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Speaker 1: It's Marcus in the morning. Second date update is in effect.

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Speaker 1: Let's bring our guy diego on, diego. Good morning, Hey,

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Speaker 1: good morning, Hey dude. I want to help you out

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Speaker 1: here with your date. I understand you got ghosted. Uh

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Speaker 1: what do I have? The lady's name is Hannah, and

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Speaker 1: you met up for dinner in San Jose and she's

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Speaker 1: a school teacher. This is adorable. So where did you

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Speaker 1: guys eat? And like, what did you guys do and

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Speaker 1: what did you talk about?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so we went out to Farmer's and you know,

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Speaker 2: over there in San Jose, and god.

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Speaker 1: Was that your first time? It was the foods bonkers?

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Speaker 2: It was actually, yeah, it was awesome. Like you said,

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Speaker 2: she's a teacher and she had like a bunch of

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Speaker 2: funny classroom stories and we were mixing it up. She

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Speaker 2: was laughing at my jokes, and I don't know, like

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Speaker 2: the dates just flowed really good. You know, had some

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Speaker 2: taco shared a dessert, a couple of drinks. It just

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Speaker 2: it never fell for us, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 2: Like we were just going back and forth like no awkward, positive,

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Speaker 2: just laughing it up. And you know, there's so much

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Speaker 2: like stressed over a first day, but you know, having

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Speaker 2: those little moments where I'm kind of like telling myself like,

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Speaker 2: oh my god, this is going so well. Yeah yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: so you know, and then yeah, we took a nice

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Speaker 2: long walk, nothing crazy, but I just kind of felt

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Speaker 2: like we were trying to, you know, make the date

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Speaker 2: last as long as we could. And then but you know,

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Speaker 2: I'm a gentleman, walked through a car, said goodbye, gave

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Speaker 2: her a hug, and yeah, she said she had a

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Speaker 2: really good time, and I just felt really really good

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Speaker 2: about it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, and so did she did she go, what happened?

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Speaker 1: Did she ghost? Did you reach out?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 2: So yeah, so, you know, like because it went really well,

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Speaker 2: like I said, I thought I had like a lot

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Speaker 2: of potential and so yeah, I was like texting her

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Speaker 2: and it was kind of like her responses got shorter

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Speaker 2: and shorter, and I just figured like, oh, I don't know,

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Speaker 2: she's busy or whatever. And then it like started taking

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Speaker 2: her really long to kind of respond, and then she

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Speaker 2: just kind of like stopped responding, just like full ghosting,

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Speaker 2: and I asked her out again at some point that

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Speaker 2: was like once you really just dropped off, and I

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Speaker 2: literally haven't gotten the text back from her since that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we're in a caller and trying to figure this out,

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Speaker 1: So just have you hold for a sec and then

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Speaker 1: I'll just have you on mute so you can listen in.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, I appreciate it. Thank you for sure.

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Speaker 1: On the phone. Here we go.

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Speaker 3: Hello, Hi, is this Hannah?

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Speaker 1: Yes, Hi, Hannah, This is Marcus calling from a star

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Speaker 1: one O one.

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Speaker 2: Three, Good morning, Good morning.

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Speaker 1: I don't suppose you listen to us.

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Speaker 2: In the morning, do you No?

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Speaker 1: Okay, So it's a radio show and would love to

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Speaker 1: see if you have a second to be on the

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Speaker 1: air with us for a segment that we call second.

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Speaker 3: Date Update, So like on the radio.

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Speaker 1: Yes, just real quick, let me explain. I got a

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Speaker 1: call from a guy who says he just took you

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Speaker 1: out on a date and he's feeling like maybe you're ghosted.

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Speaker 1: He's trying to figure out if something went sideways or

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out if he did something wrong.

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Speaker 1: He really liked you, so I'd like to see if

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Speaker 1: we could get a second date out of this. But

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Speaker 1: I wanted to know if you have a second to

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Speaker 1: talk about your date with Diego.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, he called the radio show.

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Speaker 1: Yes, it's a lot, I know. Okay, I don't know,

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Speaker 1: just trying to figure out did you ghost?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he was really nice and super funny and kind.

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Speaker 3: It's really easy to talk to. I mean like I

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Speaker 3: really hadn't Yeah, I mean there was no complaints, Like

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Speaker 3: the vibe was there everything. But to be honest, the

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Speaker 3: reason that I pulled away was that during during dinner,

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Speaker 3: he said something to me that like, as the days

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Speaker 3: have kind of gone by, it really has kind of

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Speaker 3: settled with me in a very weird way. Okay, long

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Speaker 3: story short, like we you know, had a really long,

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Speaker 3: lovely date, and he walked me to Mike and then

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Speaker 3: he noticed that I had some dog hair in my

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Speaker 3: back seat, which, like, I have a dog, what do

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Speaker 3: you expect? I guess I would consider myself to be

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Speaker 3: the kind of person that is somewhat obsessed.

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Speaker 2: With my dog.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you know, it's my companions, my best friend. And

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Speaker 3: he had told me that like he can't stand dogs,

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Speaker 3: said he's not not yeah, like he's not allergic, but

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Speaker 3: like he's just not a dog person, and that he

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Speaker 3: just actively doesn't like dogs, which was a good opportunity

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Speaker 3: for me at that moment because I was like, oh,

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Speaker 3: so you don't like dogs, and then he just went on,

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Speaker 3: you know, in on this like die tribe of how

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Speaker 3: he felt about dogs, and you're it was a whole thing.

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Speaker 1: Did you say something.

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Speaker 3: I just kind of was like, I mean I love dogs.

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Speaker 3: I've always had dogs, and you know I have a dog,

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Speaker 3: and he kind of just like walked it back, but

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Speaker 3: then just change the subject and like.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well this is a relatively easy one, so handa.

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Speaker 1: The other part of this is the Diego is actually

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Speaker 1: listening right now. I'd love I'd love to bring them on.

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Speaker 1: That's okay, okay, Diego, y Hey, Hi, it's all making

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Speaker 1: sense to me now.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I so I was. I was kind of like

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Speaker 2: joking though, I mean I didn't Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I admit that I'm not like a big dog person,

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Speaker 2: but I didn't mean it to come out like a

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Speaker 2: big you know, like I was. I didn't realize I

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Speaker 2: was like ranting on it, but I don't know, I

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Speaker 2: thought we had a really good time. Like if I

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Speaker 2: really like someone, like, you know, i'd make it work,

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Speaker 2: like it's not like a deal breaker and something like that.

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Speaker 2: Like I didn't realize it would you know, like sound

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Speaker 2: so harsh.

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Speaker 3: I hear you, but like you you really went in

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Speaker 3: on it. You're like, there's wow and messy. It always

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Speaker 3: in the way. And I didn't understand why people don't

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Speaker 3: you know, why people treat them like their family and

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Speaker 3: and why people would even consider bringing a dog on

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Speaker 3: a date or you know, that's like if someone if

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Speaker 3: you go out with someone that has a dog, then

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Speaker 3: like the dog's gotta know that it's in second place.

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Speaker 3: And it was like like, I you know, I'm glad

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Speaker 3: I you said all that before I told you, But

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Speaker 3: my my gosh, and.

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Speaker 1: Are you one of those people that likes dogs more

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Speaker 1: than people?

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Speaker 3: Absolutely? One hundred percent. Okay, this is not going to work.

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Speaker 1: Everybody, hang on, Yeah, nope. Second date update