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Speaker 1: Hey, Jerry, good morning, good morning, good morning. What's going on?

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Speaker 2: I went on my first thirty second date?

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Speaker 3: Thirty second?

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Speaker 2: Well, I met her on Tinder and then we were

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Speaker 2: going to meet at a restaurant. And then she walked

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Speaker 2: into the restaurant, looked at me and said no.

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Speaker 1: And then.

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Speaker 3: Oh, she recognized you from the Tinder profile. So you

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Speaker 3: must not look that different from your Tinder profile.

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Speaker 2: No, my all my photos are really are really recent.

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Speaker 2: I try to I try to keep it. I try

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Speaker 2: to keep it fresh.

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Speaker 1: Is this your first Tinder date?

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 2: No, I mean I've been another Tinder date, but it

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Speaker 2: had been a while.

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Speaker 3: Wonder what you were doing? Were you like in a

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Speaker 3: couple your tonails at the bar?

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Speaker 5: Maybe it wasn't what you looked like.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm like, did you not like my outfit was?

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Speaker 2: I didn't start eating, so it's not like I had

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Speaker 2: food in my teeth.

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Speaker 6: Were you wearing some sort of sports memorabilia like, you know,

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Speaker 6: like some people are die hard about their team, and

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Speaker 6: if you were wearing like a rival jersey, she might

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Speaker 6: be like nope, or just a jersey yeah or ah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, or.

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Speaker 2: Jeans I was wearing like a nice turtle mac Oh,

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Speaker 2: maybe that was it with no turtle neck, no leaves,

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Speaker 2: oh man sandals.

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Speaker 6: No, I'm just kidding.

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Speaker 7: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: You got a real life swipe left real life in person.

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Speaker 3: She just go like nope and no explanation, Like so

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Speaker 3: it sounds like it's faster than thirty seconds. Actually, if

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Speaker 3: she walks in, sees you and says no and then leaves,

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Speaker 3: that's not even thirty seconds. That was five seconds. But

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Speaker 3: did she like I.

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Speaker 2: Would have thought she would have at least had a

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Speaker 2: drink with me. But no, nothing, nothing, you know.

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Speaker 7: I saw this interview with a guy the other day

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Speaker 7: and I don't know the guy. I see him all

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Speaker 7: over Instagram and I follow him and I don't know

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Speaker 7: his name, but he's awesome. He's got a podcast. You

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Speaker 7: always talk about how much money he makes on the podcast.

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Speaker 7: Sounds like a great He makes like thirty million. He goes,

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Speaker 7: there's a reason I tell people how much I make

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Speaker 7: And he has this explanation for it. But he was

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Speaker 7: talking about it because I'm after, you know, and he said,

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Speaker 7: I don't think he's a douche.

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Speaker 1: I think he's really really smart.

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Speaker 7: But he talks about people nowadays, don't go out and

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Speaker 7: do stuff. They rely strictly on that. We're raising a

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Speaker 7: generation of men, he says. He specifically said men that

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Speaker 7: don't go out, that don't just expect everything to happen

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Speaker 7: online and live these lives online.

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Speaker 1: So and and sometimes the women too.

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Speaker 7: So when you do go out, there's an awkwardness and

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Speaker 7: you don't know how to interact with people.

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Speaker 3: I believe that's probably right.

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Speaker 7: And maybe you walked out, maybe she walked out and

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Speaker 7: you had your shirt tucked into tight or maybe you

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Speaker 7: look down at her, you know, there's no eye contact.

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Speaker 7: Maybe you look down and go, oh, hi, yeah, I'm Jerry,

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Speaker 7: and she's like, I don't think so someone walked out.

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Speaker 1: Man, You know there's something like that.

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Speaker 7: But I mean, you sound like you have a good

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Speaker 7: personality and that you can handle yourself in public, right.

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Speaker 2: I like to think that I do. I did pretty

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Speaker 2: well at friends parties and gathering. Uh yeah, I don't

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Speaker 2: spend all my time at home. So this was definitely

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Speaker 2: uh unexpected.

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Speaker 3: Did you message her as at all? It is like

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Speaker 3: a follow up like, well that was quick? Are you

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Speaker 3: like you okay? You sound Jerry? There had to be something.

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Speaker 3: But I feel like we have like a whole phone

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Speaker 3: thing for Jerry. Now, like who's had the shortest date

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Speaker 3: and why Jerry, nobody's going to be thirty seconds, are they? Well, yeah, people,

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Speaker 3: someone doesn't show up. I guess that's I guess that's true.

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Speaker 2: Now would definitely be this.

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Speaker 1: Well, Jerry, thanks for calling in.

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Speaker 7: Man tried try bumble, Okay, I'll back try Plenty of Fish.

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Speaker 1: That one's a big topic on our show. Yeah, there's

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Speaker 1: an app for that. I don't know. I heard. I

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Speaker 1: heard people. We brought it up one time and it's

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Speaker 1: still we still get text messages on it.

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Speaker 2: Especially the same thing as like Facebook dating at this point,

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Speaker 2: Plenty of Fish.

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Speaker 7: Well, thanks for calling in, though, Good luck to you.

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Speaker 7: Thanks for telling that story.

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Speaker 1: I love it.

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Speaker 7: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Seven nine seven four seven.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, we can do like Date's gone wrong, tender Date's

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Speaker 7: gone wrong, and a bat dating abs gone wrong eight

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Speaker 7: seven seven ninety three seven four seven.

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Speaker 1: It's John, Jay and Rich. So we're talking to Jerry.

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Speaker 7: He went on what he calls the shortest tender date

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Speaker 7: in the history of tender thirty seconds.

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Speaker 1: He walked in. She said, no, I don't think so.

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Speaker 1: You're not my type.

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Speaker 7: So we wanted to hear about bad dates, something that

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Speaker 7: went wrong, one thing that went wrong, or something that

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Speaker 7: happened eight seven seven nine three seven four seven. Good morning, Bernadette.

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Speaker 4: Hi, good morning.

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Speaker 1: What happened to you on a date? So?

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Speaker 8: I had gone out with this guy a couple of

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Speaker 8: times and lur on our third date and my mom

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Speaker 8: called in the middle of the date and she was

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Speaker 8: babysitting my daughter, and so I said, hey, I got

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Speaker 8: to take this call real quick. And I picked up

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Speaker 8: the phone, and you know, my mom's like, is everything

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Speaker 7: Whatever?

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Speaker 8: Whatever, And then he grabbed the phone out of my

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Speaker 4: Is so and so and how's it going and what

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Speaker 4: are you guys doing, and just having like this random

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Speaker 4: just was like, no, I.

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Speaker 7: Could see his intent. It sounds kind of cute. It

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Speaker 7: was kind of cute, but he's not that in yet.

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Speaker 7: I could see what he was doing, and.

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Speaker 1: He already wasn't feeling us, because if she was.

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Speaker 4: She'd be like, oh my god, it's like crazy, Like

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Speaker 4: our family is really weird. When it comes to like

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Speaker 4: I was like, no, we don't force ourselves in. You

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Speaker 3: That's my mom. That's like your mom.

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Speaker 1: You said, this is your third third date with the guy. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and now had you been intimate with him before we had?

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Speaker 7: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Oh see, so I could see wy he would feel

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Speaker 3: The phone like I better marry your daughter. Now he's like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I put up the things we did about better get married.

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Speaker 7: That's that's why that you slept with him? But how

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Speaker 7: dare you talk to my mom on the phone.

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Speaker 3: No, I feel that she didn't let him in.

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Speaker 9: Weird this.

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Speaker 4: That's crazy.

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Speaker 1: Well, that's good. I'm glad you shared. Bernadette, Thanks for.

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Speaker 3: Listening, No problem.

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Speaker 6: That reminds me so much of something that happened to

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Speaker 6: like whatever. We texted and then a month later he

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Speaker 6: and I was like, okay, this is kind of weird

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Speaker 6: in general, like I don't really like you in my

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Speaker 3: I was like, this is oh, that's cute.

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Speaker 6: No like him.

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Speaker 1: It was in your house.

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Speaker 3: He was in your house yeah, and I yeah.

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Speaker 6: And then it actually fell on like a Halloween weekend

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Speaker 6: like a gatorad and suit, but like I'm going out, did.

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Speaker 1: You also get intimate with him?

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Speaker 10: Okay, but it's the same because both of them said

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Speaker 3: Yeah, otherwise, that kind of awesome. He was talking to

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Speaker 2: Hey Wendy, good morning.

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Speaker 1: So what happened to you on a date?

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Speaker 5: I got set up on a blind date and this

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Speaker 9: Like, I had a lot of money, his dad was

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Speaker 5: I felt very intimidated, like this is way out of

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Speaker 5: Hees back and gets another one. We go next door

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Speaker 5: to this fancy dinner with like six or eight other people.

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Speaker 5: At the end, everybody's like, who's going to pay the bill?

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Speaker 5: Everybody's fighting. They want to pay the bill. They want

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Speaker 5: to be a big shot. And I'm like, oh my god,

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Speaker 5: I am so out of my league. I can't do this. Okay,

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Speaker 5: So we just leave the restaurant and he walks me

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Speaker 5: closes the door, and I'm waiting for him to come

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Speaker 5: I look back and he was peeing on the tire.

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Speaker 3: And you guys have been married for twenty three years now,

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Speaker 3: is that what you're going to say?

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Speaker 5: Oh? No way. I realized at that moment I was

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Speaker 5: not out of my league and money does not buy

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Speaker 1: Did you drink the pipe jack and coke?

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Speaker 5: I sipped on that. I think he may have had.

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Speaker 10: Three tire he had to pay on the tire except

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Speaker 10: for I don't know if you know this, but they

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Speaker 10: have bathrooms in restaurants.

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Speaker 1: Wendy, thanks for sharing that start with us. Have a

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Speaker 1: great day.

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Speaker 5: Thanks you too.

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Speaker 7: Eight seven seven ninety seven four seven. I want to

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Speaker 7: hear about something bad that happened on a date. More

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Speaker 7: of your calls. Next with John Jay and Rich, John

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Speaker 7: Jay and Rich, we want to hear about something terrible.

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Speaker 7: It happened on a date. Carla, what happened to you?

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Speaker 6: Hi?

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Speaker 9: Good morning?

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Speaker 7: Hi you guys? Hi?

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Speaker 1: Good? What happened?

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Speaker 9: All right? Well, so this is setting the stage. This

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Speaker 9: is during COVID. This is like what late twenty twenty

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Speaker 9: early twenty twenty one, where people are starting to get

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Speaker 9: you know, set up with everything. I had been talking

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Speaker 9: Yeah, And but that wasn't the worst of it. Then,

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Speaker 9: So that like ruined it. That killed it for me.

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Speaker 9: so stressed. Would you like to have a massage? And

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Speaker 9: I was like, you know, I just outright told him

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Speaker 9: I'm on a date with, and the guy asked the question.

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Speaker 9: The bartender immediately looks at me for a split second.

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Speaker 9: He've me shaking my head being like no, absolutely not,

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Speaker 9: that's weird.

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Speaker 3: Oh we got your back, he got my back.

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Speaker 9: He got my back.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, right, so yep, that was all of that data.

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Speaker 9: I was like, absolutely not. This will We're not doing

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Speaker 3: We just call this segment. Guys are weird.

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Speaker 9: They really are.

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Speaker 7: They really are.

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Speaker 9: Don't get me wrong. I'm happily married now and my

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Speaker 9: husband's amazing, but you know, he's got a couple of

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Speaker 7: All right, Carla, thanks for sharing that story with us.

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Speaker 7: All right, thank you, missy.

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Speaker 1: Good morning. What happened to you on a date?

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 11: Yeah, similar?

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Speaker 7: So.

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Speaker 11: I I was out with this guy.

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Speaker 8: It was our first date.

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Speaker 11: Won't say his name because he's pretty well known. And

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Speaker 11: One of my friends called my cell phone, and I

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Speaker 11: was supposed to go to a party later that night,

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Speaker 11: and he called and was like, hey, can you.

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Speaker 9: Give me a ride?

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Speaker 11: I said, yeah, sure, when I was down, I'll pick

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Speaker 5: So I walked out of the bathroom.

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Speaker 11: I go and I sit down back at the table.

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Speaker 11: But the guy that I was with wasn't at the table,

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Speaker 11: and I'm looking around this restaurant, smaller Italian restaurant, and

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Speaker 11: I see him over like hunt at this table talking

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Speaker 11: and he kind of aggressively grabbed my hand and he said,

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Speaker 11: he said, don't ever take a call from another guy

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Speaker 11: oh my gosh, how the heck did you know he's

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Speaker 11: as a lady's room anyway, So shortly after we wrap

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Speaker 11: up dinner, we walk out to my car. I put

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Speaker 11: he grabs me to kiss me. I pushed him back.

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Speaker 11: I was like, what are you doing? And he said,

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Speaker 11: I want it up. I throw it at him. I'm like, well,

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Speaker 11: now you didn't. I get in the car and I

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Speaker 11: drive away.

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Speaker 8: Later.

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Speaker 11: This guy was married, he had kids. What scared the

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Speaker 11: call and asked for another date.

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Speaker 6: I'm like, dying to know who this guy is.

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Speaker 3: Well, Missy, I don't want to put my business out

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Speaker 3: on the radio like that ever again. And wasn't that

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Speaker 3: Z good? Big ZD was delicious? Am I wrong? Am

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Speaker 3: I wrong? You did?

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Speaker 11: I mean, you're You're in the right being, You're we're

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Speaker 11: talking Italians, we're.

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Speaker 5: Talking, you know, Missy.

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Speaker 7: When you said he's well known, can you like what

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Speaker 7: what line of work? Like?

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Speaker 1: How is he a news anchor?

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Speaker 1: Is he an athlete? Is he how would we know him?

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Speaker 11: No, let's just say I had a real fascination with

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Speaker 11: the Italian mafia in my twenties. So he's his family

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Speaker 11: is one of the original crime families.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I was a bad boy everybody, but no.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, I was really into that and then I married

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Speaker 11: a nice, nice guy.

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Speaker 9: Yeah.

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Speaker 11: No, if I said his name, he is. He's one

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Speaker 11: of the family. Is one of the original crime families York.

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Speaker 1: No, no, don't say his name please. I thought I

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Speaker 1: thought you meant I thought.

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Speaker 7: You meant public eye, like a celebrity, like as far

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Speaker 7: as an athlete or something like that.

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Speaker 3: When you say, I think in his mind he was no, And.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't matter.

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Speaker 7: I don't want you to say his name because, uh,

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Speaker 7: I don't want them to kill rich Okay.

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Speaker 11: I gotcha.

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Speaker 10: Okay, keep it to myself.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for calling in, Missy. Thank you so much for usening.

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Speaker 7: Do you have any other ones to choose a call

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