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Speaker 1: It's Marcus in the morning. We're back with second date update.

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Speaker 1: Let's bring Derek on the phone.

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Speaker 2: Derek, good morning, Good morning. So we want to talk

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Speaker 2: about this date.

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Speaker 1: Obviously, tell me about Elena. I understand that she has

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Speaker 1: ghosted and we're going to try to figure it out

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Speaker 1: by calling her. But I want to hear about, like

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Speaker 1: how the date went. Tell me everything.

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Speaker 3: The date was absolutely electric, one of the best I've

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Speaker 3: had in a long time.

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Speaker 2: Okay, what made it great?

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Speaker 3: I mean, so I went to this late night pottery studio, Okay,

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Speaker 3: and they do like these clay and cocktail sessions, so

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Speaker 3: I mean, it already set you up for success there

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Speaker 3: just everyone's just trying to vaguely, you know, make something

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Speaker 3: that resembles a bowl wall in a little tipsy. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: the wine was actually really good, nice, but it was

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Speaker 3: just like you know, again, MESSI itspends on and you know,

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Speaker 3: it's impossible to like take yourself too seriously in that atmosphere.

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Speaker 3: So I was, you know, when you're like, when you

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Speaker 3: want to meet somebody, you want to be in your.

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Speaker 2: Like best self. I was in my best self.

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Speaker 3: I wasn't like stressed or like trying to impress anybody.

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Speaker 3: I was just there to have fun.

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Speaker 2: Well yeah, bans Wine just kidding. This was before.

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Speaker 3: The confidence punster by one, sure, but uh yeah there was.

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Speaker 3: And then it's beautiful. Man. She shows up paint splattered

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Speaker 3: jeans like she's done some million times, you know, like

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Speaker 3: very comfortable, and within ten minutes, you know, of beating her,

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Speaker 3: she's there like helping me center my clay, goutting my hands,

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Speaker 3: like laughing every time I what some would try to

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Speaker 3: call a bowl and collapses into this like sad pancake.

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Speaker 2: It's do it, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 3: Right, I have no green thumbs.

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Speaker 2: I'm just here clay.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, so anyway, like because of her wherewithal the knowledge,

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Speaker 3: like we got close and broke the ice and she

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Speaker 3: was like helping me out, and I mean it's easy

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Speaker 3: to get physical with a stranger in a not weird way.

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Speaker 3: Like it was like kind of like ghosts. But I

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Speaker 3: was the insides moon and I was totally.

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Speaker 2: Ac she was your Patrick Swayze. I love this.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she was well reversal, okay, but it was so

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Speaker 3: engaging and like fun and we were locked in with

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Speaker 3: each other and so I wanted to, you know, follow

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Speaker 3: up with her and and like nothing.

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Speaker 2: Derek, how many? How many times have you replayed the

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Speaker 2: scenario in your head? Derek? Has it just been nuts?

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Speaker 3: I haven't stopped thinking about it. I ever think she

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Speaker 3: goes to me, I'm like, what did.

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Speaker 2: I do wrong?

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Speaker 4: What was it?

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Speaker 2: What I wore?

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Speaker 3: I didn't know what I was doing?

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, let's call her. Okay, we're gonna call her. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna try to figure this all out. I'll see

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Speaker 1: how the date went from her perspective. I would love

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Speaker 1: to get you a second date. Go ahead and mute

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Speaker 1: your phone. Let's do this.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Hello, Hi, is this Selena? Yes, it is Hi.

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Speaker 1: It's Marcus calling from Star one on one three. Good morning, Hi.

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Speaker 2: How are you? Hey? Hey, I'm good. Do you listen

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Speaker 2: to the show?

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Speaker 4: I do? As a matter of fact, YEA love this.

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Speaker 2: Do you know about second date update?

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, it's.

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Speaker 1: Your time girl. Let's do this. So have you ghosted

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Speaker 1: on a date recently?

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Speaker 2: In fact? I have?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Okay, just bring Derek on.

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Speaker 4: I deserve this.

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Speaker 2: Derek, are you there? Unmuting? Hello?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Hi? Great, here we are so here we are, Elena.

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Speaker 1: Your date sounds like it was amazing. Yeah, are you

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Speaker 1: a professional artist pottery worker if you will?

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Speaker 2: And why did you ghost on my guy?

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Speaker 1: He is so sprung right now, it's it's it's kind

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Speaker 1: of adorable.

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Speaker 3: I know, I know.

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Speaker 4: The date was fantastic, Okay, so great. The reason I

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Speaker 4: pulled back had nothing to do with our chemistry.

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Speaker 2: Truly, Okay, what happened?

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Speaker 4: Well, okay, I wasn't trying to snoop, but I did

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Speaker 4: notice that Derek's phone was lighting up a lot with

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Speaker 4: like the same name, popping up like lots of tax

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Speaker 4: clothes together, and then it would stop and then it

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Speaker 4: would start again. Okay, and it just stuck in my head.

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Speaker 4: And so later that night, unfortunately, curiosity got the best

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Speaker 4: of me. I looked him up. I did find your venmo. Sorry,

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Speaker 4: oh I know. I just saw like multiple recent payments

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Speaker 4: to someone with that same name, and the notes were

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Speaker 4: like inside jokes and food and drinks and like heart emojis,

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Speaker 4: and so I was just like, oh God, I built

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Speaker 4: a whole story in my head that he's actually seeing

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Speaker 4: someone else or it's just not over something, and I

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Speaker 4: got my own way.

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Speaker 2: I stopped, Okay, that's my cousin.

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Speaker 3: What that was my cousin? That you found. So they

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Speaker 3: just were like through this breakup and we're super close,

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Speaker 3: like we're based siblings other than that, you know, different parents,

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Speaker 3: but like it's been tough for her. So I've been

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Speaker 3: you know, spotting dinners, you know, keeping her spirits up.

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Speaker 3: And they were together for like six years. Like this

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Speaker 3: was not an easy breakup, and I'm just trying to

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Speaker 3: bring levity and help her get through this, get back

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Speaker 3: on her feet, so that that is what that is.

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Speaker 3: And oh my gosh, this is great because the fact

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Speaker 3: that you looked me up on Venmo meant you also

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Speaker 3: felt something and you were like, what's happening.

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Speaker 1: I don't know who spirals harder than you.

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Speaker 2: Two. This is a match made of haman.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, not a girlfriend. I'm very single. Other than you,

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Speaker 3: I've not seen anybody. I've literally just been thinking about

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Speaker 3: you for the last five days that we haven't talked.

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Speaker 1: Really, he sounds like the nicest guy ever and he's

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Speaker 1: into you, and can we move this along?

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Speaker 4: Okay? I spiraled, I spiraled. I was I think I

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Speaker 4: was afraid because you were so nice, and I was like,

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Speaker 4: this can't be real.

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Speaker 3: Okay, there has to be a cat Okay, it's real

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Speaker 3: and you totally past me. It's just my cousin.

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Speaker 4: God. Oh, that's the part I feel the worst about.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so, can we get a second date or what?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Please, let's do it the cow Yes. Oh, I'm so in.

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Speaker 3: I'm so in. Yes please, Okay, and I'm gonna put

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Speaker 3: my phone on airplane mode next time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and more wine and everybody just chill out.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna be fine.

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Speaker 2: This is gonna be great. I can't wait. Okay, ever,

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Speaker 2: hang on the line for me.

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Speaker 1: Don't move okay, thanks, adorable, Wow when it happened?

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Speaker 2: All right? Second date update