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Speaker 1: It's Marcus in the morning, and it is time once

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Speaker 1: again for second date update. Everybody knows how it works.

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Speaker 1: Everybody knows the rules. You get ghosted on the first date,

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Speaker 1: you call me, and then we call your date together

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Speaker 1: and we browbeat them into a second date. I'm being dramatic,

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Speaker 1: but that's sort of how it goes. Ethan, are you there, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: tell me about your date with Lila, because I understand

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Speaker 1: you've been ghosted from your DM, so tell me all

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Speaker 1: about it. What did you guys do?

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Speaker 2: Honestly, it was one of the best dates I've been on,

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Speaker 2: my first dates I've been.

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Speaker 3: On in such a long time.

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Speaker 1: Okay, here's what happened.

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Speaker 3: We went to this nice little Italian restaurant, you know, romantic.

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Speaker 1: Like the movies, like the movies.

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Speaker 4: She came in and I was just like, wow, she

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Speaker 4: is really confident. She's funny, you know. She was like

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Speaker 4: kind of cheasing me, a little bit flirty.

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Speaker 1: I mean, how long before you got into the carbs.

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Speaker 4: Well, we got some wine.

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Speaker 2: You know, it's kind of hard to stay away from

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Speaker 2: the cars at an Italian restaurant.

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Speaker 1: I mean that's why you go right, Yeah, you're eating

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Speaker 1: garlic bread while you're trying to figure out which pastas

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Speaker 1: to eat, right, I mean basically, I mean, but it was.

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Speaker 3: It was just so good.

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Speaker 2: Like I've been on some dates where I really like

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Speaker 2: to try things right and like the ladies say, they're like, no,

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Speaker 2: I'm just kidding what I'm having, and right, she was

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Speaker 2: down to you know, so it was sweet.

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Speaker 3: She clucked me and.

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Speaker 4: I was like, yeah, I want to see the squirl thing.

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Speaker 4: I kept it in the day and I didn't do anything.

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Speaker 2: I'm just like, wow, like, can I read this totally wrong?

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Speaker 2: But there's something that idea and I still haven't heard anything.

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Speaker 2: And now it's been like a week and I'm just like, Okay.

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Speaker 1: This is what we're gonna do. Like I said, We're

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Speaker 1: gonna call her. I'll have you on the phone, I'll

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Speaker 1: have you listening in. I'm gonna need you to it

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Speaker 1: sounds like you're on the road, so I will need

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Speaker 1: you to mute. I don't want to tip her off.

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Speaker 1: Let's go ahead and give her a shout.

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Speaker 5: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Is this Leilah?

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Speaker 5: Yes, it is Hi.

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Speaker 1: Hey, it's it's Marcus calling from Star one on one three.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Hi, how are you I'm good? How are

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Speaker 1: you good?

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Speaker 5: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Do you listen to our show? I do love this.

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Speaker 1: Do you know about second date update?

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Speaker 5: I do, I'm quite familiar.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, sweet, would you mind being on it? Asking for everybody?

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Speaker 5: I kind of had an idea this might happen.

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Speaker 1: Really Wait, you figure if you dated enough that eventually

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Speaker 1: i'd call you?

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Speaker 5: Possibly? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Fun fact Lylah ghosts everybody, just kidding, I'm just kidding.

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Speaker 1: So you have ghosted a date recently? Yes?

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Speaker 5: I have.

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Speaker 1: Fortunately, can we talk about your date with Ethan? And

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Speaker 1: since you listened a second ate up that, you know,

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Speaker 1: he's just he's just waiting, he's lurking, So I'd love

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Speaker 1: to just bring him on and we can do this. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: go ahead, Ethan, go ahead and unmute. Okay, here we are, so.

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Speaker 2: Hi, Lea.

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Speaker 1: He had a great time.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, honestly, so did I have. I don't

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Speaker 5: have any complaints, Ethan.

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Speaker 3: You're behind, You're attractive, You're very easy to talk to.

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Speaker 5: But uh, I'll tell you, you know. About halfway through dinner,

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Speaker 5: and started telling a story about his father, and he

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Speaker 5: mentioned that his dad restores old motorcycles and he recently

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Speaker 5: expanded his shop, and he mentioned the name of the

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Speaker 5: business and that kind of hit me, like, you know,

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Speaker 5: a really heavy, big brick.

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Speaker 1: Why is that?

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Speaker 3: So?

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Speaker 5: I haven't talked to my mom in about five years,

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Speaker 5: but I have heard about this guy. Okay, so basically

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Speaker 5: my mom she started dating him and things got kind

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Speaker 5: of metassy. There was a lot of family drama, arguments,

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Speaker 5: people taking different sides. I ended up cutting off contact

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Speaker 5: after hearing quite a bit about him.

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Speaker 1: So are they wait, hold on, are they married now?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? They are, They're married now?

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Speaker 1: Perfect? Okay, So okay, please continue. Sorry.

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Speaker 5: So I heard a lot about him, and a lot

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Speaker 5: of it stuck with me because all of it was

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Speaker 5: tied to the fallout that I had with my mom.

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Speaker 5: I just never met him, never saw a picture or anything. So,

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Speaker 5: you know, quite a bit of time has gone by.

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Speaker 5: I stopped thinking about a lot of it altogether. But

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Speaker 5: then Ethan mentioned the business name, and everything just like

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Speaker 5: clicked for.

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Speaker 1: Me all at once that that's your mom's husband.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Ethan's dad, my mom's husband. It's not not my dad,

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Speaker 5: just my mom's husband. So Ethan is the son of

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Speaker 5: the guy that my mom married three years ago.

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Speaker 1: Wow, and you just don't talk to your mom like

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Speaker 1: at all?

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Speaker 5: No, No, I don't. I realized this like mid date,

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Speaker 5: and I just didn't want to blow things up right

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Speaker 5: then and there. So you know, we went through dinner.

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Speaker 5: I tried to act like everything was normal, but internally

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Speaker 5: everything was like making me spiral. And then when I

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Speaker 5: got home, I made a very awkward phone call. I

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Speaker 5: called my mom. I haven't talked to her in years,

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Speaker 5: but she confirmed all of it immediately. It's the same guy,

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Speaker 5: and you know, it's.

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Speaker 1: A bit much for me.

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Speaker 5: So I didn't ghost Ethan because I didn't like him.

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Speaker 5: I ghosted it because I no world could I date

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Speaker 5: my stepbrother?

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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, why?

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Speaker 2: Like I had such a good time and that is.

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Speaker 1: Not what I expected me neither, if I can be honest, But.

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Speaker 3: Like, does that really? I mean, we're not related, there's

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Speaker 3: no blood or anything, and you don't even talk to

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Speaker 3: your mom, so I don't know, like could be and

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Speaker 3: I'm not really your stepbrother, you.

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Speaker 1: Know, I mean, aren't you What are you saying?

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Speaker 3: I don't know, Like it's not like we grew up

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Speaker 3: together or anything, right, Like you don't have to tell.

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Speaker 5: Them, Wow, it's just no, Nah, it's it's not It's

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Speaker 5: not something I could do.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, uh, uh my favorite response nah hang on

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Speaker 1: you guys, hang on Second Date Update