WEBVTT - Anna is Zip Code Hopping  

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<v Speaker 1>All right, it's Mojo in the Morning show. I was

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<v Speaker 1>talking about what was it? Zip coding? Is that what

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<v Speaker 1>it's called? It's yeah. Zip coding is when you're dating

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<v Speaker 1>within your same zip code. That's like a more popular

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<v Speaker 1>trend right now where people are doing it on dating

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<v Speaker 1>apps because they just don't want to have to travel.

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<v Speaker 1>One person that does not zip code is Anna Rob

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<v Speaker 1>the member of the Mojo on the Morning Show that

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<v Speaker 1>just recently joined.

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<v Speaker 2>And she.

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<v Speaker 1>Was going to Pittsburgh to go see a guy and

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<v Speaker 1>she's not now.

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<v Speaker 3>Canceled the flight. Oh you, I canceled the flight.

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<v Speaker 4>And I think I'm going to remove him as a

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<v Speaker 4>follower and I'm about to unfollow him because it's deep.

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<v Speaker 3>It's that deep. I don't want to waste my time.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, why is he kind of like giving you crap

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<v Speaker 1>right now? Or what's he doing?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 4>Ever since the I mean yes, he has been giving

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<v Speaker 4>me crap ever since I said something to him about

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<v Speaker 4>how I felt like his mood changed after I booked

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<v Speaker 4>the flight. I was like, I just don't like it,

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<v Speaker 4>Like I feel like now he's punishing me for saying that.

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<v Speaker 6>Are you guys still talking at all? Are you like

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<v Speaker 6>totally ghosted here.

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<v Speaker 4>No, like we like little talking, but it's not the same,

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<v Speaker 4>and it's even worse now than before. And you would

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<v Speaker 4>think after I brought that up and been like, no,

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<v Speaker 4>your your moods changed, like I don't like this, he

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<v Speaker 4>would have changed, But no, he's gotten worse.

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<v Speaker 1>He was kinder before you book the flight than when

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<v Speaker 1>you booked the flight. He all of a sudden became

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<v Speaker 1>So it happens a little cocky, probably, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>And I was like, no, I'm not wasting my time

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<v Speaker 3>coming there.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, let's talk. Let's talk about you and your extensive

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<v Speaker 1>dating outside of the three one, three, two, four eight seven,

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<v Speaker 1>three four, six, one six, all of our six seven,

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<v Speaker 1>any of our zip codes, within our listening areas, Like

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<v Speaker 1>you don't even it's not even so much that you

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<v Speaker 1>live in downtown Detroit and you will date somebody that's

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<v Speaker 1>an hour or two away, Like you got to go

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<v Speaker 1>on an airplane whenever you're going.

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<v Speaker 4>Why is that we talked recently about this one Literally,

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<v Speaker 4>I've talked to one guy in Detroit and everyone's like,

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<v Speaker 4>you can't be a homie hopper. I feel like when

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<v Speaker 4>you date in Detroit, everyone knows everyone somehow or at

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<v Speaker 4>least in my circle of friends, Like we're all somehow

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<v Speaker 4>tied to each other. So if I'm dating someone in Detroit,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna be a homie hopper. And I don't want

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<v Speaker 4>to be a homie hopper. So I've just I've I've

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<v Speaker 4>been finding guys have been finding me outside of Detroit.

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<v Speaker 4>So before Pittsburgh Man, there was New York Man and

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<v Speaker 4>he was like, actually kind of serious, also an athlete,

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<v Speaker 4>not an athlete, a business owner. Okay, yeah, So I

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<v Speaker 4>was going to New York last summer probably every other

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<v Speaker 4>weekend to see him, and it was like the best

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<v Speaker 4>experience of my life. I would I would pay for

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<v Speaker 4>the flights at first, but then he did, so it

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<v Speaker 4>was like a free trip every time I went there,

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<v Speaker 4>and I just I prefer it.

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<v Speaker 1>I think, I think that you're doing this is probably

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of work, isn't it. I mean you, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I used to.

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<v Speaker 4>Be self employed, so I didn't have a lot to do.

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<v Speaker 4>Nothing really at me and Detroit. Now I have to

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<v Speaker 4>be here Monday through Friday, so it's a little more difficult.

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<v Speaker 3>But I liked it.

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<v Speaker 4>I felt like we were really focused on each other

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<v Speaker 4>when I was visiting him in New York and we

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<v Speaker 4>had like the best time, and then I could come

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<v Speaker 4>back to Detroit and be really focused on my job,

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<v Speaker 4>which was fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Boy. It makes for your weekends definitely not RESTful because

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<v Speaker 1>you're getting on planes and getting off planes. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to know dating long distance to dating local and pros

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<v Speaker 1>and cons and thoughts on this one. Here at eight

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<v Speaker 1>four to four Mojo Live eight four four sixty six

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<v Speaker 1>five sixty five four eight is our telephone number. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess it does enable you to actually I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>up your sky miles, you know what I mean? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Have you check your your horoscope?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>And it hasn't been about my dating life.

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<v Speaker 1>No, so you shouldn't be about your dating life. Really.

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<v Speaker 3>I know. Well I'm not. I'm not right now. I

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<v Speaker 3>just canceled the flight with my one date.

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<v Speaker 1>You follow a horse go that much? Uh, that's amazing,

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<v Speaker 1>that's to me. I I you know, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I do think that this is interesting that you canceled

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<v Speaker 1>this flight with this guy because he changed. And I

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<v Speaker 1>often wonder sometimes like if that happens in relationships with

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<v Speaker 1>people locally too, Like if you make a plan for

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<v Speaker 1>a date and then once you make the plan for

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<v Speaker 1>a date, They all of a sudden don't need to

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<v Speaker 1>chase anymore because they know that there's something on the

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<v Speaker 1>calendars that's exactly what it is. You think there's a

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<v Speaker 1>thrill of the hunt.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, there is, man, I'm there's a I can't really

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<v Speaker 7>explain it, but there's a feeling that's associated with getting

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<v Speaker 7>you at least to say yes.

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<v Speaker 1>And then once that feeling is gone.

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<v Speaker 6>You got that dopamine hit.

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<v Speaker 7>I've got that hit. And I was just like, okay,

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<v Speaker 7>well you'll be here on the sixteen. If I can't

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<v Speaker 7>just see when you get here.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 6>Question for you, what did he say when you told

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<v Speaker 6>him that you aren't coming anymore?

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<v Speaker 3>You're just not going to show up. I haven't talked

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<v Speaker 3>him since I canceled it, and he.

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<v Speaker 1>Has reached out to you.

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<v Speaker 6>No, Oh, you made the right decision.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>The last time I talked to him was like maybe

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<v Speaker 4>two days ago, and I canceled a flight like one

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<v Speaker 4>day ago. But he was like, nope, he's still not

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<v Speaker 4>acting right.

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<v Speaker 1>When you were talking to him, was he assuming that

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<v Speaker 1>you're still coming this weekend?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>He was.

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<v Speaker 4>He likes he said something like I need to figure

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<v Speaker 4>out if my family's coming, because I'm not trying to

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<v Speaker 4>meet his family, So I think that's assuming that I'm

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<v Speaker 4>going to be there.

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<v Speaker 6>It's or also I need to figure out if my

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<v Speaker 6>family is coming, because I might not have time for

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<v Speaker 6>you to me. That's another excuse that he had in

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<v Speaker 6>his back pocket.

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<v Speaker 7>Even have family, is somebody else coming?

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<v Speaker 3>This is not the man for me. This is not

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<v Speaker 3>the man.

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<v Speaker 1>And again for those that don't know, he's a pro athlete,

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<v Speaker 1>so he's a pro football player that she was going

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<v Speaker 1>to see. What's going on? Phil? Hi, Hey, good morning, Mojoe,

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<v Speaker 1>good morning, morning, morning morning. I just got to call

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<v Speaker 1>you out. You seld the ZIP coding and he named

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<v Speaker 1>all the area code. That's funny.

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<v Speaker 6>We all just like.

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<v Speaker 1>You're right, Yeah, zip coding is dating within your same

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<v Speaker 1>zip code, So I guess what four eight something whatever? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but no, but that no, that's uh that Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for the correction, Phil, I appreciate it. What's up, Sarah?

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<v Speaker 4>Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, Sarah, Hello Sarah Sarah. What's better dating? Dating local

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<v Speaker 1>or dating long distance?

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<v Speaker 8>I would say that like dating.

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<v Speaker 9>Oh gosh, I don't know. I'm new to the dating

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<v Speaker 9>field again after a thirteen and a half year relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, were you married in that relationship or just long

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<v Speaker 1>term dating?

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<v Speaker 9>I was married for four and a half out of

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<v Speaker 9>it before, so infidelity for you separated us.

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<v Speaker 3>But that's a story for a different day.

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<v Speaker 9>No, So now I have a boyfriend. He's an hour away,

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<v Speaker 9>and I will say I love it because when we

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<v Speaker 9>are together, it is like just us together. But like

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<v Speaker 9>on days that you're having a rough day, you can't

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<v Speaker 9>just like run over and get a hug, you know,

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<v Speaker 9>it's that's a drive, Like you can't just drive an

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<v Speaker 9>hour for a little kiss or a hug to to

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<v Speaker 9>make you feel better. You gotta get on the phone,

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<v Speaker 9>and then it's still not the same. But like, also

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<v Speaker 9>that space is nice after being with somebody for such

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<v Speaker 9>a long time and constantly being with them. So I

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<v Speaker 9>don't know, there's pros and tons.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. What's interesting is that you're right. It does

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<v Speaker 1>make for tough to get the hug, but it makes

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<v Speaker 1>things more intentional when you know that you're an hour away,

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna have to make a commitment to going. But

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<v Speaker 1>it's even bigger for Anna who goes to New York

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<v Speaker 1>or Pittsburgh. You know, she's I think that is insane.

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<v Speaker 9>How can you and like also meeting them for the

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<v Speaker 9>first time, like, girl, I hope you have your life

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<v Speaker 9>Thtory sixty on for everybody around.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's another topic for another the heart.

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<v Speaker 1>The hardest part of what she was saying and the

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<v Speaker 1>reason why she does it is then she doesn't have

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<v Speaker 1>There's no person that can say, hey, I dated that

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<v Speaker 1>same per so out of the area. What's up, James?

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<v Speaker 1>How you doing?

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<v Speaker 2>James?

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<v Speaker 5>The bartender on the phone man robs to come to

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<v Speaker 5>the l She needs to come to Lavoni your date

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<v Speaker 5>some local.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what?

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<v Speaker 1>That's interesting. Everybody always talks about, you know, uh, support local.

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<v Speaker 1>She needs to support local guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Huh, that's right.

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<v Speaker 5>Can I say one more thing.

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<v Speaker 1>To yes, Yeah, as long as it's not something like statistic,

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<v Speaker 1>just go ahead.

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<v Speaker 5>If you were the blonde girl that came to the

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<v Speaker 5>bar on Saturday and the orange shirt and the blue jeans,

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<v Speaker 5>I gave you that patron shot, you need to come

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<v Speaker 5>back on working Friday.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we've now just started doing misconnections with this poor guy, Tracy,

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<v Speaker 1>what's up? Good morning morning.

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<v Speaker 8>I was just gonna comment a couple of things. One is,

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<v Speaker 8>you know when you're when you have kids, especially, I

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<v Speaker 8>have two kids in high school, and so dating someone

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<v Speaker 8>that's not local is very difficult to go around sports

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<v Speaker 8>schedules because even when I don't.

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<v Speaker 9>Have them, they have games, yes, And so if you

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<v Speaker 9>date someone that doesn't live anywhere near you, then that

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<v Speaker 9>kind of takes away an entire weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, and that actually is an interesting one for a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of the listeners of ours that are single parents,

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<v Speaker 1>because when you're talking about dating local, you're right. Even

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<v Speaker 1>just dating somebody in a town over is not really

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<v Speaker 1>dating local, right when your kids are involved in so much.

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<v Speaker 8>Exactly, And so if they're closer, you can maybe see

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<v Speaker 8>them after the kids' games, or there's still time to

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<v Speaker 8>you know, maybe grab lunch, and you know, you can

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<v Speaker 8>do little things here and there and still be available

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<v Speaker 8>for your kids.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Well, in Shannon, your case, you ended up marrying

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<v Speaker 1>and you guys had a distance when you guys were

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<v Speaker 1>dating each other, right, it.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, it was a drivable difference, but it's still definitely

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<v Speaker 6>you know, was at times if it was rush hour,

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<v Speaker 6>it was a good fifty minutes to an hour difference there.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, Yeah, Ali, what's up?

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<v Speaker 8>Hye?

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<v Speaker 1>How you doing?

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<v Speaker 9>My boyfriend and I are four hours apart, and we

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<v Speaker 9>have five children, two of us.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow.

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<v Speaker 7>Wow, did you guys meet when you were four hours aparty?

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<v Speaker 7>Did somebody move away?

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<v Speaker 8>We didn't meet on Facebook dating.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually that's wild, So okay, so talk to us about locations.

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<v Speaker 1>Where are you? Where is he?

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<v Speaker 8>I'm in Holly and he's in Malbourne, Ohio.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, exactly four hours away.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. And for those people that don't know, like the Holly,

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<v Speaker 1>Ohio thing, that's a bit that's a that's four hours,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you said, I mean, that's that's a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of a distance. It's not like you're, you know, in Monroe

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<v Speaker 1>or something like that and can get across the border

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<v Speaker 1>in less than thirty No, our.

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<v Speaker 8>First date was two and a half hours. We met

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<v Speaker 8>in the middle.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the one I'm wondering. Do you guys meet in

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<v Speaker 1>the middle a lot of times?

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<v Speaker 7>No, that was the only time we met in the middle.

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<v Speaker 8>Other than that, we just go to each other. He

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<v Speaker 8>actually got a job here now.

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<v Speaker 1>So he's coming here more. But it's funny live there.

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<v Speaker 1>What you end up learning is you end up learning

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<v Speaker 1>truck stops, you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 6>Which ones have the good bathrooms, which ones have the

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<v Speaker 6>good food inside where.

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<v Speaker 3>The cracker barrels are.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, exit, that's got a Starbucks. That's interesting. I you

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<v Speaker 1>know what. And also it's tough to do that when

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<v Speaker 1>you're leasing a car. So if you got it, you

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<v Speaker 1>only got twelve thousand miles a year. I got a

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<v Speaker 1>guy for that. What's going on? John? How you going?

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<v Speaker 9>Hey?

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<v Speaker 1>What's are you? First off?

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<v Speaker 2>I want to I just want to say, do not

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<v Speaker 2>support local dudes?

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<v Speaker 1>What? How dare you are? Local guys? Bad guys? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't say you that.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just saying, don't support local dudes. Just support yourself

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<v Speaker 2>let them support you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's a good point.

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<v Speaker 2>Also, if a mark unders giving you free drinks to

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<v Speaker 2>catch a number, run, I like it.

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<v Speaker 1>This is his commentary, James, what do you date? Where

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<v Speaker 1>do you?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm listening? I'm married. I'm married and I've been with

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<v Speaker 2>my wife for seventeen years. We got married seven years ago.

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<v Speaker 2>But I just I got to be honest with you.

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<v Speaker 2>I've had one long distance relationship. I was much younger

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<v Speaker 2>when that occurred, and it is like one. It is

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<v Speaker 2>extremely difficult. And we were together before the distance occurred,

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<v Speaker 2>so you know, the distance was actually became an issue

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<v Speaker 2>and end of the relationship. Really, But I've been around people,

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<v Speaker 2>have friends, coworkers that have these long distance relationships, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just trying to tell you, ninety nine percent of

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<v Speaker 2>the time, it's not a quality relationship. A lot of

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<v Speaker 2>people want that distance because they can't handle a real relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>A real relationship requires commitment in daily interaction. If you

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<v Speaker 2>don't have daily interaction with somebody, you are not making

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<v Speaker 2>a real lifelong connection.

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<v Speaker 1>Wells. Although I got to tell you, there's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people that seem to find themselves dating on FaceTime

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<v Speaker 1>or or whatever, Like they see each other every day,

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<v Speaker 1>so they're but they're not in person with each other.

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<v Speaker 4>I think you just have to get more creative with it,

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<v Speaker 4>like I've had when I was dating the New York guy,

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<v Speaker 4>Like he's sending me flowers every week, or he's buying

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<v Speaker 4>me door dash like here's like things like that make

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<v Speaker 4>me feel connected to him even when I'm not with him.

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<v Speaker 4>Plus we text all day or we're on the phone

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<v Speaker 4>all day.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you ever look at it though, like the relationship

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<v Speaker 1>has to get to a level where we one of

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<v Speaker 1>us make the decision.

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<v Speaker 4>That you're sure And I would say That's why I'm

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<v Speaker 4>more hesitant now to date outside of Detroit, because I

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<v Speaker 4>know I'm in Detroit, especially like now that I'm here

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<v Speaker 4>with all.

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<v Speaker 6>Of that just has to be you have to say

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<v Speaker 6>that right off the bat. I'm not moving so right.

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<v Speaker 1>I do think that there's something to what he said, though,

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<v Speaker 1>when you sit there and say I don't want them

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<v Speaker 1>in my face all the time, you know, and and

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<v Speaker 1>I like the idea that we're a little bit distance apart.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're saying that, is it really the right person

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<v Speaker 1>for you? You know what I mean? Because what happens when

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<v Speaker 1>they are in your face all the time? Then is

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<v Speaker 1>it going to be tough for you to deal with

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<v Speaker 1>all of that? So, by the way, the iHeartRadio app

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<v Speaker 1>world wanting to meet Anna rob This is can imagine

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<v Speaker 1>look at it. I'm looking at a text right now,

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<v Speaker 1>texting at ninety five five zero zero. I'm in New

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<v Speaker 1>York listening to you guys all the time. I'd love

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<v Speaker 1>if Hannah would like to come visit me another one here.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in West Palm Beach, Florida. If Anna would like

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<v Speaker 1>to get out of the cold and into the sun

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<v Speaker 1>kind of down there.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, send the IG profile