1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:03,760 Speaker 1: You're listening to KFI AM six forty on demand. 2 00:00:05,400 --> 00:00:08,039 Speaker 2: Blue Penrose with you till ten o'clock. Thank you for 3 00:00:08,080 --> 00:00:10,080 Speaker 2: tuning in. Good to have you along with us on 4 00:00:10,119 --> 00:00:15,000 Speaker 2: a Wednesday. Saturday is Valentine's Day, and they did a 5 00:00:15,040 --> 00:00:20,680 Speaker 2: poll to see if we are able to be in 6 00:00:20,680 --> 00:00:24,880 Speaker 2: love anymore as a country. You would think given the 7 00:00:25,840 --> 00:00:27,880 Speaker 2: you know, I mean, disagreements just don't go on in 8 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:28,720 Speaker 2: politics anymore. 9 00:00:28,760 --> 00:00:31,680 Speaker 3: They're in pop culture. I mean, we disagree about everything. 10 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:34,879 Speaker 2: We disagree about the Super Bowl halftime show with the 11 00:00:34,920 --> 00:00:38,879 Speaker 2: same level of passion that we disagree about politics. So 12 00:00:38,920 --> 00:00:42,600 Speaker 2: politics has spilled into pop culture. We're really not a 13 00:00:42,680 --> 00:00:44,920 Speaker 2: nation divided. I don't agree with that. They use that 14 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:47,440 Speaker 2: term a lot. We're a nation divided, We're not. We're 15 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:51,839 Speaker 2: a nation in disagreement, but we are disagreeing about every 16 00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:56,880 Speaker 2: single thing, I mean every single thing. So with Valentine's 17 00:00:56,960 --> 00:01:00,480 Speaker 2: Day coming up, they did a poll to see if 18 00:01:00,520 --> 00:01:02,280 Speaker 2: people could actually. 19 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:08,399 Speaker 3: Being in love with somebody of the other political party. Now. 20 00:01:08,400 --> 00:01:11,880 Speaker 2: Growing up, I had family members like this and they 21 00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:15,760 Speaker 2: were cute. I had an uncle. He really wasn't my uncle. 22 00:01:15,840 --> 00:01:19,680 Speaker 2: He was my grandfather's cousin. But for Italians they're all uncles, 23 00:01:19,720 --> 00:01:22,920 Speaker 2: you know how that works. And he was a big 24 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:25,680 Speaker 2: Reagan Republican in the eighties because he worked for Grumman, 25 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:30,160 Speaker 2: and Grumman was a defense contractor and his wife was 26 00:01:30,440 --> 00:01:34,920 Speaker 2: a Democrat, and it was like funny. They would argue 27 00:01:34,920 --> 00:01:36,920 Speaker 2: a little bit, but not really that big of a deal. 28 00:01:37,120 --> 00:01:38,800 Speaker 2: And then my mom would point out that they're just 29 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:41,960 Speaker 2: canceling each other's vote, and I would be like, mon, 30 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:43,200 Speaker 2: don't eg them on. 31 00:01:43,360 --> 00:01:46,000 Speaker 3: That's not a good thing to say. They're getting along. 32 00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:48,960 Speaker 3: They're just slightly disagreeing because you know, it's close to 33 00:01:49,160 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 3: the November election. 34 00:01:50,520 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 2: But they had like four kids and were happily married 35 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 2: for fifty years. 36 00:01:55,320 --> 00:01:56,880 Speaker 3: So people were able to do it. 37 00:01:58,040 --> 00:02:02,120 Speaker 2: And looking around today, I'll bet you think that we're 38 00:02:02,160 --> 00:02:08,760 Speaker 2: not able to do it. But when polled people say, yeah, 39 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:11,400 Speaker 2: I could love a person from the other party. 40 00:02:11,240 --> 00:02:13,799 Speaker 4: Nearly six and ten voters believe it's possible to fall 41 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:16,359 Speaker 4: in love with someone whose political views are opposite their own. 42 00:02:16,680 --> 00:02:17,639 Speaker 3: Are you surprised at that? 43 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:21,079 Speaker 2: I am a little surprised at that, because the conversation 44 00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:25,799 Speaker 2: on social media is so terse, Like if you're in 45 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:31,240 Speaker 2: love with somebody and they come out as a Trump 46 00:02:31,280 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 2: supporter and you thought they were kind of middle of 47 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:36,800 Speaker 2: the road, or they come out as a burning Sanders supporter, 48 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 2: and you like, that's one thing if somebody, just if 49 00:02:40,320 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 2: you're already in love, but to. 50 00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:47,560 Speaker 3: Fall in love with somebody, that's shocking. 51 00:02:47,639 --> 00:02:50,160 Speaker 4: Nearly six and ten voters believe it's possible to fall 52 00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 4: in love with someone whose political views are opposite their own, 53 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:55,639 Speaker 4: with three quarters of those polled said sense of humor 54 00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:57,440 Speaker 4: is more important than political views. 55 00:02:57,680 --> 00:02:58,399 Speaker 3: I agree with that. 56 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:01,960 Speaker 2: Gotta have a sense of humor, especially in this political climate, 57 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:05,680 Speaker 2: more important than political views. Now, it's interesting to me. 58 00:03:05,800 --> 00:03:12,160 Speaker 2: This Paul was interesting because I do remember Charlie kirk 59 00:03:12,320 --> 00:03:15,360 Speaker 2: used to go on college campuses. Charlie Kirk is was 60 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:18,760 Speaker 2: with Turning Point USA, big conservative activist who used to 61 00:03:18,800 --> 00:03:22,080 Speaker 2: go on college campuses and talk politics, and he was assassinated. 62 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:27,720 Speaker 2: But I remember somebody asking him this question, right, what 63 00:03:27,919 --> 00:03:30,440 Speaker 2: if my girlfriend is a great, big liberal and I'm 64 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 2: a great big conservative And his advice was to break up? 65 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 2: He was and he's like, look, I'm gonna be perfectly 66 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:38,640 Speaker 2: honest with you, and you're not gonna want to hear it. 67 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:41,760 Speaker 2: I don't think it's compatible. I don't think love. Marriage 68 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:47,880 Speaker 2: is love, and marriage is compatible with having different political philosophies. 69 00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:50,080 Speaker 2: And I thought that was pretty harsh and I don't 70 00:03:50,080 --> 00:03:52,640 Speaker 2: agree with him, and I don't think that's true because. 71 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 3: I've lived it, I've seen it. You have had people 72 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:57,080 Speaker 3: in your family like this. I'm sure you've had. 73 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:00,760 Speaker 2: There were people back in the day that were married 74 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:03,280 Speaker 2: and they were different political parties and they voted differently, 75 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:06,040 Speaker 2: and they used to joke about it. It wasn't like 76 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:10,120 Speaker 2: a thing that would get them yelling at each other, 77 00:04:10,640 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 2: but they would be open about it, and people just 78 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:19,279 Speaker 2: live their lives. It was usually the husband was the 79 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 2: Republican and the wife was the Democrat. That breaks down 80 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:27,880 Speaker 2: demographics pretty accurately. But I have an neighbor who is 81 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:31,039 Speaker 2: actually a surgeon over at Kaiser and his dad was 82 00:04:31,080 --> 00:04:35,039 Speaker 2: a huge Democrat. His dad lived in Burbank and his 83 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:40,359 Speaker 2: mom was the Republican and they would bicker and it 84 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:47,040 Speaker 2: was fun. But again, they had four sons and were married, 85 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:51,600 Speaker 2: you know, like forever, so people were able to get 86 00:04:51,680 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 2: along and be in different political parties. And with Valentine's 87 00:04:57,000 --> 00:04:58,600 Speaker 2: they coming up, you have to wonder if people are 88 00:04:58,640 --> 00:04:59,920 Speaker 2: going to try that out. 89 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:02,160 Speaker 4: While just fifty eight percent of those polled said they 90 00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:04,960 Speaker 4: are currently in love, and that's down eleven points since 91 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 4: twenty fifteen. Nearly nine and ten of those polled who 92 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:10,760 Speaker 4: are married said they're currently in love. 93 00:05:10,800 --> 00:05:13,200 Speaker 2: All right, ninety percent of married people are in love. 94 00:05:13,240 --> 00:05:17,479 Speaker 2: That's good news. Fifty eight percent of everybody? 95 00:05:19,560 --> 00:05:22,200 Speaker 3: What was that of a? Fifty eight percent are in 96 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 3: love at all? 97 00:05:22,760 --> 00:05:24,919 Speaker 4: While just fifty eight percent of those polled said they 98 00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:27,719 Speaker 4: are currently in love, and that's down eleven points since 99 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:28,479 Speaker 4: twenty fifteen. 100 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:32,920 Speaker 3: Well, that's down eleven points, so under sixty percent of 101 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:36,600 Speaker 3: Americans are in love at all. Well, look, I got 102 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:38,160 Speaker 3: a couple of days before. 103 00:05:38,480 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 2: Valentine's Day and everyone's looking for love, so this would 104 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:49,599 Speaker 2: be the time. But I think more people today are 105 00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:52,120 Speaker 2: interested in people's political leanings. 106 00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:56,360 Speaker 3: I think it is a bigger deal now. I've never 107 00:05:56,400 --> 00:05:57,400 Speaker 3: had the opportunity. 108 00:05:57,520 --> 00:06:00,359 Speaker 2: I've never had the opportunity to test it out because 109 00:06:01,240 --> 00:06:04,640 Speaker 2: when I was in college, I was a political science major, 110 00:06:04,720 --> 00:06:07,760 Speaker 2: so politics was around at all times. I worked on 111 00:06:07,839 --> 00:06:12,359 Speaker 2: campaigns and it was pretty clear you know where I was. 112 00:06:12,440 --> 00:06:16,440 Speaker 2: I was working on Republican campaigns, and you know, on 113 00:06:16,480 --> 00:06:20,160 Speaker 2: college campuses, every college is on a liberal campus, So 114 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:24,360 Speaker 2: you're always dealing with a bunch of hippies running on 115 00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 2: city council and a bunch of crunchy granola people on 116 00:06:27,480 --> 00:06:28,320 Speaker 2: college campuses. 117 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 3: So there's always a great divide. 118 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:34,400 Speaker 2: And it just happened that the people that I dated 119 00:06:34,440 --> 00:06:39,200 Speaker 2: in college just happened to be of the same political 120 00:06:39,279 --> 00:06:40,040 Speaker 2: bent as I would. 121 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 3: I didn't seek it out. I didn't really care. 122 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 2: I didn't really care about how women felt about politics 123 00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:52,159 Speaker 2: until I got into politics, working on presidential campaigns, when 124 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:55,760 Speaker 2: it really matters when you're trying to get the woman vote. 125 00:06:56,640 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 3: But I don't even think I asked if they voted 126 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:00,240 Speaker 3: or not. 127 00:07:00,920 --> 00:07:05,159 Speaker 2: But I never And then after that, just the people 128 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:07,080 Speaker 2: that I chose to hang out with all seemed to 129 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:09,560 Speaker 2: we just seem to agree on politics, even though it 130 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:13,360 Speaker 2: never really came up. And then my girlfriend, then fiance 131 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:17,040 Speaker 2: then wife just happens to be and she's more conservative 132 00:07:17,040 --> 00:07:17,480 Speaker 2: than I am. 133 00:07:19,080 --> 00:07:21,200 Speaker 3: So I've never had the opportunity to put it to 134 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:22,080 Speaker 3: a test to see. 135 00:07:21,920 --> 00:07:25,520 Speaker 2: If I could get along romantically with somebody of a 136 00:07:25,520 --> 00:07:28,280 Speaker 2: different political party. But I think i'd be okay. I 137 00:07:28,280 --> 00:07:30,480 Speaker 2: think it's the other way. There are a lot of 138 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:33,960 Speaker 2: liberal women that are trying to get you to break 139 00:07:34,040 --> 00:07:35,679 Speaker 2: up with your conservative boyfriend. 140 00:07:35,720 --> 00:07:37,680 Speaker 5: Here she I divorced my husband because he became a 141 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:39,080 Speaker 5: Q and on maga freakazoid. 142 00:07:39,440 --> 00:07:41,240 Speaker 3: Then I divorce your husband. 143 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:43,560 Speaker 5: Ladies, leave your husbands if they're maga. 144 00:07:43,640 --> 00:07:44,080 Speaker 3: There you go. 145 00:07:44,840 --> 00:07:48,120 Speaker 2: She's trying to get everybody to leave. Leave, leave your 146 00:07:48,120 --> 00:07:51,000 Speaker 2: boyfriends to leave your husband's get divorced. She divorced her 147 00:07:51,080 --> 00:07:53,560 Speaker 2: husband because he was a freakazoid, I think is what 148 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:53,920 Speaker 2: she said. 149 00:07:54,000 --> 00:07:55,840 Speaker 5: I divorced my husband because he became a Q and 150 00:07:55,880 --> 00:07:57,440 Speaker 5: on maga freakazoid. 151 00:07:57,120 --> 00:08:03,040 Speaker 2: Q A non maga. I haven't heard the term freakazoid. 152 00:08:03,960 --> 00:08:06,760 Speaker 2: I have heard it, but it really hasn't come up 153 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:12,680 Speaker 2: in conversation, I think since sixth grade. Freakazoid. What was 154 00:08:12,680 --> 00:08:14,760 Speaker 2: the last time you heard somebody called a freakazoid? 155 00:08:14,760 --> 00:08:19,040 Speaker 3: Foosh? That's pretty Uh, that's trippy. That's a throwback. That's 156 00:08:19,040 --> 00:08:23,280 Speaker 3: a throwback, right, yeah, absolutely, Like freakazoid is something you 157 00:08:23,280 --> 00:08:24,600 Speaker 3: would say in elementary school. 158 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:25,160 Speaker 6: Yeah. 159 00:08:25,160 --> 00:08:26,600 Speaker 3: I think I was like nine the last time I 160 00:08:26,640 --> 00:08:28,880 Speaker 3: heard that, right, I was like, exactly, that's exactly what 161 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:33,240 Speaker 3: I thought. That's like saying no doy like instead of 162 00:08:33,280 --> 00:08:37,480 Speaker 3: saying no kidding no, doy, that's that's in the freakazoid genre. 163 00:08:38,280 --> 00:08:40,720 Speaker 3: All right, Well, uh. 164 00:08:40,360 --> 00:08:43,079 Speaker 2: That's that's that's where we're at nine, six out of 165 00:08:43,120 --> 00:08:45,160 Speaker 2: Actually it is in great numbers. Six out of ten 166 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:48,920 Speaker 2: Americans say you can love somebody of a different political party. 167 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:52,920 Speaker 2: So almost half, just over half, but nine out of 168 00:08:52,960 --> 00:08:56,640 Speaker 2: ten who are are married are in love. And almost 169 00:08:56,640 --> 00:09:00,320 Speaker 2: sixty percent of Americans are in love. So look, you 170 00:09:00,360 --> 00:09:03,760 Speaker 2: know what Stephen still said. If you can't be with 171 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:06,240 Speaker 2: the with the one you love, love the one you. 172 00:09:06,280 --> 00:09:10,760 Speaker 1: With, you're listening to KFI AM six forty on demand. 173 00:09:12,440 --> 00:09:15,000 Speaker 2: A new love poll out shows that six and ten 174 00:09:15,040 --> 00:09:18,560 Speaker 2: Americans say yes, I can be in love with somebody 175 00:09:19,559 --> 00:09:23,800 Speaker 2: of a different political party. But a lot of liberal 176 00:09:23,800 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 2: white women are saying you should not be dating anybody. 177 00:09:28,679 --> 00:09:31,440 Speaker 3: Of a different political party. In fact, you should get divorced. 178 00:09:31,520 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 5: I divorced my husband because he became a Q and 179 00:09:33,480 --> 00:09:37,360 Speaker 5: on maga freakazoid. Then I divorce your husband. Ladies leave 180 00:09:37,400 --> 00:09:39,040 Speaker 5: your husbands if they're maga. 181 00:09:39,120 --> 00:09:42,520 Speaker 3: So we got all this, and Valentine's Day is Saturday. 182 00:09:42,640 --> 00:09:46,880 Speaker 7: Mike from Tahoe. I met my wife in nineteen eighty five. 183 00:09:47,320 --> 00:09:51,600 Speaker 7: She was a total liberal and vegetarian. Today, thirty some 184 00:09:51,679 --> 00:09:56,280 Speaker 7: odd years later, we've been married and happily Republican. 185 00:09:56,559 --> 00:10:00,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, that does happen, but that might have happened. With 186 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:04,200 Speaker 2: all due respect, it may not have been you. I'm 187 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:10,000 Speaker 2: sure it was you. I'm sure you're a slayer. But 188 00:10:10,760 --> 00:10:17,360 Speaker 2: women tend to mature into conservativism. That's just political statistics, 189 00:10:19,080 --> 00:10:22,839 Speaker 2: so bye. But I'm sure it was you. And it's 190 00:10:22,880 --> 00:10:27,120 Speaker 2: interesting politically speaking, because I have a degree. 191 00:10:26,800 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 3: In political science. It doesn't work the other way. Like you. 192 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:37,439 Speaker 2: Men don't tend to drift or age into being a Democrat, 193 00:10:37,640 --> 00:10:42,560 Speaker 2: but women age into being a Republican, especially once they 194 00:10:42,559 --> 00:10:43,040 Speaker 2: get married. 195 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:49,280 Speaker 3: The longer they're single, the longer they're trouble. And that's 196 00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:49,840 Speaker 3: another thing. 197 00:10:50,040 --> 00:10:52,600 Speaker 2: There's a lot of We were talking about this last night, 198 00:10:52,800 --> 00:10:54,559 Speaker 2: and I got a lot of feedback from a lot 199 00:10:54,559 --> 00:10:56,559 Speaker 2: of nervous single women who said, I don't want to 200 00:10:56,559 --> 00:10:59,200 Speaker 2: go on the airloom, but you are so right. I 201 00:10:59,280 --> 00:11:02,200 Speaker 2: thought I would going to get engaged on Christmas Eve. 202 00:11:02,240 --> 00:11:05,079 Speaker 2: It was a little embarrassing because I had my boyfriend 203 00:11:05,160 --> 00:11:07,240 Speaker 2: at the Thanksgiving Day table, and I know how this 204 00:11:07,400 --> 00:11:10,280 Speaker 2: works for you single women. I know how this works, 205 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:12,640 Speaker 2: and I feel for you. That's why I give you 206 00:11:12,679 --> 00:11:18,559 Speaker 2: these rules. Right, everybody knows in the family that you 207 00:11:18,679 --> 00:11:21,280 Speaker 2: all been dating for a while. No one's gonna bring 208 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:23,240 Speaker 2: it up at the Thanksgiving Day table, but the fact 209 00:11:23,240 --> 00:11:28,040 Speaker 2: that he's at your family's house for Thanksgiving and the 210 00:11:28,080 --> 00:11:31,239 Speaker 2: plan is that he's going to be there around the holidays. 211 00:11:31,559 --> 00:11:33,520 Speaker 2: Everyone wonders if you're going to get a ring on 212 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:36,720 Speaker 2: Christmas Eve and you got no ring. Well, you know, 213 00:11:36,800 --> 00:11:39,640 Speaker 2: we have just a week away from New Year's Eve 214 00:11:40,200 --> 00:11:43,000 Speaker 2: and we have plans, so that's probably what's going to happen, 215 00:11:43,000 --> 00:11:46,600 Speaker 2: and you got no ring. So now you really got 216 00:11:46,640 --> 00:11:48,480 Speaker 2: to kind of suck it up. The good news is 217 00:11:48,520 --> 00:11:51,839 Speaker 2: there's a lot of distractions. It's dry January. You got 218 00:11:51,840 --> 00:11:53,680 Speaker 2: to return gifts, you got to get back to work, 219 00:11:53,720 --> 00:11:55,679 Speaker 2: everybody's got to get back in the gym. So there's 220 00:11:55,720 --> 00:11:59,360 Speaker 2: a lot of distractions that get you to February fourteenth. 221 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:03,120 Speaker 3: But this, this is it. If you don't get that 222 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:08,000 Speaker 3: ring on Valentine's Day, then it's a long. 223 00:12:09,120 --> 00:12:12,400 Speaker 2: Long way around the sun, you know, back to the 224 00:12:12,440 --> 00:12:14,840 Speaker 2: holidays again, and you probably don't want to do that. 225 00:12:15,559 --> 00:12:19,079 Speaker 2: So there's just and you're so close, right, it's Valentine's 226 00:12:19,120 --> 00:12:21,840 Speaker 2: day on Saturday, and it's a Saturday night. So a 227 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:25,440 Speaker 2: lot of single women are just getting very excited because 228 00:12:25,440 --> 00:12:26,559 Speaker 2: they think this is going to be it. 229 00:12:27,160 --> 00:12:29,319 Speaker 3: And I don't know if you've had this conversation. I 230 00:12:29,320 --> 00:12:30,439 Speaker 3: don't know if. 231 00:12:30,440 --> 00:12:35,080 Speaker 2: Maybe a lot of people are holding off proposing until 232 00:12:35,120 --> 00:12:37,600 Speaker 2: they find out what the true political point of view 233 00:12:37,679 --> 00:12:40,600 Speaker 2: is of their potential spouse. It could be a thing. 234 00:12:41,559 --> 00:12:44,240 Speaker 2: There's a lot of stuff going on on social media. 235 00:12:44,640 --> 00:12:47,640 Speaker 2: A lot of single women are just being They're aware 236 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:49,680 Speaker 2: that Valentine's Day is Saturday. 237 00:12:49,720 --> 00:12:51,839 Speaker 3: We shared this with you last night, but I'll play 238 00:12:51,840 --> 00:12:52,079 Speaker 3: it again. 239 00:12:52,120 --> 00:12:55,160 Speaker 8: Okay, Realistically, if I want kids, find out twenty eight, 240 00:12:55,480 --> 00:12:58,480 Speaker 8: but I want to be married for probably two years 241 00:12:58,520 --> 00:13:02,200 Speaker 8: before having kids. I need to have a husband and 242 00:13:02,240 --> 00:13:04,880 Speaker 8: be married by twenty six. 243 00:13:05,120 --> 00:13:07,360 Speaker 2: Right, That's the way the math works. These are the 244 00:13:07,440 --> 00:13:10,400 Speaker 2: arguments I have with my nieces who are in their twenties, 245 00:13:10,800 --> 00:13:13,600 Speaker 2: and they always say the same thing to me, Uncle Lou, 246 00:13:14,280 --> 00:13:16,840 Speaker 2: I don't want to have a husband in a family 247 00:13:16,920 --> 00:13:17,800 Speaker 2: right now. 248 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:18,800 Speaker 3: Why. 249 00:13:19,000 --> 00:13:21,600 Speaker 2: I'm like, I understand that, But you do want to 250 00:13:21,640 --> 00:13:23,760 Speaker 2: be a married woman with a family, right, that's what 251 00:13:23,800 --> 00:13:24,360 Speaker 2: you're telling me. 252 00:13:24,640 --> 00:13:27,280 Speaker 3: Yes, of course I do. Okay, you say of course 253 00:13:28,400 --> 00:13:31,800 Speaker 3: you need to work on that right now, Uncle Lou, 254 00:13:31,880 --> 00:13:34,080 Speaker 3: I just got out of college, Like, I'm just starting 255 00:13:34,120 --> 00:13:37,400 Speaker 3: my life. No, that is your life. Being married with 256 00:13:37,520 --> 00:13:39,400 Speaker 3: children is your life. Everything else is. 257 00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 2: A waste of have any energy you're putting into it 258 00:13:43,360 --> 00:13:45,360 Speaker 2: right now, that's got to be your primary focus. I'm 259 00:13:45,400 --> 00:13:48,880 Speaker 2: not saying don't go to work. I'm saying, get to 260 00:13:48,960 --> 00:13:52,000 Speaker 2: work on the marriage and the family because you don't 261 00:13:52,040 --> 00:13:54,720 Speaker 2: understand how much time it all takes. 262 00:13:55,000 --> 00:13:56,720 Speaker 3: And that's if everything works out right. 263 00:13:57,000 --> 00:14:01,080 Speaker 2: So this woman online has it right, and my nieces 264 00:14:01,080 --> 00:14:01,720 Speaker 2: are the same way. 265 00:14:01,760 --> 00:14:03,800 Speaker 3: I'm like, how how old do you think you need to? 266 00:14:04,000 --> 00:14:04,040 Speaker 9: Like? 267 00:14:04,200 --> 00:14:05,600 Speaker 3: How old do you want to be to be a mom? 268 00:14:05,640 --> 00:14:05,760 Speaker 5: Oh? 269 00:14:05,800 --> 00:14:08,320 Speaker 2: I want to be a young mom. My mom didn't 270 00:14:08,360 --> 00:14:10,959 Speaker 2: start having kids into her mid thirties. Mid thirties, right, 271 00:14:11,640 --> 00:14:13,959 Speaker 2: and she always talks about how, you know, hurt her back. 272 00:14:14,000 --> 00:14:16,520 Speaker 2: She wanted to start younger, so I always knew. I'm like, okay, 273 00:14:16,520 --> 00:14:18,320 Speaker 2: what's what's too late? 274 00:14:18,760 --> 00:14:20,640 Speaker 3: Like thirty two? Oh no before thirty two? 275 00:14:20,760 --> 00:14:24,960 Speaker 2: Okay, well twenty nine, twenty eight, yeah, that sounds right. Okay, 276 00:14:26,400 --> 00:14:29,520 Speaker 2: So you want to be married and then you you know, 277 00:14:29,600 --> 00:14:32,880 Speaker 2: a honeymoon is a year, so you want to be 278 00:14:33,000 --> 00:14:38,200 Speaker 2: married for a year to enjoy your honeymoon, which. 279 00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:43,520 Speaker 3: Is a year's worth of just bliss. Right, So now 280 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:47,760 Speaker 3: you're talking twenty six, and then you continue to work backwards. 281 00:14:47,840 --> 00:14:49,840 Speaker 8: But then you know, usually before you get engage, you're 282 00:14:49,840 --> 00:14:52,400 Speaker 8: probably dating the person for about two years. 283 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:53,560 Speaker 6: That's a good mouth. 284 00:14:53,760 --> 00:14:56,880 Speaker 2: No, actually that breaks the rule eighteen months. If a 285 00:14:57,000 --> 00:15:00,000 Speaker 2: ring and a date is not proposed in eighteen months, 286 00:15:00,400 --> 00:15:02,760 Speaker 2: you kick him to the gutta and find yourself a nutter. 287 00:15:02,920 --> 00:15:04,960 Speaker 8: But then you know, usually before you get engage, you're 288 00:15:04,960 --> 00:15:07,520 Speaker 8: probably dating the person for about two years. 289 00:15:07,560 --> 00:15:08,600 Speaker 6: I feel like that's a good amount. 290 00:15:08,880 --> 00:15:12,320 Speaker 8: That means that I'm gonna have to basically meet this 291 00:15:12,360 --> 00:15:21,920 Speaker 8: person by twenty three twenty two. Wait a second, I'm 292 00:15:22,040 --> 00:15:25,960 Speaker 8: very much single, So how is this gonna work? I 293 00:15:26,040 --> 00:15:28,760 Speaker 8: actually have to meet someone tomorrow to have this be 294 00:15:28,880 --> 00:15:29,440 Speaker 8: my life. 295 00:15:29,480 --> 00:15:34,080 Speaker 2: That's right, That's what I'm trying to tell you. You 296 00:15:34,200 --> 00:15:36,520 Speaker 2: need to meet that guy tomorrow. And it's got to be, 297 00:15:36,680 --> 00:15:39,400 Speaker 2: mister right like all that. It has to all work 298 00:15:39,440 --> 00:15:42,480 Speaker 2: out right in order for you to get to where 299 00:15:42,560 --> 00:15:46,640 Speaker 2: you think you are naturally gonna be by thirty. 300 00:15:48,200 --> 00:15:52,200 Speaker 3: At twenty one, And that's if everything works out right, 301 00:15:53,360 --> 00:15:55,680 Speaker 3: which it usually doesn't. Right. 302 00:15:56,840 --> 00:16:03,080 Speaker 2: People change, People don't live up to their promises. People change. 303 00:16:03,240 --> 00:16:05,000 Speaker 2: I mean, you know, and that's okay. You got to 304 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:07,120 Speaker 2: kiss a lot of frauds before you find yourself a prince. 305 00:16:07,160 --> 00:16:16,160 Speaker 2: But TikTok, TikTok, and Valentine's Day again is Saturday, Lou. 306 00:16:16,280 --> 00:16:20,720 Speaker 3: It's a little cliche to give someone a ring on Christmas, 307 00:16:20,840 --> 00:16:24,120 Speaker 3: Christmas Eve, Valentine's Day. So little confused on that. Also, 308 00:16:24,160 --> 00:16:27,240 Speaker 3: what is this timeline? It took me five. 309 00:16:27,080 --> 00:16:30,800 Speaker 7: Years before I propose to my wife. 310 00:16:30,840 --> 00:16:33,920 Speaker 2: Anyway, let me know, I appreciate the call. Five years 311 00:16:34,120 --> 00:16:36,600 Speaker 2: is too long. I would not have recommended that she 312 00:16:36,800 --> 00:16:40,040 Speaker 2: hung around for five years so it worked out for you. 313 00:16:40,120 --> 00:16:40,960 Speaker 3: But you are lucky. 314 00:16:41,280 --> 00:16:44,840 Speaker 2: If she was following my Lou Penrose rules, she would 315 00:16:44,880 --> 00:16:51,280 Speaker 2: have been dating other suitors, other potential marriage material guys, 316 00:16:51,960 --> 00:16:56,600 Speaker 2: quality guys with salary potential other than you for three 317 00:16:56,640 --> 00:17:00,640 Speaker 2: and a half of those five years. Would have made 318 00:17:00,640 --> 00:17:07,239 Speaker 2: you act more quickly. I suspect, but I appreciate the call. 319 00:17:07,320 --> 00:17:11,040 Speaker 3: What do you mean cliche? Of course, giving a ring 320 00:17:11,160 --> 00:17:12,040 Speaker 3: is cliche. 321 00:17:12,080 --> 00:17:17,600 Speaker 2: By the literal definition of what cliche is, getting down 322 00:17:17,600 --> 00:17:23,080 Speaker 2: on one knee is cliche. Proposing on Valentine's Day is cliche. 323 00:17:26,520 --> 00:17:31,280 Speaker 2: Going to Dodger Stadium and proposing on the kiss can. 324 00:17:32,520 --> 00:17:36,520 Speaker 2: That would be avant garde, to keep with the French. 325 00:17:37,960 --> 00:17:40,440 Speaker 2: So yes, of course, trust me when I tell you 326 00:17:41,880 --> 00:17:44,440 Speaker 2: if you get down on one knee on Saturday night 327 00:17:44,520 --> 00:17:47,560 Speaker 2: and offer a ring, it will be cliche, but she 328 00:17:47,720 --> 00:17:49,320 Speaker 2: will forgive you. 329 00:17:49,320 --> 00:17:53,200 Speaker 1: You're listening to KFI AM six forty on demand. 330 00:17:54,359 --> 00:17:57,959 Speaker 3: Taking some telephone calls about whether or not we are 331 00:17:58,000 --> 00:18:01,679 Speaker 3: able to be in love with each other and be 332 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:03,919 Speaker 3: part of a different political party. 333 00:18:04,800 --> 00:18:09,240 Speaker 2: Paul says, six and ten say you can, but I'm 334 00:18:09,280 --> 00:18:11,600 Speaker 2: not sure. There's a lot of yelling voices out there 335 00:18:12,520 --> 00:18:18,040 Speaker 2: that we shouldn't be together, and I'm not too sure 336 00:18:18,880 --> 00:18:21,400 Speaker 2: I think we can pull it off. But Valentine's Day 337 00:18:21,560 --> 00:18:25,639 Speaker 2: is coming up on Saturday, and there's a lot of 338 00:18:25,640 --> 00:18:28,800 Speaker 2: people giving out a lot of advice on how to 339 00:18:28,800 --> 00:18:29,760 Speaker 2: handle love and marriage. 340 00:18:29,720 --> 00:18:33,280 Speaker 3: Lou are you on here all the time all the time? 341 00:18:34,280 --> 00:18:38,800 Speaker 9: You sound like my grandfather from the nineteen forties. It's ridiculous. 342 00:18:38,880 --> 00:18:41,720 Speaker 9: Stop telling women what they need to do. You are 343 00:18:41,840 --> 00:18:47,240 Speaker 9: the most masculine, horrible individual that women ever need to 344 00:18:47,280 --> 00:18:48,040 Speaker 9: listen to. 345 00:18:48,080 --> 00:18:52,800 Speaker 3: Take care my grandfather was married fifty years. 346 00:18:54,400 --> 00:18:59,480 Speaker 2: I mean, if longevity is what you're looking for, then 347 00:18:59,600 --> 00:19:02,960 Speaker 2: the people back in the day did things far better. 348 00:19:05,240 --> 00:19:06,720 Speaker 3: But I appreciate the call. 349 00:19:07,720 --> 00:19:09,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, look, you don't have to take my advice. People 350 00:19:09,800 --> 00:19:12,200 Speaker 2: ask it, you don't have to take it. I tell 351 00:19:12,240 --> 00:19:16,679 Speaker 2: this all the time to people like you that call 352 00:19:16,800 --> 00:19:22,760 Speaker 2: and critique what I offer. The reality is statistical, like 353 00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:26,640 Speaker 2: this isn't me making this up. Valentine's Day is Saturday. 354 00:19:26,760 --> 00:19:28,440 Speaker 2: There are a lot of single women that want to 355 00:19:28,480 --> 00:19:32,360 Speaker 2: be married someday. I'm telling them to get on with it, 356 00:19:32,640 --> 00:19:38,280 Speaker 2: prioritize it because TikTok TikTok, the Bureau of Labor Statistics 357 00:19:38,400 --> 00:19:39,440 Speaker 2: and the US Census. 358 00:19:39,480 --> 00:19:40,880 Speaker 3: You can look this up for yourself. 359 00:19:41,920 --> 00:19:45,600 Speaker 2: An unmarried woman in America in twenty twenty five, by 360 00:19:45,640 --> 00:19:49,880 Speaker 2: the time she is thirty, her odds of ever being. 361 00:19:49,480 --> 00:19:57,440 Speaker 3: Married is twenty percent. One in five. Four in five women. 362 00:19:57,880 --> 00:20:01,760 Speaker 2: Right now that are thirty years old and unmarried will 363 00:20:01,880 --> 00:20:07,080 Speaker 2: never get a ring on that finger. By the time 364 00:20:07,119 --> 00:20:10,680 Speaker 2: she reached thirty five, the statistics go down to like fifteen. 365 00:20:11,280 --> 00:20:13,800 Speaker 3: And if she has a child, forget it. It's over. 366 00:20:14,040 --> 00:20:17,920 Speaker 3: Like you're at eleven percent. It's all over. 367 00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:21,760 Speaker 2: So I mean, I'm talking to people who tell me 368 00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:23,960 Speaker 2: they want to be married, and I'm trying to help. 369 00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:27,240 Speaker 2: If you don't want to be married and just want 370 00:20:27,280 --> 00:20:30,119 Speaker 2: to live with this person that you call a boyfriend 371 00:20:31,040 --> 00:20:37,040 Speaker 2: and live in an apartment and split the rent, you 372 00:20:37,119 --> 00:20:42,159 Speaker 2: will be statistically older, broker and just as I'm married 373 00:20:42,200 --> 00:20:45,640 Speaker 2: in ten years. But that's why that's what you want 374 00:20:45,640 --> 00:20:47,439 Speaker 2: to do, Then go right ahead and do it. Like 375 00:20:47,480 --> 00:20:51,800 Speaker 2: if you want to be unmarried and die alone, just continue. 376 00:20:51,320 --> 00:20:53,919 Speaker 3: To do what you're doing because that's what you're headed for. 377 00:20:54,160 --> 00:20:56,560 Speaker 3: But I appreciate the call. The great show is always 378 00:20:56,840 --> 00:20:59,000 Speaker 3: enjoy listening to you. Yeah, I appreciate the call. 379 00:20:59,200 --> 00:21:04,119 Speaker 2: There is a social media influencer out there that is 380 00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:07,520 Speaker 2: trying to change the rules of the game on dating 381 00:21:07,560 --> 00:21:10,679 Speaker 2: as we go into Valentine's Day, and it's harsh, but 382 00:21:10,920 --> 00:21:16,120 Speaker 2: I think she's right. I don't think i'd like dating her, 383 00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:18,639 Speaker 2: but I think she's onto something. 384 00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:22,080 Speaker 6: The general stinginess happening in the discourse about romantic relationships 385 00:21:22,080 --> 00:21:26,120 Speaker 6: in my comment section is making me sick. Everything should 386 00:21:26,160 --> 00:21:29,240 Speaker 6: be fifty to fifty because it's an equal partnership. Just 387 00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:31,720 Speaker 6: say you don't understand the value of feminine energy and 388 00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:32,119 Speaker 6: move on. 389 00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:36,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, she is actually correct, it should not be fifty 390 00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:37,280 Speaker 2: to fifty. 391 00:21:38,160 --> 00:21:39,440 Speaker 3: She is right to. 392 00:21:39,200 --> 00:21:45,159 Speaker 2: Decry the transactional nature of dating, like it should not 393 00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:49,080 Speaker 2: be fifty to fifty at all. If you're asking somebody 394 00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:52,000 Speaker 2: and this goes this is like beyond a date, like 395 00:21:52,040 --> 00:21:57,040 Speaker 2: if you're asking somebody out for a meeting, Like if 396 00:21:57,040 --> 00:21:58,679 Speaker 2: you want to pick somebody's brain, like you could go 397 00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:01,480 Speaker 2: you could ask another god I out and say, hey, 398 00:22:01,800 --> 00:22:03,000 Speaker 2: I know you're free. 399 00:22:03,240 --> 00:22:03,840 Speaker 3: I want to go out. 400 00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:06,199 Speaker 2: I want to run by these ideas I have for 401 00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:08,160 Speaker 2: the next project, or I want to pick your brain 402 00:22:08,359 --> 00:22:10,480 Speaker 2: about how I can go from good to great. Like 403 00:22:10,520 --> 00:22:14,760 Speaker 2: if you're asking for somebody's time and attention, ever, you're 404 00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:20,280 Speaker 2: paying the bill. And if you're asking a female out 405 00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:23,359 Speaker 2: for her time and attention, you're paying the whole bill. 406 00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:30,200 Speaker 3: There is no Dutch Okay, that's what children do, grow 407 00:22:30,200 --> 00:22:33,880 Speaker 3: and ask. Men don't split the check with a date. 408 00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:36,640 Speaker 6: This is why women hate a lot of straight men. 409 00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:40,399 Speaker 6: Why we detest them because they don't understand a woman's value. 410 00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:43,359 Speaker 6: And it shows if you've ever even asked the question 411 00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:45,879 Speaker 6: what do you bring to the table, you've already lost. 412 00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:49,040 Speaker 2: Well, that's not true. You shouldn't ask the question what 413 00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:52,840 Speaker 2: do you bring to the table? You should observe and 414 00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:56,119 Speaker 2: you'll know if she is bringing anything to the table. 415 00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:59,320 Speaker 2: But you're right, it doesn't have to be monetary in value. 416 00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:00,920 Speaker 2: It doesn't have to be valuable at all. 417 00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:08,320 Speaker 3: I know what out him. 418 00:23:08,960 --> 00:23:12,640 Speaker 2: Very successful architect runs one of the largest architectural firms 419 00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:19,240 Speaker 2: in southern California. Successful guy basically now is just overseeing 420 00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:23,800 Speaker 2: his firm and offices like in five different major cities. 421 00:23:24,480 --> 00:23:27,560 Speaker 2: And he's a good guy and throws really great parties 422 00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:31,800 Speaker 2: and volunteers a lot of his time at the United Way. 423 00:23:32,320 --> 00:23:36,680 Speaker 2: And his wife is an artist, like like one of 424 00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:40,080 Speaker 2: those like an artist that ties a can of paint 425 00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:42,639 Speaker 2: on a string in the middle of the garage and 426 00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:45,560 Speaker 2: pokes a hole in the can and then swings the 427 00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:49,200 Speaker 2: can of paint to make random patterns on a great, 428 00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:51,960 Speaker 2: big piece of canvas. Like that's the kind of artist 429 00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:56,879 Speaker 2: she is. And she doesn't even have a paintbrush, So 430 00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:01,240 Speaker 2: there's no transactionalism in that relationship. 431 00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:03,320 Speaker 3: But they get. 432 00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:06,800 Speaker 2: Along and they compliment each other and they inspire each other. 433 00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:10,520 Speaker 3: So that's what happens. That's the deal. He makes an 434 00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:12,000 Speaker 3: unbelievablemount of money. 435 00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:16,560 Speaker 2: And keeps her in an unbelievably comfortable way, and she 436 00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:19,639 Speaker 2: pokes holes in cans of paint and swings him on 437 00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:23,000 Speaker 2: a rope in the middle of the garage, and that's 438 00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:23,440 Speaker 2: the deal. 439 00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:27,440 Speaker 6: But since we are so obsessed with making relationships transactional, 440 00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:31,280 Speaker 6: I will say this, You could be paying for everything 441 00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:34,800 Speaker 6: and it still would not even be a fraction of 442 00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:38,640 Speaker 6: the value that she is providing. If you truly understood, 443 00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:42,320 Speaker 6: you would be doing everything you can to support her. 444 00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:46,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I think she is actually technically right. I 445 00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:49,000 Speaker 2: don't think I would like to be with this person, 446 00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:56,000 Speaker 2: but I think she's technically right. Like the energy that 447 00:24:56,080 --> 00:24:59,240 Speaker 2: another person brings is enough. They don't have to bring 448 00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:05,479 Speaker 2: a CV, they don't have to bring a resume, they 449 00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:10,000 Speaker 2: don't have to bring, you know, an an equal amount 450 00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:13,439 Speaker 2: of earning. They shouldn't be a big spender. I mean, 451 00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:15,520 Speaker 2: if you're not bringing a whole lot but feminine energy, 452 00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:17,639 Speaker 2: then you need to keep that credit card cap that 453 00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:21,040 Speaker 2: twelve hundred dollars a year. But other than that, I 454 00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:21,680 Speaker 2: think she's right. 455 00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:25,960 Speaker 1: You're listening to KFI AM six forty on demand. 456 00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:33,280 Speaker 2: Valentine's Day is Saturday, and love is in the air, 457 00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:35,760 Speaker 2: and people are talking about love and marriage and I'm 458 00:25:35,800 --> 00:25:38,080 Speaker 2: sharing my thoughts as well. 459 00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:40,919 Speaker 9: Lou, you're triggering the Nancy boys. 460 00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:43,320 Speaker 2: You know, they're still trying to figure out if garyl 461 00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:44,720 Speaker 2: man or a woman. 462 00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:46,840 Speaker 9: They know they got a seven, but. 463 00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:47,960 Speaker 7: Are they a woman? 464 00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:49,880 Speaker 3: They feel like a woman, and they feel like you're 465 00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:51,920 Speaker 3: assaulting of that one guy. Wow. 466 00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:53,200 Speaker 9: Anyway, I like your show. 467 00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:56,040 Speaker 3: I appreciate the call. Don't worry about it. 468 00:25:56,320 --> 00:25:58,960 Speaker 2: That happens a lot, that that's going to happen. I 469 00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:04,320 Speaker 2: get that a lot. Whenever I coach and guide love 470 00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:09,200 Speaker 2: and marriage advice to single women, inevitably somebody calls me sexist, 471 00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:16,720 Speaker 2: and my answer is, yes, thank you, that's exactly right. 472 00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:22,639 Speaker 2: These rules are sexist. I am actively discriminating based on sex. 473 00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:27,640 Speaker 3: You have to. There's no other way, because the rules are. 474 00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:30,719 Speaker 2: Different for women than they are for men. If I 475 00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:32,800 Speaker 2: was talking to young men, and I have three sons, 476 00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:36,320 Speaker 2: if I'm guiding and counseling young men, the rules are 477 00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:38,280 Speaker 2: very different. You don't give the same rules for men 478 00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:41,359 Speaker 2: that than you give to women. Men who wish to 479 00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:46,760 Speaker 2: be married, men with families follow a much different path 480 00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:51,639 Speaker 2: than women who wish to be married women with families. 481 00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:56,199 Speaker 2: And by the way, people don't wish to be married 482 00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:56,880 Speaker 2: with a family. 483 00:26:57,280 --> 00:26:59,320 Speaker 3: People just want to hang around. 484 00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:05,959 Speaker 2: And uh, you know, live with somebody until somebody decides 485 00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:08,359 Speaker 2: they don't want to live with that person anymore, and 486 00:27:08,560 --> 00:27:12,560 Speaker 2: then they break up and then they you know, go 487 00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:15,359 Speaker 2: on a girl's trip to Cabo, and then they start 488 00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:16,520 Speaker 2: looking for somebody. 489 00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:20,000 Speaker 3: Else, and then they move in together, and she's forty 490 00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:22,480 Speaker 3: three years old and calls him his boy her boyfriend, 491 00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:24,720 Speaker 3: and the rest of us wonder what's going on with 492 00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:28,639 Speaker 3: these people, and they live their lives and that's fine. 493 00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:30,760 Speaker 3: I mean that that's what you want to do, then 494 00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:31,600 Speaker 3: that's what you can do. 495 00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:35,600 Speaker 2: But yeah, my rules only work for people who actually 496 00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:38,080 Speaker 2: honestly admit that they want to be married and have 497 00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:41,600 Speaker 2: a family. And that's almost every young woman that I 498 00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:44,560 Speaker 2: talk to. The problem is they think it's going to 499 00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:49,000 Speaker 2: happen way down there, like you know, bango, not now, 500 00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:51,440 Speaker 2: twenty eight, twenty nine, thirty thirty one. And I'm like, yeah, 501 00:27:51,520 --> 00:27:54,920 Speaker 2: you got to get to work on that today, like today, 502 00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:59,960 Speaker 2: like yesterday. But I appreciate the clue. 503 00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:04,879 Speaker 1: I don't care what anybody says about you. I like you, brother, 504 00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:05,480 Speaker 1: peace out. 505 00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:07,200 Speaker 3: Peace out, yeah, peace out. 506 00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:11,000 Speaker 6: A good relationship is not too identical, people with identical 507 00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:16,080 Speaker 6: energies and identical everything coming together. It's about complimenting each other. 508 00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:18,520 Speaker 6: If you're looking for someone who's going to provide the 509 00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:22,040 Speaker 6: exact same thing you provide, you're not looking for a woman, 510 00:28:22,280 --> 00:28:23,720 Speaker 6: you're looking for a man. 511 00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:26,439 Speaker 2: I'm not sure about that. I was not looking for 512 00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:29,560 Speaker 2: a man, but I take your point. You're exactly right. 513 00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:32,399 Speaker 2: I mean, she is exactly right. I don't know what 514 00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:35,800 Speaker 2: the whole feminine energy thing is all about, but she 515 00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:39,960 Speaker 2: is exactly right. Like complimenting, sometimes it can be ninety. 516 00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:42,280 Speaker 3: Five to five. It doesn't have to be fifty to fifty. 517 00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:46,440 Speaker 2: And you can't get to one hundred without the five, 518 00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:50,800 Speaker 2: even if you're ninety five. Like, fifty to fifty sounds right, 519 00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:53,680 Speaker 2: but it doesn't always work that way. And trust me, 520 00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:58,320 Speaker 2: I'm celebrating my twentieth wedding anniversary. Well now now we're 521 00:28:58,360 --> 00:29:00,520 Speaker 2: in twenty twenty six, I'll be celebrating my twenty first 522 00:29:00,520 --> 00:29:04,960 Speaker 2: wedding anniversary this year. And it's never fifty to fifty, 523 00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:08,280 Speaker 2: And that's okay. As long as it adds up to 524 00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:12,280 Speaker 2: one hundred, you're good to go all right, coming up 525 00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:15,680 Speaker 2: following the news at eight o'clock. I hesitate to do 526 00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:17,560 Speaker 2: this because. 527 00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:19,760 Speaker 3: But it has to be done. 528 00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:25,640 Speaker 2: Like sometimes you got to call a spade of spade, 529 00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:30,640 Speaker 2: and sometimes things are actually working. And in this administration, 530 00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:34,760 Speaker 2: with respect to the economic jobs proposals coming out of Washington, DC. 531 00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:38,680 Speaker 2: Whether you like President Trump or do not like President Trump, 532 00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:42,920 Speaker 2: some things he is doing are working perfectly, like so 533 00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:45,840 Speaker 2: well that it's not covered. 534 00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:46,600 Speaker 3: By the news. 535 00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:52,200 Speaker 2: And the new numbers came out to show that there 536 00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:55,760 Speaker 2: are an unbelievable amount of jobs being created created in 537 00:29:55,760 --> 00:29:58,720 Speaker 2: the United States and in sectors that never had job 538 00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:03,440 Speaker 2: creation before. And the labor participation rate is increasing and 539 00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:06,800 Speaker 2: the unemployment numbers are going down and wages are going up. 540 00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:10,000 Speaker 2: I mean, like all these things are happening at the 541 00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:15,120 Speaker 2: same time. Businesses are expanding, companies are moving back to 542 00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:19,000 Speaker 2: the United States to manufacture goods in the United States 543 00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:25,160 Speaker 2: and hiring Americans, and the nations that are pushing back 544 00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:29,960 Speaker 2: are facing a tariff and paying the tariff and it's 545 00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:32,280 Speaker 2: not driving up the costs of our products like we 546 00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:35,440 Speaker 2: were told. I mean, like everything is working exactly the 547 00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:39,280 Speaker 2: way the President said it would, and he was condemned. 548 00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:41,960 Speaker 2: Everyone said, this is a terrible plan. He's gonna send 549 00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:44,520 Speaker 2: America into an economic tail spin. He's going to have 550 00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:47,000 Speaker 2: a trade war, Prices are going to skyrocket. 551 00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:50,680 Speaker 3: It's gonna be terrible, and like none of it happened. 552 00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:53,960 Speaker 3: And the numbers just keep getting better and better and better. 553 00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:58,560 Speaker 2: So I got to talk about it because the Bureau 554 00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:02,400 Speaker 2: of Labor statistics now just show that everything is going 555 00:31:02,440 --> 00:31:06,719 Speaker 2: in the right direction. Unemployment is going down, job creation 556 00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:09,080 Speaker 2: is going up. I only need my government to do 557 00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:12,320 Speaker 2: two things at the end of the day. We talk 558 00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:14,520 Speaker 2: about government all the time, but it all boils down 559 00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:17,680 Speaker 2: to two things that affect your life. We can have 560 00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:23,000 Speaker 2: all kinds of discussions about policy and the government and 561 00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:26,200 Speaker 2: the president and Republican and Democrats, but at the end 562 00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:29,360 Speaker 2: of the day, you and me, we only need the 563 00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:34,760 Speaker 2: government to do two things. Create conditions in which you 564 00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:38,080 Speaker 2: and I can work and earn and have a better 565 00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:41,400 Speaker 2: life than our parents did, which is what our parents 566 00:31:41,440 --> 00:31:44,840 Speaker 2: wanted for us. Create conditions in which I can make 567 00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:47,000 Speaker 2: as much money as I want, or at least more 568 00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:50,320 Speaker 2: than my parents did. I need my government to do that. 569 00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:55,560 Speaker 2: And the second, I need law and order justice. I 570 00:31:55,600 --> 00:31:59,200 Speaker 2: need the bad guys caught. I need contracts upheld in 571 00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:02,200 Speaker 2: a court of law. I need cops that are honest. 572 00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:04,480 Speaker 2: I need courts that are honest, and he judges that 573 00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:07,760 Speaker 2: are honest. I need law and order, and I need opportunity. 574 00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:10,080 Speaker 2: I can do the rest myself, and so can you. 575 00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:15,000 Speaker 2: And ultimately, we don't need really anything else. Nobody's invading 576 00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:20,160 Speaker 2: the United States. We just need opportunity to work and 577 00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:24,440 Speaker 2: fair rules to the game and consequences to those that 578 00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:26,640 Speaker 2: break the rules, and we can take it from here. 579 00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:31,240 Speaker 2: And soar well, those conditions are there right now, and 580 00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:33,960 Speaker 2: they've never been better. So I'm gonna go through them, 581 00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:38,600 Speaker 2: and you can critique and criticize Lou Penrose on KFI 582 00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:41,000 Speaker 2: AM six forty live everywhere on the iHeartRadio 583 00:32:41,040 --> 00:32:44,440 Speaker 1: App, KFI AM six on demand