Speaker 1: It's Mojo. In the morning, I witnessed something that I
Speaker 1: thought was weird, and I actually called it out and
Speaker 1: I asked them about it because I wanted to know
Speaker 1: if I saw what I saw. We were out to dinner.
Speaker 1: We weren't eating with these people, but I saw them
Speaker 1: there and we went and said hi to them, and
Speaker 1: they were sitting there talking to each other. And it's
Speaker 1: a couple. And I won't shout out who they are
Speaker 1: because this is to me something I think people would
Speaker 1: find to be weird. And the woman who is the
Speaker 1: wife in the relationship wanted to show Chelsea something, so
Speaker 1: she grabbed her man's phone. So she grabbed it right
Speaker 1: in front of him, took the phone right in front
Speaker 1: of him, and then did you know you have your
Speaker 1: phone and you can do this and then you swipe
Speaker 1: up and you got the you got the face ID.
Speaker 1: She she had his face ID or his phone with
Speaker 1: her face ID in it, so she could open up
Speaker 1: the phone.
Speaker 2: You can have multiple face IDs.
Speaker 1: Yeah, really, I'm pretty sure. Well, yeah, she was able
Speaker 1: to have her face open. The thing I said is,
Speaker 1: did I just see what I thought? It was? That
Speaker 1: your phone or his phone? No, that's his phone. She
Speaker 1: has his phone. Just like you have a password, you
Speaker 1: can actually face ID or she had the face ID.
Speaker 3: Said yeah, part of Google is you gonna have a
Speaker 3: maximum of two face ID profiles on iPhone.
Speaker 1: All right, So here's the reason why I bring this up.
Speaker 1: I bring it up because I think that's weird. Like
Speaker 1: I actually do think that that's kind of wild. I
Speaker 1: think it's kind of wild when couples share their passwords.
Speaker 4: Going to say it's just like that, but I.
Speaker 1: Think when you have your face it's even weirder. And
Speaker 1: I want it I have. I wrote questions now because
Speaker 1: I was told in Chelsea, I'm like, I'm going to
Speaker 1: do this as a topic tomorrow and Chelsea and Chelsea goes, well,
Speaker 1: just don't say their name, and I said, okay, I
Speaker 1: want to know do or does your partner have access
Speaker 1: to your phone? That's the biggest question. Do they have
Speaker 1: your password or know your password? Do they have your
Speaker 1: face ID or their face ID in your phone? And
Speaker 1: what the reason why you did this? Because I guarantee
Speaker 1: you that there is maybe a reason that this came
Speaker 1: into play, and some of them could be possibly like
Speaker 1: they didn't trust them.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I think in previous relationships.
Speaker 3: I was totally against it, and I think I was
Speaker 3: against it because it felt like an invasion of privacy,
Speaker 3: and then I think I had a little something to hide,
Speaker 3: and then after some stuff transpired transpired, I wanted to
Speaker 3: be fully transparent and fully upfront and wanted them to
Speaker 3: feel comfortable like that was my concern. That was my
Speaker 3: priority more than anything else, was their comfortability. So I
Speaker 3: just made my password like her birthday and told her, like,
Speaker 3: you do whatever you want.
Speaker 1: I think you can set multiple passwords too, what yeah,
Speaker 1: most going on iPhone? I think you can. I double
Speaker 1: check that, but I think you can set numbers and
Speaker 1: multiple numbers if you wanted to. Really, I think I'm
Speaker 1: almost positive.
Speaker 2: The only reason I'm like, oh wait, yay because there
Speaker 2: is stuff in the hidden my hidden folder, like in photos,
Speaker 2: and it's not necessarily like sexual stuff. It's like photos
Speaker 2: of like insurance cards and social Security cards like stuff
Speaker 2: like that, but also like Christmas gifts and birthday gifts
Speaker 2: and stuff that I always will keep it in there
Speaker 2: because my kids do go through my phone a lot
Speaker 2: and they do know my passcode. So I'm always like,
Speaker 2: I wish that that hidden had it where you could
Speaker 2: have a different passcode. It's funny they do, you know
Speaker 2: what I mean? I mean there are also there's also
Speaker 2: my photos in there. I don't want them to see.
Speaker 1: But I don't use a hidden at all, but but
Speaker 1: I would do it for certain things because I screenshot
Speaker 1: stuff that like people posted that. I'm like, this is
Speaker 1: weird that they posted it. Yeah, And I've had it
Speaker 1: before where people are looking at my phone and they're like,
Speaker 1: why do you have that? And I'm like that would
Speaker 1: be something I would probably put in that hidden.
Speaker 3: So you cannot set up multiple pass cost on locked iPhone,
Speaker 3: but you can have different passcosts to lock individual apps. Okay,
Speaker 3: so so you did have a side piece on tenders
Speaker 3: on your tender pass word that could be locked.
Speaker 1: It's not the same.
Speaker 4: Either of you have the urge to have your partners
Speaker 4: stuff like do you have Chelsea's no but as code
Speaker 4: or less.
Speaker 1: There were times where we were struggling where I wish
Speaker 1: that I but it's all it's only because I was
Speaker 1: the one that was not in a good spot or
Speaker 1: or we were not in a good spot, and I
Speaker 1: was like, I wondered who she was talking to.
Speaker 2: West and I have each other's like, I know his
Speaker 2: past code to his phone.
Speaker 4: But just because you have it doesn't mean you need
Speaker 4: to look.
Speaker 5: No.
Speaker 2: I mean I I've looked once or twice for sure,
Speaker 2: probably more than that, and he has my pass code.
Speaker 5: You thought Chelsea was talking to other people.
Speaker 1: I didn't. We were such a bad place that I
Speaker 1: didn't know what was going on.
Speaker 4: We're talking spit about him like her girlfriend's movie.
Speaker 1: Well, can I be honest with you? That was probably
Speaker 1: a bigger part of it was I wanted to know
Speaker 1: what her feelings were towards me, because I didn't feel
Speaker 1: like it was. It was good, Nick, what's up, Nicky?
Speaker 6: How you doing?
Speaker 1: I'm okay, Nick? Your your girl has your wife has
Speaker 1: your password?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 7: Me and my wife share each other passwords everything, do everything.
Speaker 1: What's the reason.
Speaker 7: We share locations? No reason? Just you know, if she's
Speaker 7: get into my phone to answer my mom or I
Speaker 7: need to get into her phone to answer her father.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 5: Was there a conversation that happened? Did you propose this?
Speaker 8: So?
Speaker 5: How did that even start?
Speaker 7: Well, she had a previous relationship that was a little rough.
Speaker 7: I think that she wanted to share locations and that
Speaker 7: was fine. I didn't care I got nowhere to hide,
Speaker 7: and eventually just came down to what's your pass going
Speaker 7: and to get in your phone?
Speaker 1: Okay, here, this is interesting. That's where I wonder it
Speaker 1: Does it always start because somebody had a bad experience?
Speaker 1: You know, probably would you be offended if your spouse
Speaker 1: was just going in your phone not to answer mom
Speaker 1: or not to answer dad? What was going in because
Speaker 1: she was trying to look over what you were doing?
Speaker 7: There's nothing in there, if anything, phone playing a game.
Speaker 2: I like that you use the word offended though, because
Speaker 2: that has happened in Wes and I's relationship, where I,
Speaker 2: you know, knew that he had gone through my phone,
Speaker 2: and I'm like, there is nothing to hide, you can
Speaker 2: go through my phone. That's why I give you my
Speaker 2: pass code. But it was more like what sparked your
Speaker 2: need to feel like? You went through my phone? And
Speaker 2: I was offended by that?
Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 2: Because he made a comment about something I think. So
Speaker 2: that's that to me is where it gets a little dicey.
Speaker 2: Is like, Wes can go through my phone as much
Speaker 2: as he wants to, and not that this is like
Speaker 2: a regular occurrence for us by any means, but obviously
Speaker 2: it's a topic of conversation right now. But there are
Speaker 2: definitely instances where Wes and I are going through something
Speaker 2: and I'll talk to my like I'll text my friends
Speaker 2: or my sister, and I wouldn't I wouldn't want him
Speaker 2: to see that, do you know what I mean? And
Speaker 2: so that's where it was, like, you know.
Speaker 1: So, so what do you want him to do? Then
Speaker 1: you want him to say, hey, I'm going through your
Speaker 1: phone and.
Speaker 2: Say no, no, I'm just saying it like that has
Speaker 2: happened where he has been in my phone and vice versa,
Speaker 2: to be fair, And I'm like, well why, but why
Speaker 2: did you feel the need to do that? Like what
Speaker 2: did I do that made you feel unsafe that you
Speaker 2: felt like, ooh, I'm curious about this.
Speaker 1: Hi, Lee, what's up? It's Mojo in the morning. Hello,
Speaker 1: how are you? I'm okay, Lee? What's going on? Do
Speaker 1: you guys have each other's past codes? No?
Speaker 6: So I had.
Speaker 8: An ex boyfriend who was a cop, and he had
Speaker 8: put his faith ID in my phone so that without
Speaker 8: me knowing, so that he could go in there anytime
Speaker 8: he wanted to. He was the one that was cheating
Speaker 8: and he didn't trust because of that.
Speaker 2: Wow, oh, how did you get there was the one
Speaker 2: that was being unfaithful?
Speaker 8: Yeah?
Speaker 1: How did you find out out?
Speaker 8: He would he would say things that he would ask
Speaker 8: me about things that were in my phone, or about
Speaker 8: conversations I had had, and and I and I and
Speaker 8: I confronted him. I said, how did you get in there?
Speaker 2: And he's like, I.
Speaker 8: Put my you know, face idea in there and I
Speaker 8: should be able.
Speaker 1: To Yeah, that's wild man. Thank you for to call Hannah.
Speaker 1: What's up Hannah?
Speaker 9: So I a month into dating my boyfriend, he asked
Speaker 9: for my phone password. Only a month in and he
Speaker 9: became obsessed with going through my phone.
Speaker 4: I'd wake up in the middle of.
Speaker 1: The night.
Speaker 10: Everything.
Speaker 9: He just was like looking through every little thing.
Speaker 2: Did he have a pass relationship where somebody cheated? Yes.
Speaker 9: I'd wake up in the middle of the night and
Speaker 9: he would be on my phone like I would just
Speaker 9: turn over and he'd be scrolling through.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's crazy. I wonder still the eggs boyfriend? Yes,
Speaker 1: I wonder how many people will wake up in the
Speaker 1: middle of the night to look at their partner's phone
Speaker 1: and put the phone? Do you have to have the
Speaker 1: eyes open? I think you do have the eyes open?
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, can you put it over your
Speaker 1: sleeping spouse?
Speaker 5: Back when he used that a touch print, they grab
Speaker 5: your finger.
Speaker 2: That was how many talked about that before.
Speaker 1: That was your password and would look through it through
Speaker 1: the password.
Speaker 9: Huh yeah, I mean I knew I had nothing to hide,
Speaker 9: So I gave him the password and a month.
Speaker 11: We got a b was very insecure.
Speaker 1: Wow, hold on saying hold on, Anna, what's up? Anna? Listener? Anna?
Speaker 6: Hi?
Speaker 1: Hi, what's going on? What's going on? So?
Speaker 11: I was calling about the passcode thing with the because
Speaker 11: my first relationship, when I was in my early twenties,
Speaker 11: we had shared each other's passwords, phone, uh, phone pass codes,
Speaker 11: all of.
Speaker 12: That, and my ex was actually since he had access
Speaker 12: to my accounts, he was actually hiding all of the
Speaker 12: messages from the women that were trying to contact me
Speaker 12: to tell me that he was cheating on me with them.
Speaker 5: Who work that is. Yeah, so how did you finally
Speaker 5: get through and you've seen what was going on?
Speaker 1: He missed one.
Speaker 11: Yeah, that's basically what happened.
Speaker 10: Some one of the messages came through that he wasn't
Speaker 10: able to block, basically, and that's how I found out that.
Speaker 11: He was cheating on me with like multiple women and.
Speaker 10: Was actually like in a relationship for like three or
Speaker 10: more months while we were together.
Speaker 11: So yeah, that's how I found out.
Speaker 1: That's wild. It's it's so wild to hear these reasons
Speaker 1: because there's so many people that are calling us up
Speaker 1: and telling us, yeah, my wife's got my access, my
Speaker 1: spouse has my access, you know all the rest of
Speaker 1: this stuff, and it's just for playing games and doing
Speaker 1: all the rest of it. And then you got the
Speaker 1: ones that are like, yeah, right, Courtney or Carter wants
Speaker 1: to say something to you, Shannon, what's up Carter?
Speaker 6: So first of first time, so Shannon, you're mentioned about
Speaker 6: like how you you you know, how your things like
Speaker 6: your photos album? Yes, in the in the photos settings
Speaker 6: or if you go like settings, you can actually choose
Speaker 6: to show that hidden album or not. So where like
Speaker 6: if you go to your your show up at all, Yeah,
Speaker 6: like like if you go to photo settings and then
Speaker 6: like halfway down the screen it's an options is show
Speaker 6: hidden album. You could turn that off and it won't
Speaker 6: show that the album when your.
Speaker 2: That's actually really great are you doing in your life?
Speaker 6: Ed? No comment?
Speaker 1: So how do you get into your hidden doesn't.
Speaker 6: Show well, so you you would have to there is
Speaker 6: right there. You would have to tell you got to
Speaker 6: go back in the studies and turn it back over.
Speaker 10: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Interesting.
Speaker 2: Yeah, boy, that's great.
Speaker 1: You hear that West, The.
Speaker 2: More you trust me, he would want nobody to see
Speaker 2: that hidden album.
Speaker 5: Oh really yeah, in there?
Speaker 1: No comment, no comment, Thanks Carter,