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Speaker 2: A couple text messages.

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Speaker 1: When we were talking about vision board stuff, Remember, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Kyle should go to the public library for magazines for

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Speaker 1: her vision board.

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Speaker 2: They're fifty cents each.

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Speaker 1: No way, you know what, because I literally went searching

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Speaker 1: for them and like died at how expensive twenty dollars

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Speaker 4: I'm just gonna cut up.

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Speaker 2: They're like that expensive. So that is a That is

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Speaker 2: the life hack. Another one is Peyton. You were talking

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Speaker 2: about trying to do a monthly vision board.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this person says Peyton should try doing a vision

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Speaker 1: board Bingo card instead of monthly boards. Super fun and

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Speaker 1: easy to do. There are YouTube tutorials out there for

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Speaker 3: One of my favorite creators actually did that. It was

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Speaker 3: things that she did finish. That's a great idea. I

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Speaker 3: think I'm actually gonna do that.

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Speaker 2: How does that work a Bingo card?

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Speaker 3: So you know how like you know what a Bingo

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Speaker 3: card looks like, right, So you get your free space

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Speaker 3: in the middle. But what you would do is you

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Speaker 3: would fill out each square with one of the goals

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Speaker 3: that you have. So for me, one of my big

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Speaker 3: goals this year is I want.

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Speaker 4: To pay off my car.

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Speaker 3: So I'd put paying off my car in one of

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Speaker 3: the Bingo boxes. And once I do that, I think,

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Speaker 3: let me ask you.

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Speaker 1: This is, by chance at all your wedding on one

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Speaker 1: of these Bingo cards one of your goals a wedding?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, of course, because that's kind of funny.

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Speaker 1: I would say vision board for me as a human being,

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Speaker 1: wedding would be like, ah, before I go to pay

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Speaker 1: it off my card. Don't get me wrong, pay off

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Speaker 1: your car is huge, but I think wedding is a

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Speaker 4: If that doesn't tell you where my mind. But it's

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Speaker 4: like not on wedding stuff ever. I don't know why.

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Speaker 3: It's like I was so excited to get engaged and

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Speaker 3: I'm loving it, like this is such a fun time,

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Speaker 3: but it's like the wedding blanding is so unappealing to me.

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Speaker 3: And I realized this last night as I was sitting

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Speaker 3: I don't know how it would get through it without her.

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Speaker 3: But I'm sitting here in three hours goes by and

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Speaker 4: I don't get it, Like this is not fun for me.

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Speaker 3: What the I think all of it like having to

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Speaker 3: Like she was like, so, do you have a color scheme?

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Speaker 3: And I'm like yeah, like we're gonna do like reds

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Speaker 4: A color scheme.

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Speaker 2: I think you can which color of red, like which

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Speaker 3: Which shade of black for that bad And she's like, oh,

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Speaker 3: Like? All right, what about the groomsman? What about your dress.

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Speaker 1: You think about stuff like that all the time, but

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Speaker 3: Yet you know, we actually did go look at our

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Speaker 1: Like, no, you can't have that because it is your

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Speaker 4: Now I won't go you know, yeah, no, you're absolutely right.

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Speaker 3: It just wasn't the vibe. And I feel like where

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Speaker 2: In the desert.

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Speaker 4: But you know, I mean though I don't want.

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Speaker 3: Cacti in the back of my bit sure, Like I

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Speaker 4: Is at the venue that you went and looked at

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you I have been married a long time,

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Speaker 1: but I feel like you're looking at all these things

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Speaker 1: but I just feel like you're It's like you're making

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Speaker 1: my god, we get married here. This is a great venue. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but we didn't meet here, so we should go somewhere else.

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Speaker 1: We'll get married in Iceland. So what you're saying is

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Speaker 1: hundred people. Its could be fine. It's kind of what

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Speaker 2: Is that what you're saying. No, but to bring up

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Speaker 1: Like. The other way of looking at it is you're

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Speaker 1: you are. You played basketball here about me? It is

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Speaker 2: Was all It is just a date that works out.

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Speaker 2: What was the problem with the with the venue you

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Speaker 3: I just felt like it was the tones of what

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Speaker 1: Also, you were talking about vibe like I know where

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Speaker 3: So we have a couple more places on our list

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Speaker 2: That's good though. See you are at least went to

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Speaker 2: a place. I was getting on you for not even

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Speaker 3: I know. Yeah, no, no, no, we're going and we're

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Speaker 3: getting our feet wet and doing the whole thing. But yeah,

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Speaker 3: it's just like not fun for me. So any words

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Speaker 3: of motivation please send them?

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Speaker 1: That west necessarily the fun stuff though, something you just

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Speaker 1: said remind me of something that you also said. You

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Speaker 1: took pictures of Payt's feet to get the followers up,

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Speaker 1: and it worked, and now your fiance is way into.

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Speaker 3: It right, every opportunity, every time there's dead silence, like

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Speaker 2: Silent.

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Speaker 4: That's a different Kadeem.

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Speaker 3: He can be quiet, he can go probably seventy two

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Speaker 4: But now we have dead silence and he's like, sell,

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Speaker 4: what's up with this foot page?

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Speaker 2: I'm like, like, what do you mean? What's he wants?

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Speaker 3: He wants to create my own Instagram page and sell

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Speaker 3: my feet pictures online to pay for the wedding is

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Speaker 3: what he wants to do.

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Speaker 4: And I said, probably do it and he was like

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Speaker 4: and he was like, I was, I don't want to

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Speaker 4: handle that. I don't want to do it. I don't

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Speaker 4: want to deal with the d MS.

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Speaker 3: What if somebody wants my stinky socks And he's like,

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Speaker 3: then we sell them. They're not gonna want them after

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Speaker 3: they get them, but we'll sell them.

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Speaker 2: Well, I think that would mean they would want them more.

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Speaker 1: I gave Way a pair of Kyle stinky socks and

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Speaker 1: it was the biggest disaster ever because I have not.

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Speaker 2: Mailed them yet.

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Speaker 4: You still haven't mailed them.

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Speaker 2: Giveaway backpack.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Kyle steaky socks in your back.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if they smell anymore. The name is

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Speaker 2: the business man.

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Speaker 4: He death like, seriously, John Jay. He says, you're messing

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Speaker 4: with my bag.

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Speaker 2: Dude, let me tell you something.

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Speaker 1: With the amount of followers we have on the unfugged

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Speaker 1: foot page, I think and I've talked to Kyle's husband

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Speaker 1: about this. He approached me with this, like, there's so

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Speaker 1: much money to be made because I know women that

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Speaker 1: are making a crap ton of money.

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Speaker 2: With like four thousand followers.

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Speaker 1: There's two hundred and eighty eight thousand followers on the

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Speaker 1: show than anything we have with his radio STU.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I might, I might came. I might let him do it.

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Speaker 1: That's the only decision you've made for your wedding, probably, And.

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Speaker 2: He did take a ten thousand view of that.

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Speaker 4: What does that mean?

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Speaker 2: What's what's a what's like? What's a name that works

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Speaker 2: with that?

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Speaker 1: Like feet for wedding, wedding feet or like a fundraising

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Speaker 1: for a nuptial something to those for cold feet?

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Speaker 4: Cold feet? That's good.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, some funds you can join join the un fuggd feed,

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Speaker 1: check it on on Instagram.

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Speaker 2: John Jane rich