WEBVTT - Second Date Update: The Gift Card Guy  

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<v Speaker 1>Just a second date update module in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me explain second date update to anybody that has

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<v Speaker 2>never heard it before. This is where and I think

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<v Speaker 2>it seems to be too common. You meet somebody, maybe

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<v Speaker 2>on a dating app, you go out on a date

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<v Speaker 2>or two, and then all of a sudden, they're nowhere

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<v Speaker 2>to be found. This is a chance for you to

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<v Speaker 2>have us contact them and find out what the story

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<v Speaker 2>is it about, maybe you or maybe they just who knows,

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe they had a Samsung phone and they just couldn't

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<v Speaker 2>get a call into You. On the phone with us

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<v Speaker 2>right now? Is Tevon? Is it Tevan? Is that right?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? That's right? Man? How you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm trying to figure that out myself.

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<v Speaker 2>Man, So met a girl, you guys went out, you

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<v Speaker 2>thought the date was great.

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<v Speaker 1>She's not calling you back, and you just want to

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<v Speaker 1>get an answer.

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<v Speaker 3>Pretty much, That's what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>Ari. He's on the phone with us right now. Ari.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, how are you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey? Tevan? Say hello to Ari?

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<v Speaker 3>What's up? Ari? Was going on?

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<v Speaker 4>Hey?

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<v Speaker 1>How you doing?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just I'm good. I'm just trying to figure out

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<v Speaker 3>what's up. What's up with me and you? What's like

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<v Speaker 3>what's what's going on? I haven't you know, hear from

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<v Speaker 3>you anything, like, what what's up?

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<v Speaker 1>Because our date wasn't that great? You are super cheap?

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<v Speaker 2>Wait wait, hold on, she's getting right into it. So

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<v Speaker 2>what did you guys do on your your day?

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<v Speaker 1>Tevan? What did you guys do?

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<v Speaker 3>Man? Look, we you know, first of all, we just

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<v Speaker 3>go to school together, you know, back in the day.

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<v Speaker 3>So okay, we already knew each other, you know what

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<v Speaker 3>I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>But last night, last night, we went out, all of

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<v Speaker 2>us as a group as a show, and Cav met

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<v Speaker 2>up with a girl that he went to school with too,

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<v Speaker 2>which is kind of cool.

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<v Speaker 1>We made up her and oh really I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>that girl from nowhere? We just made it. Oh really? Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys looked like you guys went to school together.

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<v Speaker 1>Just made that we vibing. Uh okay, so at least

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<v Speaker 1>I might have got es. So what did you do? Tavan?

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<v Speaker 3>You know, we went to dinner, We went to the movies. Uh,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, went to you know, get ice cream and everything.

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<v Speaker 3>I went to.

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<v Speaker 2>That doesn't sound cheap, Ari, I want to eat you know, Ari?

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<v Speaker 2>Why did you say he sounds he was cheap? Did

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<v Speaker 2>you have to pay for everything.

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<v Speaker 4>No, but he's failing to mention that he had a

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<v Speaker 4>gift card for everything, even the places I didn't want

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<v Speaker 4>to eat at. I'm lactose intolerant. I don't need cold Stone,

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<v Speaker 4>but he had a gift card for it, so we

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<v Speaker 4>had to eat at cold Sound well.

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<v Speaker 1>What you're saying.

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<v Speaker 2>So he pulled out gift cards to pay and you

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<v Speaker 2>thought that that seemed cheap.

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<v Speaker 4>For every place? Texas Roadhouse m j R. Who who

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<v Speaker 4>even has a gift card at?

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<v Speaker 3>Mj on? I had a gift car, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>So here's the question. Is it a cheap thing to do?

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<v Speaker 2>Or does it look bad if you use gift cards

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<v Speaker 2>and you're going on a first date with somebody? Should

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<v Speaker 2>you use your debit or credit card or pay with cash?

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<v Speaker 2>I've never seen it done. It'll probably be a little.

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<v Speaker 5>Like you know, but I think there is absolutely nothing

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<v Speaker 5>wrong with using a gift card. Wait, I'm not tying, however,

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like I would save your gift cards for

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<v Speaker 5>maybe not the very first date. Do you first impressions?

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<v Speaker 5>And also, if I mean, did you truly use a

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<v Speaker 5>gift card at all three places?

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<v Speaker 3>I did? I had three gift cards.

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<v Speaker 5>I had a gift card, Tava, I love a gift card.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just saying, like, on a first date, and then

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<v Speaker 5>every where you went strategically, like you picked the places

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<v Speaker 5>that you had gift cards were. I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 5>mean I I would still go out with you again,

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<v Speaker 5>but maybe like, just don't don't do that again.

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<v Speaker 1>You're saying it looked bad.

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<v Speaker 5>It does kind of look bad. I think second day,

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<v Speaker 5>second date, green light.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you agree with it looked cheat? He looked cheat.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I don't agree with that.

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<v Speaker 6>Man.

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<v Speaker 5>No, no, no, he was asking you don't kind of again

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<v Speaker 5>and again it's a first impression thing, second date, use

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<v Speaker 5>all the gift cards just that first date. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like it is a little tacky.

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<v Speaker 2>Can I just throw this out there. I don't necessarily

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<v Speaker 2>think that this is a bad thing. I don't think

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<v Speaker 2>that you even should look and see what they're paying with,

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<v Speaker 2>Like if I'm Ari, at least he's paying at that moment,

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<v Speaker 2>and I would kind of look at it, as you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to say, oh, he must have got

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<v Speaker 2>the gift cards from his grandma for like a birthday gift.

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<v Speaker 2>I would think to myself, he bought the gift cards himself,

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<v Speaker 2>and who knows if if it's a you know something.

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<v Speaker 1>He paid for her ahead of time.

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<v Speaker 5>But remember what she said too, She didn't she doesn't

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<v Speaker 5>even like she didn't want to go get ice cream,

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<v Speaker 5>but he had a gift card, so they went down.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, if she's lactose and tell her, I just don't

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<v Speaker 2>take it. Yeah, Whitney, what do you think, Whitney? Is

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<v Speaker 2>it cheap to use a gift card on a date?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 1>I agree with you.

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<v Speaker 7>I think everyone that thinks this the problem is going

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<v Speaker 7>to be single forever. Like, come on, now, he paid,

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<v Speaker 7>He didn't ask her for a dying.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't matter how he paid.

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<v Speaker 7>He could have called it next to his grandma to

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<v Speaker 7>borrow twenty dollars he paid.

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<v Speaker 3>So what is the problem.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, we actually picky for no reason, Whitney.

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<v Speaker 2>We had that as a second date update one time.

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<v Speaker 2>That was a second date update where the guy used

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<v Speaker 2>his mom's credit card.

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<v Speaker 1>But he had to get her on the phone for permission.

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<v Speaker 1>Remember that.

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<v Speaker 2>Now that is cheap or that's embarrassing. The gift cards

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<v Speaker 2>aren't too bad? What's up, liz.

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<v Speaker 8>Hi?

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<v Speaker 9>I said, it doesn't matter if he was a gift card.

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<v Speaker 9>Eight that's still his money. And my uncle all the

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<v Speaker 9>time goes to Kroger because you get deals and extra

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<v Speaker 9>points for buying gift cards replace points.

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<v Speaker 2>And they at Costco you could buy like a big

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<v Speaker 2>stack of gift cards for a deal.

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<v Speaker 1>They got them all.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, and Black Friday you got like buy one, get

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<v Speaker 9>one like you get like double the amount.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you single? If you're single? Okay? See that all

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<v Speaker 1>the good girls? What's up Tino? Hey?

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<v Speaker 9>I just got to say, at least Heid, he took

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<v Speaker 9>her to McDonald's, you know, like he took it to

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<v Speaker 9>good places.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Texas. By the way, I like this guy. He's fun.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, Elizabeth? How you doing?

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<v Speaker 3>Hi?

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<v Speaker 8>How are you guys?

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<v Speaker 9>Good morning?

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<v Speaker 1>We're doing good. Say say hi to uh to Tevan

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<v Speaker 1>and Ari?

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<v Speaker 8>Hey guys, how are you say?

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<v Speaker 3>What's going on?

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<v Speaker 4>Listen?

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<v Speaker 8>I don't think you should really care if he use

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<v Speaker 8>gift cards, because honestly, times are tough. Why does it

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<v Speaker 8>matter he still took you to all those places. I mean,

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<v Speaker 8>it is what it is. But I wouldn't judge somebody

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<v Speaker 8>for use in a gift card. It's who cares? I

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<v Speaker 8>think a good time matters.

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<v Speaker 1>I think.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, it's one of those things where I would make

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<v Speaker 2>a joke about it, like Tavan and I'd be like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>I got a bunch of gift cards. You cool with

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<v Speaker 2>the fact, And I think if you made a joke

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<v Speaker 2>about it, I think that then it becomes kind of

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<v Speaker 2>part of the fun, and then it becomes a Hey,

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<v Speaker 2>let me see where I got gift cards from? Right,

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<v Speaker 2>because I got like, I look in my wallet and

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<v Speaker 2>I got like the Target five dollars ones that they

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<v Speaker 2>give you like when you're checking out. I've got a

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<v Speaker 2>couple of gift cards that I've gotten for like birthday

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<v Speaker 2>gifts to like, you know, Carl's golf Land and.

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<v Speaker 1>Things like that. I'd put him in a bag and

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<v Speaker 1>wh every one she pull out. That's where we going, buddy,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a date. I like it. What's up, Dennis, Hey.

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<v Speaker 3>What's up?

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<v Speaker 1>I want to think he was cheap?

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<v Speaker 3>I would think he was.

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<v Speaker 2>Is Wait what frugal sounds worse? I don't know, Dennis,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if frugal is a good word to use.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll do this.

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<v Speaker 6>Uh.

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<v Speaker 2>Candace Candas says that you can tell if he's cheap

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<v Speaker 2>on one thing, and what's that Candace and how.

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<v Speaker 9>Much he left for a tip?

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<v Speaker 8>Did he did he use the remainder of the gift

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<v Speaker 8>card balance as a tip amount or did he leave cash?

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<v Speaker 9>Because if the dinner is free, he should be throwing down.

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<v Speaker 1>On twenty Well, Tave, what did you do? Tevan?

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<v Speaker 3>I love cars?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so you pay ca okay.

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<v Speaker 10>I don't even think it's a question of if he's cheap,

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<v Speaker 10>if he's not telling me you can only order this

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<v Speaker 10>much like, stay on this side of the menu, as

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<v Speaker 10>long as everything's covered and we're good and I got

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<v Speaker 10>what I want, I'm good.

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<v Speaker 2>I've gone out uh Anna with my gift cards and

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<v Speaker 2>I literally will say we got to order more because

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<v Speaker 2>I want to use the whole gift card.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even want money back on this saying I.

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<v Speaker 2>Want to go out with you, so I'm like extracides,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm extra appetizers, extra desserts. Listeners are saying that we

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<v Speaker 2>should have Tavon be misfit gift card.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that, Chico, last call, what's up?

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<v Speaker 3>What's going on? Game doing?

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<v Speaker 1>We're doing good? What do you think? Do you think

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<v Speaker 1>that Tavon is cheap?

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<v Speaker 3>Not at all, man, not at all.

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<v Speaker 6>Definitely gift cards is the same as cash at all

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<v Speaker 6>those places you use it. But a little tip of advice,

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<v Speaker 6>just be a little more slick player, Michelle.

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<v Speaker 3>How you do it?

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<v Speaker 6>Just throw it in the little five fo with the

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<v Speaker 6>card and credit card.

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<v Speaker 1>She don't even You sound like you've done this before,

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<v Speaker 1>have you?

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely?

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<v Speaker 1>I've married my wife the first time. Are you really

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<v Speaker 1>the first time you went on a date with your wife?

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<v Speaker 1>You use cards?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I had a gift card. I think it was

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<v Speaker 6>a birthday gift or whatever, but I had a gift card,

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<v Speaker 6>used it. She never knew it. Told her a few

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<v Speaker 6>years later. She was flabbergasted. But she ain't have to know.

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<v Speaker 1>Where did you guys go? Cheesecake factory? Uhhh, big Svender?

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<v Speaker 1>I like that.

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<v Speaker 2>That menu is the most exhausting menu I have ever seen.

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<v Speaker 2>I get anxiety when I go to the cheesecake factory.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, no date, no second date. It sounds like

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<v Speaker 2>it's the Mojo in the Morning second date updates.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the home of the thirty on the thirty

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