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Speaker 1: Joe Shows Live on ninety three three f l Z

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Speaker 1: eight hundred four O nine ninety three ninety three. Did

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Speaker 1: you I'll stand up? Did you lose a friendship over

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Speaker 1: a relationship? Eight hundred four nine ninety three ninety three.

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Speaker 1: I want to hear about that, because Jed, I guess

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Speaker 1: you and your your buddy aren't friends anymore.

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Speaker 2: I'm friended on Facebook, blocked on Instagram. And then I ended,

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Speaker 2: thank god, I why you have too many friends? I'm

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Speaker 2: just kidding. This is a guy who I felt away

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Speaker 2: about it Ashley and Joe and Terry because I had

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Speaker 2: been in several weddings with this person. He was a

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Speaker 2: close college friend and he had on fronted me and

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Speaker 2: did all this stuff on social media. And I texted him,

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Speaker 2: I said, is everything okay? And then he told me

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Speaker 2: that his wife doesn't agree with what I post on

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Speaker 2: social media and doesn't think that I'm a good friend

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Speaker 2: to be around because I don't go up and visit

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Speaker 2: them in Ohio during the summers. So I'm trying to

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Speaker 2: be the bigger person in this situation. And I said, well, look,

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Speaker 2: if your wife wants you to do that, then that's

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Speaker 2: the decision. You're gonna make But yeah, essentially I lost

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Speaker 2: a friend because their significant other does not like me.

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Speaker 3: That is insane. I don't even think that. I mean,

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Speaker 3: is he married?

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Speaker 2: You said he's been married for three years now and

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Speaker 2: has a kid.

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Speaker 3: I what? And he told you straight up it's because

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Speaker 3: my wife.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he said that his wife doesn't agree with what

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Speaker 2: I post on social media with.

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Speaker 3: Did you say, hey, man, are you a man?

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 2: I kind of wanted to go there, do you have

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Speaker 2: your own like mine? Ashley? Ever since he made And

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Speaker 2: I'm not trying to be disrespectful on anyone, because I

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Speaker 2: really do like this person. But as soon as he

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Speaker 2: was like, hey, like I got to take it easy

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Speaker 2: and take a back seat from our friendship, like what,

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Speaker 2: Like I always thought it was the person that I

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Speaker 2: could like call on if I was in the neighborhood

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Speaker 2: anything like that, But turns out that's not the case.

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Speaker 2: And I don't know, I'm really this is I wouldn't

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Speaker 2: say it's the level of Joe and I's friendship. It's

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Speaker 2: probably a couple of notches down below that.

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Speaker 3: But that's so sad. I'm sorry you have to go

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Speaker 3: through that.

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Speaker 2: Like, for example, if my girlfriend Redina was like, hey,

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Speaker 2: I don't think Joe's a good person.

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Speaker 5: I would have.

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Speaker 3: Because you're.

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Speaker 6: Are you just say like, okay, like that's my friend.

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Speaker 6: Joe's not your friend. You don't have to deal with him, like, oh,

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Speaker 6: you don't have to be around him.

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Speaker 2: And there are certain friendships where it's like no negotiable,

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Speaker 2: I will keep the friend over the significant other. And

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Speaker 2: and they're married, so it's a little bit different.

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Speaker 6: But but even so, I just maybe because I'm not married,

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Speaker 6: I just still have the mentality that, like, we're still individuals.

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Speaker 6: If you don't like my friend, okay, that's fine, but

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Speaker 6: this is my friend. You don't have to, you know,

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Speaker 6: talk to them or be around them and say, for instance,

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Speaker 6: you do have to be around them. You just gotta

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Speaker 6: suck it up because you're my wife.

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Speaker 1: So and I think the whole thing that's ironic about

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Speaker 1: but I think men over women are complete whoosies.

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Speaker 3: That is true.

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Speaker 1: I think I think more men give up friendships one

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Speaker 1: relationships and women give up relationships.

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Speaker 2: Yea friendship, that is true because his power.

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Speaker 3: So you're like, I gotta go.

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Speaker 1: Jed, and I had a very very very close friend here.

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Speaker 1: You're aware of who literally couldn't have changed even more. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: got in a relationship, but.

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Speaker 2: I think it's like iron she wanted me to be

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Speaker 2: completely out of his life because I never visited them.

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Speaker 2: It's like, okay, well you wanted me alive.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, It's like, why don't you guys come out here

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Speaker 3: to visit.

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Speaker 2: I'm not going to Columbus, Ohio in the middle of.

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Speaker 1: Our pit of the Midwest.

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Speaker 6: You don't have to visit all the time to say

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Speaker 6: that your friend.

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Speaker 3: Are you talking through a tunnel?

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Speaker 2: I can barely off bagtan speaker place, Rihanna, what's going on?

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Speaker 7: Okay? So I had a best friend in high school

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Speaker 7: who would constantly blur the line between his best friend

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Speaker 7: and like she wanted to be a girlfriend, and she

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Speaker 7: would constantly say, oh, when i'm single.

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Speaker 1: Will date.

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Speaker 7: So that came into a big problem because when she

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Speaker 7: started dating uh, someone who was addicted to substances, and

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Speaker 7: I would kept telling her, hey, this is bad for you.

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Speaker 7: She took it as me being jealous, and YadA, YadA, YadA.

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Speaker 2: Ended do you miss the friendship?

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Speaker 5: Yes, a little heard is she No, she's moved off

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Speaker 5: to Michigan and they haven't seen her in three years.

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Speaker 6: Since then, Yeah, listen, the breakups are always hard when

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Speaker 6: it comes to friendship.

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Speaker 1: Amelia, you almost lost both a significant other and a friend.

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Speaker 1: And by the way, Jed lost a friend. His friend

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Speaker 1: basically told them, Hey, my wife doesn't like you. I

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Speaker 1: can't really talk to you anymore. What do you think?

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Speaker 4: I think it's a difficult topic to talk about with

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Speaker 4: a lot of people because a lot of people probably

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Speaker 4: lose their significant other and they're probably in the same

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Speaker 4: situation that I was. I caught both of them flirting

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Speaker 4: with one another, and she even admitted it and wouldn't stop.

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Speaker 4: So I had to make a choice whether I was

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Speaker 4: going to fix my relationship with my best friend or

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Speaker 4: with my husband. This happened about seven years ago, and

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Speaker 4: we were best friends for fifteen plus years.

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Speaker 1: Hey, I noticed that you said that a lot of

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Speaker 1: people have lost a friend and a lot of people

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Speaker 1: go through exactly what you went through. Do you believe

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Speaker 1: a lot of significant others and their significant other's friends

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Speaker 1: are secretly talking to each other and trying to hook up.

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Speaker 4: It's sad. There's even Yeah, there's support groups for people

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Speaker 4: that have been in my situation, and there's thousands of

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Speaker 4: women and men that have gone through this situation.

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Speaker 6: I've never looked at any of my friends significant other

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Speaker 6: that's attractive.

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Speaker 3: That's insane to me.

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Speaker 1: I I think it's interesting you say that, Amelia, because

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Speaker 1: we have had a lot of that happen with with

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Speaker 1: War of the Roses. We actually have one that has

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Speaker 1: not been released yet. Listen, maybe you'll forget about it,

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Speaker 1: maybe you won't. I'll already tell you. We do catch

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Speaker 1: a cheater and then we find out that it is

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Speaker 1: their friend who was the other woman. So, Amelia, I'm

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Speaker 1: sorry you had to go through that, and you're not

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Speaker 1: alone like you Like you said Ashley, Listen, at the

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Speaker 1: end of the day, I'm super just I'm super excited

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Speaker 1: about this. I think that this is an awesome opportunity

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Speaker 1: for me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, more time on the sticks.

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Speaker 1: Hey, who's who's not given up our friendship us