WEBVTT - Ryan Sutter

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<v Speaker 1>For me.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, you're just growing up, you're playing football for fun,

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<v Speaker 2>and you're you know, not recruited out of high school

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<v Speaker 2>and all this sort of stuff happens, and then you

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<v Speaker 2>finally get this chance where you're kind of like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I told you, you know, I told you I could

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<v Speaker 2>do it, and that's a cool feeling. Unfortunately didn't last

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<v Speaker 2>all that long, but at least, right, you know, you

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<v Speaker 2>get there and you get to have that brief experience

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<v Speaker 2>in my case, but that's very hard. You know, you

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<v Speaker 2>get a knock on your door at like six in

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<v Speaker 2>the morning and they're like, hey, coach, need to see you.

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<v Speaker 2>Bring your playbook and you obviously know what that means.

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<v Speaker 2>And then you just turn it in and you're like

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<v Speaker 2>what now.

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<v Speaker 3>Welcome to Cut, Traded, Fired, Retired, a podcast featuring conversations

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<v Speaker 3>with professional athletes and coaches who have experienced being cut, traded, fired,

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<v Speaker 3>and or they're retired. I'm your host, Susie Wargen. This

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<v Speaker 3>episode's guest is usually thought of in connection with the

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<v Speaker 3>reality TV show, but Ryan Sutter has plenty of ties

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<v Speaker 3>to Colorado and sports. Ryan grew up in Fort Collins

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<v Speaker 3>and played football at the University of Colorado as a

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<v Speaker 3>walk on. He ended up setting a multitude of records,

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<v Speaker 3>many of which stand today. He was drafted by the

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<v Speaker 3>Ravens in nineteen ninety eight, but unfortunately, his pro career

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<v Speaker 3>didn't last long. In fact, on the field, it was

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<v Speaker 3>just a few seconds of a regular season game before

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<v Speaker 3>an injury put him out of commission. Ryan would bounce

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<v Speaker 3>around to a few teams and also played in NFL

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<v Speaker 3>Europe before calling it quits and becoming a firefighter in Veil.

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<v Speaker 3>Then the rest of his story began. A friend volunteered

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<v Speaker 3>him to be a contestant on the Bachelorette, which he

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<v Speaker 3>had no interest in doing, but went anyway. Turns out

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<v Speaker 3>Ryan was the last one standing, and the words Trista

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<v Speaker 3>and Ryan became a household phrase.

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<v Speaker 4>Today.

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<v Speaker 3>Ryan is still a firefighter now in Denver, and he

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<v Speaker 3>and Trista are in the Denver area, raising their two

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<v Speaker 3>teenagers and still getting roped back into reality TV appearances.

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<v Speaker 3>Here and there, Ladies and gentlemen, Ryan Sutter.

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<v Speaker 1>Cut Traded Fired Retired podcast with Susie Wargin.

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<v Speaker 4>Hello, Ryan Sutter, How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good? How are you?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm good? It's good to have you here. We've been

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<v Speaker 4>trying to kind of figure this out for a little while.

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<v Speaker 4>You're pretty busy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean I pretend to be busy show.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh I don't think that's true. You're busy. But you

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<v Speaker 4>have a cool story.

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<v Speaker 3>Most people know you for TV and The Bachelorette, but

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<v Speaker 3>you've got a professional sports story and a very homegrown

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<v Speaker 3>story before that too, with sports, which I think not

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of people talk about. And I think that's

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<v Speaker 3>a great experience to use for others. And now you

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<v Speaker 3>use it for your kids too, which I think is

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<v Speaker 3>pretty amazing. So you're born in Fort Collins.

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<v Speaker 4>I was no co guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah I was. Yeah, I haven't been back for what

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<v Speaker 1>we had to go back for?

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<v Speaker 3>What?

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<v Speaker 2>Did we go back for a hockey tournament or something

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<v Speaker 2>a few years ago and we drove by our old house,

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<v Speaker 2>and I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>The town has changed quite a bit.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, been there. But I loved growing up in four Collins.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you go to Four Collins High School.

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<v Speaker 3>You obviously played football, but what other sports were you

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<v Speaker 3>into growing up?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I'm from the old school way of sports where

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<v Speaker 2>you just played all the sports. So we go football

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<v Speaker 2>was the fall sport, and then we played that transition

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<v Speaker 2>into basketball. I played baseball for a little while and

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<v Speaker 2>stopped playing that in high school and started running track.

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<v Speaker 2>Not because I was good at track, but I was

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<v Speaker 2>trying to get faster for football.

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<v Speaker 4>Ah, okay, so I did that didn't help.

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<v Speaker 1>It did? Yeah, it turns out like technique, and.

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<v Speaker 4>Again a good reason for doing multi sports, right.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I know, And it's a hard that's a hard

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<v Speaker 2>thing to impart on your kids, like are my son

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<v Speaker 2>who loves hockey, especially hockey where that's a pretty specific

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<v Speaker 2>movement and you want him to do some other things

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<v Speaker 2>so he doesn't get poor hockey players get lots of

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<v Speaker 2>hip injuries and ye trying to avoid that stuff, and

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<v Speaker 2>it's hard to convince him that doing other things.

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<v Speaker 4>Cross train could beneficial.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So I just played everything.

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<v Speaker 2>I played soccer growing up, and the only thing I

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<v Speaker 2>do regret is I didn't get to play hockey in

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<v Speaker 2>Fort Collins. The Epic Center didn't have an ice rink

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<v Speaker 2>until I was in sixth or seventh grade.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, and I played a year in I think I.

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<v Speaker 2>Sixth grade, so I was a bantam. And then my

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<v Speaker 2>parents sat me down and said it would be a

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<v Speaker 2>lot easier on us if you just played basketball.

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<v Speaker 3>Put this five am ice time thing is not really

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<v Speaker 3>driving with us.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So, so I didn't get to play a lot of hockey.

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<v Speaker 2>I actually play now. Denver Fire has a team and

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<v Speaker 2>nice Valor dads have these pickup games, and so I

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<v Speaker 2>love the sport.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm terrible at it, but.

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<v Speaker 4>It's Oh I bet you're not terrible at it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's fun. So yeah, I just tried to do everything.

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<v Speaker 4>That's awesome.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So when did you, then, Ryan, figure out that

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<v Speaker 3>football was kind of your sport and what you might

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<v Speaker 3>end up doing in college?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh?

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<v Speaker 2>Football was my sports since I can remember just watching

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<v Speaker 2>it with my parents. They both went to Nebraska, so

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<v Speaker 2>we grew up watching college football every single weekend.

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<v Speaker 4>How did that go with you going to see you?

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<v Speaker 1>You know?

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<v Speaker 2>With my parents, it was fine, they became to see

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<v Speaker 2>you fans. With my grandparents, Bay did not. I would

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<v Speaker 2>be playing their grandson in the game and they would still.

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<v Speaker 4>Be rooting for the Huskers. Are you kidding me?

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<v Speaker 1>They wanted me to personally have a good game, but

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<v Speaker 1>they didn't want my team to. Actually, it was like.

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<v Speaker 4>Having a fantasy football team right where you're like, I

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<v Speaker 4>don't want them to win, but I'd like this guy

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<v Speaker 4>to do well.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, exactly that one side of my grandparents, my dad's side.

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<v Speaker 2>My other grandparents were a little more supportive of me

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<v Speaker 2>and the team and stuff. So it was the sport

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<v Speaker 2>that I always loved. And I remember I was a

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<v Speaker 2>little old for my age. I have a September birthday,

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<v Speaker 2>so my parents had me start later rather than earlier.

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<v Speaker 2>And you couldn't play tackle football till it was either

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<v Speaker 2>fourth or fifth grade or something, and I was technically

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<v Speaker 2>old enough to, but they wouldn't let me play, and

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<v Speaker 2>so I got all mad because all I really wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to do was play football, and they maybe play soccer.

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<v Speaker 1>For one more year.

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<v Speaker 4>And you were probably bigger than most of the kids too,

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<v Speaker 4>since you were a year older.

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<v Speaker 1>I was a late bloomer. Like I went to see you.

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<v Speaker 1>Out of high school. I was one hundred and seventy

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<v Speaker 1>five pounds.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I readcher that year came back as a

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<v Speaker 2>sophomore two hundred and five pounds.

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<v Speaker 1>So I grew a lot, wow, to the point.

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<v Speaker 2>Where my mom actually asked me if I was doing

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<v Speaker 2>anything illegal to put on way, which.

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<v Speaker 4>I wasn't, but just a boy, that's what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>I just grew Yeah, I grew late.

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<v Speaker 3>And what was defense your thing too? Or did you

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<v Speaker 3>play both sides in high school? Nope, wide receiver.

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<v Speaker 2>I started out like everybody, wanting to score touchdowns. I

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<v Speaker 2>wanted to be a running back, and I played running

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<v Speaker 2>back all the way through high school.

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<v Speaker 1>I played running back in cornerback because in those days

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<v Speaker 1>far less specialized and you could play both sides of

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<v Speaker 1>the ball. So I did that. I returned punts.

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<v Speaker 2>Then my senior year, we got a really fast kid

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<v Speaker 2>on the team who was an underclassman, but he took

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<v Speaker 2>my running back spot. So I ended up playing slot

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<v Speaker 2>back or something like that. But yeah, I played both ways.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't play safety. I played corner, but I ended

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<v Speaker 2>up playing safety in college.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you get recruited by others besides ce you? And

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<v Speaker 3>I'm assuming coach McCartney recruited you.

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<v Speaker 4>He was your coach.

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<v Speaker 1>No began, No one recruited me, no one.

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<v Speaker 4>Did you walk on?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah I got. I didn't know that, Yeah I know.

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<v Speaker 2>I think the only scholarship offer I got was a

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<v Speaker 2>half scholarship to School of Mines. I visited there and

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<v Speaker 2>I started an engineering school at You ended up transferring

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<v Speaker 2>to architecture, but at one point I wanted to be

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<v Speaker 2>an engineer, so I was thinking School of Minds would

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<v Speaker 2>be a great place.

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<v Speaker 3>You have no kidding, so see as you didn't either,

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<v Speaker 3>even though you were in the backyard.

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<v Speaker 1>Really no, and I took a visit.

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<v Speaker 2>I had a friend, Pete Money, who ended up going

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<v Speaker 2>to Wisconsin and then playing for the Giants for a while,

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<v Speaker 2>and I went with him on his visit to see you,

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<v Speaker 2>and had someone in Fort Collins write a letter who

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<v Speaker 2>knew Coach Mac personally, so they granted me a It

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<v Speaker 2>was a invited walk on, so I got invited to.

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<v Speaker 1>Training camp and then as long as.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't stumble and fall too much, then I got

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<v Speaker 2>to stay on the team.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>So I didn't have to go to the traditional walk

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<v Speaker 2>on tryout process.

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<v Speaker 1>I just walked on and invited walk on, I think, yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>And eventually were you scholarship?

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<v Speaker 1>Yep?

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<v Speaker 2>After two years, Coach Mac gave me a scholarship. So

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<v Speaker 2>I read here to my first year, played special teams

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<v Speaker 2>my second year mostly just kickoff team, and then got

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<v Speaker 2>a scholarship after that.

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<v Speaker 4>That's pretty cool.

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<v Speaker 3>That's I mean, that takes a lot Ryan to walk

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<v Speaker 3>on and then try and work that hard to eventually

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<v Speaker 3>be scholarship, especially around that time with that team in

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<v Speaker 3>the nineties. Oh, with coach mag there were no slouches

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<v Speaker 3>on that team.

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<v Speaker 1>No.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I almost quit my freshman year, did you. I

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<v Speaker 2>was small and school was overwhelming. Engineering school was hard.

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<v Speaker 2>I'd always done well in school. I wasn't doing well

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<v Speaker 2>in school. I was on the scout team playing against

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<v Speaker 2>like I specifically remember Chris Naoli, offensive lineman who also

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<v Speaker 2>played in the NFL for a while for the Saints.

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<v Speaker 2>For whatever reason, he was always like the pulling guard

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<v Speaker 2>or something when I was coming and he was not nice.

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<v Speaker 2>That's very nice to human being, but not a nice

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<v Speaker 2>on the football field.

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<v Speaker 1>Kind of guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And it was just You're getting beat up at

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<v Speaker 2>day after day. You're not playing, so all you're doing

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<v Speaker 2>is practicing, and then I'm just scholastically like I was

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<v Speaker 2>just in the tube.

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<v Speaker 4>So yeah, but you didn't didn't quick?

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<v Speaker 1>No.

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<v Speaker 3>Was there anything defining moment wise that that made you

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<v Speaker 3>kind of keep going at that point?

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<v Speaker 4>Did anybody talk to you? Did you have anybody that

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<v Speaker 4>pulled you aside?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 2>I went and talked to a couple engineering professors and

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<v Speaker 2>they said, it's really difficult to play a sport.

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<v Speaker 1>And be an engineer. You might have to choose.

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<v Speaker 2>I wasn't really enjoying engineering, to be honest, and I

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<v Speaker 2>still felt like I liked football. It was just a

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<v Speaker 2>frustrating period. So I switched to architecture school. That was

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<v Speaker 2>a much more creative major than engineering. Is just so

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<v Speaker 2>black and white and I needed something a little less

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<v Speaker 2>black and white.

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<v Speaker 1>It took just as much time, perhaps more, but I

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<v Speaker 1>enjoyed it more.

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<v Speaker 4>And something's more fun. That makes a difference.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And so that helped, and then I was able

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<v Speaker 2>to kind of refocus when some of it's just you're adjusting,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, you have to. There's a period where you're

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<v Speaker 2>not at your house anymore. You're on your own. You're

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<v Speaker 2>inundated with all the temptations of college life, and like

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<v Speaker 2>no one's there to wake you up to make sure

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<v Speaker 2>you get to your eight o'clock in the morning class.

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<v Speaker 2>All of our classes were in the mornings because practice

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<v Speaker 2>was in the afternoon. We didn't get paid, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>like I wasn't making any money.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was a lot. It's just a lot.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, wow.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, and I know you played a lot of special teams.

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<v Speaker 3>I had to tap into Dave Platty, the longtime historian

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<v Speaker 3>and sid at Cu, So you have eight special teams

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<v Speaker 3>points records, and he said they don't even keep track

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<v Speaker 3>of those anymore. So now you have them in I

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<v Speaker 3>can never.

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<v Speaker 4>Say it right perfectuity, Ye forever yours forever, which I

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<v Speaker 4>think is really cool. Yeah, that's awesome. But then also

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<v Speaker 4>you hold records for the most tackles by a dB

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<v Speaker 4>in a game you had twenty eight against Michigan in

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<v Speaker 4>nineteen ninety seven, and the most tackles in a season

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<v Speaker 4>by a defensive back with one hundred and seventy in

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<v Speaker 4>nineteen ninety seven.

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<v Speaker 3>So that ninety seven season, your last year was pretty spectacular.

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<v Speaker 3>What kind of clicked and good thing that you stuck

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<v Speaker 3>around after that freshman season?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I just had.

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<v Speaker 2>To kind of take small strides along the way. Freshman year,

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<v Speaker 2>I red shirted, sort of got my feet underneath me.

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<v Speaker 2>Sophomore year, I think I only played for the majority

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<v Speaker 2>of the time.

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<v Speaker 1>I only played kickoffs. I missed letter.

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<v Speaker 2>I remember missing my letter by like four plays because

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<v Speaker 2>you had to have one hundred plays and I.

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<v Speaker 1>Think I had like ninety six.

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<v Speaker 2>No even guys, on the team were like, hey, can

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<v Speaker 2>we like figure something out, and coach acts pretty like nope.

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<v Speaker 4>Sorry, it's how it goes black and white.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So the next year I played all the special teams.

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<v Speaker 2>My red shirt sophomore year. Year after that, I played

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<v Speaker 2>all the special teams and nickel defense. I didn't start

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<v Speaker 2>as a safety until my senior year.

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<v Speaker 1>So okay, that's why.

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<v Speaker 2>I had all those tackles my senior year because I

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<v Speaker 2>was actually on the field time. Yeah, I had to

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<v Speaker 2>just work my way through. It's like I tell my son,

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<v Speaker 2>The first thing I did was I just worked really

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<v Speaker 2>hard in the weight room because if you get the

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<v Speaker 2>strength and conditioning coaches on your side, it's amazing how

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<v Speaker 2>many head coaches will go to the strength and conditioning

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<v Speaker 2>coaches and ask.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, hey, who who's showing up? Like you have any like?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So they advocated for me, and I kept getting

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<v Speaker 2>more and more opportunities, and then that that senior year,

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<v Speaker 2>I just finally got on the field and I had

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<v Speaker 2>no pressure. I mean, despite the fact that I played

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<v Speaker 2>for a school with a lot of expectations and a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of really good athletes. It worked in my favor

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<v Speaker 2>because people were coming you know, NFL scouts were coming

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<v Speaker 2>to watch people, and so those guys had they had

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<v Speaker 2>all the pressure, they had, all the pressure they had

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<v Speaker 2>the eyes looking at them.

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<v Speaker 4>Were you even thinking that you would have a chance

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<v Speaker 4>in the NFL?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I mean I always that was always my dream,

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<v Speaker 2>right to do? Yeah, And so I just was out

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<v Speaker 2>playing football, having fun. And then towards the end of

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<v Speaker 2>the year, I started getting the feeling that maybe I

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<v Speaker 2>was getting some looks, and that just motivated me more

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<v Speaker 2>to try to do well. And some of it's just

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, a lot of it's preparation and just being

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<v Speaker 2>ready for when you do get your opportunity, yep. And

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<v Speaker 2>then a lot of it's just luck. I mean, unfortunately,

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<v Speaker 2>there's just there is a component of good.

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<v Speaker 1>Fortune in this.

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<v Speaker 2>It's kind of like I think the music industry, like

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<v Speaker 2>if you ever watch America's Got Talent or whatever, you

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<v Speaker 2>just think, or go to Nashville and just go to

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<v Speaker 2>these little dive bars and and you're thinking, why is

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<v Speaker 2>this person not world famous?

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<v Speaker 4>Right?

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's the same way with sports. My son

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<v Speaker 2>plays hockey, and I for hockey for sure. You go

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<v Speaker 2>and watch do you play? And you think every single

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<v Speaker 2>one of these guys should be in the NHL, but

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<v Speaker 2>they're not. And some of them probably could be and

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<v Speaker 2>just don't get the right chance. And probably some of

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<v Speaker 2>them maybe shouldn't be and get the right chance, And

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<v Speaker 2>just that's just how life goes sometimes.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and for me, it all kind of lined up.

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<v Speaker 2>I felt like I was well prepared and I just

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<v Speaker 2>got kind of lucky to have the right opportunity.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's cool, And that is so how it happens

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<v Speaker 3>so often, Ryan, where it's you're kind of in the

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<v Speaker 3>right place at the right time, But if you aren't

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<v Speaker 3>prepared at that time, when you're in the right place

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<v Speaker 3>at the right time, then nothing will happen. So that's

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<v Speaker 3>where that preparation thing is so key. So as you

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<v Speaker 3>move on to so do you do graduate? Do you

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<v Speaker 3>get your degree?

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<v Speaker 4>Then that Y're okay, And then in nineteen ninety eight

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<v Speaker 4>you get drafted in the fifth round.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, I remember that day because my as luck

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<v Speaker 2>would have it somehow, our landline again, this is a long.

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<v Speaker 4>This is nineteen ninety eight.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, our landline was tied up or something like it

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<v Speaker 1>was out.

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<v Speaker 4>So are you at your parents' house?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you in parents Collins? All right?

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<v Speaker 2>I think my agent ended up calling my girlfriend the time,

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<v Speaker 2>but it was after I knew I wasn't going to

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<v Speaker 2>be a first day drafty. And then back then, I

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<v Speaker 2>think they did the first two or three rounds the

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<v Speaker 2>first day, and then after that it was the rest

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<v Speaker 2>of them. We're watching ESPN and I saw my name

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<v Speaker 2>come along the bottom. I was like, oh, wait, what

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<v Speaker 2>the did I just get drafted? And then seconds later

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<v Speaker 2>my girlfriend's phone rang Ted Marchibroda. He called in Ozzie

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<v Speaker 2>Newsome and they said that they had drafted me. And

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<v Speaker 2>so I was super excited to get that.

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<v Speaker 3>What'd you think then, because you didn't really I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>you kind of knew probably you had an agent at

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<v Speaker 3>that point.

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<v Speaker 4>But now you're going to go and try out for

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<v Speaker 4>the NFL.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean that's the realization of the dream, the

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<v Speaker 2>sort of childhood dream that Joe. No one thinks you

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<v Speaker 2>can do it. You know, these days, there's a little

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<v Speaker 2>more of a path. I guess, there's so much specialty

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<v Speaker 2>and all these things, like you have the IMG world

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<v Speaker 2>and all these places where you've got a pretty good

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<v Speaker 2>chance of if you're gonna make it.

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<v Speaker 1>They probably know there. But for me, you know, you're

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<v Speaker 1>just growing.

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<v Speaker 2>Up, you're playing football for fun, and you're you know,

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<v Speaker 2>not recruited out of high school, and all this sort

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<v Speaker 2>of stuff happens, and then you finally get this chance

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<v Speaker 2>where you're kind of like, yeah, I told you, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I told you I could do.

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<v Speaker 1>It, And that's a cool feeling.

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<v Speaker 2>Unfortunately didn't last all that long, but at least you know,

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<v Speaker 2>you get there and you get to have that brief experience.

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<v Speaker 2>In my case, but for a lot of people, I

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<v Speaker 2>think they have similar stories and they end up they

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<v Speaker 2>always see all these Division three guys in the NFL

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<v Speaker 2>that have Oh and I specifically remember Jeff Saturday was

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<v Speaker 2>a free agent at Baltimore and we went out to

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<v Speaker 2>like pizza or something was he and I and a

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<v Speaker 2>couple of other guys, and I remember him saying like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm probably just gonna end up going back to the

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<v Speaker 2>Coca Cola plant in Atlanta where my dad works, and

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<v Speaker 2>you know, we'll just see how this all turns out.

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<v Speaker 2>He obviously didn't make the Ravens but got picked up

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<v Speaker 2>by the Colts and had.

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<v Speaker 4>A yeah best friend.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So wow, there are tons of those really cool stories

0:15:54.080 --> 0:15:54.480
<v Speaker 2>there are.

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<v Speaker 3>So with the Ravens specifically, you make it through I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>you do probably the rookie training camp and all that,

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<v Speaker 3>get to regular training camp, and that's when you get cut.

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<v Speaker 4>What happens there.

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<v Speaker 2>I actually had a really good preseason game against the Bears,

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<v Speaker 2>and I remember I had caused a fumble and on

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<v Speaker 2>a punk coverage and one of the harballs. He's like, Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>somebody's trying to make this team, and I felt really good.

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<v Speaker 2>The next preseason game, I think it was the second

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<v Speaker 2>preseason game, was against the Eagles.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a less good game.

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<v Speaker 2>Not a terrible game, but just a less good And

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<v Speaker 2>the way it sort of works in that industry is

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<v Speaker 2>you're just a commodity. We had suffered a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>defensive line injuries and I was the bottom of the

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<v Speaker 2>depth chart of defensive backs. So they called me in

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<v Speaker 2>and said, hey, we need to bring in some defensive linemen. Unfortunately,

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<v Speaker 2>we've got a lot of defensive backs and at the time,

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<v Speaker 2>they had this guy, Benny Thompson, who.

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<v Speaker 1>Was a special teams specialist, which was kind of what

0:16:49.920 --> 0:16:50.600
<v Speaker 1>they brought me in for.

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<v Speaker 2>And so they had someone and I didn't have a

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<v Speaker 2>good enough game that game to really justify them keeping me,

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<v Speaker 2>so they released me.

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<v Speaker 3>You're a casualty of numbers, and when the roster, when

0:17:02.920 --> 0:17:04.960
<v Speaker 3>there's injuries and things like that, they've got to move

0:17:05.000 --> 0:17:07.959
<v Speaker 3>things around, and it's just it's chess pieces going around

0:17:08.760 --> 0:17:09.679
<v Speaker 3>and you're just a number.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Yeah, which is hard.

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<v Speaker 1>That's very hard. You know.

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<v Speaker 2>You get a knock on your door at like six

0:17:14.280 --> 0:17:16.399
<v Speaker 2>in the morning and they're like, hey, coach needs to

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<v Speaker 2>see you. Bring your playbook and you obviously know what

0:17:18.520 --> 0:17:20.040
<v Speaker 2>that means. And then you just turn it in and

0:17:20.040 --> 0:17:21.880
<v Speaker 2>you're like what now, kind of thing?

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<v Speaker 4>Do you fly me home? Now?

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<v Speaker 1>Like?

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<v Speaker 4>What do I do?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's crazy.

0:17:25.359 --> 0:17:28.440
<v Speaker 2>I went So, Baltimore is close to Annapolis and there's

0:17:28.640 --> 0:17:31.000
<v Speaker 2>some I'd always wanted to learn to sail. So I

0:17:31.080 --> 0:17:33.920
<v Speaker 2>went down there and signed up for some sailing lessons

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<v Speaker 2>and ended.

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<v Speaker 4>Up getting right away, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Like the next day.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Because I was like, I don't know what to

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<v Speaker 2>do and so and then Peter Shaeffer, who is my

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<v Speaker 2>agent and still good friend, called and said, the Raiders

0:17:46.280 --> 0:17:48.439
<v Speaker 2>want to try you out. And then I started bouncing

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<v Speaker 2>around to different places and doing some individual workouts for

0:17:51.600 --> 0:17:53.359
<v Speaker 2>other teams than the Panthers have.

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<v Speaker 3>Panthers signed you right, yeah, and you actually that's who

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<v Speaker 3>you got your very first start during the regular season with.

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<v Speaker 4>But again not very long.

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<v Speaker 2>No nine total seconds, although one of the fire guys

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<v Speaker 2>informed me that it was actually only six seconds.

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<v Speaker 1>On the clock.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because I was a walk around, like, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>think I have the shortest I know, I have the

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<v Speaker 2>shortest NFL career where you actually played in a regular

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<v Speaker 2>season game.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like nine seconds and They're like, whoa, this

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<v Speaker 1>say six.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm like, okay to your fire fighter doesn't start

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<v Speaker 2>on a kickoff until but there's three seconds.

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<v Speaker 4>At the ball in the air, So yeah, what happened.

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<v Speaker 2>I was so I initially got picked up and I

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<v Speaker 2>was on the practice squad. They activated me week ten

0:18:36.240 --> 0:18:38.320
<v Speaker 2>to play against the Jets, and I was going to

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<v Speaker 2>have a pretty decent role because I was going to

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<v Speaker 2>be the nickel safety. We were playing I think it

0:18:42.119 --> 0:18:45.399
<v Speaker 2>was Vinny Testaverdy, and they passed a lot, so I

0:18:45.440 --> 0:18:46.520
<v Speaker 2>was going to get to play a lot and I

0:18:46.600 --> 0:18:50.480
<v Speaker 2>was excited. And obviously on the special teams and on

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<v Speaker 2>the opening kickoff, it was the old way they did

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<v Speaker 2>opening kickoffs, where you ran as hard as you could

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<v Speaker 2>down the field, and I forget who the running back

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<v Speaker 2>was but he was running up the field and I

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<v Speaker 2>dove out to try to trip them up.

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<v Speaker 1>Thought that I had until recently.

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<v Speaker 2>When the fire guys pulled it up and were like,

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<v Speaker 2>it doesn't look like you made the tackle.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, uh, well, thanks for shattering that. At

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<v Speaker 1>least I thought I had one.

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<v Speaker 2>Tackle, but no, he kept going and shortly after was tackled.

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<v Speaker 2>But it was nothing terribly traumatic, just probably this landed

0:19:19.119 --> 0:19:21.360
<v Speaker 2>on my shoulder the same way that I had hundreds

0:19:21.359 --> 0:19:24.560
<v Speaker 2>of times before, but this time it dislocated and tore

0:19:24.600 --> 0:19:27.679
<v Speaker 2>all the like the rotator cuff and tendons and stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>And I remember like walking off the field with assistance

0:19:31.520 --> 0:19:34.200
<v Speaker 2>from the trainers, and Sean Gilbert was on the team

0:19:34.200 --> 0:19:36.399
<v Speaker 2>and he was like, hey, welcome to the NFL, like

0:19:36.520 --> 0:19:40.399
<v Speaker 2>rookie kind of not I think, understanding the gravity of

0:19:40.440 --> 0:19:42.879
<v Speaker 2>the injury, right, the training staff was like, all right,

0:19:42.920 --> 0:19:45.199
<v Speaker 2>we're gonna pop it back in and if it stays in,

0:19:45.280 --> 0:19:47.400
<v Speaker 2>then you can keep playing. So they popped it back

0:19:47.440 --> 0:19:50.280
<v Speaker 2>in and it just fell right back out, and so

0:19:50.320 --> 0:19:52.600
<v Speaker 2>they're like, you can't obviously keep playing.

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<v Speaker 4>Very painful too.

0:19:54.400 --> 0:19:59.160
<v Speaker 2>I think it was so emotionally painful that the physical

0:19:59.200 --> 0:20:02.720
<v Speaker 2>pain didn't register. Yeah, so then you're walking off the field,

0:20:02.720 --> 0:20:05.359
<v Speaker 2>you go get your x rays and all the confirmation

0:20:05.440 --> 0:20:07.960
<v Speaker 2>of the injury happens. I had surgery within a few days,

0:20:08.000 --> 0:20:11.080
<v Speaker 2>and that was kind of it. Like, you know, obviously

0:20:11.240 --> 0:20:13.560
<v Speaker 2>one play isn't enough to get a whole lot of

0:20:13.640 --> 0:20:18.360
<v Speaker 2>film on you. There's a new wave of talented football

0:20:18.400 --> 0:20:20.120
<v Speaker 2>players coming out of college every year.

0:20:20.280 --> 0:20:22.639
<v Speaker 1>Yep, And again, you're just a commodity.

0:20:22.680 --> 0:20:25.120
<v Speaker 2>And I rehab. They brought me back the year after,

0:20:25.200 --> 0:20:26.840
<v Speaker 2>but we had a terrible season. They fired the whole

0:20:26.880 --> 0:20:29.240
<v Speaker 2>coaching staff. It was a brand new coaching staff, and

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<v Speaker 2>it was almost like the second I got medical clearance,

0:20:32.280 --> 0:20:33.000
<v Speaker 2>they released me.

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<v Speaker 1>And that that was kind of that.

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<v Speaker 2>So and honestly, I wasn't sure I wanted to play anymore.

0:20:40.600 --> 0:20:44.520
<v Speaker 2>And once you lose that at that level, then you're

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<v Speaker 2>you're done.

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<v Speaker 4>You can't do it.

0:20:46.400 --> 0:20:46.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:20:46.680 --> 0:20:48.080
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And that's what I hear from a lot of

0:20:48.119 --> 0:20:51.199
<v Speaker 3>guys where they're like, I just didn't have the feeling

0:20:51.240 --> 0:20:53.000
<v Speaker 3>that I wanted to do it anymore, and that's when

0:20:53.000 --> 0:20:55.840
<v Speaker 3>you know it is it's time. It's definitely time. So

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<v Speaker 3>when you were rehabbing, did you stay in Carolina and

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<v Speaker 3>do that or let me.

0:21:00.000 --> 0:21:03.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm home, I would say mail. And I rehabbed through

0:21:03.920 --> 0:21:04.520
<v Speaker 1>Howard Head.

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<v Speaker 2>So that was great actually because I was week ten,

0:21:07.440 --> 0:21:10.320
<v Speaker 2>You're not coming back to play, right, and so they said, hey,

0:21:10.600 --> 0:21:12.480
<v Speaker 2>if you want to go, you can go.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh that's nice.

0:21:13.480 --> 0:21:15.480
<v Speaker 1>So they did that and that was nice.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so you rehab and then you also you got

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<v Speaker 3>to try out with the Seahawks in ninety nine.

0:21:22.520 --> 0:21:24.679
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, So I went out with them. They signed me,

0:21:25.000 --> 0:21:27.040
<v Speaker 2>and I could see the writing on the wall there too.

0:21:27.119 --> 0:21:30.920
<v Speaker 2>I feel like they brought me in as like planed

0:21:31.000 --> 0:21:36.040
<v Speaker 2>c maybe because I was getting zero reps on anything.

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<v Speaker 4>You're definitely a body at that point.

0:21:38.200 --> 0:21:38.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:21:38.600 --> 0:21:42.000
<v Speaker 2>And then again like Peter Schaeffer, it was Mike Holmgren

0:21:42.240 --> 0:21:44.280
<v Speaker 2>was up there and he had gotten a hold of

0:21:44.280 --> 0:21:46.600
<v Speaker 2>their coaching staff and convinced them to do like a

0:21:46.600 --> 0:21:49.159
<v Speaker 2>little mini scrimmage thing with like the guys on the

0:21:49.160 --> 0:21:52.280
<v Speaker 2>bottom of the roster. And I did awful, And that

0:21:52.440 --> 0:21:53.800
<v Speaker 2>was kind of where I was like, you know what,

0:21:53.880 --> 0:21:55.800
<v Speaker 2>I just like, my heart is not in this.

0:21:56.359 --> 0:21:59.320
<v Speaker 1>I felt slow. I just felt like I don't know

0:21:59.359 --> 0:22:00.080
<v Speaker 1>if I was entire.

0:22:00.000 --> 0:22:03.560
<v Speaker 2>Earlier covered from my injury, and he just like everything

0:22:03.680 --> 0:22:06.480
<v Speaker 2>was circulating in the wrong direction, and so I just

0:22:06.560 --> 0:22:10.840
<v Speaker 2>kind of stuck it out until the inevitable release came.

0:22:11.600 --> 0:22:14.560
<v Speaker 2>And at that point I left Seattle and went to

0:22:14.600 --> 0:22:18.560
<v Speaker 2>Costa Rica for two months. Oh wow, and then just

0:22:18.880 --> 0:22:21.399
<v Speaker 2>hung out there. Got a chance to go play in

0:22:21.440 --> 0:22:22.320
<v Speaker 2>Europe time.

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<v Speaker 4>With the Barcelona Yeah.

0:22:25.400 --> 0:22:27.560
<v Speaker 1>And so what was that like? That was amazing.

0:22:27.680 --> 0:22:29.399
<v Speaker 3>That's what I hear from everybody that's gone over to

0:22:29.480 --> 0:22:31.920
<v Speaker 3>NFL Europe about the experience was unreal.

0:22:32.080 --> 0:22:35.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So again lucky there. Do you remember Chip.

0:22:34.840 --> 0:22:36.960
<v Speaker 4>Beak Oh yeah, yeah, John beek Son.

0:22:36.960 --> 0:22:39.159
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he knew me from four Collins. They grew up

0:22:39.160 --> 0:22:41.439
<v Speaker 2>in the same neighborhood as me. He was on the

0:22:41.520 --> 0:22:45.560
<v Speaker 2>Barcelona coaching staff. So I got that opportunity to go

0:22:45.560 --> 0:22:47.359
<v Speaker 2>over and play with them, and.

0:22:47.200 --> 0:22:48.480
<v Speaker 1>We lived on the beach.

0:22:48.600 --> 0:22:51.360
<v Speaker 2>Like the owner of the Barcelona Dragons had a hotel

0:22:51.600 --> 0:22:54.720
<v Speaker 2>in this little tiny town called Ciechus outside of Barcelona

0:22:54.840 --> 0:22:57.400
<v Speaker 2>on the beach. We would practice from nine to eleven,

0:22:57.800 --> 0:22:59.919
<v Speaker 2>two hours, and then come back and just go to

0:22:59.920 --> 0:23:03.400
<v Speaker 2>the beach and hang out. And the games were super

0:23:03.400 --> 0:23:06.080
<v Speaker 2>low pressure. There's no the games that you played in

0:23:06.320 --> 0:23:08.760
<v Speaker 2>like Germany and those places, they'd get quite a few people.

0:23:08.760 --> 0:23:11.600
<v Speaker 2>But the Barcelona fans they're soccer people.

0:23:11.760 --> 0:23:12.720
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they would.

0:23:12.520 --> 0:23:14.560
<v Speaker 2>Cheer for both teams, you know, like it was they

0:23:14.560 --> 0:23:16.240
<v Speaker 2>were just there to basically have fun.

0:23:16.320 --> 0:23:17.959
<v Speaker 3>Well that's like even when we go to London now,

0:23:18.000 --> 0:23:20.919
<v Speaker 3>I think it's getting more where people understand what's going on,

0:23:20.960 --> 0:23:23.520
<v Speaker 3>but they'll wear any jersey that they have and they

0:23:23.600 --> 0:23:25.040
<v Speaker 3>just show up and they're just happy to beat a

0:23:25.080 --> 0:23:27.200
<v Speaker 3>football game and they'll cheer for everything.

0:23:27.560 --> 0:23:29.920
<v Speaker 1>Totally. Yeah, And it was so much fun.

0:23:30.080 --> 0:23:32.919
<v Speaker 2>But again I wasn't standing out, you know, like I

0:23:33.040 --> 0:23:36.000
<v Speaker 2>was getting my reps and having fun, but I just

0:23:36.040 --> 0:23:37.520
<v Speaker 2>didn't feel great.

0:23:37.880 --> 0:23:39.359
<v Speaker 1>So I just kind of let that.

0:23:39.359 --> 0:23:42.119
<v Speaker 2>Experience be what it was, kind of knowing it was

0:23:42.160 --> 0:23:45.480
<v Speaker 2>going to be the Swan song to football, which was.

0:23:45.440 --> 0:23:47.280
<v Speaker 1>A great way to go to go out.

0:23:47.400 --> 0:23:49.520
<v Speaker 2>Absolutely yeah, And then I went home and started to

0:23:49.520 --> 0:23:51.480
<v Speaker 2>try to figure out the rest of my life.

0:23:51.680 --> 0:23:53.639
<v Speaker 3>Right, Okay, So then that is, let's say you did

0:23:53.680 --> 0:23:58.520
<v Speaker 3>Barcelona in two thousand. You weren't on the Bachelorette till three.

0:23:58.680 --> 0:24:00.960
<v Speaker 3>So what happens in those couple of years in there?

0:24:00.960 --> 0:24:03.760
<v Speaker 3>Do you start using your degree and doing some things?

0:24:04.000 --> 0:24:07.399
<v Speaker 1>Nope, I've never used my degree. You never have because

0:24:07.800 --> 0:24:08.800
<v Speaker 1>I have a.

0:24:08.720 --> 0:24:12.800
<v Speaker 2>Bachelor's degree in architecture environmental design. In order to practice,

0:24:12.840 --> 0:24:14.159
<v Speaker 2>I was going to have to go back and get

0:24:14.200 --> 0:24:17.800
<v Speaker 2>a master's. I just don't do well. I love drawing

0:24:17.800 --> 0:24:19.560
<v Speaker 2>and I love art, and I love all those things.

0:24:19.600 --> 0:24:21.280
<v Speaker 2>I don't love sitting in an office for.

0:24:21.359 --> 0:24:23.680
<v Speaker 3>You're an adventure outside time. Yeah, I don't see you

0:24:23.720 --> 0:24:24.760
<v Speaker 3>as an office guy. No.

0:24:24.920 --> 0:24:25.920
<v Speaker 2>So I was like, all right, I got to figure

0:24:25.960 --> 0:24:28.119
<v Speaker 2>something else I to do. And I referred back to

0:24:28.200 --> 0:24:31.119
<v Speaker 2>my childhood. I was like, well, I always wanted to

0:24:31.119 --> 0:24:33.760
<v Speaker 2>be a football player. What was after that? It was

0:24:34.000 --> 0:24:36.120
<v Speaker 2>cowboy or firefighter?

0:24:36.240 --> 0:24:38.480
<v Speaker 4>So not a lot of money being a cowboy.

0:24:38.560 --> 0:24:40.560
<v Speaker 2>I didn't know how to get started in that. So

0:24:40.920 --> 0:24:42.919
<v Speaker 2>didn't have a horse, no, didn't have a truck.

0:24:43.000 --> 0:24:43.320
<v Speaker 1>Nothing.

0:24:43.480 --> 0:24:49.840
<v Speaker 2>So my junior high geometry teacher, her husband was the

0:24:49.840 --> 0:24:52.199
<v Speaker 2>fire chief in Fort Collins at the time, so I

0:24:52.240 --> 0:24:55.000
<v Speaker 2>went and talked to him. He suggested going and getting

0:24:55.000 --> 0:24:57.400
<v Speaker 2>my EMT because that's a large component of what we do.

0:24:57.840 --> 0:25:00.639
<v Speaker 2>If I enjoyed that, then to take the next steps

0:25:00.640 --> 0:25:04.320
<v Speaker 2>and just applying to fire departments. So I went to Pitkin,

0:25:04.440 --> 0:25:07.239
<v Speaker 2>Colorado as part of a Knowles program and did a

0:25:07.240 --> 0:25:10.560
<v Speaker 2>month log intensive like EMT, but also wilderness EMT.

0:25:10.720 --> 0:25:12.399
<v Speaker 1>So it's kind of cool. You got both sides of

0:25:12.400 --> 0:25:14.000
<v Speaker 1>it nice. I loved it.

0:25:14.320 --> 0:25:17.880
<v Speaker 2>My instructor was a former military PJ was super cool guy,

0:25:18.000 --> 0:25:18.880
<v Speaker 2>and I just loved it.

0:25:18.960 --> 0:25:19.720
<v Speaker 1>I moved to Vail.

0:25:20.080 --> 0:25:22.440
<v Speaker 2>I had a buddy there, so I did the sort

0:25:22.480 --> 0:25:25.399
<v Speaker 2>of typical sleep on a couch, lived in Veil ski

0:25:25.440 --> 0:25:29.120
<v Speaker 2>bum waited tables at the Red Lion, and then found

0:25:29.160 --> 0:25:32.240
<v Speaker 2>out about Veil Fire Department's residence program. One of the

0:25:32.240 --> 0:25:35.000
<v Speaker 2>bouncers at the Red Lion was a Veil Fire resident,

0:25:35.040 --> 0:25:37.600
<v Speaker 2>which is like a part time firefighters.

0:25:37.760 --> 0:25:38.760
<v Speaker 1>You're kind of like.

0:25:38.720 --> 0:25:40.600
<v Speaker 4>Learning and training kind of thing.

0:25:40.800 --> 0:25:43.560
<v Speaker 1>Okay, so I signed up and got that position.

0:25:44.119 --> 0:25:46.639
<v Speaker 2>A year later, I got hired on full time there

0:25:47.040 --> 0:25:48.960
<v Speaker 2>and that started my fire service career.

0:25:49.080 --> 0:25:51.600
<v Speaker 3>Okay, so you've been doing that for a long time now,

0:25:51.600 --> 0:25:52.960
<v Speaker 3>you're almost at twenty five years.

0:25:53.160 --> 0:25:56.200
<v Speaker 2>Twenty five years, yeah, yeah, yeah, it's been the perfect

0:25:56.520 --> 0:26:00.200
<v Speaker 2>career for me. Is it's very similar in cold sure

0:26:00.280 --> 0:26:03.359
<v Speaker 2>to sports and also in expectation. You know, you have

0:26:03.400 --> 0:26:05.320
<v Speaker 2>to keep yourself physically fit for the most part. A

0:26:05.359 --> 0:26:07.720
<v Speaker 2>lot of guys kind of avoid that somehow, but most

0:26:07.760 --> 0:26:11.640
<v Speaker 2>guys don't. You know, there's that team camaraderie, you're depending

0:26:11.680 --> 0:26:13.600
<v Speaker 2>on each other, you have a role to play, and

0:26:14.760 --> 0:26:19.600
<v Speaker 2>there's leadership opportunities and it's very similar feel to athletics.

0:26:19.680 --> 0:26:20.800
<v Speaker 1>Yes, so it just was easy.

0:26:20.880 --> 0:26:24.480
<v Speaker 3>Amazing to me how many former professional football players have

0:26:24.560 --> 0:26:26.600
<v Speaker 3>become firefighters. I mean, I've talked to a lot of

0:26:26.600 --> 0:26:29.199
<v Speaker 3>them on this podcast and they bring that up a

0:26:29.240 --> 0:26:32.239
<v Speaker 3>lot about then the firehouse is a locker room with

0:26:32.280 --> 0:26:34.359
<v Speaker 3>your brothers and sisters, and it's it's like that. But

0:26:34.440 --> 0:26:37.440
<v Speaker 3>also Chase Vaughn said, you know, there's there's nothing else

0:26:37.440 --> 0:26:39.600
<v Speaker 3>that gives me that rush of going on a field

0:26:39.760 --> 0:26:42.200
<v Speaker 3>like I do going on a call. Yeah, and there's

0:26:42.200 --> 0:26:44.520
<v Speaker 3>something to that, I think where that's the one thing

0:26:44.520 --> 0:26:47.920
<v Speaker 3>that professional athletes will miss so much, is that that rush,

0:26:47.960 --> 0:26:50.239
<v Speaker 3>that high you get from playing, and it's hard to

0:26:50.280 --> 0:26:51.480
<v Speaker 3>get that anywhere else.

0:26:51.680 --> 0:26:54.240
<v Speaker 1>It's illegal. In most places, it is illegal. Yeah, you

0:26:54.280 --> 0:26:56.159
<v Speaker 1>will get arrested if you try out water so that.

0:26:56.160 --> 0:26:57.800
<v Speaker 3>He's like, I can't just walk down the street hit

0:26:57.840 --> 0:26:59.200
<v Speaker 3>people like I can't on the field.

0:26:59.280 --> 0:26:59.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:27:00.440 --> 0:27:03.520
<v Speaker 2>So so yes, I mean it was it was another

0:27:03.560 --> 0:27:05.800
<v Speaker 2>fertuitous opportunity for me. This sort of the way it

0:27:05.840 --> 0:27:08.080
<v Speaker 2>all worked out, and then I really found a home

0:27:08.240 --> 0:27:10.760
<v Speaker 2>in the fire service and still doing it at least

0:27:10.760 --> 0:27:11.480
<v Speaker 2>for a few more years.

0:27:11.560 --> 0:27:12.560
<v Speaker 4>That's great. I love it.

0:27:12.600 --> 0:27:15.240
<v Speaker 3>Okay, So then what prompts you after a couple of

0:27:15.320 --> 0:27:18.920
<v Speaker 3>years of doing that to then become a contestant on

0:27:19.080 --> 0:27:21.080
<v Speaker 3>the very first Bachelorette?

0:27:21.760 --> 0:27:22.879
<v Speaker 1>I get that question a lot of it.

0:27:22.960 --> 0:27:24.920
<v Speaker 4>I bet you do. Yeah.

0:27:25.080 --> 0:27:28.040
<v Speaker 1>So going back to college, I lived with a young

0:27:28.080 --> 0:27:31.720
<v Speaker 1>man named Tim Willison who met a girl I don't

0:27:31.720 --> 0:27:36.360
<v Speaker 1>know what her name before marriage whatever that like, what

0:27:36.480 --> 0:27:39.720
<v Speaker 1>is wor this is my fifty one year old brain stroke.

0:27:39.920 --> 0:27:40.800
<v Speaker 4>That's okay, I got you.

0:27:41.520 --> 0:27:43.639
<v Speaker 2>Her name was Heather and she was on a different

0:27:43.680 --> 0:27:49.080
<v Speaker 2>reality show but had the same casting producers as the Bachelorette.

0:27:49.119 --> 0:27:50.160
<v Speaker 1>So the casting.

0:27:49.840 --> 0:27:52.320
<v Speaker 2>Producers went to her and asked her if she knew

0:27:52.320 --> 0:27:54.040
<v Speaker 2>any guys that might be interested in the show.

0:27:54.280 --> 0:27:55.120
<v Speaker 1>Trista was going to.

0:27:55.040 --> 0:27:58.199
<v Speaker 2>Be the first Bachelorette, so the Bachelorette was new and

0:27:58.240 --> 0:27:59.800
<v Speaker 2>they needed to find guys to be on it. So

0:27:59.840 --> 0:28:03.320
<v Speaker 2>she signed myself and a couple other guys who had

0:28:03.320 --> 0:28:06.960
<v Speaker 2>lived with Tim in college up. She's like, hey, Tim's

0:28:07.000 --> 0:28:08.000
<v Speaker 2>got these roommates.

0:28:08.200 --> 0:28:09.479
<v Speaker 4>Did you know she signed you up?

0:28:10.960 --> 0:28:14.879
<v Speaker 1>Not immediately? No, And we got a call from the casting.

0:28:14.920 --> 0:28:18.800
<v Speaker 2>We all got calls from the casting producer Heather suggested,

0:28:18.840 --> 0:28:20.320
<v Speaker 2>you might be interested in this, and I.

0:28:20.240 --> 0:28:23.080
<v Speaker 1>Was like, no, thanks. They had not not for me.

0:28:24.000 --> 0:28:26.800
<v Speaker 2>This was at the time of like Temptation Island and

0:28:26.840 --> 0:28:29.920
<v Speaker 2>all these sorts of weird reality shows for and I

0:28:30.000 --> 0:28:34.359
<v Speaker 2>know who I am as a person, and I said, listen,

0:28:34.480 --> 0:28:37.159
<v Speaker 2>like I am zero entertainment.

0:28:36.680 --> 0:28:38.200
<v Speaker 1>Like I don't have I'm the people.

0:28:38.280 --> 0:28:39.720
<v Speaker 2>I'm the guy that There was a girl that I

0:28:39.800 --> 0:28:42.080
<v Speaker 2>knew in college who I was friends with, still friends with.

0:28:42.200 --> 0:28:44.720
<v Speaker 1>Oh actually, Rachel walkle Or. She just got inducted into

0:28:44.760 --> 0:28:45.760
<v Speaker 1>the CU Hall of Fame.

0:28:45.840 --> 0:28:46.600
<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah.

0:28:46.680 --> 0:28:48.120
<v Speaker 1>She would call and talk to me.

0:28:48.160 --> 0:28:52.160
<v Speaker 2>She graduated an early year earlier because my voice would

0:28:52.160 --> 0:28:53.640
<v Speaker 2>make her sleepy and she could go to bed.

0:28:54.120 --> 0:28:57.760
<v Speaker 1>So like that's that's like the the.

0:28:57.800 --> 0:28:59.600
<v Speaker 4>Role I played for the Super Calm.

0:28:59.640 --> 0:29:02.000
<v Speaker 1>Like yeah, yeah, so I'm like this and this like

0:29:02.440 --> 0:29:03.040
<v Speaker 1>trust me.

0:29:03.320 --> 0:29:06.040
<v Speaker 4>TV doesn't want me. Reality TV does not want.

0:29:05.880 --> 0:29:08.320
<v Speaker 2>Me, which I don't know if that was like challenging

0:29:08.360 --> 0:29:10.000
<v Speaker 2>to them, and they're like, oh, well, come on, just

0:29:10.560 --> 0:29:13.920
<v Speaker 2>fill out the application. Okay, how about we fly you

0:29:13.960 --> 0:29:17.880
<v Speaker 2>out here, just go through the interview process. Fine, So

0:29:18.320 --> 0:29:21.920
<v Speaker 2>as bad as I am at television. I'm equally bad

0:29:22.000 --> 0:29:25.440
<v Speaker 2>still at saying no to people. Like Trista would always

0:29:25.480 --> 0:29:28.160
<v Speaker 2>be We'll walk down the sixteen Street mall or something,

0:29:28.200 --> 0:29:30.840
<v Speaker 2>and obviously there's lots of homeless people down there, and

0:29:30.880 --> 0:29:32.400
<v Speaker 2>she's like, don't look at them. Don't look at them,

0:29:32.480 --> 0:29:34.680
<v Speaker 2>because I'll look at him and they'll be.

0:29:34.640 --> 0:29:36.680
<v Speaker 1>Like, sir, is there anything you can Okay, fine, you're

0:29:36.680 --> 0:29:38.840
<v Speaker 1>emptying out your Yeah.

0:29:39.000 --> 0:29:40.760
<v Speaker 2>So I'm just bad at that stuff, and so I

0:29:40.840 --> 0:29:42.880
<v Speaker 2>just kept saying, fine, okay.

0:29:42.720 --> 0:29:44.400
<v Speaker 4>Is that why you finally came on this podcast?

0:29:44.720 --> 0:29:44.920
<v Speaker 1>Yes?

0:29:45.120 --> 0:29:49.400
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, just stop texting me if I just say yes.

0:29:50.320 --> 0:29:53.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so that's it, Okay, why don't you just come

0:29:53.600 --> 0:29:54.960
<v Speaker 2>out for the first day whatever.

0:29:55.040 --> 0:29:56.360
<v Speaker 1>So I asked for a week off.

0:29:56.160 --> 0:29:58.840
<v Speaker 2>Of work, show up for the first day, and ended

0:29:58.920 --> 0:30:01.400
<v Speaker 2>up being there for I continually had to call the

0:30:01.400 --> 0:30:04.520
<v Speaker 2>fire chief back, Hey, I might need one more week here.

0:30:04.560 --> 0:30:06.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm still on the show, believe it or not.

0:30:06.480 --> 0:30:09.960
<v Speaker 2>I remember seeing like Jamie blythe who is like a

0:30:10.080 --> 0:30:12.480
<v Speaker 2>Kendall replica, and I'm.

0:30:12.360 --> 0:30:13.600
<v Speaker 1>Like, what am I doing here?

0:30:13.640 --> 0:30:18.320
<v Speaker 2>Like this is these guys are all like boisterous personalities

0:30:18.360 --> 0:30:21.760
<v Speaker 2>and like Bob Guiney who ended up being a bachelor

0:30:22.080 --> 0:30:24.440
<v Speaker 2>it's like funny and he can sing and all these

0:30:24.480 --> 0:30:25.240
<v Speaker 2>sorts of things.

0:30:25.440 --> 0:30:28.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, this is am I so dumb, So I

0:30:28.320 --> 0:30:30.000
<v Speaker 1>write a poem of all things.

0:30:30.280 --> 0:30:32.680
<v Speaker 4>You're very good at poetry, though you write poems a lot.

0:30:32.800 --> 0:30:35.560
<v Speaker 2>I've gotten back into it. Actually took a break. I've

0:30:35.600 --> 0:30:37.720
<v Speaker 2>just needed to creative outlets. I've gotten back into it.

0:30:37.960 --> 0:30:39.680
<v Speaker 4>I wrote a very nice one you did for Tristan

0:30:39.760 --> 0:30:40.280
<v Speaker 4>her birthday.

0:30:40.720 --> 0:30:41.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, just wrote that one.

0:30:41.760 --> 0:30:42.960
<v Speaker 4>Yes, Yeah, that was very nice.

0:30:43.080 --> 0:30:45.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So I've enjoyed getting back into that.

0:30:45.240 --> 0:30:48.360
<v Speaker 2>But I wrote her a poem and gave it to her,

0:30:48.400 --> 0:30:51.200
<v Speaker 2>and I guess it worked because she kept me around

0:30:51.400 --> 0:30:53.960
<v Speaker 2>and so I was like, oh, the poem thing seems

0:30:54.000 --> 0:30:56.160
<v Speaker 2>to be working. So I kind of kept that theme

0:30:56.200 --> 0:30:58.120
<v Speaker 2>going throughout the show and.

0:30:58.240 --> 0:30:58.760
<v Speaker 1>Here we are.

0:30:58.880 --> 0:31:02.000
<v Speaker 3>Did you have any idea as everything kind of progressed?

0:31:02.480 --> 0:31:05.400
<v Speaker 3>Was it just surprising to you that you kept being

0:31:05.440 --> 0:31:07.760
<v Speaker 3>one that would stay around with each round?

0:31:08.040 --> 0:31:08.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

0:31:08.760 --> 0:31:11.400
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, especially at the beginning, just because there were so many,

0:31:11.800 --> 0:31:14.880
<v Speaker 2>so many really good guys, Like it's different now than

0:31:14.960 --> 0:31:16.200
<v Speaker 2>it was then, and people.

0:31:16.000 --> 0:31:17.920
<v Speaker 1>I think have a hard time understanding. All of the

0:31:17.920 --> 0:31:20.400
<v Speaker 1>guys got along really well. They were all awesome.

0:31:20.440 --> 0:31:22.600
<v Speaker 2>There were a couple of their firemen on there and

0:31:22.640 --> 0:31:27.760
<v Speaker 2>some athletes, and it was like frat house atmosphere to

0:31:27.800 --> 0:31:30.400
<v Speaker 2>the point where you see it now where men or

0:31:30.400 --> 0:31:32.920
<v Speaker 2>women don't get invited on the individual date and they're like, oh,

0:31:32.960 --> 0:31:37.160
<v Speaker 2>I really wanted this opportunity. We would get invited on

0:31:37.200 --> 0:31:38.440
<v Speaker 2>the individual date and be like a.

0:31:40.280 --> 0:31:41.120
<v Speaker 4>Hang out with the guys.

0:31:41.200 --> 0:31:42.960
<v Speaker 1>I'll be back, so you guys, just keep my drink

0:31:43.000 --> 0:31:45.960
<v Speaker 1>cold or whatever. Like on the one hand, it was great,

0:31:45.960 --> 0:31:48.120
<v Speaker 1>you're getting to know Trista and that's like was kind

0:31:48.120 --> 0:31:49.400
<v Speaker 1>of the point. But on the other hand, you're like,

0:31:49.520 --> 0:31:51.080
<v Speaker 1>it's way more fun just hanging out.

0:31:50.920 --> 0:31:54.000
<v Speaker 2>With these guys until you obviously gets to the point

0:31:54.000 --> 0:31:55.840
<v Speaker 2>where in my case, like I really did get to

0:31:55.880 --> 0:31:58.240
<v Speaker 2>know Trista and I was like, I can't really like her,

0:31:58.320 --> 0:32:01.400
<v Speaker 2>and then the sort of the whole thing changes. But

0:32:01.440 --> 0:32:04.360
<v Speaker 2>by then most of the other guys are gone anyways,

0:32:04.720 --> 0:32:05.600
<v Speaker 2>and you're like.

0:32:05.560 --> 0:32:06.440
<v Speaker 1>The focus shifts.

0:32:06.440 --> 0:32:11.080
<v Speaker 2>But yeah, it was an interesting kind of experience that

0:32:11.120 --> 0:32:15.320
<v Speaker 2>I don't know exactly how or why it happened.

0:32:15.400 --> 0:32:17.959
<v Speaker 3>I know, because you don't seem like the guy that

0:32:18.040 --> 0:32:21.960
<v Speaker 3>would want that attention look for that kind of an opportunity,

0:32:21.960 --> 0:32:24.680
<v Speaker 3>Like there's I mean, it was just it just happened,

0:32:24.840 --> 0:32:28.000
<v Speaker 3>which is probably why you guys have survived this whole

0:32:28.000 --> 0:32:30.080
<v Speaker 3>time and why maybe it was because it was way

0:32:30.120 --> 0:32:33.120
<v Speaker 3>more organic than what a lot of reality TV is.

0:32:33.480 --> 0:32:34.960
<v Speaker 1>It is for sure why it happened.

0:32:34.960 --> 0:32:37.320
<v Speaker 2>I attribute a lot of why she picked me to

0:32:37.400 --> 0:32:39.640
<v Speaker 2>that because I just didn't know anything about the show.

0:32:39.720 --> 0:32:41.720
<v Speaker 1>I just was kind of there.

0:32:41.840 --> 0:32:44.440
<v Speaker 2>I think she could pick up on my level of

0:32:44.800 --> 0:32:47.360
<v Speaker 2>discomfort and that sort of stuff in a way.

0:32:47.440 --> 0:32:48.479
<v Speaker 1>She kind of helped me through that.

0:32:48.560 --> 0:32:52.320
<v Speaker 2>And then for her, she really wasn't looking to be famous.

0:32:52.400 --> 0:32:55.600
<v Speaker 2>She I mean, she moved to Vale. She was living

0:32:55.640 --> 0:32:57.640
<v Speaker 2>in at the time Los Angeles, but prior to that

0:32:57.720 --> 0:33:00.480
<v Speaker 2>Miami she loves warm, midweather.

0:33:00.680 --> 0:33:04.520
<v Speaker 1>She moved cold, dry veil, small community.

0:33:04.640 --> 0:33:08.560
<v Speaker 2>She likes more culture and everything the Veil isn't She

0:33:09.840 --> 0:33:13.040
<v Speaker 2>accepted just because she wanted to be a wife and

0:33:13.080 --> 0:33:15.680
<v Speaker 2>a mom and like she legitimately wanted to.

0:33:15.640 --> 0:33:16.840
<v Speaker 1>Start that part of her life.

0:33:17.000 --> 0:33:17.640
<v Speaker 4>That says a lot.

0:33:17.840 --> 0:33:21.080
<v Speaker 1>That's why. I mean, that's like when you're not when your.

0:33:20.960 --> 0:33:23.640
<v Speaker 2>Focus isn't you know, trying. And at the time, and

0:33:23.720 --> 0:33:26.080
<v Speaker 2>we were we were young, and there was I think my.

0:33:26.200 --> 0:33:29.560
<v Speaker 1>Space was the there was no media.

0:33:29.640 --> 0:33:32.040
<v Speaker 2>And it was all chat boards and stuff like that.

0:33:32.200 --> 0:33:35.280
<v Speaker 2>So I just had this conversation with our kids at

0:33:35.320 --> 0:33:37.240
<v Speaker 2>dinner for Christa's birthday because we're going to do a

0:33:37.280 --> 0:33:40.360
<v Speaker 2>People magazine shoot coming up, which we haven't done for

0:33:40.440 --> 0:33:40.880
<v Speaker 2>a while.

0:33:40.960 --> 0:33:45.000
<v Speaker 1>But like, yeah, like in the old days, this is

0:33:45.040 --> 0:33:46.240
<v Speaker 1>how you got sort.

0:33:46.040 --> 0:33:47.800
<v Speaker 4>Of that's how people knew about you.

0:33:47.920 --> 0:33:50.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like they read about this stuff, like you couldn't

0:33:50.160 --> 0:33:54.400
<v Speaker 2>just post something instantly and whether when you were hired

0:33:54.440 --> 0:33:56.480
<v Speaker 2>to do campaigns, people wanted you to try to get

0:33:56.480 --> 0:33:58.840
<v Speaker 2>in these magazines and things, and so.

0:33:58.760 --> 0:34:00.480
<v Speaker 1>We did a lot of that. We didn't get a

0:34:00.520 --> 0:34:01.920
<v Speaker 1>lot of opportunity.

0:34:01.320 --> 0:34:03.840
<v Speaker 2>To do social media stuff, which I think turned out

0:34:03.840 --> 0:34:05.880
<v Speaker 2>to be a real blessing, Yeah.

0:34:05.680 --> 0:34:08.880
<v Speaker 3>Because you see so many of them now where things

0:34:08.880 --> 0:34:11.319
<v Speaker 3>happen on social media and it just blows up the

0:34:11.400 --> 0:34:13.960
<v Speaker 3>show or a person's you know, something that happened with

0:34:14.000 --> 0:34:15.960
<v Speaker 3>that person, and you guys didn't have to deal with

0:34:16.000 --> 0:34:17.479
<v Speaker 3>any of that, which is good.

0:34:17.640 --> 0:34:19.680
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, And then you know the other side is

0:34:19.680 --> 0:34:22.560
<v Speaker 2>you don't get the opportunity because I think the question

0:34:22.719 --> 0:34:25.200
<v Speaker 2>was like my daughter was like, Mom, do you think

0:34:25.200 --> 0:34:27.680
<v Speaker 2>he would be a lot more rich if I would

0:34:27.719 --> 0:34:30.759
<v Speaker 2>have been born a boy than a girl, because you know,

0:34:30.840 --> 0:34:33.520
<v Speaker 2>I have all these clothes and stuff, and we're like, oh, yeah,

0:34:33.520 --> 0:34:35.440
<v Speaker 2>we would be like way more.

0:34:36.239 --> 0:34:38.040
<v Speaker 4>If they didn't do dance and didn't have to buy

0:34:38.080 --> 0:34:39.839
<v Speaker 4>you all your clothes. We'd have a pay raise.

0:34:39.960 --> 0:34:42.960
<v Speaker 2>Yes, we'd have a bigger house, like daughter, mostly all

0:34:42.960 --> 0:34:46.400
<v Speaker 2>your fault. No, it turned into like, you know, honestly,

0:34:46.480 --> 0:34:48.440
<v Speaker 2>like people are making a lot more money off of

0:34:48.719 --> 0:34:52.800
<v Speaker 2>reality shows now because of the social media component. However,

0:34:53.760 --> 0:34:57.400
<v Speaker 2>like you might not even exist had social media been

0:34:57.440 --> 0:34:58.799
<v Speaker 2>a part of it, because who knows if we would

0:34:58.800 --> 0:34:59.680
<v Speaker 2>have survived that whole.

0:34:59.760 --> 0:35:00.880
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's a double edged sword.

0:35:01.000 --> 0:35:05.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it really will take this life over any alternative.

0:35:05.560 --> 0:35:05.880
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

0:35:05.920 --> 0:35:08.399
<v Speaker 3>So when you are chosen in two thousand and three,

0:35:08.520 --> 0:35:10.160
<v Speaker 3>you guys have a big wedding at the end of

0:35:10.160 --> 0:35:12.959
<v Speaker 3>that year that becomes a three part series on TV.

0:35:13.160 --> 0:35:16.040
<v Speaker 3>I mean again, that's not your style, Ryan, So how

0:35:16.040 --> 0:35:18.480
<v Speaker 3>do you deal with that and go, Okay, here we

0:35:18.520 --> 0:35:21.879
<v Speaker 3>go three part series on Trista and Ryan's wedding.

0:35:22.120 --> 0:35:22.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:35:22.520 --> 0:35:24.960
<v Speaker 2>I lean on Trista a lot for this sort of stuff.

0:35:25.000 --> 0:35:28.759
<v Speaker 2>She's really good at it. Yeah, And ultimately we had

0:35:28.760 --> 0:35:31.680
<v Speaker 2>the opportunity to do it, and there was a part

0:35:31.719 --> 0:35:34.640
<v Speaker 2>of us that just wanted to say, you know, no,

0:35:34.800 --> 0:35:38.600
<v Speaker 2>let's just do a traditional thing, but they offered us

0:35:38.600 --> 0:35:41.000
<v Speaker 2>a million dollars, which to us still is a lot

0:35:41.000 --> 0:35:41.520
<v Speaker 2>of money, but.

0:35:41.520 --> 0:35:43.320
<v Speaker 1>Even in two thousand and three, Yeah, it was a

0:35:43.360 --> 0:35:43.839
<v Speaker 1>lot of money.

0:35:43.920 --> 0:35:46.879
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, in your twenties, we're like, hey, we can buy

0:35:46.920 --> 0:35:49.080
<v Speaker 2>a house with This is going to make a big difference.

0:35:49.800 --> 0:35:51.360
<v Speaker 2>All of our friends are going to be able to

0:35:51.400 --> 0:35:53.440
<v Speaker 2>go and they're going to stay at this really cool resort,

0:35:53.520 --> 0:35:58.120
<v Speaker 2>and why don't we just embrace the craziness and enjoy it.

0:35:58.239 --> 0:36:00.600
<v Speaker 2>And then a year later we went on a trip

0:36:00.600 --> 0:36:05.239
<v Speaker 2>to South Africa and renewed our vows on our first

0:36:05.280 --> 0:36:08.359
<v Speaker 2>year anniversary with like a tribal priest guy.

0:36:08.520 --> 0:36:11.080
<v Speaker 1>It was just us and some like hippos, you know.

0:36:11.120 --> 0:36:13.480
<v Speaker 4>So perfect we figured in the style.

0:36:13.600 --> 0:36:14.719
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so we got it.

0:36:14.760 --> 0:36:17.160
<v Speaker 2>We got it right, Like if you just took the

0:36:17.160 --> 0:36:19.040
<v Speaker 2>two and blended them together, we got it right. So

0:36:19.320 --> 0:36:21.560
<v Speaker 2>we were able to take advantage of that, again, really

0:36:21.920 --> 0:36:24.799
<v Speaker 2>unique opportunity. I think everyone had a blast at our

0:36:24.840 --> 0:36:27.800
<v Speaker 2>wedding and we have really fond memories of it because

0:36:27.840 --> 0:36:30.799
<v Speaker 2>we didn't let it become like this big, high pressure thing,

0:36:31.040 --> 0:36:35.000
<v Speaker 2>and it gave us this opportunity to get our life started.

0:36:35.680 --> 0:36:36.399
<v Speaker 4>That's pretty cool.

0:36:36.960 --> 0:36:38.600
<v Speaker 3>And I bet you there's not a lot of people

0:36:38.600 --> 0:36:40.800
<v Speaker 3>that would say, now, I'd turn that down, no way.

0:36:41.080 --> 0:36:43.080
<v Speaker 1>No, Yeah, I think it was the.

0:36:43.080 --> 0:36:44.880
<v Speaker 4>Right absolutely, Yeah, okay.

0:36:44.880 --> 0:36:48.360
<v Speaker 3>And then you also were on season nine of American

0:36:48.440 --> 0:36:49.120
<v Speaker 3>Ninja Warrior.

0:36:49.360 --> 0:36:50.520
<v Speaker 4>What made you do that?

0:36:50.760 --> 0:36:52.759
<v Speaker 3>Because again this is not but but then now we're

0:36:52.760 --> 0:36:54.880
<v Speaker 3>talking fitness, it's it's a different gig.

0:36:55.160 --> 0:36:56.719
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Was that the Denver.

0:36:56.480 --> 0:36:58.839
<v Speaker 4>One might have been? Did you do it a couple

0:36:58.840 --> 0:36:59.200
<v Speaker 4>of times?

0:36:59.239 --> 0:36:59.960
<v Speaker 1>I did it three times?

0:37:00.120 --> 0:37:01.200
<v Speaker 4>Oh three? Oh wow?

0:37:01.360 --> 0:37:03.120
<v Speaker 1>Yea, And I never did well on any of them,

0:37:03.200 --> 0:37:06.320
<v Speaker 1>but they surprised. Yeah, well, it's hard.

0:37:06.400 --> 0:37:07.560
<v Speaker 4>The way I got on, no doubt.

0:37:07.640 --> 0:37:08.560
<v Speaker 1>The way I got on it was.

0:37:08.520 --> 0:37:11.000
<v Speaker 2>The people said, hey, we're doing this one in Denver,

0:37:11.040 --> 0:37:12.440
<v Speaker 2>would you like to be a part? And I said, yeah,

0:37:12.440 --> 0:37:14.000
<v Speaker 2>I've always wanted to be a part. Even before it

0:37:14.000 --> 0:37:15.160
<v Speaker 2>was American Ninja Warrior.

0:37:15.200 --> 0:37:17.200
<v Speaker 1>We used to watch the.

0:37:16.680 --> 0:37:19.280
<v Speaker 2>Actual Ninja Warrior or at the Firehouse. So I always

0:37:19.320 --> 0:37:22.160
<v Speaker 2>wondered if I could do it, and I really thought

0:37:22.280 --> 0:37:24.600
<v Speaker 2>like that I could. I practiced it and had the

0:37:24.600 --> 0:37:25.879
<v Speaker 2>whole warped wall thing down.

0:37:26.960 --> 0:37:28.399
<v Speaker 1>But it's hard because.

0:37:28.040 --> 0:37:30.759
<v Speaker 2>It's one it's in the middle of the night and

0:37:30.880 --> 0:37:35.000
<v Speaker 2>two you don't get to try anything. So the first

0:37:35.080 --> 0:37:39.640
<v Speaker 2>few obstacles are pretty straightforward, but then the other ones are, like,

0:37:39.719 --> 0:37:42.280
<v Speaker 2>I went out on a trampoline.

0:37:41.880 --> 0:37:42.279
<v Speaker 1>Like you had.

0:37:42.719 --> 0:37:44.839
<v Speaker 2>You had to kind of hold onto these punching back

0:37:44.880 --> 0:37:46.279
<v Speaker 2>looking things, and you had to jump out of a

0:37:46.320 --> 0:37:48.879
<v Speaker 2>spider wall onto a trampoline and jump onto a punching bag,

0:37:48.880 --> 0:37:51.920
<v Speaker 2>which seems pretty straightforward, but they're like super trampolines and

0:37:51.960 --> 0:37:53.799
<v Speaker 2>they tell you like, there's an X on there and

0:37:53.840 --> 0:37:55.879
<v Speaker 2>you have to land on it just right and don't

0:37:55.920 --> 0:37:58.680
<v Speaker 2>bend your nas So I landed a little bit off

0:37:58.719 --> 0:38:01.560
<v Speaker 2>on it and probably had a knee and it just

0:38:01.960 --> 0:38:03.759
<v Speaker 2>collapses you and then that you.

0:38:03.680 --> 0:38:06.200
<v Speaker 3>Can't go forward. Yeah, and you can't emulate that. You

0:38:06.239 --> 0:38:08.879
<v Speaker 3>can't you know, you can make something like that to practice.

0:38:09.120 --> 0:38:11.800
<v Speaker 2>There's a lot of little subtle things about those courses

0:38:11.880 --> 0:38:14.200
<v Speaker 2>that you probably don't see. You just see people not

0:38:14.320 --> 0:38:16.360
<v Speaker 2>make it, But there's these little things that if you

0:38:16.360 --> 0:38:17.440
<v Speaker 2>could go through it a couple.

0:38:17.320 --> 0:38:19.680
<v Speaker 1>Of times, you'd be like, all right, I got it,

0:38:19.719 --> 0:38:21.360
<v Speaker 1>but you so it's hard.

0:38:21.640 --> 0:38:24.560
<v Speaker 2>It's also an advantage to be someone like a gymnast

0:38:24.640 --> 0:38:26.319
<v Speaker 2>or a rock climber or someone with a really high

0:38:26.320 --> 0:38:29.279
<v Speaker 2>weight to strength ratio, and I have I don't feel

0:38:29.280 --> 0:38:30.920
<v Speaker 2>like I'm not a strong person, but I have a

0:38:30.920 --> 0:38:33.319
<v Speaker 2>pretty high weight part of There's a component there too,

0:38:33.360 --> 0:38:36.640
<v Speaker 2>which made it a little bit more difficult. I don't

0:38:36.680 --> 0:38:39.080
<v Speaker 2>think that's why I went out, but it made it

0:38:39.080 --> 0:38:40.000
<v Speaker 2>a little more difficult.

0:38:40.000 --> 0:38:41.920
<v Speaker 4>So did you do better each time you did it?

0:38:42.040 --> 0:38:44.600
<v Speaker 2>I went out almost exact like second or third, third

0:38:44.680 --> 0:38:46.640
<v Speaker 2>or fourth area every single time.

0:38:46.640 --> 0:38:47.560
<v Speaker 1>It never got to the end.

0:38:47.760 --> 0:38:48.520
<v Speaker 4>Oh interesting.

0:38:48.719 --> 0:38:51.239
<v Speaker 1>It was either on trampoline one time, it was when

0:38:51.320 --> 0:38:51.800
<v Speaker 1>you run.

0:38:51.680 --> 0:38:55.400
<v Speaker 2>Across, like the spinning barrels and stuff.

0:38:55.800 --> 0:38:56.560
<v Speaker 1>That one got me.

0:38:57.200 --> 0:38:59.840
<v Speaker 2>You had to swing and like jump and try to

0:39:00.120 --> 0:39:03.560
<v Speaker 2>rab something and I just missed it. But it always fun,

0:39:03.719 --> 0:39:06.120
<v Speaker 2>really fun, but you just feel I remember the Denver

0:39:06.160 --> 0:39:08.919
<v Speaker 2>one is specifically because my kids were younger at the time.

0:39:08.960 --> 0:39:10.239
<v Speaker 1>I was undefeated on.

0:39:10.239 --> 0:39:13.640
<v Speaker 2>Reality television shows like Had One Bachelorette and Fear Factor.

0:39:13.320 --> 0:39:15.680
<v Speaker 4>And I was like, did Fear Factor too? I knew

0:39:15.680 --> 0:39:17.319
<v Speaker 4>Trista did it. I forgot you did it too.

0:39:17.440 --> 0:39:19.840
<v Speaker 1>Okay, No, she didn't do it. She went with me.

0:39:20.920 --> 0:39:25.720
<v Speaker 1>They convinced her tobout to eat worms as part of it. Okay,

0:39:25.760 --> 0:39:27.240
<v Speaker 1>but she didn't do any of the other stuff.

0:39:27.280 --> 0:39:30.120
<v Speaker 4>Oh you did it? Okay, that was a great show.

0:39:30.200 --> 0:39:30.839
<v Speaker 1>Could have done it.

0:39:30.880 --> 0:39:32.400
<v Speaker 3>My son, we we watched that all the time. He

0:39:32.880 --> 0:39:34.920
<v Speaker 3>loved Joe Rogan just because of Fear Factor.

0:39:35.000 --> 0:39:38.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, bringing it back they are, Yeah with Johnny Knoxville.

0:39:38.880 --> 0:39:40.879
<v Speaker 4>I think it looks would it again?

0:39:41.640 --> 0:39:45.240
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, it looks way worse and i'm i'm's.

0:39:44.760 --> 0:39:46.680
<v Speaker 4>The grossest thing you did when you were on Fear Factor.

0:39:47.239 --> 0:39:48.480
<v Speaker 1>It was the worms thing you had.

0:39:49.680 --> 0:39:52.400
<v Speaker 2>You had to initially pick up a bunch of worms

0:39:52.400 --> 0:39:54.520
<v Speaker 2>with your mouth and throw them into a blender in

0:39:54.640 --> 0:39:57.440
<v Speaker 2>order to get a key out. But at the very end,

0:39:57.440 --> 0:39:59.640
<v Speaker 2>you had to jump into a dumpster full of like

0:40:00.200 --> 0:40:04.880
<v Speaker 2>barn sludge and find a thermos full of more ground

0:40:04.960 --> 0:40:07.560
<v Speaker 2>up worms, pour it into a pint glass, and then

0:40:07.640 --> 0:40:12.000
<v Speaker 2>drink the pint glass, which just like tasted like slimy dirt,

0:40:12.680 --> 0:40:13.080
<v Speaker 2>but it was.

0:40:13.320 --> 0:40:14.040
<v Speaker 1>And that's what they.

0:40:14.000 --> 0:40:17.440
<v Speaker 2>Got trusted at because she specifically said I don't want

0:40:17.480 --> 0:40:18.520
<v Speaker 2>to do the show because I don't.

0:40:18.320 --> 0:40:19.160
<v Speaker 1>Like the gross stuff.

0:40:19.840 --> 0:40:20.520
<v Speaker 4>That's all it is.

0:40:20.560 --> 0:40:23.080
<v Speaker 2>And then Joe Rogan is like, hey, if you drink

0:40:23.080 --> 0:40:25.279
<v Speaker 2>this glass of worms, we'll donate a fifteen hundred dollars

0:40:25.320 --> 0:40:28.920
<v Speaker 2>to your favorite charity, and she's like, how do I like,

0:40:29.040 --> 0:40:30.880
<v Speaker 2>I'm going to become the person that wouldn't drink a

0:40:30.880 --> 0:40:32.160
<v Speaker 2>glass of worms for charity?

0:40:32.719 --> 0:40:38.040
<v Speaker 1>So she did it. I know he got it. But yeah,

0:40:38.040 --> 0:40:38.840
<v Speaker 1>I thought for sure I was.

0:40:38.800 --> 0:40:42.000
<v Speaker 2>Going to do well on Ninja Warrior and then I

0:40:42.160 --> 0:40:45.040
<v Speaker 2>missed the whatever and fell into the water, and I

0:40:45.160 --> 0:40:47.120
<v Speaker 2>just look over at my kids and they're like, like

0:40:47.160 --> 0:40:48.520
<v Speaker 2>the disappointment on their face?

0:40:49.560 --> 0:40:53.200
<v Speaker 1>Anything right, I let them down? Yeah?

0:40:53.239 --> 0:40:55.160
<v Speaker 4>And then you guys are are you guys doing something

0:40:55.280 --> 0:40:59.000
<v Speaker 4>with the cruise? With the Bachelorette cruise apparently yep?

0:40:59.120 --> 0:41:00.640
<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah we're going.

0:41:00.480 --> 0:41:02.680
<v Speaker 4>I mean ends up showing Oh you're going on it.

0:41:02.800 --> 0:41:03.440
<v Speaker 4>She shows up.

0:41:03.480 --> 0:41:06.000
<v Speaker 3>You know, she's been on the either Golden she was

0:41:06.040 --> 0:41:09.880
<v Speaker 3>on Golden Bachelor I think, or Bachelorette one of them. Yeah,

0:41:09.920 --> 0:41:12.480
<v Speaker 3>so there's those appearances. But okay, you guys are involved

0:41:12.520 --> 0:41:14.759
<v Speaker 3>with the cruise. You're going on the cruise.

0:41:14.640 --> 0:41:16.719
<v Speaker 1>Going on the cruise. Yeah, it's not for a year,

0:41:16.920 --> 0:41:18.400
<v Speaker 1>so okay, what happens in a year.

0:41:18.480 --> 0:41:21.640
<v Speaker 2>Lots can happen in a year, but right now we're

0:41:21.680 --> 0:41:22.400
<v Speaker 2>on it.

0:41:23.000 --> 0:41:24.520
<v Speaker 4>Wow, how do you feel about that? About?

0:41:24.719 --> 0:41:25.920
<v Speaker 1>Also not my favorite thing?

0:41:26.200 --> 0:41:29.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but I mean my wife and I have this

0:41:29.480 --> 0:41:32.239
<v Speaker 2>conversation all the time, like I probably need to get

0:41:32.239 --> 0:41:35.480
<v Speaker 2>out and do more things like that, and she is

0:41:35.520 --> 0:41:37.280
<v Speaker 2>good at reminding me of that kind of stuff.

0:41:37.320 --> 0:41:39.080
<v Speaker 1>So and I always have a good time.

0:41:39.520 --> 0:41:43.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's just my tendency is to avoid that stuff.

0:41:43.880 --> 0:41:46.160
<v Speaker 2>And then when I saw like Bob and some of

0:41:46.200 --> 0:41:49.520
<v Speaker 2>the people that I know from the show who I've

0:41:49.560 --> 0:41:52.680
<v Speaker 2>spent time with and enjoy. So the problem is I

0:41:52.680 --> 0:41:55.279
<v Speaker 2>don't know most of the people anymore from this.

0:41:55.280 --> 0:41:58.400
<v Speaker 3>It's not like you're watching it every season, right, Yeah, yea.

0:41:58.360 --> 0:42:00.440
<v Speaker 2>So it's just I may as well just be going

0:42:00.480 --> 0:42:02.319
<v Speaker 2>and hanging out with a bunch of strangers. And but

0:42:02.360 --> 0:42:05.680
<v Speaker 2>then there's all these other responsibilities you have, Like if

0:42:05.680 --> 0:42:08.000
<v Speaker 2>you're gonna just go on a regular cruise, fine, but

0:42:08.760 --> 0:42:11.279
<v Speaker 2>then you have to do all this stuff, right, and

0:42:11.320 --> 0:42:12.680
<v Speaker 2>then there's a.

0:42:12.600 --> 0:42:14.279
<v Speaker 4>Lot Jesse, he's gonna come knocking on your door.

0:42:14.360 --> 0:42:16.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, there's a lot of superficiality to it all.

0:42:16.640 --> 0:42:19.520
<v Speaker 2>And I'm not I'm not good at that stuff, and

0:42:19.560 --> 0:42:23.080
<v Speaker 2>so and it's exhausting for me, Like I think, you know,

0:42:23.200 --> 0:42:24.680
<v Speaker 2>you know, there's two kinds of people, and I'm the

0:42:24.760 --> 0:42:29.000
<v Speaker 2>kind that I can go through those social experiences, but

0:42:29.040 --> 0:42:31.399
<v Speaker 2>it exhausts me. And trist is the kind of person

0:42:31.440 --> 0:42:33.440
<v Speaker 2>where she shows up there and it's like someone plugs

0:42:33.840 --> 0:42:35.719
<v Speaker 2>like just plugged the electricity into her, and.

0:42:35.680 --> 0:42:36.760
<v Speaker 4>She's like she thrives.

0:42:36.920 --> 0:42:37.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:42:37.320 --> 0:42:41.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So we're a good balance in that reguard. But

0:42:41.480 --> 0:42:42.840
<v Speaker 2>and that's why I say I lean on her a

0:42:42.920 --> 0:42:44.399
<v Speaker 2>lot for that.

0:42:44.560 --> 0:42:46.200
<v Speaker 3>She can help bring you in, you can help bring

0:42:46.200 --> 0:42:48.319
<v Speaker 3>her back, right, Yes, you do end up doing that

0:42:48.480 --> 0:42:48.799
<v Speaker 3>a lot.

0:42:48.960 --> 0:42:49.640
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I try.

0:42:49.880 --> 0:42:52.479
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean, well, yeah, you're you're probably not telling

0:42:52.480 --> 0:42:53.560
<v Speaker 3>her a whole lot of what to do.

0:42:54.960 --> 0:42:56.920
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, she's kind of her own person.

0:42:57.719 --> 0:42:58.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. All right.

0:42:58.440 --> 0:43:00.800
<v Speaker 3>So you guys have the two kids junior and senior

0:43:00.800 --> 0:43:04.520
<v Speaker 3>in high school, and you moved recently from Vale down

0:43:04.600 --> 0:43:07.440
<v Speaker 3>to the metro city and now you're a Denver firefighter.

0:43:07.480 --> 0:43:09.839
<v Speaker 4>What came with the move to come down?

0:43:09.960 --> 0:43:12.680
<v Speaker 2>Well, I started with Denver almost six years ago, so

0:43:12.920 --> 0:43:13.680
<v Speaker 2>I was commuting.

0:43:13.760 --> 0:43:15.040
<v Speaker 1>Oh so that was rough.

0:43:15.200 --> 0:43:18.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, my folks are down here in South Denver and

0:43:18.760 --> 0:43:20.439
<v Speaker 2>you know, they're older and you want to be close

0:43:20.480 --> 0:43:20.799
<v Speaker 2>to them.

0:43:21.000 --> 0:43:23.319
<v Speaker 1>And honestly it was our son, Max is.

0:43:23.280 --> 0:43:26.360
<v Speaker 2>A hockey player, and he just felt like he wanted

0:43:26.400 --> 0:43:30.120
<v Speaker 2>to be challenged more both academically and physically. So one

0:43:30.120 --> 0:43:33.440
<v Speaker 2>of his buddies had taken a tour at Valor and

0:43:33.480 --> 0:43:36.080
<v Speaker 2>spoke highly of it, so he convinced Tristi to sign up,

0:43:36.200 --> 0:43:38.600
<v Speaker 2>and she did and they went down and again I

0:43:38.640 --> 0:43:40.719
<v Speaker 2>was thinking, like, you know, this is good. We'll give

0:43:40.760 --> 0:43:43.040
<v Speaker 2>him a chance to see it, and we're never going

0:43:43.120 --> 0:43:45.279
<v Speaker 2>to leave. Well, Trista came back and she's like, that

0:43:45.320 --> 0:43:48.080
<v Speaker 2>place was really pretty nice and we have friends that

0:43:48.160 --> 0:43:50.600
<v Speaker 2>go there, and so she started reaching out and asking

0:43:50.600 --> 0:43:53.360
<v Speaker 2>about it. We brought our daughter down to do the

0:43:53.360 --> 0:43:55.759
<v Speaker 2>tour and me, and then one thing.

0:43:55.719 --> 0:43:57.319
<v Speaker 1>Led to the other. We're like, all right, let's make

0:43:57.360 --> 0:43:58.040
<v Speaker 1>this is the big time.

0:43:58.080 --> 0:44:00.200
<v Speaker 2>And Vale had changed a lot, COVID chained to the

0:44:00.239 --> 0:44:03.240
<v Speaker 2>mountain communities a lot, like oh yeah, sure, they're influx

0:44:03.280 --> 0:44:05.560
<v Speaker 2>of people from all over the place and got super

0:44:05.560 --> 0:44:07.880
<v Speaker 2>expensive and hard to live, and we just felt like

0:44:08.200 --> 0:44:12.560
<v Speaker 2>there was enough pushing us to change that we took

0:44:12.600 --> 0:44:14.920
<v Speaker 2>the leap and it was a rough first year, but

0:44:14.960 --> 0:44:17.080
<v Speaker 2>we've settled in now and I think it was the right.

0:44:17.320 --> 0:44:19.960
<v Speaker 4>That's awesome. Yeah, and things do change like that.

0:44:20.040 --> 0:44:22.160
<v Speaker 3>I mean, the whole reason you were there was part

0:44:22.160 --> 0:44:24.560
<v Speaker 3>of that small town type of thing, and when that

0:44:24.680 --> 0:44:26.640
<v Speaker 3>changes it's time to make a move.

0:44:27.239 --> 0:44:27.479
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:44:27.480 --> 0:44:29.359
<v Speaker 2>I think your life is short and you can get

0:44:29.400 --> 0:44:32.320
<v Speaker 2>stuck in your ruts and it's easier you get comfortable.

0:44:32.400 --> 0:44:34.359
<v Speaker 2>I think getting out of our comfort zone is what

0:44:34.400 --> 0:44:36.880
<v Speaker 2>we needed, despite the fact that it was. You know,

0:44:36.880 --> 0:44:38.640
<v Speaker 2>it's always going to be a little challenging when you

0:44:38.680 --> 0:44:41.359
<v Speaker 2>do that kind of stuff. But in the end, I'd

0:44:41.400 --> 0:44:43.520
<v Speaker 2>say the majority of the time, it usually works out.

0:44:43.800 --> 0:44:45.359
<v Speaker 2>One way or the other usually works out.

0:44:45.600 --> 0:44:48.839
<v Speaker 4>Yeah. Absolutely. All right, Well let's wrap this up. Ryan.

0:44:48.920 --> 0:44:51.680
<v Speaker 3>One last question that I ask all of my guests,

0:44:51.680 --> 0:44:53.759
<v Speaker 3>and I know that you do this with your kids now.

0:44:53.760 --> 0:44:57.040
<v Speaker 3>When you've had those moments of being down and whether

0:44:57.080 --> 0:44:58.960
<v Speaker 3>it was being you know, cut by the football teams

0:44:59.120 --> 0:45:01.160
<v Speaker 3>or out of your comfort zone when you were on

0:45:01.440 --> 0:45:04.160
<v Speaker 3>the Bachelorette, what do you tell people on how to

0:45:04.320 --> 0:45:07.000
<v Speaker 3>kind of get back up and keep moving forward. And

0:45:07.040 --> 0:45:08.960
<v Speaker 3>you deal with this a lot as a firefighter too,

0:45:09.000 --> 0:45:11.040
<v Speaker 3>you see some pretty rough moments for people.

0:45:11.320 --> 0:45:15.400
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think just sometimes it's just reaffirming that you

0:45:15.440 --> 0:45:18.240
<v Speaker 2>care about them, like knowing that they have people behind

0:45:18.280 --> 0:45:20.880
<v Speaker 2>them that support them. There's a story that I can't

0:45:20.880 --> 0:45:22.719
<v Speaker 2>tell without crying, so I'm not going to tell it.

0:45:22.760 --> 0:45:25.560
<v Speaker 3>But people do cry on this podcast.

0:45:25.680 --> 0:45:28.279
<v Speaker 2>It's about like it was with Max. He had a

0:45:28.320 --> 0:45:31.239
<v Speaker 2>really rough hockey season last year. I'll try to tell it,

0:45:31.320 --> 0:45:33.239
<v Speaker 2>but forgive me if I have to take a break.

0:45:33.640 --> 0:45:36.000
<v Speaker 2>So so part of what has worked really well for

0:45:36.080 --> 0:45:39.439
<v Speaker 2>Valor with him is he's become kind of spiritual and

0:45:39.520 --> 0:45:40.399
<v Speaker 2>he was going through this time.

0:45:40.440 --> 0:45:43.960
<v Speaker 1>So I gave him this quote Romans eight eighteen.

0:45:44.880 --> 0:45:47.799
<v Speaker 2>The quote is the pain you're going through now is

0:45:47.840 --> 0:45:50.360
<v Speaker 2>nothing compared to the joy that's coming.

0:45:52.200 --> 0:45:54.440
<v Speaker 1>I haven't even got to the hard part anyway.

0:45:54.520 --> 0:46:00.399
<v Speaker 2>So he accepts that quote. Works really hard those this stuff.

0:46:00.440 --> 0:46:03.799
<v Speaker 2>And then this last year, I took a promotional test,

0:46:03.800 --> 0:46:07.640
<v Speaker 2>a lieutenant promotional test, and it didn't do as well

0:46:07.680 --> 0:46:10.200
<v Speaker 2>on it as I'd hoped. It did okay, and I

0:46:10.239 --> 0:46:14.000
<v Speaker 2>had some disadvantages because I'm my seniority isn't as high,

0:46:14.040 --> 0:46:16.960
<v Speaker 2>and so I wanted to finish a little better and

0:46:17.000 --> 0:46:21.000
<v Speaker 2>I didn't, and so he knew I was frustrated.

0:46:22.640 --> 0:46:23.480
<v Speaker 1>And this is the hard part.

0:46:23.960 --> 0:46:26.680
<v Speaker 2>Every morning I leave work at like five thirty six

0:46:26.760 --> 0:46:30.200
<v Speaker 2>in the morning and there's a sticky note on the

0:46:30.239 --> 0:46:34.720
<v Speaker 2>door to the garage, and I'm thinking, oh, Max, probably

0:46:34.800 --> 0:46:38.240
<v Speaker 2>just I think he had forgotten his like hockey socks

0:46:38.320 --> 0:46:39.759
<v Speaker 2>like a week earlier, and I think he probably just

0:46:39.840 --> 0:46:41.040
<v Speaker 2>left a note to remind himself.

0:46:41.360 --> 0:46:46.640
<v Speaker 1>Well, it's the quote he had loved me, that same quote.

0:46:46.960 --> 0:46:47.560
<v Speaker 4>Wow.

0:46:49.080 --> 0:46:51.839
<v Speaker 2>I've literally told this story like forty times and I

0:46:51.880 --> 0:46:52.719
<v Speaker 2>still can't do it.

0:46:53.719 --> 0:46:56.080
<v Speaker 1>But anyway, it all came full circle.

0:46:56.120 --> 0:46:59.719
<v Speaker 2>I was like, Okay, I'm doing something right, you know, like,

0:47:00.120 --> 0:47:04.160
<v Speaker 2>here's this kid that's eighteen years old, seventeen years old

0:47:04.200 --> 0:47:09.160
<v Speaker 2>at the time, and he's he's getting what I'm doing.

0:47:09.960 --> 0:47:14.320
<v Speaker 2>And so sometimes I think people just need like sometimes

0:47:14.360 --> 0:47:16.799
<v Speaker 2>they don't need to be told tactically what to do,

0:47:16.880 --> 0:47:18.480
<v Speaker 2>like hey, here's what you need to do, go get

0:47:18.480 --> 0:47:21.600
<v Speaker 2>a counselor or they just need to know that you

0:47:22.840 --> 0:47:23.799
<v Speaker 2>are there.

0:47:23.680 --> 0:47:29.120
<v Speaker 4>Someone cares absolutely. So yeah, wow, Ryan, that's pretty powerful.

0:47:29.280 --> 0:47:30.960
<v Speaker 1>We can try to care.

0:47:31.160 --> 0:47:33.120
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, when you can make that kind of a difference

0:47:33.320 --> 0:47:35.040
<v Speaker 3>with your kids and then you see it come back

0:47:35.080 --> 0:47:37.920
<v Speaker 3>around and you're like, oh wow, because we don't always

0:47:37.960 --> 0:47:41.320
<v Speaker 3>know if what we say impacts them at all or

0:47:41.360 --> 0:47:42.719
<v Speaker 3>if they notice or care.

0:47:42.840 --> 0:47:47.319
<v Speaker 1>Well, most feels like it doesn't. Yeah, Like there's times

0:47:47.360 --> 0:47:50.000
<v Speaker 1>when I feel like I'm just talking to like.

0:47:50.520 --> 0:47:53.239
<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, myself, especially with teenagers.

0:47:53.560 --> 0:47:57.239
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, yeah, so yeah, you're right when those and

0:47:57.800 --> 0:48:00.000
<v Speaker 2>it's happened with people along the way, but with your

0:48:00.280 --> 0:48:03.160
<v Speaker 2>with your kids, it's just a different impact on you.

0:48:03.560 --> 0:48:08.880
<v Speaker 2>And I think that that is missing a lot of

0:48:08.880 --> 0:48:11.840
<v Speaker 2>times from the world today. Is that just the fact

0:48:11.880 --> 0:48:15.160
<v Speaker 2>that it's really not that hard to just simply be

0:48:15.280 --> 0:48:19.040
<v Speaker 2>there for someone or just show just little.

0:48:18.920 --> 0:48:21.600
<v Speaker 4>Little act of kindness. Yes, yeah, it's not.

0:48:21.640 --> 0:48:25.000
<v Speaker 1>That hard to just care. Yeah, And so that would

0:48:25.000 --> 0:48:27.080
<v Speaker 1>be my advice, Like when there are people going through

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<v Speaker 1>hard things, it's just like, hey, I'm here. If you

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<v Speaker 1>need anything, just let me know. Or if I do

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<v Speaker 1>have like, I'll refer I.

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<v Speaker 2>Love quotes, so I'll refer people to that kind of stuff, like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>here's something that helped me get through a similar time

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<v Speaker 2>in my life.

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<v Speaker 1>That kind of stuff is sort of what my go

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<v Speaker 1>to is.

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<v Speaker 4>You've got an amazing heart, Ryan, you really do.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's it's cool and not that people wouldn't

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<v Speaker 3>have known that about you, but it's it's it's really

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<v Speaker 3>inspiring to hear more of your story and where you

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<v Speaker 3>come from.

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<v Speaker 1>I thank you, Thank you for making me cry again.

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<v Speaker 1>Just trust me. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>No, there's there's a lot of guys that come on

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<v Speaker 4>and they go, oh wow, didn't know that was gonna happen.

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<v Speaker 1>And it doesn't matter who I'm telling, like my lieutenant.

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<v Speaker 2>I have a really good relationship with my lieutenant at

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<v Speaker 2>the firehouse, and he has a son similar to Max's age,

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<v Speaker 2>and so we have a lot of these conversations. And

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<v Speaker 2>I told him like, by now, I know I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to cry every time, but at that time I didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, all right, like I can at least

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<v Speaker 2>tell Mikey this and just start crying.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, gosh, dang, I can't. I cannot literally cannot

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<v Speaker 1>tell this story without being emotional.

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<v Speaker 3>So that's okay, Yeah, hey, it's it that and that

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<v Speaker 3>also is nothing to be ashamed about. And I think

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<v Speaker 3>that's something that gets suppressed a lot in our society,

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<v Speaker 3>where tough guys can't, you know, big firefighters, football players,

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<v Speaker 3>you can't show emotion and because that's a sign of weakness.

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<v Speaker 4>Well it's not.

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<v Speaker 3>It's okay, No, yeah, I agree, I agree, It's totally okay. Ryan,

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<v Speaker 3>thank you for the time. I appreciate you saying yes,

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<v Speaker 3>even if you felt like you had to say yes. No.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually I actually looked forward to this one. I

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<v Speaker 1>like this one, good good.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, well, appreciate you and thanks so much. Sure anytime,

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you Ryan.

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