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Speaker 1: I got a guy just sent a text and he said, hey,

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Speaker 1: does TK law handle divorce cases in other cities like Jacksonville.

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Speaker 2: So I don't do a lot of work in Jacksonville,

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Speaker 2: but I do have a lawyer up there who used

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Speaker 1: Okay, so yeah, you call Ray. He can handle it,

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Speaker 1: and if he can't handle it, he'll get you to

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Speaker 1: And talking about divorce, this was an article that I saw.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I wonder how much of this Ray has

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Speaker 4: Now?

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Speaker 1: This is more probably about messing up Well, let's talk

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Speaker 1: about divorce. Do these things during If you do these

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Speaker 1: clients about and say, hey, don't do that, this is

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Speaker 3: Like, do you get that deep into Oh?

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Speaker 5: Absolutely.

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Speaker 2: There's a lot of different ways you could be a lawyer, right, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: you know, do that. I'm not that kind of lawyer,

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Speaker 2: you know. What's more important to me is not just

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Speaker 2: I talk to people about how they're going to get divorced,

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Speaker 2: set goals with them, and almost almost uniformly, every single

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Speaker 2: of a priority is it for you to protect your

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Speaker 2: but maybe you should rethink how you do X.

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Speaker 3: Look, i'll list you some of these things.

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Speaker 1: You tell me how many times you have to deal

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm sure that happens all the time.

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Speaker 2: All the time, And there's so much trauma around that.

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Speaker 1: Don't you find out that a lot of times you

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Speaker 3: My kids being around it. And he was doing cocaine

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and it could be the other way, like, well,

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Speaker 5: And they don't need to. They don't need to.

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Speaker 3: Here's another one. I'm sure.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure you'd see this all the time as a

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Speaker 3: You can talk to Ray Trainlely.

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Speaker 1: Skipping support payments, yes, so that happens, I'm sure.

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Speaker 2: What they see is my ex has a nice new house,

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Speaker 5: But two, the kids are going to look at it

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Speaker 2: Dad doesn't care about me or mom doesn't care about

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Speaker 2: And and a lot of times too the parent who's

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Speaker 2: I guess he doesn't care if we eat crackers.

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Speaker 1: Well, that goes into number three on it belittally in

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Speaker 3: Tell any of your clients, Hey, you can't do.

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Speaker 2: This, not only most of my clients, because I feel

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Speaker 2: I put into my parenting plan contract, so it's a

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Speaker 2: I put it in the contract because it's it's unexcusable.

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Speaker 4: One of the best things that from my own personal experience,

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Speaker 2: I don't think I agree, And I think you give

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Speaker 1: So the other one is griping about your ex's family

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Speaker 1: And if you've had to deal with this at all,

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Speaker 5: Oh, my goodness, I've had.

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Speaker 2: I've had parents slip recording devices and the kids backpack

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Speaker 5: And that's you know.

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Speaker 1: I bet here we are coming up on the holidays.

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Speaker 5: So it's funny you say that.

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Speaker 3: All right, Well, it's a friendly Ray Trendly.

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Speaker 1: If you are going through divorce or any kind of

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Speaker 1: And once again, thank you for you actually made a scarecrow.

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Speaker 1: Oh come on, now.

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Speaker 3: This has already been a bad enough year as it is.

444
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Speaker 4: Do we know if this is okay? So this is

445
00:19:29,600 --> 00:19:31,880
Speaker 4: let's don't lose. This is the world that I live

446
00:19:31,920 --> 00:19:35,600
Speaker 4: in or we living right? Yeah, I saw that. Until

447
00:19:35,640 --> 00:19:38,320
Speaker 4: it's been confirmed, I don't want to believe it. I

448
00:19:38,320 --> 00:19:40,119
Speaker 4: don't either, Like I don't know.

449
00:19:40,359 --> 00:19:42,400
Speaker 1: She's seventy nine years old, so I mean, when you're

450
00:19:42,440 --> 00:19:44,679
Speaker 1: when you're you know, when you're up there, then you know,

451
00:19:45,040 --> 00:19:46,960
Speaker 1: you don't know what can happen what.

452
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Speaker 7: Like at that age, Yes, you could have been having

453
00:19:48,520 --> 00:19:49,920
Speaker 7: a great day yesterday and then like.

454
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Speaker 6: One fall one cold Oh dude.

455
00:19:52,520 --> 00:19:55,640
Speaker 4: You want to talk about heartbreaking and exactly what you're

456
00:19:55,640 --> 00:19:59,360
Speaker 4: talking about. There's a new documentary on Paramount that has

457
00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:01,000
Speaker 4: to do with the Ozzy Osborn.

458
00:20:01,200 --> 00:20:02,000
Speaker 3: It just dropped.

459
00:20:02,160 --> 00:20:05,960
Speaker 4: Oh my god, it's it is heartbreaking. It really it

460
00:20:06,040 --> 00:20:09,960
Speaker 4: is heartbreaking. It is hard today, it's going to pull

461
00:20:10,040 --> 00:20:11,879
Speaker 4: at your at your heart.

462
00:20:11,640 --> 00:20:15,240
Speaker 1: Mary Ellen loves Ozzy and she loves him because not

463
00:20:15,359 --> 00:20:17,840
Speaker 1: of the music or because the Aussie that we all love.

464
00:20:18,160 --> 00:20:21,080
Speaker 1: She loves the azzy on the on the TV show

465
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Speaker 1: and the one that does that show about uh uh,

466
00:20:24,240 --> 00:20:26,480
Speaker 1: the Osbourne's want to believe or whatever, and she thinks

467
00:20:26,520 --> 00:20:27,920
Speaker 1: he's the most a normble guy.

468
00:20:28,080 --> 00:20:31,200
Speaker 4: It's on Plaramountain. It's called No Escape from Now.

469
00:20:31,160 --> 00:20:32,800
Speaker 3: And he was still he was still alive.

470
00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:35,919
Speaker 4: So this is basically yeah, this is the basically the

471
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Speaker 4: two years leading up to the final show. Obviously they

472
00:20:40,359 --> 00:20:42,600
Speaker 4: didn't know what was going to happen, but this the

473
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Speaker 4: Rock and Roll Hall of Fame is a huge part

474
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Speaker 4: of this. You have we have no idea unless you've

475
00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:51,920
Speaker 4: watched this, unless you've seen this, you had no idea,

476
00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:56,959
Speaker 4: no idea how of how bad his medical situation was.

477
00:20:57,160 --> 00:21:01,320
Speaker 4: This documents that the fall that like it was just

478
00:21:01,359 --> 00:21:03,959
Speaker 4: basically a fall at home that broke his neck, and

479
00:21:04,119 --> 00:21:08,199
Speaker 4: from there everything went south for the last four or

480
00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:11,200
Speaker 4: five years, maybe even longer than I think they said

481
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Speaker 4: nine years of his life, just the incredible amount of

482
00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:18,560
Speaker 4: pain that he was in just and that's because so

483
00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:22,640
Speaker 4: it was the fault, but then there's misdiagnosis, there's overreached

484
00:21:22,640 --> 00:21:25,120
Speaker 4: by doctors, there's like a bunch of stuff that goes

485
00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:30,120
Speaker 4: on there. Obviously he's older at this time. It's there's

486
00:21:30,160 --> 00:21:32,600
Speaker 4: a The beautiful part of it is obviously is there

487
00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:37,480
Speaker 4: is him and Sharon, and that there's a point there where,

488
00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:44,119
Speaker 4: like you could, Sharon breaks and she knows and it

489
00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:46,200
Speaker 4: happens months and months and months and months and months

490
00:21:46,240 --> 00:21:49,160
Speaker 4: and months before you know. But there's a scene there

491
00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:52,600
Speaker 4: that is is is as hard, as hard as anything

492
00:21:52,640 --> 00:21:55,000
Speaker 4: I've ever had to watch, because it was real, you

493
00:21:55,040 --> 00:21:57,680
Speaker 4: know what I mean, When an older person like.

494
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Speaker 3: That falls, you don't know how it can make like, no.

495
00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:04,080
Speaker 4: This is in this what Ryan was saying in regardless

496
00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:06,359
Speaker 4: of Dolly parton, you know what day, everything was cool,

497
00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:09,199
Speaker 4: everything was fine, and then he has this fall and

498
00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:12,320
Speaker 4: it had changed the trajectory of the last ten years

499
00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:12,760
Speaker 4: of his life.

500
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Speaker 1: And that's what and this is not the same thing,

501
00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:17,879
Speaker 1: but sort of adjacent or whatever. But Ace Freely, the

502
00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:22,119
Speaker 1: guy from Kiss just fell on stage and uh, you know,

503
00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:24,359
Speaker 1: had to rush him to the hospital. And now he's

504
00:22:24,359 --> 00:22:27,480
Speaker 1: canceled all of his concerts for the rest of the year.

505
00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:30,399
Speaker 1: And they're not saying what's wrong, but a fall like that,

506
00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:32,960
Speaker 1: and if it's Dolly, if it's anyone.

507
00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:36,439
Speaker 4: Over they find when they're going in there to let's say,

508
00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:38,560
Speaker 4: they thinking they're working on a broken hap and they

509
00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:39,880
Speaker 4: find who knows what, you know.

510
00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:42,320
Speaker 1: And and then broken hit. That's what That's what Tom

511
00:22:42,359 --> 00:22:45,160
Speaker 1: Petty's problem, right. Tom Petty had a fall and broke

512
00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:46,760
Speaker 1: his hip and then started taking the opioids.

513
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Speaker 7: And and I think bigger deal though for Dolly, and

514
00:22:49,520 --> 00:22:52,159
Speaker 7: I've seen this happen too many times. It's sad and

515
00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:54,879
Speaker 7: it will one hundred happen to me. Is she lost

516
00:22:54,880 --> 00:22:56,320
Speaker 7: her husband of sixty years.

517
00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:58,760
Speaker 1: You know, you're right, that's a very good point. He

518
00:22:59,080 --> 00:23:01,000
Speaker 1: passed a couple of months ago. And a lot of

519
00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:04,239
Speaker 1: times your partner goes and you're just like, yeah, what

520
00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:06,160
Speaker 1: the hell, and you know, yeah.

521
00:23:06,720 --> 00:23:07,639
Speaker 5: That will happen to me.

522
00:23:07,760 --> 00:23:10,359
Speaker 7: Having my uncle, I watched him fully deteriorate after my

523
00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:12,240
Speaker 7: aunt died. They were together for a long time. Seeing it,

524
00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:14,840
Speaker 7: I've just seen. It's just a real ass thing that

525
00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:18,320
Speaker 7: can happen. It's like dying of heartbreak. Yeah yeah, so

526
00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:22,000
Speaker 7: I can't imagine me sixty years a long time to

527
00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:24,880
Speaker 7: wake up with like no one like I'm really your

528
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:27,240
Speaker 7: your mom was what I was worried about when that

529
00:23:27,359 --> 00:23:30,520
Speaker 7: when that happened. But she's going strong.

530
00:23:30,680 --> 00:23:34,920
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, she sits at home alone by herself watching TV.

531
00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:36,480
Speaker 3: I mean, like ID but it.

532
00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:38,320
Speaker 7: Should do a lot before. It's not like she was

533
00:23:38,359 --> 00:23:40,440
Speaker 7: out and about the town that much.

534
00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:42,639
Speaker 1: Before she had my dad to talk to. She's just

535
00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:43,720
Speaker 1: very lonely right now.

536
00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:47,080
Speaker 7: And that she get her an AI an a high yeah,

537
00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:48,959
Speaker 7: like set up like AI robots.

538
00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:50,200
Speaker 6: You can talk to it at her house.

539
00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:52,280
Speaker 3: That's not a bad idea, I know, yeah yeah.

540
00:23:52,680 --> 00:23:54,920
Speaker 8: Or she could just talk to real people. There's women

541
00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:58,120
Speaker 8: groups talking about real's women group chat.

542
00:23:58,280 --> 00:23:58,560
Speaker 3: I know.

543
00:23:58,680 --> 00:24:01,800
Speaker 1: But that she comes from the fifties and and and

544
00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:05,439
Speaker 1: in West Virginia, and she only served my dad for

545
00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:08,520
Speaker 1: sixty years, and she never is great at talking to

546
00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:11,040
Speaker 1: people for whatever reason. Because people when they do talk

547
00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:13,760
Speaker 1: to her, they like her. But she just she's an introvert.

548
00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:16,960
Speaker 1: And my dad was the extrovert that that when people

549
00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:18,560
Speaker 1: hung out, they were hanging out with Dad, but they'd

550
00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:20,399
Speaker 1: get to know Mo. And she just won't get out

551
00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:20,800
Speaker 1: of the house.

552
00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:21,080
Speaker 3: Man.

553
00:24:21,200 --> 00:24:23,439
Speaker 1: It's just it's it's it's frustrating, but it's just what

554
00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:23,800
Speaker 1: it is.

555
00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:27,600
Speaker 8: And she's going to do anything.

556
00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:30,240
Speaker 1: She won't get out and do anything because she's nervous

557
00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:31,600
Speaker 1: about talking to people.

558
00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:32,800
Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't know what it is.

559
00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:33,439
Speaker 8: Understand that.

560
00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:36,680
Speaker 1: I don't understand it. But it's because I'm like my dad.

561
00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:39,200
Speaker 7: You know, I could set up a tablet with it's

562
00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:41,920
Speaker 7: your dad's head, yes, and he's talking.

563
00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:44,960
Speaker 6: Do you have enough audio where we could clone his voice?

564
00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:46,400
Speaker 3: I got him saying shut the hell.

565
00:24:49,359 --> 00:24:49,840
Speaker 5: I got that.

566
00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:51,920
Speaker 6: Yeah, we could. We could set it up. She could

567
00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:52,840
Speaker 6: like talk to him.

568
00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:54,480
Speaker 1: Isn't that scary though?

569
00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:56,280
Speaker 8: That that's what the world's coming to, That you can

570
00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:59,680
Speaker 8: take someone's voice, clone it and have them say things

571
00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:02,840
Speaker 8: that they never said. And then that's where the reality blurs,

572
00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:04,719
Speaker 8: the lines of what's real and what's not. With all

573
00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:06,080
Speaker 8: this AI that's been coming.

574
00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:06,159
Speaker 3: In my.

575
00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:12,480
Speaker 7: Wife for to pass, I'm not going back out in

576
00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:14,720
Speaker 7: the dating pool. I'm never gonna do it is terrible.

577
00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:17,240
Speaker 7: I would make this. I would have a picture in

578
00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:22,280
Speaker 7: my wall that's an interactive picture I would talk to if.

579
00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:25,480
Speaker 1: Dolly Parton passes and I'm not you know, obviously, God forbid.

580
00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:25,920
Speaker 4: Uh.

581
00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:28,040
Speaker 3: That's that's one thing.

582
00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:31,119
Speaker 1: That's that's one thing we all could be in a

583
00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:33,159
Speaker 1: great we'd all be sad, right, like a little bit

584
00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:36,200
Speaker 1: of unity in America for like one day. No matter

585
00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:37,560
Speaker 1: who you are, you love Dolly, right.

586
00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:39,680
Speaker 6: The flag's gotta go half master.

587
00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:41,600
Speaker 3: I can't imagine.

588
00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:43,320
Speaker 1: Anybody like I hate that Dolly Parton, like, I don't

589
00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:43,960
Speaker 1: think that happens.

590
00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:46,159
Speaker 4: I'll take that bat Oh, well, that.

591
00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:50,280
Speaker 1: Person is just not worth anything like like, you can't

592
00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:51,800
Speaker 1: you can't dislike Dolly.

593
00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 3: She's sweet, she can be.

594
00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:56,760
Speaker 1: She loves everybody something exactly.

595
00:25:56,960 --> 00:25:57,960
Speaker 8: There's always a negative.

596
00:25:58,080 --> 00:25:59,960
Speaker 6: It's always a negative, guaranteed.

597
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:02,280
Speaker 4: Because of the last few years of her life and

598
00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:07,520
Speaker 4: her social political when she helped COVID, the social political

599
00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:10,320
Speaker 4: stances that she has taken on, and seeing some of

600
00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:13,360
Speaker 4: the posts that have come out about her before she

601
00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:16,479
Speaker 4: was ill, there are people that are going to not

602
00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:19,080
Speaker 4: be so pleasant to her. And I'll take I'll take

603
00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:20,880
Speaker 4: that one and I'll take that bet from you, Ryan,

604
00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:23,840
Speaker 4: that I would I would be genuinely surprised in the

605
00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:27,119
Speaker 4: climate that we are in today, that it would be

606
00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:29,040
Speaker 4: asked that a flag goes half staff for her.

607
00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:31,920
Speaker 6: Oh you got to.

608
00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:35,000
Speaker 4: Again, I agree with you, guys, I'm in agreement. I would,

609
00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:38,320
Speaker 4: I would expect the same. I would be surprised.

610
00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:40,520
Speaker 3: So I don't even know her political stance, be honest.

611
00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:42,440
Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying. We didn't for the longest time.

612
00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:45,600
Speaker 4: And then in the last five years, uh, from the

613
00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:48,000
Speaker 4: time in COVID when she stuffed up is she helped

614
00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:50,720
Speaker 4: cover some businesses, and she helped pay some things off,

615
00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:54,159
Speaker 4: and she's taken care of of some city, some towns

616
00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:56,280
Speaker 4: and things like that. We never knew these things about

617
00:26:56,280 --> 00:26:58,959
Speaker 4: her and she and it became she made it aware,

618
00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:03,840
Speaker 4: and there were she pro No, she's she's very u

619
00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:05,760
Speaker 4: she's pro LGBTQ.

620
00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:08,600
Speaker 7: She was offered the Presidential Medal of Freedom from both

621
00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:11,720
Speaker 7: Biden and Trump. She declined those both to decline both.

622
00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:14,360
Speaker 7: She hasn't had a lot of controversy in her life.

623
00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:16,520
Speaker 7: I mean she did she did a duet with Kid Rock,

624
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:18,960
Speaker 7: so well, you know, no, I'm saying, like like she

625
00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:22,680
Speaker 7: reaches across the aisle. I think I think Dolly Parton people,

626
00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:25,000
Speaker 7: I think you're right. If there's ever a coming together moment,

627
00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:28,520
Speaker 7: it's Dolly Parton AND's people celebrating her, I would hope.

628
00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 4: But the Christian right, the Christian fundamentalists, have her on

629
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:37,919
Speaker 4: a list because of her support for LGBTQ list over there.

630
00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:39,040
Speaker 3: That's something wrong with them.

631
00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:42,720
Speaker 1: Then you know who's two months away when it's October

632
00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:45,760
Speaker 1: number three months away from being one hundred is Dick

633
00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:48,679
Speaker 1: van Dyke h son of a gun huh. And he

634
00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:50,840
Speaker 1: made a joke, you know, and he's like, wouldn't it

635
00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:52,280
Speaker 1: be funny if I didn't make it to one hundred?

636
00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:54,760
Speaker 1: And people were like, oh my god, what a horrible.

637
00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:54,880
Speaker 3: Thing to say.

638
00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:58,120
Speaker 1: But he's like doing Joe, like he's thinking that he's

639
00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:00,199
Speaker 1: good and he did you know, obviously he wants make

640
00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:01,280
Speaker 1: it to a I saw that.

641
00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:02,760
Speaker 7: I saw that, and I was like, that's kind of

642
00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:04,679
Speaker 7: funny actually, But then I think I was thinking, like

643
00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:07,240
Speaker 7: you get to that age and like you're in the

644
00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:10,280
Speaker 7: countdown and you know, and you know what a weird

645
00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:12,240
Speaker 7: place to be that must be mentally to know that

646
00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:13,639
Speaker 7: like you have I think when.

647
00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:15,800
Speaker 3: You're a hundred, maybe weeks when you're.

648
00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:20,120
Speaker 1: He's not feeble at all, but I think you've accepted

649
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:21,879
Speaker 1: it by then you're like, Okay, I'm gonna I'm gonna

650
00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:24,960
Speaker 1: transfer over to whatever's next and and and I'll be good.

651
00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:26,840
Speaker 4: I think I see him on TV in a second,

652
00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:28,560
Speaker 4: but I don't think. I think it's just out of choice.

653
00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:30,600
Speaker 4: But like last time I saw him, he was, I mean,

654
00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:31,440
Speaker 4: he was engaged.

655
00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:33,760
Speaker 7: Was It's crazy though for me, Like what I'm saying

656
00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:35,560
Speaker 7: is like, okay, like if you have cancer, you get

657
00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:37,959
Speaker 7: to genuinely get a diagnosis they give you, like you

658
00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:38,760
Speaker 7: have this long to live.

659
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:40,600
Speaker 6: You're like, this disease is gonna get me or whatever

660
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:40,920
Speaker 6: it is.

661
00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:44,800
Speaker 7: When you're just a hundred, that's just age and it

662
00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:47,360
Speaker 7: could be any day for nothing, you know what I mean.

663
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Speaker 6: That's kind of a weird.

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Speaker 3: You can make it to one hundred and five. I

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Speaker 3: mean people do that, you know.

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Speaker 1: But he he seems to be in pretty good health.

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Speaker 1: And uh, you know, let me ask a question, Uh uh, Amber,

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Speaker 1: do you know who Dick Van Dyke is?

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Speaker 6: Yes?

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Speaker 3: You do?

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Speaker 6: Okay, what's he do?

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Speaker 8: I think he's an actor? Okay, And what it sounds

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Speaker 8: so familiar. He he did the.

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Speaker 3: Stuff like you don't know, Yeah, you don't know.

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Speaker 7: I feel like she can get it there up brains burning, Yeah,

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Speaker 7: I mean I mean.

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Speaker 3: That I believe my brain's burning.

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Speaker 6: I feel that's called thinking.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: He had had a television show it it's called The

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Speaker 1: Dick Van Dyke Show. And he also is in Mary

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Speaker 1: Poppins that he did Chitty Chitty Bang Bang, and he

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Speaker 1: he did.

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Speaker 3: I mean I used to love that.

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Speaker 1: Uh, he did a lot of stuff, but but it

686
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Speaker 1: would be much older, so I didn't know if current

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Speaker 1: people even know who Dick van Dyke is. Everybody knows

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Speaker 1: who Dolly Parton still is. You know, Dick van Dyke

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Speaker 1: hasn't done anything. He did the Museum, that the Museum

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Speaker 1: that night at the museum, he was in a couple

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Speaker 1: of those. Is a bad guy. What else has Dick

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Speaker 1: Van Dyke done lately? He's really been slucky. No, no, no.

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Speaker 4: Two years ago he was on the mass singer Yeah,

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Speaker 4: thank you.

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Speaker 1: He always seems like a sweet guy though. He seems

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Speaker 1: like he's a pretty cool dude and well loved. But uh,

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Speaker 1: Dolly Parton obviously would be a bigger deal. Who else

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Speaker 1: is up there? Now that we all will go, oh.

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Speaker 4: Man, are we playing Deadpool?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: I don't want to do that.

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Speaker 3: It's the topic. It's Dolly Parton.

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Speaker 1: Saying we all need to pray for Dolly because she's

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Speaker 1: on her way out, basically is what she's saying.

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Speaker 3: Uh and uh. That will be very sad if it happens.

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Speaker 1: Remember, like the one you liked a lot, Betty White

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Speaker 1: didn't actually make it to one hundred.

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Speaker 3: She was like two months.

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Speaker 6: Away, a couple of a couple of couple away. I

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Speaker 6: respect that, Betty.

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Speaker 1: There was another one that made it almost too, was

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Speaker 1: it Bob Bob Barker almost one hundred?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: Bob Barker was a while ago.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, Well take a little break, we come back.

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Speaker 1: We got news from the headlines. Don't go anywhere. You're

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Speaker 1: listening to the Max in the morning. Hey, there's a

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Speaker 1: there's twenty seats left from the Monster Brewbus. It's a

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Speaker 1: Halloween brew bus. We're going October twenty fifth, where you're

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Speaker 1: encouraged to dress up if you want to, giving out prizes.

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Speaker 1: I wonder what the weather's gonna be like that day.

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Speaker 3: There's gonna be a little.

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Speaker 4: Could it be a little chili, and it would be

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Speaker 4: nice to have a hint of chili there, wouldn't.

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Speaker 1: It, Benice, I have a costume that I'm like, well,

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Speaker 1: that's gonna be If it's hot, it'd be too sweaty.

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Speaker 1: But if it's not hot, it'd be cool. Anyway you

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Speaker 1: can dress up. Two buses are ready to roll, only

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Speaker 1: twenty seats left.

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Speaker 3: Grab them when you can, and we're going to Lake County.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna go out to Eden Abbey Brewing, which is

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Speaker 1: in Mount Door. Then we're gonna go to Chicago Fire

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Speaker 1: Brewing which is in Leesburg, and then also the Wolf

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Speaker 1: Branch Brewing which is in Leesburg and they are Savannah,

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Speaker 1: so I know's gonna perform live for you. And then

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Speaker 1: we're also gonna go to Puddle Jumpers, who's are a

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Speaker 1: big one of our big sponsors, and that's Intravaries and

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Speaker 1: the Stubborn Cowgirl and Doug are going to perform out there,

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Speaker 1: so and who knows what else is gonna happen on

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Speaker 1: a brew bus. Always cool things, you know, being added,

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Speaker 1: And I can't wait.

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Speaker 3: To see the t shirts that you guys have picked out.

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Speaker 3: You know that'll be cool. So there you go.

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Speaker 1: Get your tickets, might go on a real radio dot

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Speaker 1: FM slash brew before they're all sold out. There's only

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Speaker 1: twenty seats left. Let's see a news The headlines brought

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Speaker 1: to you by who.

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Speaker 7: Ryan Headquarter Hyundai RUSS Headquarter Hunday is where I'm going

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Speaker 7: to go check out my new Santa Cruz that I'm

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Speaker 7: gonna get. I think that's where I'm finally landing on.

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Speaker 7: I was torn between that and the Palisade, but Headquarter

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Speaker 7: hunda Any trades are accepted, even if you have one

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Speaker 7: thousands of a book value, plus you get zero percent

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Speaker 7: financing for sixty months on the two songs of launchers

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Speaker 7: Santa Fez and more, plus America's best Tenure one hundred

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Speaker 7: thousand mile powertrain warranty and the Hyundai Assurance.

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Speaker 6: Visit head Quarter dot com.

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Speaker 1: Say hi to my buddy Chuck. That's one of my neighbors.

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Speaker 1: I did like, yeah, in my life.

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Speaker 6: That's a cool guy.

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Speaker 1: I only remember certain people. Chuck and Angelique. I remember

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Speaker 1: there definitely, they were wonderful. I loved them both and

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Speaker 1: they're down their sponsors, so that's very cool.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, he didn't turn you in for their door to

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Speaker 7: the Kobe I'll tell you that.

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Speaker 3: He did not. No, he helped me. He helped me

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Speaker 3: knock the door out. Yeah, oh he was. He's a

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Speaker 3: cool dude. I miss those guys, you know.

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Speaker 1: It's one of those people though, you know they were

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Speaker 1: They were with neighbors. We saw him all the time,

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Speaker 1: and then when you move, you just fall out of touch,

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Speaker 1: you know.

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Speaker 3: Okay, they moved.

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Speaker 7: Un Yeah, he was telling me about the house he

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Speaker 7: was either built or was building, and uh, all the

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Speaker 7: bonded over because his family is Carnei's too.

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Speaker 3: Yes, and his wife is she's funny. She just funny.

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Speaker 1: The first days I moved in, his wife was like,

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Speaker 1: I want to put sage in your house, you know,

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Speaker 1: because you've had all these divorces. We're gonna make sure

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Speaker 1: you don't have another divorce. And she tried to run

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Speaker 1: off all the evil spirits and uh and uh.

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Speaker 3: Worked, they worked.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm still married eight years later, so you know,

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Speaker 1: shout out to Angelique.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, Today is national or international National Happy National Pet

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Speaker 1: Obesity Awareness Day. Okay, so for dogs that are obese,

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Speaker 1: and it says here a third of Americans would put

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Speaker 1: their dogs on ozimpic question, if you're not Let's say

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Speaker 1: you know that big great dame and you have uh,

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Speaker 1: great Danes don't get overweight, do they do?

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Speaker 3: They? I've never seen a fat great name. Google just

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Speaker 3: google fat great name. So they do.

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Speaker 1: So if the if the if that dog got.

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Speaker 4: Fat obese, would you put it on ozipic if there

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Speaker 4: was a version for dogs? Sure can't. There can't be

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Speaker 4: fat there is. He's a legendary's a he's an athletic,

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Speaker 4: spry dog, so you can't have him be fat out.

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Speaker 1: Let's say here ozempic dogs could hit the Ocempic for

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Speaker 1: dogs can hit the market in three years. Really, yeah,

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Speaker 1: they're making it four dogs. They're at tracked by three years.

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Speaker 1: They should have it because obese obesity for animals is

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Speaker 1: a big deal and people don't know what to do

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Speaker 1: other than not feed the dog and then that makes

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Speaker 1: the dog grumpy.

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Speaker 4: And they are running that drug for as much money

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Speaker 4: as they can make off of that thing all over

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Speaker 4: the place. So they do it. Humans to do it.

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Speaker 4: Now they're going to get the human to buy their

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Speaker 4: their dosage and the dog dosage.

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Speaker 6: When do you intervene with somebody's fat pet? Though?

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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 1: Like?

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Speaker 6: When is it like like like Okay, you're an enagbler,

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Speaker 6: you're a feeder. That's not good.

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Speaker 7: Like somebody I know who's related to me, who gave

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Speaker 7: birth to me, has the fattest cat on the entire

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Speaker 7: the entire planet. And I want you to picture a

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Speaker 7: fat cat in your brain right now.

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Speaker 6: I'm making I got one.

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Speaker 7: I've seen many a fact walk into that.

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Speaker 4: I'm a huge fan of the fat cat.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, but this this is I'm actual fee lion.

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Speaker 6: Oh oh, fee lion.

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Speaker 7: And uh I'll make that like me oway, Yeah, make

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Speaker 7: that fee lion bigger because that's how big this cat is.

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Speaker 7: And he's mean and he's fat, and my mom has

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Speaker 7: a self feeder for him.

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Speaker 1: By the way, Topic not cats right now.

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Speaker 3: Topic is dogs.

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Speaker 6: Right, it's obesity awareness for animals. It wasn't ab awareness

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Speaker 6: for dogs.

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Speaker 3: You don't listen to it. Thing I say.

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Speaker 1: It's obese awareness for dogs.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, why just dogs? All people have fat animals. There's

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Speaker 6: a lot that could be too fat.

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Speaker 3: You ever see a fat parrot?

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Speaker 4: No, that doesn't mean that it doesn't exist.

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Speaker 1: Now, Actually, you're right, it's it's pet obesity.

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Speaker 4: It is. It is just messing with you.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I was listening this time, sort of gotcha, not

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Speaker 7: enough to why I was confident.

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Speaker 1: Of cat owners and thirty five percent of dog owners.

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Speaker 3: Have an overweight or obese animal.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, say that the owner is also obese.

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Speaker 3: That's a good question.

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Speaker 8: I don't know, sea monkey do what are you saying.

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Speaker 4: About Ryan's mom?

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Speaker 6: You call my mom fat?

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Speaker 1: You great shape.

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Speaker 6: But it's too far because you can wear a child's

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Speaker 6: wrestling belt.

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Speaker 7: You think you're better than everybody, right, Yeah, I feel

856
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Speaker 7: like I.

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Speaker 6: Do have to intervene because, like, and I've made comments.

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Speaker 7: I've been trying to like be like mom wet over

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Speaker 7: the cat and the cat's on like a self feeder,

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Speaker 7: and that's the problem.

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Speaker 6: And the cat has like a sense of time.

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Speaker 7: I was unaware of this, Like, so it goes off

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Speaker 7: with like five in the afternoon and the cat will

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Speaker 7: come out at like four fifty five and.

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Speaker 6: Just wait for it to like go because it knows.

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Speaker 6: It knows.

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Speaker 4: But if it's on a self feeder, that doesn't mean

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Speaker 4: it's being fed too often. Maybe she's got I mean,

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Speaker 4: she's got it timed out.

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Speaker 3: She can time she should time it back a little.

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Speaker 7: Bit, should time it back. I'm thinking one time of day.

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00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:54,360
Speaker 7: But then but then my mom's in an abusive relationship

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Speaker 7: with this cat. I've said this before. Uh so she's

874
00:37:57,440 --> 00:37:59,480
Speaker 7: tried to pull back the food. But then she's like,

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00:37:59,480 --> 00:38:02,000
Speaker 7: well then the cat's like real mean to me, and

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Speaker 7: she's not wrong.

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Speaker 6: This cat is also an asshole. So I don't I

878
00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:11,160
Speaker 6: don't know what to do. But this cat is way

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00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:12,520
Speaker 6: way too big.

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00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:15,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know why a parrot doesn't get fat. It

881
00:38:15,800 --> 00:38:16,520
Speaker 3: eats like a bird.

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00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:21,760
Speaker 8: Joke, that's kind of cute.

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Speaker 1: I get it eats like a bird.

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Speaker 8: She should do the timer thing though, And then when

885
00:38:30,320 --> 00:38:34,320
Speaker 8: it gets when it gets, make sure she clips its nails.

886
00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:36,799
Speaker 8: Does it bite her? Does it just randomly bite her?

887
00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:37,120
Speaker 4: Yeah?

888
00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:39,480
Speaker 7: Her arm is all cut up and beat up because

889
00:38:39,480 --> 00:38:40,799
Speaker 7: this cat bites her all the time.

890
00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:42,319
Speaker 6: Just and I'm like, what were you doing with the

891
00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:43,719
Speaker 6: Cat's like, I don't know, I was pet in it.

892
00:38:44,080 --> 00:38:46,800
Speaker 8: You can give the cat catnip and be real happy.

893
00:38:47,120 --> 00:38:48,399
Speaker 6: I don't just drug the cat.

894
00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:48,839
Speaker 1: Mean.

895
00:38:50,040 --> 00:38:52,719
Speaker 6: I rarely thinking animals like mean mean. This cat is mean.

896
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Speaker 1: If your dog that you are, are you in love

897
00:38:55,080 --> 00:38:55,440
Speaker 1: with your dog?

898
00:38:55,480 --> 00:38:55,560
Speaker 4: Now?

899
00:38:55,600 --> 00:38:56,560
Speaker 3: Are you still madt your dog?

900
00:38:58,040 --> 00:38:58,160
Speaker 4: Oh?

901
00:38:58,239 --> 00:38:59,360
Speaker 5: Let's see what you do yesterday?

902
00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:00,360
Speaker 3: Are you are you in different?

903
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:03,240
Speaker 6: I love my dog your dog got.

904
00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:05,400
Speaker 3: Fat, would you would you give it ozepic?

905
00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:08,839
Speaker 7: No, no, no, I just feed it less and then

906
00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:15,160
Speaker 7: walk it more. I don't need to get into his now.

907
00:39:15,800 --> 00:39:18,240
Speaker 6: I'm in control of my dog's weight one hundred percent.

908
00:39:18,480 --> 00:39:18,880
Speaker 3: Well here's that.

909
00:39:18,920 --> 00:39:21,400
Speaker 1: I've got two dogs, right, one she's she's a puppy,

910
00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:24,080
Speaker 1: she's skinny, skinny, skinny. And the other one, bo is

911
00:39:24,120 --> 00:39:28,280
Speaker 1: getting fat and he eats everything and he'll eat her food.

912
00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:30,960
Speaker 1: He's like, I'm like, but he's slowing down right thinking

913
00:39:31,040 --> 00:39:35,440
Speaker 1: monkey see monkey do he's watching me, you know, and

914
00:39:35,440 --> 00:39:37,800
Speaker 1: it don't sit there, you know, and beg for food

915
00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:39,279
Speaker 1: from Mary Ellen. And of course you know when she

916
00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:41,359
Speaker 1: eats her pizza, she'll give him, you know, the pizza bones.

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00:39:41,400 --> 00:39:42,960
Speaker 3: I'm like, he's getting fat, honey.

918
00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:44,200
Speaker 6: You know, well, it's true.

919
00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:47,000
Speaker 8: Usually like an animal sees you eating, or they smell

920
00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:48,920
Speaker 8: of food, they're gonna want to bite. And then your

921
00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:50,440
Speaker 8: owner is gonna be like, oh, sure you can have

922
00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:52,879
Speaker 8: some of my McDonald's. And that that's where it could

923
00:39:52,960 --> 00:39:54,800
Speaker 8: come from. If you're that kind of person that feeds

924
00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:55,839
Speaker 8: people food to your dog.

925
00:39:55,960 --> 00:39:56,880
Speaker 6: There's a lot of factors.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I try to tell her, I said all that

927
00:39:58,320 --> 00:39:59,960
Speaker 1: extra food you've given him I would eat.

928
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Speaker 3: Give it to me.

929
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Speaker 1: All right, we're gonna take a break and we come back.

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Speaker 1: It's signed for the King of Denmark ride home to

931
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Speaker 1: make his daily proclamation. You're listening to the mantras the

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Speaker 1: morning