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Speaker 1: Question to start off the podcast today, Bailey, have a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, go ahead, Yeah, how do you like my sweatshirt today?

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Speaker 2: Do you like it?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: You know, it's it's it's a little more faded than

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Speaker 1: I think that you should wear, and it's kind of

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Speaker 1: So No. The question you were asking me a little

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Speaker 1: while ago was why you mean a little bit bitch?

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Speaker 3: I thought you would be a bitch.

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Speaker 2: I thought you were setting me up for the our bitch.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate that. No, you're you're a good improv cohort.

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Speaker 1: Let's get into the Minnesota goodbye. So I'm gonna start off.

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Speaker 1: Remember yesterday the woman wrote in and said, Hey, I'd

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Speaker 1: love to come by your show and and hang out

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Speaker 1: with you guys, And we're lonely and we're totally down

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Speaker 1: with that. So we're working out with Emily to come

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Speaker 1: by the show. She's going to be in town for

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Speaker 1: a funeral and then she's gonna come by on Monday.

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Speaker 1: Is it a little pathetic that we'll just welcome anybody

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Speaker 1: like into our radio home here?

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Speaker 2: No, No, it's not pathetic at all. It makes us

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Speaker 2: feel good about ourselves because they get excited to be here,

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Speaker 2: and we're like, is it exciting to be here?

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Speaker 1: Now? Remember, Emily, when you come, we hope you will

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Speaker 1: tell the story of I'll repeat it. She says, I'm

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Speaker 1: going through divorce currently with someone who's struggling with some

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Speaker 1: a terrible person for abandoning, and while he's struggling, it

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Speaker 1: would be interesting to hear your listener's perspectives and insight

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Speaker 1: as well as yours. So when she comes, we'll I'll

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Speaker 1: find out what time she's coming in on the live show.

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Speaker 1: So yesterday follow up also Patty, who gave me the

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Speaker 1: nature journaling idea. I found a journal that I had

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Speaker 1: out and I said, this is my nature journal. So

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Speaker 1: I'm going to look up nature journaling and get some

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Speaker 1: prompts and I'm kind of excited about that. Ooh girl.

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Speaker 2: Journaling is supposed to be like really good for you.

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Speaker 2: And every time I like read you know, like a

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Speaker 2: should do? Journal?

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I journaled every day from about two thousand and

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Speaker 1: And then every day and if I missed a day,

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Speaker 1: I'd go back and I would write what I remember

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Speaker 1: happened that day every day until about twenty twenty. And

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Speaker 1: then I just, you know, everybody kind of lost their

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Speaker 1: mojo in twenty twenty. Yeah, and so I really kind

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Speaker 1: of stopped, and I went from journaling every day to

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Speaker 1: maybe twenty times a year.

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Speaker 2: You know, Yeah, I wish I had the patience to

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Speaker 2: do it. But I have a paper planner, and I

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Speaker 2: call that good enough.

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Speaker 1: Because then I can be like, just save those though, oh.

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Speaker 2: I save every single time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I still have like paper planners from like twenty eleven,

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Speaker 1: See, Okay, that's really interesting. Because my dad also he

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Speaker 1: didn't really journal, but he had a little pocket diary

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Speaker 1: write down appointments and phone numbers, and the day I

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Speaker 1: was born, he wrote, sunborn seven pounds, nine ounces whatever, sunborn.

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Speaker 1: When Kennedy was assassinated. He said something like President Kennedy assassinated.

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Speaker 1: So he didn't write details but little things. And I've

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you keeping that stuff.

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Speaker 1: I know you're getting rid of it's still yeah, I'm

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Speaker 2: I also use Instagram stories as kind of like a

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Speaker 3: That's what I think about sometimes when people are like

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Speaker 3: the modern day journal for a lot of people. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I love looking back, Like I feel like I recommended

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Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, I'll be like, hold on, I can. I

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Speaker 2: can look that thing up for you. Let me just

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Speaker 2: go back in my story archive and.

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Speaker 1: I'll find it quickly. Tell me how you find your

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Speaker 3: You go to your profile, so your face on like

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Speaker 3: the right or the bottom. Right, then you go to

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Speaker 3: And then scroll back so the resolution or not is

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Speaker 2: But then you can also sort it by calendar as well.

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Speaker 2: So at the very top of your story's archive, there's

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Speaker 2: you can go back, like it's wild to go back

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Speaker 2: and like kind of almost quote unquote reminisce about the

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Speaker 3: And usually when you go in, it'll show you like

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Speaker 3: this happened like on this day eight years ago. It says, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I am outside running with a tank top on. I

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Speaker 3: on on January ninth.

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Speaker 1: Whoa what year?

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Speaker 1: No, no way, not in January.

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Speaker 3: You're right, that's not right. I must have said that.

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Speaker 1: I didn't. I didn't know what stories were until probably

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Speaker 1: Well, yours, yours are moderately interesting because you do things

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, So you know, I did get hit on

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Speaker 1: is yeah, all right, here we go with the emails.

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Speaker 1: Hello everybody, just writing a quick email to respond to

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Speaker 1: the growing marijuana comment from Jenny. Marijuana surely can be

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Speaker 1: So the gift that keeps on giving. Hello Katie WDB podcast.

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Speaker 1: I was listening to the People Are So Kind on

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Speaker 1: the radio, which is a great segment. I thought i'd

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Speaker 1: write in about an idea that I'd like to practice

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Speaker 1: weekly with my kids. We asked the two questions, who

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Speaker 1: did we help this week? And who helped you? Or

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Speaker 1: someone by you. This created opportunities for the kids to

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Speaker 1: see someone in need and recognize others helping them or others.

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Speaker 1: I found my kids would run back from the school

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Speaker 1: family discussion. I would ask you, who have you helped

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Speaker 1: think that you know. That's like radio DJs will ask

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Speaker 1: helping other people. I think that one thing that honestly

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean, mine's kind of built in because I

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Speaker 2: how I help, And honestly, like, I don't know about

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Speaker 2: that was really nice.

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Speaker 3: That was nice. They helped me, Jenny, I would say

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Speaker 3: that I helped a friend who I grab coffee with yesterday.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you told me a little bit about that.

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Speaker 3: When I went to coffee with them, thinking like it

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Speaker 1: Thought about it. Continuing on with the email, she said,

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Speaker 1: I also wanted to let you know it's from Laura.

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Speaker 1: I was getting my hair done yesterday. While at this

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Speaker 1: After this goes back to your word of the year, Dave,

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Speaker 1: And it's like, we all want well, I want meaning,

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Speaker 1: Cheers to a great twenty twenty six. Thank you, Laura,

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Speaker 1: and she's all the way in Pennsylvania. What the fuck?

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Speaker 1: The f what the fuck? Laura? Explain that one to

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Speaker 1: me and then we have one more. Taylor writes in

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Speaker 1: these games from the cards from the game Honey, which

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Speaker 1: are conversation starters, and we have time for approximately one.

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Speaker 1: All right, I'll give you a choice here. Tell me

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Speaker 1: you ever dated someone after they dated one of your friends?

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Speaker 1: Do you still have any gifts or memorabilia from past relationships.

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Speaker 1: I'll take the last one. Purging. I found things from

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Speaker 1: old girlfriends that I treasured. My one of my favorite girlfriends, Kathy,

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I mean, why why I always keep

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Speaker 3: And I was gifted a Michael Courus purse one time

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Speaker 3: and a wallet like ten years ago, and I still

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's a really good question. What have you kept

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Speaker 1: from past relationships and why? And I think it's okay

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Speaker 1: to do it. I think that the little mementos of

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Speaker 1: there's nothing wrong with that. And that is it for

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Speaker 1: the Minnesota goodbye. Thank you for the emails. That was

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Speaker 1: a lot of fun. Ryan Show at KDIWB dot com.

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Speaker 1: If you want to write