker 5: I don't really know the guy that well. But I

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Speaker 5: think they're a really annoying couple where they just like

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Speaker 5: love everything about each other, and I think it's really annoying.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but like like drama with that though, You're okay

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Speaker 1: with the drama that's gonna come with that?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the fall, that's the biggest thing.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm okay with the drama that's gonna come with it,

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Speaker 5: because I mean, I really don't care if this person

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Speaker 5: anything about it. They don't care.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, well thank you. And you also said

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Speaker 1: have you been talking to my fiance? Because that's like

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Speaker 1: literally what she says. So this is good. This is good.

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Speaker 5: No, I don't know Lisa at all.

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Speaker 1: I promise Megan, you're the best. Now Michelle's calling me

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Speaker 1: a douche. Good stuff, Michelle.

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Speaker 5: I love you.

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Speaker 6: You know I love you, But I have to tell

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Speaker 6: you this, especially since he's a close friend and Alyssa

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Speaker 6: has given so much information about the wedding that makes

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Speaker 6: them think that they're going to be included, and for

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Speaker 6: you to rescind the offer, I just think that's awful.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, so one more time. I just want to

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Speaker 1: make this clear. Maybe I didn't make this clear. It's

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Speaker 1: the the girl is like, ah, the woman is close

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Speaker 1: with Alissa. I don't want to say too much because

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Speaker 1: I want them to hear this and go, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: it's about us. But they'll know because they've broken up

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Speaker 1: like thirty five times. The guy is like, he's not

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Speaker 1: He's just there. He's always been there. But he's just there,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But I get I get

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Speaker 1: what you're saying. I totally get what you're saying. And Michelle,

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Speaker 1: I love when you call him, So call him more. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you too, you did this? Who did you want to

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Speaker 1: invite Luisa.

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Speaker 7: My cousin.

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Speaker 1: Oof, that's gonna be a lot of drama. I can't

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Speaker 1: invite cousins, you know.

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Speaker 7: When they bring the drama, then it's you know, it's

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Speaker 7: we did everybody in favor by uninviting him.

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Speaker 8: He asked me at about the money and how much

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Speaker 8: it was to travel to the wedding, and then asked

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Speaker 8: me if I could cover his travel to come to

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Speaker 8: my wedding.

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Speaker 7: So I said, how about we just agree that you're

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Speaker 7: not gonna come? And I invited him uninvited him?

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Speaker 1: All right, all right, all right, all right, Louisa. Luisa

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Speaker 1: plates are very expensive, aren't they.

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Speaker 2: Aren't? They are? They are?

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Speaker 1: So check this out. So while you were talking, I read,

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Speaker 1: because I can see everyone's calls. I read a call

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Speaker 1: from Brittany. I see what she's about to say. Well,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna pick her up a just a second. I

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Speaker 1: want to get your opinion before we talk to Brittany.

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Speaker 1: Brittany says everyone should get a plus one because it's

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Speaker 1: less drama that doubles the price in the wedding.

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Speaker 3: No no, no, no, no no.

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Speaker 7: If you have an unlimited budget, then of course everyone

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Speaker 7: gets absolutely dumb. However, I didn't want a bunch of

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Speaker 7: strangers at my wedding, and you're always gonna have that

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Speaker 7: one or two like, oh it's your.

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Speaker 5: Mom's aunt's friend's sister that.

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Speaker 7: You have to invite. That's a little bit different.

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Speaker 1: I'm making mom pay for that. By the way, if

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Speaker 1: if my mom has any of those people, she get

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Speaker 1: paid for those plates. You know. That's the thing.

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Speaker 7: People, it's expensive. And here's the thing, it's your day.

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Speaker 7: And I know everybody says this, but you guys can

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Speaker 7: do whatever the bleep you want. It's your day, and people.

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Speaker 7: If people can't, you know they're going to get their

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Speaker 7: panties all in a bunch because they weren't invited to

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Speaker 7: your wedding. Trust me, they'll get over it. And I

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Speaker 7: like to like, oh, well, I know them in five year,

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Speaker 7: ll forget that. You guys do what you want to do,

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Speaker 7: and if you guys are grown up, people will get

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Speaker 7: over it. Make yourself.

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Speaker 2: Happy you guys, thank you for the call, Louise, so

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Speaker 2: we appreciate it.

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Speaker 7: Of course.

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Speaker 1: All the best, all right, Luisi, you're the best. Thank

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Speaker 1: you so much. Uh all right, so timing purposes, I

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Speaker 1: want to get to Brittaney, Brittany, I got to talk

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Speaker 1: to you about doing the whole plus ones thing, So

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Speaker 1: hold on, one said, And I want to talk to

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Speaker 1: another Brittany who had to uninvite her dad. Yeah, we've

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Speaker 1: got a lot we want to talk about with this,

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Speaker 1: or at least I want to talk about it. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna get a little selfish,