Speaker 1: All right, it is Mojo in the morning show. Uh Anna,
Speaker 1: she won't let me meet her man. Yeah, just one
Speaker 1: of your girlfriends.
Speaker 2: Speaking of best friends, I have a bone to pick
Speaker 2: with mine. So she has been talking to a guy
Speaker 2: for I want to say, maybe like four months now,
Speaker 2: and I hear about I've heard about this since she
Speaker 2: first started talking to the guy, So I've known about
Speaker 2: this man for four months. They officially started dating at
Speaker 2: least a month ago, and since they've been talking, maybe
Speaker 2: like after a month, and I've been like, hey, let's
Speaker 2: go out to dinner. I want to meet him. Let's
Speaker 2: do this. I want to meet him, Invite him here,
Speaker 2: I want to meet him. She always has an excuse
Speaker 2: of why this cannot happen. So finally, yesterday I was
Speaker 2: with her. We were walking around downtown when it wasn't raining,
Speaker 2: and I was like, why have I not met so
Speaker 2: and so yet? And she stuttered and then she was like, well,
Speaker 2: my sister hasn't even met him, so why would I
Speaker 2: introduce you to him? And I'm like, girl, you see
Speaker 2: me every at least twice a week. I know you
Speaker 2: don't see your sister that often, so I think that's
Speaker 2: an excuse but like, why are you hiding him from me?
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 4: Is it somebody that she thinks maybe you've had something
Speaker 4: going on within the past, or you know who it is.
Speaker 3: I do I know who it is.
Speaker 2: I do think that I've been critical of this man
Speaker 2: early on, so I think that she might be like
Speaker 2: afraid for me to meet him. But hey, we're best friends.
Speaker 2: If he's in your life, like, I'm going to get
Speaker 2: over it. I want, I need, I need to meet him.
Speaker 1: I think I think that's definitely it. And I think
Speaker 1: that you've got to figure out a way to let
Speaker 1: her know that you're not going to be critical this
Speaker 1: time or judgmental as.
Speaker 2: A best friend. Don't you want me to be critical,
Speaker 2: because like in the beginning, you were trying to figure
Speaker 2: out if this was someone you actually wanted to be with.
Speaker 2: So I gave you real advice and thought.
Speaker 5: Can we get a little bit of context into what
Speaker 5: you said, because I do think that matters.
Speaker 2: So I didn't like how they handled the situation. They
Speaker 2: did not disclose some information to them initially. The guy, yeah,
Speaker 2: the guy that she's seen, did not disclose some what
Speaker 2: I think is very important information until maybe like a
Speaker 2: month into seeing her.
Speaker 3: What was the important information if you don't let me
Speaker 3: ask him another family or something. No, it was like.
Speaker 2: Sexual history.
Speaker 5: Oh okay, okay sexual How did she respond to that?
Speaker 5: When she did find out?
Speaker 2: She was very upset, as she should be. But they
Speaker 2: talked through it and got over it. And and if
Speaker 2: she's fine with it, then I'm fine with it. So like,
Speaker 2: I think that.
Speaker 4: And you were being to me that is a good
Speaker 4: friend in that situation. You did the right thing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I feel like maybe that's why, but I
Speaker 2: need to meet like them.
Speaker 1: Are there are there listeners that hide their their relationships
Speaker 1: from their certain friends? And why do you hide your
Speaker 1: relationship from certain friends? A four fur Mojoe live or
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Speaker 1: texts nine five five zero zero.
Speaker 5: I could see that if I've been in a situation
Speaker 5: where we've talked. Man, I'm gonna tell you this is
Speaker 5: my boy married a girl and we went to high
Speaker 5: school with her, and I had no idea they were
Speaker 5: dating and they just popped up married And I'm like,
Speaker 5: wait a second, you married who?
Speaker 3: And I don't know if.
Speaker 5: It was because maybe maybe how we acted in high
Speaker 5: school or whatever. The case may be, but I do
Speaker 5: think if you've been critical of somebody prior to them
Speaker 5: entering into a relationship with said person, that they're going
Speaker 5: to be hesitant and letting you know their their status
Speaker 5: with that person.
Speaker 3: They're not gonna let you cause people love who they
Speaker 3: love and if you are throwing them off of that
Speaker 3: path and they don't want you.
Speaker 2: But again, I love my friend more so, like, as
Speaker 2: long as you're good, I'm good. I would hope that
Speaker 2: they would know that.
Speaker 1: She doesn't know that. Yeah, she didn't believe you at
Speaker 1: all with that. She thinks that you are that you
Speaker 1: are gonna judge, judge, judge.
Speaker 3: And I want to know.
Speaker 5: I wonder what he's saying to her about you too,
Speaker 5: because you know when people first get in relationships, all
Speaker 5: they see is their person.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and he he knows what I do talk on
Speaker 2: the radio and has heard about that, So that could
Speaker 2: be it too.
Speaker 1: I want to know some some thoughts on this from
Speaker 1: our listeners. Hold on eight for FORMO Joe Live. Kev's
Speaker 1: best buddy is JG is on the holiday right now?
Speaker 3: What's up?
Speaker 6: J What? What? Good morning everyone?
Speaker 3: This is this is very relevant.
Speaker 6: Kevin is one of my greatest friends ever. The best
Speaker 6: man in my wedding has a secret best friend in
Speaker 6: east Land seats bro never met her.
Speaker 3: So look you remember that.
Speaker 5: What night was that when b Smith had the party
Speaker 5: at the place at Willie's Remember you and Johnsy and
Speaker 5: my dad was at the career We was on face
Speaker 5: song with her.
Speaker 6: No, I don't remember.
Speaker 7: He actually calls her.
Speaker 3: Face her.
Speaker 6: Yeah, he caught her best he called her best friend.
Speaker 8: Never.
Speaker 6: My wife was so offended.
Speaker 3: She was like, what friend? He talks to her more
Speaker 3: than he talks to you? Was going on that crazy
Speaker 3: oh every day? Yeah, No, it's it is nuts.
Speaker 1: That's wild that you have not introduced best friends who
Speaker 1: like that. Yeah, but when she is here, don't you
Speaker 1: want her around?
Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell you.
Speaker 6: I'm gonna tell you already. We're gonna have a barbecue
Speaker 6: in my crib. Kid juwel teens bring her teller to
Speaker 6: come to the city.
Speaker 3: She can meet everybody, all right for scheff, all right?
Speaker 3: See aboudy hold on, Sally, what's up? Sally?
Speaker 2: Uh?
Speaker 9: Anna kind of scares me, so I'm not sure i'd
Speaker 9: introduced anybody I was dating either.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 9: Anna scares me because I feel like she's very excited
Speaker 9: to give her opinion, which I love. I think that's fantastic.
Speaker 9: But I think it's a little early. And if I
Speaker 9: really like an outfit, I don't want to hear that
Speaker 9: you think I look like a target worker, Like I
Speaker 9: want to enjoy the outfit for a minute before you're
Speaker 9: not a fan.
Speaker 1: Yeah. In this case, though, she's talking about this guy's
Speaker 1: sexual history, which which is intriguing.
Speaker 3: She doesn't like something about.
Speaker 9: This, A little embarrassed of our sexual history.
Speaker 2: One honest, Yeah, this is different than.
Speaker 1: What I want to know more. I like, I'm intriguing.
Speaker 1: She don't know.
Speaker 3: She don't want to say. She don't want to say.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's funny that you say that Anna scares you,
Speaker 1: because I've never thank heard of anybody to say that
Speaker 1: Anna is scary at all.
Speaker 2: I'm honest, no, and that's what scares me, I think, honestly,
Speaker 2: Thank you for the call, appreciate it.
Speaker 3: Have a great dalla. What's up? Ella?
Speaker 7: Hi?
Speaker 3: Hi?
Speaker 10: So, uh, my stirt is a little bit flipped around.
Speaker 7: I kind of agree with Anna's friend.
Speaker 8: I keep my partner's private until I know for a
Speaker 8: fact that.
Speaker 7: They're serious, because I am a best friend that likes
Speaker 7: should go for them in the little time.
Speaker 5: Wow, Wow, that's not hey, that's not your friend breaking news.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and have you already ever had any guys find
Speaker 1: your girlfriend your best friend attractive and leave you for them?
Speaker 3: Oh my god, why are you still? That's bad news?
Speaker 7: And the show hang out with them for a minute,
Speaker 7: and then she gets bored and she comes back around.
Speaker 1: So you go, that's crazy, I'd lose her as a friend.
Speaker 1: Desperate text her hair has got a really interesting one,
Speaker 1: she says. Just like you don't introduce new relationships to
Speaker 1: your children and divorce, you should also do the same
Speaker 1: with best friends. Let the relationship last for a little
Speaker 1: before you decide that you're going to introduce them to
Speaker 1: the closest around you. That's an interesting thought that you
Speaker 1: know only the true good ones should get to meet
Speaker 1: your friends?
Speaker 3: Is that the protect your friends? How long are you talking?
Speaker 5: Because sometimes people you he loved drunk and sometimes people
Speaker 5: can see things you can't see.
Speaker 1: I think my friends have would have better or some
Speaker 1: of the people I'm even friends with, I feel like
Speaker 1: I have a better, you know, judgment than they do.
Speaker 1: Sometimes the love drunkness, Like you said, yeah, what's going
Speaker 1: on Lee.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm just calling to comment. I had my friendship
Speaker 7: of twenty years kind of end because she confessed to
Speaker 7: me her affair and I called her out on her
Speaker 7: terrible behavior. She had been living with her man for
Speaker 7: like nine years, and she had met a dude online
Speaker 7: out of state playing video games and then was trying
Speaker 7: to get knocked up by him.
Speaker 3: Oh good, Oh.
Speaker 7: That's crazy telling her how horrible it was, and then
Speaker 7: she decided not to do my friend anymore. She didn't
Speaker 7: like me calling her out.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, Well that's that's that's crazy. You got you
Speaker 1: need new friends. THEO has been in and this position before.
Speaker 3: What's going on?
Speaker 1: Theay, what's going on?
Speaker 6: Guys?
Speaker 3: Good morning.
Speaker 7: Lauren.
Speaker 6: So yeah, I've been in a.
Speaker 10: I was in the same position with a buddy of mine. Basically,
Speaker 10: I was just like, hey, listen, like I heard this,
Speaker 10: this and this, and it put a strain on their
Speaker 10: relationship at first, and then it put a strain on
Speaker 10: me and my buddy's relationship. But I wish I just
Speaker 10: never did it because they're married, they have a kid.
Speaker 10: She's best friends with my wife now and we have
Speaker 10: a great relationship.
Speaker 6: All Like the floor was, So.
Speaker 10: Maybe if I just took a step back and you know,
Speaker 10: let it proceed as it as it did. I wouldn't
Speaker 10: be looked at as a you know, a hole.
Speaker 4: You know what, though, You're damned if you do, and
Speaker 4: you're damned if you don't, because if it was something
Speaker 4: important and you didn't say anything, maybe now you'd have
Speaker 4: so much regret and the situation would have progressed differently,
Speaker 4: and everything wouldn't be all fine, you know and great
Speaker 4: as it is now. So I don't know, I feel
Speaker 4: like it's it's such a line to tiptoe. In Anna's case,
Speaker 4: I like I said, I feel like you did the
Speaker 4: right things. That's a really important piece of information.
Speaker 3: She just texted and you.
Speaker 4: Yes, and you want you absolutely want your best friend
Speaker 4: to know that information.
Speaker 3: So yeah, she doesn't know this? What did she know?
Speaker 3: Does she know that? Know what what you just said?
Speaker 3: You just text?
Speaker 11: She does?
Speaker 3: She does?
Speaker 8: Now?
Speaker 1: Okay, Stacy, Uh, it was it's all involving sexual history.
Speaker 3: You want to say something about the sexual history part?
Speaker 1: Stacy Stacy, Stacy Gebler, Stacy, Yes, I'm here.
Speaker 3: Yeah, stay what's up?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 8: So, like, I'm from a relatively small town and I
Speaker 8: hold like a relatively high position, I guess in the town,
Speaker 8: and so I do have a lot of information on people,
Speaker 8: the information that could you could get publicly. But like
Speaker 8: what happens.
Speaker 11: When you find out and you meet you have a
Speaker 11: great friend and they introduced you to somebody a year
Speaker 11: down the road because they've been hiding it and you
Speaker 11: find out person's been in prison for like five years?
Speaker 1: Is that a are you just exaggerating a circumstance or
Speaker 1: has that happened?
Speaker 8: No, that has absolutely happened.
Speaker 11: Wow, where they've had like a heck of a criminal history,
Speaker 11: and it's like it's public.
Speaker 7: What was I in for?
Speaker 8: No?
Speaker 3: What were they in for the person that you're talking about?
Speaker 1: You?
Speaker 8: Oh, it was like it was like an aggravated assault.
Speaker 8: And then they also had.
Speaker 11: A domestic violence that was ended up being a felony
Speaker 11: because it was second to none and it happened like
Speaker 11: twelve years prior the second offense.
Speaker 1: But it's just like, don't you think that if you're
Speaker 1: dating somebody and you should look that stuff up yourself though, But.
Speaker 3: That's not my first mind.
Speaker 5: If I meet a girl, If I meet a girl,
Speaker 5: my first thing isn't to google whether or not she's
Speaker 5: been in prison.
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. But she's googling you, I
Speaker 3: guarantee you.
Speaker 4: But good friends have already done hard work.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, he's not about the google. If you knew
Speaker 3: her name.
Speaker 11: My whole thing is like being in a small town.
Speaker 11: You're most likely already gonna hear about it anyway. Yeah,
Speaker 11: but what happens when they're from somewhere else and they
Speaker 11: move because they're trying to move on with their life,
Speaker 11: but they really haven't changed. And then, as a sexual
Speaker 11: aspect of it in a small town, what happens in
Speaker 11: a year when you walk into the bar to meet
Speaker 11: the person that your friend has been like hiking from
Speaker 11: you and everybody else because they weren't sure about it,
Speaker 11: and you're like, holy crap I had when they stands
Speaker 11: that is.
Speaker 1: We want to come to your town, criminals and sexuals.
Speaker 1: Sounds like a good place for us. We need to
Speaker 1: do a town tour Mojo in the morning broadcast from it.
Speaker 1: But I'll see you soon. What town is it, Stacey?
Speaker 3: What town?
Speaker 6: This is?
Speaker 8: Fremont, Ohio?
Speaker 3: All right, we're on our way. We'll see you.
Speaker 1: How long will it take me? An hour and twenty
Speaker 1: I'll see an hour in twenty