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Speaker 1: Good morning, Brooke, Good morning.

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Speaker 2: How are you?

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Speaker 1: What can we do for you?

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Speaker 3: I mean you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you guys can tell me if I'm being like

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Speaker 2: dramatic or ridiculous, but it's just something I've noticed. My

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Speaker 2: boyfriend is like very much like someone who's been pretty

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Speaker 2: much like I don't believe in marriage, Like that's his

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Speaker 2: like thing, you know, every Halloween. Every Halloween, he only

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Speaker 2: wants to do costumes where we're literally a married couple,

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Speaker 2: like we've been Frankenstein and his bride Lydia and Beetlejuice

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Speaker 2: and Goma as a martician. I'm just like, sure, you

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Speaker 2: don't want to propose to be in real life, but

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Speaker 2: all he wants to do is like play pretend and

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Speaker 2: play dress up and be your bride on Instagram for

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Speaker 2: like the likes on Halloween, you know. And I kind

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Speaker 2: of was like, I don't know, it feels weird, Like

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Speaker 2: it's weird that you want to do that, and all

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Speaker 2: you talk about is how you don't believe in Mary Rich.

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Speaker 2: But he was like, you're being you know, you're being

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Speaker 2: a lot. It's just for fun and you're looking into

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Speaker 2: something that's not there. But anyway, I'm like, why does

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Speaker 2: he want to do that for Halloween, but like we

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Speaker 2: can't do an in real life.

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Speaker 1: You know, well, let me tell you this, in my opinion,

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Speaker 1: on Halloween, you dressed up of something you're terrified.

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Speaker 4: Of that I'm looking at it. I just don't like.

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Speaker 4: I maybe he just likes couple's costumes.

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Speaker 3: You are a couple.

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Speaker 2: It's just weird when it's like that's his like, you know,

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Speaker 2: platitude to be like I don't believe marriage, and then

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Speaker 2: I don't know, I probably am looking too far into it,

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Speaker 2: and but it's just like it's I just found it odd.

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Speaker 2: I find it weird.

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Speaker 1: And he's suggesting all these costumes like the Adams family.

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Speaker 1: He's suggesting this. Okay, yeah, because like.

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Speaker 3: You would be down with like assault and Pepper duo costume.

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Speaker 3: You just don't want to act as if you guys

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Speaker 3: are actually are.

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Speaker 1: Sultant Pepper buried in real life.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, are they.

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Speaker 1: Totally they're all married.

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Speaker 3: I guess like according to Blues Clues, they are definitely

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Speaker 3: a married I'd like.

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Speaker 2: But I don't care, you know, like it's just like whatever,

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Speaker 2: but it's I just I started to notice it, and

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Speaker 2: it's like a pattern.

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Speaker 1: So here's the thing though, it sounds like it sounds

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Speaker 1: like you want a future with him and he doesn't

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Speaker 1: want to get married, So you either have to be

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Speaker 1: mentally prepared to be a girlfriend forever or you got

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Speaker 1: to move on.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know that is annoying that he does. I'd

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Speaker 3: be annoyed too. You don't want to marry me, but

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Speaker 3: you want to play dress up. It's like a couple's costume.

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Speaker 1: I get.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I get, like, I get.

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Speaker 4: You on the future there, but that's like a more

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Speaker 4: serious conversation than just like what you're doing on Halloween.

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Speaker 4: You are a couple, so I would think, you know,

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Speaker 4: it's natural for him to want to do a couple's costume.

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Speaker 4: I think that's awesome. Actually, Like I got to like

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Speaker 4: try to convince my husband to dress up with me.

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Speaker 1: Every year, do Haley and Justin Bieber.

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Speaker 4: But I do think that's like a deeper conversation that

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Speaker 4: you need to have. And if he is telling you

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Speaker 4: he does not want want to get married at the

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Speaker 4: end of the day, I think you've got to listen

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Speaker 4: to them and if that's what you want, you have

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Speaker 4: to move on, all.

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Speaker 1: Right, Brook, Thanks for calling in interesting dilemma.

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Speaker 2: Thanks, bye, bye bye