1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,560 Speaker 1: You make a decision, you regret the decision, or your 2 00:00:02,680 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: second guest said decision he gets to call into the 3 00:00:05,360 --> 00:00:08,360 Speaker 1: Joe Show and be on am I the A Hole? 4 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:09,480 Speaker 2: Now? 5 00:00:09,760 --> 00:00:14,480 Speaker 1: Remember we've got Ashley in here, Katie Summers new to 6 00:00:14,520 --> 00:00:18,079 Speaker 1: the show, jets in here, and you are too. 7 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:20,200 Speaker 2: I would love for you to help out. 8 00:00:20,320 --> 00:00:23,000 Speaker 1: Dean eight hundred and four, own name, ninety three ninety 9 00:00:23,040 --> 00:00:26,000 Speaker 1: three be a co host on ninety three three FLZ 10 00:00:26,640 --> 00:00:30,440 Speaker 1: So Dean, I was told a little bit about what 11 00:00:30,480 --> 00:00:35,040 Speaker 1: you said to your your wife, But you are You're worried, 12 00:00:35,040 --> 00:00:35,959 Speaker 1: you kind of afket up. 13 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:38,919 Speaker 2: She's not too happy with you. What exactly happened. 14 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:46,640 Speaker 3: Well about a month ago, I guess I should start with, Okay, 15 00:00:46,720 --> 00:00:50,640 Speaker 3: my wife has been not feeling great about getting older, 16 00:00:50,800 --> 00:00:53,480 Speaker 3: I guess, and she's been talking about how she wanted 17 00:00:53,479 --> 00:00:54,720 Speaker 3: to get a little bit of work done to fix 18 00:00:54,760 --> 00:00:58,040 Speaker 3: some rinkles and things. Okay, fine, A month ago, she 19 00:00:58,080 --> 00:01:01,920 Speaker 3: goes and does that. She comes home and she's wrapped 20 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:06,480 Speaker 3: in bandages and she's black and blue, and they had 21 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:10,880 Speaker 3: no idea it was going to be so serious. And 22 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:13,920 Speaker 3: then eventually the bandages come off and I don't recognize 23 00:01:13,920 --> 00:01:18,119 Speaker 3: my wife anymore. She the work she had done kind 24 00:01:18,120 --> 00:01:20,160 Speaker 3: of freaks me out, if I'm being honest with you, 25 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:26,760 Speaker 3: and I might have said that to her. Yeah, she 26 00:01:26,880 --> 00:01:32,360 Speaker 3: got botox, no's job. She got an upper lift, I 27 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 3: think is what she called it. I don't know. Her 28 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:37,200 Speaker 3: eyes looks freaking out. It's so weird to look at 29 00:01:37,240 --> 00:01:38,119 Speaker 3: my wife. 30 00:01:38,360 --> 00:01:45,840 Speaker 2: I don't know what to do. I hope she doesn't listen. Yeah, wrong, 31 00:01:47,760 --> 00:01:50,600 Speaker 2: ninety three. Let's help out, Dean. This is where I 32 00:01:50,680 --> 00:01:51,800 Speaker 2: just tossed it to the ladies. 33 00:01:51,800 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 1: The beauty is is that you guys can talk because 34 00:01:56,680 --> 00:01:57,880 Speaker 1: as a man, I don't know. 35 00:01:58,120 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, And as a man, I'm very shocked that you 36 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:01,680 Speaker 4: even to talk about this. 37 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:02,760 Speaker 5: Oh my goodness. 38 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:06,200 Speaker 4: I mean, I understand that you know it's different for you, 39 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 4: but I'm almost positive she wouldn't got this surgery because 40 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 4: there was something she was unhappy about with herself. So 41 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 4: I do kind of think you're being an a hole 42 00:02:13,520 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 4: because I'm pretty sure she feels, you know, very confident 43 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:17,280 Speaker 4: and happy with her choices. 44 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:18,520 Speaker 5: You just got to live with it, bro. 45 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 3: That's what's so crazy to me is she was she 46 00:02:21,800 --> 00:02:23,799 Speaker 3: was beautiful before, and she didn't know that. 47 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:25,880 Speaker 2: And I don't know what to do with it, Katie, 48 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:27,680 Speaker 2: what do you think Dean? Dean? 49 00:02:28,400 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 5: We have to remember her body, her choice, and just 50 00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:34,640 Speaker 5: because you don't see an insecurity doesn't mean that she 51 00:02:34,680 --> 00:02:36,800 Speaker 5: doesn't have it. It is not your job to police 52 00:02:36,880 --> 00:02:39,280 Speaker 5: how she feels about her body. And that's so sweet 53 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:42,240 Speaker 5: that you thought she was beautiful before. She's still gonna 54 00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:42,919 Speaker 5: beautiful now. 55 00:02:43,560 --> 00:02:50,440 Speaker 4: And when the swelling goes down, you know, yeah, yeah. 56 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:49,960 Speaker 5: The swelling, Oh my god, yeah, no, it kicked a 57 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:50,400 Speaker 5: long time. 58 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:53,360 Speaker 2: I don't know. 59 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 3: It just it's hard for me to make eye contact 60 00:02:55,840 --> 00:02:57,720 Speaker 3: with her now because she doesn't look like the woman 61 00:02:57,720 --> 00:03:01,160 Speaker 3: that I'm married anymore. I don't recognize her. I mean, 62 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 3: I understand why you're saying the UNVA hole, but like 63 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:05,520 Speaker 3: what am I supposed to do? 64 00:03:07,400 --> 00:03:07,919 Speaker 6: Who is? 65 00:03:08,600 --> 00:03:12,120 Speaker 5: Come on? Did you marry her for her face or don't? 66 00:03:14,840 --> 00:03:19,200 Speaker 1: Hey, Kristen, you're on Dean's side, and I suppose it's 67 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:22,640 Speaker 1: not really like picking sides, right, But you don't think 68 00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:23,880 Speaker 1: that Dean is the A hole? 69 00:03:23,919 --> 00:03:24,440 Speaker 2: Why is that? 70 00:03:25,800 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 1: Because? 71 00:03:26,280 --> 00:03:28,000 Speaker 6: I mean, if if I wouldn't want my husband to 72 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 6: be true and honest with me, I wouldn't want him 73 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 6: to fake around and tell me some bs that you know, 74 00:03:32,480 --> 00:03:34,560 Speaker 6: if it's bad. It's bad, and she needs to know that. 75 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 2: I feel like it bum you out, though. 76 00:03:37,920 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 1: Fagan, would it bum me out though to hear like, 77 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:42,080 Speaker 1: oh god, he doesn't like it. 78 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:46,040 Speaker 6: They would definitely bum me out for sure. 79 00:03:46,120 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 2: But as long as she likes it, that's all that matters. 80 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:50,680 Speaker 4: You say to be honest in that case, but you 81 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:53,360 Speaker 4: have to understand that is major surgery. You don't tell 82 00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:57,000 Speaker 4: someone you don't like their their new nose or their 83 00:03:57,400 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 4: new lips after they just got something done. 84 00:03:59,360 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 5: It's like you can't go over here. 85 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:04,000 Speaker 4: Her birth then I'm sorry, Yeah, but wait, wait, you 86 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:04,800 Speaker 4: can get a cover up. 87 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:07,000 Speaker 1: I was just about to say, how come we've had 88 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:09,760 Speaker 1: these conversations before, and you know everyone in the rooms, 89 00:04:09,800 --> 00:04:12,120 Speaker 1: like you can say, if it's a bad tattoo. 90 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 5: Don't get that covered up something else. 91 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:15,400 Speaker 2: Turn the tiger into a bear. 92 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:20,800 Speaker 1: Thank you, Kristen, it's not a lion. 93 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:25,320 Speaker 2: Bobcat? How dare you? Taylor? 94 00:04:26,640 --> 00:04:31,760 Speaker 7: Well, at least he's being honest as a good husband should. 95 00:04:31,839 --> 00:04:35,480 Speaker 7: But I don't think she should have gotten worked anyways. 96 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 7: I'm very about natural like I wouldn't. I would never 97 00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 7: get plastic surgery. I won't get botox. 98 00:04:42,120 --> 00:04:42,920 Speaker 3: I'm just gonna get. 99 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:47,599 Speaker 1: Old, but at the same at the same time too, 100 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:50,240 Speaker 1: I don't think there's anything wrong with getting work done 101 00:04:50,240 --> 00:04:50,839 Speaker 1: if you want. 102 00:04:50,720 --> 00:04:51,200 Speaker 2: To get it done. 103 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:53,799 Speaker 1: Yeah, because I was gonna say too, And I hope, 104 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:56,560 Speaker 1: I hope my fiance doesn't mind me talking about it, 105 00:04:56,600 --> 00:04:58,760 Speaker 1: but I will know. She's got a boob job, and 106 00:04:58,960 --> 00:05:03,280 Speaker 1: she always talks about how she would wear baggy clothes 107 00:05:03,320 --> 00:05:05,440 Speaker 1: because she wasn't comfortable in her body, and now it's 108 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:09,239 Speaker 1: all about feeling confident. She's had it now for years 109 00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:11,320 Speaker 1: on years and years and years. She loves him. 110 00:05:11,440 --> 00:05:14,880 Speaker 2: I've got boat talks black do crack? Really? Yeah? Wait 111 00:05:15,000 --> 00:05:15,760 Speaker 2: what Yeah, I've. 112 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:16,679 Speaker 5: Got boat talks in my forehead. 113 00:05:16,839 --> 00:05:19,200 Speaker 2: Stop it. You never told us that? 114 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:21,960 Speaker 5: Absolutely really, Yeah, there's nothing. 115 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:23,680 Speaker 4: Wrong with getting work done on your body to make 116 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:25,040 Speaker 4: you make yourself feel more. 117 00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 1: Confident in yourself. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with it. 118 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:28,960 Speaker 1: I'm just saying I can't believe you kept that as 119 00:05:28,960 --> 00:05:31,320 Speaker 1: a secret. I would love to go with you next. 120 00:05:31,120 --> 00:05:34,120 Speaker 4: Time it's out there to help you feel better. Then 121 00:05:34,160 --> 00:05:35,520 Speaker 4: I'm okay with you going to get it done. 122 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:42,720 Speaker 1: Uh huh, hey, uh Jana, Yeah, Hi, Jana, Jana, what 123 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:45,280 Speaker 1: do you think is Dean is am I the a hole. 124 00:05:45,320 --> 00:05:47,719 Speaker 2: He told his wife he doesn't like her plastic surgery. 125 00:05:50,839 --> 00:05:55,640 Speaker 6: I don't because, I mean, yes, women struggle with body dysmorphia, 126 00:05:55,680 --> 00:05:57,960 Speaker 6: and you know, she wanted to work and make herself 127 00:05:57,960 --> 00:05:59,840 Speaker 6: feel better for at the same time he's being on 128 00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:02,320 Speaker 6: it's because it's new to him and it's a shock 129 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:04,479 Speaker 6: to him. It's not like he knew exactly what she 130 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:07,520 Speaker 6: was getting done unless she told him and preface, Hey, 131 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:10,800 Speaker 6: this is what I'm getting done. But I mean, he's 132 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:12,880 Speaker 6: used to seeing his wife for so long one way 133 00:06:13,360 --> 00:06:17,680 Speaker 6: and then for her to come completely different and not 134 00:06:17,880 --> 00:06:20,680 Speaker 6: expect it. I mean, he could very well not like it. 135 00:06:20,720 --> 00:06:22,479 Speaker 6: But she's your wife. She's the woman you fell in 136 00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 6: love with. She's still the same person. She just looks 137 00:06:24,960 --> 00:06:27,440 Speaker 6: a little bit different. Maybe maybe it'll grow on him 138 00:06:27,480 --> 00:06:29,800 Speaker 6: and he'll realize he'll learn to love it. 139 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:32,120 Speaker 4: And you don't have to say outright like I don't 140 00:06:32,200 --> 00:06:34,480 Speaker 4: like it, this is different. You could just say, oh, babe, 141 00:06:34,560 --> 00:06:37,120 Speaker 4: I'm gonna have to get used to this new you, right, 142 00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:40,400 Speaker 4: or like I wish you would have told me, tell. 143 00:06:40,279 --> 00:06:41,720 Speaker 2: Me there's the way. 144 00:06:42,360 --> 00:06:44,640 Speaker 6: It's the prime rule of it's not what you say 145 00:06:44,680 --> 00:06:46,000 Speaker 6: it's how you exactly. 146 00:06:47,320 --> 00:06:47,839 Speaker 2: Beautiful. 147 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:52,760 Speaker 1: Well, listen, Dean, we heard from all the ladies, a 148 00:06:52,760 --> 00:06:55,400 Speaker 1: lot of ladies. Are you feeling a little bit better 149 00:06:55,480 --> 00:06:58,360 Speaker 1: hearing that you're not the a hole I am? 150 00:06:58,440 --> 00:07:01,800 Speaker 3: Actually yeah, I'm just glad to people understand I'm taking 151 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:03,640 Speaker 3: aback by it. It's not that I don't love her. 152 00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:04,960 Speaker 3: I love my wife, you. 153 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:11,600 Speaker 1: Know, James to shock me, flowers, chocolates, handbags, definitely a 154 00:07:11,600 --> 00:07:16,520 Speaker 1: handbag going You're going to You're going to international today 155 00:07:16,560 --> 00:07:21,040 Speaker 1: after working. Maybe maybe a little apology gift just to 156 00:07:21,040 --> 00:07:21,920 Speaker 1: be nice. 157 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:25,120 Speaker 2: Sound like a plan. I like that? All right, thank you, Dean. 158 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:27,600 Speaker 1: That's amid a whole Listen back on our Free iHeartRadio 159 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:30,240 Speaker 1: episodes to Joe Show on ninety three to three fl 160 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:37,200 Speaker 1: Z Ashley. You got two minutes and forty eight seconds Ashley. 161 00:07:37,280 --> 00:07:40,040 Speaker 1: We haven't even seen Ashley in the studio truthfully, all 162 00:07:40,120 --> 00:07:43,560 Speaker 1: morning long, as she's been running out, running back in 163 00:07:43,720 --> 00:07:46,840 Speaker 1: right before we turn on the mics. Truthfully, I'm so 164 00:07:46,840 --> 00:07:48,200 Speaker 1: excited for her to get done with this so I 165 00:07:48,200 --> 00:07:49,200 Speaker 1: can get her focus back. 166 00:07:49,240 --> 00:07:51,320 Speaker 2: But I love her, We love our girl. 167 00:07:51,920 --> 00:07:54,640 Speaker 1: She's she is very, very proud about this, So make 168 00:07:54,680 --> 00:08:00,880 Speaker 1: sure we are nice to Ashley about this, well, actually, no, we. 169 00:08:00,960 --> 00:08:03,480 Speaker 2: Gotta be honest. 170 00:08:04,640 --> 00:08:08,520 Speaker 1: Ashley is currently at war with another car dealership. 171 00:08:08,600 --> 00:08:10,760 Speaker 2: Essentially, there is a car dealership that. 172 00:08:10,760 --> 00:08:13,760 Speaker 1: Is making noise on FLZ because they've got like a 173 00:08:13,920 --> 00:08:17,840 Speaker 1: song in their commercial, and Ashley is very, very very 174 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:24,280 Speaker 1: jealous at that fact. She wants to have her own 175 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:28,200 Speaker 1: song for Brandon Honda. She is practicing a rap out 176 00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:31,760 Speaker 1: there right now. When Ashley comes back, she's gonna rap. 177 00:08:32,240 --> 00:08:34,679 Speaker 1: Have you guys ever heard a rap? I've heard her 178 00:08:34,679 --> 00:08:36,120 Speaker 1: freestyle once. It's pretty good.