WEBVTT - 9am Hour - Fight, Flight, Freeze 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:04.680 It's Friday. I'm very excited about the weekend football playoffs 0:00:04.720 --> 0:00:06.920 and whether that's cold enough that you have an excuse 0:00:06.960 --> 0:00:10.920 to stay indoors rather than go outdoors. So I'm pretty 0:00:10.920 --> 0:00:14.680 excited about that. I think Jenny found this. It's a 0:00:14.720 --> 0:00:16.360 little piece of audio about relationships. 0:00:16.400 --> 0:00:17.759 And when we get into that, we do have to 0:00:17.760 --> 0:00:18.840 play the new Bruno. 0:00:18.560 --> 0:00:24.520 Mars, right, how could I forget? Okay, brand new Bruno Mars. 0:00:24.960 --> 0:00:29.400 And then there's some very important relationship advice. It's called 0:00:29.480 --> 0:00:34.720 I Just Might Bruno on KDWB. I want to make 0:00:34.720 --> 0:00:37.880 sure you hear the entire thing. It is Bruno Mars, 0:00:38.000 --> 0:00:40.080 I just might on Katie. Do you like the song? Vaughan? 0:00:40.200 --> 0:00:42.360 I love the song? David, do you like the song? 0:00:43.000 --> 0:00:43.840 I do like that song? 0:00:43.880 --> 0:00:44.080 It is. 0:00:44.320 --> 0:00:45.760 You know what I like about it is he sounds 0:00:45.760 --> 0:00:48.080 like a band. Yeah, he sounds like like a ten 0:00:48.120 --> 0:00:49.200 piece twelve piece band. 0:00:49.320 --> 0:00:51.519 There's a lot of people that are saying it sounds 0:00:51.560 --> 0:00:53.960 too much like they don't know what they said. It 0:00:54.000 --> 0:00:55.840 sounds like something that already exists. And then a few 0:00:55.840 --> 0:00:58.240 people are like Harry Styles, maybe. 0:00:58.040 --> 0:01:00.400 No, it sounds like something that already exist because it 0:01:00.400 --> 0:01:02.040 sounds like Bruno Mars exactly. 0:01:03.160 --> 0:01:05.319 I think somebody posted it was like Bruno Mars continues 0:01:05.360 --> 0:01:07.080 to make the same music, and he fired back and 0:01:07.240 --> 0:01:10.480 was like, you ain't been ish your whole life every 0:01:10.560 --> 0:01:12.920 single bangor he makes. 0:01:13.040 --> 0:01:15.800 I want to kiss Bruno Mars. Do you think I could? 0:01:18.000 --> 0:01:19.920 If he was dead and you were at his funeral, 0:01:19.959 --> 0:01:22.000 you could probably lean into the coffin and kiss him. 0:01:22.040 --> 0:01:24.720 Probably would probably get tackled. Though. I'm gonna play this 0:01:24.760 --> 0:01:26.720 little piece of a relationship advice. I think there's a 0:01:26.720 --> 0:01:28.000 big truth in it. But what's your take? 0:01:28.120 --> 0:01:29.840 Before you decide to spend the rest of your life 0:01:29.880 --> 0:01:32.400 with someone, make sure you've broken up at least one time. 0:01:34.040 --> 0:01:37.040 I think it's a good lesson. Yes, a breakup reveals 0:01:37.200 --> 0:01:40.120 true character, right, Like when you're in a relationship. 0:01:39.640 --> 0:01:41.640 You're not showing who you really are, You're being your 0:01:41.680 --> 0:01:42.520 best version of you. 0:01:42.680 --> 0:01:43.200 Yes, with the. 0:01:43.240 --> 0:01:45.119 Quote like if you don't like me and my worst, 0:01:45.120 --> 0:01:46.360 you know deserve me at my best. 0:01:46.400 --> 0:01:48.160 Well, you don't know what the worst is, so you 0:01:48.240 --> 0:01:50.080 gotta kind of know what the worst. 0:01:50.000 --> 0:01:53.520 Is, Okay, I really think that you I think if 0:01:53.560 --> 0:01:56.800 you break up that and you don't have to sometimes 0:01:56.800 --> 0:01:58.800 you just know they're the one and you go get 0:01:58.800 --> 0:02:01.280 married and you're happy. But I think sometimes you break 0:02:01.400 --> 0:02:03.320 up and you realize how much you love and miss 0:02:03.360 --> 0:02:06.200 and treasure this person, and how you don't care where 0:02:06.240 --> 0:02:10.120 you go when you're with them, everything reminds you of them. 0:02:10.160 --> 0:02:12.560 If you break up and you're like, man, it's been 0:02:13.080 --> 0:02:16.799 three years whatever time, and you're still like you think 0:02:16.800 --> 0:02:18.440 about them before you go to sleep and wake up, 0:02:18.919 --> 0:02:22.639 then you appreciate them. The problem is do they want 0:02:22.680 --> 0:02:24.840 to get back together. Yeah, that's the big question. 0:02:25.040 --> 0:02:28.120 I would lean into though, what he said about seeing 0:02:28.120 --> 0:02:29.840 them at their worst, because I think a lot of 0:02:29.840 --> 0:02:32.480 people show their true colors and breakups, and like if 0:02:32.480 --> 0:02:35.440 someone becomes really evil during a breakup, then like you 0:02:35.440 --> 0:02:37.679 didn't see that in the relationship right now, Like a 0:02:37.720 --> 0:02:40.800 lot of times people become like that, And so I think, 0:02:41.040 --> 0:02:42.920 I don't know, Like Dave said, yes, if you know 0:02:42.919 --> 0:02:46.200 they're the one, maybe don't risk breaking up just to 0:02:46.280 --> 0:02:49.200 test them. But I do think like breaking up with 0:02:49.240 --> 0:02:53.600 someone sometimes just really reveals like, wow, that really was 0:02:53.680 --> 0:02:56.239 my person. The grasses and green are on the other side, 0:02:56.280 --> 0:02:58.400 Like whatever, don't go out and do it just to 0:02:58.520 --> 0:03:02.400 like see what's out there, I think, But I wonder. 0:03:02.200 --> 0:03:05.280 Too though, like is it because would you need necessarily 0:03:05.360 --> 0:03:06.880 need to break up or would you just need to 0:03:06.919 --> 0:03:10.480 have like a big argument, and or like are you 0:03:10.520 --> 0:03:12.760 just kind of waiting for them to see you at 0:03:12.800 --> 0:03:15.680 your worst? Because like I think you should at least 0:03:15.720 --> 0:03:18.240 like cry in front of your partner before you get married, 0:03:18.480 --> 0:03:20.480 like so they can know how to deal with like 0:03:20.600 --> 0:03:22.679 you having some kind of meltdown. 0:03:22.240 --> 0:03:22.880 Talk about it. 0:03:23.080 --> 0:03:25.920 I disagree only because why would you risk losing that 0:03:25.960 --> 0:03:27.919 person by breaking up with them? And I think there's 0:03:27.919 --> 0:03:30.000 so many different ways to see somebody at their worst, 0:03:30.160 --> 0:03:32.640 Like we could break up, get back together, break up again, 0:03:32.680 --> 0:03:35.040 but I could be my worst when God forbid somebody 0:03:35.120 --> 0:03:38.280 passes away or if I go through let's just say 0:03:38.640 --> 0:03:40.880 an illness or something. So there's so many different ways 0:03:40.880 --> 0:03:43.160 to see somebody at their worst. What I do think 0:03:43.240 --> 0:03:46.240 before you find your forever is that you should live 0:03:46.280 --> 0:03:47.840 with them before you get married. 0:03:47.960 --> 0:03:48.880 And there's so many people. 0:03:48.720 --> 0:03:50.280 That are like, no, I don't want to get I 0:03:50.320 --> 0:03:52.040 don't want to live with them until after I get married. 0:03:52.240 --> 0:03:53.840 You need to see what that person looks like in 0:03:53.880 --> 0:03:56.160 the first thing in the morning, with their breath smells 0:03:56.240 --> 0:03:58.160 like the little ism that somebody does in the comfort 0:03:58.200 --> 0:04:00.520 of their own home. Before you decide yes, I want 0:04:00.520 --> 0:04:01.760 to spend the rest of my life with this person. 0:04:01.840 --> 0:04:04.920 Not breath to smell like poop. I can guarantee everyone's 0:04:04.960 --> 0:04:06.200 breast smells like poop in the morning. 0:04:06.240 --> 0:04:08.720 Yeah, I would say. One little addendum is, like, you know, 0:04:08.880 --> 0:04:11.600 Susan and I, even at our worst, we're not that bad. 0:04:11.640 --> 0:04:14.560 We don't throw things, we don't storm out of the house, 0:04:14.600 --> 0:04:17.280 we don't disappear for four days. We don't like go 0:04:17.440 --> 0:04:20.280 take a bunch of drugs or whatever. So whatever our 0:04:20.279 --> 0:04:25.080 worst is, it's very close to what our normal day is, 0:04:25.240 --> 0:04:27.320 you know what I mean. So when we have a worst, 0:04:27.800 --> 0:04:29.599 Susan has seen me at my worst, but it's not 0:04:29.640 --> 0:04:32.440 a whole lot different, and it's temporary. Like you know, 0:04:32.440 --> 0:04:34.200 if you go through some sort of a problem or 0:04:34.200 --> 0:04:37.040 there's something that's really just awful in your life, you 0:04:37.120 --> 0:04:38.800 know you might be at your worst and you know 0:04:38.920 --> 0:04:41.599 not want to like do anything. But it's not like 0:04:41.640 --> 0:04:43.800 a drastic change where you like, I gotta ran out 0:04:43.880 --> 0:04:45.520 run off with somebody that I just met. 0:04:45.760 --> 0:04:46.680 Right, Well, then that's good. 0:04:46.720 --> 0:04:48.480 That means that you guys have seen each other at 0:04:48.520 --> 0:04:50.240 your worst and it's not that bad. But I think 0:04:50.279 --> 0:04:53.479 that some people truly only show their true colors when 0:04:53.480 --> 0:04:54.760 they are in a breakup. 0:04:55.160 --> 0:04:56.400 Like going through a breakup, I. 0:04:56.440 --> 0:05:00.000 Could be another one. Find out how they fight, because 0:05:00.120 --> 0:05:02.600 some people they fight and they throw things and they 0:05:02.640 --> 0:05:05.280 get violent, and they like, you know, pour motor oil 0:05:05.320 --> 0:05:07.320 over all over your clothes. I had a friend that. 0:05:07.360 --> 0:05:08.920 Had that happen to him. 0:05:09.080 --> 0:05:12.440 She poured motor oil all over his clothes. And find 0:05:12.480 --> 0:05:14.640 out how they fight. And if they fight by pouting 0:05:15.000 --> 0:05:17.400 or they fight by giving you the silent treatment, then 0:05:17.560 --> 0:05:19.120 you maybe that's tolerable. 0:05:19.160 --> 0:05:20.880 But why did you want to risk breaking up just 0:05:20.880 --> 0:05:22.560 to say? I don't think anybody's going to say, let's 0:05:22.560 --> 0:05:24.280 break up. Yeah, well that's what I'm saying. I don't 0:05:24.279 --> 0:05:26.120 think anybody does that. I never, like, you know, look 0:05:26.120 --> 0:05:27.400 at somebody that I love and go, you know, well, 0:05:27.440 --> 0:05:29.320 let's break up to see whether we miss each other. 0:05:29.520 --> 0:05:31.240 You know, it's like giving up something that you know 0:05:31.320 --> 0:05:33.240 that you love, or like a great opportunity just to 0:05:33.240 --> 0:05:34.440 see like, well, is it meant to be? 0:05:34.560 --> 0:05:36.000 Is it worth? Is it going to come back? 0:05:36.240 --> 0:05:36.640 Mm hmm. 0:05:36.960 --> 0:05:38.680 I think if you're at that point where it's breakup 0:05:38.680 --> 0:05:40.680 to see if you miss each other, you're not that serious. 0:05:40.400 --> 0:05:43.080 In the first place, right though, Also, I wouldn't want 0:05:43.080 --> 0:05:46.000 to force like a big argument like what you were saying, Jenny, 0:05:46.080 --> 0:05:48.400 like you have to know like how what there show 0:05:48.400 --> 0:05:49.920 their true colors and a big argument. 0:05:50.600 --> 0:05:52.359 I wouldn't want to force a big argument. 0:05:52.560 --> 0:05:54.360 But I'm going to spend forever with someone, I'm sure 0:05:54.360 --> 0:05:57.720 another big argument will come. Right, there's always something to 0:05:57.800 --> 0:06:00.360 argue about, not a good thing, but it's a three out. 0:06:00.480 --> 0:06:02.479 Well then, I think as you get older and more mature, 0:06:02.480 --> 0:06:05.520 you learn pick your battles. I mean, Susan and I 0:06:05.520 --> 0:06:08.280 will bick her about okay, Like in the new house, 0:06:09.080 --> 0:06:12.760 she put a plastic potted plant on a beautiful wood 0:06:13.040 --> 0:06:18.480 shelf and I said, no, if you pour water into that, 0:06:18.560 --> 0:06:20.480 it's going to leak through the bottom. There's going to 0:06:20.520 --> 0:06:23.760 be a ring on our beautiful, freshly painted wood shelf. 0:06:23.760 --> 0:06:26.359 There's a built in And she's like, fine, I'll just 0:06:26.440 --> 0:06:30.200 throw it away. Then, so I let her throw it away, 0:06:30.400 --> 0:06:32.200 and I said, no, don't throw it away. But she's like, 0:06:32.320 --> 0:06:33.720 now if you don't want it there, and then I'm 0:06:33.720 --> 0:06:36.640 going to throw it away. And I'm like, okay, Sometimes 0:06:36.680 --> 0:06:37.800 you don't have to sit there and say what was 0:06:37.880 --> 0:06:40.360 stupid to put that there? You just kind of let 0:06:40.360 --> 0:06:40.640 it go. 0:06:40.800 --> 0:06:43.800 Except you're picking your battle because you want it. 0:06:45.120 --> 0:06:47.760 No. No, if she would have you know, if she would, 0:06:48.040 --> 0:06:50.839 I would not I would have won the battle. You're 0:06:50.920 --> 0:06:54.599 not going to put a plastic potted plant on a 0:06:54.600 --> 0:06:58.440 wooden shelf. And I didn't look at it as a win. 0:06:59.040 --> 0:07:00.479 I would have looked at his like, oh well, let 0:07:00.520 --> 0:07:02.080 me find somewhere else to put it, or put a 0:07:02.120 --> 0:07:06.919 plate under kneath. I don't have to win. Sometimes you 0:07:06.960 --> 0:07:09.040 don't win. You just walk away. It's like move cruse. 0:07:09.480 --> 0:07:11.400 I had an old boyfriend and every time we got 0:07:11.440 --> 0:07:13.840 into an argument, I would need time to like think 0:07:13.880 --> 0:07:15.880 about it, and he would always wanted to get an argument, 0:07:15.920 --> 0:07:17.840 like right at the end of the day, like right 0:07:17.880 --> 0:07:21.160 before bed, and I'd be like, can we not argue 0:07:21.240 --> 0:07:23.480 right now? And I'm I'm going to go to bed, 0:07:23.480 --> 0:07:25.280 and he's like, you would go to bed, like you 0:07:25.280 --> 0:07:27.520 don't want to face our problem, blah blah blah, And 0:07:27.560 --> 0:07:29.840 I was just like, I no, it's not that. I'm 0:07:29.880 --> 0:07:31.960 just like, why are we having this conversation at. 0:07:32.000 --> 0:07:33.880 Nine thirty and laying in bed? Yeah? 0:07:33.960 --> 0:07:35.080 Right, like, I don't want to do this. 0:07:35.200 --> 0:07:36.840 I had the same problem in a relationship and I 0:07:36.920 --> 0:07:39.400 was like, I gotta get up early. I don't want 0:07:39.440 --> 0:07:41.560 to talk about that. Well, if you don't care enough 0:07:42.240 --> 0:07:44.280 to solve this problem. 0:07:43.800 --> 0:07:46.440 And I'm like, okay, did I work out with you? 0:07:46.560 --> 0:07:46.760 Dave? 0:07:47.160 --> 0:07:48.280 No, No, it didn't work out. 0:07:48.120 --> 0:07:51.720 With Everybody has different fighting styles, so usually like it 0:07:51.800 --> 0:07:53.840 sounds like you are more of a flight because there's 0:07:53.920 --> 0:07:56.160 fight flight in Freeze. He clearly is a fight he 0:07:56.200 --> 0:07:58.200 wants to get it, like halsh out no matter at 0:07:58.240 --> 0:08:02.400 the time, I'm a flight. I need to calm down 0:08:02.440 --> 0:08:06.040 and react out of emotion. And then Freeze is usually 0:08:06.080 --> 0:08:08.480 just to you pretty much freeze and ignore the situation. 0:08:08.680 --> 0:08:08.920 Dave. 0:08:10.280 --> 0:08:12.800 That's my dad, Dave, what you're a Freeze? 0:08:13.000 --> 0:08:15.160 You and Susan always just like brush everything under the 0:08:15.240 --> 0:08:16.559 rug with your fighting. 0:08:16.800 --> 0:08:20.040 You totally do, and then later on it's like give 0:08:20.040 --> 0:08:21.240 me the remote. 0:08:21.720 --> 0:08:25.120 You start to start back slowly with minimal less conversations, 0:08:25.160 --> 0:08:27.280 so you're not speaking to each other for the entire afternoon. 0:08:27.520 --> 0:08:28.880 But that night you go, what do you want me 0:08:28.880 --> 0:08:31.760 to make for dinner? Spaghetti and meat bull sounds good, 0:08:31.760 --> 0:08:33.640 and then you then everything is kind of back to 0:08:33.679 --> 0:08:34.440 normal soden. 0:08:34.480 --> 0:08:38.840 I do that too. It's you're gonna walk, yeah. 0:08:39.080 --> 0:08:42.719 Because now you're speaking. Now you're speaking again. 0:08:43.679 --> 0:08:46.080 Gets built because nothing was resolved. 0:08:48.360 --> 0:08:50.599 No, that's your resolution. That is your resolution. 0:08:50.880 --> 0:08:53.440 I'll always end up apologizing because I think people need 0:08:53.480 --> 0:08:54.320 to apologize more. 0:08:54.400 --> 0:08:57.160 Oh, I will let me not say never end up apologizing. 0:08:57.720 --> 0:08:58.800 But I'm definitely toxic. 0:08:59.440 --> 0:09:02.839 Yes, you are on we know every other day. It's 0:09:02.880 --> 0:09:04.160 like me and alyss r beefin. 0:09:09.160 --> 0:09:11.839 All right, that is a little something to think about. 0:09:11.880 --> 0:09:13.600 All right, it's time for the dance party, the Friday 0:09:13.640 --> 0:09:19.600 morning dance party on kad WB. Dance Party on one 0:09:19.640 --> 0:09:21.719 to one point three, Katie, Will you be on the 0:09:21.760 --> 0:09:25.200 iHeartRadio app wherever you're listening, Thank you, whether you got 0:09:25.280 --> 0:09:29.040 us on your car radio or your whatever radio, or 0:09:29.040 --> 0:09:32.200 whether you got us on the iHeart Radio. I have 0:09:32.280 --> 0:09:35.360 to read this emails really interesting from Patty, who is 0:09:35.360 --> 0:09:37.760 a big supporter, big listener of the show. We appreciate you, Patty, 0:09:38.600 --> 0:09:42.760 and it's something it's a really interesting, little free hobby 0:09:43.400 --> 0:09:45.360 that I wanted to relate to you because this really 0:09:45.400 --> 0:09:47.720 appealed to me. Let's see what you think I heard 0:09:47.800 --> 0:09:49.839 Jenny talking about how she wants to spend more time 0:09:49.880 --> 0:09:51.960 in nature. So I want to suggest a way that 0:09:52.000 --> 0:09:54.959 she or any of you could start a nature journal. 0:09:56.200 --> 0:09:59.320 I took a class on nature journaling, and the idea 0:09:59.360 --> 0:10:01.960 is to not walk through nature like you do when 0:10:02.000 --> 0:10:04.160 you're strolled around a lake or take a hike, but 0:10:04.320 --> 0:10:08.679 to sit and just be present in nature and really 0:10:08.720 --> 0:10:12.160 pay attention to what is happening around you. Stop and 0:10:12.240 --> 0:10:13.880 sit on a bench during a walk, or even just 0:10:13.920 --> 0:10:16.520 sit in your backyard for like at least fifteen minutes 0:10:16.960 --> 0:10:20.440 and really listen, observe, and even smell what's happening around you. 0:10:21.040 --> 0:10:24.360 Are there birds chirping? Is the wind rustling the leaves 0:10:24.400 --> 0:10:27.280 in the trees? Do you smell flowers? Do you hear 0:10:27.320 --> 0:10:30.480 frogs in a nearby pond? Get a small notebook or 0:10:30.520 --> 0:10:32.560 a blank journal, and just start writing. Where are you, 0:10:33.240 --> 0:10:35.920 what's the weather like today? What do you see that 0:10:35.960 --> 0:10:38.960 brings you joy? Do you see any patterns like tree 0:10:39.000 --> 0:10:42.680 bark or the ripples on a lake. Pick up a 0:10:42.720 --> 0:10:44.160 leaf and put it under the page and do a 0:10:44.200 --> 0:10:47.600 little leaf rubbing in your journal. Add simple sketches if 0:10:47.600 --> 0:10:49.599 you want, of animal prints or what you see on 0:10:49.640 --> 0:10:53.040 the ground. A pine cone, a fallen tree, flowers. There 0:10:53.120 --> 0:10:56.199 is so much to see and hear. You can search 0:10:56.240 --> 0:10:59.200 online for nature journaling prompts and you'll find great ideas 0:10:59.200 --> 0:11:01.320 for how to get started. Being outdoors is so good 0:11:01.320 --> 0:11:03.360 for you, and this is a way to make your 0:11:03.400 --> 0:11:06.360 connection to the nature feel even deeper and help further 0:11:06.440 --> 0:11:08.600 reduce stress while you're out there. Give it a try. 0:11:08.840 --> 0:11:11.440 Happy New Year from Patty And I really like that 0:11:11.480 --> 0:11:14.080 because she's got an excellent point. You go outside for 0:11:14.120 --> 0:11:17.040 a walk. I take Bernie for a walk, and it's 0:11:17.120 --> 0:11:19.719 like I'm just on a mission. I'm walking around. I'm 0:11:19.720 --> 0:11:22.840 not really looking at anything, certainly not observing birds or 0:11:22.920 --> 0:11:25.280 winds or the smells or anything like that. And I'm 0:11:25.280 --> 0:11:27.160 granted it is harder to do this time of the year, 0:11:27.200 --> 0:11:29.839 to sit and do nothing. 0:11:29.559 --> 0:11:31.640 Right without freezing your tukis. 0:11:31.280 --> 0:11:34.440 And right there's no flowers to smell or necessarily, you know, 0:11:35.960 --> 0:11:38.719 ripples on a lake. But I really like that. I 0:11:38.760 --> 0:11:40.680 thought that sounds really cool and very peaceful. 0:11:40.840 --> 0:11:43.920 Same and honestly, I've heard from a friend who does 0:11:44.000 --> 0:11:46.400 like bird tours that the wintertime actually, if like you 0:11:46.440 --> 0:11:49.160 wanted to go on a bird tour, do birding like 0:11:49.200 --> 0:11:51.559 the wintertime is the best time because there aren't leaves 0:11:51.600 --> 0:11:54.600 to obstruct your view, so you can see birds better. Yeah, 0:11:54.640 --> 0:11:56.560 and you can like, you know, be out there peeping, 0:11:57.320 --> 0:12:01.120 bird peeping. Yeah, there's wind and it's cold, but. 0:12:00.480 --> 0:12:02.280 The birds are very active this time of the year. 0:12:02.600 --> 0:12:05.040 They are, and they're they're feeding because there's not a 0:12:05.040 --> 0:12:07.480 lot of like, you know, fruits and berries and seeds 0:12:07.520 --> 0:12:10.480 for them naturally. Your journal, Yeah, you get a bird 0:12:10.559 --> 0:12:12.840 feeder and you can watch the birds from the comfort 0:12:12.840 --> 0:12:13.240 of your home. 0:12:13.440 --> 0:12:15.160 That sounds so nice, and I feel like we all 0:12:15.200 --> 0:12:17.480 know I'm the least like natury person of the show, 0:12:17.520 --> 0:12:19.439 but I can't even admit. When I went to we 0:12:19.480 --> 0:12:21.880 went hiking on Internstate earlier this summer or last summer, 0:12:22.120 --> 0:12:25.079 and it was so peaceful, just listening to the crinkle 0:12:25.120 --> 0:12:27.800 of the leaves whenever somebody walks on them, hearing just 0:12:27.880 --> 0:12:28.679 birds and just. 0:12:29.120 --> 0:12:31.160 Nature just exists. Oh, it was so peaceful. 0:12:31.320 --> 0:12:33.559 Yeah. So when the weather warms up, or maybe when 0:12:33.559 --> 0:12:35.839 it doesn't warm up, maybe something to try, you know, 0:12:35.960 --> 0:12:38.320 get a little journal. I think we all have. I 0:12:38.320 --> 0:12:40.040 found one around the house. I bought one as a 0:12:40.080 --> 0:12:42.160 souvenir from We went went to Harvard when we went 0:12:42.160 --> 0:12:43.520 out to see cars, and we went to the Harvard 0:12:43.520 --> 0:12:46.040 gift shop, Like what was Harvard? Oh? What is there 0:12:46.080 --> 0:12:46.360 to buy? 0:12:46.440 --> 0:12:46.680 Hmm? 0:12:48.120 --> 0:12:50.160 How about a journal? So I bought one and never 0:12:50.200 --> 0:12:50.560 touched it. 0:12:50.600 --> 0:12:52.160 So that by a sweatshirt, so you could wear it 0:12:52.200 --> 0:12:53.439 and say, oh, I went to Horror. 0:12:53.240 --> 0:12:54.840 Or no, you could look at me and tell I 0:12:54.840 --> 0:12:55.600 didn't go to Harvard. 0:12:55.600 --> 0:12:56.319 Can pretty much tell. 0:12:56.320 --> 0:13:01.240 You can tell just by look. I appreciate it. All right, 0:13:01.280 --> 0:13:03.440 we'll be back in a second. On Katie. Would be 0:13:03.679 --> 0:13:05.640 Bailey Daily Daily, Bailey, What do you got? 0:13:05.800 --> 0:13:07.760 It's would you rather? Friday? So I've got a bunch 0:13:07.760 --> 0:13:17.760 of would you rather? Questions? It's would you rather? Friday? 0:13:18.120 --> 0:13:20.240 So I have some would you rather? Questions? And I'm 0:13:20.240 --> 0:13:21.880 gonna go around the horn here and ask all. 0:13:21.800 --> 0:13:25.319 Of you, all right, would you rather have a picnic 0:13:25.360 --> 0:13:29.760 with your partner or go to a fancy dinner picnic 0:13:29.880 --> 0:13:31.320 or a fancy dancy dinner. 0:13:31.480 --> 0:13:32.080 Fancy dinner? 0:13:32.160 --> 0:13:34.280 Yeah, picnic, there's answer, and you get to sit down 0:13:34.320 --> 0:13:35.320 on the grass. That's true. 0:13:35.640 --> 0:13:39.160 Those are fire ants, ye, fire ants, Nancy, Jenny, picnic picnic. 0:13:39.240 --> 0:13:42.840 I love that that checks out for you. But picnic 0:13:43.200 --> 0:13:47.520 really yeah for you? Because I'm not a fancy food person. Oh, 0:13:47.559 --> 0:13:49.000 so I don't want the pressure of having to order 0:13:49.040 --> 0:13:49.960 like the filet mignon. 0:13:50.200 --> 0:13:50.679 You know what I'm not. 0:13:50.720 --> 0:13:52.199 I'm not a bar person. I've never known what to 0:13:52.280 --> 0:13:53.679 order at a bar, at a picnic. I can just 0:13:53.679 --> 0:13:55.280 have a lice a little stand with your onion rings 0:13:55.280 --> 0:13:56.120 at a bar. Weirdo. 0:13:56.280 --> 0:13:58.920 Okay, I'll say fancy dinner. I agree, Dave. 0:13:59.280 --> 0:13:59.520 Okay. 0:13:59.600 --> 0:14:03.880 Would you rather be dumped or do the dumping? 0:14:04.000 --> 0:14:06.640 Do the dumping? Of course. You'd rather do the dumping, yeah, 0:14:06.679 --> 0:14:09.080 because then you're in control. Yeah, Can I choose neither. 0:14:09.320 --> 0:14:10.880 I don't want the pressure of having to break up 0:14:10.880 --> 0:14:12.840 with somebody. I Yeah, I just don't want the. 0:14:12.800 --> 0:14:14.040 Pressure of it. But at the same time, I don't 0:14:14.040 --> 0:14:14.760 want to be heartbroken. 0:14:14.960 --> 0:14:18.680 Yeah, Jenny, if I have to choose, definitely do the dumping. 0:14:18.800 --> 0:14:22.120 Of Really, I'd rather be dumped because when I when 0:14:22.160 --> 0:14:25.040 I had to break up with my last boyfriend, I 0:14:25.080 --> 0:14:28.040 stressed about it so much and I was like googling 0:14:28.200 --> 0:14:31.960 like best way to break up with a long term partner, okay, 0:14:32.000 --> 0:14:34.560 And it was so hard for me because then they 0:14:34.560 --> 0:14:36.280 were like, oh, you have to tell them, like before 0:14:36.320 --> 0:14:38.200 they leave for work like we have to talk later 0:14:38.280 --> 0:14:40.040 so that they can stew about it all day and 0:14:40.160 --> 0:14:40.880 know that it's coming. 0:14:41.160 --> 0:14:42.480 Oh god, oh. 0:14:42.520 --> 0:14:45.680 It was awful. I needed it, So I'd rather be dumped, Okay. 0:14:45.840 --> 0:14:49.840 Would you rather have a house cleaner every week or 0:14:49.880 --> 0:14:51.560 a massuse once a month? 0:14:54.800 --> 0:14:55.880 House cleaner once a week? 0:14:55.960 --> 0:14:56.280 Okay? 0:14:56.400 --> 0:14:59.720 Yeah, yeah, Jenny, a massuse I'm very good at cleaning 0:14:59.760 --> 0:15:02.480 and gives me like calm, So I'm okay with that. 0:15:02.560 --> 0:15:05.960 Okay, so massus Okay, same with Jenny, exact same with Jenny. 0:15:06.000 --> 0:15:07.840 Oh Man, I would want a cleaner. I never want 0:15:07.840 --> 0:15:08.560 to clean my house ever. 0:15:08.600 --> 0:15:09.680 Again, that's a lot of weight. 0:15:09.920 --> 0:15:10.840 I don't need a massage. 0:15:10.880 --> 0:15:12.400 I've never got disgusting. 0:15:12.560 --> 0:15:13.680 Hey, I cleaned it yesterday. 0:15:13.760 --> 0:15:15.280 Yeah, and you think that. 0:15:19.400 --> 0:15:23.840 Would you rather have a dozen kids or no kids? 0:15:24.120 --> 0:15:27.240 A dozen? Same? Yeah? I love kids. You already have 0:15:27.320 --> 0:15:27.680 a dozen? 0:15:27.720 --> 0:15:30.520 Jenny, God, no no kids? 0:15:30.760 --> 0:15:34.800 Twelve kids? Well right, you would never be able to sleep. Yeah, 0:15:34.800 --> 0:15:35.600 well that's true. 0:15:35.720 --> 0:15:39.600 My anxiety would be so like off the roof. I 0:15:39.600 --> 0:15:40.760 would never be able to function. 0:15:41.000 --> 0:15:42.800 See, I would have I would want a dozen just 0:15:42.840 --> 0:15:44.280 so that they can be adult kids, and then I 0:15:44.320 --> 0:15:45.560 would have a giant family. 0:15:45.600 --> 0:15:47.240 And then they me when I die? 0:15:47.520 --> 0:15:48.840 Yeah, okay. 0:15:48.880 --> 0:15:52.600 Last one, would you rather your best friend fall in 0:15:52.600 --> 0:15:55.520 love with you or your boss fall in love with you? 0:15:55.720 --> 0:15:58.520 Best friend best friend? Yeah, because they're already like we're 0:15:58.520 --> 0:15:59.280 we're already close. 0:15:59.480 --> 0:16:03.120 Yeah it's true, Jenny. No, I wouldn't want to lose 0:16:03.160 --> 0:16:05.880 my best friend. I would say, boss, Well, they could 0:16:05.920 --> 0:16:07.720 be your best friend and your lover, but not if 0:16:07.760 --> 0:16:08.680 you're not interested. 0:16:08.840 --> 0:16:11.280 Yeah, okay, you know I didn't know there was a caveat. 0:16:11.440 --> 0:16:12.120 It's a caveat. 0:16:12.240 --> 0:16:14.480 Yeah, yeah, okay, Vin, Why would I want not want 0:16:14.480 --> 0:16:16.920 my boss because. 0:16:16.600 --> 0:16:17.920 That would make work awkward. 0:16:18.040 --> 0:16:20.040 Give me a raise. I don't have to beg for it. 0:16:21.000 --> 0:16:24.880 Use be like, hey, remember you sent me this text 0:16:24.920 --> 0:16:25.760 saying you were in love with me? 0:16:25.880 --> 0:16:27.680 Give me money, right, stops going to be flowers and 0:16:27.720 --> 0:16:29.200 put a little extra suit of my paycheck? 0:16:29.600 --> 0:16:30.080