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Speaker 1: From the City that Changes the World peers Rose with

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Speaker 1: three things you need to.

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Speaker 2: Know for your Monday Rose, What you offros.

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Speaker 1: Just Shoppers spend a record eleven point eight billion dollars

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Speaker 1: online during Black Friday, which was nine point one percent

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Speaker 1: more than last year. People also spent six point four

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Speaker 1: billion online on Thanksgiving Day. The busiest online shopping hours, uh,

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Speaker 1: pretty much in the morning when everyone's waiting to eat. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but more than half of all purchases were made on

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Speaker 1: phones instead of computers, which isn't very shocking. Popular items

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Speaker 1: include video game systems electronics when playing stuff like that.

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Speaker 1: So the Prince Arg's County Police Department is warning residents

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Speaker 1: about scams that can ruin their holidays. The police department says,

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Speaker 1: and scammers are becoming more sophisticated, using texts, pop up messages,

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Speaker 1: and phone calls to impersonate major companies like PayPal and Venmo.

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Speaker 3: I've been getting this a lot lately.

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Speaker 1: I've also been getting like, oh, thank you for your

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Speaker 1: purchase on Apple of like four hundred and fifty dollars.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, what did I'm like, that's not that's not me.

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Speaker 1: I always check the email when like the email address

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Speaker 1: when this is coming from somebody, because nine one hundred

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Speaker 1: percent of the time it is not from Apple. The

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Speaker 1: global scammers, obviously is to gain financial information so that

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Speaker 1: they can drain your bank account or make fraudulent charges,

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Speaker 1: which is not fun.

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Speaker 3: During the holidays.

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Speaker 1: Please are urging people to be extra cautious report any.

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Speaker 3: Suspicious sounding messages that you may get.

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Speaker 1: And Norad is gearing up for its seventieth year of

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Speaker 1: tracking Santa.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I love this so much.

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Speaker 1: So they're kicking off the festivities with a revamped website.

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Speaker 1: It's full of games, music, there's a countdown and Santa's

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Speaker 1: virtual North Whole Village, which is really cool.

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Speaker 3: So kids, you can follow the big guy around.

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Speaker 1: On Christmas Eve through the app, through social media platforms

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Speaker 1: all so you can use your.

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Speaker 3: Amazon and Walks of devices and.

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Speaker 1: Even on their like a new web based calling option

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Speaker 1: that adds language support to.

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Speaker 3: Two hundred different languages. It's pretty incredible.

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Speaker 1: And then volunteers are going to be answering calls about

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Speaker 1: Santa's location during.

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Speaker 3: The day like leading up to before.

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Speaker 1: It's just who an automated system overnight obviously because the

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Speaker 1: elves are working really hard.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and they want you to know where Santa is.

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Speaker 3: I think it's very awesome. I'm Rose. Those are the

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Speaker 3: three things you need to know of the day.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Rose.

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Speaker 5: You're welcome by an hour from now. War of the Roses.

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Speaker 5: Trying to catch cheaters. It's never good when you say

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Speaker 5: your man's being problematic. That's the exact quote from the email.

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Speaker 5: I will talk to her yes after seven. If you

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Speaker 5: can't be by the radio, get the podcasts after the show.

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Speaker 5: You search interns John in the morning show. Wherever you

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Speaker 5: listen to podcasts, you can grab it right there. Whant

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Speaker 5: to get to this too, so Vice put this out.

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Speaker 5: If you are meeting your partner's family over the holiday season,

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Speaker 5: how to win them over high stakes?

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Speaker 6: It is. It's a big It's a big thing.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, because you've probably been dating for a while. They've

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Speaker 5: heard about you, and now it's like Christmas is like

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Speaker 5: you're on trial.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, I mean and.

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Speaker 4: They definitely the family already has an idea of who

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Speaker 4: you are in their heads. You're like, you really don't already.

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Speaker 5: And there's nothing worse than if your partner's been delaying it.

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Speaker 5: I always want to meet the parents sooner rather than later.

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Speaker 5: It gets to me awkward if for like four months

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Speaker 5: in and it's gonna seem like I didn't want to meet.

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Speaker 2: Them, and that's not the case, I guess.

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Speaker 5: So they talk to body experts, language experts, and just

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Speaker 5: therapists in general first, and they say is to match

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Speaker 5: their energy.

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Speaker 4: Yes, absolutely, especially if you're not very talkative and they

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Speaker 4: are and then they start to not like you.

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Speaker 5: They say a bit of natural mirroring creates comfort for

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Speaker 5: people as you seem closer and friendlier.

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Speaker 6: Absolutely, I don't disagree with that one.

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Speaker 5: They say, just make sure you stay true to yourself.

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Speaker 5: You take it too far, you come across as in

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Speaker 5: ethnic and suspicious. That is fair if you're like too much, yeah,

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Speaker 5: like the alien who's trying to fit in with like

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Speaker 5: the hello fellow youth, that type of vibe, who are you?

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Speaker 5: I think it makes sense to too. If they are

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Speaker 5: more of a chill reserve and you're like try and

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Speaker 5: get the crowdgoing on cruise, probably gonna be a bit

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Speaker 5: different vibe.

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Speaker 4: It's like Sarah Jessica Parker's character in the Family Stone,

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Speaker 4: like the family like chill, go with the flow, them

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Speaker 4: runs this household, and she was like so up tight

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Speaker 4: and they're.

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Speaker 2: Like, yeah, that makes sense.

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Speaker 5: Don't like you listen carefully? Yes, that makes sense, say act.

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Speaker 5: Listening is one of the most important parts communicating. Yes,

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Speaker 5: a small head tilt in eye contact with a speaker

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Speaker 5: shows you're interested more than NonStop nodding.

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Speaker 4: And it also helps you learn more and then you

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Speaker 4: can ask more questions.

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Speaker 5: And probably to they're probably excited to meet you anyway. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 5: I mean, so if you're acting like you're paying attention,

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Speaker 5: they're gonna like you even more.

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Speaker 4: But if they don't, but they don't like you like

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Speaker 4: you know, we all know that person that just dates people.

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Speaker 4: That's like, why are you still acting like a child

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Speaker 4: in dating, like making these bad decisions. So it's like, oh,

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Speaker 4: Gregg's bringing home and all the girl again?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Greg with two geez pause before replying okay, they say,

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Speaker 5: in social situations, we tend to jump. In the film

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Speaker 5: Moments of Silence one Shelby Sauce, yep, especially when we're anxious.

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Speaker 5: But taking time to think corresponding makes a better impression,

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Speaker 5: they say. Waiting for a half second after a person

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Speaker 5: finished talking for you speak makes us seem more believable

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Speaker 5: and calm.

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Speaker 4: According Yeah, I think that's fair because then it's not

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Speaker 4: not practiced.

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Speaker 5: I do you think like awkward silence if y'all know

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Speaker 5: somebody is the absolute worst?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Else you can do? You guys think it's Christmas is

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Speaker 6: Yeah, favorite kind of holidays?

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Speaker 3: Course?

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Speaker 5: What do you think Santa's favorite holiday is? If it's

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Speaker 5: not Christmas? Too fair? Uh, don't perform? Okay, okay, when

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Speaker 5: we're okay again, you do this Shelby sauce. We're anxious

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Speaker 5: about being awkward. We may over smile or make NonStop jokes.

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Speaker 4: That's funny coming from you because you do the same

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Speaker 4: exact thing. Do you like the public John smile where

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Speaker 4: your mouth is like half open You're like.

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Speaker 6: Like not your head like, yeah, you do that?

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Speaker 2: Man is really happy to be there.

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Speaker 6: No, you do that?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm just really I'm just really happy.

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Speaker 6: That's when I'm like, oh, he hates it here.

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Speaker 2: When's the last time that happened?

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 4: No, Like Thanksgiving last year, when I took you to

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Speaker 4: five parent my family's like friend party, I was like,

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Speaker 4: he's doing the fake smile all day.

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Speaker 6: He's probably so tired.

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Speaker 2: I was fine. You kept bringing up and that made

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Speaker 2: me feel more like awkward.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's why I didn't go. That's why I didn't

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Speaker 6: do that this year.

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Speaker 5: I'm kidding, that's why I'm trying to I can come

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Speaker 5: off as instance here. Oh absolutely, I think that's fair.

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Speaker 5: Maintain good posture. Sure, they say the way Harry stuff around.

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Speaker 5: Can I thank your confidence and anxiety levels. That's probably

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Speaker 5: I mean in general.

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Speaker 5: The last one if you want to impress their parents

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Speaker 5: is use physical contact wisely.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, especially with the person that you're dating. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 4: because I once dated a guy and I brought him

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Speaker 4: home and I felt like he was just like very touched,

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Speaker 4: you feel, not like in an inappropriate way. But my

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Speaker 4: family is just not at all. So my parents were like, oh,

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Speaker 4: like horrified by it.

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Speaker 5: If I go to meet a girl's parents, I'll give

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Speaker 5: her a high five the entirety we're inside that house. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: ex girlfriend like, try to kiss me from my parents, Like,

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Speaker 5: that's not not at all, was like, please get away

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Speaker 5: from me. Yeah, I don't consent.

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Speaker 1: I realized that that would probably various red flags for

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Speaker 1: the parent if she goes in for a kiss and.

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Speaker 3: Your leg high five, Like I'd be like, I don't

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Speaker 3: think he likes you.

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Speaker 5: I just feel like it's not a respect thing if

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Speaker 5: we're just dating, If like the first time meeting, I'd

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Speaker 5: rather like show respect in your Yeah. I get that,

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Speaker 5: but uh, they say, should you shake hands, go for

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Speaker 5: the hug, follow their lead, give them your genuine attention

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Speaker 5: to initiate physical contact.

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Speaker 4: I've been trying to hug people more so I might

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Speaker 4: be like, I'm a hugger.

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Speaker 3: Come here.

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Speaker 2: You have been saying that recently, But you're.

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Speaker 4: Not, though, Because I got drags so long about how

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Speaker 4: I'm awkward with hugging that I made it my life

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Speaker 4: goal to make it even worse for everyone because I'm

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Speaker 4: going to be a hugger.

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Speaker 2: I think my mom's probably the biggest fan of your.

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Speaker 6: Mom is the biggest fan of my new hugs.

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Speaker 2: I love that.

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Speaker 4: Thanks, Peggy, you changed me for life.

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