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Speaker 1: Fair and Farah, Tampa accident attorneys. Joshow's Live on ninety

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Speaker 1: three to three fl Z. So I did call Andrea

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Speaker 1: last night and actually, hey, Andrea, Hey, Hi, So I

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Speaker 1: know we talked last night, and you know, I brought

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Speaker 1: up the whole Hey. Uh, Matt got in contact with

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Speaker 1: us and he kind of wants to talk to you

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Speaker 1: about what went wrong. He doesn't know why you go

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Speaker 1: to him. I don't want to put words in your mouth,

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Speaker 1: but you did say that you were sorry about it.

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Speaker 1: But out here, well we'll just hey Matt, Hey, good morning, God,

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Speaker 1: Good morning Matt. Like I said, I did talk to

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Speaker 1: Andrea last night, we could save the awkward hellos and

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Speaker 1: all that. Just Andrea right away. You guys go out.

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Speaker 1: You did say it was a good date until he's

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Speaker 1: showing you some pictures.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Hey, Matt, it was a really good date. Uh, yeah,

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Speaker 2: it was.

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Speaker 3: It was good until you started showing me pictures of

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Speaker 3: your kids, which is great, totally love that you love

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Speaker 3: your kids and like I, you know, would.

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Speaker 4: Have loved to meet them, know them.

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Speaker 2: But it just the way you were talking about your ex,

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Speaker 2: your mother, of your children. It seems like.

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Speaker 1: You're still hoping, you're hopeful that.

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Speaker 4: It would have worked out.

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Speaker 2: I think you actually even said that, like you wish

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Speaker 2: it would have worked out, and it just it just

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Speaker 2: kind of rubbed me the wrong way, Like I don't

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Speaker 2: want to be dating someone who is still hung up

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Speaker 2: on their ex, like wishing you know, would have preferred

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Speaker 2: that it had worked out with their ex.

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Speaker 5: You know, well, I mean, like, of course I wish

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Speaker 5: it would have. You know, I recognize that it didn't.

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Speaker 5: Now the me any if you have kids with someone

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Speaker 5: you want the relationship to work out, it didn't, and

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Speaker 5: that's unfortunately. We have a good co parenting relationship now.

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Speaker 5: So that that's why I'm here to know that. And

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Speaker 5: I'm looking for someone else. You know, it's not her,

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Speaker 5: I know, I just like I'm not hung up on her.

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Speaker 5: I just you know, it's unfortunately real quick.

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Speaker 1: And I know you were about to say something to Andrea,

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Speaker 1: So I don't want to cut either of you off,

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Speaker 1: but I am just curious if anyone has gone through

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Speaker 1: what you know, Matt and Andrea have gone through, maybe

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Speaker 1: maybe you can relate to Andrea, who you're on this date,

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Speaker 1: and you know, you like the guy enough to go

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Speaker 1: out with him, and he starts bringing up his baby mama,

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Speaker 1: and it sounds like the comment of the I wish

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Speaker 1: things worked out was the one that really put a

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Speaker 1: nail in the coffin. But also maybe you're in Matt's

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Speaker 1: position where you got a baby daddy or baby mama

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Speaker 1: and things didn't work out. So now you're dating in

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Speaker 1: your new navigating that life eight hundred and four on

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Speaker 1: NA ninety three, ninety three. You can always text in

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Speaker 1: it ninety seven seven to zero, but you know, what

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Speaker 1: do you do? How do you navigate that? Andrea, I

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Speaker 1: I kind of cut you off there, so I'm sorry

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Speaker 1: about that. What were you going to say?

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Speaker 2: No, I'm just I don't want to be constantly worried that,

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Speaker 2: you know, my my person would rather be with their ex,

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Speaker 2: and if that ex were to ever you know, come

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Speaker 2: back and say hey, I want to be together, that

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Speaker 2: they would just leave, you know, because it's some other

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Speaker 2: of their children. And I totally get it. You know

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Speaker 2: your time, you want to move on, and you should

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Speaker 2: be able to, but I just don't want to be

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Speaker 6: That's why I always say I'm okay with you co parenting.

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Speaker 6: I hope it goes great, but you gotta hate dregs.

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Speaker 6: I cannot date anyone who's yeah, just let me not.

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Speaker 4: You hate them, you have to make it. I'll let

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Speaker 4: you hate them.

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Speaker 6: I'm sorry because when it comes to children, there's always

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Speaker 6: that o window, like there's a possibility of them wanting

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Speaker 6: to get back. But once you voice that you hate

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Speaker 6: your ex, I don't care. If you got kids with them,

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Speaker 1: Good to go. Yeah, but wouldn't it be bigger of

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Speaker 1: you to be like, I don't hate them things didn't

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Speaker 6: Still the possibility of there's an open door, if there's

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Speaker 6: that little heart, that's that's that's my that's in my head.

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Speaker 6: I'm crazy, though I know I'm grad No, I guess.

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Speaker 2: I'm crazy to you because I agree with you.

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Speaker 7: You have to say it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're very clear.

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Speaker 1: You hate your ex.

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Speaker 4: Change your phone number?

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Speaker 1: Let's talk to uh? Is it Jayanna? Jayanna?

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Speaker 8: Ya?

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Speaker 1: How do I say your name? Jayanna? You say listen.

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Speaker 1: I was in a similar position as Matt. You know,

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Speaker 1: he goes out with Andrea, shows pictures of his kids,

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Speaker 1: makes a comment to her that, oh, yeah, I wish

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Speaker 1: things worked out with me and my baby mama. That's

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Speaker 1: why Andrea is like, listen, I don't want to talk

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Speaker 1: to It sounds like there's still a little bit of

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Speaker 8: What do you think, Jan, Yes, So with that being said,

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Speaker 8: I think that door being open. I'm not judging Matt.

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Speaker 8: You know, obviously he had kids with a woman and

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Speaker 8: he wish it worked out. But for Andrea's kind of

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Speaker 8: comment on you know, she doesn't want to continue that

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Speaker 8: that is her choice. You know, if she really actually

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Speaker 8: ended up liking the guy, you know, she'd be willing

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Speaker 8: to give him a chance. I actually was in a

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Speaker 8: relationship with a man who was going through a separation

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Speaker 8: whole thing, and now we're engaged and we're getting married

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Speaker 8: this year and I've been with him eight years, had

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Speaker 8: a kid with her. Yeah, So it's just one of

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Speaker 8: those things that I feel like if she, you know,

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Speaker 8: her opinion does matter, but for him, he does need

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Speaker 8: to have that door closed completely in order to continue

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Speaker 1: So just to make sure he you're you know, soon

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Speaker 1: to be husband, never made a comment of like, you know,

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Speaker 8: Oh, well, he actually he did. He did in the

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Speaker 8: long run. He you know, he was with her for

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Speaker 8: six years and married, and he didn't say I wish

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Speaker 8: it would have worked out because they were trying to,

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Speaker 8: you know, they were trying to continue their relationship, but

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Speaker 8: it didn't work out. And he let me know that,

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Speaker 8: and I still gave him a chance.

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Speaker 9: We were friends at first.

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Speaker 8: And we began a relationship because I accepted the fact that,

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Speaker 8: you know, it wasn't gonna happen, so I.

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Speaker 1: Could be Listen, I could be completely wrong on this,

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Speaker 1: and and I'm sure that Andrew and Ashley disagree with me,

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Speaker 1: but I think you are a liar if you've got

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Speaker 1: of me that wished it ever worked out. You had kids,

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Speaker 1: you were married. You're telling me at your wedding you

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I see, I'm gonna be Yeah, I don't agree

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Speaker 6: with you because I believe that you could have kids

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Speaker 6: with someone and then they can be a completely different

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Speaker 6: person after the kids, and you hate them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, exactly true. So thank you, jay Anna. I

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Speaker 1: love you so much and I really appreciate you sharing

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Speaker 1: your story. And tell your husband we say hi or

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Speaker 1: soon to be.

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Speaker 4: I will, I will congratulations, you got a better one.

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Speaker 8: Thank you.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 1: I love when Jose calls in because I can make

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Speaker 1: jokes like this and then Ashley after we'll go you're

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Speaker 1: an idiot, and I'll go, I am. But you know,

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Speaker 1: as Matt is not getting a call back because Andrea

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Speaker 1: I didn't like a comment he made Matt's got kids

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Speaker 1: with another woman. He made the comment of I wish

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Speaker 1: things worked out with her and I and Jose. If

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Speaker 1: I asked you, are you on Andrea's side, you'd say

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Speaker 1: no way, Jose.

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Speaker 10: So on this one I got to say no way, Jose.

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Speaker 1: Uh.

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Speaker 10: I do respect her feelings. Nonetheless, it's just it is

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Speaker 10: actually if she got stunted by finding out he has

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Speaker 4: What makes her insecure by someone saying like, hey, I wish.

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Speaker 10: He would have went a way so in the way

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Speaker 10: is having an intimate moment with you and sharing as

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Speaker 10: far as his intimacy, which is his children, his past

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Speaker 10: relationship with the mother of his children, just to kind

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Speaker 10: of let you know, you know how that relationship went.

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Speaker 10: He's opening up, and then I feel like this just

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Speaker 10: goes back to like why sometimes those men don't open

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Speaker 10: up you say one thing, I love again, it's just

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Speaker 10: back and you know what, guys kind of understand why

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Speaker 10: definitely wasn't that way. It was literally him saying.

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Speaker 6: Listen, I'm okay with I'm okay with him being vulnerable

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Speaker 6: and opening up about his past. But she's saying that

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Speaker 6: he just wouldn't stop, like that would make me insecurity

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Speaker 1: Like, damn, I'm here right now. I thank you, jose Katie,

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Speaker 1: you just said right, what are you thinking?

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Speaker 11: No, I totally agree, Like I would feel some type

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Speaker 4: On birthdays with your ex. You guys been on holidays

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Speaker 11: Come on now, And I don't think personally, I don't

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Speaker 11: think that he should hate her, but don't be like,

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Speaker 11: oh shucks, I'm sorry, what Matt should you be dating

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Speaker 1: A couple calls ago, we talked to someone that was

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Speaker 1: we're gonna talk to Maritza who you have four kids,

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Speaker 1: three different dads, five years between relationships. Wow, we got

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Speaker 1: to write it. Hey, TLC is calling you next. You

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Speaker 1: say that you always love the parent of your kids. Correct.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, so, I you know, with the three days, you know,

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Speaker 9: they they all cheated on me, and of course, you know,

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Speaker 9: the parent I want for you know, them to be

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Speaker 9: in my kid's life. Obviously you know that they're not

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Speaker 9: really in their lives except for one of them. But yeah,

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Speaker 9: I feel like, you know, I still I respect them.

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Speaker 9: They're you know, my my children's father. They're a part

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Speaker 9: parenting is really that it's really not that bad. Like

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Speaker 9: I said, you know, we have obviously we have differences

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Speaker 9: too for them to be able to move on and

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Speaker 9: still have some type of love. You're always gonna love

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Speaker 1: Farah and Sarah Tampa, Ashley, Katie, Jed me, Joe Sho's

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Speaker 1: live on ninety three three fl Z. When I say

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Speaker 11: So it's with iPhones and you can set up your

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Speaker 4: Oh no, that is just diabolic.

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Speaker 6: It is because Joe he has like twelve alarms, so

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Speaker 4: Like, no, Joe, get up a real thing it is?

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Speaker 1: Or did you just create I.

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Speaker 4: Swear I have screenshots on my phone. I can trill you, but.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, okay, I would like to instate this for

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Speaker 1: the show. Well, an accountability alarm now, no, we've all

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Speaker 6: Call me because your alarm and Joe's alarm'll call you

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Speaker 6: Joe's alarm. Guys, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you guys were gonna call everybody you know?

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Speaker 4: Like, why why you do? Haven't set up with anybody, Katie.

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Speaker 1: I don't hate me.

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Speaker 4: People on social media are like I blocked my friends.

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Speaker 4: Now that's how I'm going to get right.

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Speaker 6: I might at the block. Y'all Monday through Friday, Saturday, Sunday, y'all?

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Speaker 1: Good? Okay, guy's a question?

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Speaker 4: What's up?

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Speaker 1: How do I spell accountability? Figure it out? You got this?

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Speaker 11: It starts with A yeah, you get count T A

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Speaker 11: B I L I T Y accountability?

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Speaker 7: Is it?

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Speaker 3: Really?

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Speaker 4: I just haven't seen it.

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Speaker 11: I just can't believe that Apple would even Apple getting

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Speaker 4: I'm about to get an android.

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Speaker 6: Actually now that because this doesn't work on androids, right,

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Speaker 6: bubble me?

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Speaker 1: True? Questions? Does anyone have this? And then the second

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Speaker 1: I don't think i'd make it like my mom because

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Speaker 1: I don't want my mom to be mad that I

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Speaker 8: Literally.

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Speaker 4: My best friend Abby just texted me.

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Speaker 11: She said, don't you blanking dare set me up on

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Speaker 1: Does Jed have Abby's number? I think so, Hey, call

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Speaker 4: Entire Tampa Bay will be accountability for her.

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Speaker 1: Abby, call in real quick in accountability alarm if you're

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Speaker 1: just turning on your radio. This is a new type

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Speaker 4: Because mine is hard?

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Speaker 1: D D D and D. Hey, Abby, Katie's best friend

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Speaker 1: Abby is on with us. Abby. You know, Katie, I

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Speaker 9: Yeah, Katie, we will not be friends after this.

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Speaker 6: This has a lot of friendships. I'm not even joking.

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Speaker 4: You don't want to hear your alarm and I can,

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Speaker 8: To hear it.

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Speaker 1: Abby. Were you aware of this until just now?

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Speaker 8: I literally just heard her talking about on the air

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I wasn't even aware that this was a thing,

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Speaker 7: Abby you don't need to be right goes off.

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Speaker 1: Do you really I'm not a snoozer. I'm not a

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Speaker 4: That you got at least twelve alarms?

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Speaker 1: I just looked at my alarm. Did you know that

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Speaker 1: you can set a snooze duration? Are you serious?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Check your durations? Mine's ten minutes.

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Speaker 9: Did you know that you could also be an adult

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Speaker 9: and get up when your alarm goes off?

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Speaker 1: I wasn't aware of that. Tell me more.

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Speaker 4: Where do you see snooze?

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Speaker 1: Oh well you don't have that. That's feature on mind

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Speaker 4: Oh well, look at that.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I didn't even know you could do that.

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Speaker 1: How many alarms do you guys? Set?

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Speaker 4: I have one?

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Speaker 1: One, that's it? Abby? How about you? I have one

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Speaker 1: that's it? Why?

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Speaker 7: How many do you have?

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Speaker 1: Seven?

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Speaker 4: Why? It makes you more.

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Speaker 1: Tired because I have no one to be accountable.

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Speaker 4: Is it like every fifteen minutes or like every ten minutes?

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Speaker 4: I have six six? What is wrong with y'all?

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Speaker 11: So it's like, good morning, start getting ready?

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Speaker 4: That's my nap one.

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Speaker 4: That is insane to me. See, this is why we can't.

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Speaker 6: I can't be your accountability alarm because both of y'all,

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Speaker 6: Katie and Joe have twelve alarms for one a day

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Speaker 1: Okay, on track, Adriana, You're on with Ashley, Katie and

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Speaker 8: Good morning, good morning.

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Speaker 1: Hey do you have an accountability accountability alarm? Katie? Uh,

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Speaker 8: I mean not yet, but if I did, it would

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Speaker 8: She needs to know what the day is going to

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Speaker 1: That's a good point. Yeah, that's a great point. I

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Speaker 1: that's rough. Existence you smell of work yourself. The opportunity

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Speaker 1: to go. Adriana, we love you so much. Hey d D,

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Good morning D. This is taking away your independence.

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Speaker 1: Tell me more. What the hell do you mean by that?

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Speaker 7: I want to be a functioning adult. So why I

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Speaker 1: Well, because that's it's set up for people like me

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Speaker 7: Put a dummy. But this is what I do. I

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Speaker 4: Out of band, You guys have to do a lot.

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Speaker 5: I need.

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Speaker 1: I need that.

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Speaker 7: It's a lot, but you know it still gives me independence.

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Speaker 7: I'm the person that needs to get myself up.

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Speaker 1: How about this, I'll give away don't tell my fiance,

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Speaker 1: you'll have to hide. I'll give away free rent. Someone

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Speaker 1: who is yeah? What is going on? Yeah? And then

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Speaker 1: you got to like run out before she wakes up

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Speaker 1: though she can't catch you. She can't catch you. Hey, Kennedy, Hey,

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Speaker 9: Oh, one thousand percent. I did not know that this

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Speaker 1: Will you be doing this now?

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Speaker 11: I will?

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Speaker 8: And my accountability alarm will be my mother because we

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Speaker 1: His mom will never get mad this we need co work.

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Speaker 9: Oh no, she'll get mad.

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Speaker 10: She will.

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Speaker 3: She will definitely get mad because I'm already five minutes

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Speaker 1: If my mom knew I was ever late, it'd be

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Speaker 1: the worst. Oh yeah, I can't have that, army. Yes,

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Speaker 1: you're the best. Tell your mom. We say, hi, Abby,

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Speaker 1: I love you so much. I hope you have a

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Speaker 1: great day and good luck tomorrow when you get that call. Thanks,

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