Speaker 1: Just a second date update module in the morning.
Speaker 2: Let me explain second date update to anybody that has
Speaker 2: never heard it before. This is where and I think
Speaker 2: it seems to be too common. You meet somebody, maybe
Speaker 2: on a dating app, you go out on a date
Speaker 2: or two, and then all of a sudden, they're nowhere
Speaker 2: to be found. This is a chance for you to
Speaker 2: have us contact them and find out what the story
Speaker 2: is it about, maybe you or maybe they just who knows,
Speaker 2: Maybe they had a Samsung phone and they just couldn't
Speaker 2: get a call into You. On the phone with us
Speaker 2: right now? Is Tevon? Is it Tevan? Is that right?
Speaker 3: Yeah? That's right? Man? How you doing?
Speaker 1: What's going on?
Speaker 3: I'm trying to figure that out myself.
Speaker 2: Man, So met a girl, you guys went out, you
Speaker 2: thought the date was great.
Speaker 1: She's not calling you back, and you just want to
Speaker 1: get an answer.
Speaker 3: Pretty much, That's what happened.
Speaker 1: Ari. He's on the phone with us right now. Ari.
Speaker 2: Hi, how are you doing?
Speaker 1: Hey? Tevan? Say hello to Ari?
Speaker 3: What's up? Ari? Was going on?
Speaker 4: Hey?
Speaker 1: How you doing?
Speaker 3: I'm just I'm good. I'm just trying to figure out
Speaker 3: what's up. What's up with me and you? What's like
Speaker 3: what's what's going on? I haven't you know, hear from
Speaker 3: you anything, like, what what's up?
Speaker 1: Because our date wasn't that great? You are super cheap?
Speaker 2: Wait wait, hold on, she's getting right into it. So
Speaker 2: what did you guys do on your your day?
Speaker 1: Tevan? What did you guys do?
Speaker 3: Man? Look, we you know, first of all, we just
Speaker 3: go to school together, you know, back in the day.
Speaker 3: So okay, we already knew each other, you know what
Speaker 3: I'm saying.
Speaker 2: But last night, last night, we went out, all of
Speaker 2: us as a group as a show, and Cav met
Speaker 2: up with a girl that he went to school with too,
Speaker 2: which is kind of cool.
Speaker 1: We made up her and oh really I don't know
Speaker 1: that girl from nowhere? We just made it. Oh really? Oh,
Speaker 1: you guys looked like you guys went to school together.
Speaker 1: Just made that we vibing. Uh okay, so at least
Speaker 1: I might have got es. So what did you do? Tavan?
Speaker 3: You know, we went to dinner, We went to the movies. Uh,
Speaker 3: you know, went to you know, get ice cream and everything.
Speaker 3: I went to.
Speaker 2: That doesn't sound cheap, Ari, I want to eat you know, Ari?
Speaker 2: Why did you say he sounds he was cheap? Did
Speaker 2: you have to pay for everything.
Speaker 4: No, but he's failing to mention that he had a
Speaker 4: gift card for everything, even the places I didn't want
Speaker 4: to eat at. I'm lactose intolerant. I don't need cold Stone,
Speaker 4: but he had a gift card for it, so we
Speaker 4: had to eat at cold Sound well.
Speaker 1: What you're saying.
Speaker 2: So he pulled out gift cards to pay and you
Speaker 2: thought that that seemed cheap.
Speaker 4: For every place? Texas Roadhouse m j R. Who who
Speaker 4: even has a gift card at?
Speaker 3: Mj on? I had a gift car, all right.
Speaker 1: So here's the question. Is it a cheap thing to do?
Speaker 2: Or does it look bad if you use gift cards
Speaker 2: and you're going on a first date with somebody? Should
Speaker 2: you use your debit or credit card or pay with cash?
Speaker 2: I've never seen it done. It'll probably be a little.
Speaker 5: Like you know, but I think there is absolutely nothing
Speaker 5: wrong with using a gift card. Wait, I'm not tying, however,
Speaker 5: I feel like I would save your gift cards for
Speaker 5: maybe not the very first date. Do you first impressions?
Speaker 5: And also, if I mean, did you truly use a
Speaker 5: gift card at all three places?
Speaker 3: I did? I had three gift cards.
Speaker 5: I had a gift card, Tava, I love a gift card.
Speaker 5: I'm just saying, like, on a first date, and then
Speaker 5: every where you went strategically, like you picked the places
Speaker 5: that you had gift cards were. I don't know. I
Speaker 5: mean I I would still go out with you again,
Speaker 5: but maybe like, just don't don't do that again.
Speaker 1: You're saying it looked bad.
Speaker 5: It does kind of look bad. I think second day,
Speaker 5: second date, green light.
Speaker 1: Do you agree with it looked cheat? He looked cheat.
Speaker 3: No, I don't agree with that.
Speaker 6: Man.
Speaker 5: No, no, no, he was asking you don't kind of again
Speaker 5: and again it's a first impression thing, second date, use
Speaker 5: all the gift cards just that first date. I don't know,
Speaker 5: I feel like it is a little tacky.
Speaker 2: Can I just throw this out there. I don't necessarily
Speaker 2: think that this is a bad thing. I don't think
Speaker 2: that you even should look and see what they're paying with,
Speaker 2: Like if I'm Ari, at least he's paying at that moment,
Speaker 2: and I would kind of look at it, as you know,
Speaker 2: I'm not going to say, oh, he must have got
Speaker 2: the gift cards from his grandma for like a birthday gift.
Speaker 2: I would think to myself, he bought the gift cards himself,
Speaker 2: and who knows if if it's a you know something.
Speaker 1: He paid for her ahead of time.
Speaker 5: But remember what she said too, She didn't she doesn't
Speaker 5: even like she didn't want to go get ice cream,
Speaker 5: but he had a gift card, so they went down.
Speaker 2: Well, if she's lactose and tell her, I just don't
Speaker 2: take it. Yeah, Whitney, what do you think, Whitney? Is
Speaker 2: it cheap to use a gift card on a date?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 1: I agree with you.
Speaker 7: I think everyone that thinks this the problem is going
Speaker 7: to be single forever. Like, come on, now, he paid,
Speaker 7: He didn't ask her for a dying.
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter how he paid.
Speaker 7: He could have called it next to his grandma to
Speaker 7: borrow twenty dollars he paid.
Speaker 3: So what is the problem.
Speaker 1: I'm like, we actually picky for no reason, Whitney.
Speaker 2: We had that as a second date update one time.
Speaker 2: That was a second date update where the guy used
Speaker 2: his mom's credit card.
Speaker 1: But he had to get her on the phone for permission.
Speaker 1: Remember that.
Speaker 2: Now that is cheap or that's embarrassing. The gift cards
Speaker 2: aren't too bad? What's up, liz.
Speaker 8: Hi?
Speaker 9: I said, it doesn't matter if he was a gift card.
Speaker 9: Eight that's still his money. And my uncle all the
Speaker 9: time goes to Kroger because you get deals and extra
Speaker 9: points for buying gift cards replace points.
Speaker 2: And they at Costco you could buy like a big
Speaker 2: stack of gift cards for a deal.
Speaker 1: They got them all.
Speaker 9: Yeah, and Black Friday you got like buy one, get
Speaker 9: one like you get like double the amount.
Speaker 1: Are you single? If you're single? Okay? See that all
Speaker 1: the good girls? What's up Tino? Hey?
Speaker 9: I just got to say, at least Heid, he took
Speaker 9: her to McDonald's, you know, like he took it to
Speaker 9: good places.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Texas. By the way, I like this guy. He's fun.
Speaker 1: What's up, Elizabeth? How you doing?
Speaker 3: Hi?
Speaker 8: How are you guys?
Speaker 9: Good morning?
Speaker 1: We're doing good. Say say hi to uh to Tevan
Speaker 1: and Ari?
Speaker 8: Hey guys, how are you say?
Speaker 3: What's going on?
Speaker 4: Listen?
Speaker 8: I don't think you should really care if he use
Speaker 8: gift cards, because honestly, times are tough. Why does it
Speaker 8: matter he still took you to all those places. I mean,
Speaker 8: it is what it is. But I wouldn't judge somebody
Speaker 8: for use in a gift card. It's who cares? I
Speaker 8: think a good time matters.
Speaker 1: I think.
Speaker 2: Actually, it's one of those things where I would make
Speaker 2: a joke about it, like Tavan and I'd be like, hey,
Speaker 2: I got a bunch of gift cards. You cool with
Speaker 2: the fact, And I think if you made a joke
Speaker 2: about it, I think that then it becomes kind of
Speaker 2: part of the fun, and then it becomes a Hey,
Speaker 2: let me see where I got gift cards from? Right,
Speaker 2: because I got like, I look in my wallet and
Speaker 2: I got like the Target five dollars ones that they
Speaker 2: give you like when you're checking out. I've got a
Speaker 2: couple of gift cards that I've gotten for like birthday
Speaker 2: gifts to like, you know, Carl's golf Land and.
Speaker 1: Things like that. I'd put him in a bag and
Speaker 1: wh every one she pull out. That's where we going, buddy,
Speaker 1: that's a date. I like it. What's up, Dennis, Hey.
Speaker 3: What's up?
Speaker 1: I want to think he was cheap?
Speaker 3: I would think he was.
Speaker 2: Is Wait what frugal sounds worse? I don't know, Dennis,
Speaker 2: I don't know if frugal is a good word to use.
Speaker 3: I'll do this.
Speaker 6: Uh.
Speaker 2: Candace Candas says that you can tell if he's cheap
Speaker 2: on one thing, and what's that Candace and how.
Speaker 9: Much he left for a tip?
Speaker 8: Did he did he use the remainder of the gift
Speaker 8: card balance as a tip amount or did he leave cash?
Speaker 9: Because if the dinner is free, he should be throwing down.
Speaker 1: On twenty Well, Tave, what did you do? Tevan?
Speaker 3: I love cars?
Speaker 1: Okay, so you pay ca okay.
Speaker 10: I don't even think it's a question of if he's cheap,
Speaker 10: if he's not telling me you can only order this
Speaker 10: much like, stay on this side of the menu, as
Speaker 10: long as everything's covered and we're good and I got
Speaker 10: what I want, I'm good.
Speaker 2: I've gone out uh Anna with my gift cards and
Speaker 2: I literally will say we got to order more because
Speaker 2: I want to use the whole gift card.
Speaker 1: I don't even want money back on this saying I.
Speaker 2: Want to go out with you, so I'm like extracides,
Speaker 2: I'm extra appetizers, extra desserts. Listeners are saying that we
Speaker 2: should have Tavon be misfit gift card.
Speaker 1: I like that, Chico, last call, what's up?
Speaker 3: What's going on? Game doing?
Speaker 1: We're doing good? What do you think? Do you think
Speaker 1: that Tavon is cheap?
Speaker 3: Not at all, man, not at all.
Speaker 6: Definitely gift cards is the same as cash at all
Speaker 6: those places you use it. But a little tip of advice,
Speaker 6: just be a little more slick player, Michelle.
Speaker 3: How you do it?
Speaker 6: Just throw it in the little five fo with the
Speaker 6: card and credit card.
Speaker 1: She don't even You sound like you've done this before,
Speaker 1: have you?
Speaker 3: Absolutely?
Speaker 1: I've married my wife the first time. Are you really
Speaker 1: the first time you went on a date with your wife?
Speaker 1: You use cards?
Speaker 6: Yeah, I had a gift card. I think it was
Speaker 6: a birthday gift or whatever, but I had a gift card,
Speaker 6: used it. She never knew it. Told her a few
Speaker 6: years later. She was flabbergasted. But she ain't have to know.
Speaker 1: Where did you guys go? Cheesecake factory? Uhhh, big Svender?
Speaker 1: I like that.
Speaker 2: That menu is the most exhausting menu I have ever seen.
Speaker 2: I get anxiety when I go to the cheesecake factory.
Speaker 2: All right, no date, no second date. It sounds like
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