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Speaker 1: Hey, welcome to the Party Joe Show.

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Speaker 2: We're live on ninety three three fl Ze, Ashley Terry,

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Speaker 2: myself you eight hundred and four and nine ninety three

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Speaker 2: ninety three, My worst nightmare happened. This is a horrible, horrible,

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Speaker 2: horrible moment in my life last night tragedy, A moment

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Speaker 2: that if you've listened to the show before, you would

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Speaker 2: know how horrible I felt in this moment, because this

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Speaker 2: is like literally top three pet peeves. I'm terrified of it.

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Speaker 2: I've never done it before. The meal got sent back Alyssa,

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Speaker 2: my fiance and I. We go out to dinner.

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Speaker 1: All right.

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Speaker 2: They make these fries for Alyssa and they weren't cooked.

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Speaker 1: They were white.

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Speaker 2: The waitress walked up halfway through the meal and goes, hey, question,

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Speaker 2: are those even cooked? Melyssa's like, oh no, they're not.

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Speaker 2: It's it's honestly, it's no big deal. I'm already full, Like,

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Speaker 2: don't worry about it. She's being very genuine about that,

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Speaker 2: And the waitress was very kind and said, hey, we're

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Speaker 2: gonna take this back. We're going to take it off

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Speaker 2: your bill. Resolved the issue.

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Speaker 1: I'm sitting there minding my own business.

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Speaker 2: A manager walks up at some point during the meal

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Speaker 2: and asks how the meal is.

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Speaker 1: We said it's great. He moves on.

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Speaker 2: So the end of the meal comes and they're bringing

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Speaker 2: the bill, and obviously this waitress went to the manager

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Speaker 2: and was like, hey, I gotta take this off of

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Speaker 2: the bill or something, you know whatever that wasn't cooked.

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Speaker 1: He be lines.

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Speaker 2: Towards the table and doesn't even look at a lista.

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Speaker 2: He looks at me and he's like, well, why didn't

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Speaker 2: you tell me? And I looked at him, like, what

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Speaker 2: do you mean? That's the first thing he said to me, Well,

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Speaker 2: why didn't you tell me? And I'm like, what, what

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Speaker 2: did I not tell you? And he goes, you didn't

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Speaker 2: tell me that you didn't like the food. You should

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Speaker 2: have told me right away you didn't like the food.

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Speaker 2: He has this energy with me, though, and I am

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Speaker 2: staring at it, and I go, well, I didn't say

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Speaker 2: I threw alyssa right under the bus. I didn't say it.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what you expect. I didn't say that.

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Speaker 2: It turned into a big issue. I swear to God,

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Speaker 2: I will never ever in my life.

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Speaker 1: I totally you can't.

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Speaker 2: Do that anymore. It's fine for three fries before we

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Speaker 2: send back one. The guy ruined it for me, though

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Speaker 2: I think he was actually mad.

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Speaker 3: No, he wanted to make sure you enjoyed your meal.

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Speaker 1: He was mad. Watch this. She better not be in

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Speaker 1: a meeting.

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Speaker 2: She probably is. Yeah, yes, she's a manager. She's always

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Speaker 2: in loves it.

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Speaker 1: It's totally nice, but dear god, but god, it was

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Speaker 1: the worst experience.

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Speaker 2: And hey, babe, I'm talking about to send it back

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Speaker 2: moment last night. Oh god, I mean it was that

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Speaker 2: bad for me, right, I got attacked.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, it was so crazy. He was like,

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Speaker 1: kind of aggress I told you again.

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Speaker 2: He like he checked the manager checked on us and

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Speaker 2: after or like in the middle of the meal, we

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Speaker 2: were like, everything's great.

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Speaker 1: Because it was. And then once the server took the

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Speaker 1: fries away, the manager ended up coming back around to

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Speaker 1: us and he was like, I wish you guys would

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Speaker 1: have told me this.

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Speaker 3: When I came around the first time, like looked at.

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Speaker 2: Joe and I was like, whoa, He's just staring at

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Speaker 2: me and Alyssa is talking. I'm not talking because I

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Speaker 2: don't know what to say. And it wasn't my fault.

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Speaker 2: It's Alyssa's like now, but it was your fries. I

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Speaker 2: didn't eat the fries. They were on her side, I like.

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Speaker 2: And then when he asked too, I was eating. I

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Speaker 2: was the middle of a bite, so I did say

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Speaker 2: at one point ago my mouth was filled with steak.

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Speaker 4: He definitely wrote your license plate number down and he

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Speaker 4: looking for y'all because.

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Speaker 3: You got him in trouble with the balls.

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Speaker 2: So this place too, by the way, And I mean,

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Speaker 2: this probably like the best meal I've had at a

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Speaker 2: restaurant in this month. Like it was that good. I

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Speaker 2: don't want to go back ever again. I can't go

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Speaker 2: back because I'm embarrassed.

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Speaker 5: He's not gonna go to Hey, don't you don't want

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Speaker 5: to sit with this guy. You don't want to serve

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Speaker 5: this guy. He's gonna get a meal and he's not

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Speaker 5: gonna like it. He's gonna tell big boss thank you.

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Speaker 5: Because That's what I'm concerned about now. Is we look

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Speaker 5: like the take it back couple.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and Alessen, you worked in the industry for a

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Speaker 4: little bit. Do you have servers who have customers that

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Speaker 4: come in and like, yeah, I.

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Speaker 3: Do not want to serve them, you know, I don't

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Speaker 3: want to serve them.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that happened all the time. But also I

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Speaker 1: was telling Joe last.

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Speaker 3: Night, like it is kind of protocol, like when I was.

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Speaker 6: A manager at the rush On and someone sent a

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Speaker 6: dishback or like anything went back, but you do have

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Speaker 6: to go up to the table.

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Speaker 1: I just think the guy's approach and delivery was wild.

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Speaker 1: He terrified me.

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Speaker 3: You can't go bed. You're that guy.

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Speaker 1: I'm that guy.

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Speaker 2: My nightmare, Absolutely nightmare. I love you.

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Speaker 1: I'll text you.

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Speaker 3: I wish I was there. Oh I wish I was.

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Speaker 1: No. Hey, uh, Lauren, your mom's known for sending meals back.

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Speaker 2: Oh. Yes.

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Speaker 6: In our family it is a She is a laughing

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Speaker 6: stock because we cannot take her anywhere. She will send

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Speaker 6: back somebody else's meal if they don't like their meal

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Speaker 6: and they don't want to say anything, Like I've worked

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Speaker 6: in the service industry, so I give restaurants grace every

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Speaker 6: single time. And I like, if I if I don't

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Speaker 6: know if I'm missing croutons or something, my mom will

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Speaker 6: snap her fingers, raise her hand. Hey, we need a

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Speaker 6: new salad over here. I'm like, Mom, shut up. She's

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Speaker 6: so embarrassed, and my dad refuses to take her out

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Speaker 6: to dinner.

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Speaker 4: Now that is hilarious actually, because your mom's gonna get

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Speaker 4: it that funny?

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Speaker 3: Is it funny? You mama can't come? We would just

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Speaker 3: order to go.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, exactly, so she calls.

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Speaker 3: She knows you where that calls. Even if you ordered

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Speaker 3: to go and the food's wrong, you call the restaurant.

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Speaker 6: Oh yes, oh yeah, hey, you guys.

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Speaker 3: Forgot our napkins.

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Speaker 6: She's gonna let me talk to the manager.

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Speaker 1: Do you want to throw up when that happens?

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Speaker 6: Oh? I get so embarrassed. I'm like, mom, shut up,

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Speaker 6: and she makes this god awful face and like like

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Speaker 6: massages her fingers together, like she's just so disgusted, and

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Speaker 6: I want to just die every time.

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Speaker 4: Oh, you got to be a strong woman to be

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Speaker 4: the daughter of a Let me.

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Speaker 3: Speak to the manager woman. That's all I gotta say.

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Speaker 6: Oh for sure, Karen, you can say it.

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Speaker 1: Any chance. Does she have short hair?

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Speaker 2: She does?

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Speaker 4: Sending thoughts in prayers, Lauren, you're the best.

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Speaker 1: I love when you call in. Thank you for calling in.

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Speaker 1: I still feel like my my bones.

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Speaker 3: I hope you didn't like the restaurant because you can't

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Speaker 3: go back.

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Speaker 1: I don't like it.

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Speaker 4: Here that god, I'm telling He wrote a blas and plate.

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Speaker 4: Now hope y'all too.

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Speaker 2: Christian of course, like fifty percent after that Christian.

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Speaker 7: Hey guys, Hey, so Joe. I used to be like

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Speaker 7: you where I was like super nervous of any kind

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Speaker 7: of you know it, causing confrontation or anything like that.

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Speaker 7: But I had to realize that if I allow people,

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Speaker 7: you know, to I guess I don't want to say

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Speaker 7: scare me like that, but you know, make me to

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Speaker 7: where I'm not going to say something. You kind of

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Speaker 7: just have to flip that switch and just be direct

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Speaker 7: about it. I mean, if your fries aren't cooked, your

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Speaker 7: fries aren't cooked. His approach, yes, probably was wrong, but

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Speaker 7: at some point you.

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Speaker 1: Just have to get you know what. Another fear though,

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Speaker 1: is though if I.

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Speaker 2: Did get stern and I say I don't want this,

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Speaker 2: the other that's going to be the one person who goes, hey,

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Speaker 2: you're Joe, and.

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Speaker 3: They're gonna make it right.

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Speaker 1: They're gonna they're gonna be like you're in ash.

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Speaker 4: No, No, they're gonna be like, we listen to you

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Speaker 4: on the show. I'm like, we're happy that you actually

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Speaker 4: called us you don't.

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Speaker 1: Like your meal.

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Speaker 4: That's when I say they're going to go on the

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Speaker 4: air the next day to say how much you didn't

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Speaker 4: like your meal at our place.

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Speaker 2: I say, I'm actually Ashley and I'm performing whiteface right now.

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Speaker 2: I'll you know, have you know? Christian Thanks sucks. It

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Speaker 2: was a good place.

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Speaker 3: Never going back.

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Speaker 1: I can't go back and not have like just in trouble.

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Speaker 1: I'm embarrassed got in trouble. I didn't get any I

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Speaker 1: kind of did. I think I did.